This is the best song ever about hopelessness. It is total commitment to losing.
@slurwangatang19056 жыл бұрын
Very nicely put!
@howtomeetwomen-6 жыл бұрын
gonna quote you later.
@howtomeetwomen-5 жыл бұрын
@@kanyewest8283 And totally resigning yourself to that failure. It's beautiful and ugly.
@LKRaider5 жыл бұрын
Pretty Bad At Everything : there's beauty in the breakdown.
@heidigrilsissybunny5 жыл бұрын
Beautifully said
@juno33805 жыл бұрын
i feel like this is a response to someone telling him to have some "hope" so he sarcastically "hopes" for things
@magicalmarshmallow61334 жыл бұрын
I like this one
@deez25694 жыл бұрын
HOPE is so gawd damn faulty...so pathetic.
@dominiquecaldwell30934 жыл бұрын
I can see this happening
@Lunaliladee3 жыл бұрын
That literally describes me
@itsyaboinadia3 жыл бұрын
or maybe its like "knock on wood" and hes trying to jinx it so the opposite happens
@NotAGoodUsername3606 жыл бұрын
For a song where almost every line contains the word "hope," there's a LOT of pure, unadulterated despair here...
@voiceofafreeamerica98546 жыл бұрын
Want to know why? It's because the depressed, like the husband being portrayed in the song, scramble for hope even when they are putting the gun to the temple.
@bigbeefscorcho6 жыл бұрын
I’ve never picked up on that, brilliant observation
@ejm12256 жыл бұрын
Hmm, Danganronpa?
@MaceMeetFace6 жыл бұрын
Puhuhu Puhuhuhuh...
@christophercastillo39756 жыл бұрын
V. Ghf
@irenem.db.m38763 жыл бұрын
This gives me "song that plays in the final credits of a really good movie that at the beginning was comedy but at the end is really deep and with a very sad ending that makes you feel like your soul don't exist anymore and you are still processing the ending and the whole meaning of life" vibes
@Sylvadox3 жыл бұрын
moral orel, its an old stop motion adult swim show and its so good. it just gets darker and more serious as time goes on (they had to cancel it because one of the episodes got TOO serious and dark) but yeah they actually use this song in the ending credits for one of the last episodes and its so perfect in context and heartbreaking. The whole show personally gave me the exact feeling you described
@irenem.db.m38763 жыл бұрын
@@Sylvadox wow, thank you, I didn't know that my comment was actually a real thing, I'm gonna check that out, thanks
@hannieblackthorn52182 жыл бұрын
i love this
@toongamer28102 жыл бұрын
Hey Moral Orel
@swizzycake2 жыл бұрын
you just explained moral orel perfectly and i love you for that
@snowpizza76734 жыл бұрын
Idk what but the line “hand in unloveable hand” just hits different for me
@ahumblewaffle4 жыл бұрын
it makes me go ape shit feral and i love it
@trishell.longlastname4 жыл бұрын
me too bro
@glassesguy40863 жыл бұрын
mood
@crowsoto96123 жыл бұрын
it's such a fucking good line I love it
@katemorgan46903 жыл бұрын
@@ahumblewaffle Can you eat beans yet?
@moonbeam7143 жыл бұрын
this song feels like the deep compulsion to stay in a dark place because it's all you've ever known and you're scared of change. even if you're actively trying to get better, there's a part of you that doesn't want to.
@SmokySweater3 жыл бұрын
WELL DAMN. DIDN'T HAVE TO CALL ME OUT LIKE THAT! /nm
@ariellestorm29913 жыл бұрын
Yeah I’m just bumping this to ease my rage at my father. I don’t know how to let go of the anger just yet so I’m gonna scream this a few times.
@grilledcheese20843 жыл бұрын
You just put into words what so many people cant. Hope they see your comment and it can help them.
@elizabethlee21363 жыл бұрын
This
@eqwertman25563 жыл бұрын
thats pretty much what the song is about, theyre too scared to leave the relationship cause theyre the only person they have, these 2 people in the song are perfect for destroying each other, but they have so much in common and so little aswell. Described in the verse "I am drowning, there is no sign of land, you are coming down with me, hand in unlovable hand."
@AQFearfullMage6 жыл бұрын
the mountain children - no goats
@KenMabie6 жыл бұрын
AQFearfullMage The goat children - no mountains
@grahamlopez62026 жыл бұрын
The Children- no goats mountain
@KenMabie6 жыл бұрын
@@grahamlopez6202 The Nos - Goat Mountain Children
@grahamlopez62026 жыл бұрын
No mountain- the goat children
@grahamlopez62026 жыл бұрын
Wait shit. Ah you win
@bonktheamanda2 жыл бұрын
There’s something about the pause between “and I hope you die” “I hope we both die.” It feels like the person realizes that the death of the one they’re singing about won’t be enough to erase whatever happened, and that they themself would also have to die to move past it. I don’t think I’ll ever stop loving those lines.
@trollanlord85 Жыл бұрын
I always interpreted it as one of the partners yelling "I hope you die" and the other partner responds with "I hope we both die" to tie in with the "you are coming down with me", but this is such a more emotional interpretation
@mimim1084 жыл бұрын
i don't know why but the "hand in unlovable hand" always hits me so hard
@call_me_blue4 жыл бұрын
It really does
@winilula3 жыл бұрын
It makes me cry
@Chloe-vb8rm3 жыл бұрын
Same
@santinomerlino63652 жыл бұрын
yes it does 💔
@keithfranzen33542 жыл бұрын
Because at one time you thought it wa s the most safe, understanding, and lovable.....maybe...and because of this ( what time has unveiled or forced to the surface) that line is spoken or thought with such disbelief, heart ache , and bitterness it cant help but draw out tears.....or screams....or a complete emotional breakdown.. ...blah...... or as my spell check likes to say .... blag.
@theweightofdarkness6 жыл бұрын
I'm very glad that they have no children
@deadseid5 жыл бұрын
that's just it, its the one good thing about their relationship. that at least no children have to suffer through the two of them.
@wylliam4885 жыл бұрын
Doesn't he have children? I've met him in person and he has a son that goes to a small school in NC.
@gabrielashe-jones58655 жыл бұрын
Wylliam this song isn’t actually about john darnielle’s life, it’s about the fictionalized Alpha couple. all of the albums up to and including tallahassee are fictional. john is still married and they have two kids.
@wylliam4885 жыл бұрын
@@gabrielashe-jones5865 oh, alright, thanks for clearing that up!
