THE MARRIAGE MASTERCLASS - Mufti Menk Interviews Sister Maryam Lemu

[@aphr0d]

Wow this is so interesting. I'm glad marriage classes and counseling is becoming big, and even for muslims before they get married! This is such a great way to stay on the path of what's halal, instead of figuring out for ourselves. Masha Allah.

[@ifrahjama2215]

Yeah mashaa'Allah

[@4.6lexus83]

Mufti Menk is a great brother doing lot of excellent work helping us all with his beneficial knowledge and positive attitude. We need more Muslim brother and sisters like this.

[@ullabrittsalomonsson1105]

Assalamualeikum love you To for the sake of Allah

[@warriorlion9818]

Masallah,really

[@greengre4689]

Marriage classes is a great idea. I think most muslims dont have enough marriage skills needed to have a great marriage. Seeing a marriage counselor as a couple for a couple years I think would also be very helpful.

[@Ilovemd-p3f]

We didn't know anything , just got married, then have issues and don't know how to deal with it, our parent's didn't know either, culture issues etc.

[@lathi7659]

Specially the men! Lol. Forgive me but brothers need classes

[@Elimawrk]

assalamualaikum Mufti Menk I hope you see this comment and I wanted to tell you that I really love your videos and you helped me a lot through out these years and I'm really happy and I'm hoping that I become someone just like you Insha'Allah

[@yonosupri879]

Instead of hey. Use Assalamualaikum instead

[@azen036]

People are deliberately kept ignorant regarding their rights so they can be easily manipulated and controlled. We need more such videos, talks and courses!

[@khalidanoor6085]

Marriage is already predetermined by Allah and on this earth people find out their perfect match in many different ways- parents search the perfect match for their children. Marriage or Nikah is between two person who are equal in their thoughts, education, looks, likes And dislikes, And many things that should concern a marriage. Decision of marriage is very crucial in one's life and One should be very Alert while being agree to get married with anyone, otherwise one wrong decision will spoil the whole life. May Allah bless us with a loving And caring life partner. Ameen

[@asiyasparkles]

Assalamu alaykom wa rahma'tullah wa barakatuh, parents should search out suitable potential partners, but often, family first [last and always...at the expense of the needs / rights of their children]. Parents should facilitate marriage, but often stand like a brck wall between what their child has expressed they would like, and I have even known of parents who have coerced their children into marrying the person the parents desire - at the absolute cost of thier child's emotional and mental and sometimes physical wellbeing. May Allah grant us all hedayah. ameen.

[@perfectmatchmarriagebureau9058]

Aslaamualaykum to All brothers and sisters reading this comment. Firstly I would like to congratulate and thank Mufti Menk on his fabulous work.Your videos have really inspired me and I have learnt so much - you explain everything SO clearly! Mashallah. Secondly, I would like to thank Sister Maryam for compiling such a fabulous course it is much needed in the Muslim community. I actually run a marriage bureau in the UK on a part-time basis and come across so many clients who have such high expectations for their spouse but don't look at what they are offering in return. 🤔 the amount of barriers we face in this line of work can become extremely frustrating (!) especially when people forget the true meaning of why Allah taalah has encouraged us to marry in the first place. Marriage is truly an amazing bond between two individuals...its a shame people don't treat it with seriousness. I wish you all the best with this initiative and jazakallah Mufti sahib for inviting sister Maryam on your video. May Allah taalah grant you both success Ameen.

[@latifabargir8852]

Assalamalaikum i am looking for a suitable match for my daughter she is a medical graduate mashaallah from Mumbai India ,but she intends to move to UK and do MRCOG from there but we wish that it would be more proper if she finds a good spouse and settle with him rest InshaAllah whatever ALLAH WILLS please reply if you can help or give your email id

[@SH-qr7tw]

Jazakallahukhairun for the guest of sister Maryam sheikh mufti

[@rihanasalahudeen8267]

It’s a great thing we can learn what is marriage and how it works in sha Allah

[@nasifahalalade1485]

How can this video be liked more than once??? 😩 May Allah bless them both

[@skguy3960]

Ma shaa Allah! For this beautiful initiative, we really need marriage counselling classes for all marriage groups ie pre marriage , intra marriage and post marriage counsellings that will reduce numbers of divorces in the Muslim society which is very very common cos' lack knowledge of what they expect in the marriage institute that results to many young female divorcees in the society especially in the northern part of Nigeria... I hope Islamic jurisdiction will make marriage counselling it compulsory. MARYAM lemu we are very proud for the good work you are doing.

