The guy who joined SURPRISED us all! 😱

[@muddypuddleranger]

She's CLEARLY uncomfortable. Thank you to the dudes that came in to save

[@maryhernandez8970]

A parent should never force a child(no matter the age) to do something they feel uncomfortable to do. Especially in public 😢.

[@oneoftheflowersandbirds]

Bro made her feel more uncomfortable though. Like, she was slowly pushed off into the side

[@bartho5373]

​@oneoftheflowersandbirds i think atp she rather be pushed to the side than to sit there

[@ShaariAmin-zn4kl]

She was shy confious nervous she is stupid actualy.

[@liksi1234]

Omg! Polka mnasz rodak ❤🎉😊

[@nikkyk4839]

That grandmother did absolutely not care about how uncomfortable the girl was.

[@69hunter55]

Boo hoo! CRY HARDER. 😊

[@user-yh7fn1zj2h]

Fr

[@Westernequestrain]

Fr!

[@ExtraordinaryVocalist]

Ikr

[@BarbaraMarrs-xy7rc]

My used to force to play. I like playing but not performing.

[@Sabnajabeel]

The little girl wasn't ready or willing to play the piano but her narcissistic parents were forcing her to do even though she was uncomfortable her grandmother didnt care about this situation i was so annoyed to see that when that little girl told her mom she don't wanna play her mom just rolled her eyes which shows her personality 😡😡😡........ Well thank you to the guy who came for rescue ❤❤

[@bravewoman23]

I agree with you. Like kind a narcissistic parent. I feel uncomfortable to see her behavior as well. :(

[@KarolinaSobieraj-mj8ch]

She is Poland like me

[@Miyeonniefaan]

They are from Poland. I'm also from Poland and I think this girl was stressed bc she was in public with a man who speaks English, she can speak it, she was just uncomfortable and shy, I can feel her and I can confirm that our parents really makes us go every where show our talent when we don't want to

[@resalathasinshahi183]

The mother's eye roll was everything we needed to know. It completely reflected the mother's personality, She probably forced that poor little girl.

[@magvs_maestro216]

She has her daughters life planned out for her smh...living through her daughter

[@resalathasinshahi183]

That is not a very mother-thing to do.

[@tchalla8744]

I know someone like that

[@Areltih]

You have a right this women Frome Poland Polish mom's it's really bad

[@gminor6633]

Asian here feel like this is my mom😅

[@Lemicine]

The pressure the mom was putting on her to try to impress everyone and then she rolled her eyes is outrageous. Why don’t parents understand when their children are uncomfortable in a situation 😐

[@chefskiss6179]

Agreed. And that's just the piano. I'm just gutted right now knowing her home life is the same, and she still has years of it to go through. That mom is going to get more and more smothering :/

[@ThyUntimelyDemise]

The best answer to every "Why is parent" question is because they always think that they're right and never wrong. That explains why a lot of kids get in trouble for "talking back" when in all actuality the parent can't suck up their pride and ego and just accept that they're wrong.

[@dancequeen1080]

Kids also need to learn how to get out of their comfort zone. It’s the parents job to encourage them. But the eye rolling was so not cool.

[@FatherSonAndAlcohol]

And then she'll blame the kid for her coping mechanisms when she grows up.

[@catthomas]

Because it’s all about them. Not the kids.

[@ritareilly8548]

It was sweet that the other two pianists helped her see that playing piano can be fun. ❤ Where’s part 2?

[@NC-et1rd]

😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱🤭😱😱😱😱😱

[@yukonsusie]

Right?! I wanna see part 2 😂🎉

[@Delores-bp6ln]

Yes, please post part 2.

[@Watermelon_me123]

That mom rolling eyes had me so angry like why cant adults respect kid's decisions? If they dont want to just dont let them do it no need to force a small child. I felt that girl's feelings :(

[@cottagecore_frog]

I could feel her discomfort through the screen, oh poor baby. That mothers eye roll shows her exact personality and who she is. I’m so glad your helped her and that man out of that situation and not forcing her to play. Much love ❤

[@thatoneparaveterinairstudent]

that’s what many parents in poland are like we’re used to it lmao

[@MangaManiac1994]

@@thatoneparaveterinairstudent that still does not make it ok to pressure your kids in an uncomfortable situation especially against their wishes.

[@dishantakumar3129]

Its normal for us asian kids💀🥲

[@mrsjatits]

At first, I felt the same, but then I remembered my awkward girlfriend who is 25 and realized that it makes sense to push and put people in uneasy situations to make them more resilient and ready for the world. Nobody likes awkward goofballs.

[@FireworksPlayground]

polish moms are like that lmao

[@shroomii3414]

the face her mother made when her daughter was not willing to perform on the spot like a puppet in a show was so heartbreaking. thank you for not embarrassing or pressuring her into playing.

[@oui403]

I will not force my son to do da shit da he hate

[@qushin5110]

I understand the language that's her mother speak and she said to her to not be sad and play what she can she wasn't forcing her

[@qushin5110]

Probably

[@Jay-bg7ly]

@@qushin5110 she didn’t tell her to not be sad, she told her to not be shy (nie wstydź się) and she kept repeating “show us what you can play”. The tone was very pressuring too 😢

[@maciejstaniszewski896]

polish parents be like

[@nataliaszczygiel-bp6xu]

The parents are polish and they said "nie wstydź się.... Pokaż co potrafisz" Which means "don't be shy... Show him what you can play..."