@witcheshazel5 жыл бұрын
@@wylliam488I read prison instead of person and I dead(ಠ_ಠ) stared at the screen for like three minutes trying to figure a *few* things out
@sasswongames72165 жыл бұрын
"I am drowning. There is no sign of land. You are coming down with me. Hand in unlovable hand" That. That right there? Favorite part music wise and lyrically
@kingbronksman73775 жыл бұрын
SassWonGames lmao how tf is that at all musical haha
@toonbutch5 жыл бұрын
@@kingbronksman7377 probably because its a song buddy. those tend to involve music
@maayandahan21055 жыл бұрын
@@kingbronksman7377 Harmonies... it's not that hard dude and you don't have to be an ass
@kyleea.p22365 жыл бұрын
@@kingbronksman7377 did you just ask how music is musical
@fressejetzt8405 жыл бұрын
This is no music and has 0 real meaning
@ryanp94582 жыл бұрын
This isn’t a song about hate, it’s a song about fear. It’s about fearing what is already written on the walls, and trying to take control in a desperate attempt to convince yourself that you’re broken enough to sadistically crave and embrace the co-self-destruction.
@donovanulrich3482 жыл бұрын
Its about self hate, and accepting what is. To hopefully move on He dosent hate her for what she did, he hates himself for loving her. And just wishes the past could be erased, cuz he still loves her. But its a fact now, so i hope we both die 😂🤷♂️
@MilloSpiegel2 жыл бұрын
It is also the fear of change. The fear that after the change you realize it was your fault. That you were wrong
@TheCowpoke406 Жыл бұрын
@@MilloSpiegel exactly. I played this song nonstop when I was going through the motions after losing my ex fiance due to my own actions.
@jaxmorningstar6703 Жыл бұрын
Feels like having to leave an abusive parent you still love but just can't keep up the charade
@herec0mestheCh33f Жыл бұрын
That, or spite
@TheBigFrasier6 жыл бұрын
This is probably the angriest song I've ever heard.
@sadieadler51395 жыл бұрын
Listen to the song I pray for you
@nicola70215 жыл бұрын
Princess Caty good song, that :))
@Gaylord3005 жыл бұрын
I've been so mad lately by Butt Trumpets. A pretty angry song, to me, at least.
@callingthevoid5 жыл бұрын
@@brain0068 lmao i just came here from that song!
@coyotelightning68815 жыл бұрын
But it's so damn funny cause it sounds upbeat
@dirtburger27733 жыл бұрын
this song is pure, unadulterated, *lavishly indulgent* anger and bitterness and despair and i yearn for more songs like it. nothing hits just right unless it's like this
@rainbowflowerpower44643 жыл бұрын
Literally this song had me dancing around my room, it’s not joy and like you said there’s unaltered and unbridled indulgence in anger and it’s so good to listen to and feel my own anger vicariously expressed through it, anger I’ve never really been able to get off my chest but it was freeing to hear it expressed dang I wish there were more songs like this!
@meephaphan76913 жыл бұрын
Big words
@disastergirl8883 жыл бұрын
Death Cab for Cutie has a song called Styrofoam Plates which is about a deadbeat dad but has very similar energy. Also Brother’s Blood by Kevin Devine which is more grief and rage than bitterness but is also very cathartic.
@Beefercow3 жыл бұрын
@@disastergirl888 thanks for the songs. I love them.
@liviamuranyi41633 жыл бұрын
The front bottoms's songs are a bit faster in pace, but they have the same sad and unsettling vibe. It's like your world is falling apart around you, and even with the people who you were the closest to, you kind of just hate each other now. There's no one to go to, there's no way out, and it's all just despair and emptiness. They are great for an existencial crisis... 10/10.
@fionahoang96284 жыл бұрын
your friend: my relationship isn't toxic the relationship:
@rachel78154 жыл бұрын
ADSSHJAASEGHASGH TRUTH
@slushy7114 жыл бұрын
facts
@athroneoflies87854 жыл бұрын
My friend: so he cheated on me, but I don’t know if I’m breaking up with him yet Me: quietly sending this song to her
@InsaneGold4 жыл бұрын
FELT THIS LOL
@baggachaos34064 жыл бұрын
Bruh dats fuqin true,,,
@olliewalker22 жыл бұрын
"When he drinks he changes" "He dosent change, that's his true nature coming out"
@definitelynotsiri40582 жыл бұрын
_Cue door slam and low quality sobbing_
@johnmckinney59312 жыл бұрын
That hit hard
@kokichiouma22 жыл бұрын
I think of this song and Clay when my dad drinks hes pretty much Clay
@cricketen2 жыл бұрын
moral orel heart emoji
@Gmsreal2 жыл бұрын
moral orel hits different
@vodkasvoice4 жыл бұрын
When you hate someone else almost as much as you hate yourself.
@StarboyJuno4 жыл бұрын
Me @ everyone in my school
@BaggerNifty4 жыл бұрын
You good bro?
@CazabichosManny4 жыл бұрын
feeling it right now
@Algernon74 жыл бұрын
Not possible
@misteryA5554 жыл бұрын
This is the one comment on this video. None of the others get it as right
@ghostpepperwine5 жыл бұрын
This reads like an angry, spiteful suicide note.
@ottogren15 жыл бұрын
I think it is.
@MLG_Kitten5 жыл бұрын
If you look back on your favorite lyrics, you can actually read them as notes instead of verses. It's pretty crazy
@lkblondie80615 жыл бұрын
this was honestly what my suicide note would have been like if I wasnt too nice for my own good lmao
@prageruwu694 жыл бұрын
i'm gonna write a spiteful suicide note when i'm not a coward anymore
@riitaako4 жыл бұрын
@@prageruwu69 Hey man, just wanted to say that you're not a coward for staying alive. You're really strong and I hope you keep going. ♡ To you and everyone here.
@MrRee-jo2or5 жыл бұрын
I'd *love* to hear a song from the other partner's perspective.
@sara_daria24 жыл бұрын
I think this feeling is mutual
@cadencurtis67844 жыл бұрын
Fuck you by Lilly alen?
@internetuser5284 жыл бұрын
thats just Evelyn Evelyn
@Bonovasitch4 жыл бұрын
It's probably this exact same song lmao
@donuko4 жыл бұрын
Missing In Nevada It would be more similar to Evelyn, Evelyn if the wife wanted to stay and is just upset about how they can’t get along but it seems like she hates him too.
@jae.lorin.2 жыл бұрын
"you are coming down with me" i love how that lyric can be seen in two different ways. 'you are coming down with me' implying that she is drowning in her own self hatred WITH him and 'you ARE coming down with me' implying that he WILL make her drown with him. amazing song
@BlisaBLisa4 ай бұрын
i think it is both
@that_awesome_mint_bear77104 ай бұрын
WILL GRAHAM PFP!!
@jae.lorin.4 ай бұрын
@@that_awesome_mint_bear7710 YES🎉🎉🎉
@XavierTheNeonTiger12 күн бұрын
Considering all the references to drug use, it's probably also literal. 'Coming down' is when the drugs start to wear off and you gradually become sober. They're literally coming down together as the high wears off.
@milesbrinkley71415 жыл бұрын
This song has no damn business being this damn catchy.
@trishell.longlastname4 жыл бұрын
lol ikr
@stayhydratedkingsqueens4 жыл бұрын
Fax
@autumnthepumpkinwolf3 жыл бұрын
Yep
@snugglypichu68813 жыл бұрын
I hate that I love this song so much. It's so toxic but so enjoyable
@QtheWhatever6 жыл бұрын
This song makes me want to throw a piano down some stairs.
