The Man She Married is a NIGHTMARE (Married at First Sight)

[@laurenr9659]

He is one of those people who thinks they're much smarter and much deeper than they actually are.

[@JudasMaccabeus1]

Most definitely. You shouldn’t have to convince yourself to be into someone. If you are you are.

[@laurabarber6697]

So he's shallow!😂😂😂😂

[@xXSupreme45Xx]

Agreed, he’s also a complete moron.

[@amandaredd3057]

oh yeah buddy you got that right

[@willardmatsaudza3101]

@@laurabarber6697 very whilst pretending to be a deep guy lool I hate these kinds of nothing people.

[@ccb6013]

"So you're willing to marry a whole stranger but not try new foods?" That's honestly a good point😅

[@trappestarrgaming3422]

I was ready to say the same thing like new food eww new man... I'm all in

[@a.rae.]

I'm screaming lol he's not wrong

[@JJ-mp5ye]

Why are they eating on the bed though? There’s literally breakfast table and chairs.

[@queentemitayo]

Lol one definitely has a greater risk than the other 😂

[@leftifornian2066]

@@JJ-mp5yeyou know why

[@WhoanellyNone-bp4sk]

I like how he just automatically assumes that everyone is attracted to him like it’s just a given! Totally self absorbed!

[@LalithoTheRedBorderCollie]

well he does have a pretty face than most males and strong body

[@PungiFungi]

@@LalithoTheRedBorderCollie but the lousy personality. He is good for a roll in the hay but nothing beyond that.

[@Fullchristainname]

Clearly he's missed his calling as a politician, if he can talk this much yet somehow say nothing.

[@paintitblack9712]

😂

[@nicolem3215]

Filibuster final boss

[@sonofhibbs4425]

He graduated from the Kamala Harris school of communication with honors!

[@lowclasswhitetrashhypocrite]

Like Biden! He would fit right in there! Good observation! 👍🏻

[@laurinasousa]

😂😂😂

[@tevinarchuleta8725]

Every sentence out of this dude is like an email from HR

[@tammypage1194]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ronniesmith8677]

😂😂😂😂

[@EzraMerr]

😂

[@carolinareaper8089]

Perfect comparison!!!! Exactly

[@barbaral4658]

As a person working in HR, I second that :D

[@alyross3081]

Bottom line….he assumed he would be matched with what he considered to be his “looks match”, no concern for any other attributes. He did not think she was pretty enough for him. Then he spent the next X # of weeks pretending that it wasn’t all about looks. It was painful enough to witness, i can only imagine how sad this was for her. Just a weak, spineless, liar.

[@Silversolstice548]

I don't get it because she's way better looking than him

[@inthelandofmorethansmall7582]

My Husband is very Handsome. Now. He wasn't always though. When he was you ger he was awkward and goofy. Big ears, nose, and lips. All arms and legs. Just... awkward. Goofy. Huge front teeth that stick out at weird angles and have brown decay on them. But I loved him. And I found him attractive despite alllll that. Then I began to put on a tiny bit of weight. And we got married. And our sex life ended. That was 13 yrs ago. He has grown into his arms, legs, ears, and nose. And I think his teeth are cute. 😂 His lips are perfect for kissing... But he hasn't kissed me in years. And only a few times since marriage. We've had sex less than 10 times in 13 yrs. He has told me he's just not attracted to me. All bc I'm not a size zero or age 25 anymore. So he wanted me when I was the hot one... but now he doesn't want me bc he thinks he's better I guess? He's tall and skinny. Has a good job. He's not bad to me. He's just shallow and selfish. He has no personality. I'm honestly so close to giving up and getting a divorce. My hearts been broken too long.

[@SilG.123]

​@@inthelandofmorethansmall7582profile pic is pretty, though. I don't get why he has a problem. men nowadays like girls a little thicker than super thin anyways

[@Stepatee]

​@@inthelandofmorethansmall7582 You deserve more...let yourself have it. ❤

[@elizabethdevos7240]

​@@inthelandofmorethansmall7582 you are holding on to what he used to be, not who he is. I hope you find the strength to no longer put up with a man who clearly doesn't value you.

[@ricardoguilherme5170]

As a lawyer, I can't help but imagine this dude answering questions in court.

[@dugongsdoitbetter]

Or doing his best not to.

[@nosiphodywili35]

Lol nahh this type of guy you just ask yes or no questions. Especially if you know the answer already.

[@kathy12238]

😂 exactly! I was thinking his deposition would be minimal 9 years to get simple questions answered!

[@kissarococo2459]

I imagined trying to nail jello to the wall....

[@elliewillow4556]

I’d pay to see that

[@AltClev37]

In conclusion….. he thinks he’s the shit and isn’t fully attracted to her but instead of just being honest with her AND himself he keeps talking in code cause he doesn’t want to say it out loud.

[@dieu5041]

He does waffle a lot though. Even if he was attracted to her I think it’d still lack…clarity.