[@randywatts7554]

Polish, Czech, Albanian, Japanese, Aleutian, Kiwi, Samoan...i would continue but you get it...eft up parents are eft up parents. They should be ashamed but, more than that, apologetic to her AND him. IMO.

[@nataliaszczygiel-bp6xu]

@@randywatts7554 fr

[@bravewoman23]

Narcissistic parent.

[@nataliaszczygiel-bp6xu]

Exactly you ten tell that they are clearly forced and uncomfterble

[@nataliaszczygiel-bp6xu]

@@randywatts7554 kiwi? 🤣

[@zofiakarasek5164]

awww I respect people that speak my language I speak polish ❤❤❤and so does she❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Skye._.Pawzz_]

I do too!, cześć :D

[@KoniczkiWiczki]

Relll ja też😊

[@SallaKoniczki]

Mama zdradziła pochodzenie

[@czerwonaiza]

Za co ten szacunek? 😅 ta matka powinna się wstydzić że tak traktuje swoje dziecko

[@user-om2jk2oi4p]

ME TOO :D

[@faerysen]

The eye roll absolutely reflected that mom's personality

[@kaktusdesiberie7196]

Yes so unnecessary and ridiculous.

[@faerysen]

@@kaktusdesiberie7196 yes! You can tell she forced the poor kid to play the piano there ...

[@xiEyrus]

Yeah. U could even tell with the kid she really doesn’t want to do it.

[@Ryikah]

Yeah I noticed that too … poor girl

[@kalilavalezina]

Just what I was going to say.

[@n1k0659]

This is very relatable, I know how that girl feels. Since her parents never taught her, I hope she learns herself that it's okay to say no to anything. It annoys me so much how the mother clearly just wanted to flaunt her child to the public.

[@coronastingray]

Yes bro I feel so bad for her

[@n1k0659]

@@coronastingray me too dude, having an upbringing like this definitely instilled a lot of social anxiety, and confidence problems that I'm only now solving. Hopefully she wont have this outcome, and her other family are less pushy and more supportive.

[@aspenkell6142]

Yes I wish parents would realize, this day in age kids have more social anxiety than maybe their parents did. Its unfair for parents to force their children to do these types of things.

[@hiitsme7089]

There’s a thin line between pushing your child to do something you know is good for them and just forcing them to do something. I have parents that want me to be the “perfect” child and always compare me to others. If it was my parents, later they would yell at me for not playing the piano. To anyone who needs it… you don’t have to try to be perfect because that will never be possible. Just be you and do what YOU want to do.

[@kaidijensen]

YEAH

[@JRR_Jayashree]

The guy who joined had the cutest smile❤

[@JamesThompson-wn7ib]

Hall of the mountain king has always been a favorite of mine

[@teacup3000]

I totally feel her. Had similar experiences with my parents when I was younger and I absolutely hated it every single time. If you say no, they then try to let you feel bad for it and ask you what they pay for your lessons for or if they should sell your piano if you don't want to play anyway. Gone through this, lost my motivation because of it and quit after some time.

[@holdmacat9932]

Same

[@tree_sparrow1623]

Exactly the same with me, I used to love playing my piano but it was for me. I didn’t like playing in front of other people because I was super uncomfortable and nervous and struggled with bad anxiety when I was younger, but my mum always insisted I play to people and would force me into preforming, one time literally shoving me onto the stool, overtime I lost my confidence in playing and as a teenager I would only ever play if she wasn’t in the house, you can’t get it’s never just with one thing too. Pushy parents aren’t just pushy about piano for example, my parents were pushy about grades, exercises, my appearance, relationships… nothing was ever enough for them and their vision of me.

[@miko7158]

Same. But in still going and decided to ignore them, dad still does it sometimes. But they still motivate me if they're in the mood lol

[@Alexa-md2uk]

Same!! It feels good to know we aren't alone in our experiences 😭

[@rqecs01]

I'm continuing, although my parents literally offer me MONEY to do it which makes me even more upset since I can't deny the money

[@edsalonga2015]

I HATE those kinds of parents. Those kind of people are the ones that will extinguish the spark in you, who will put you in a uncomfortable spot, and push you to do stuff that you’re not comfortable of doing. She might not be confident of her skill yet to be able to perform in front of everyone, and I understand that feeling. I personally know that feeling…

[@Lootface]

It's important to push people outside their comfort zone, that's how barriers are broken, dreams are realized, talents recognized, friends made, worlds changed. HOWEVER, I do side entirely with you. This is not a push out of a comfort zone. This is shitty parents trying to live vicariously through their daughter, projecting their own shortcomings or regrets on her. The look of disappointment when the mother rolls her eyes is absolute douchebaggery. I hope this girl a.) wants to play this instrument and wasn't forced into it and b.) doesn't let anyone, especially not her parents or people she loves, shut her down or turn her off to her own dreams. It's the people we love that break us down the hardest. She needs a gentle nudge when appropriate, not a forceful shove into her dickhead parents' trophy case. My wife went through the same thing. Now she has cPTSD and motivational issues, and this video reminded me of what her parents were like the first time I met them. Needless to say, I gather she's happier without them breathing down her neck anymore, and I am sure this girl will be too. I hope her parents realize before they drive their child away.

