The Mind Of Shane Dawson | Kati Morton

[@davidpugh1068]

THE POWER DUO IS BACK

[@Katimorton]

Yay! Woot woot!! xoxo

[@D4N4Y4]

YAASSSS

[@rosief3675]

remember me when you're famous david

[@conversationswithkat5710]

I learn so much every single time I watch you two!

[@Ashley_Mo]

Kati Morton You’re such an angel Kati. We are so lucky for Shaney to have a friend like you. Thank you.❤️

[@Katimorton]

To all my Deaf and HOH friends, the Closed Captions for this video will be available this evening! Sorry for the delay :)

[@gabbiefulton8604]

Kati Morton Thank you for informing me Kati. I am almost completely deaf in both of my ears.

[@-north-2688]

Kati Morton Can I have some advice? (Im 11) recently I’ve been experiencing psychotic symptoms and i dont want to tell my Mum in fear of going to a doctor (I also have Anxiety)

[@laylenhope9327]

Joe Northcott the best thing you could do is going to a doctor because they are trained to help and it can be scary but it’s beyond worth it because you can get better.

[@laceymaxwell3519]

Thank you so much for captions!!!

[@radomane]

There is a very bad hiss on the right side of the audio

[@chloestylinson]

Kati, I’m not sure if you remember, but my name is chloe and you were my therapist (a group therapy for teens) when I was a kid. I just wanted to say I’m so proud of how far your channel has come!

[@Ricki_Raquel]

How cool is that? Lucky. I wish she was my therapist. Haha.

[@chloestylinson]

Ricci Ryan she was awesome. I knew her at a really tough time in my life so I’d like to get in contact with her and just let her know how far I’ve come and how happy I am now.

[@Specia1KidsUnite]

OMG AWWWWWW

[@retromoonie]

I don’t know why but this comment made me tear up

[@nataliaalicja6010]

chloe jagger I hope she sees this 🙂

[@michaellalum9803]

Shane I’m a psych major and I’m so grateful you introduced me to Kati’s channel. This series had an overall great positive effect on me individually

[@PsychChatwithNikki]

Michaella Lum it’s amazing what we can do with a strong support system 💜

[@Katimorton]

Awe yay!! I am so glad Michaella!!! xoxo

[@alyssaziegler28]

Actually same

[@faithremington]

How is DREW doing?!😩😩😩😩

[@Boogalolover]

Hes been taking a lonnnggg break for his mental health i think.

[@issabbg3891]

Faith Remington that’s who I thought he was talking about tbh

[@jadeparis7261]

Miss my baby Drew

[@lisbethsalander6769]

Faith Remington yes!!!!

[@ChronoIllogical0405]

The Mind of Drew Monson

[@mykittiespuppy1972]

Shane. For the sake of your own sanity please don't do Logan. At least not for awhile if ever. Every video I've seen you in since the JP series makes my heart bleed for how drained you are. Don't let other people's desire for tea drive you crazy. Most of the people requesting that content aren't coming from the same place you are when you're deciding to make it. You already seem burnt out and it seems like having a casual conversation or interview or anything on film is difficult for you right now and I just hope that you don't get sucked into all this energy at the expense of your wellbeing.

[@Enragedcoconuts]

i think he should do the logan series but in time

[@GypsyRock]

MyKindOfCrazy this^^^^^^👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻

[@MsNoPixel]

MyKindOfCrazy he’s already said he doesn’t wanna do Logan because he’s 1 scared of Logan & 2 has had enough of that family lol

[@Geethasupriyavallivedu2401]

That first line I agree with it 👌one hundred percent

[@Ennello]

Nope, he'll def never see this XD

[@PRoseLegendary]

This video reminded me of a quote I love: "Nobody dared go near the tower. A fearsome dragon sat on its top. Until one day, a knight rode up and asked "Do you need help to get down?" The dragon responded "Yes please."

[@justmeemi6350]

THAT is the best quote I have ever seen ...

[@hyv_lth]

PRoseLegendary it's such a beautiful quote ❤

[@ConstellationNails]

I love this and will be using this in my life. Thank you for this!

[@lesleysmith9122]

you're gonna get your ass burned

[@tashaclark813]

Omg I'm gonna cry

[@MaddieeLunn]

The best part of your videos is the way you look at people when they are talking. Your face says it all, you are truly listening and caring about the person.

[@Katimorton]

Awe thanks Maddie :) xoxo

[@gracedalgleish9804]

Maddie McDonnell Kati is such a calming person too

[@aimee-leigh514]

I don’t feel like Shane made it a horror movie at all. That’s his style of editing, I actually love it. It’s fun, also makes it more interesting in a way and makes you want to come back for more.

[@jammiedodgers13]

@Elisa Castro I see it as more tongue in cheek. I don't think it's (entirely) 'you need to think this is scary, so here's a scary noise', but more sarcastic. That's why half the time it will be an over dramatic boom and the other half Shane looking shocked and then bursting out laughing.

[@herooftime36795]

I'm gonna be honest, I didn't even notice the music in the other videos because I was focused on listening to the content of the video. I think it would have been AWKWARD to record it and NOT add the music to it. But that's just me. Lol.

[@isabellaknight]

hahaha i feel you dooooood also hahahaha egotisticalsidecomment: i just uploaded a video reacting to kati and shane’s reflection- i feel like influencers like them are creating such a positive impact and change on social media, and i decided to record my perspective on that in the form of a 5 minute summary that is currentttllyyy on my channel! if you have a few minutes give it a watch for me- i want to impact more people the way they do, our society needzitttt

[@empressallyson8323]

Dayle Simpson yeah same, it actually made me more into it. Just like EVERY. SINGLE. MOVIE/TV SHOWS. They all add music, especially documentaries like these. It’s just the way editing goes.

[@chouji08]

I know I'm just used to the typical KZbin dramatic background music.

[@carolinetaylor7534]

I didn't "notice" it but it definitely added to the scenes/swayed the emotions felt. This video here had no music and it seemed a lot more "real" while also feeling like it was maybe lacking something since there was no music.

[@callieanne662]

AGREED

[@joecelyntorres5241]

I am from Shanes channel and I always wanted to be a therapist but I didn’t want to have to go through the years and years of school but when I found your channel I realize the passion that I have and the knowledge that I will get would totally be worth it so I actually signed up for school recently to pursue my dream of helping people.

