The MM Show by Masarrat Misbah | Ft Adeel Hashmi | Episode # 8

[@gul-e-ranajaffri6703]

Such a focused no nonsense show. Host soft and polite asking just enough and extracting the answers relevant to topic...enjoy it a lot. Ofcourse the quality of guest matters 😊

[@Btw882]

It takes alot of courage to mention such a trauma.

[@asimali581]

This is a brilliant show and I salute ma’am Masarrat and every guest that are sharing their life stories so that people may learn something for the betterment of future generations! 🙏🏼❤️

[@umer.on.youtube]

There's no one quite like Adeel Hashmi in Pakistan. Or probably anywhere for that matter. "aksar yeh sochta hun ke hum sochte kyun nahi hein."

[@khuzaimaharoon5070]

khuda ki qasam lay lain ap nay sb sach kaha.main teacher hon bahat kuch samujh a giya.

[@zarkaghaffar725]

The solution is to be kind to the children but not friend. Parents are and should be authority persons. The biggest problem is also the approach to authority in a friendly manner.

[@afshanisrar8862]

Sir,v r really honoured to hv Ur voice in our society, madam all of Ur recorded conversation hv something to learn and it's imp that v kept learning,thanx

[@mkhan3003]

Very meaningful conversation, great show, love you guys

[@AGAZAH]

What an amazing guest.

[@MMKCOCO]

Wonderful conversation parenting ky sath sath school walo ki b responsibility hy ky woh bacho pr nzer rkhy❤❤

[@khuzaimaharoon5070]

best interview you have taken

[@jyotiloshali3584]

Very very nice and impressive conversation .

[@fari887]

What an intellectual talk.really impressive .

[@ZulqernainSheikh]

Beautiful setup, brilliant conversation and Inspirational content.

[@asadandasher3307]

All programme is good and correct wonderful great show u r right an good questions from mam very good program

[@IzmaKhan.]

School bullying is a real thing . I ve been a victim of it too

[@musman_ich]

I have learnt a lot from this ❤❤❤

[@saramona8914]

This is such am amazing show .Every guest is Educated Civilized and Intelligent

[@englishwithmuzammal3596]

Some bully diligent students in the schools because they think they can't beat them in studies, so the only way to dominate is to make them feel bad something about their body, colour, and race. This is a worldwide tragedy, not only in Pakistan. Grammar school, Beacon House, Aitchison, and many more like those are the hub of sexual abuse. We are just closing our eyes in the name of learning. Or we think our kids are not like others, and everyone is doing the same. What a tragedy! Nothing could be done unless we change people's minds, which is an uphill task. His being sexually abused by his peers in school is a typical activity; what about Madrasshas where it occurs on a larger scale. If this was the situation in a privileged house, what about an underdog household! Physical and mental bullying are part of our norms. People don't consider it amiss. I might be amiss; I am open to other notions. Thank you for reading.

[@zabnaqvi5393]

So impressive

[@Afia6098]

In America, its the same problem. Most of the shootings by children in school happened because these children were getting bullied by other children. In pakistan, the children who bully mostly remain bullies even after they get married. Then the victims are children and wife. The schools are responsible that no kind of harassment should happen. The children should be taught to talk , by looking directly in the eyes. Empathy should be taught at early age from kg . Unfortunately, not too much urdu children literature is available. People should write reviews about schools. Sensitivity is different then how to empathize. As culture we do a lot of sympathies, but we don’t know how to do empathizing. Empathizing needs listening skills. And then ask the person these are somethings that can help you, which one you want to choose. Also, the children don’t have those support systems that they used to have. Dysfunctional families were always present, thats where the bullies are coming from. These families are physically and emotionally, mentally very weak. Also, now the joint family system is disappearing. First the man wouldn’t let women and children to meet nana , nanni, now they cannot meet dada dadi and uncles and aunts. I guess due to Indian dramas. So the only support systems these kids have friends and online stuff. We as nation has become very pessimistic.

[@AGAZAH]

Beautiful conversation

[@saima-f7t]

Amazing show with beautiful ppl n meaningful conversation...

