The mindset that's changing my life

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[@Psych2go]

I really like the way you narrate! Keep up the goodwork!

[@tilleternity]

Awwe look who's here !! ❤️

[@astrocat9216]

❤️

[@angkaien704]

OMG Psych2Go weeee

[@siaracastic2515]

Omg hiiii! Speaking of narration - I’d love to narrate for your channel if given the chance

[@jeancarmona5157]

Imagine a collab vid between you guys. Would definitely watch

[@huggingMonster]

"The problem is not the problem. The problem is your attitude about the problem." - Captain Jack Sparrow

[@Pisauce]

yes

[@discorabbit]

He really said that in the movie? Nice

[@oscarbull]

Yes, one of the most bestest super heros

[@ErlendOnYoutube]

Someone else reread the comment with jacks voice? 😂

[@beastestcat3955]

he never even said this idk why this is a thing

[@reallifepsych3309]

“Our default Should be to look at the cards we’re given and take full responsibility for how we play those cards.” 100% Agree. Love these videos!

[@ganeshbhat8774]

Hi can any 1 tell the meaning of this

[@cydneegomez]

@@ganeshbhat8774 basically, we should be taught that our actions, reactions, thought patterns and perspective affect how the events in our life play out for us. We have all the power in our own hands because we have the ability to process what’s happening and choose how it effects us.

[@ganeshbhat8774]

@@cydneegomez oh thank u understood now 😊

[@raakareiska9804]

@@ganeshbhat8774 Nothing. Most of people in world are not going to have change in poverty, diseases or dictatorship by attitude change

[@HeyImRod]

"Once you start adopting more of an internal locus of control, it will start to feel a lot less like life is happening to you, but it will start to feel more like life is happening due to you". I needed to hear this, thanks a lot.

[@jezabelgonzalez6781]

same

[@Alwin828]

I read this comment exactly when he was saying that sentence!! 😁

[@softbodycrashes]

´Not only do you have the power to change your life - you´re the only one who does.´ Well said. Honestly. Nothing to add.

[@chocdesglacons]

True: you're probably able to work your way out of a bad situation and the only person who can. Also true: most times you will fail, even if you put in an insane amount of effort. The "power to change your life", then, is the willpower to start the process again and again, knowing that if the next outcome is a new failure, it will feel even more bitter. And you will have slid back somewhat in the time interval between a failure and the moment when you've gathered enough willpower to start all over again. Realistically, I think there's only so many attempts that people will find the strength for until they give up. This is why I think motivation and pulling yourself by the bootstraps only go so far. At some point, the unluckiest people either have to be cared for structurally by the rest of society (return to the external locus of control) or just abandon their current life altogether to try out a different mode of existence in another environment (kind of taboo as it's scary and not in the society's interest).

[@Officialuser-bd7hv]

Not falling on traps like Procrastination, Overthinking, Negativity really helps me a lot.

[@HowellConsultations]

In case no one has told you today, Keep pushing through the heartache, lack of motivation & self doubt. When you feel lost, that’s the perfect opportunity to find a reroute. There’s so much you’re meant to do in this lifetime, don’t give up on it. Hope our channel helps you on your journey ✌

[@Mieleous]

“ Life is happening due to you “ hard, but true..

[@delirious_z9987]

there is one thing that made feel hopeless,it is school. like how bad the education is how litle benefits it has and how such numbers will determine my futur.

[@officialkidbassmusic]

My mom just died in December 2020 my dad March 2018. I feel like I'll be OK as an adult without them... But maaaaaan do I miss them both, especially mom, I really really miss her. I was with her, spoke to her etc every single day of my life, we were so close. But I know I'll be able to adult without her, though I won't have her support anymore 😢What I'll miss most is her just being there...

[@rebeccasperring1747]

This moved me to tears. It’s so hard to lose parents so close together. Sending love!

[@officialkidbassmusic]

@@rebeccasperring1747 Thank you Rebecca, I really appreciate it. Mom's funeral is actually tomorrow, I'm preparing for it as I type this... I was on KZbin for a little distraction, what Better Ideas said about a good parent, resonated because yes absolutely they both phased themselves out from my day to day. But mom especially I would call my best friend, and I just miss her... Not really for anything she could do for me, I just miss her as a person... PS. I'm crying too, the tears show we care, and I'm glad even though we don't know each other you care enough to shed a tear. Thank you again, and take care of yourself

[@firstchushingura]

They are still with you. Inside you lives a part of them. Make them proud.