[@ThisisMila]

Two months ago I left my abusive husband’s house because of an argument we had. He slapped me like 3 times and I threatened him that I will kill him if he touches me again. He called his parent and told them I said I will kill him and then 4 of his family members came over to our house and we all left to his father’s house. We got there and they asked him what happened and all he said was he has nothing to say and that he doesn’t want me as his wife again and he went ahead to say that he doesn’t want any idda because he was scared that I can kill him, acting all innocent as if I am a bad person when he is the abuser. His dad asked if they can pay me off since his son doesn’t the idda. At that moment my heart dropped and felt very sorry for myself. All his fathers reaction showed that he wanted his son to divorce me moreover they didn’t want the marriage in the first place which I even got to know after the marriage. We concluded and i went to my parents house and everything happened in the absence of my family and up until now non of his family has called my family. We have a 4 year old daughter and I take care of her all by myself provide for her paid for her school literally everything and her dad has never sent a penny now he wants her to come and spend the weekend with him. To be honest am scared because he has threatened me before that I would never see my daughter again and that was an argument we had sometime ago and I had to go to my parents which his family refused to give me my child but I the end I was able to take her along. To be honest I’m scared and am not trying to separate her from her dad but the idea of her going to live with for the weekends scares me. Please put me in your prayers

[@webley1529]

Yes but keep reciting astagfar & لا اله الا انت سبحانك إني كنت من الظالمين

[@ansarisana7691]

May Allah make it easy for you sister.... ameen ya rabbul aalamin

[@MissSraG]

Does your country have not any protective laws? In our country he would be obliged to pay for his daughter

[@Mashallahxd]

Please don’t let him I am scared to he can Visit your home

[@Mashallahxd]

Keep astaqfar insha Allah

[@saifsayeed6249]

Sister Maryam lemu , mashallah you are doing a great work on humanitarian basis may Allah bless you with his mercy.

[@RoukayaSaid_kindya3]

Alhamdullillah, i saved that video to learn more. It is always a pleasure to listen from mufti menk and learn more about our deen. May allah bless whoever watches the video and ease your affairs in this dunya and akhirah. May allah keep you in his mercy and love 🤲🏾

[@Anaya301]

Assalam.o.alaikum! I have been watching ur videos from three weeks. I just started it for English learning purpose but I am completely fallen in love of ur speeches and personality as well. Mahshallah you are so good looking and also such a great person. Lots of love from Pakistan💕

[@eemanindoji3253]

This is a collaboration the world needed, i relate so much to some of the topics and am glad i have a guide to see me through, jazakumullahu khair

[@fakhriaalam5519]

Brilliant work, for me I can say the age and life experience already gave me alot of lessons and alhamdulellah now am aware of all these points she mentioned, but still would enrol and get benefit of the discount also.But it is definitely best for girls and boys in their early 20s, I wish I truly wish I had knew all these things in my early 20s, But alhamdulellah everyone has its own journey and taqdir of Allah and his plans are always the best. @muftiMenk jazakallah for sharing it on your platform.

[@abdulkadirnagib9639]

MashaAllah MashaAllah MashaAllah ustadha maryam may Allah bless your family and the whole muslim ummah

[@Hauwraa]

Maa shaa Allah, this is an amazing going promotion of marriage with an Islamic point of view. May Allah s.w.t reward your time abundantly Aameen Jazakallahu khair

[@Hauwraa]

Wallahi the amount is so reasonable and okay just that most of us who want to join don't really have the means to do so.

[@Hauwraa]

Aameen aameen Jazakallahu khair to Mufti Menk and Maryam Lemu to be frank, growing up I always put it in mind that marriage was all about telling yourself its an ibadah and u stick to it but recently, with friends around getting married, aunties and so on I realised that it is more than that and we NEED to be lectured upon it as a whole. May Allah S.W.T bless you abundantly Allahumma Aameen thumma Aameen

[@hossainasiya8325]

Oh so sweet Aunty n her all speeches makes my morning different feelings, good different alhamdulillah. I like her so much masaallah. ♥️ It's for the Aunty........

[@natukundaagiri1117]

Both you are great teachers May Almighty Allah reward you.

[@MuhammadAuwalIshaq]

❤️

[@BiliMaffy]

May Allah reward you both for the incredible work you're doing. Barakallahu feekum. Sister Mariam Lemu has become a voice to reckon with in our country and breaking the taboo of not speaking up or seeking counsel about marriage in our society. Culture has eroded so many permissible acts of Nikkah that people can't tell the difference apart. This is a laudable concept and may Allah bring harmony to homes of our brethren.

[@tobiandtribe]

Amin.