[@jokarr33]

Seems clear to me he doesn't want to say it because he came on the show to grow his Instagram followers and his fitness business. He figured it'd be bad for business to admit that he's shallow.

[@popcandy44]

​@@jokarr33 🔔 DING DING DING 🔔 We have a winner lol. That's absolutely what's going on

[@bluebeka2458]

Is like when you are trying to avoid being a ahole but in the end somehow you become more of a ahole than you first anticipated. Guess that happened to me too.

[@sm.9599]

He’s not really that good looking though. He doesn’t look better than her at all

[@avid9530]

What he is saying: I’m hot. You’re not. I’m not attracted to you. I’m attracted to me. And will only consider someone as hot and superficial as me. And even if I do find them, I’ll still only be in love with me. Bc I’m hot. And I’m definitely shallow and will always be shallow. He’s too scared to admit that. It’s socially unacceptable.

[@avid9530]

He’s way too scared to admit who he is. The words he is saying about convicting her of not being honest, is how his mother convicted him. I think his response is him constantly having to hide from his mother. And all the intellectualism was to be socially acceptable. Basically a scared boy with a narcissistic mother, who never grew up nor never knew how to truly express his feelings. Of course he is shallow, bc he was only seen shallowly. Raised around shallow people who never let him express deep real feelings. It’s actually a very sad case.

[@z_ed]

He needs to fix his teeth, js...

[@lana_6336]

Facts

[@Algimantaz]

But why does he remain in the relationship? Does he gain something?

[@quichequiche4274]

​@@AlgimantazMore tv time. They have to leave once the marriage doesn't work out.

[@meredithjohnson2843]

He’s definitely one of those business bros who talks the most in a meeting but also contributes the least to the conversation.

[@staceyshere]

Funny you mention that because he has a website and the description of what he does is literally just more word salad. I was like oh so he learned nothing. Got it.

[@93FAB]

😂😂😂

[@alyzu4755]

And adds 90 minutes to each meeting because he won't shut up. 😊

[@slantedglasses7242]

I had this kind of person in my workplace. We're blanking every time he talked. He only there for 3 months

[@MichaelTreder]

"We'll circle back later!"

[@Finn-pi5vo]

The gaslighting scene was the most annoying. Dude gives off douche chills, blows her off, then pins it on her. The narcissism is strong in that one.

[@JJ-mp5ye]

He is for sure a narcissist and glad he didn’t pretend to like her then make her miserable after the cameras are gone! She dodged a bullet. She’s a pretty lady with very strong self-confidence deserves a good man.

[@Leoprincess3038]

Right! He swears he's the catch and she's the lucky one 😂

[@Finn-pi5vo]

@@JJ-mp5ye that’s a great point! So glad he didn’t make her fall for him than went full narcissistic jerk off

[@Grouchbox]

Yeah, he was an obvious narc. I also think his entire reason for going on MAFS was to promote himself and his modeling career.

[@penguinZ85]

Yes, it gave me some scary flashbacks.

[@audiovectra]

There is nothing worse than a lying narcissist gaslighter that thinks they are way smarter than they are, it’s infuriating

[@This_Is_VeryNotFine]

He’s not an intelligent guy. He just wants you to think that. That’s why he speaks the way he does. She’s being too nice

[@loren5432]

I've dealt with these type of people before. They think they are too smart because you can't "keep up" with the conversation, but really all you can do is just zone out whenever they talk because it's impossible to understand what they want to say.

[@unapologeticallyamy9031]

He has the vocabulary level of a 12 year old. I had a friend who thought her boyfriend was intelligent but all he had was confidence, confidence that he shouldn’t have. It didn’t take long before I noticed him belittling my friend and teasing her in a mean way about not knowing what a word meant. I asked what was happening and come to find out, dude didn’t know the correct definition either. I made a point of making him feel small and stupid from then on.

[@Eliz2011abc]

I noticed that too.

[@charlottebreton6796]

Dude "the minimum word count on an essay" I laughed out loud

[@lijo4518]

And " word salad " got me 🫣

[@JJ-mp5ye]

“Bunch of words in random order”

[@thebestcat9601]

That’s pretty much the best way to describe the way he speaks.😂

[@itskristinawithak]

This is triggering. I had an ex like this and we lasted two months bc I could not handle him. This guy is the epitome of narcissism

[@theSolo33]

that lion tattoo on his shoulder should have been a clear indication

[@Barbieinawheelchair]

Samee

[@sarahdoanpeace3623]

Yep

[@magnumxlpi]

Kristina we had a wonderful time but I just need more clarity and I think you're great.. I do.. really do. I see you trying to process and with processing the process becomes a bit too much processing but I did enjoy the time we had and I appreciate you allowing the space for me to clarify everything and gain clarity while we both look back on the time we did have in this process and the direction we went

[@genericcosplaygirl]

Let me translate for him- “She is pretty and we have a lot of things in common so I should be attracted to her but I am not”

[@Undrconst]

This is a good one. I think he knows she’s a good one he just doesn’t like her. WHICH IS FINE, just speak up!