[@knittingggg326]

Joecelyn Torres Good luck! 🌞

[@meganwebb3145]

Joecelyn Torres congratulations! It will get hard but stick with it, it’ll be worth it in the end!

[@Helen-sw6ef]

Joecelyn Torres I’ve recently started studying towards becoming an art therapist and it’s amazing. It will change you (for the better) so don’t do it unless you’re willing and prepared to change but it’s honestly amazing, pursue that dream!

[@jess78037]

i start going to college for children and adolescent counseling psychology in august and i’m beyond excited to start helping people

[@spreadlove8981]

I wish you the best of luck

[@kriisiscool]

i really hate that you both were getting hate for the series. it makes me upset because you guys didn’t deserve it.

[@Katimorton]

Awe thanks Kacey :) xoxo

[@Matthew_mcmahon20]

Kati Morton True! I’m happy that you both continued despite some hate

[@solala1312]

Kati Morton I never paid for it and still was so fucking entertained. please never stop producing videos because of haters. we love you ♥️

[@ChanceAcoustics]

hey any publicity is good publicity, it probably allowed more people to find Kati and it spread more awareness!

[@ariadili1112]

kacey salgado I don’t think they deserved “hate” but I agree that some things they both did were offense to certain communities, but they both worked so hard so really they didn’t deserve hate

[@jacknachtigal5931]

Shane needs you, I’m glad you’re there to talk with him

[@brennascavoo]

2:47 second in and honestly shanes series helped me too. i realized that my mom, who raised me has no empathy. she was never someone i could go to with issues and felt understood.

[@bomethia7412]

lolBrenna Same, my mother is the same way. I still am forced to live with her, but his series helped me so much. I’m pretty sure she’s bi-polar or something similar.

[@jeffvalasquez7705]

Exactly my situation! Wow

[@Katimorton]

I am so so glad you found the series helpful :) That was our hope!!! xoxo

[@brennascavoo]

Kati Morton i love you guys ❤️ thank you :)

[@pandalunasia6868]

lolBrenna same. My mom was gaslighting me the last we spoke. She tried to get me to believe that my stepdad raping me was my fault and that she always believed me when she didnt. So I went to my bestfriends mom cause my bestfriend passed away to verify my memories. She said the same thing I remember. Idk what's wrong with my mom but its something. Narcissism idk but its abusive and it's hard being ok with cutting her out.

[@GypsyRock]

Poor Shane. He really takes things hard. And With the skin picking and tugging at his beard and eating his fingers, you can tell he’s so anxious and I think he needs to go on vacation. Leave the posh house and go somewhere by the water or in the mountains. Get out of the routine. Take the boyfriend. Try new things and new restaurants and go on excursions. He can afford it. He needs to treat himself and decompress.

[@konko9944]

GypsyRock yes! Please! I really wish he'd start taking better care of himself, and I hope that he can start letting Ryland go grocery shopping without being afraid that he'll eat it all. I hope he feels better

[@chouji08]

That's him in any talk he has with people. 😟

[@ektats2530]

omg bless your soul for putting this here! He really does need all of this

[@jenna_tools]

Wait shanes gay?

[@RoorAlbin]

Well sadly he already left his house because of the californian fires so who knows if he’s able to return...

[@IzzyHendrix]

if shane could somehow get kanye that would be literally the most interesting thing to ever happen on this website

[@illmindofanaivegirl]

Yes yes yes

[@Freshtaa16]

Frank Aiden while he’s different for approaching these youtubers and directly asking for “in depth interviews,” he’s nowhere near ready to handle big celebrities like Bieber or West...imagine one of them showed annoyance/anger towards him, Shane doesn’t handle criticism well and he’d just start freaking out. Plus his interviews aren’t that deep...jeffree’s was successful because Jeffree himself decided to use the platform to share his life. Could’ve been done without Shane since all he did was gawk at everything and go “oh my f***ing god”

[@Iamdestiny_smith]

Frank Aiden I don’t think he’s ready to handle that I think he should start small if he’s planning on working with celebs

[@FlairTradeByJustine]

It's actually kind of possible because he's kathy griffin's neighbor, that'd be sick

[@sammyrosee4354]

Or Trump

[@gabbiefulton8604]

Thank you Kati for creating this amazing video and giving me some tools to use.

[@Katimorton]

Oh good!! I am so glad :) xoxo

[@laccronimosecondo5639]

666

[@gracedalgleish9804]

Same here!

[@legendarymayormarylikestur8874]

🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌 Shane needs more tools to contend with his anxiety!!

[@Katimorton]

I will do my best to help :) xoxo

[@LetsStopThisSong]

definitely! he could use some therapy

[@decadentnight]

So do i

[@blondie4lyfe245]

Mary Sheldon oh no I was the 666th like

[@barbev3]

Me!

[@lauraa4135]

Shane, please DON’T do the „Mind of Logan Paul” series. He is not worth it. I have had a good feeling about Jake, but Logan is never going to change. He will lie to you just to look good on camera. Take care of yourself and create content with more valuable people than him.

[@sarcasticbrit3492]

Logan denied an interview so I doubt he'll go into a series. I'd also recommend Nerd City's recent video as he called out the lies Jake told in the series in his most recent upload.

[@geministargazer9830]

I agree. I wanna see some follow up videos like Shane’s conspiracy themed makeup with Jeffree and like a new house tour with Jake if he and Erika get their own place without team 10. Some more lighthearted fun ones.

[@Kazztastrophe]

I completely disagree. I think Logan has been painted a certain way because of Jake's story and Jake's personality, but because of Shane's series and revelations about Jake I have begun following and researching Logan. I think Logan is just as misunderstood as Jake was (they are actually very alike and clearly love each other very much) and Logan very much so has feelings that can be hurt. He has made terrible decisions in the last while (so has Jake) and he has begun learning from them, perhaps not at the rate that the public would have liked but the transition in his content is VISIBLE. He has lost his vlog life love, he is barely posting, and when he does there is a dramatic drop in his energy level and spirit. He is not unaffected by anything he did or participated in. I think people forget both of the Paul brothers are in their very early 20s. I have known so many people that have done VERY similar dumb things without the pressures of the public and money thrown in the mix. I am not a Pauler, I barely knew who they were prior to Shane's announcement, but I would really love Shane to spend time with Logan as well because I think people would be truly shocked to see the truth under the brush strokes he has been painted with. I think Shane would be shocked at the humanity that he would find there.

