The “Ideal Woman” - Uttara Phalguṇī

[@muskanmandana]

"We should love overselves because of the roles we play in the lives of other" 💜

[@theoldgod9]

I found something interesting about Uttara Phalguni falling in the Virgo. As virgo represents small intestines, among other body parts, there's a SYMBIOTIC relationship that happens in the gut. The gut bacteria helps in the DISCERNMENT of nutrition and waste, once it gets forwarded by LEO fire. The gut bacteria in return needs good situation and must be taken care of, otherwise the guts may malfunction, and the failure of this relationship eventually hurts both the Human and the Gut Bacteria. Interestingly, to process the food better and better intestinal movements, Walking is required.( Vahatava, i think, a thing which carries from one place to another)(gut bacteria would do so, if you do it outside too) I also found that many people are talking about Venus Debilitation at 27 degrees in Virgo. I think, that if we look for more Sensory Enjoyment (represented by Venus), our Guts/Intestines/Virgo will get hurt. Simple as that. Be responsible with the materialism of the Virgo. Also, exaltation of mercury(15-20 degrees virgo) states a lot about this nakshatra{ tropical zodiac with sidereal nakshatras } and sign. I found that Bran(comprising the chaff of wheat, barley and other grains) helps in intestinal processes and not the grain itself( i.e. grains, pulses are heavy for intestines). All this time i thought that virgo maiden was separating wheat from the chaff. Now, i realize that she was separating chaff from the wheat.

[@hijack1234]

I see your comment recently but just need to say it resonated. As a sun uttara phalguni, I have been constipated for the longest time cos I tend to take things personally and do not express my emotions well as I am introverted but I have decided to let go of things I can’t change mentally and surprise surprise I did not change any diet or anything, I could go to the loo regularly! Power of the mind is really great.

[@monalisamondal2559]

That's why I always wanted to be an ideal women....who takes a good care of her family and every body loves to be around her and find peace in her.... Thankfully I found a man who feels peace within me.....we are really a happy couple....we have a little financial problem bt I know that after our marriage he will be abundant and then we would try to do something to serve our society.....🙏🙏🙏

[@alectrapaw]

my moon is here and i recently wrote this: "man is not entitled to the body of woman or earth. humankind is to strive to please and delight earth. so that her rivers rush robustly and her forests smell of flowers and ooze of sap. the expression of her aliveness is the richness of our lives." it resonates!

[@hannajarvenpaa5079]

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[@hannajarvenpaa5079]

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[@RituSharma-dc9kw]

👌👌👌👌👌

[@user-us3nj6fv9t]

So beautiful

[@maddiesiegmund5623]

As a woman with Uttara Phalungi in Sun and Moon, thank you! Everything you say resonates. Since more abundance has come into my life, I have come to the conclusion that a domestic bliss is what I desire most. It is sad that modern discourse has made it hard for me to admit to myself that I honor the sacred traditions of womanhood and cherish men for their masculine qualities. Men have always noticed me, and good men have noticed my "heart," which I could not fully give to anyone until I had done considerable work on myself. I was recently feeling distressed on how I can make an impact around me...and received that the simplest and purest thing I can do is give joy. Since this realization, I am making my friends smile more and even strangers are engaging with me on the street, and my life is full of blessings.

[@seeker-in-a-void]

Wish I could do it as well. I have been working on it too. But it's been really hard

[@dashrubberbear]

Blessings, sister 😃💖

[@tiesta1133]

Thank you for sharing..this helps 🙏

[@moonsofourmother2815]

Such beautiful words.

[@earth2nawi73]

Amen! The masculine provides and the feminine receives, creating divine balance of opposites ❤️

[@nara8587]

There is a story from O'Henry where she sold her gorgeous hair to buy the chain for his watch (his only valuable possession), and he sold his watch to buy a comb for her gorgeous hair. Left with love to celebrate the new year) As Uttara Phalguni Sun and Lagna, am thanking you for the deep insight and sanskrit sutra.