[@dogdog7883]

It’s so annoying because i feel like this is the reason why i can’t express my personality in front of my own family, it just makes me uncomfortable

[@G0ODLIVES]

that's what mine do 😭😭

[@27hdyx6b3ym3w]

Basically every Asian parent

[@shastaham7630]

Mine were like that, too.

[@BrianTrinsey]

Yes please definitely I want to see part two of this video!! I am really very glad that those two guys played, because she was just so very uncomfortable!!!

[@lydmilarychkova7860]

Слишком быстро заканчиваются видео - не успеваю насладиться прслушиванием. Вы играете виртуозно!

[@heathermasters8494]

Poor girl, she’s was really put on the spot. I’m so glad that guy jumped in

[@StillHaventWorkedOnMyProject]

Yeah and the look her mom gave :(

[@Pasiphae]

you realize its staged right? (at least the guy jumping in part)

[@sahanya7904]

​@@Pasiphaei suddenly feel stupid for not knowing... 😀😀😀😀

[@andrewdowd3015]

The girl was sitting there first. Why are you glad he stepped in. Yes, the parent is ugly, but why praise the other guy for gate crashing. He should've asked the young girl first if he could step in and save her. 😢

[@charlottedimino9688]

​@@sahanya7904😊😊

[@owadziarz]

Not all musicians want to be performers. Many people need to understand that distinction.

[@Boazdacatgamer]

That was Michael Jackson's sad fate.

[@ChardeeMacdennis339]

Yes! 💯

[@jordach545]

Yes! I play for me and a few friends.

[@katyklazen7881]

Amasing tanlunt

[@incognito1783]

Exactly

[@dricka49221]

Thank you to this piano player for rescuing this poor girl from her parent's insistence that she play!

[@Jules-yb1ng]

🌹✨ Sweet little girl 🌹✨ she's shy✨🌹bless her heart 💜

[@lizmaletesta7531]

The eye roll from the mother and even granny not caring about how uncomfy she was, that poor girl! 😢 but well done to the guy who stepped in 😊

[@Brayn126]

I guess she is less uncomfortable now since he posted this video.

[@user-rz1kk4oc2s]

Pt 2 please!

[@lovelydivixo]

Poor girl, I see how she feels so much pressure and anxiety from her parents. It’s terrible to pressure kids they don’t wanna do.

[@ivaneushvicious2601]

They talk in my native, so i can tell they did put lot of verbal pressure on her as well

[@The_fellow_therian]

Her mom said "Co umiesz zagrać?" Its a poland language.Every Poland parent does that.Ik that bc i live in Poland.I'm not from Poland btw. I'm from UK. Now i am 7yrs in Poland but i Lived in UK like just 3 years.

[@ivaneushvicious2601]

@@The_fellow_therian her mom also was repeating "nie wstydź się" (don't be ashamed in hella passive-agressive way), I actually feel the pressure for her ):

[@paxoss]

She talk in polish and i am from polish i now what seys she parents😂😂😂

[@ivaneushvicious2601]

@@paxoss from poland*

[@Zipxa_Raya142]

As a pianist, I can understand the nervousness and discomfort. My parents are decent, but this seems like something my mom would do. But props to you guys for saving her! W

[@gramyzagatka2387]

When i heard polish My heart melted ✨♥️😭 Im from poland 🇵🇱

[@gachadicentra9803]

I can't believe her Mum rolled her eye's, the girl obviously felt nervous and didn't know what to do.

[@Swiftie4lifeeee1]

Yeah 😢

[@Ava_W_0334]

Exactly! 🥲

[@Itz.Amelia764]

Yeah 😭😔

[@marvahinspace]

Eastern European parents. That's how life be.

[@namyiu7448]

Ouch

[@ruski77]

That eye roll… I’ll just say. All kids deserve parents, not all parents deserve kids.

[@CykPykMyk]

I gave it 1000th like

[@sjladuke75]

Agreed. Embarrassing your child is bullying & a form of abuse. It's disgusting & unacceptable. The same thing goes with any activity- music, sports & even career choices. Parents have the chance to play an instrument, perform in a theater group, play sports or become a rocket scientist. If their children are not interested or don't feel safe performing, embarrassing them isn't going to change their minds. It WILL make them dislike the activity & grow to resent their bullying parents. Just say no....if necessary, in front of those they're trying to impress & tell them they are upsetting & embarrassing you. Hopefully that should end their abusive behavior. If I were playing piano & parents did this, I would call them out publicly & say THEY ARE making everyone uncomfortable which isn't what playing music is meant to be.

[@respectfullyright]

@@sjladuke75 Very true. My mom is like her but worse. I can't even explain it. My dad and mom divorced which i am so happy with. I chose to live with my dad because he is a great guy, and intelligent.

[@sierrasabbarese4164]

Frlfrl well said

[@Userbes000]

Huge respect. Being a polish myself, I don't want people to say “play something, don't be worried!”… it just gives discomfort.