[@sohaibahmadkhan6108]

True definition of a gentleman 🫡

[@hurrabbas3711]

We already a big fan of you,s May Allah pak bless u all the time ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ from Rajab family ❤❤❤❤❤

[@tasnimk5155]

Very nice 👍

[@sadiabatool1970]

I really like ur show.keep it up.Ist comment in any show

[@Ahmad-ik6vz]

مسرت مصباح تو ماشاءاللہ بڑی intelligent اور سمجھداری کی باتیں کر رھی ھے۔ لیکن ۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔

[@sabashakir57]

Nice conversation

[@muhammadamirstc]

It was a wonderful session.

[@urfaviman]

Bht acha discussion tha but Musarrat aapa plz let the guest talk more and ask small questions

[@faizabilal7729]

Waoooo amazing people

[@AhmadHassan-ls3jw]

27:09 😢 true situation but very shameful

[@uzmabaig1859]

Brilliant

[@faizabilal7729]

Wantd to hear more

[@MMKCOCO]

Education system schooling system worst in Pakistan Afsooss hotta hy dykh kr

[@NajamAli-k7r]

From Rajab family ❤

[@khuzaimaharoon5070]

morning show walay sikhain asay baat cheet kartay hain.

[@khuzaimaharoon5070]

bohat si batain Jo hum karna chahtay hain wo ap nay kr di...shukriya

[@1boyatyoutube854]

Rajab family here

[@asad7390]

گفتگو میں ٹھیک ہے ٹھیک ہے بہت برا لگتا ھے ۔۔۔۔

[@Ahmad-ik6vz]

عدیل ھاشمی صاحب !!! ایسے واقعات اکثر لوگوں کے ساتھ پیش آجایا کرتے ھیں۔ یہ حساس قسم کی ذاتی باتوں کو بے نقاب کر کے آپ خود کو توظلم بربریت اور جبر کے خلاف آواز اٹھانے والے علم بردار ثابت کر لیں گے لیکن آپ کی بیوی اور بچے اور ان کے آگے in laws آپ کے اور ان کے بارے میں کیا سوچیں گے اور ان کو اپنے دوستوں اور سسرال میں کس قدر embarrassment اور شرمندگی کا سامنا کرنا پڑے گا۔

[@iammyownworstnightmare6821]

اُف اللّٰہ، اس حساس قسم کے موضوع کو اگر منظر پہ نہ لایا جائے تو معاشرے میں جرائم پیشہ عناصر اور چھیڑتانی کرنے والے افراد کو تقویت ملتی ہے۔۔۔ ایک کلچر ہے جو اس طرح کے واقعات پہ پردہ ڈالتا ہے لیکن کیا ایسا کرنے سے اس طرح کے واقعات مزید بڑھ نہیں جائیں گے؟؟ حال ہی میں ایک ایس پی شہر بانو نقوی نے اپنے ایک انٹر ویو میں بتایا کہ دو تین بڑے لڑکے ایک محلے میں ایک بچے کو جنسی طور پہ حراساں کر رہے تھے، جب لڑکوں پہ ایف آئی آر کٹنے لگی تو محلے داروں نے خاتون اے ایس پی کو کال کر کے منت ترلے کیے کہ ایسا نہ کریں، ایف آئی آر درج نہ کیجیے، یوں محلہ داری خراب ہوتی ہے۔۔۔ ایک شخص نے تو یہاں تک کہہ دیا کہ بچوں کی زندگی میں ایسے واقعات دو تین بار ہو ہی جاتے ہیں۔۔۔ آپ خود بتائیے کہ جب معاشرتی اخلاقی گراوٹ کے اس درجے تک پہنچ جائے اور معصوم بچوں کے حقوق یوں پامال ہونے لگیں، پھر بھی انسان ان ننھی جانوں کے حق میں آواز بلند نہ کرے تو کب کرے؟؟ واضح رہے کہ ساری شرم اور ندامت غلط حرکت کرنے والے کی ہے، بیچارے بچے کو یا اس کے خاندان کو embarrass ہونے کی کوئی ضرورت نہیں۔