[@merber6070]

Thats exactly what Jake did: lie to look good on camera

[@DaniellesMicoMarley]

right, I feel like now that everyone knows what his series are about, for sure they will lie even more so, it wont be genuine.

[@gabiocampos]

Is it only me but shane looks so hot in here?

[@trashfor_coll5413]

Hes hot all the time oml 😍

[@minie3159]

gabi ocampos I'm gay but Shane always looks hot

[@autumnthekalimbaist6833]

Shane looks hot always

[@makayla8998]

gabi ocampos he does look very nice in that robe actually. Like a suave man 👍🏼

[@farrahfarmer9287]

Shane is always hot lop

[@quinnharlow7304]

a video that i thoroughly enjoyed that wasn't about spilling tea??? I LOVE

[@KaoticDreww]

Quinn Harlow I think it spilled a tiny bit of tea

[@helkn742]

I love how open you are with [constructive] criticism and to being wrong at times. I wish more people moved beyond their defensiveness and acknowledged that as humans, we will ALWAYS have more room for growth. We will never know everything. I applaud you! I'm a new subscriber, but you instantly became my new obsession (not in a bad way, lol).

[@Katimorton]

Awe thank you so much for the kind words Helena :) I am so glad you are enjoying the videos!!! xoxo

[@leonahalder5630]

Helena kn as much as I love shane, he isn’t really that great with criticism although he did seem genuinely aware about the criticism. If you see some of his replies on Twitter, he really isn’t that good at addressing them

[@kellyv6075]

A lot of narcs have very low empathy. And are super manipulative to make you feel bad for them. We all need to remember that we are not responsible for anyone else.

[@anka6356]

Almost zero empathy

[@williameyelash8053]

Unrelated but you're really pretty

[@whoseboot]

My dad is a narcissist

[@mattygreen6233]

AnKa V depends on the person, some have No empathy and some and some empathy and some only have empathy for certain people

[@karamjotkaur3908]

True

[@FoolyLiving]

I'm definitely an empath and it has nearly destroyed my life a few times. Sometimes I just have to shut everyone out because its TOO much.

[@eevonne7514]

Yea I am too, and sometimes, we just can't please everyone. It took me a hard way to realise this.

[@kiwi310343]

I feel this so strongly ♡

[@icantthinkofagoodname1838]

Being an empath is hard as hell. I have grown to appreciate it but I have viewed it as a curse for a large part of my life.

[@aubreym1388]

Aww I love your channel

[@karissachevelle7557]

SHANE LOOKS SO GOOD OH MY

[@marcusmaywell6630]

I am truly impressed with Kati's ability to be so informational, kind, and patient with not only her audience, but with the entire KZbin community. I can't imagine how she must feel after getting the backlash. However, I hope she realizes that there is more good in this world than evil, and that Kati continues to spread that goodness. Whether it be with her fans, Shane, or any other individual on this platform and in the world in general. Great work Kati. ❤️ And great work Shane ❤️

[@jenniferwoo3044]

Doesn't everyone know an emotional vampire? It's hard to create boundaries. But it's worth it. Empathetic people need to start by taking care of themselves 1st. Stop feeling guilty. Best of luck to everyone who 'gets' this.

[@paulflint6254]

Empathic

[@skytyler6256]

Jenny Ren what if it’s a parent

[@KellyanneKashaS]

100% agree it is hard though with some relationships. I've been drained with certain people that i can't cut out my life or take a step back from. I also feel sometimes now I'm becoming the vampire:(

[@jenniferwoo3044]

@@paulflint6254 Oops. Ty for catching that.

[@jenniferwoo3044]

I had the same problem as a kid. I just focused on ways to become independent as soon as possible. It was hard, still is when it's family. I dont have all the answers. I wish you all the best.

[@laurenjohnson2267]

*that blanket looks so fuzzy and warm I want to wrap myself in it and temporary turn into a burrito*

[@bruisedviolets]

Lauren Johnson *me*

[@beckywiththegoodhair8687]

I felt like I was the only one starring at it too! Haha

[@roisin3162]

Kati kinda reminds be of Betty cooper from riverdale 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@retro34]

THAT'S why I don't like her!!

[@eleyseanderson4782]

Tea Sis In could be her older sister or something

[@UniqueSouls]

Holy shit...THIS IS IT... I couldn't work out what it was about her but now I know THIS IS IT.

[@melodyrose1883]

Róisín YESS

[@vlogsquadfan1009]

Róisín Cunningham THANK YOU❤️

[@sammywebster994]

I think if Shane did a series where he investigated some crazy "ghost" stories or like murders and then visit the spots where they happened (like the buzzfeed thing but with his twist on it) so like advanced spooky boys. I think it'd be better received than any "tea spilling" series.

[@chouji08]

Sammm so like any ghost adventure channel on KZbin?

[@sammywebster994]

pat_snow08 yes! Like a revamped spooky boys. I don't really like ghost adventures though because it just feels very over exaggerated and fake. I'm sure if Shane did it that's how it would also be but I'm sure he'd bring some humor to it which I don't think GA does.

[@HeyItsCaoili]

you do realise he used to do that... all the time. He changed it up because youtube audiences were changing. He knows what he is getting into, the backlash was not a surprise to him

[@violetbault1711]

He has done that, about a boat and hotel... you should check it out, the series did really well and it's very entertaining to watch.

[@loveamericanslife6003]

Mind of Shane Dawson You’ve intrigued me 😂

[@Katimorton]

Yay!! haha!

[@michelledann7824]

He opened up a big conversation and that is important

[@Katimorton]

Exactly!! xoxo

[@ode4126]

Pleeeeeease someone make a series about Shane !! It would be so interesting to dive into HIS mind. Cause we see bits of it, we know his issues , but nobody has ever made him sit down and asked him real shit. Even when he's interviewed, he keeps the control and often starts interviewing the interviewer.. Would be interesting to see him giving up the control for once

[@jenmontzingo]

I don't think he would and part of what makes his series so brilliant is the editing.