[@rebeccashono940]

The way the mother rolled her eyes… she’s a piece of work and I bet she got upset with her daughter later because she didn't want to play. 😢

[@Ivesserafim.11]

Exactly like wtf

[@mikeybarlow334]

Yeah

[@Miss_sir]

Yeah I can't understand why parents force their kids to do stuff they are uncomfortable with

[@kaylynnirvinesthetics]

I literally had the same thought 😢

[@genetung8590]

Winning isn’t always easy. But wasting yourself away sure is.

[@simonotori1948]

I hate when parents do this. I'm not even kidding. My parents did this to me a lot and now it's left me with stage fright and being afraid of being called up to present something. I still have this anger in me everytime they call me up. But now that I'm an adult, I can call them out on their shit when they try to do the same thing again and it honestly left them surprised. I'm glad they stopped after seeing my point cuz that terrified me as a kid. I'm not letting that happen to me as I age.

[@THEANPHROPY]

Look back on all these memories & as you do so move your eyes from side-to-side this tells you that you are moving on: this rewrites the negative experiences & emotions attached to these memories & brings them to a at least neutral perspective with no negativity. Works everytime! Based on bodies natural movement & neural pathways accessed when moving around especially in unknown or built up environments: or when you are moving along defined paths; you have to look side-to-side as you progress along the path. This enables you to MOVE ON BUB!! Love you! Peace & Love!!!

[@hananawan7624]

I’m sure they want the best for you and for u to become confident in what ever u do❤✌🏼

[@dogdog7883]

@@hananawan7624 I understand but my parents are the same way right now, and I promise you it is not the right way to make your child confident. Some things that i am good at i can’t even show anybody because of how much I’ve been embarrassed before

[@kathyhansen2820]

Stage mothers generally don't have too much going for themselves.

[@ayla4196]

used to be a performer but my narcissistic dad would always do this, so i stopped looool

[@drsteiny1]

Hall of the Mountain King - an incredible piece of music.

[@agnieszkawnuczek2929]

Biedna dziewczyna, ochrona ciotka czy matka. To przemoc psychiczna. Jak miło, że nadszedł ratunek ❤

[@gweevelicious]

I'm glad someone was able to relieve her from that pressure. Those kinds of parents are the worst, I experienced that same kind of pressure and it's sickening.

[@jennyhoward7156]

yeah no boops for the mum

[@brycelogan3602]

I disagree, I think pressure makes diamonds and hard times must come, no matter how. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[@BebbaDubbs]

​@@brycelogan3602and you are wrong. Children aren't lumps of carbon, they get PTSD and disengage from their parents...

[@Quoteslv]

Oh my god yes. I also know this experience and i hate it so much. I really hate it. And when i see other parents forcing their children it makes me angry because i know how it feels like

[@yooniemin7]

Iii

[@riverrichardson1178]

So sad that her parents forced her into something of discomfort. The eye roll said it all and I’m so proud of the other man for coming in and practically saving her. Edit: I’m so sorry to all the people in the reply’s and you really don’t deserve that. I’m so, so sorry.

[@B0b_builder101]

The sad part is the prob will get yelled at when they leave

[@josuebille4855]

We must to stop this type of parents. ❤

[@Subs_by_nina]

☠☠☠☠ you not even understand what that parents saying@@josuebille4855

[@olekagent0079]

POLSKA GUROM🇵🇱🇵🇱🇵🇱🇵🇱🇵🇱🇵🇱

[@OGAMING2.0]

fr tho that guy saved her

[@juliathenerd2500]

Translation: Dont be shy Dont be shy, go on What can you play What can you play, go on, show it

[@aliceulanowski]

So sweet!!! Babcia was telling her not to be shy,, show him what you can do

[@abby7794]

Poor baby! It’s hard enough being uncomfortable as an adult. Imagine being a little girl and being pushed around by adults. I would have cried…and I’m 22. My heart goes out to her❤️ she’s a doll!

[@olenazubi6971]

I would like to watch part 2 of this story.

[@B3rN4rD_304]

U r so fking soft for this world if you would've cried at 22.....

[@qubit4012]

Polish people are weird xD

[@user-xh9oo5sm7e]

@olenazubi6971 same me too

[@briansebastian1452]

💀💀💀💀💀💀💀😭😭😭😭😭 Poor Baby🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡

[@angelabay-jespersen6205]

Why?? Why do some parents still do this to their children/grandchildren. It’s so embarrassing and humiliating to the child and for what?? Thank you for helping this little girl out and being so kind to her! You are awesome and I love what you do! ❤

[@trelyramos]

My mom is like this sometimes

[@Verttigo1982]

Mostly because they’re not the ones on the spot of shame. Parents should know better.

[@Verttigo1982]

@@trelyramosI’m really sorry for you.

[@trelyramos]

@@Verttigo1982 it's okay

[@hl3818]

It's not right to do that to their own kids ..

[@rosaashley8593]

Awesome. Really Great with that 2nd Player... He can Really Play...

[@beatrixtrautmann8808]

I think that's unacceptable of the relatives. The girl was obviously in a bad mood. But the mother wasn't happy that her daughter didn't want to play. Thumbs up to the two men who helped her out of that situation.

[@melissalambert3400]

if a child is feeling uncomfortable there is a reason. always listen to your kids!

[@toniwoods3985]

Especially when you have her sitting next to a man that she doesn't know.