[@NobleAbsinthe]

I think he wants to seem smart so bad that he is unable to communicate normally. Like the lady is gonna divorce him because for some reason he can't pass the salt without reciting War And Peace.

[@samsongomah1318]

@@Undrconst Disagree. The types of women and men that make good marital partners do not appear on reality TV.

[@samsongomah1318]

Mindy is not all that pretty. Skeletal facial features and a few too many moles does not equal pretty.

[@genericcosplaygirl]

@@NobleAbsinthe this made me laugh way harder than I should have

[@tiaremillard4144]

I just watched this season, I felt so bad for Mindy. She seems like such a genuine person

[@lijo4518]

And this guy is a total dbag

[@retrofrontier86]

I did too. But it seems the genuine people are the ones who are often single.

[@RunGodRun]

*Mandy

[@moxiemaxie3543]

​​@@RunGodRun we're smart and know who they meant. I forget people like you weren't taught context and to read typos. Also her name is MINDY😂

[@RunGodRun]

@@moxiemaxie3543 Yes, but he called her Mandy at one point. I was making a joke based on that. Relax a bit.

[@HollyTheTwisterSister]

Omg ew I dated a man just like that once. They will drive you insane. Pure evil. Run away girl

[@Katragine]

I have a closer relationship with my doordash driver than these two have with each other.

[@danasandoval624]

Me too!!

[@Hippieskippie]

Lol 😂

[@Gh0st-t]

Me three!!! 😂

[@alessandrajackson3768]

Me four

[@sarahsmith3682]

🤣

[@bsociety4647]

She could straight up ask him, "So... You don't want to be married to me right? That's why you don't want to live together or spend any time together?" And he'd be like, "See... In this peripheral world in an attractive sense...You would like us to physically accumulate time together... Realistically..." He talks in circles to where you question if the conversation will need to be repeated multiple times and even then, you would still never get an answer...

[@MissManaged84]

Word Salad. Technique narcissists use

[@bsociety4647]

@@MissManaged84 I agree

[@jessltf3222]

“I’m angry with you and you are in trouble and I’m going to continue punishing you until you apologize, but I’m not going to tell you what I’m upset about because I expect you to figure it out for yourself” is emotional abuse straight up

[@stephy369]

Damn, it's my last ex.

[@albertmendez2262]

My question is why didn't she think to bring up the fact that he was talking to her friend during his gaslighting manuever.

[@bigwoogc]

​@@stephy369same here!

[@kaitlea403]

this woman has the patience of a saint. i wouldn’t have lasted 5 minutes with this dude lmao

[@NvrDieNvrSurrender]

Perfect example of someone who only gets by on their looks. Zero substance!

[@lisawentworth6831]

@@NvrDieNvrSurrender what looks?

[@joannewilson1483]

Your narration on this matter is hilarious I am in stitches an this fella that is on and on about nothing is he holding a job

[@raquelr8775]

@@lisawentworth6831 This

[@snowmiaow]

Really!

[@amyd2203]

This was such a brutal episode. She’s lovely and the perfect wife. He’s a festering narcissist.

[@jacksyoutubechannel4045]

Right? She's actually the _perfect_ candidate for an arranged marriage. I hope she finds someone wonderful.

[@kevins3080]

What’s the obsession with calling everyone a narcissist? He’s just not attracted to her and thus doesn’t feel like putting in the effort, he just pulls away.

[@adamlambboy8332]

⁠@@kevins3080then he should say so instead of being confusing. Say it straight up, “I only joined this show to grow my social media and unfortunately you’re caught in the middle. I’d like to pretend to stay together so we can make money and be successful after “breaking up””. It’s really not that difficult.

[@theoblongbox4909]

@@adamlambboy8332 His actions show that he's a coward and probably not a good person, but it doesn't make him a narcissist, which is a very specific psychological condition. I think that's the point their comment is making.

[@melonie_peppers]

I know someone like this who does the word salad, it's the most frustrating experience so I don't even bother anymore when they start

[@nevillelongbottom106]

he speaks the way I write my school essays.

[@HG-yo8wj]

As wackado as this guy is, can we have a conversation about her supposed friend who felt it was OK to secretly exchange phone numbers with this guy and carry on conversations with him? To me that is way worse than him being a weirdo. Yes they were married, but they were technically strangers. Her friend is somebody who she would have known her for quite a while, and who should’ve actually cared about her. Honestly, that situation was way more twisted than the marriage.

[@whitewolf9547]

Yeah I was thinking the same thing. “Ugh I talked to him this morning” like what?!?! If my friend is talking to my girl on the low then he isn’t my friend and that isn’t my girl anymore. I was hoping she called her out about it

[@giaparmer]

Thank you!!! Because she either knew what kind of guy he was, and she didn’t care or she didn’t know what kind of guy she was which means she wasn’t close enough to either of them to be building this friendship with Mindy‘s husband

[@chadjohnson6718]

That friend obviously told him something she was lying about as well.