[@gabiocampos]

99 eve watch his podcast they’ll give you more insight 👌🏻 probably not all of his life but

[@sharkyperforms247]

99 eve who do you think could do it justice and make it as good as Shane would w someone else? Kati maybe? Hint hint

[@TheChickenRiceBowl]

.....? You can't "make" somebody "lose control". Nobody needs to "sit him down". He's a grown man. Wth.

[@mrs.daryldixon3457]

Yes! And that person should be Garret. 👌😉 Then again... it may take a decade for him to upload all the episodes of the series.

[@ECNECNECN]

It's crazy to me how Shane says Jeffree and Jake are just misunderstood in one sentence. Jeffree has NEVER intentonally hurt people on camera and their private life the way Jake has. It amazes me how Shane just chooses to forget and ignore everything Jake has willingly done simply because he was nice to him. Jake knew that Shane is easily deceived and this was his chance to change his image. Why on earth would he behave badly in front of Shane. You don't get to see a persons character when they like you and want something from you but by the way they treat other people (and their fans) over years and years. Shane was so biased by the end of the series that he didn't even get into the big scandals and answered the harder questions before Jake even said a word so Jake just ended up saying "yeah".

[@paannadia8064]

This 👆🏼. I'm not buying the whole Jake is misunderstood shit. He clearly did real awful things that hurt and affect people around him negatively, and he should never comes out with any excuses but he did. On the other hand, all Jeffree ever did was saying mean things to people who hurts him as a defence mechanism. He was hurting badly for so long that he created this wall that makes him seems mean. I really wish Shane could see that and never put them in the same category ever.

[@TheFunnyGuy9000]

vah27nb27 mhm and now they are bffs

[@simonvillarreal623]

What's else did you really want him to get invested in? Shane got to see someone in a different light and bring out some of the problems here and there sure he didnt get across everything but saying that he excuses everything hes done and everything within his past that hes done it stretching it everyone goes on about him not getting to the point but wtf did you want him to do pin him to the floor and confess what did you want to learn so badly that you feel he changed his image

[@kayleeboolman4660]

vah27nb27 people make mistakes and learn from them

[@isabellaknight]

he's a smart dude, shane is. also hahahaha egotisticalsidecomment: i just uploaded a video reacting to kati and shane’s reflection- i feel like influencers like them are creating such a positive impact and change on social media, and i decided to record my perspective on that in the form of a 5 minute summary that is currentttllyyy on my channel! if you have a few minutes give it a watch for me- i want to impact more people the way they do, our society needzitttt

[@missyglittervlogs3543]

I’m so happy I found you through Shane! I love your videos!

[@isabellaknight]

ugh same dude, same. alsoooo hahahaha egotisticalsidecomment: i just uploaded a video reacting to kati and shane’s reflection- i feel like influencers like them are creating such a positive impact and change on social media, and i decided to record my perspective on that in the form of a 5 minute summary that is currentttllyyy on my channel! if you have a few minutes give it a watch for me- i want to impact more people the way they do, our society needzitttt

[@missyglittervlogs3543]

isabella knight will do! I just subscribed to you too! Please subscribe to me too if you want! I do Vlogs!

[@NoranFikri]

I love your new hair! It suits you

[@Katimorton]

Awe thank you!! xoxo

[@RASHECKLERR]

I feel like most narcissists don’t even realize that they’re narcissists

[@benny1118]

They don’t. And it’s common that they will take offense if anyone tells them that they are. It’s a hard problem to address and work on.

[@OGAngie]

If their self esteem is already really fragile, I think being labeled as a narcissist would likely be too painful to handle in any way other than denial?

[@k.ambriz9789]

Right. Other people are the problem. It's hard to be around them. They can be so draining and frustrating.

[@Hope-ne4iz]

they don't. they think the rest of the world is the problem

[@zieglerfamily4901]

Yeahh my friend is one and its so draining to keep listening to her talk

[@shivvypoppy]

Been following you for years now, Kati, and I totally respect what you've been doing. I'm amazed and SO HAPPY that you're now "on the radar." It's well-deserved. So thank you, Shane. You're the bomb diggity (Does that make me old? Yeah....ok. So be it) 🤣

[@PsychChatwithNikki]

ShivvyPop it’s amazing to have a community where we can share and support each other 💜

[@Katimorton]

hahah!! I still say bomb diggity.. so I think it makes you young :) xoxo Thank you so much for the sweet comment!! xoxo

[@shivvypoppy]

@@Katimorton😳 Um...I'm totally geeking out and fangirling bc I'm in the process of pursuing a master's in psychology and you just acknowledged my comment. You have NO IDEA how much that means to me. You inspire me to keep going! EEEEeeeeeeEEEEEEE!!! *fans face* 🤪🤯🙃

[@taylorbritt499]

@@shivvypoppy hey I'm pursuing my doctorate in psych!! Good luck!! ❤

[@fredericmoresmau4303]

@@shivvypoppythat's Nothing new, they pay a Little ttention for 20 minutes when initially Meeting, then the y throw me away because it doesn't fit their wants. and in the end it leads to distrust every Person, having no interaction experience, Closing off because you feel being unable to interact with anybody at all having no opportunity to on a Weekly Basis, I don't meet anybody, only way would be to start Talking to random People on the street. That'S the most interaction I get if wanted to

[@simplychristina1268]

I think Shane should make a chill documentary called “The life of Shane and friend”

[@mirafawn1019]

Empaths seem to attract Narcissists 😔

[@FreeTheTrolls]

Miranda Fawn true

[@doraveronika]

So true

[@meganenlow6256]

I think it is the other way around I think that empaths are "born" because they have spent time with narcissist and they have to adapt to that to actually function with them or else it's impossible to get through that wall they put up.

[@amyg4983]

Miranda Fawn it’s because we feed their ego

[@kiki29073]

They draw us like a moth to a flame. Like an addict and a codependent.

[@tinytina333]

Talking to a narcissist most times ends badly and goes nowhere. I know you said you need to talk to them, etc, but both my parents are narcs and this type of personality does not see that they have a problem. In fact they deny it and manipulate you into thinking you are totally wrong about what you are saying and maybe even turn it back on you. They do not think they are doing anything wrong so the convo usually goes nowhere. I've gone very low contact with my family and developed boundaries because they are just toxic people.