[@jd-zu5ok]

If you let kids always decide for themselves they may never push themselves. It's ok to get put on the spot sometimes but i think this kid just isn't very good if she doesn't even know the names of anything

[@Jelxdy]

@@jd-zu5okI 100% agree with you but I feel like this situation was one of the ones were it wasn’t right. I think you should push them at first and if they really don’t like it then don’t force them

[@prettypeachyx]

i HATE when parents act like that. I know my parents definitely have. it's a terrible feeling. if she doesn't want to, then don't make her. and then when she freezes up in a situation that YOU put her in, don't roll your eyes. that's just petty and so terrible. you're going to leave your daughter with lasting anxiety and other issues. props to the guy playing the piano who tried to help her out.

[@simplydifferent7712]

I totally agree with you.

[@arcanus-ot7435]

This is so true tho

[@-LiveFromSpace-]

Yea those little things you expirience as a kid can really impact you in the future. I always think back on those awkward moments that come into your mind when you try to sleep. Like those things that could of happened when you were 10 and absolutely nobody remembers but me. I feel like those moments contribute to my social anxiety while growing up

[@TheEarthCreature]

I disagree. Whenever i have been forced to do something and then did it, i have felt more accomplished and came out of it stronger and with more confidence to do it later. People are too quick to let normal every day anxieties get in the way of their ability to accomplish things and it makes them weaker and less capable people.

[@gamer20k85]

Fr

[@Jaderrjj]

Yes ! She was CLEARLY UNCOMFORTABLE HOW COULD you NOT see THAT TY for the Guy that joined

[@hellhalip5310]

Poor girl, I understand her so much Parents, please, don't do that, PLEASE

[@pinkystarfishh7623]

we can all tell what kind of person the mother is, good luck little girl.

[@astm5601]

Fr, hope she's patient

[@subject_changed4690]

Hahaaaa horray for social disfunction due to misguided parenting

[@roxyyfoxyy]

The mother turning around saying "she's ashamed" with a bombastic eyebrow move really killed me, oh my gawd😭

[@Lena0ntop]

Her mum was saying to her not to be shy Ik Because they r polish and so am o

[@roxyyfoxyy]

​@@Lena0ntop yeah, same. She was saying "Nie wstydź się" ("Don't be ashamed") and then moments later she looked back saying "Wstydzi się" ("She's ashamed") under her breath with a *lunatic* eyebrow move that really made me want to punch her😭 i'm so sorry for the girl ;-;

[@imdeadasf6029]

Don’t ever say shit like that again bruh ☠️

[@amira2008a]

​@@roxyyfoxyy😂😂😂

[@dricka49221]

Thank you to this piano player who started playing and rescued this poor girl from her parents insistence that she play.

[@alofamonitunai6372]

The way that guy came in was so cool like if you agree also part two PLEASSSSSEEE

[@ogichi32]

God damn it hurt to see her so panicked and uncomfortable. Reminds me of my childhood.

[@Hannah-im7xg]

Same

[@siemai7570]

same

[@user-sc2ks5su3m]

my childhood is like that

[@Chris.Oropeza754]

““You shall not take the name of the Lord your God in vain, for the Lord will not hold him guiltless who takes His name in vain.” ‭‭Exodus‬ ‭20‬:‭7‬ ‭NKJV‬‬

[@Hello-ud2kj]

I hate it when parents do force kids to do something they're obviously uncomfortable with, that's just plain rude. Good job to the guy who helped out👍

[@user-ie5hi6ww8g]

FR

[@absolutelyaweirdo]

Sometimes they feel like their kids just need some encouragement because they don't want them to miss out on opportunities because of fear and discomfort like they did...

[@KarolHetmaniok]

She’s from poland i’m from poland! Her mother told her not to be ashamed

[@shustival]

My dad always forces me and my sis to sing or dance infront of guest i literally hate it sm

[@Hello-ud2kj]

@@shustival I'm so sorry that you have to go through that😢

[@TanjaKolevska]

The girl was like soo much of the pleying😂❤

[@bethdean793]

Awesome, please part2 🙏🏻

[@LL-ys9cr]

She was clearly shy and uncomfortable. Narcissistic parents are the worst

[@XYNTHESIZEMusic]

Worst than ever

[@cassandrabordales8916]

Ur so real for this

[@chriswilcox3383]

Ya that was terrible to watch, f those parents, and the guy that swooped in, that was rude as F, im sure that made her feel only more embarrassed and uncomfortable Thumbs down for this clip

[@jordanfelt5978]

Oh yes, a parent pushes their child a little bit out of her comfort zone. Oh shame on them for trying to help their child be more well-adjusted. You're dumb.

[@TheMuffinz91]

We'll probably will never know the reason why they wanted her to play w him. But that reminded me of someone in my own family who would definitely would do something like that without asking if i feel like doing something only to have something to brag about to others later to seem like a "good parent". Wish her parents didn't insist on playing without asking. She was obviously uncomfortable and shy. But just stood there filming. Omg🤦‍♀️

[@littlepip4014]

It’s okay to encourage your kids to step out of their confort zone every once in awhile, but respect them when they clearly show signs of stress or discomfort. Giving them the confidence to say “no, I don’t want to” in situations is an important lesson to learn, especially when they get to middle/high school.

[@wallahiitsgabriel]

That actually just made me realize why I've always had problems saying no to people. My mind is blown.

