The mother and son seem to be growing apart (Mr. House Husband EP.245-3) | KBS WORLD TV 220311

[@AimanArif-ez5eq]

I am shocked. When I read the news of their divorce in which the husband said that the mother has a very liberal way of raising kids and she is stubborn and too easy on the children and would let them do what they want, it seems like his mother is putting words in his mouth and actually the grandmother is the one who is ruining the kids by being too easy on them and the mother is trying to discipline the children

[@comradeleppi2000]

True. His mother is one who is spoiling them

[@sunny_ahaha0211]

Tbh I never liked the grandmother . She's the one spoiling them . Yulhee was doing a good job raising them . And now the kids miss their Mother so much .

[@AimanArif-ez5eq]

@@sunny_ahaha0211 exactly

[@Shwetasingh-qo7ez]

TBH I think you're his maid or something that's why you know their lives and their circumstances apart from this few minutes videos 🤣

[@AimanArif-ez5eq]

@@Shwetasingh-qo7ez hahahhaha the thing that only 'the maid' came to your mind rather than literally anyone like neighborhood aunty, relative or anyone from their social circle, tells me much about your mentality 😂. Don't worry I can understand you can only think about others in a way you actually are, so no hard feelings

[@qqqttt3492]

This is why having a fourth kid is such a bad idea right now. How are they going to handle their oldest son if they bring in another child? The twins are already a lot to handle

[@farahain3112]

Agreeed! Yulhee shud learn first how to make the eldest son listen to her ...

[@thiya4627]

they already have the 4th child now???

[@amalianidzal5504]

@@thiya4627 they planned to have

[@gracilliaainsley2217]

maybe min hwan & yulhee should be able to raise jaeyul like park jooho & anna raise naeun & gunhoo first before plan the 4th child. park jooho and anna are parents who educate their children very well. park naeun & park gunhoo are a great older brother&sister to jinwoo. they don't get angry if jinwoo makes a mess, they clean up whatever jinwoo messed up without complaint, they obey what parents say, even gunhoo & jinwoo are more obedient to his sister, naeun than to his father. they never angry then hurting people. they always speak softly, and their eldest son, naeun, can really lead their younger siblings and teach their younger siblings very well. like no need to be angry if there is a mess and just need to clean up, can't be picky about food, can't hit people no matter how angry you are. and what amazed me was when jinwoo hit his brother, gunhoo, but gunhoo didn't get angry or hit back at all. he was silent until naeun and his father advised jinwoo. then he forgave and hugged jinwoo. it was so amazing. even my older brother can hit me 5 times harder if i hit him just a little. they are really gentle children and never joke around hurting other people. even when his father joked with uncle kwanghee by getting him splashed with water from the pickup car, gunhoo was worried and didn't laugh at all. i think park jooho and anna are the successful parent that i’ve ever seen in educating their children. even if they have a fourth child i don't think there's anything to worry about

[@felixdom9693]

Right 3 kids already tiresome and have to give lot attention equally. but i see jaeyul seems so fond on minhwan instead of yulhe

[@angelanam7193]

She's doing her best to become a good mom to her kids. But srsly small yet complicated things like this reaffirms that I'm still emotionally unstable to become a mom. If I'm so confused how to react then probably I'll never even react or say anything and yet that in itself is not the right thing to do. 😅

[@BathysphereMechanic]

True. At least you're self aware. Half the battle 😉

[@longlivecakegurls194]

I don’t understand why everyone is criticising the mom. Conflict between a child and the parents is normal regardless the age (it is something that can’t be avoided), she handled it well and please this is her first time being a mother. give her some break, she is trying her best.

[@cutekookiemaknae2625]

I feel bad for his mum he seems like a good kid of course kids act out but the dad came in told him to apologize and he didn't and was let off and the dad just took over and took his son out i think the dad should let the mum take him out they clearly need time together he shouldn't treat his mum like that and that kid is way to young to be even going on a phone

[@adla3225]

This is an old episode. Things seem to have gotten better now. They have figured out some better method for her to converse with him and teach him. But of course we need to take all these scenes with a grain of salt as it is possible the scenes have been edited together in such a way that is seems pretty bad when its just a once in a while issue in reality.