[@abdinasirceegaag3689]

Manshalah great interesting story am still not get mariage am who looking alhamdulilah I hope best couple inshalah am getting a lot of benefits this video jazakalahu khyar sheikh mufti and maryam

[@k.acharmy3826]

Maa Shaa 'Allah 🥰 Jazakum-ul-Lah Khairan for this video. It's never too late, but wished this was available before my marriage too. This was the type of knowledge and experience I have always been searching for. AlhamdulilLah, now that Allah SWT made it possible for me come across this, I shall make best use of it for my current marriage and third marriage. This is the humble brother asking about "Secret Marriage or Nikah" proposal from some sisters back in 2019 at the London Lecture on Relationship. Wassalaam.

[@Malik-sw6th]

Mashaallaha.. This is a very good thing. And in most of the cases Muslims don't follow the marriage rules that are in quran .. It is a great opportunity for those who yet want to marry . God bless u both that are doing such a great work ❤️❤️❤️❤️. Plz always keep us in your prayers.. ❤️❤️

[@noraisaesmail5767]

May Allah guide all if us to the right path Aameen

[@Bushra0152]

Hey Brother and sister please pray for Cosuin he's in serious condition in hospital may allah give him a life he's in hospital I haven't been able to be like before beuase he was like my little bro cant keep him behind it's really heartbreaking may allah give his family a sabr ameen yallah Help us all and forgive the sins we did in our past 😣💔

[@adrianflanigan7379]

May Allah heal him and return to even better health than before his condition, ameen!

[@Bushra0152]

@@adrianflanigan7379 they have him in hospital just for 14 hours its been 1 day he hasn't heal just hope allah listens to his mum crying 😣💔 he was like my litte bro I miss him cant keep him behind please tell everyone u know to keep ahmed in ur prayers

[@vThugxo]

Ameen 💔

[@englishspeakingacademy4212]

May Allah the Almighty cure him and return him in a better condition and make him useful to his family and all ummah.

[@vThugxo]

@@englishspeakingacademy4212 jazakallahs khair please let your family and friends know to keep him in his prayers we really need duas that's it

[@lifewithzee8807]

Ma shaa Allah! Love this tandem. Allah bless you both my beloved Islamic speaker.

[@nafisatuamoahahmed3218]

Ma Sha Allah. Jazaka Allahu kharain my mentors. Shukran

[@Usmaniyyah]

Ma Sha Allah, very interestin. Jazakumullahu kairan.

[@hodanhassan7705]

Subhanaallah, i was searching thus sister after watching one video of her motivation talk with no title or link. Jizakumulh khair

[@dawudaal-amin5825]

Masha'Allah What an amazing conversation and lots of lessons to learn from. May Allah bless you and sister Maryam and the Ummah at large 🙏

[@00l80]

Aameen

[@michelleyamazaki7118]

MAY ALLAH BLESS YOU MUFTI MENK, THANKS FOR SHARING SUCH A USEFUL VIDEO, AND MAY ALLAH BLESS OUR BEAUTIFUL SISTER MARYAM LEMU

[@00l80]

that's dedication she got in her work. and Subhanallah now I kinda feel motivated to my school work. May Allah Bless Sheikh Mufti Menk and Maryam Lemu Aameen

[@safiadagomber3905]

Ameen thuma Ameen

[@ifrahjama2215]

Aameen

[@ipokiller2g940]

Love to see this more for the Muslims and non Muslims as well

[@medstudy_]

Masha’Allah this is a great topic, my cousins need to see this ; they are only after the ideal marriageable age set by society and people that’s literally 25 or 26 or less for women and 27 or 28 for men , they’re not even mature or mentally ready ; only insecure about society as a result the marriage fails.

[@iknows4693]

MashaAllah Allah shikh you are doing amazing wa Jazakallah Khair

[@zm1286]

Thats really good one!!we need to have counselling sessions before getting married.hamdulillah and great job sister Maryam.May Almighty bless you all🤲😊

[@drmunazzah]

subhanAllah 👏👏👏 you're a living legend in this era, high time that we need to normalize these kind of healthy interactions with the opposite gender , fulfilling purpose of both deen and duniya , setting the correct trends for our ummah, 👏👏💯

[@ShinOrashi]

I'm a revert of about a year now, and I moved to LA last month to do social work, but I'm also at that stage in my life where I'm also looking to marry (I'm 26) I have no friends or family here, so it's been hard to make new connections. May Allah make it easy for me to find a good spouse here in LA.

[@saminakamal9775]

Im looking for a revert to but age between 50 to 55

[@djamalmegari6891]

@@saminakamal9775 may allah subhanahu wa taala realize your wish and have a happy life.