[@misscleo378]

Maybe she did it to obtain some information about him.

[@Biggumshawty]

@@chadjohnson6718 🤡

[@unnamed5706]

I dated someone who had similar conversation style. What and exhausting 3 months that was trying to decipher every single thing he said. I'm convinced it's a tactic to make you tired and unwilling to listen so they can get away with anything or blame you later for not listening. Literally everything this guy said/did I experienced. 0/10 don't recommend. Find yourself someone who speaks what they mean and mean what they speak.

[@MissSchnickfitzel]

Its antisocial. Sometimes narcissists do the same. Or they will stay silent when you ask them questions and ignore it

[@Asianbarbie1011]

I think my ex is use to this from his previous relationship cuz when I speak direct to him it’s like he doesn’t know how to take it and then always assumes I mean something else 😒 like no I MEANT WHAT I SAID AND SAID WHAT I MEANT 😂😂😂😂😂

[@Asianbarbie1011]

@@MissSchnickfitzel my daughters father does this. And if you pressure them to answer right away it’s just bs word babble like the guy on the show 😒

[@unnamed5706]

@@Asianbarbie1011 Yes! Both your comments! Trying to get specifics out of them in that word salad mode is mission impossible.

[@Leoprincess3038]

Yup you have to nip that in the ass immediately or they'll run you in circles for HOURS!

[@lovebauer1]

the way this man assaults the integrity of language and gaslights due to his narcissistic inability to be honest with himself or others bc of deep insecurity💀 im getting PTSD from my ex

[@delloffthewall]

Everyone needs a Mindy in their life. She sees through the bs, seems fun, loyal, and is willing to try new things.

[@samsongomah1318]

I'll pass on interacting with someone who went on reality TV to marry a man they never met. I don't need hedonistic narcissists with poor decision-making skills in my life.

[@delloffthewall]

@@samsongomah1318 k

[@berserkisdead357]

​@@samsongomah1318 what up zack

[@laurailiasa5829]

You mean Mandy 😂

[@gha7376]

@@samsongomah1318 so you going to post essentially the same comment post about her? seek help

[@ElderEmo06]

This dude… “Oh look another monologue, I’m just gonna talk over it because it doesn’t matter” I almost fell over.

[@kiyavi]

It is a huge red flag for me when people use “big words” for no real reason or speak in circles to sound intelligent or deep. I immediately know I don’t want them in my life. I work at a Harvard associated hospital - I mainly copy-edit protocols written by doctors for cancer research. These are some of the top doctors in the world. NONE of them speak like this - either in person or in their academic writing. A real sign of intelligence or deep thinking is the ability to convey complicated topics in a way everyone can understand. This guy manages to explain simple things in the most convoluted way possible and it makes my head explode. 🤦‍♀️

[@gigiarmany4332]

💯💯🎯💥🔥 exactly 💥

[@aspiknf]

Not exactly. There are clever people who get to the point and use concise words without using an extended vocabulary and there are also clever people who have a large vocabulary and use convoluted ways of speaking to get a straight message across.

[@aspiknf]

Well I am not talking about the guy in the video, but I am talking about people in general.

[@ladvita32]

​@@aspiknf The comment you're replying to said it is a red flag to them and they are giving their opinion about the person in the video and comparing their behavior to people they work with. When you say "not exactly" and then state that a different scenario can happen... Sure, I mean anything anyone says we can all think up a scenario where it doesn't hold.. that's not really making a point. It's one-upping in the cheapest, laziest way possible. Sorry, not sure why I'm picking on you other than this type of rhetoric annoys me personally. I should also probably go back to bed. 🤦

[@wouternieminen844]

​@@ladvita32😂🎉

[@ZebraZoom007]

Is it normal for your friends to text your husband to build a friendship outside of you? She got a double whammy

[@banditxavier2893]

I was shocked because at first I was thinking he's in the closet.

[@cremebrulee4759]

Absolutely not. That breaks girl code and common decency. She thought they were building a relationship outside of her friend's marriage? What kind of sense does that make?

[@BYGTraining]

Exactly, I thought that too. Her friend is a snake.

[@netterz3411]

I hope she stopped being friends with that snake.

[@gigiarmany4332]

guys definetely in the closet & thinks he can talk his way out of his lack of attraction to women 😂

[@lynnschaeferle-zh4go]

This guy is great. He’s on the show as a demonstration of narcissism. If this is what he’s like in the beginning just imagine having such a liability. It’s bad enough when every decision is made through the narcissism lens but to have to deal with the brain damage too is unfortunate. Poor girl.

[@MrsEKrabappel]

I love how you thoughtfully reexamine older drama and don't always just chase the newest clips.