[@cutekookiemaknae2625]

@@adla3225 oh well im glad the issue is no longer a problem im hoping he only acted like that for the camera though but on another clip the mum was upset because he refused to sleep in her bed on her birthday which of course is fine but it seems like she feels as if he favorites the dad and grandma i would have liked to see the dad acually helping her instead of just taking over the whole sittuation but its great to hear its no longer a problem now

[@hellokenize7019]

He is a kid what do you meqn hr shouldnt treat his mom likr that kids don't know how adults feel if there little

[@mirroruniverse9331]

Yeah phone addiction has got no age limit. Especially kids at that age are highly vulnerable

[@cutekookiemaknae2625]

@@hellokenize7019 you sound stupid of course he knows it's wrong and knows how bad she must feel he's old enough to understand a 3 year old even knows from right to wrong like him she also has feeling and he maybe young but it should think how she feels also my little brother is about that age and would never be like that he's way to young to have a phone he probably lacks sleep it's unhealthy

[@ells8915]

The mother seems to warn and reprimand to an extent he must consciously not want to associate with her. When you reprimand a child you let them know their fault and give them time to absorb and then approach them and just offer comfort because they are learning emotions and how to tackle them

[@MdsolamanEm]

Look at these commenters atleast 98 percent is not married, 80 percent not in a good relationship with anyone but still become pundits and giving advice on child raising and career consultation....funny

[@malihakarim1696]

Ikr😂

[@akbarwali]

The irony

[@RyukiXAsh]

They don't even want a kid, and try to impose their views on others

[@spyroo8876]

Exactly.... 👍👍

[@knightenchanter7908]

Lmao most of them are teenagers too.

[@Pixiemaniac]

To all the ppl critisizing her you do realise that different people do things differently. She seems to be trying to do her best . Yes the child is young so we must be condiderate and guide them to the right path but along with the child the parent is also learning how to be a good mother. You make mistakes its part of the journey but eventually you will figure it out and find a bakance

[@inquisitvem6723]

I still remember her in LaBoum…so young and innocent…now having to grow up so fast being a mother

[@felixdom9693]

is her decision for having a child a married. Is not happen without her consent and ofc she's know her responsibility now

[@7chill31]

​@@felixdom9693who said it's not her decision?? Op just said how she remembered her as an idol

[@dancingdohl]

He seems sweet and they are trying their best. I'm sure a child specialist will tell them to use emotion rather than being stern in some situations. Like, when he throws things, please be gentle with the people around you, or they could get hurt like mom just now, or it could make them sad or scared, like the sister seeing mom get hurt. And instead of suddenly taking the phone just say, here's your 5min of phone time, then we can have fun together as a family. You can acknowledge what he wants to do, give him time and then he won't feel like he's punished. And family time, rather than "mom wants to do this" which make it seem like what mom wants to do is more important than his feelings.

[@chryztalll]

This is the comment I've been looking for. Respectful/Visible Child parenting.

[@bleach2618]

You can talk big like this without much experience but she actually did her best in that situation. Idk if u understand Korean or not but she handled that in a very similar way as to what you’re saying. But even if she is, you can’t guarantee perfect results like this. Come back after uv had kids. Every kid and situation is different.

[@dancingdohl]

@@bleach2618 You're right, every kid, parent and situation is different and I don't speak Korean fluently, and I'm aware there may be different societal expectations in terms of parent/child relationships. I used to work as a counselor in a government office for abused and troubled children, k-12 and up to 22 if the person was on the spectrum or physically disabled in some way, so I do have experience with kids. Everyone's idea and abilities are different and there is no one right answer.

[@snowliemyyeo5249]

honestly, coming from the perspective of an oldest child, sometimes it's hard ykyk, always being scolded for stuff and somehow your younger siblings aren't when it comes to them, and having to adjust to sharing everything and giving everything up just for kids that are younger than you... it's hard sometimes to understand why your parents do things in a certain why and why they treat you in a certain way... it's just something that someone who hasn't been through the same experience cannot relate to, and kind of hard to put into words as it may seem as though im ungrateful or something...