[@yukii021]

me: sometimes builds the courage to say no my parents: you never do anything, you're so disappointing, why don't you just do it? It isn't that difficult.. Why can't you be more like your "BROTHER"? (shes trans and goes by she/her but my parents are homophobic..)

[@allaboutanime2108]

​@@yukii021how can I be homophobic,my bitch is gay

[@FaerieLoki]

This! Honestly the mother's eye roll said everything I needed to know

[@therealDawnBarton]

​​@@yukii021 weird they'd want u to be more like her if they're against that...

[@user-py1jy7qf8b]

Love continue with the rest of your performance.

[@AshYoung-wp1vy]

Honestly, the face her mother made when she wouldn't play on the spot was absolutely heartbreaking. That woman needs to do better. Her daughter isn't a puppet for her amusement. If she's uncomfortable, dont force her.

[@GameRaptor16]

Poor girl, that mom didn’t believe in her at all. I hate parents like that. You’ve got to be there for your kids, believe in them and love them ❤

[@typekkleks4013]

any good parent would help their child rid the fear.

[@floshy1980]

Yes True!

[@maeryn4200]

He rmom is an absolute loser who accomplished nothign in life, which is why she pushes it all onto her child. Agree, I also hate parents like that. It's abuse.

[@dishasaini3981]

​@@typekkleks4013and that was not the right way to do that. If anything, this just increased her fear.

[@typekkleks4013]

@@dishasaini3981 bcs she didnt break through...listen, im literally th most shy person youd probably ever talk to... and sometimes I wish i was placed on the spot like that, as its hard for me to make any verbal contact with people i dont know...

[@sharongray2554]

Bless her heart. Pushy parents are the worst.

[@wadi5145]

Typical Russian or ex USSR mother/grandmother in this video 💀😂

[@user-te9su1of1b]

Как я согласна. У меня такие же родители(

[@wadi5145]

​​@@user-te9su1of1b😂😂💀 it's ok, there are worse things in life. Fortune favours the bold. Babushka is a testament of old school discipline, madness, sadness and happiness at the same time 🗣️📢 bomboclaaaaat me ah smoke one Stalin kush spliff keep deh worry away

[@user-te9su1of1b]

@@wadi5145 я плохо понимаю английский, но спасибо большое. Из кыргызстана🇰🇬✊

[@wadi5145]

​@@user-te9su1of1bsending my regards to the beautiful people of Kyrgyzstan 💫

[@kimahrahsel6343]

please part 2,so enjoyable and comfortable to watch.😍💕

[@noelcastalia]

So awesome that both of these guys played for this girl who was put on the spot by her parent or grandparent. You could tell she was really uncomfortable. Thank you. Would love to see part 2. 😊♥️

[@fit3928]

Anak gadis ni malu dan takut sikit... ❤❤❤ Lagu tak pernah jemu... Nice bro...

[@rajindergill3199]

"Every Kid Deserves A Parent But Not Every Parent Deserves A Kid" -A Wise Person

[@wojteq2274]

Wise choise

[@-tanjiro-official-]

Wdym?

[@thomasboi2255]

it's not that deep grow the hell up not everybody is a soft american

[@BaconGang99]

@@thomasboi2255 bro what did he do to you yeah I don’t know ether

[@leogaitsgorypiano8870]

aha you think people wouldnt notice this comment was from that one dhar mann video this comment is stolen from that video that wise person is the commenter

[@american-britchick4003]

You were so sweet to that poor little girl. When you saw how uncomfortable she was, you were so kind to her.

[@dorami9329]

Butvwhere😂

[@FireworksPlayground]

polish moms are like that lmao

[@truskewka811]

They're polish, from my country. She seems extremely uncomfortable, but sometimes i feel like a lot of families in Poland have this weird thing that they force their children into things they can do even when they're shy😭 and they all call it "support" not realizing it's simply too much

[@williampaterson6021]

Poor girl terrified at least you tried bless you both

[@avahunter7252]

It’s terrible when parent pressure you to do stuff that make you uncomfortable 😢

[@Lisa-im6hy]

this is why I don't speak Korean. I took lessons but my mom paraded me in front of her friends and made me speak for all of her friends who would laugh, eff that

[@rickyc7397]

​@@Lisa-im6hyIf it is something that you are interested in doing then do it and don't worry about anyone else's opinion. As long as you aren't hurting anyone and doing it to better yourself keep at it 👍

[@Shriyaatul]

I have been playing piano and I've been singing ever since I was four and at every single party or gathering we went to I was forced to perform. As I grew older I began to realise how uncomfortable i felt while doing it but I was told that it's a "phase" when everyone's confidence goes down and it's normal that I'm feeling this way. They said that they felt happy and proud when I performed but I feel like my perspective counts too right? So ever since then I promised myself I'm never gonna do this with my kids and I'll only do it if they really want to perform themselves.

[@rickyc7397]

@@Shriyaatul You can't force confidence. We are born as we are, it takes some people more time to be comfortable being around others.

[@Thursdayaddams77]

That describes my dad very well

[@mcburner3615]

i would have had tears in my eyes. at first... because of the little poor girl forced into a strange situation. and then... happy tears because of the dude who joined the play.