@Aloevera_bagel5 жыл бұрын
Alex Summers oh my god this is the best comment-
@humanbean40375 жыл бұрын
Then let’s drag all the pieces out and burn them at 3 in the morning
@Mothblossom5 жыл бұрын
I’m up for that
@xXdigleDJ62Xx4 жыл бұрын
2 questions: why does this comment exist? And why do I agree with it so much?
@NicoleElliot4 жыл бұрын
I am really laughing, that was great
@4rtie6 жыл бұрын
"Mom, why did you marry dad?" "Well...why not?"
@Damian-xg8dw5 жыл бұрын
Moral Orel. Best fooking show ever
@nyanmaster995 жыл бұрын
YESSSSS 😭😭
@DatCatchyTune5 жыл бұрын
Bruh you can’t do that to me 😢
@notyourdaughter6665 жыл бұрын
DarVin_edrQ what show?
@nyanmaster995 жыл бұрын
@@notyourdaughter666 morel orel! It's an adult swim claymation show by the creators of robot chicken. It starts off as funny and making fun of the perfect Catholic/Christian family but then it takes a while 180° and is actually about things like drug abuse, child abuse/neglect, alcoholism, cycle of abuse, dysfunctional marriage, affairs, r*pe victims, the innocence of a child, corruption of a child through abuse- just SO much. It's absolutely adult swims most powerful show yet it barely gets any attention, I 1000000% recommend it.
@pastelguts61822 жыл бұрын
I think one of my favorite parts of this song is that aside from the "and tell everyone you were a good wife" line, it can be for any type of toxic relationship, whether romantic, platonic, or familial.
@xoxoluvu22 жыл бұрын
yeah :(
@yeethittter12852 жыл бұрын
Tbf before that he does say "I hope I lie" so he could totally be /j about the wife thing
@mistycomet9760 Жыл бұрын
could be from a child to a mother with that line, especially if parents fought
@Gmanawesomeness10 ай бұрын
@@yeethittter1285what
@EssenceofEscence8 ай бұрын
Yeah this actually happens to be my song to my mom-
@carolynstark4714 жыл бұрын
This song perfectly captures the feeling of being in a codependent relationship. Your dependency on them makes you resent and grow to hate your partner, yet you still can't leave because you feel like you need them. It's an all consuming kind of anger and desperation that makes dying feels more feasible than leaving
@grarglejobber79413 жыл бұрын
>codependent I didn't know roasties still used that word. I think it mostly died out around 2008
@guilhermeshiba31353 жыл бұрын
@UCD3DHiC6VEAUEFR5nSprUcw what does roastie mean
@guilhermeshiba31353 жыл бұрын
@@grarglejobber7941 guessing it's a bad word since KZbin auto modded my comment
@isabelle8433 жыл бұрын
Yep.
@paperpics3 жыл бұрын
Holy shit exactly this yes
@eggb34n4 жыл бұрын
This song gives me the same surreal feeling as when you’ve stayed up all night and you walk down the empty street to see the sunrise in winter and you hear nothing but your steps, the trees, and then suddenly the birds
@azulizachan75953 жыл бұрын
Why is this so accurate? I haven't even done that
@jensimpson43723 жыл бұрын
And the sky is that wierd pink colour...
@KingKhanate19973 жыл бұрын
I disagree, I’ve experienced that feeling plenty of times and normally that one is accompanied by something resembling joy. Winter mornings in the Northeast are a bitch and cold as hell but also beautiful. This song on the other hand is like triple distilled despair, and not of the self harm kind. Like you have the pain inside you, and want to spread it as much as you can before leaving.
@idontneedaname3183 жыл бұрын
that kind of surreal feeling sounds pleasant, which makes me confused as to how this song reminds you of that considering this song is like pure misery in a bottle
@varad65403 жыл бұрын
That feeling does seem nice but I will admit that hearing nothing but your steps and trees kinda rubs in the fact that you're alone on that walk
@revokedlight68435 жыл бұрын
this is a profoundly deep song and i love to appreciate it but i also love how everyone in the comments sounds like english teachers explaining it lmao
@Mel-lk6cy5 жыл бұрын
Its what John would want.
@voen5 жыл бұрын
Well, we're all so educated.
@mori87064 жыл бұрын
Not really most of it are jokes
@VideoEssayWatcher54843 жыл бұрын
What’s so deep about this song? Emotional technically doesn’t = deep
@pinkoctopus8013 жыл бұрын
Because I feel like it can carry such meaning to each person it's handed to
@nessmarsh2 жыл бұрын
this song feels like stewing in your own bitterness and misery and realizing its easier to give up then try and be better
@rocher47672 жыл бұрын
This isn't an original thought you had
@blackprimrose75412 жыл бұрын
And then you reach a point of being in such a bad state that you want to get out, but it's already too late, because the hole you dug for yourself is too deep to climb out of...
@nessmarsh2 жыл бұрын
@@rocher4767 what do you mean?
@HwoarangtheBoomerang2 жыл бұрын
Welcome to my life. I've never had a good relationship.
@nessmarsh2 жыл бұрын
@@rocher4767 youve never had an origninal though you fucking subhuman sack of shit
@sagecolvard96443 жыл бұрын
Man, this guy really just wrote the most romantic melody ever and then sang pure bile to it. Respect.
@xtzyshuadog2 жыл бұрын
So frustrated with the situation that it becomes lovely *desperation and anger and fear.* Nice song
@crookedteeth15762 жыл бұрын
This ain’t love sweetheart far from it
@LUVS2SPWGE-69 Жыл бұрын
@@crookedteeth1576 ‘the most romantic melody’ not the most romantic song
@Iwannaeatabiscuit Жыл бұрын
i think its called lyrical dissonance where the lyrics and music dont match
@marcyy5258 Жыл бұрын
@@crookedteeth1576u dumb as hell highkey
@JoeyTDoesThings2 жыл бұрын
"Why did _you_ marry dad?" "Oh, well... why not?" "Well... it's just that... when he drinks... he _changes._ " _"Oh, he doesn't change, Orel. That's just his true nature coming out."_
@lifecide2 жыл бұрын
My mom says the same about me.
@kokichiouma22 жыл бұрын
My dad literally acts like Clay (other then being “secretly” gay)
@pastelguts61822 жыл бұрын
I just started watching this show like yesterday, what a coincidence i see this comment lmao
@kokichiouma22 жыл бұрын
@@pastelguts6182 do you like it so far
@andersbell20462 жыл бұрын
That show is a fucking banger, so this comment really caught my eye.
@Sarah-ob9ud3 жыл бұрын
One day you are young and carefree and then all of a sudden this song resonates with you
@andynonymous67693 жыл бұрын
Yeah.
@artvulture4562 жыл бұрын
Not me
@Strawberryglazzes2 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@Myspace.com62 жыл бұрын
10 year old me would spit in my face. I'm turning 16 tomorrow as I'm writing this
@TheResidence.mp42 жыл бұрын
Yeah.