[@whiteheartsr]

Ik this comment is a bit old but what are you even talking about he's not getting blamed for something his younger sisters did he's the one who got upset after his mom(yulhee) told him put the phone down

[@ridha07]

Whats up with that title?! "The mother and son seem to be growing apart"?! Its literally a normal mother-son interaction. Its very evident that most of the people in this comment section dont have kids, nor do they remember how their parents were with them. Jaehyul was throwing the toy at Yulhee. The mother has every right to discipline her child. And she was not even shouting. Just very calmly explaining to the kid. Mothers can't and won't always be lovey dovey with the children 24/7. Disciplining a child is a part of raising them. If this is what's called growing apart, then me and my mother should have been galaxies apart. But I am very very close with my mother. People criticizing her should analyse their life, try having children and then speak

[@Shreeenail]

People telling bad about her because they don't know Indian Mother 😅😅😅

[@letjungcook1013]

I feel like his behaviour have alot to do with his parents having twins too soon, he was prolly young and ofcourse twins require alot of attention, so they might've unknowingly gave more time of their day to the younger ones.

[@MalliH2000]

People who don't have kids yet shouldn't put in their 2 cents. Young or not you learn to be a parent in the process. Same goes to your parents. They werent perfect as well but still raised you. When you watch or raise someones kid its different. When you have your own kids you be will understand the struggle. I have 3 under 3 and am I the best nor have most skills. I am learning as I go. Don't judge a book by its cover if you haven't been in their shoes.

[@hobii8378]

I’m guessing no one in this comment section has children or doesn’t know how to discipline? Alrighty then.😉 (edit) and i just want to say it is NOT easy to raise kids. when you babysit kids you still get tired but you don't have to teach them, discipline them as much as us parents. yes children are easy to mold but that doesn't mean they don't have their own thoughts, they simply don't know how to express it correctly so you have to help them. when i say helping i mean those feelings they have you just have to guide instead of change. of course her situation is more difficult, her mom is always there. I don't recommend raising your kids with your're parents because the child will think " oh my grandparents are also adults so when i don't want to listen to mommy or daddy i juts go to them" and see you'll never get anywhere. I just hope she figures it out,FIGHTING!!

[@frothylattestudio]

I think Jaeyul is still not happy with soemthing like attention. Mother is pretty young always have to take care of the twins. I suggest Father should be more open to his son otherwise their son definitely go well with the grandparents. He might not feel closeness. I disagreed with like he is being the oldest as well as thinking he should be a good example to his younger siblings. Because he is still a child. Whom needs some attention

[@alyally5798]

Yea i guess there is a family conflict. I mean for the kid. He is just between them. Thats why it is not good to raise children all family together. There everyone trying to raise the children with their own rules and then children dont know how to get along with them all. There is no only one mom and one dad for them so they choose whoever they want to get smth done whatever they want...

[@Solemnpeach]

I think that the real issue is having a discussion around parenting and what rules will be inforced. There isnt anything better about having a traditonal nuclear family because the same thing can happen. Extended family structure allows for more support for new parents.

[@thedustwhispered]

i have nothing against the parents, it's more that i feel this kind of reality TV is really not a good idea... the children can't consent, first of all, and i think it's kind of deranged to add 'constantly on camera and judged by the viewers' on top of the stress of being a young parent with 3(!!!) kids. that can't be healthy for anyone involved. i get that this is a popular kind of TV in korea but i wish they would reconsider.

[@emilyhauner8608]

The dad and grandma over spoil the little boy.

[@letsgetit7566]

Anybody else thinks she looks like clcs seunghee?

[@saturn_djsu]

i thought i was the only one who noticed that 😭

[@letsgetit7566]

@@saturn_djsu lol they do eh, seunghee seems love kids too, which makes it funnier

[@kilah2037]

Yess

[@moonlightn922]

She used to be in LABOUM. Please listen to their music

[@letsgetit7566]

@@moonlightn922 sounds good

[@Shreeenail]

People comment bad about her because they don't know Indian mothers 😅😅😅

[@inquisitvem6723]

Her son needs to be disciplined…you can’t treat this lightly as they grow older, they will become emboldened.