[@jesuschrististheonlyway1769]

I literally love Shane.

[@MyEndoJourney]

And Kati!

[@etefanyt245]

Shane is so amazing I love him so much

[@mkennedy6405]

Me too. So, so much!!!

[@Lilmountainmama]

You guys should do a weekly sit down and just chat

[@jenniferlleras7303]

Gayla Lundberg so therapy?

[@isabellaknight]

they should start a fucking podcast???? also hahahaha egotisticalsidecomment: i just uploaded a video reacting to kati and shane’s reflection- i feel like influencers like them are creating such a positive impact and change on social media, and i decided to record my perspective on that in the form of a 5 minute summary that is currentttllyyy on my channel! if you have a few minutes give it a watch for me- i want to impact more people the way they do, our society needzitttt

[@empressallyson8323]

Gayla Lundberg !!!!! That’s a great idea :)

[@GypsyRock]

The picking and tugging at his skin...it reminds me of someone I knew ...someone who was always anxious and always at the brink-the admitted long term lack of hygiene and the eating disorder etc..(-all Shane’s words)--he needs to not worry about helping others with mental illness until he helps himself. Ie the airplane mask analogy kati gave I think Shane needs daily therapy. He can afford it. I mean this with love. I wouldn’t take the time to analyze or say it if I didn’t care about the person I know Shane is/can be Again

[@moniquemc4553]

GypsyRock I truly love Shane, but it's hard to watch his videos sometimes because of that.

[@Alliecat_77]

I had a pretty toxic, borderline abusive, group of "friends" that were mentally and verbally abusive. Once I graduated High School I blocked them through everything I could perhaps it wasn't the healthiest way but it did work and now I'm mentally way better because of it.

[@amyfaith3245]

Yassssssss queen!!!!! I'm so glad Shane is finally taking the steps to get himself help instead of worrying about helping everyone else!!! ❤❤ love you Shane and thank you kati for helping him!!!! ❤😘

[@k.ambriz9789]

Amy Faith right?! I kinda hope that's a series he does. That would be so inspiring!

[@amyfaith3245]

@@k.ambriz9789 fr tho!! He really needs it. And I dont mean that in a bad way either, he just needs to take more time out to focus on himself for once!

[@sw3196]

As an empathetic person myself, I find I struggle being around large groups of people or in public events for a long amount of time. Like school for me makes me so tired because you can feel so many emotions at once coming at you. I’ve never known how to handle that or block it out.

[@FukaiKokoro]

S W me too. I was diagnosed with social anxiety disorder because my empathy is out of control, like Isolate myself a lot. I was just assigned to this therapist at this counselling center I go to, she’s amazing as she understands a lot about highly empathetic people. I’m currently learning how to put up a shield to protect myself from being emotionally drained.. there’s videos on KZbin on how to protect yourself from energy vampires. Being empathetic is a blessing and a curse.

[@JoeLGough77]

Hi S W, you are what a real empath is. You can block the assault of emotions by picturing yourself in a bubble or a suit of armor. It'll be hard at first but keep working at it and it'll be easier to be in public.

[@MissRandomComment]

I have the same issues, I have a hard time switching it off and keeping other people's emotions and thoughts at a distance. Not only that, I am also more sensitive to sounds and light and I'm starting to think I am a highly sensitive person, it's also called sps or sensory processing sensitivity. I would love Kati to do a video on dealing with those kind of issues.

[@PurpleCrayonMoon]

I can relate. What helped me was reading a book about Energetic Boundaries and working with my therapist. I still struggle with this issue, but it's gotten better.

[@Themeaninginthemess]

I can’t wait for this to go viral. Super exited for you Kati ❤️

[@Katimorton]

Awe thanks :) xoxo

[@ariaphoenix9388]

Now do one on Shane Dawson behind the scenes of being "behind the scenes"

[@mirandall]

I have borderline personality disorder, and these past 2 years I have fully submerged myself in a DBT program, I still have a long way to go, but compared to before I started, its night and day. We do recover.

[@Lutzifalilia]

Who the fuck was talking about BPD in this video..??

[@BrookeKatherine.]

Lutzifalilia Why are you being an asshole? Kati talked about anyone with a personality disorder can change, and actually want help. It’s definitely apart of the video, so don’t be such a dickhead.

[@TheHopeless138]

So, I'm actually Bills girlfriend, using my boyfriend's account but I also struggle with BPD, and a bunch of other mental illnesses, but I think just the overall mention of mental health has gotten everyone to be more open and honest about their own struggles with mental health. I also struggle with addiction and with the program I'm in for that I roll in my therapy for that with my BPD as well. We do recover, 29 days today for me. Keep the conversation going, the more we talk the better.

[@pamelab4910]

Im so happy youre recovering. Keep on pushing forward love. You got this.

[@RebeccaGomezToronto]

just received the same diagnoses last week.

[@MusikGrl96]

Please a series on Paris Jackson, I feel that would be so interesting and she gets so misrepresented, she's had such an unusual life! Thanks both Kati and Shane for your videos! I found Kati through Shane and checked out some of her other videos, and you talk about some stuff I've *never* heard people speak out about before, it's so brave and important to open up those discussions, and I appreciate those hard-hitting videos. Love from Australia.

[@_just_TK]

Welcome to the Community!

[@cosmokisses]

Taylah Jade he is trying to contact Justin Bieber.

[@caitlinveal5709]

That would be so cool! She seems like an awesome person.

[@sandomen123]

Same im about to binge all of Kati's videos

[@HM-xe3mq]

do u think she could bring Paris JACKSON to sit and talk with her? I mean she needs Paris' approval first

[@shannonjaffray225]

Omg I haven’t even watched this yet and I’m sooo happy about it! 💕💕💕

[@Katimorton]

YAY!!! xoxo

[@thanh9724]

Why does she reminds me of an older version of Sabrina Spellman ...