@pixelated64512 жыл бұрын
11 Year old me when I go on a camping trip with my father, only for him to go on a drunken outrage and shoot me in the leg, and question why I even know this man to begin with:
@Rocca0002 жыл бұрын
That’s just his true nature coming out
@spongewaffle2 жыл бұрын
Relatable
@augustwest40682 жыл бұрын
Typical Missouri Moment
@lydiajulianprower8356 Жыл бұрын
Orel was 12 at the time.
@raspberrycrowns9494 Жыл бұрын
@@augustwest4068*Typical Statesota moment
@_ez3ilo1503 жыл бұрын
This song sounds like when you really hate that one person who’s just been there for you through everything and you don’t know why they just won’t leave already
@smellsfishy11543 жыл бұрын
yuppppp
@katielucas45483 жыл бұрын
O 🥲
@eqwertman25563 жыл бұрын
its what its about lmao
@theharvinator2 жыл бұрын
@@eqwertman2556 no?
@mike.hawk6662 жыл бұрын
So, it's about Bloberta?
@alymatronicdoesrandomness5055 жыл бұрын
This has the energy of chugging a bottle of a soda at three am outside of Wal-Mart
@noyamanu12425 жыл бұрын
Wh-what??
@saffronsketchesx29595 жыл бұрын
and then immediately breaking down into a sobbing fit in your 2009 toyota corolla
@tiredly67535 жыл бұрын
saffronsketches x this is kinda specific u good????
@saffronsketchesx29595 жыл бұрын
@@tiredly6753 is anyone?
@timidmousy98455 жыл бұрын
As someone who had worked overnights at walmart, yes.
@calhoun816705 жыл бұрын
I wanted this to be our wedding song. My wife said No. Update: we where married almost 10 years before cancer took her. She hated this song and the cartoon but appreciated my humor.
@micahfisher61255 жыл бұрын
...children
@stjeernee5 жыл бұрын
F
@clovers4zane5 жыл бұрын
Oh my
@Derek224645 жыл бұрын
Best comment EVER!!
@justindixon15865 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@pocket-stars2 жыл бұрын
i love how the rhythm gets just so slightly faster as the song progresses, seemingly unintentionally, as a reaction to emotion
@dyysmal76702 жыл бұрын
“And I’d hope that if I find the strength to walk out you’d stay the hell out of my way” That hits different.
@incomprehensiblevoid3 жыл бұрын
This song reminds me of that longing for things to end horribly and bitterly because that’s what you’re used to. The only security you have in your relationships is knowing they will fail, and when it does, you can say “I knew it. I knew they wouldn’t stay”. This song is that feeling. That feeling of knowing you ruin things because that’s all you know to do. You ruin your connections because you can’t keep them healthy because you’re scared they’ll actually WORK. You feel unloveable, so you make sure everyone knows you are, and if they disagree, they won’t for long.
@hommegirl2 жыл бұрын
You wrote this a while ago, but I wanted to comment that you’re so right. Being abandoned scarring you to the point of you fucking things up by yourself because you don’t want to be the one being left alone. You want to be the one who’s leaving first. And even when everything’s alright, you keep thinking it’s all going to end because they will get sick of you
@TheStnrbtch2 жыл бұрын
♡
@TheStnrbtch2 жыл бұрын
Sabotaging all the beautiful things you deserve bc u will control the hurt this time.
@justcallmeeastia79472 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha i hate how truthful this ahshhs
@incomprehensiblevoid2 жыл бұрын
@@lilsis2589 I’m not an army anymore. Just too lazy to change the pfp.
@NoName-rk3ii2 жыл бұрын
“Love is a very beautiful and very intense feeling for a short period of time. Before long you realize it gets in the way of the really important things in life. That’s when love starts fading, and lies kick in.” “But how long does it take love to fade?” “Oh, quicker than you think kid. Quicker than you think.” -Moral Orel
@alchemistofsteel80992 жыл бұрын
And then Orel proceeds to have a happy marriage
@HwoarangtheBoomerang2 жыл бұрын
😢
@thephantomoftheparadise56662 жыл бұрын
@@alchemistofsteel8099 Orel living happily is the ultimate fuck you to Clay.
@alchemistofsteel80992 жыл бұрын
@@thephantomoftheparadise5666 What I find amusing about it is that Clay never loved Bloberta but his Love for Stopframe never died
@donovanulrich3482 жыл бұрын
Clay felt obligated to marry Blowberta It wasent a act of love that brought them together. . .
@CharlieTheTexan2 жыл бұрын
_"Your mother and I have decided to stay together, if only for appearances. The last thing we want people to think is that we don't care about our own kids. That's one fact that's none of their business."_ Moral Orel is a hilarious show. Meromorphic has a great video about the whole thing, front to back. I recommend everyone watch the show, then watch his video on it. But hilarity aside... being abused as a kid by heavily religious parents (and now being a father myself), Moral Orel showed me how to put a lot of things that happened in my own childhood into some perspective. And I'm more reassured that I'm doing much better nowadays, both with myself and with my own children. In all honesty, I was so glad when they let us know Orel was finally happy, in the end. Stupid show to get all emotional about, fake characters and all, but idk... it got to me sometimes.
@crack4184 Жыл бұрын
Well, fiction does tell a story. A story, to be engaging, has to be about realistic struggles and Moral Orel hit way too close at home and the fantastic character writing make it the icing on the cake
@k.a.89 Жыл бұрын
Man, Moral Orel was silly and crude, yeah, but that show got deep. No shame in feeling feelings over a show of that caliber.
@gloriapanttaja7983 жыл бұрын
I have to say, I've seen the "hand in unlovable hand" line quoted so many times, but I always pictured the rest of the song having a very different tone than this. I like it, but for some reason I always pictured a much more romantic "we're both terrible, and have been destroyed by the world, but I love you", rather than "you suck, the world sucks, I suck, very much in that order"
@emily-yj8rr2 жыл бұрын
your interpretation of the song is exactly the vibe of the show “you’re the worst”, the finale of which includes an amazing montage to this song. i recommend it if you haven’t seen!
@tumultoustortellini2 жыл бұрын
True toxicity isn't burning the world down with the one you love, It's lighting the world on fire just to save you and to one you used to love for last
@CalamitousJonathan2 жыл бұрын
It isn't about "we are both terrible" It is about her hand being a hand like any other that is just a lovable hand and my hand being unlovable and her hand taking my hand as I am playing her this love song that is completely destroying the relationship and I see it in her eyes. Knowing I am ending a relationship over what I think to be a love song, I know I am unlovable and thus my hand is unlovable. Keep in mind, I wrote this song on the spot while staring her in the eyes and seeing the relationship is over in her eyes. Because I knew her that well.
@CalamitousJonathan2 жыл бұрын
This is the first and last love song I ever wrote.