[@vanna3970]

I have this in my sun. Now, I can know the reason why I always want to be a mom or somewhat surrounded with children. I am deep with my feminine side:)

[@venusian4613]

Yes! Same with me☺️🌸

[@electra3174]

"The house in which women cry is cursed"

[@Tamar-sz8ox]

If mama ain’t happy ain’t nobody happy 💜 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Tia.K.C]

I have my sun here. I've had a lot of support from people and the men in my life 😊

[@dollywanderer]

You just helped me realize tremendously. - Uttaraphalguni moon

[@margolitapnina6716]

Moon here ( pada 1 ) at 26 degrees 💖💕 Once at naturopathy school there was this " game" ~ we had to use our profession to do something and i was " oh i don't know/have a profession" ... a classmate told me out loud " you make people happy!"

[@theoldgod9]

Very nice.

[@ferajade8899]

"Happy wife, happy life"

[@bodhi963]

seems prudent to remember it takes more than material abundance to make a woman happy.

[@katharina1439]

To sum it up: Happy Wife, Happy Life!😃💗

[@currentlay]

there’s a lyric i love that goes “when i make it all about you, you take care of us” and thats what uttara phalguni is giving me thank you so much for your insight vic!

[@shantiworld2790]

You are a magician with your insightful wisdom.

[@KitKat4K]

Thank you for this revelation. As a woman with Uttara Phalungi in Sun and Moon I resonated with this message on many levels. It has been my dream, since I was a child, to be of service to others, but in this modern era, we are all asked to provide for ourselves hence the "Love yourself and take care of yourself" attitude. Individuals are asked to embody both functions of masculine and feminine aspects rather than depending on or finding support from each other. With that in mind how can we rationalize or find a middle ground between ancient teachings and modern standards where everyone is asked to find and support oneself before being able to express joy and happiness or structure and discipline? It seems to me that women in particular (and this ties in nicely with a heroines journey) must embody the masculine attributes of structure and discipline before she can express joy and happiness (feminine attribute).

[@cryptolovesamy]

I am really loving this series and can't wait for the book! Well done Vic ♡

[@menushihapuarachchige7503]

This is so true. You learn to put healthy boundaries and make other people happy by you being happy which eventually other people start enjoying and being comfortable in your presence. And only thing you want be is spoiled.❤😊 and have respect and gratitude to the men that do so.

[@bluebelluk]

Thanks for this insight! I'm very new to learning vedic astrology so this was very helpful! I have Uttara Phalguni in my 1st house of Virgo (which is also my ascendent). I do like looking after people unfortunately I don't have any close friendships or relationships so I do find life feels empty at times. Your explanation makes sense in regards to enjoying domestic pursuits. Thank you again for sharing!

[@sarahtiara]

Such deep lines... I believe in it too women should be happy she'll automatically make everyone else happy

[@drivesanoldcar]

Excellent understanding of how femininity works. If the male side wonders why he supports a woman it is not the male. Not shortsighted, perhaps he isn’t the masculine.

[@vanhuang6333]

When the woman is happy, everybody is happy. Good insight.

[@rashmichaudhary921]

Thanks for such an insightful video. My 7th lord is in 7th house and in uttara phalguni, therefore you have given me an imp lesson that I must remain happy and experience fulfilling relationships by being able to nurture others.

[@deepasinghal4729]

