The Magical Remedy for Spouse Conflicts - Sayed Mohammed Baqer Al-Qazwini

The institution of marriage is of pivotal importance in the religion of Islam. In our modern era, this institution is slowly being eroded and neglected, and the youth of this era are unaware of the right means to deal with marriage, and hence are alternatively seeking cohabitation instead.
In this valuable discussion, Sayed Mohammed Baqer Al-Qazwini shares some reasons that highlight the need for marriage, before analyzing the root causes of marital conflicts and arguments like selfishness, miscommunication, lack of leadership and outside interventions. Later on, we are provided with helpful tips to properly address such issues and hopefully overcome them.
Verse of Discussion:
“And of His signs is that He crated spouses for you from yourselves, that you may repose in them, and He has set between you love and mercy; verily there are signs in this, for a people who reflect.” - Surah Ar-Room, Verse 21
Al-Rasoul Islamic Society || Day 29 - The Holy Month of Ramadan 2017

[@sehrish_sajjad]

Conflicts in marriage 1) Don't be selfish. Care for his needs. More u contribute more u benefit. Take care of yourself. Dress up. 2) Communicate your issues. Build a line of communication. Don't expect them to know everything or problem beforehand Communicate. 3) Listen to the cues that your spouse is communicating. 4) lack of leadership. 5) Designate issues tht who will handle tht problem or this problem. Eg finance kids etc 6) Never involve your in laws. Seek advice from others but not in laws. 7) Don't comment on other people's marriage. 8) Never make personal attack in a conflict instead talk about the problem. Don't generalize like you did this you always you are like this etc. 9) Don't yell at each other. Sit and talk 10) Don't insult your spouse. 11) Never fight in front of your children. 12) Don't bring the past faults in your current argument. Let go of the past or else u won't be able to solve it. 13) Find something tht works to solve the problem even if you are right try to understand their point also. 14) Remember your Spouse is not your Enemy. 15) Be gentle and compassionate to bring tranquility in your marriage.

[@dalianassar1684]

I swear people need to realise that listening to this is better than any therapist

[@atribecalledbaniadam3346]

I'm a sunni and I love the lectures of this institute.

[@corpsefoot758]

We are technically Sunni as well brother, so don’t feel like the odd one out 😉

[@rm8885]

You are a great speaker. May Allah swt Bless & Reward you🤲

[@Anonym-114]

MashaAllah what a powerful lecture. I cried at the last story. What a beautiful wife. Subhanallah. I hope i will reach her level with Allahs help 🤲🏻😭

[@msyed5079]

JazakAllah for this very important and beneficial lecture for not just Muslim but all people of society.

[@koohyar1589]

I love how good of a teacher you are

[@mustafasaidhelal99]

Alsalam aleykum wa rahmat Allah wa barakatuhu, may Allah bless you dear Sayed and the entire Institute, thank you for this lecture 🌹❤️

[@majedalkafaji8592]

اللهم صل على محمد وال محمد احسنتم وطيب الله انفاسكم وحفظكم

[@apvlogs267]

LABBAIK ya Hussain

[@farzeenhussain2571]

The beautiful incident at the end was always a lesson for me all through my relationship.

[@haydeecruz5833]

Your teaching are very good I like them a lot, I convert to Muslim in Dubai but here in Oregon I don't live close to a Muslim center

[@bu2jo]

Hayee Cruz God bless you

[@binyamina8850]

Haydee Cruz Do not watch videos from these shias, they are full of lies. Whatever they tell you make sure to make research and get the truth.

[@Saber23]

Binyamin A oh great another Wahabi sectarian

[@binyamina8850]

the guy under your bed Am I wahabi because I don't worship graves?

[@Saber23]

Binyamin A This shows how ignorant you are the Shi’a do not worship graves we just believe that Allah SWT has given certain beings the power to intercede on your behalf in fact Sayyid Qazwini has dedicated an entire series of lectures to intercession explaining what it is and its conditions

[@alirizvi4108]

MashaAllah ... such a beautiful lecture I have ever heard before. JazakAllah.

[@farhatsayyad9581]

Very beautiful advise

[@dr.mobarakali255]

Jazakum Allahu Khairan.

[@fatimaozoguz9186]

Even a year engagement is too much I think. Our engagement was very short, and we are happily married for 36 years

[@lilly9972]

Excellent🌺

[@MaliamAngel97]

JazakAllah

[@orlandobanto5781]

Allahumma sali ala muhamd wali muhamd wajjil farzahum

[@muhammadanwarshaheen6584]

Great

[@user-iz2ym2lx9b]

🌹

[@houriag4]

ماشاء الله تبارك الرحمان الله يحفظك ويسترك ويبعد عنك أبناء الحرام

[@nomadic8577]

In many situation, parents of partners are big big problem. They don't allow things to go simple and smooth. Their demands force the partners to fall for sin and choose sinful path because indeed that is easier. Parents don't get this because they can never be in our shoes.

[@sayednasrat2494]

I am Muslim and Sunni there is no border in Islam between sects.

[@kataangsucks]

May Allah (swt) hasten the return of our immaculate Messiah Jesus (saws) and his rightful helper Imam Mahdi (as)!

[@corpsefoot758]

You have it the other way around, friend: Jesus will be praying behind al-Mahdi. Think about it: what kind of leader would pray behind his own follower?