@CalamitousJonathan2 жыл бұрын
I still have nothing but the best things to say about her. She was great, but I can no longer remember her name or face. Just the moment she slipped her hand away and my fingers fell to the guitar as she turned and walked out of the door, never to show up to my house again. She is great. She is the greatest love I ever let get away. None were greater than her, and I haven't loved since.
@timapple14132 жыл бұрын
Oh Orel. Make me proud. Make me the happiest father in the world, and tell me YOU shot that bear! "No dad. You did."
@blakewilson86542 жыл бұрын
"I did?"
@zachbutler94847 жыл бұрын
I'm feeling some serious relevance to this song... "If I found the strength to walk out, you'd stay the hell out of my way"
@fellower7 жыл бұрын
Zach Butler I'm not sure that you'd want to relate to this song. This song appears to be about the best possible romance for two of the equally worse people on this planet.
@howtomeetwomen-6 жыл бұрын
The way he holds the word "way". Determined, almost triumphant.
@Coeurlarme5 жыл бұрын
Maximus taken out of context, the sentence is easily taken as someone talking about leaving an abusive relationship.
@alwest44722 жыл бұрын
People talk about moral Orel, for obvious reasons, but I think this song also fits bojack horseman’s parents well
@jowbokitten23172 жыл бұрын
Hell yeah! Especially the "I am drowning" part
@rulerzreachf4nnnn2 жыл бұрын
I like to think it fits diane and mr peanutbutter as well
@Wirzxcve2 жыл бұрын
It fit them more than Puppington. Atleast Orels parents stayed together after all the madness. Bojacks parents practically died hating each other to death.
@leosweed53172 жыл бұрын
yes omg yes?? it fits it so well
@melancoholic2 жыл бұрын
yup
@wizardanerik3 жыл бұрын
Adds to the playlist" songs to listen to while locking yourself in your room when your parents are yelling at each other downstairs"
@toothasaur3 жыл бұрын
Check out “dance music” by them then. It’s literally about that and it’s very cathartic
@peepeetrain87553 жыл бұрын
god i don't miss that for the life of me aye. It'll get better eventually mate. Happens to the best of us :)
@USBmi2 жыл бұрын
I hope they don’t take it out on you. Please know that not all relationships are like that. Love is complicated but it should never hurt the people around you.
@manda-panda2 жыл бұрын
Nooo.. Im sorry. That's a crappy situation to be in. Ive been there, & far worse. But they're just people too, who are trying their best - believe it or not. You've heard this before, but, you WILL understand when ur older. Unfortunately. Everyone is just human & we're all just trying our best. When (or if) you can learn to be patient, understanding, & love a person even when they're at their lowest, unlovable state, then you'll know you're more spiritually mature than 99% of the ppl in the world. Seriously. Adults are just big bodies with insecure kids inside. And it's nobody's fault. You'll be okay either way bc you'll soon realize that your happiness & future is ENTIRELY up to you. Nobody can do it for you. Stay strong, my friend 🤍
@hbabi70255 жыл бұрын
"I am drowning. There is no sign of land. You are coming down with me. Hand in unloveable hand." This shows just how much they hate, yet need each other. Pure despair. Yet, a need.
@chesneyevans4 жыл бұрын
That line alone perfectly sums up a shitty marriage.
@juliya48454 жыл бұрын
Tommmmmmmmmyyyyyy
@jillianadams14073 жыл бұрын
@@juliya4845 Iniiiiiiiit
@lee_12926 жыл бұрын
At first I didn’t really like his voice but I’ve absolutely fallen in love with it.
@houdamouaraf55914 жыл бұрын
The alien didnt hold your unlovable hand as you were drowning hein...
@lee_12924 жыл бұрын
@@houdamouaraf5591 Damn son.... didja really have to do me like that?
@houdamouaraf55914 жыл бұрын
@@lee_1292 like i'd everytime i find your comment
@rulerzreachf4nnnn2 жыл бұрын
“Why did you marry dad?” “Why? Well, men have to marry women.” “But why did YOU marry DAD?” “Well.. why not?” “It’s just that.. when he drinks, he.. changes. “He doesn’t change, Orel. That’s just his true nature coming out.”
@kingkirby1395 Жыл бұрын
She forced him to marry. He didnt drink because of his father. And then she got him into drinking just to trick him into marrying her
@Earwig353 Жыл бұрын
@@kingkirby1395 we know
@pgakt Жыл бұрын
@@kingkirby1395 Clay was broken before he met Bloberta, she just ended up pushing things on a little quicker and he did the same for her
@ameatytulip3744 жыл бұрын
One of the weirdest nights of my life was my ex wife and I drunkenly screaming this song together. Probably the most constructive thing we ever did as a couple.
@angryspleen31773 жыл бұрын
Mission failed successfully.
@arynbird73753 жыл бұрын
that was kinda beautiful.
@oatt-j1c3 жыл бұрын
Is- is that the opposite of screaming "because I love you" in an argument?
@Otra_Chica_de_Internet3 жыл бұрын
@@oatt-j1c i think so lmao
@chakiaman93753 жыл бұрын
So wholesome 🥺
@averyfatturtle66515 жыл бұрын
The Funny Part About This Is That It Kinda Counts As A Love Song
@crunchygrunchy57414 жыл бұрын
Cease
@turtletaco98723 жыл бұрын
The Funny Part About This Is That I, In Fact, Did Not Enjoy My Trip To Puke Land!
@spork10744 жыл бұрын
Me a 16 year old who has never been in a relationship laying alone listening to this: haha yeah
@mystycat28323 жыл бұрын
Literally same 🧍♀️
@itssheep6853 жыл бұрын
like I wish I could relate but I have too much a superiority complex to even have a relationship
@crowsoto96123 жыл бұрын
the only time I've ever dated was in kindergarten uh-- um, yeah that-- that song's uh,, relatable?? /s
@adaoarfishes94053 жыл бұрын
Like ik what the song is about but I kind of imagine it as talking to myself
@crowsoto96123 жыл бұрын
@@Lalaz or maybe it's because they're not interested in dating anyone
@thebeastlyish3 жыл бұрын
Lyrically this is POWERFUL art. nothing has encompassed the kind of anger and resentment ive felt like this. the hate for yourself and someone else at the same time is a entirely different kind of squalor.
@m_elisabeth_w25524 жыл бұрын
My mom is divorcing my dad and he’s been listening to this song on repeat. Should I be worried lol
@j3579104 жыл бұрын
Probably, but if it were me I’d want to stick around just to see how it plays out. Though if you want to get on his good side real quick you could make a joke about the alpha couple.
@hunterra2174 жыл бұрын
Probably not, divorces can be extremely angry times but as long as theyre reasonable enough people they should be able to move past it, at the very least for your sake. If not, good luck soldier
@KazmirRunik4 жыл бұрын
This is literally a divorce song.
@InvisibleButton4 жыл бұрын
Divorce anthem
@gabherre94394 жыл бұрын
Thats awesome!