[@meissareacts1914]

lol this is the healths family i have seen and people are like given tips lol he is a nice kid and the mother is sweet

[@Psychologymuse2121]

The mom is sulking a lot and not actually playing with him. She is constantly holding those 2 girls. The parents are spending more unnecessary time with the twins. That's why he can see. The mother is acting like a child herself. She needs to be flexible, fun, and get creative. That's what kids love.

[@inkeri2741]

Why is the dad not scolding the child? He should’ve made him apologize to the mom before leaving the room🤦‍♂️

[@booosadan]

because it wasn't the right time, he needed to calm down and think about the situation before he would actually be able to apologize. kids need time to think about their behaviour and be talked to about the situation just like adults, and apologies should never be forced.

[@Randomly.cliche]

if the apology was forced, then it wouldn't have been sincere and he wouldn't have a parent to go to when he would be upset.

[@Pix1013]

@@Randomly.cliche exactly. Theres no point of an apology if its not sincere, it wasmt the correcf time. Parents do this all the time, it really effects a child's emotional developement. They might even end up emotionless 🤷‍♂️.

[@mynameisstolen]

the more you force, the more the child refuses

[@user-in1yw9ty5t]

Reason parenting is hard. You have to start with basics. And thats hard. To think on your own.

[@hidayahfatehah]

Why i think of kim jong dae when i saw minhwan

[@tadikata]

beautiful omma 😍

[@linedemers7493]

marriage goes both way conflict happen all the time either you work it out or not its not easy specially with mother in law l have a good husband who support me all the time. we got along well with time

[@josefinesudano261]

She was closed to them. How she left ?

[@puanpaquita6778]

That's why one child is the best🥰 Poor yulhee, your son need more attention but you has 2 child twins so now look like not like you

[@pritisandesara2683]

Sadly they are actually growing apart

[@jenniferlee4920]

she kind of looks like Yoon from STAYC 🤧🤧

[@winniekyn6162]

She used to be an idol

[@jenniferlee4920]

@@winniekyn6162 wait really? was she in a group / soloist?

[@winniekyn6162]

She was in a girl group called 'LABOUM'

[@jenniferlee4920]

@@winniekyn6162 oh, i see! tysm for the information!

[@winniekyn6162]

@@jenniferlee4920 👍

[@melinoe_22]

I'm so sorry but may I ask who are they?

[@onlyu5992]

They are both kpop idols. Yul Hee and Min Hwan.

[@dggry_ella]

Yulhee from LABOUM and Minhwan from FT Island

[@junem342]

Phone can be easily solved... phone time edu games and video only on it... check in/ out time phone is put away vs. free use.

[@lologirl732]

Can someone tell me when’re to watch full episodes

[@student-..]

Shes young

[@user-jm9ov5ws1s]

she look like somi

[@meowbut]

Somi looks like her

[@AlexanderSalazarMorales-p2o]

Alexander Me gusto el video

[@EzTommy]

this happen when they married too soon when young age. they don't know how to raise their kid correctly

[@onlyu5992]

It happens to almost all new parents. They will improve over time to educate them better. That is their kids. You should learn when you dont know something and not easily judging people.

[@alfawolf7125]

all dramas ahh these people are not the real parents

[@da_puppett]

wow that's a bad prank...

[@HNNPHM]

Pretty af ¯\_( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)_/¯

[@noshamespeakyourmind5495]

This Beta dude and Alpha woman couple is confusing!

[@jochenwegener9892]

😍😍😍👍

[@ಠಿ_ಠ-ತ7ಭ]

thats why you dont make baby at your 20 infront of your audience

[@gamingreactionvideos6644]

What kind of bad parents are they , how they treat their older son like this , totally disgusting. Police should arrest them and teach them some lesson . They totally Ignore the older son and play all the time with twins . Shame on you it's better to give your older son to other couple .