[@oliviavasile1763]

Thank God you made a video on this couple. Ever since I watched this season I feel like they were not nearly discussed enough- zack’s word salad will forever puzzle me. Please never stop with these videos lmao

[@saudiamerican1791]

"Word salad"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@em5keyson]

Narcissistic word salad, yeah 😂😅

[@bluebell6684]

“Yeah I’m talking over him, he’s not saying anything.” 😂

[@jacksyoutubechannel4045]

I hate that they basically gave up being serious after the first season. This is a really lovely woman, and even the basic psychological screening would _never_ have cleared this guy to participate in the first season.

[@PungiFungi]

I think they deliberately let him in because of the drama he would create. And he did not disappoint.

[@snowmiaow]

The show is sadistic. That poor woman is really trying but there was no hope with what they set up.

[@Magifa]

Zach is like ChatGPT after someone spills Pepsi on the server

[@mmatroyshka8974]

He’s like the exact opposite of D.A.N.

[@soylentgreenispeople6029]

😂😂😂

[@kdmill7563]

He’s definitely less convincing 😂

[@carriesolomonmusic]

😂😂😂👏👏👏

[@ditzygypsy]

This comment is the best!! 😂👍🏼

[@cuts240]

She is not ugly. And she takes care of herself… in fact she is above average in attraction

[@actuary33]

Zach gets 1st prize in the hall of douchebaggery

[@colettejaques2559]

She's beautiful...lol. why debate?

[@fawnieee]

She's way out of his league. He is way over estimating his appearance.

[@Origami84]

​@@fawnieee No, thats too much. She is very average, while he is clearly way beyond average. Personality wise, he is repulsive while she is normal.

[@ariplatt8192]

She is perfectly pretty and seems nice and smart. I suspect she focused too much on her career and that’s why she is not married. Or just awful luck.

[@broforcefreedom4936]

I’m so happy she called him out for making stuff up when he was trying to gaslight

[@ccb6013]

Classic example of someone who has never had to develop a personality.

[@BrandonGarcia-ec3tc]

He said exactly what his problem. He tries to find the perfect way to say things and there’s no such thing. He speaks in a way that he won’t commit to what he saying so he doesn’t have to take accountability or at least be able to redirect the convo. The most expert verbal weasel I’ve seen

[@okoala62]

You got me WHEEZING, I’m laughing so hard! “Oh great, another monologue! And yes, I’m talking over him because he’s not even SAYING anything!” LMAOOOOO😂😂😂😂

[@vallenciaga8150]

I had to watch this video twice because I started zoning out every time Zack delivers his monologues

[@JayDaReactor]

The monologues were insane to say the least

[@catherinewisniewski4333]

She’s literally so gorgeous, idk what he’s going on about saying she’s unattractive. I really hope she found someone who worships her as she deserves. Such a a shame she wasted her time on him .-.

[@felathar1985]

Guy is 100% shallow, if he got a big titty stripper looking woman he'd be drooling. On the other hand she's a gorgeous woman and a professional. If she gave me a hint I'd be all over that. Some guys are so lucky they don't even realize.

[@xuimod]

It basically boils down to he's not sure he wants to settle down. He talks in circles because he's indecisive but also isn't thoughtful with his words. His words are very cheap with very little thought behind them.

[@Mezaph]

No she's not.

[@alessandrozuffi5068]

"I think you're making up some bullshit" 100 points girl, if that void of a person had something true to say he would'va said it.

[@dezzygamer3332]

i have never laughed so hard when he said your willing to marry a whole stranger but not try new food

[@monas]

Lol

[@ImSimplyAHuman]

I got a good chuckle too. My fiancé asked if I had “any food restrictions“ before we went on our first date. We both enjoy trying new things but he had had the opposite experience in the past and it was really frustrating. Needless to say… he LOVES all food. Luckily, so do I. 😋

[@toyajackson556]

That guy is a douche but I am with him there. Picky eaters aren't attractive.

[@irisdutra5033]

She answered yes lol

[@2witty4uslayer2]

His conversations are like walking on a Treadmill. It gets nowhere

[@nothanksplease]

the second couples problems can be solved with breakfast for dinner

[@cremebrulee4759]

Genius! So simple.😊

[@nothanksplease]

@@cremebrulee4759 i thought they were really cute!!!

[@samsongomah1318]

@@nothanksplease The wife is quite attractive, but I'd never date her because she seems very stubborn and she went on a reality TV show. The latter destroys all of a person's dating value, IMO.

[@samsongomah1318]

Yes, lots of eateries serve all-day breakfast!

[@Robloxlegend49]

Yep breakfast for dinner

[@frontierjustice2816]

This guy is truly a straight shooter with upper management written all over him.

[@lijo4518]

Office Space right?? lol

[@SteveMe21685]

Interesting ending. He has an inability to self-reflect that’s why he doesn’t make any sense when speaking about it. He’s been dishonest this whole time, so since he has no self awareness he talks himself into believing that she’s the dishonest one. But he doesn’t know what she’s been dishonest about so he needs her to tell him.