[@graysss98line]

Muchas veces confunden obligar y presionar con "impulsar" y aunque a veces no se vuelve un problema para el niño, muchas veces sí. Tocar un instrumento es una de las mejores cosas que te pueden pasar, déjen ir al ritmo de cada uno.

[@AngelKitty2010]

Part 2 plsss❤

[@dreamweaver444]

she’ll end up hating piano if every time there’s one around she’s pressured to show off :-( she’s not a monkey doing tricks for you, she’s a talented person, capable of deciding whether she’s comfortable or not.

[@super_b1093]

Exactly!

[@juicterking6461]

Every mother who thinks "let's TRAIN our child into a star who's talent is making mama proud. What a joke of a mother.

[@agudlemon9011]

Well said, couldn't have done it any better.

[@zozoflagnard1]

i’m re-posting my original reply, but AGREED 1000% 😤😤 i stopped wanting to play the violin (15 years of formal lessons), piano (6), and flute (6) in public or even in front of family because of being pressured like this by my parents when i was deeply uncomfortable and insecure. damn at least the joy of music brought a smile to this girls face at the very end, but this was actually really hard to watch 😓😔😔 i despise this mom and her behavior displaying blatant narcissism at the expense of her daughters comfort - this mother should be ashamed for acting this way and whipping out the cameras for her fucktard facebook friends, while her daughter is clearly communicating to her “no; i don’t want to; i’m uncomfortable and nervous” shame on this mom, and i hope the little girl is still able to hold on to her love of music/performing at her own pace, where she’s comfortable and happy 🥺🩷💛🩵🤘🏽

[@LiveExplosive]

Kudos to the guy who came in and partnered up with you during the performance

[@matthewc2207]

it was staged

[@cjadventures8840]

@@matthewc2207no kidding lol

[@LiveExplosive]

But he still came

[@goldie709]

The mom's eye has me laughing 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@janearaoz6143]

Desgraciadamente es lo que no deben hacer los padres porque solo ábochornaron a la niña. Dios los bendiga 🙏 para que sean muchos más considerados y respeten los tiempos de la pequeña.gracias gracias gracias!

[@ugghhhghh]

That poor kid is going to have a lifetime of healing to do.

[@JocelynArgamino]

It also happened to me. My late mother told me I was hard headed, and stubborn if I Don't learned to play the piano

[@jaylenbrown8992]

What?!? He’ll nah 🤣 damn you’ve never had real problems if you think this is traumatizing

[@theycallmealex454]

@@jaylenbrown8992you pulled the word traumatize here btw… and you’d be right, that shit is traumatic, and yeah, there are worser traumas but that doesn’t mean it shouldn’t be commented on… you have a very weird, judgmental and ignorant view on child’s psychology… fix that

[@jaylenbrown8992]

@@user-pf6jg2qv7o ? Can you please explain because I genuinely can’t tell what’s that bad about this clip

[@ambermack5689]

As a musician I can say. Playing in a busy area is the most nerve racking experience especially when your young and not to mention your being pushed to do it from a mother who rolls her eyes. Very uncomfortable experience. What the dudes did was perfect. Never force someone to do something they love. And don’t force them to do things they don’t want to do.

[@thisisnotmyname4700]

As a musician who plays regularly in busy locations, I agree. It is harder than performing at a concert where people are expecting you to play.

[@rubizockt4177]

@@thisisnotmyname4700 as a yt-addict I can say: This dude literally lives at this airport he is playing there on all his videos. Even the "guy" is already known and common ...

[@kristahathaway9308]

The sad fact is is I bet you the parents are going to yell at her or put her down for not doing it. Parents like this sometimes do not deserve to be parents

[@MrYves1931]

​@@rubizockt4177😊

[@ayabenkhalifa6265]

Exactly 💯

[@lise-annetijerino5624]

I want part 2 this is a good video. I enjoyed it a lot

[@neo-xy3fr]

That mother was so mean. Poor girl

[@delilahrse1122]

Gotta say, poor girl has a terrible family. Her parents put her there and none of her other family members tried to help her. Kudos to you, you quite literally saved her.

[@millieshere]

Ikr😢

[@Rolandomota981]

Just because they didn't help her doesn't mean it's bad parenting 💀 like it's common sense dude

[@lovegoree]

⁠@@Rolandomota981they forced her into such a situation she very clearly didn't want to be in, and acted hella passive aggressive. enough said. theres wayy more healthier ways to encourage her to play in public, or just not forcing her to play if she doesn't want to. by the way you talk, its clear that you're a 9 year old kid w zero knowledge of the real world.

[@aestheticman2662]

You guys are very polite and comforting. The problem is the PARENT; she should NOT force the child for something that she does not feel ready for. If she hates the piano for the rest of her life, the parent IS the reason. I am an educator and speaking from the experience.

[@lahaza6515]

You COULD'NT be more correct. After years of opera training I still had anxiety & disdain for public performance for this very reason. I was too young to understand how to disconnect the feeling of anxiety & dread from it once I got into my 20s and let it go. I'd been offered a scholarship to the Peabody Institute & threw it away. Talk about regret & confusion 30 years later. As an educator please talk to these parents when you see them! You probably do, but it's pretty wild how we wire ourselves when we don't have the foresight yet to put things into perspective.