Wow, thank you. This is a very common and popular saying in India - Gods reside in houses where women are cherished and ruins come to the houses where women cries. Knew it was true but never understood why, this video helps! Even in marriage ritual of India ie vivah, the giving away of daughter to the groom by father is called as a mahadaan of kanyadaan as she provides everything to the groom's house including lineage and puja is done psot marriage at father's home to please gods to fill the gap of abundance left by the daughter. Even Son despite being elder are married after the daughter is married since it is believed goddess of abundance Lakshmi is given away first and lakshmi is recieved as a daughter-in-law thus normalizing and not depleting the fathers house. The vulva is worshipped in a maha shaktipeeth temple in Assam, it is cherished and worshipped in ancient texts v/s abuse and caricature made out to be. Though groom and inlaws are primarily required to provide for the wife, in ancient India, wife earned for herself through her skills and vast enterprises or Veda acharyas. Thus, women did all that men did but because of more functional skills (kriya shakti) and giving birth and natural qualities like you mentioned, she became symbol of abundance, thus more revered than men in India. This shows "providing" for wife isnt just material but also about dignity-respect-happiness-love that is highly crucial and sought after by Woman acorss the planet not just in India. Ancient Indians knew the weakness of easily abusing or being indifferent or worse bullying a lone woman who starts from scratch in their house and hence use the power and knowledge imbalance to abuse the wife/daughter in law. Hence, cries of woman of the house deviate her energies away from creativity into cries and wastes large amounts of abundance she is capable to give, and naturally Gods left places of abuse. Also, females are seen as direct manifestations of Devi, mothers revered in Vedas as first guru, extolled as abundance giver as daughter and wife without whom house mgmt, society mgmt, finance mgmt, dharm, and moksha for man is not possible (for a non-sanyasi man). Unmarried male entry is banned in several temple sin India as he is considered impure and one who salivates after multiple women bodies. This resonated so much with typical marriage issues where man is disorganized, undisciplined throws away wet towels, socks, spreads mess v/s wife complaining and disciplining him to be clean and organized. All of it fits! A popular saying in India is "a daughter comes (births) accompanied by her own abundance and leaves with her own abundance (with marriage, moving with abundance to the groom family)" Possibly a reaosn why male child is preferred due to rituals of moksha associated, patriarchial lineage and also because with a son you recieve abundance and gain v/s as a daughter's father you lose abundance. Wonderful video, explains a ton fo things to me. Namaste!

[@esaiathecreatrix]

Uttara Phalguni Moon! This video was phenomenal and everything you’ve said has been my literal life lesson into womanhood.. ✨😊💕 you’re appreciated 🙌🏽

[@godisamazing6448]

Omg this is my atmakarka, I feel and experience this deeply!

[@monalisamondal2559]

I am also uttarafalguni..... totally can relate with it.,.....❤❤❤❤

[@learningearning8385]

Happy wife...happy life. - Ancient Sanskrit text

[@TransformativeJourneysLC]

This makes perfect sense to me because I was born in the year of the Ox and my Sun in Uttara Phalguni pada 4 is my Darakaraka so I desire my partner to be physically strong. I'm Libra ascendant with its nakshatra ruled by Mars and Venus in my 1st house. Mars (R) is in my 7th house with its nakshatra ruled by Venus. I also totally agree with what you said about happiness because that's how feel about life. I always try keep my vibrations high so I can radiate happiness and loving healing energy to others. Thank you for being a brilliant Guru and for shining your light! Much love and light to you all! Namaste and God bless! 🙏🏾❤

[@YuyiLeal]

So beautifully explained! So relevant, especially in today's world.

[@therisingphoenixlovedbynat121]

This is so very important and yet so little know or understand😥

[@ranirathi3379]

i have Ketu here. what i've observed is, i tend to blame outwards when i am dissatisfied, and/or unhappy and bcz of that i tend to withhold love and support and understanding - i feel i give but i get nothing back, so i withhold. and the withholding amplifies the whole feeling bad thing.

[@QueenoftheUniverse222]

Wow, you really hit the nail on the head with this one! I have my moon at zero degrees pada 2, Uttara Phalguni in my D1.☺️

[@unknown975]

Know this when you mistreat a woman - "The house in which women cry is cursed, it will fall to ruin but the house in which women smile is blessed and will flourish" couldn't be more perfect than this 🤩

[@jppj5977]

A great analysis and reminder for us men. Thank you

[@Himeko-wv7fu]

Life lesson: Don't piss off your woman

[@ymearth]

Both me and my daughter have lots of Phalgunis🎶 Specially Sun and Moon in Uttara Phalguni💞💞 Love it❤️ Thank you so much for your wisdon😊🎶

[@ymearth]

So true and I just want to cry😭‼️

[@ANON_YMOUS1111]

Very cool, makes so much sense.

[@babypiano28]

I have uttarapulguni in my moon and you hit it on the nail. This is what I so desire in my being to happen. To have that symbiotic relationship. I feel most happy when im giving to my partner but i would like to have it given in return as well. Its like the holy grail ive yet to find.