[@amanchopra46]

Hey Bud How do you do Hope you are doing well

[@MsAldil]

Hey how are you doing? This is one of my biggest fears.🥺 How do you find the courage to keep moving forward?

[@icecofffeee]

love that 'father you never had' joke really balanced out the seriousness

[@bryventura9261]

the balance between "your experiences and feelings make sense" and "its still up to you to change it"

[@Stellar-Cowboy]

Literally everyone: Write this down, write this down!

[@AxxLAfriku]

I STRONGLY DISAGREE! Being as famous as I am on KZbin, I know that it gets hard to read every comment I get. I try my best, but I am just so famous, that I can't do it much longer. Sorry, dear will

[@Stellar-Cowboy]

@@AxxLAfriku lol nice try tho

[@lucilapastore6558]

SAME

[@DoItDrew]

No one

[@zyura9062]

Me: hey I need to change my mindset. Better Ideas:

[@saranox7319]

„What you‘re not changing you‘re choosing.“

[@jesuisahmedn]

Read a quote yesterday that goes along with this mindset: "All that you seek is already within you"

[@_yak]

Good stuff, but whenever this kind of "personal responsibility" advice is given, you see it used in a way that implies that "those people" should take personal responsibility. It's great advice if you use it for yourself, but it's not a great way of understanding others. For myself, I try to have an internal locus of control. For others, I try to apply this: "Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about. Be kind. Always."

[@brittanyrachelle23]

Yeah I was thinking the same thing too. or else its like we put so much pressure on others, not feel that empathy for them, and our expectations for people rise which isn't fair to do since we can't control others and they have there own life how they want to do things. I love what you said, be kind always, and people will see that in us too and naturally cause a positive impact in their life. Thanks for sharing that thought.

[@stellwyn]

I really appreciated the way you phrased this video. Too often this topic becomes a 'pull yourself up by the bootstraps' rant but you talked about it in a really sensitive way, acknowledging that people's struggles are valid but also that you have the option to make a difference in your life if you focus on what you can control. Thanks!

[@LifeNavigation]

Couldn’t agree more, the locus of control is so important, change your perception, change your life!

[@eitangersh]

Thanks for this. It reminded me of this quote: "You will find that the more successful the individual, the less inclined he is to make excuses." -The Magic of Thinking Big by David J Schwartz

[@lovehilaryanne]

This video really helped me. I've been contemplating this powerless thought for the past while, as in, the world is every man or woman for himself it seems like. So, this helped me feel like I was impowered. Also, he makes me believe there are educated, thoughtful, handsome Canadians out there whom I will be able to meet once this thing is over. You know, get my single butt on a date after sitting in my room for the past year doing work out videos. There is hope, and I can do what I can with the cards I'm given.

[@intentionally]

I'm making an effort to watch the news less, because I want to focus less on things outside my control and, instead, direct my attention towards the things I can control that will make a real difference in my life.

[@tpespos]

I started doing this a year ago and it’s been one of my best decisions ever. I came to realize a lot of stuff on the news that seems like something that matters to use very rarely does. I hope you see the same benefits.

[@ida_sleeps]

well said! and thank you

[@CalicoCooperFan]

Yep. I stopped watching the news 2 years ago and I've never felt better.

[@elthor5736]

If there’s anything important in the news, you’ll eventually get the news, so don’t even bother watching channels and stuff..most of the news are just foolish statements made by politicians which hold no meaning..just focus on the things you gotta do and have fun!

[@jcpark1125]

BRO!!!! I now understand why my dad is telling me to not stay updated to news all the time because I will be unhappy. THIS WAS IT!

[@santiagoarielbarriosbritez9499]

I’m a spanish speaker, your videos are pretty well and really good to practice the “imput comprensible”.

[@Epsillion70]

"Life is not about the events that happen to a person, but rather it is the person that happens to the events." -Dane Rudhyar

[@soyboy5628]

‘Life doesn’t happen to you, life happens due to you’

[@kalis856]

The writing and delivery--even down to the music editing--on the last part is so good.

[@EarthyReenz]

This video is kinda tackling the “nature vs. nurture” concept. It’s never one or the other, but a combination of both! Great video, you definitely exhibit a strong locus of control 👌

[@fireside68]

⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️ Once we figure out that it is a combination of the two, we'll move forward better.