[@jessp8238]

I think your absolutely correct ✅

[@Stannely1]

This guy would do great as a South African politician 🇿🇦. He deflects & dodges questions quite well and goes on tangents. He says a lot without saying a thing

[@alia.7908]

God damn! They should use this guy to get confessions in an interrogation room! I don’t know if I can finish this video and slice is the best! He’s killing me😂

[@girlinterrupted9792]

YOOOOO, SAME!!!😅 I was thinking, 'It's never taken me this long to get through one of his videos'. I'm on my THIRD break😖

[@bluebeka2458]

Do what his friends do, just space out. Go to an other planet mentaly.

[@elliedrabble7192]

I’m just reminded of Uncle Colm from Derry girls 😂

[@alia.7908]

@@girlinterrupted9792 🤣🤣🤣

[@mollybrolly4717]

I'm ONLY 3 mins in and I'm thinking about aspirin ALREADY 🤣🤣

[@co7314]

"...you trying to process the thought of me using such words..." That is a direct quote.

[@marvelprince]

Man I remember watching this season and feeling sooo bad for Mindy. She was so open and excited bout the whole process but Zach was playing games the whole time.

[@samsongomah1318]

Mindy's problem is she was "so open and excited" about marrying a man she never met, on TV to boot!

[@berserkisdead357]

​@@samsongomah1318 what it do Zach!

[@arbabe3389]

This guy is speaking in one long, never-ending run-on sentence. 14:29 the counselor guy's face says it all, his expression is a perfect picture of how it feels to listen to this guy speak and interpret what he is saying

[@NiaPgn]

Narcissists try to keep you confused. One way is with word salads. They try to attack your self esteem in little ways. They use a lot of psychological jargon like and project. They weaponize those words and concepts against you.

[@keithsanders6309]

If you are looking into this season, you need to make a video about Michael and Mikayla( The breakfast guy). That dude is a pathological liar and seeing his wife deal with it is worth the price of admission

[@DeegieBa]

YES. both of these couples made me pull my hair out. But after looking up opinions I was shocked how many people were siding with Michael. Maybe it's just because I've know pathological liars and can see it ? But wow. I was shocked.

[@NatureFreak1127]

Just judging by this short clip it kinda seemed like he was testing her boundaries. Maybe it's far-fetched, but it was my gut feeling. Anyway, I didn't see the show.

[@staceyshere]

Him and Chris (who was married to Paige) are theeeeeee worst! Whew! Absolutely did my head in

[@DeegieBa]

@@NatureFreak1127 I've watched the whole season and both of the people stayed terrible 😂 but I get what you're saying, it's never good to judge off of something so short.

[@murabula2092]

the scene where he lies about his salary might be top 5 moments in MAFS for me.

[@stanminaj1284]

Literally ever time he spoke I started to zone out 😭and he’s just going on and on and on and on it’s like it’s never ending… also thank you for the videos your content is really my safe haven 😭your sarcasm and mannerisms are so entertaining!

[@meloneemurray7547]

Your commentary is spot on. I couldn’t put into words what you so brilliantly said. Gads…poor Mindy.

[@BlueAmerican26]

Mindy seems like an honest and genuine person. I hope she finds love outside of a show like this. My brain hurt after watching this. Mindy is a champ for putting up with this shit.

[@samsongomah1318]

She has destroyed her dating value by appearing on this show.

[@jackleg6143]

@@samsongomah1318 that shit doesn’t exist “dating value.” Dumbest shit I ever read

[@berserkisdead357]

​@@samsongomah1318 hi zack

[@BlueAmerican26]

@@samsongomah1318 hello Zachery

[@TheMedicatedArtist]

What I find funny is that both couples you covered are the same level of attractive as their spouse. Not that they’re ugly, but they’re definitely stock photo attractive, not Playboy/girl attractive, ya know?

[@lulugu3]

"Stock photo attractive" is a brilliant way to put it 😂

[@Wintersnow889]

Damn lmao

[@HONGRYYYYYYYYY]

“YEAH IM TALKING OVER HIM WHO CARES” 😭😭😭 I love your commentary

[@BusinessBox13]

Dated someone exactly like this. They were attracted to me, but any time they saw someone THEY weren’t attracted to, they’d talk about how “ugly” they were. As soon as I turned it around on him like this lady did, he was dumbfounded. Like everyone just had to find the insecure mf attractive smh

[@bandito241]

“It’s a matter of building an attraction” That’s the easy part of the “relationship”. You are either attracted or you’re not. It’s that easy. Everything else is the hard part like knowing each other and accepting their true self. People don’t have to like everything about each other is about being able to live with it (I guess , I don’t know. I’m far from being a relationship guru)

[@kennedyfknalexa]

Exactly! You know your attracted to someone literally as soon as you see them

[@j3551kuh]

Couldn’t agree more

[@carolsimpson4422]

Yup. You either want to touch someone or you don't. It's the least complicated thing in the universe 😂

[@rucotomo]

"Oh great another monologue.....yea I'm talking over it! It doesn't matter! " 😂😂😂

[@lineakristensen1821]

hilarious 😂

[@Zeropainter420]

He must have learned to speak from one of those refrigerator magnet word jumbles they used to sell at Spencer’s

[@jackygil6005]

Wow Mindy is such a sweet and patient soul. She handled this whole situation with so much grace. I am such an argumentative person if someone spoke to me in this manner it would take every bone in my body for me not to tear everything they said apart and holler insults.