[@lmt16]

How do you cut off a toxic relationship? Delete, block and new phone who dis

[@marybyrd8584]

it depends on the dynamic of it honestly.... you have to really get through to yourself and realize that you're worth more than how you're being treated... that you can be in a happy place without the person... it's not easy but having people you love around you and hobbies to distract and it will get easier.... it does take time and if you really love them it hurts but you have to love yourself more

[@isabellaknight]

hahhahahah tru also hahahaha egotisticalsidecomment: i just uploaded a video reacting to kati and shane’s reflection- i feel like influencers like them are creating such a positive impact and change on social media, and i decided to record my perspective on that in the form of a 5 minute summary that is currentttllyyy on my channel! if you have a few minutes give it a watch for me- i want to impact more people the way they do, our society needzitttt

[@mrs.mudkip3665]

Wish it was that easy

[@pepsicola0786]

Lmao when you know the person's number by heart as well as their social media account and they were a love interest..

[@samcrawford8861]

My psychiatrist recently told me I could be a “empathic narcissist” or a “covert narcissist” from her interactions with me. I would’ve never classified myself as a narcissist because I’ve always viewed them as grandiose, arrogant, egotistical, always wanting to be the center of attention and I lack all of those traits. What I do know about myself is that I’ve been an empathic person my entire life. I hated it and still do because it is draining and I wish I never was born with a trait like this. I believe several years ago after a traumatizing event I shut down and remained resentful and numb ever since. What I don’t do is take advantage of people or use them for my own personal gain. ALTHOUGH, unfortunately I’ve realized I can mirror all the traits of an overt narcissist but it’s not obvious at all. And I only become like this monster is when someone is taking advantage of me or if I do sense they’re a narcissist I’ll string them along just to make the person miserable. I’ll go along with the gas lighting but I’ll make them suffer in the end and I love doing it in the moment. I know it’s twisted and pathetic... I’m 100% aware of this but it’s not something I’ll take part in often unless I’m emotionally invested or I can’t escape the person (i.e. work). When I did read about the covert/ empathic type I was shocked and disturbed at how I related to almost all of the traits of one. The feeling I get when I’m engaging in this behavior I’m aware that I’m acting out of spite but in the moment I don’t care and literally lack any empathy whatsoever over the person. Unlike overt ones that are outwardly narcissistic... I’m weirdly able to turn mine on and off, which I think they lack.

[@emerald5824]

Sam Mendes if you are in fact a narcissist, most of the people that you think deserve your narcissistic rage don't deserve it, they are probably decent people who just damaged your ego some how.

[@jasonchandler2754]

A covert narcisist isn't an empathic narcissist at all. One of the couple main traits to even be diagnosed as a narcissist is lack of empathy. All a covert narcisist is, is someone who doesnt make it obvious through interaction that they think they're the best. What you're describing sounds like comorbid Npd and bpd but maybe or maybe not enough traits to be diagnosed as either.

[@AlucardPeach]

Do you feel sorry for hurting them afterwards?

[@raybarrett7985]

narcs lack empathy you may be bpd

[@sueking7292]

My mother had no empathy... I searched for empathy in several unhealthy ways... finally came to terms and although I still love my mother (now in a nursing home) I am showing HER the empathy I never got...

[@oliviafrank7463]

I am so sorry you had to go through that. I hope the steps you're taking with your mother are helping you heal!

[@TeddieSage1987]

I'm starting to believe Shane could train to become a therapist by taking courses at College or University. If that's something that drives him as a person, he could become a real therapist for youtubers in need.

[@TeddieSage1987]

It feels like it's his true calling.

[@christinalange3280]

It's a masters degree so it would take forever

[@bunbundont_care8762]

That is the stupidest thing ever. You really think Shane is going to leave his money making cow to get a job as a therapist? Not only that but it seems Shane is barely capable of dealing with his own emotions, much less anybody else's.

[@hannahgensburg3555]

I looooooove this idea.

[@laurenbeddoes3478]

you can’t give therapy to people you know. and i don’t think the pressure of being a therapist would be good for shane and i don’t think he would really enjoy it

[@matthewnelson7990]

Omg can this please be a Netflix Series?? 😂

[@yunhee93]

Lol what a great idea

[@k.ambriz9789]

Even better. It's free on KZbin. 😉

[@nanib6536]

But youtube is free

[@mindofmarissa9399]

Shane was a success with me! I started following and binge watching Kati’s videos

[@terryhunter919]

I would love it if you did more videos about covert narcissists, they are truly dangerous ones.

[@NitsuGatcha]

but Kati... how are YOU?

[@Kerrviii]

NitsuGatcha this is her profession.

[@LindaG1016]

I would love more videos with the two of you perhaps discussing Shane's BDD and past struggles with bulimia. Only if he felt comfortable sharing of course. I know he said he wants to help others and that would help so many people like me who are in recovery. Shane opening up about his BDD and ED struggles literally saved my life. I know you both could do that for so many more people as well as helping those who don't have these struggles to understand what it is like. Ending toxic relationships can be very hard. My instinct is always to protect and fix everyone. Thank you for giving us some tools on how to set boundaries.

[@saritaponce6369]

I discovered you after this series and I have to say I love your content. I've learned so much about myself through your videos, thank you Kati! 💜💜

[@rachelhanna]

Shane has the sweetest soul ugh I love my dad...

[@blockay9096]

Kati and Shane, I am so glad that you two made this video. It wasn’t an apology, or an overdramatized video. This was a mature, educational, and devoted explanation, showing the amazing initiative that you guys have taken to address your fans. I myself am now finishing up my third year as an honors psychology student; that being said, although the series on Jake was captivating and true from psychological standpoints, it was very overdramatized and saturated with severe stigmas on people with sociopathic behaviors. This video is very good for those who don’t understand why Shane’s approach was so intense and scary. I LOVE YOU GUYS!!! Lol thanks for liking my comment

[@mspears_bobobuddytheseniorcat]

This video was phenomenal! On a personal note, I completely relate to Shane in so many ways, being filled with empathy and wanting to help, but unfortunately attract narcissists and have trouble setting boundaries. I am getting better at boundary setting now than I was (after going to therapy myself) but I still feel drained by them even when I’m not talking to them. It’s hard not to think about it. Unfortunately these particular individuals won’t seek therapy (I’ve suggested it multiple times), but I’m just trying my best to put my energy into the healthier people I know which are far and few between, but a blessing! Anyway, I think Kati and Shane are amazing! Much love to both of you! ❤️

[@melissadabanana2230]

I’ve always thought I had no empathy, but this journey with shane helped me realize I have some narcissistic traits... i will seek therapy, now still processing...