[@radeonnovel7320]

My dad's death really turned my life around. Before I was thinking that I'm going to be poor because my family was poor so I don't have so many chances to do stuff, but now I say to myself to just do it and work toward my goal no matter what happens because I'm the one that can make that happen

[@marksaldanha2906]

"Pray as if everything depended on God. Work as though everything depends on you."

[@nicolecosta567]

That´s very wise!

[@marksaldanha2906]

@@nicolecosta567 St. Augustine gets the credit I believe 😊

[@amanchopra46]

Thanks

[@cheungryan2036]

Support from Hong Kong! And THANK YOU for your video supporting me!

[@enigma111ish]

I think I have developed that helplessness since the pandemic started. And thus I have made my life very difficult to live. Though I knew these concepts, but thank you for bringing these to my attention and making me more aware.

[@kaydnhutton8479]

I really needed this right now. I watched it over twice. Thank you

[@GooseyQ]

The Locus of control is an interesting concept. Sometimes that “taken care of” could be absent upon growth until later on in life. Thus, resulting in an almost endless cycle of playing catch up. Having the power to change your trajectory is difficult to implement nevertheless breaking the bad habits that correlate. Thank you for the video.

[@LateNightChess]

It all comes to the resources we have at hand. If you grow without or with very little resources because of the incompetence or misfortune of whom you grew with, you will have a very hard time. All of your opportunities depend on the resources you have. It’s super easy for the majority to develop that internal locus of control because of the resources they have which facilitate their ambitions, dreams, and academic and professional plans. People with lack of resources, if they are intelligent enough, will recognize that their unfortunate circumstances are caused by things that weren’t out of their control, and therefore they will have to use their intelligence in order to get out of the hole. It’s a very dark and difficult hole to get out of.

[@khaledmahmoud440]

Using Terrance Malick movies as a reference is just a work of art

[@marieee444]

I came across your videos recently. Great content. And I also love jazz piano improv so even more respect 🙌

[@julienromera7916]

"Probably not the best use of my money but I couldn't resist' I felt that lol.

[@TheRumbles13]

In a very low week and needed this thank you, subbed

[@FutureMindset]

What better way to carve out your life than to know that you have the ability to? Too many of us are drifting through life, it's about time we sit in the driver's seat and take control of the car.

[@zealous8992]

I am having the hardest time in my life right now. I lost the only person I care about in this world by hurting them and now idk what to do, I really feel like I can't live without them. I am worried my work will see just how negative I am and then idk where I will be in my life. I really feel like I need my best friend back but I have no Idea how to show them that. They moved away and blocked me on everything, if I were to message them I would only have one last shot to say what I might need to get them back into my life in only a couple sentences. What do I say to them, I let them down and wasn't there for them when I needed to be, my mental health has been the worst this last year and I never meant to be mean to them.

[@zayn5724]

"how to cook how to clean" 2:58 Me: but let me tell you I got this ring gobble me- I Have no brain cell left

[@nagan2273]

Action that's what we all need in our life

[@patrikmarcan]

Literally every youtuber: HIT THAT BELL TO GET NOT...!!! Joey: Unclick the bell!!! Sorry Joey, can’t do that 😂

[@iantbailey]

The first time I saw the Tree of Life years ago marked a pivotal moment in my late teenage years when my parents were finalizing a long awaited divorce. I absolutely loved how abstract the movie is, which allowed me to project my own life circumstances on it. At the time I felt really depressed and sorry for myself and the seemingly rough family atmosphere in which I was brought up, but that movie reminded me how big the world and the universe are, as well as reminded me of my creative curiosity due to the directing and cinematography. I even visited New Sweden Church and Barton Springs with my dad, where some of the scenes were filmed. Anyways, love your inclusion of clips from that movie here; it made me reflect on your message and the movie in a unique way.

[@jensenhughes8348]

*Investing make up the top notch hemisphere of the wealth. That's the more reason one should save and invest to secure profit and ensure success*

[@williamtucker5269]

You’re right investing now should be at the top of every wise individuals list because in few years you'll be ecstatic with the decision you made now

[@ralfstansbury9298]

True 💯

[@ralfstansbury9298]

For me Investments like stock, forex & crypto has become very profitable and very good options in securing a better financial life that's where I belong and survive from.

[@kylekeith126]

Exactly Many top dogs out there do it, I mean that’s why they are at the “TOP”. I really feel everyone looking to get some financial security should make forex and bitcoin investments.

[@kylekeith126]

Although I don’t manage or make my investments myself Lol... I let an expert do all the analysis and calculations .