[@habibtiz4335]

Same , but why call us argumentative when we just stick up for ourselves 🤣

[@BB-tg3rm]

Ugh he got on my nerveeees! Lol first of all Mindy is super gorgeous. And second, who wouldn’t be attracted to the qualities she showed? Loyalty, patience, a kind understanding heart. She was willing to give him chance after chance and carried the whole “marriage”. He just didn’t want to look like a sick on TV. But the funny thing is he looked obnoxious and idiotic. 🤦🏽‍♀️ she deserved soooo much better than him

[@samsongomah1318]

'Super gorgeous'?! No way. At most, with good make-up and lighting, Mindy would rate a 6. She has skeletal facial features and way too many moles to be considered 'super gorgeous'. As far as loyalty, patience, etc., you can be sure women like Mindy have all of that in abundance for the losers they meet and date, but they would have none of that for the decent guys whom they have ignored or friend-zoned since high school.

[@jenniferwellman5311]

I think he got on a lot of peoples nerves, including mine. He was disrespectful and rude to her at almost every turn, including the whole thing with her friend with the relationship in the background that was just bizarre.

[@samsongomah1318]

@@jenniferwellman5311 100% agree with you. Dude was a complete jerk. And, to no one's surprise, he is apparently getting tons of attention from women who want to date him.

[@nla5307]

He wasn't physically attracted to her. Her qualities wouldn't have made a difference to him

[@carmellahoney3599]

super gorgeous? she's average at best.

[@AlexanderSagal]

I laugh out loud at least once in every single one of your videos. Awesome work dude.

[@musical.misfit9488]

" Evaporated milk?? who does that?" the breakfast order was hella funny. Also he subbed his english muffin for white bread, who does that??

[@fiasco18]

Nah you gotta show more of Michael and Meka. He kept lying about having a job. Said he’s a yoga instructor but he’s actually the janitor 😂

[@redtrinitygirl]

OMG he was so annoying yet I kinda felt sorry for him, it was like his trap!!

[@trinityrhino]

This is so hilarious. You gradually getting more annoyed with the word salad guy. Just so funny 😂😂

[@CaBobProductions]

Word salad is a behavior people with Narc PD employ to confuse their victims and get out of stuff. Color me shocked THIS man would exhibit signs of narcissism, phew, blow me over 😅

[@bobc2032]

That ending was a masterpiece. I really didn’t expect him to go out legit make up something and still manage to say NOTHING

[@pb7133]

Yeah, what the hell was he making up about her? Lol

[@StrawberryNinjaNibbles]

There’s no way he isn’t a narcissist lol complete word salad all the time He lacks depth

[@Vergil666.]

I finally understand the phrase "he talked for hours/minutes but never actually said anything"

[@p-rima-la]

I was SO frustrated watching this season. Mindy was so sweet and I really wanted a happy ending for her. But it looks like lately she’s moved, has been traveling, and enjoying life!

[@samsongomah1318]

People who want happy endings should not go on reality TV and marry strangers.

[@p-rima-la]

@@samsongomah1318 The same could be argued for everyone. Zach chose to marry a stranger too. The point is if he knew he wasn’t attracted to her or didn’t think they were compatible, he could have left her alone and ended the marriage much earlier. He was an attention seeker who wanted camera time.

[@berserkisdead357]

​@@p-rima-la what you said are Facts!

[@berserkisdead357]

​@@samsongomah1318 yooo Zach!

[@samsongomah1318]

@@p-rima-la They are all attention seekers who wanted camera time. No doubt both Zach and Mindy played along because they were under contract and had a season to fill. Impossible to know what is real and what is fake.

[@skullbones6282]

Your commentary around this guy made me laugh so much, thank you! I don't usually laugh at any youtube videos.

[@cadavher]

He just didn't want to look bad on TV. If there was no film crew, and a producer asked him if he found her attractive, he wouldn't word salad, he'd be honest.

[@mpazinambao2938]

'Babe, how do you take your Hortons?' that line killed me!

[@tahnaiyarussell]

@13:14 Hahahahahha "Yeah I'm talking over it, it doesn't matter, he's not even saying anything" so true 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@djsusiequ2422]

I’ve been attracted to guys that weren’t physically my type; but I’ve also not felt attraction to those who were- it’s so complicated

[@Chynal1186]

I remember this guy. This was a stressful season to watch, not just because of him.

[@alexis-marie_9920]

MONTRE !!!

[@markharrison6498]

The only thing this guy is attracted to is his own reflection

[@n.t.495]

I know people like him (Zach) who grew up in homes where it wasn't ok to just say what you thought or needed. So it meant they spoke in long, walking-on-eggshells conversations, fearing to be direct because they'll get in trouble.