@spicyramencup39133 жыл бұрын
“just get over it and forgive her already, she’s your mom at the end of the day” me and my mom’s relationship for the past 17 years:
@meganhaines70493 жыл бұрын
I haven’t spoken to my dad in 3 years even though we continued living in the same home, if he wanted to tell me anything he had to get my mum to tell me. He disgusts me as a person and I don’t want anything to do with him. I get a lot of crap from other family members about cutting him off but if someone is being toxic and it’s affecting you then you have every right to get rid of them family or not
@energeticcreeper79693 жыл бұрын
blood is the worst measure of how you should treat a person, there's no point reuniting
@grarglejobber79413 жыл бұрын
yeah get over it fr, if only because you're gonna carry that weight
@Phonerhell3 жыл бұрын
Same but in my case just as long as I can remember lol Just came to this song after she was being verbally abusive so yeaaaahhh.
@ryanslade80733 жыл бұрын
@@meganhaines7049 how did you manage to live in the same house with him?
@CarterTae-WooKyle4 жыл бұрын
Oh He Doesn’t Change Orel, That’s Just His True Nature Coming Out.
@goobertron90993 жыл бұрын
“Why not?”
@pawmations85223 жыл бұрын
STOP IM SOBBING
@Kyle-69693 жыл бұрын
NO STOOPPPPP THAT SCENE MADE ME CRY
@nerdynon-binary35173 жыл бұрын
Everytime I hear this song I think of that quote
@leeshapon3 жыл бұрын
stopppp it hurts
@mephilesfan2 жыл бұрын
i had known about this song before moral orel and had it in my playlists for a long time too, never paid it that much attention. i recently decided to FINALLY watch moral orel and holy shit this song hits so different. that show was the missing piece to this song for me and now it’s one of my favourites ever made. i relate to everyone in that show in the worse possible way and i fucking love it
@slint696 жыл бұрын
The musical equivalent of a Charles Bukowski Poem. Dealing with Depression, Alienation, Alcoholism and the General Despair of the Human Condition. Yet Still Immensely Beautiful.
@vikiv93225 жыл бұрын
I rarely comment on KZbin but man, this is a stellar addition, thank you for this thought!
@gooeyboba98383 жыл бұрын
which one?
@aquaticgrass26156 жыл бұрын
This song has the same chaotic energy as an almost sucicide attempt.
@aquaticgrass26155 жыл бұрын
It also has the same chaotic energy of a suicide attempt.
@dontmindme31425 жыл бұрын
That- That makes actual sense
@StarboyJuno4 жыл бұрын
This is the same chaos I radiate... I don't know what to think of that...
@aquaticgrass26154 жыл бұрын
Mini Moon Don’t think of it unless you’re safe.
@swag4rce4 жыл бұрын
bruh i thought that was a name of a song
@ClownBoomer3 жыл бұрын
So I’m currently trying to get out of a toxic relationship, and this song made me really put into perspective how toxic the relationship actually was. I’ve listened to this song god knows how many times because of how relatable the message is. I’ve broken down because of it. But I’m almost out. I’m so close to not relating to this song. Wish me luck, comment section. Im working off the confidence to finally cut it off. Update: we broke up! It was complicated, difficult, and stressful but I don’t regret it at all. And if anyone else dealt with something like this I am so so sorry and just know that you are strong. You can do this. It may seem impossible but don’t give up.
@someonesomeone683 жыл бұрын
If you ever need support just ask bestie
@someonesomeone683 жыл бұрын
If you ever need support then just ask
@rebeccaspratling28653 жыл бұрын
Some people are meant to be in our lives for only a certain period of time and that's ok. 🙂 I hope both of you are doing great now.
@katielucas45483 жыл бұрын
Love u
@fruitpunchsamurai48373 жыл бұрын
That's awesome, good for you!
@silliestbilliestbilly292822 жыл бұрын
“He doesn’t change, that’s just his true nature coming out”
@EthanDoezYT3 жыл бұрын
This song radiates self-destructive and chaotic depressing energy. I seriously love the way this song sounds but it also makes me so sad.
@donovanulrich3482 жыл бұрын
Its not about self destruction But its a consequence of giving up on something that big in your life You dont have to end someone time on earth, to kill the soul or numb it nearly to death
@steampowered6883 Жыл бұрын
The lyrics seem so absurdly pessimistic that I just find them funny.
@ange41544 жыл бұрын
This reads like if gen Z had the same hate for their spouses as boomers do
@kiryuwu38844 жыл бұрын
True, true.
@lj-wp3sf4 жыл бұрын
john darnielle is not even close to gen z tho
@garfielffan69544 жыл бұрын
lj I’m pretty sure they’re saying gen z because we’re a bit more spicy with our word choices than them
@brownsugardown54624 жыл бұрын
Gen b
@ange41544 жыл бұрын
@@lj-wp3sf I know that, but what I meant was the lyrics have the chaotic energy of gen z yet also have the stereotypical bitter baby boomer attitude
@Nord_Kitten4 жыл бұрын
to anyone saying #1 wedding song, you are either the best couple that will never get tired of each other or one of you is going to murder the other.
@ShadowQuilava7772 жыл бұрын
Watching the entirety of Morel Orel while in an ongoing and bitter divorce, then listening to this song brings out an emptiness that I can't even fathom.
@hipsterelephant26602 жыл бұрын
I can sort of confirm. I saw Season 3 when it was first airing, when a few months prior my parents got divorced.
@pgakt Жыл бұрын
I hope you are doing okay now
@Thobeian10 ай бұрын
Maybe not the best choice for binges, gonna be honest. Hope your divorce went well. And I feel bad for you if it's still ongoing.
@melanchlooe7 ай бұрын
I started watching Moral Orel literally a week before my boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me lmao
@prettyguardian83866 жыл бұрын
I love how you can really see the connection the couple has. It’s like they fit together only as a defiance against everyone else. A real us against the world. But at the same time neither want any of it and want everything to blow up so it can just be over. “Our friends say it’s darkest before the sun rises but we’re pretty sure they’re all wrong. “ I feel like this a lot. Perhaps not the was the song describes. I don’t have a bad partner. But I just kinda want things to burn away, so I don’t have to go on anymore. To hell with people who try to impose themselves in my life. To hell with people who insist on forgiving me when I don’t want them in my life. To hell with bubbly anecdotes for a carefree life. I’m here living out my misery the best I can, hoping one day it puts me somewhere I can just be me. Life doesn’t do checks and balances on happiness. Enough negative marbles don’t turn in a large good marble on the other side. Life doesn’t work that way. This song really gets my feels, but it’s also real enough that I can laugh.
@callingthevoid5 жыл бұрын
Hell yeah! Positive nihilism at it's best
@kaweenis4 жыл бұрын
yeah thats exactly how i feel too. thank you for putting it into words.
@dallyh.29604 жыл бұрын
" Life doesn’t do checks and balances on happiness. Enough negative marbles don’t turn in a large good marble on the other side." Nah, life works how you want it, but okay.
@prettyguardian83864 жыл бұрын
Dally H. “Life works how you want it” hope you’re life is giving you all that you “want “ then. I’m glad some people have such pristine lives that only wants matter. What a fair and just world.