[@brandonwolff966]

This hits the nail on the head, we’re all given a set of cards, but we can still play the cards well whether they’re in our favor or not, life is what you make of it no what it makes of you

[@BradRamanah]

This video really hit home for me. A little over 2 years ago my mom passed away. My dad left when I was 4 and I was lost. I wasn't ready for it. I kept asking why me and didn't understand why something like this would happen to me. Then, after a grueling year of grief, I opened my mind and said that yes it's a terrible situation BUT I'm in control of my own destiny. Yes the cards I was dealt were shit, but you can be sure that I'm going to do everything in my power to win the game.

[@dstazz]

Being powerful rather than powerless.

[@m0L3ify]

I agree with this basic premise that perspective on life can change your outlook and your sense of wellbeing. It's important to recognize what you truly are and aren't in control of and develop a healthy mindset around it, and I think you've hit on that here. However, there is also a psychology of success that shouldn't be overlooked, and that is the false notion that success is 100% earned. We can't ignore the pitfall of equating correlation with causation. A lot of success is due to privilege and luck, and false narratives around that success are created by successful people when they don't want to admit that to themselves. They want to think it was their hard work and determination, that they earned it when maybe that was only part of the whole story, so they believe they have control over their successes and failures when perhaps they don't. That's where this notion of the American Dream comes from, that with enough hard work, everyone has equal opportunity to be successful. Therefore, whether you are or aren't, you deserve your status in life. Most of us know this isn't true, even if we don't want to admit it. It assuages the 'survivor guilt' of the rich and allows them to look down on the poor. So, in general, yes, losing learned helplessness is beneficial to human psychology, but if you're going to buy into the idea that 'successful' people have it figured out and have solved some enigma of life you haven't, it's important to look at why they have particular mindsets to see if it's even a contributing factor to be emulated. Perhaps the fact that they possess this trait is a result of their success, rather than the cause of. And the pitfall of believing you are the cause of external events even when you aren't is a Cognitive Distortion called Personalization, which can swing the pendulum to the other side of the spectrum. It can lead to a lot of unnecessary guilt. So where is the balance? It's an important discussion to continue to have with oneself.

[@LJohann]

On a side note what movie was playing in the background? Looks very interesting. Thanks

[@LJohann]

@@J.J.V thank u!

[@reddragonphlyart9831]

From life is happening to you -> Life is happening due to you 👌👌🔥🔥🤩🤩

[@dailyshananigans]

3:05 caught me off guard I thought OMG BRAD PITT

[@Nathanate84]

No one is coming to the rescue. God helps those who help themselves. You can't change the wind but you can adjust the sails. 3 favorites of mine that get the point across.

[@Skapo]

Mental illness affects the likelihood of adopting (or really even the ability to adopt) this kind of control in life as well. It's an issue that is way more prevalent than people realize. I won't get into my own experiences in that regard right now because that would be a whole rabit hole, but sometimes it's functionally not possible to switch modes without outside help.

[@lfhip-hop6794]

I worked this out a year or two ago but have always struggled to put it in words. Thank you. I think a perfect example of the wrong mindset is the mentality behind TGIF... Friday is the best and it's gonna save your life, Monday is gonna ruin it. But really, it's upto you how you want to see it. Monday and Friday will always return, but you are the constant.

[@ПОЖАРСКИЙ-ы6в]

*ТЫ ВДОХНОВЛЯЕШЬ МЕНЯ НА СОЗДАНИЕ РОЛИКОВ! СПАСИБО ТЕБЕ БОЛЬШОЕ! HUGE LOVE FROM RUSSIA!*

[@odinn8169]

Sorry I don’t speak vodka

[@ПОЖАРСКИЙ-ы6в]

@Prakhar Rajpoot almost brotha hhaha

[@ПОЖАРСКИЙ-ы6в]

@@odinn8169 man ur good

[@odinn8169]

@Prakhar Rajpoot o

[@cisco4277]

Interesting, i agree 100%

[@Alexbottiman]

The Obstacle is The way Bro. I recommend the read

[@supercarlos625]

I never pressed a KZbin notification faster.

[@dp-mason]

I fucking love you bro. Keep killing it. This stuff really resonates with me.