[@aestheticman2662]

@@lahaza6515 Thank you Very much for sharing your experience and insights with us . We educators certainly encourage such parents to avoid putting pressure on their children in the matters that they are not ready for or dislike. It's my sincere hope that such parents read your comment and respond to their children's needs appropriately.

[@maddiemaddren6207]

ur probably not even a educator but ok 😂

[@aestheticman2662]

@@maddiemaddren6207 * an educator

[@baadlyrics8705]

​@@maddiemaddren6207 yeah most people are lying when saying "i am a *****, therefore i know better than you" but in this case it seems real and theres nothing indicating that they are lying

[@sherrybourn4540]

That woman shouldn't have put that kind of pressure on her daughter. She was clearly humiliated. All for a video....... what an awesome mom! SMFH

[@EmmyGagle-ut6bh]

in the hall of the mountain king will always have a spot in my heart as 100 digits of pi by ASAP science

[@thepersonaloutlet]

This is how trauma is formed. You can even see th disappointed look on her moms face although her daughter is clearly uncomfortable.

[@annipsy2185]

im not her and already traumatized

[@TheOnlyVoidExile]

Man I just wish I was omni man at times

[@dirkakkermann4510]

So true

[@sarathsasikumar3759]

R most mothers like this?

[@darkmoon2639]

Yes, already happened something close to it with me, its SUPER uncomfortable...

[@Platypi007]

Poor kid was terrified, glad you and the other guy saved her from the situation. It's a shame her mother won't learn from this.

[@Adagio1.62]

Mothers attitude, eye rolling huff. What a nightmare.

[@kittimariannvadlicseknefur9232]

He plays the piano nicely

[@googleyoflolz9930]

Nom nom nom

[@RonLarhz]

This!!!

[@iambenutzungslos3136]

It can be a really good feeling too... But insisting if you don't feel or want to do something could be handled differently. All love still to the family, granny is in the end probably just proud of the process :)

[@foodmep3473]

Even if she is playing for years… its not their job to tell her what to do.. because music should not be to show off it should warm Our soul and be inspiration or meditation for yourself at first place… So doesnt matter how classes she took or not Btw…

[@naya4050]

THIS 😭

[@kiritoalexander9820]

​@@foodmep3473that's stupid you sound like a Child, bruh this day and age piano lessons are a arm and a leg if I'm paying for a whole year of lessons damn right I wanna see the results if your there panicking not even knowing a composer then that shits gotta stop and u do something else

[@camisetablancapoison8513]

That boy who came saved her from doing something she didn't want to do ❤

[@jellirabauke2565]

And the pianist uploaded a video of someone feeling uncomfortable. Not everything needs to be online

[@hel2727]

her parents probably gave her hell for it later. noone can save you from toxic parents. you have to deal with it until you can move out. but even then all your family members and other people around you will expect you to get over it and not be "ungrateful" by cutting off contact.

[@mlsicheng]

Your pfp 🤭

[@Aze1221s]

Guys…. The guy that came up out of nowhere…… @DanielThrasher

[@Kkloves965]

​@Azymochi I just checked I don't think that's daniel thrasher if you pause the video and look at him directly it doesn't look like him.

[@bettyearchie5064]

Part 2 please!!

[@BlackPlum155]

I'm from Poland and I'm so sad about sytuations like this, but it's normal in my country and that's a problem.😢

[@livinginparallel]

Poor girl, I hope her family learns to step off✌️Im sure that when she truly wants to do something, she does it incredibly and with beaning confidence, she seems so sweet 🫶😚

[@CoryXVbloom]

That's Polish fams for ya, I can relate, as I have one myself- No is not a word they take seriously-

[@TheNightFuryTribe]

That moms eye roll shows just how rude she was to her own daughters comfort zone

[@SkincareQueen888]

GURL trust me it’s polish mums 😭

[@lordoftheworld4523]

Yes sadly that's the reality of some polish parents' ambitions

[@olcia1305]

this girl comes from Poland like me, I'm very sorry that her mother showed our beautiful country like that, poor girl

[@fp._.damian]

I'm from Poland, and I know that someone told her, "Don't be shy!" I hope I helped someone who doesn't know what's going on.

[@nunnyabznz]

So wonderful that you and the other pianist jumped in to save this poor kid from such an awkward and uncomfortable situation. ❤

[@BlueBrryPie839]

I’m disappointed in the mother- I too am a pianist, and just because my mother sees someone else play or do something I can, doesn’t mean I should just jump in and be like oH hEy LoOk At Me

[@spiceo2]

Seeing the girl in that awful situation actually made me tear up a bit. I’ve lived my whole life being forced into spotlight situations that I never wanted to be a part of- parenting like this has been detrimental to my self worth and independence, and now I’ve got a number of mental issues that make it hard to live my day to day life. I sincerely hope these people will come across this video and see what affect they’re having on this child.

[@kylespraysammili9108]

❤

[@zeikkocodm2928]

The same for me, awful parents

[@xdC33]

🤓

[@ibono99]

Yeah. My mom would do stupid stuff like this.

[@first_last-]

Haha, shut up you baby

[@kayleebowes7282]

Starts playing the pi song😂🎉

[@breadisyummy_]

I can feel the anxiety from behind the camera

[@leannehigh8371]

Same 😔😔

[@Angelina_Swiftie]

Same poor thing