[@maricelaramos4151]

Alicia Abagat from one uttraphalguni to another I agree

[@christopherellis2663]

💙💛💔

[@theoldgod9]

very true. I think, in a sense, it is about what the other brings at the table. we can be giving and happy to the extent that we can exhaust ourselves if there's no strong carriage around. Or, maybe, we are not paying enough attention to the deal and still feel unappreciated. I think , a weaker placement here can feel unappreciated.

[@aurelieblain8795]

Wouaw ! My ketu is in uttara phalguni and wouaw !!!! I understand why i was soooo feminist in my young life ! (I'm only 34 now 😅🤭). This is in my 4th house and i lived in an non happy family even if every one did his Best. My father was work alcoholic and Never at home. He wanted to give his money to be fine, but my Mother was not quite happy being alone all the time with 2 Kids. She was exhausted, angry, frustrated... Waiting her usband to do things with him but it was never possible. I am still struggling with this concep of woman, and being happy first of all to make others happy in return, but i'm on this way ! Wonderful validation because of you! Thank you so much And the Last words was just perfect. I should put it on my front door hihihi

[@maureenbornilla1]

Thank you so much for all that you do

[@JayJJay185]

I also can't wait for the book!

[@BethsarimIAM]

My moon is in this. Family is to me the most important central focus. Not being supported and fending for yourself is the hardest life lesson to wk through. I am growing into a better place, I have learned to allow the men and children in my life to do their best supporting me and I work joyfully to grant wishes and make home life bliss.

[@BethsarimIAM]

It is in the 6H for me.

[@winsome-phool]

My 7th lord is in this nakshatra in the 4th house. Your explanation resonated a lot with me.

[@supriya15wildlife]

Loved your explanation 🙏🏻

[@toniagerardo9919]

Great video! Thank you!

[@dr.urmilayadav5662]

Very insightful.My experience P.Phal. is self centered and U.phal is socal and charitable personality.

[@surabhilodha5659]

What an insightful explanation..... keep it up

[@marleyofficialmedia]

Super interesting... moon is here today.

[@keya2073]

If the society is good , women will be considered for who they are not that what the society wants the woman to be . It's the choice of the woman what they want to be . Ideal feminine qualities of a woman should always be cherished.

[@preshneenaidoo528]

Aww Vic , nothing I can comment on KZbin . VENUS MARS Uttaraphalguni 💔

[@pro-Indian]

M born in this star. So I do agree with you here. Its not like I seek luxury etc but I just want man to not mold me or manipulate me for my values. Plus encourage me to win my path. Because if not, I will feel sad and feel very sad. Ultimately I will ruin everyone's life by being sad. N people like me who are born in this nakshatra are jolly people. So imagine a happy go lucky person being sad just spoils everyone's mood

[@lilavatidevi9924]

ammmaaazing! brilliant! make our damn selves well & the world is nourished!!!

[@annee5582]

I have Uttara P. Sun 4th house. And I do not feel supported by those around me. I know now that this is only the first part of my life and that the second part will be better. Moon and Mercury both in Purva Phalguni. Moon is stronger than sun in my chart. So I am just a late bloomer bc sun is blocking my 4th (moon) house. And I was the fruit bearer and now the bread maker.

[@Sunshine-ny1qx]

Thanks for your enlighten interpretation ☀️🙏

[@lucyvas]

My ascendant is in this nakshatra. This makes sense

[@satinarcher]

I am rising 🙏 thank you ☺️

[@Veve7]

The interesting part for me is the balance between the feminine and the masculine.

[@catheadoff]

I'm a woman with Sun in Uttara Phalguni.

[@learningearning8385]

I have jupiter saturn conjunct..im happy at peace & blessed & in turn a blessing to my entire family. This sounds similar to Rohini.

[@dashrubberbear]

Truer words have never been spoken :D 💖 although we are two related women supporting each other :D but it works

[@mousumi_mazumder]

Loved this one❤

[@sebee555]

Lol "a feminists nightmare xD" That was funny. With a moon I'm this, seems a little funny as my parents don't even see me as a girl 😂 😂 😂 I guess I was always seen as the boy child!