[@saoirseryan4141]

Everyone has narcissistic traits Shane just makes this all dramatic

[@virgo_maverick3904]

💕

[@riverogue13]

Melissa Dabanana I’m proud of you for taking this step! Good luck in therapy it’s so worth it to recover

[@mistid1485]

Honestly anxiety disorders can give ppl narcissistic traits. It does not mean that you're a narc.

[@Lutzifalilia]

narcissists feel empathy...

[@erikavaleries]

Empaths and narcissists we’re wounded in the same places. We developed more affective empathy to cope and they numbed out theirs. They still have cognitive empathy.

[@mspears_bobobuddytheseniorcat]

Erika Valerie That's a really interesting insight! I guess it's all in how we individually react to particular traumas or situations and it could go one way or the other.

[@alexastafford1523]

Wow. That really sums it up

[@OGAngie]

Man, that's so true. I never thought of it that way.

[@skarletcharity]

I really like this. Im healing from 8 years of narcissistic abuse and I still cant understand what the hell happened

[@MsDragontooth]

Intresting thought

[@NotSewNoah]

I feel like Eugenia Coony would be a good one for him to do next, because we don't know a lot about what is actually going on. There are so many speculation videos and such. Leafyishere would be another good one since now he's leafyisnothere.

[@lonestarfinds]

Yes

[@reeceherberg8043]

i love how every interview w shane turns into an interview of the other person

[@actuallylillie]

My two favorite people in one video, I'm so happy!!!!!

[@Katimorton]

Yay!! xoxo

[@mractamt123]

Narcissists don’t admit they have a problem. They won’t seek therapy because they truly think they are always in the right.

[@Kaligoddie]

How do you know? 🤔

[@frama1122]

Kind of... If they step out and realise what they are doing or having someone be straightforward (which is super hard lol i know i have a narcissistic mother) and not an enabler will help. They arent happy being a narcissist bc they feel like everyones against them etc so showing them that it could change is great help. Idk im rambling and forgot my original point lol

[@guesswho5790]

If they get lonely enough because people have kicked them out of their lives, some do get a glimpse of what they are doing to deserve that treatment. Also, there are different degrees of narcissism, so some get stuck in their old ways, but others grow.

[@beckyrooroo6104]

Or they use the therapy to learn how to be better at being evil

[@brennascavoo]

hey kati. i loved this video. i know this is a really personal topic that not many people talk about but i think it would be amazing if you and shane did a video talking about his bulimia or even did off camera. i 100% understand that this is a VERY personal topic and shane is most likely not open to talking about it on camera but honestly i worry about him. i’ve been a fan of shane since 2008 and i think that there’s a lot that goes on with him that is hard to come to terms with and it’s a never ending struggle. in his book he said he would always use ‘ diarrhea ‘ as an excuse for bulimia and he still says a lot about having to shit all the time. i just worry ya know? it’s a disease that could go unnoticed and if he is ever struggling i want him to feel like people are there for him. i’m not trying to be rude or accuse him of anything i just care about him so much. i’m sorry. ok, much love. ❤️

[@questionablelexi8979]

lolBrenna i worry the same. I always look at his glands a when watching him just because I’m worried as well noticing the trigger word he uses often. We just want Shane to be okay ❤️

[@luviemoo]

Lexi Kapono what trigger word?

[@xoxoPinkVoltage]

lolBrenna I feel the same way! I would absolutely love it if they would do that type of video! It would help SO MANY PEOPLE who are struggling or have no clue that their symptoms are all pointing to that disease.

[@sarcasticbrit3492]

I'd be interested in that too as I didn't see his diarrhoea that way. Having anxiety I've experienced stomach and digestion issues for long enough (you do want to shit when you get anxious over something) so I figured it was anxiety that did that to Shane in his videos over the past year where he mentions it. I didn't read his books so I didn't consider that as an excuse to binge or anything, and figured he got over the worst of his eating disorder. Some clarity on that would be good.

[@jenmontzingo]

He's openly discussed this on his podcast confirming this.

[@Risingpresent]

I blow up and then ghost everyone except for my mom. Being the youngest of 10 siblings who are victims of childhood abuse and traumas is not easy. Getting help is expensive and takes forever. I need help

[@GypsyRock]

Michelle Danielle Espino It is becoming such an epidemic. There is so much need for a mental health assistance in this country, because so many people cannot afford it, or do not know or want to seek the help in the first place. I commend you for admitting you need the help. That is a big first step. I hope more resources become available to you, and everyone else who needs them It’s a crippling issue in our country today, more than ever

[@SC-lr8tv]

If you go to a school(public or private)you can try going to a school counselor and explain to them your situation and maybe they will help you through some things . Idk. Best of luck

[@olimurdo6165]

Michelle Danielle Espino wow I can relate to you so much. I have 10 siblings as well. I am the oldest, we don’t get physical abused but we are emotionally abused. No on helps or believes that we’re being hurt. I am so sorry that you can’t get help it’s isn’t fair. But trust me I understand what your going through. I would love to talk to you more and maybe we could both share our stories, since they’re so similar.

[@madisonjones1093]

This is why i want to be a school psychologist. That way kids who can’t afford the mental health care they need can at least have a place to go to talk for free and get some advise and open up a conversation with their parents on how to help at home with the permission of the child.

[@Vickivaporub]

We want Shane to take care of himself before anyone else. Please Shane, if you're going to do another series, make it about your journey to recovery. We love you xox Please help yourself❤

[@puppycat1992]

Hi Kati.. speaking of this can you talk about Narcissistic abusive parents and how to cope ? Xxoo

[@Katimorton]

I totally can!! I will add this question to my Thursday list :) xoxo

[@paulflint6254]

Id like that too

[@Buur92]

Please do!!

[@paigesmith2060]

Yes, I really need this! My daughter's biological father is narcissistic and abusive. She is still only a baby but I can already see her behaviour changing in a negative way. It would be really helpful and myself and many others would really benefit with some insight and information to help ourselves and loved ones.

[@k.ambriz9789]

Great idea! I know so many people affected by this issue.

[@MissTrench101]

You should do a video about how sometimes people don’t want to do the work for their personality disorders because it’s scary to think about themselves as someone without their disorder because it’s been such a core piece of someone for a long time.