@a.dykeman19804 жыл бұрын
This is the most nihilistically cruel, spiteful, utterly depressed song I've ever heard. It's almost beautiful, in a way, how well it paints the picture of someone who's either totally, unstoppable awful, completely and irrevocably ruined, or both.
@Raikagon5 жыл бұрын
somehow this has anti-billy joel energy
@PiracyandDumbbells4 жыл бұрын
You mean reverse Billy Joel.
@cuddleslikespie4 жыл бұрын
Billy Joeln't
@morningboy_4 жыл бұрын
Cuddleslikespie SJSJSJSJJDJDJSJSJDJSJS
@ipsum22244 жыл бұрын
Joelly Bill
@dungeonsanddragonsanddrive29024 жыл бұрын
It’s like a sad angry type of hopelessness. The people described in Piano Man are just dulled out by the beat down life gives them. They’re just accepting they’re sad. This song is a bitter sadness, not quite given up but at the point where they’re beyond caring.
@nihilistchannel45982 жыл бұрын
The mountain goats is like Emo music for people in their thirties
@towerology61372 жыл бұрын
true lol
@firstnamelastname9042 жыл бұрын
But.... Emo music is already for people in their 30's
@jendouglas9781 Жыл бұрын
Everyone talks about Bloberta, but I think the song fits Orel's relation with Clay more. He's looked up to the guy for the entire first decade of his life and viewed him as the perfect christian, only for the camping trip to reveal how awful of a person he really is, and all the hard work in trying to make him proud to go to waist, now wanting nothing to do with him.
@Misaio2 жыл бұрын
Others: Poor relationship vibes, divorce. Me, happily married: Moral Orel fucking slaps, babe. Edit: I meant the vibe of the song. I hope you guys allow yourselves to find happiness.
@schleepy63622 жыл бұрын
Aw🥺I actually needed a reminder that happy, healthy couples exist, thank you for this XD
@s0LLagal2 жыл бұрын
Moral Orel does indeed, slap
@goldencatcyrielle81482 жыл бұрын
Literally. There's a lot of slapping in this show
@cgecko32 жыл бұрын
@@goldencatcyrielle8148 "AnD ThIs ONeS FRoM jeSUS!"- Orel 5 seconds before finishing the greatest ass whooping Clay has ever received.
@chilyguy99052 жыл бұрын
I would literally do anything for the show to continue
@SleepTalkMetropolis3 жыл бұрын
I know some people are going to complain that this song is trending on TikTok, but it's pretty cool seeing The Mountain Goats get some recognition
@minoena3 жыл бұрын
i’m so happy it’s trending idk why people complain it’s a great song from a great band!!
@McPiledriver3 жыл бұрын
most def. if tiktok its the vehicle that will bring Mountain Goats to the grand generality of people, so be it. They deserved and people, aswell, deserve to know more about the music made by the goats
@thekodacat3 жыл бұрын
i didn't find this song from tiktok but an animatic, but i love that it is on tiktok. people deserve to know this song
@jdepaul873 жыл бұрын
I found this song listening to the radio...and I think its fare to say that most people making crap on tik tok are most likely disingenuous about using the song and simply want clout and clicks but hey...
@theslavemotivator35713 жыл бұрын
I come from Morel Orel
@Melonlordrinrei3 жыл бұрын
What I like about the chorus is after saying 'I hope we both die' it feels, every time, like there was supposed to be another sentence but it was cut off and settled into resentment.
@gremlinfriend69565 жыл бұрын
“I hope I never get sober” God I love the mountain goats.
@codemonkey98307 жыл бұрын
Best wedding anniversary song EVER !
@deervsheadlights99407 жыл бұрын
jeez that's brutal haha
@johnwrath36126 жыл бұрын
I laughed. I have a dark sense of humor too.
@god53286 жыл бұрын
same
@ophiliafox42686 жыл бұрын
Oh jesus yeah
@enamelalchemist5 жыл бұрын
i’m gonna play this on my anniversary, my wife will love it
@mallow66865 жыл бұрын
You know that feeling when you're looking for good music, then you suddenly start going down the rabbit hole of awesome music? That's me rn.
@synthvvavve1912 жыл бұрын
Morel Orel never got the recognition it deserved. Show was a damn art.
@izzyornquist50845 жыл бұрын
Me @ whoever ate my macaroni
@pleasestoptouchingmyfetus30455 жыл бұрын
Please stop.
@izzyornquist50845 жыл бұрын
Ahailya Keshane-Quewezance what
@pleasestoptouchingmyfetus30455 жыл бұрын
@@izzyornquist5084 please stop eating my macaroni.
@izzyornquist50845 жыл бұрын
@@pleasestoptouchingmyfetus3045 mom, i told you its mine
@pleasestoptouchingmyfetus30455 жыл бұрын
@@izzyornquist5084 i gave birth to you, so I can take you out of this world. Give me my macaroni back.
@toejamsammcmarmalade47034 жыл бұрын
Despite the tone and content in this song I think it's the nicest song I've ever actually heard
@Fisinocean3 жыл бұрын
The melody hits like a truck
@bennett36975 жыл бұрын
Me: Jeez, this is a very angry song. Also me: *downloads and memorizes the song because it's my new favorite one* this song is awesome
@jimlakejr.ismyson36965 жыл бұрын
xxjay.birdxx Man, that sounds like when I memorized all the words to “Excellent Choice” by The Horrors in middle school (this version- kzbin.info/www/bejne/haichX9tqZWBoM0 Also implied suicide warning )
@ashleyhileman41805 жыл бұрын
Same same same
@trishell.longlastname4 жыл бұрын
yesssss me too brother me too
@FistoftheSnackBar4 жыл бұрын
A decade ago I described it as "brutally upbeat" when I was trying to explain to someone why I love this horrible genius song so much.
@t0rya3 ай бұрын
The "hand in unlovable hand" part is the singe most animaticable thing in this universe i swear to god
@7maggotpie3 ай бұрын
for real
@kayleighclark88785 жыл бұрын
Does anyone know more songs that have the same level of nihilism and pettiness as this song cuz I need all of it
@cryptidinthewoods72624 жыл бұрын
Maybe 'I love you like an alcoholic'from the taxplayers
@cryptidinthewoods72624 жыл бұрын
Or hell and you from amigo the devil or villainous thing from shayfer james..these two arent exactly the same as this song from the mountain goats but ehhh
@rachel78154 жыл бұрын
Crywank "only everyone can judge me" tbh the vibes are different cuz it's a much sadder song but still same feeling
@beabunny90004 жыл бұрын
Rät by penelope scott is a song about Elon musk and certain technology in general and how it has made life worse under the guise of improving it and it’s very catchy
@nightmareeyes51933 жыл бұрын
bad day by darwin deez isnt quite as bleak bc its not about a relationship, but it has the same "whatever, fuck you, i hope your life sucks" energy
@berrybrooks14035 жыл бұрын
this song makes me wanna get married just so i can divorce
@Theoncestsystem4 жыл бұрын
I didn’t know how to explain how this song made me feel until I read this comment-
@skiepk4 жыл бұрын
Not worth it
@trishell.longlastname4 жыл бұрын
y tho lol
@shelbysmith60213 жыл бұрын
Just throw $300 into the trash and you’ll feel better
@thedisabledrat82453 жыл бұрын
For some reason the part that says “I hope it stays dark forever.” It really makes me feel like things will straighten out and it’s gonna be ok. It makes me feel not alone. Like I’m not the only one that sometimes I just don’t *want* to feel better.