[@dashrubberbear]

Whoever they may see you as, be true to yourself, develop your soul and femininity 💖 I myself am not very feminine, but the older I get the more motherly I feel to everything and everybody in the world and even the earth herself and the universe! I feel like everything is my baby and I need to cherish and nourish it. Give unconditional love to the world and be happy, sister 💖🌍✨

[@charmaine7301]

You could have a strong Jupiter or Saturn...my mom says the same thing!

[@Karin_8]

🌿🌼 Thank You🌼🌿

[@RippleDrop.]

Gotta like this. 👍🏼 Venus and Mercury here. Always trying to make spouse happy with my own expense. I gotta be happy. Recent realisation 🌹🥀

[@VicDiCaraAstrology]

see the video on Anuradha too, please. it has important info on this same topic.

[@RippleDrop.]

Vic DiCara's Astrology Thank you very much.

[@Sacred-Heart-of-Jesus829]

This is a beautiful video. ❤💓💘

[@lekagc1]

How does Ketu function in this Nakshatra?

[@S_M_456-c8n]

I am an uttraphalguni rising (virgo rising )❤

[@goshimz]

Beautiful Vic ...

[@cynbahati]

Love this!!!

[@tappingintothemoon3131]

Awesome!

[@SanaRaskolnikova88]

Why nobody wants to talk about Ketu in this nakshatra?

[@ilcapitanoalexandr8698]

Vic where Can I listen the chants itself? They're absolutely beautiful. 1:14 Regards

[@SunyataMaanyata]

Had 2 circle back to this one!

[@moonsofourmother2815]

Wow... Thank You. You should get a You Tube channel and tell the world about this stuff. Lol Great insight and interpretations of this text. Stay in Gods bliss ♡

[@poojanagpal3228]

First time on your channel but completely swept away 🙏🙏🙏

[@cloudlee3110]

I have a little interesting observation when it comes to men, women and cultures. If people tend to crave for manhood ruling, they should go towards the Sun which is in the east region of the planet i.e. Asian countries (japan, china, thailand...) but if people respect womanism, they should abide by the moon which is in the north west region (North America of course). That's why we see people moving from where they were born to pursue something that suit their expectation and desire. In the end every planet has its own characteristic just like all human has different identities, all regions in the world bring their own characters based on their placements.

[@rggrrggr290]

as an asian , i appreciate and acknowledge the contribution of west (west part of earth) to the world and humanity , be it science , technological developments etc BUT i would like to say , people move from asian countries like india , thailand etc to america , canada etc for better career oppourtunities and better "material" life , before colonization no asian wanted to go to west , because east was economic , cultural powerhouse that time

[@samhitha.h.j]

Excellent explanation

[@TheInternetFan]

Isn't it curious though that Venus is debilitated in the sidereal sign "containing" Uttara Phalguni, the nakshatra that indicates how to be an ideal woman?

[@theoldgod9]

Venus is a proud planet. He is a rajasic brahmin. He is virility, lenses, and looks for value in things. It is a starry graha. It is biped. It is saumya. This is a very interesting thing you have pointed out. Maybe, venus cannot get enough here. because virgo is a earth sign and can be exacting and intricate, whereas Venus can be looking for sensory enjoyment.

[@nancyeileen128]

I love this series also Vic👍Thank you I like the Phalguni Nakshatras, maybe because I have Magha n my chart and they are from LEO family!! 👑🦁☺️

[@VicDiCaraAstrology]

probably some other reason ;)

[@nancyeileen128]

Vic DiCara's Astrology Lol...yeah I need to study on these Nakshatras more which are my favorite 🙂

[@uxiaamber1292]

❤ thank you

[@redfullmoon]

So it's like the nakshatra for the adage Happy wife, happy life

[@paerarru]

Thank you so very much, Mister DiCara. This is an extremely important lesson for me, even though I'm a man, because my Rahu is UP. And my Sun is PP! :)

[@priyu.j]

How would Venus in Virgo in Uttara Phalguni do...given that Venus is considered debilitated in Virgo? A friend of mine has her Sun in Purva Phalguni and Venus in Uttara Phalguni. I find that interesting, given that the nakshatra lord of Uttara P is Sun and Purva P is Venus..