[@maloumasereel966]

Michelle Gregoire I think she already has that video but I don’t know what it’s called

[@maloumasereel966]

It’s called “How do i WANT to get better” but I don’t know if that’s what you were looking for 😘

[@BethanyBell]

this !

[@theDevilsGreed]

Michelle Gregoire omg you so pretty ☺️✌🏼

[@rue6173]

I actually screamed when I saw the notification ahh! Why couldn’t this have been 53746524 hours long

[@muycaliente6196]

Oh man I felt it when he asked Kati how to cut people off. With friends it's just like she described, but with family it's sooo difficult especially if they've emotionally and physically abused you and you have attachment problems. And they live in the same town...and you feel lonely af during Christmas.... you keep cutting them off and professionals might be helping you out but you still only manage it for sometime until you end up in the same 💩 all over again. I would definitely like to hear more about this topic. Loved the video and love you both 💜

[@user-wt8kj1ki7e]

It is such a relief to watch/listen to a therapist/counsellor that has compassion and we can trust in what you say. I ❤ Kati how you keep it real and talk about the true said of therapy which makes people and me not afraid to seek help and I THANK YOU SO MUCH 4 THAT ❤😉

[@Allitche]

I'm so excited to see the two of you together again! Love you both!

[@kelseynewton4683]

You two are so genuine and soft, and you work magic together. I love that I got to find your channel through Shane’s series with Jake, which I throughly enjoyed. I didn’t know anything about Jake, but I learned a lot about different personality disorders along the way which will help me navigate through this crazy thing we call life.

[@brittneydawn516]

Love you both ❤️ also, Shane PLEASE do your next documentary on Eugenia Cooney. She’s not okay :/

[@darius2372]

Seeing you guys together doing a video makes me genuinely smile. I'm beyond grateful to you for doing this and helping Shane with everything.

[@cathyherb7279]

Plot twist: the whole series was a promo for katis channel

[@ihatemickiegee]

Love Ballet idk shes been on youtube for yeaaaars lol shane might’ve wanted to give her channel more awareness/subscribers out of the kindness of his heart though and who would turn that down lol

[@TessMac]

Shane would benefit from something my Psych Professor told me in college. “DO NOT ALLOW OTHER PEOPLES TORNADOES INTO YOUR HOUSE..THEY’LL DESTROY IT & YOU HAVE TO CLEAN IT UP.” I’ve lived by that advice for 15 years now & it’s truly priceless. 💙

[@fountainPoison]

I kind of want Shane to do a video/series on Tobuscus. I mean, I know no one really cares anymore, but there was a lot of controversy and accusations about him and then he kind of just faded into the background after being one of the biggest KZbinrs. I might be alone, but I am curious what kind of person he actually is behind the camera.

[@d66dle]

P L E A S E

[@heather23renae]

fountainPoison I really liked him and thought he was so cute and adorable and hilarious. I miss him. I would like to know more, too.

[@maddikohuth3442]

I love this so much Kati’s videos are so amazing and her and Shane are amazing

[@Katimorton]

Awe xoxo

[@emiliananailedme9425]

I love seeing yall on camera together. Such a healthy friendship. ❤

[@kayceemorgan1614]

Kati and Shane, you are such a beautiful souls x

[@hippiechef3336]

Videos long enough for my blackhead mask to dry while I eat my feelings in a giant sub sandwich. GIVE ME LIFE!

[@robeyhines8149]

This is super beneficial, especially for me in my life currently. When I notice myself wanting to hide away with the fear of letting someone down instead of addressing it head-on, I sort of remind myself that my feelings are valid and should be communicated, even if it may be awkward. I also like how you touched on getting rid of toxic people at 16:18, and focusing on using _"I"_ statements is so huge. It's instrumental when wanting to avoid placing blame and can be a key component in addressing people with toxic traits or narcissistic tendencies. Because when you say things like _"you did this! you make me feel bad because.."_ it really creates a different tone than saying _"I feel this way because.."_ and so on.

[@lokebrandon]

I like this. I like this a lot.

[@lokebrandon]

Now to the real serious question how are you liking this season of American Horror Story?

[@latroletteeeee]

Please do Lindsay Lohan next ! Let her fly you to Greece!!!!

[@_just_TK]

I was JUST thinking that!

[@marymassa4249]

This is the best idea I’ve seen

[@shhhbequiet1497]

Idk if lindsey would agree to that. Shes a bit troubled.

[@emmymoon8718]

she can show Shane how to throw a party in Mykonos, bitch!

[@TheChickenRiceBowl]

She's in Greece now?

[@jennmarie6]

I love your channel! I love how you touch on different subjects in every video and they’re not super long or boring. I get a lot out of your channel and I wish you could be my therapist. You’re amazing!

[@genderqueertears2675]

Empathy is a GIFT. Not a curse. It is a beautiful thing to feel deeply. To care deeply. To love deeply.

[@elizabritton4039]

I went to counseling for about 2 1/2 years. I needed it. I didn't get exactly what I needed but I did get more than I was getting in my life. My counselor was trying so hard to help all of his patients. He would exhaust himself trying to help. He told me I was an empath. I know I wasn't so much an empath with people when i was a kid. But I was with animals. I became much more empathetic after having a major surgery and going through and losing so much. I looked around where ever I went and I noticed people that were sad or tired, who were kind, Hard working, old, ect. I just see people's souls. It is hard sometimes to be like I am. I shut down a lot lately to be able to deal. Thankyou for your videos.

[@athenaa.bosendorfer]

Spiritual awakening :)

[@fairep8524]

I wonder if Shane would ever consider going back to school to get a degree in psychology

[@chelseyroberts838]

I think if he were to consider an alternative career hed be a great counsel type.

[@natalieworkman7568]

Heather Lee no I feel like he’d say no I cant do that cause’ of the social interaction and the ptsd from high school or some bull shit like that.

[@kurtazzopardi7841]

Kati and shane are such great friends❤

[@julianaocampo2622]

Like if you know Tana is the narcissist friend

[@a11starme]

The special type of therapy is a full frontal lobotomy.

[@aa_batterybloomin1305]

Shane: I don't wanna become the guy that helps everyone Also Shane: I AM THE KING OF HELPING OTHERS AND FIXING THEIR LIVES