[@ChristinaFromYoutube]

Growing up in abusive homes will create abusers more often than not. Its really sad but sympathy toward bad childhoods will get you emotionally destroyed or even literally killed.

[@n.t.495]

@@ChristinaFromKZbin, I agree entirely. It's possible to be sympathetic and hold people accountable for their actions. It's a context, not an excuse.

[@SnowsStorm1]

While I wholeheartedly agree with the OP and thought it was quite an interesting observation, I thoroughly disagree with the response. As someone who grew up in an abusive home I would argue that the experience tends to produce extremes, that the person either repeats the experience or they go in the exact opposite direction and become one of the kindest people you would ever want to meet. Case in point: ME lol. (And ironically I would say that the same applies to psychiatrist too.) I think it's a question of whether they recognized how unhealthy and fucked up their situation was, how much they cared about it and how brave they were capable of being, and whether they did the work. Do we still have the occasional bad impulse or hear what I would call the messed up inner dialogue in their about how a situation is playing out? Yeah and I could give an example if you wanted it, but in the interest of some sort of brevity(I know,too late) it may take us a lifetime of trying to erase the damage, but in doing so those scars often become your greatest strength. a narc always instinctively knows what makes a person tick and what matters to someone so they know just how to make them hurt and as as someone raised by a narc I can tell you I often know all those same things, but because I have done the work that knowledge has made me incredibly empathetic. When you talk to me I don't just hear you, I will feel what you are telling me, esp if I like you and in knowing what it feels like to have been hurt in a thousand different ways I also go out of my way not to cause anyone any pain. I may struggle with balance and I may get challenged by the types of people that keep coming at you even when your trying to walk away from a bad situation but I honestly hate hurting people.

[@imell372]

very well said

[@kevins3080]

He’s just not attracted to her - end of story

[@Ackdaddy100]

I think the whole reason that there is an issue is the perplexity on the common grounds that there are too many vicarious indignations that circumvent the situational awareness of the fact that there are impertinent synonyms in the conversations as a whole leading to misrepresentations which cause a multitude of contentious issues.

[@danielx555]

Clarity!

[@purplepenny7977]

😂

[@Zintlle]

My head hurts 🤣

[@miafa1732]

She is smart and seems to be very honest and to have good emotional intelligence. Hope she sees this and we can all back her up she was definitely right about her gut feeling that he only talks bullshit and never was interested. Hope she won’t let any of this experience get any deeper to her thoughts

[@MsJ3mmA]

Your sense of humor is simply amazing! 🤭 I love all of your videos! Keep up the great work ~👍

[@TheQuickSlice]

Thank you!! 😁

[@LarfIeeze]

@@TheQuickSlice make more videos faster🧍🏽‍♂️🗿

[@LarfIeeze]

@@TheQuickSlice go fest

[@mary5305j]

Let me just say she is BEAUTIFUL and so calm and patient 😂😂 girl run!!

[@samanthaamin1378]

he's the kind of guy that has nothing to offer but his look. that's why he's insecure and always needs for validation about his look. probably stems from his upbringing

[@laurablue7893]

Your dry delivery of amazing lines just kills me 😂😂😂

[@shocknawe]

HOLY SHIT. That ending. That transparent "I'm really trying to gaslight you right now really hard, can you PLEASE give me a bs argument because I can't even make one up by myself."

[@scottrgarland]

I've watched almost every season of Married at First Sight and straight up.. the "match makers" are HORRIBLE at their jobs, it's a train wreck every season. Everything "match" they make is sooo surface level.

[@lanayrugorge]

Think that’s the point for tv

[@heyitsvonage2768]

This is one of the most diabolical seasons of Married at First Sight. Having Zach the Maze Talker and Michael the Liar in one season is crazy.

[@nicoleackerman205]

Brandon and Taylor, liar Michael, liar Katie, and Zach.

[@ShimaS-0079]

Maze Talker Scorch Trials. Youll never survive the scorch

[@ShannonRD1990]

I dated someone like him. He would use a million words yet make no sense. It was frustrating

[@poshdelux]

Holly shit. The first 7 minutes my brain cells just packed up and fuked right off on the first flight to North Pole . It’s like a brain freeze or stroke. Yes just like you said lol

[@TYRANTToneZ]

That last part was probably the most infuriating thing I've seen on any of these shows. How he gaslights her and didn't even tell her wtf he's talking about. Saying "just think about it" so fuckin smugly... I absolutely hate it

[@marlameans5960]

This guy would be the best door to door salesman. I’d pay him so much money to leave 😂 just take my money, give me the product, and stop talking in circles

[@vanessa9024]

“ Yeah I’m talking over it, it doesn’t even matter.” 😂 lolololololo 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@frostnova2144]

Girl looks like the beautiful housewife in every other sitcom. While this dude is not only full of himself but thinks he's smarter than he is, every word that comes out of his mouth is an attempt to manipulate especially at the end, truly gave me borderline sociopath