[@BallsMcNaughty]

I heard messages from public figures that promoted a lifestyle of self improvement based on the concept of taking personal responsibility for everything wrong with your life, even if you are not the person who caused the problems. I had this belief deep in my personality until the 2020 pandemic started. I used to promote the idea of taking charge of your life to many friends and family, even to the point where I annoyed certain people. Once the pandemic hit, I was reasonably worried but felt like things would be ok so long as we did what we felt were supposed to (my beliefs like most peoples have evolved since the pandemics beginning) and tried to stay positive. Then I slowly felt the feeling you describe of having your childlike dependence creep back into your adult form. The real breaking point was discovering that I have Asperger Syndrome and had an overwhelming sense of "I am not fucking normal and never will be." This feeling of dread utterly captivated my life even to this very day because I will learn new things about how to handle myself in a more healthy manner. When I learned more about my condition and how to help myself, I opened so much painful childhood history that just hurt me so severely to experience again and I believe I snapped into a helpless manchild upon the discovery. As soon as I discovered it within myself I noticed all my relationships in my life crumbling rapidly because of reasons that are both related (work people not understanding what you can help or not help, work using the good parts of my condition to their advantage while leaving me feeling alienated for the bad parts, gf not looking at me the same until I took the time to truly educate her on what asperger's even is i.e. proving to her it doesn't mean Im so mentally ill that I'll ruin our future) and unrelated (general issues with stress, routine, schedule, life planning, relationship, money, etc.) to my condition. It got to a point where I had to have a real talk with my gf about if we should even continue our relationship. She suffers from ADHD and has her issues as well so we were able to sort of bridge a gap mentally and find that in the end we really do feel a deep love for each other and let the current situation blind us from that and that we can both accept each other for who we are just fine. I felt like I finally won a huge battle plaguing my life, but I still had my work issues. Literally on this very day I almost threw my job away with no backup plan because I was passed up for a promotion I truly felt I deserved and worked very hard for. I had a meltdown from overthinking about my recent relationship stress and how I've alienated myself at work with my autistic episodes (before I knew I had it and people found out, they thought I was a lil eccentric but a very fun positive person, after they find out I become that "stressed out weird guy") and I could not help but let all of the events overwhelm me and cause me to utterly break down at work. My manager had a long private talk about how I missed a lot of work before that and If everything was ok to which I vented my issues, I have to talk with another manager tomorrow about what my issues to see if they can help in any possible way which I am extremely appreciative to have that kind of support even at a job that stresses me horribly. Then I see this video and for the first time in forever I truly feel like I got a little bit of sense put back into my brain and I realize my issue. My locus of control has been bordering on the internal and the external due to the problems in life I could not help but take personally. I immediately started typing this to thank you for opening my eyes and taking me back to a better version of myself who didn't take life as if I am always being buried under. I can take charge again like I did before, even if I have weird ticks I can't necessarily control, I can take responsibility for myself once again and I haven't felt this sense of joy In a while. From the bottom of my heart Thank you!

[@tamirbelogorodsky6260]

I like the lighting in your room.

[@alailafernandez7271]

I just hit the bell icon because of that last message, very much deserved. And I don´t even need to hit the bell Icon since I enter directly to this channel´s URL looking for more videos every week. Thanks for this video. This channel is pure gold.

[@ranendahan2369]

Great advice, a few points i needed to be reminded of here. The way you speak is very inspiring. My only complaint with this video, is that last line, "...you're the only one who does." deserves at least a 5 second pause afterward for that final point to sink in. Thanks!

[@johnrocksoldschool]

Im glad im subscribed to you. Thanks to Matt too!

[@blundt1]

Thank you my friend I will try to keep this one in my head.

[@JuliusCreatrix]

To quote Mark Manson, with great responsibility comes great power

[@tTheParakeet]

I definiley relate to this so much. My dad left (I was 6), so didn’t have him, and my mom thought she was helpless and things were out of her hands. She remained unemployed and never taught me how to do things.

[@osvameda5970]

So true, this changed my life as well

[@xohjaane]

I enjoy the comments as much as I enjoy the video. It's so cool to see people quote their favorite parts of your video and explain what it means to them. Love these videos!!

[@bumbee110]

Thank you for this video!! I've realized I've always focused on an external Locus of Control because that's how my parents are and I literally had to distance myself from them because that way of thinking was consuming me. I have a long way to go, but this video has helped me get some perspective.

[@astronomikalac]

You put what I was just thinking into words. I just started a job and I’m not feeling it, but I’m not currently in a position where I *have* to be there, so I’m gonna change it

[@1per]

"why are there many motivational quotes" - Eren Yeager

[@mathalphabet5645]

I think we should be careful with internal locus of control. I went through a breakup recently, and for weeks i still go through everything thinking about what could i have done differently. More dates. More intimacy. Less takeouts. And it is hard for me to just accept it wasn't my fault.