[@saminakamal9775]

@@djamalmegari6891 Aameen

[@ifrahjama2215]

Ameen

[@awajallow1003]

MashaaAllah ❤ thanks for sharing Mufti Menk! She's is amazing 👏 May Allah grant you both goodness 🙏

[@thesheepinwolfsclothing6235]

Shukran mufti menk, jazakallahu khairn

[@nasuha9381]

Realistic expectation,fullfill each other rights on correct manner,getting marry for the right reason with guide Al-Quran/Al-sunnah,investigate the person before marry

[@warriorlion9818]

Allahu Akbar, alhamduliallah,Masallah, may our creator grant us forgiveness light and understanding and increase us in knowledge ameen may our creator bless and protect this uncle of ours mufti menk and anti lemu and their families until judgement day and we too ameen ameen ameen

[@ifrahjama2215]

Aameen

[@mukasaphatinah4595]

Since marriage is apart of the praises to Allah,may Allah make it ease to all of us as the believers of the umma and bless us all with the best of it's climax right from the start yarabbi.

[@Bash-xc2xt]

Asalam aleikum warahumatulilah Alhamdulillah for multi menk for this topic

[@janettemccuien4249]

I REALLY ENJOYED THIS DISCUSSION!

[@saifullahilarat3826]

Great work Jazakallahu Khairan

[@corazoncubano5372]

This is so necessary. Many enter into marriage with the incorrect ideas and expectations.

[@helppeople923]

جزاكم الله خيرا أحسن الجزاء يا شيخ

[@3boys1family]

Very good points, jazakum Allahu khairan!

[@michellechabikwa3469]

Thank you so much Mufti Menk and sister Maryam

[@Drop-of-Knowledge]

May Allah Al-Mighty make it easy for our young generation and help them to get married halal way. Masha'a Allah. .

[@ifrahjama2215]

Ameen

[@aa3danimation]

*اللّٰہ کا بنایا ہر انسان بہترین ہے* 💯✨😇✌️ *کمی تو لوگوں کی سوچ اور نظروں میں ہے* 💔🙂.

[@rabiali5775]

Jazakallahu khairan Masha Allah

[@bukolaomotoso2050]

This is great....may Allah be pleased with you and reward you in multiple folds 🙏

[@Peacefull946]

I will watch it when I finished my class 👍

[@fatmatakpandeyenge7565]

Allahamduliliah. This's good. May Allah guide us throughout..

[@aminaismail9736]

MASHA ALLAH...BARRAKALLAH TAA'ALLAH...THIS IS GUD LESSON...MAY ALLAH BLESS YOU...WE WANT THAT ❤️❤️❤️

[@mukasaphatinah4595]

Jazakhallah khairu Ameen

[@DM-oq4ko]

Thanks mufti for sharing this with us

[@obasogieokundia2815]

MashAllah tabarak Allah, May Almighty Allah Bless our marriage and make Our husbands and children to be the best and the coolest of our eyes Ameen ya rabbi.🤲🤲🤲🕋🕋🕋🏵🌹🌺🌸🌻🌼💐

[@nashvap4550]

My parents relationship is going harsh from many years. So I am afraid to get married, I am scared that I might hurt my feelings and my patners. And can't set a ideal relationship for my future child. like my parents.

[@afaqmansour3739]

It is such a difficult situation that you are in, but know that your actions are not predetermined based off of your parents actions. Do your part by learning and healing, and ask Allah SWT to make you the best you can be! Make Dua to have someone that matches you in a way that makes your life and their better together than when you are alone. I believe in your ability to be an amazing partner and parent 💗

[@fluffypancakes9359]

Asalamu alykum. I hope you are well. InshaAllah your parents marriage get better. InshaAllah you'll get a righteous person to marry. Asalamu Alykum

[@ifrahjama2215]

Jazarkhallah khair sheikh mufti much needed 💜😊😊😊😊😊👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾and sister maryam❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊

[@zahramohammed4999]

Mashaallah Mashaallah is good idea Mashaallah is very important job keep going inshaallah allah gonna helps you

[@MrsReshoe]

Allahumma Amien Allahumma Bariek Djazak Allahu ghair

[@MissSraG]

I would love to enroll because I don't think I know what I expect from a marriage and marriage itself is not a very luring notion to me seeing all the unhappy marriages around me. I also think I am thinking of getting married for the wrong reasons so I think enrolling in this would be a great idea. Hopefully the payment via PayPal is available as I don't have a credit card and therefore I couldn't take the eman channel courses either. I am also wondering how to convince the person you're going to marry to take these classes as well? I dont think this works if only one party does it.