[@theoldgod9]

that nakshatra lord system works for vimshottari dasha system only.

[@Kathleen14444]

Love this series! What can be done if this aspect is not funtioning well? Good luck with your new book!

[@VicDiCaraAstrology]

same as we do for any problem (1) notice it, (2) observe it, (3) think about it, (4) gradually discover ways to change it

[@ao1920]

@@VicDiCaraAstrology so maybe someone with the ascendant in that nakshatra need a person with a taurus rising 😉

[@eLitehium]

How is Purva Phalguni masculine when it's represented by a female rat and Uttara Phalguni feminine when it's represented by a male bull? It doesn't really go together in my head.

[@VicDiCaraAstrology]

none of the animal stuff makes much sense to me. I am just telling you what Taittirīya Brāhmaṇa teaches us about nakṣatras. As for the animal stuff, I don't even know where that stuff comes from.

[@eLitehium]

Thank you so much for taking the time to reply!

[@sumitworld97]

Thanks Vic for this amazing series....love from India ♥️ I always want to be very giving to people I love, whether my family or in relationship. I can even sacrifice myself for them. It gives me great fulfillment and happiness when I can do something for people I love. Doing things for myself doesn't give me the same joy. Now I know why am I like that. I have Sun in Uttara phalguni. I always used to think that ascendant and moon affects us more as compared to sun, but now I know the power of sun. This is so me. Waiting for your Chitra explanation (my moon in Chitra). Then I will compare which affects me more, sun or moon? 😊 But how would a male planet like sun behave in Uttara phalguni? Of course not desirable but what flavor it will give? You didn't cover that in the way you covered for male and female planets in purva phalguni. Also, how would an eunuch planet like saturn in this Nakshatra indicate?

[@annee5582]

What about when the man and women have 4-5 kids under 10 years of age? In today’s society how does one be happy? If you can find this answer you can cure a lot of un-happiness. But wonderful info! 🙏 It wasn’t what I expected but a very beautiful idea. I have Uttara in Sun 4th and Purva is moon 4th.

[@rawanalkhaldi9055]

I have Venus and Rahu in 2nd house Leo in this nekshatra

[@fines158]

Interesting. What does it mean if I have UP in my sun? Thank you

[@andream9977]

It reminds me of a quote from one of my favorite couples counselor, Stan Tatkin “we learn to love ourselves by loving and being loved by others” (paraphrasing what he says). And yes, this whole idea of “love yourself before you love others” is BS, that’s impossible

[@Hari-kx2er]

Not all self-love is selfishness. A healthy belief in one's potential and abilities to be of greater use to the society and world around us is a healthy form of 'loving yourself'.

[@soniabakshi6948]

Hello sir. Very nice videos. If possible ,I want to request you to please start with the next series of remedies. It's principles to understand how to help others. Thanks Regards

[@222divinechanellings]

Jai maa shakti . 🙏💗🥥🥥🥥🥥🥥

[@VicDiCaraAstrology]

Jai

[@123RafaelPerez]

Excellent 👍

[@NinaNeko4]

This is my Rahu!

[@VicDiCaraAstrology]

I love your icon/profile pic. Really feels like powerful Rāhu in U.Phal

[@NinaNeko4]

Vic DiCara's Astrology Thank you! It’s funny, my Sun and Moon are in (Ardra) Rahu, itself. And with my Rahu in U.Phal... I would say I’m U.Phal times 3 if that’s how it works. 🤣

[@vinitasharma8271]

I have uttraphalguni ascedent and moon and ascedent lord in jyestha what it's effect

[@charmaine7301]

You could be a sun dominant person as it's in your lagna ...check out Claire naktis channel

[@vinitasharma8271]

@@charmaine7301 27/12/97 23.45 Bhopal mp

[@pallasa2032]

I have this in my first house in virgo

[@shwetasinghnm]

Very very strange. My jupiter mahadasha started recently, it being in the uttaraphlaguni nakshatra. I suddenly got desires to be more feminine and to explore what an empowered, divine feminine really is.