[@borredinho3184]

Wow I know everyone has their own opinnion but I still cant understand how someone can give a dislike to his videos they are so helpful and inspiring thank you so much for your videos greetings from Mexico.

[@TheBerserk69]

Balance in all things. Understand that complaining wont help you and you have to deal with the situation you have been place to. Understand that life is shaped by factors and events that are out of your control and this is true for everyone. So be compassionate to yourself and to others. Misery can strike even those who did no mistakes. Basically be Stoic.

[@frolicsomgaiety]

I’m a third thing. I recognize opportunity and don’t externalize negativity, but am incredibly unmotivated and deeply internalize negative assumptions. Even 2 years of focused therapy still feeling like effort doesn’t equal results. With that said, I love how you’ve laid it out, internal locust of control, I’ll work on creating more of a relationship with the small locust bug inside my brain that controls me

[@DamianDemasi]

Change the things you can change, accept the ones you can’t, and develop the wisdom to differentiate them.

[@spoon1882]

Its stressfull tt the kitchen cabinets are empty

[@sarahcp13]

I dont know how to start taking control of my life even after hearing this

[@theteacupps8134]

Same:(

[@litoazndevil1008]

I do not fear failure, but regret- unknown

[@saikrithiks2870]

It worked!! The algorithm shoved your bald head in not only my feed but also my notification panel ever since I subscribed and hit the bell. 🔔😁

[@MrSaemichlaus]

We're really good at living efficiently by reducing our energy output. Sucking on external sources gets us through the years pretty easily. It's a pattern built into us just like our capacity to automate daily routines, without which we'd die from exhaustion in short time, because using our mind to think through everything on the spot takes a lot of energy and our mind can can run away on us. It's a fine line between being a plant and being an overthinker.

[@calvinmerriman1381]

I never judge someone on how they’re cards are dealt to them but I’ll judge someone on how they play their hand

[@havik9581]

Perpetually stuck, raise your ✋️

[@melih1816]

This actually makes me feel so much better thank you

[@albinjohnsson2511]

There is a somewhat sad paradox in that an external locus of control is probably the more rational and scientifically valid perspective (people are shaped by their genetics and environment, neither of which they have control over), and a society that recognizes this will overall treat its members better (think rehabilitation of prisoners, educational investments in kids, high-quality welfare, etc), while an internal locus of control is the more beneficial from a personal perspective (since it leads to motivation, discipline, responsibility). My proposal for dealing with this is to view yourself as a free-willed agent (and thus take responsibility for being the best you possible), while adopting a more situational outlook on why other people are the way they are (this will lead to more compassion and understanding, rather than frustration and anger).

[@rachvonk6517]

Perfection! No-one is coming....gotta start making the changes within before changes will occur externally (& usually it's just a change of perspective and response). Freeing as you don't have to wait for someone/something else to come save you

[@TonyCook7]

Focusing on trying to control external things is only going to lead to frustration and misery. We can truly only control internal things such as our feelings toward something, or opinions, the decisions we make, your mood, and so forth. Stoicism talks about the dichotomy of control a lot. It’s so easy to understand and adds so much value when embraced.

[@Adzemo]

" *Not every PEEPEE time is a POOPOO time, but every POOPOO time is a PEEPEE time" -Donald J Trump*

[@allizan]

Beautifully shot video and great message.

[@NandyzSoulshine]

"You are neither right or wrong because the crowd disagrees with you. You are right because your data and reasoning are right." - Benjamin Graham

[@youttub7850]

Bro watching your videos is like reading a verey intersting book in just 5 to ten minutes! Thanks bro

[@gregkiepal7682]

It is so weird how all your advice within your videos is so apt to my life as a 20 something. Thank you so much for your content Better Ideas. You provide a different kind of motivation than other content creators; I would call it sage wisdom rather than "motivation". You are a real dude sir :)

[@flbizowner9384]

For a millennial I commend the articulate reason “you feel” is the key to success but there is much more to it then the locus.

[@tntori5079]

This is amazing - it puts into words something I've been desperately trying to communicate to my sister for a long long time. The music and editing is awesome too. A big thanks for this one.

[@waenix166]

It is kind of scary how accurate and fitting this topic is to my current patch of life

[@drmanhat4483]

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