[@fathiagood3043]

Mashallah good job sister I hope this is going to be help all Muslim in Ishallha 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

[@anasquranworld8687]

Aslamualiukum wrahamtullahi wabrakathuhu mufti. A very good class jazkallah khair

[@prepforjannah8738]

Salute to Mufti Sahab

[@fatumaali5325]

I need to enrolled please how can I connect

[@tamaanshire9989]

Asalamu calaykum yaa ikhwatii im an educated man and in my community we follow an ancient rules and they don't believe love but just a marriage so how can I come up with something that can make them feel better into relationships

[@RAR-Institute]

Masha'Allah, well done

[@AbdulRazzaq-pf8ne]

Fantastic video. ...... Love from india

[@namwanjejackie4884]

May God protect us all 🙌🙏

[@ifrahjama2215]

Ameen

[@sullaymanmansaray681]

May Allah bless you more

[@TheEmdadhossain]

Yes... Me too have a very loooong wish list...

[@tamannaparvin8528]

Alhamdulillah! Its a jem for the youth

[@foziabibi3220]

Jzk u talk about v important top bless u somthing v different hope it will help everyone en shaa Allah

[@baquetsartbakeryllc]

I would like to get married Insha'Allah

[@ladymaerys5446]

Thank you for this nice video. I would love to join the course. It would be so nice if other payment possibilities were possible, like paypal or something. I can't join the course, because I have no credit card

[@mohammedshajias9519]

Pray for all people who are suffering from many diseases and help them

[@azrabegumabdulmannan808]

Ma sha Allah! This is a beneficial one. May the Almighty reward you both. Aameen.

[@fatmaharr3183]

Allah gives me job Allah gives me job 🙏

[@majestic6303]

It’s important to do halal dating with consent of your parents of course. - Be careful as people put their best self out (real life they selfish/bad) there while getting to know you. Pray istiqara always that Allah shows you their true character.

[@deenshabier7204]

What is halal dating

[@oula89]

Asalamu alaykum, how can we contact you sheikh?

[@asiyatuabdulkareem1857]

الله يبارك فيها 🙏💯

[@hafsasuleiman4073]

Maa shaa Allah tabarakallah jazakallahu khairan please how can I get to join her platforms I'm in Saudi Arabia

[@aribakhan4806]

I am facing loads of hardships in getting married n i really don't how to come out of this I don't know what to do i am so hopeless right now

[@purplelove3666]

Same here sis. Stay strong sis.

[@aribakhan4806]

@@purplelove3666 let's make dua for each other

[@mufidaaslam7647]

Good one as we know nowadays the divorce case arising more we need these classes.👏

[@amalsheikh8697]

ماشاءالله تبارك الله Where were you Maryam Lemu??? I wish having premarital counseling is made mandatory lol Alhamdulilah it’s never too late to join these classes for those who are married too 🥰 May Allah bless you Maryam and Mufti Menk.

[@momohaidara1521]

Nigeria

[@ifrahjama2215]

Ameen

[@hengpowers6511]

May Allah reward you

[@dawahspeakers]

good to see you mufti ismail menk, that you are wearing right button stich shirt. ALLHUMDULILLAH

[@sadaf1482]

What do you meannn?

[@dawahspeakers]

@@sadaf1482 dear sister wearing button strip over left hand is SUNAT E MUSTAHAB

[@aj__love5919]

JazakAllah😊

[@ajajatta6967]

Mashallah sister ❤️❤️🙌💯

[@percyhajee1420]

MashaAllah.Alhumdulillah

[@sarahgarrett1850]

As-Salaam Alaikum

[@mahanisjames9351]

Wa Salaam Aliukum My Sister I am not marry but want to get marry I am older now there's a Sunnah Muslim brother I like. My name is Sister Mahanis Farah Deem James

[@MsZiaurrahman]

As Salam alaikum WA Rahmatullah WA Barkatu please Dua my loans clear please Dua and help me for my loan clear

[@maazafridi2515]

I have very serious issues. I want to talk to mufi Mike. It's about me and my husband.

[@jamiuajasa2006]

Nice one sister, may Allah rewards you for this program. Infact a lot of people would benefit from the program, most of especially our young guys in Nigeria that doesn't know what marriage is all about and for some young sister that run into marriage without knowing anything about it.

[@aminah761]

I pray Allah bless me with a husband soon I’m 41 and single it’s such a hardship being single

[@sadaf1482]

Insha'Allah you will get married soon to the best man for you. AMEEN

[@hassanochidi7269]

Amin kun fayakuun 🤲🙏

[@ifrahjama2215]

Ameen may Allah make it easier for you

[@dom3073]

Do u have children?