@Astrolionking2 жыл бұрын
Who else is here after watching the emotional damage Moral Orel gave us?
@stayhydratedkingsqueens2 жыл бұрын
Meee
@burymyreflection2 жыл бұрын
Me.
@legoeggot2 жыл бұрын
me
@h_a10192 жыл бұрын
Yuppp
@woahhereiam63752 жыл бұрын
yes.
@mckaleighwatson39424 жыл бұрын
This song reminds me of the dude sobbing while reading divorce papers and eating chef boyardee out of the can in the Cairo GA parking lot in his beat up and rusty pick up. Pretty sure he was also drunk.
@lookwhosinsideagain11613 жыл бұрын
thats literally such a mood wth
@ecas43153 жыл бұрын
Hope he’s doing ok
@snugglypichu68813 жыл бұрын
How oddly specific lol
@zacperil6543 жыл бұрын
Oh- so you saw me and didn’t say hi? Geez…
@spacebook58913 жыл бұрын
That is very specific
@RuneInked5 жыл бұрын
For a song that is literally about completely giving up this filled me with so much joy
@lmao88015 жыл бұрын
This song is almost like an abusive relationship. The main guy is outing his anger for being in such an unlovable relationship. He hates himself and was suicidal to begin with so its only fuel for the flame. He wants to die, but he wants to take her down with him.
@patrickhughes93044 жыл бұрын
I read it as more they both hate each other so much that they’re willing to stay and be miserable just because they know how miserable it makes the other person
@gabherre94394 жыл бұрын
Nah i agree with the reply
@grarglejobber79413 жыл бұрын
>but he wants to take her down with him cringe and soylent-pilled. I bet a whole dollar that you have unironically used the word "goddess" to describe a woman lmao
@eqwertman25563 жыл бұрын
@@patrickhughes9304 yea, theyre staying because they feel asthough can one-up eachother, im staying because i can take more pain than you, it describes a couple whose perfect for destroying eachother.
@florentinaradu84843 жыл бұрын
This song is now dedicated to my mother, my father and to their relationship
@andynonymous67693 жыл бұрын
Cheers same 🍻 Couldn't have picked a guy who didn't have substance abuse issues huh mom?
@mariabarnes31192 жыл бұрын
Same Heart goes out for you and anyone else who's parents struggles impacted them ❤
@thetimelimit4242 жыл бұрын
SAME
@daniellupear81222 жыл бұрын
🥂Cheers I'll drink to that bro At least I have a reason to drink
@kerrid58432 жыл бұрын
Good goddess, fuck yes. Same. They are so toxic, I don't know how I am here.
@kris242 Жыл бұрын
I was 15 years old. I had this friend named Brolin in the year above me. Absolute genius of a guy. Legit, he got the highest standardized exam scores of my entire country and got an award for it. Me and him used to hang out after school sometimes and jam on my guitar, or the piano they left in the auditorium or just both. But mostly we'd just talk about music we liked. I didn't really know much about indie or outsider or just plain "unknown" music back then. One afternoon while we're hanging out, he says "Wanna hear the happiest depressing song ever??" I of course said "FUCK YES!!!". He then showed me this song and it... genuinely... blew my fucking MIND. I discovered more of John Darnielle afterwards, which led me on a loooooong track of my current weird music taste. But, I know it's hard for a lot of people to really pinpoint where their own taste in music stems from. I even have a hard time when it comes to the nitty-gritty. But if I ever had to choose one moment that truly influenced everything today... I would say, "Thanks, Brolin. You genuinely changed my life."
@woooooooooooooooooooooooo Жыл бұрын
I thought this was gonna end tragically, and I'm glad it didn’t.
@theseerllama Жыл бұрын
brolin sounds like the best bro to have as a friend
@davidmcintire1780 Жыл бұрын
For a few years after my marriage collapsed, Tallahassee was almost the only CD playing in my car. Day after day, to work and back, belting out the words at top volume on the freeway. I used to sing this song a capella at open mics when I was half drunk and while I'm certain I never did it justice, I've no doubt that it helped me get through some dark days.
@jellyfishyy4 жыл бұрын
this song slaps in a sad and an unforgivably angry kinda way. i love it.
@y.96452 жыл бұрын
Man episode 1 S3 of Moral Orel really sets the dread early and it's like "That's right were heading to depressing town and it's about to get more depressing" and this song was the perfect introduction for that
@kaya3473 жыл бұрын
So when someone finally gets treatment for being suicidal, a sudden uptick in mood can be a red flag bc it means they are no longer too depressed not to act on it, but they are still feeling all the depressing things. That is what this song sounds like.
@atiredrainponcho73565 жыл бұрын
Me chilling: Noelle Stevenson: hand in unlovable hand Me hours later listening to this song: WAIT A MINUTE
@witchcraft22644 жыл бұрын
Wait what? When did Noelle say that?
@moonig67704 жыл бұрын
To me this song is about not wanting to be okay. It’s a crazy feeling, I’ve been really sick mentally and physically and got better and then worse, while it is good being okay, being sick and unhappy is such a rush. It felt like I was drowning in my on toxicity and self hatred and I loved it. Of corse im trying to get better but being sick feels so strange. Not good but not particularly bad. It’s like it’s addictive. It’s like when when you play a horror game, it makes you scared and makes you wanna curl up in a ball. That’s what it feels like. Paired with the toxic relationship I think this song is perfect.
@fartheastroid3 жыл бұрын
Jesus. Christ I’ve never had any comment so spot on both with a similar experience/feelings and as what I also see the song as for myself- I do want to get better yes, but deep down I know there will always be a side of me wanting to stay at my worst because of the rush. It’s not even that people treat me better because of how sick I am both mentally and physically, in fact most treat me terribly because of it, I just feel as if I’ve known that state of my being for so long that I can’t just go to being healthy and happy all of a sudden.
@thermometerman18242 жыл бұрын
same
@enri27542 жыл бұрын
It's a really good feeling and almost comfortable. Until you reach the point when you start thinking about killing yourself and then you reach that point where you try to do so. Then you know, as that feeling is a bit nice you really should stop trying to feel that way.
@tumultoustortellini2 жыл бұрын
When you're used to emotional and mental pain, not having it is different and therefore uncomfortable. oliSUNvia just made a vid on that concept you brought up this week
@idkanymore46642 жыл бұрын
Idk why but I'm so not used to healthy relationships and I like feeling sad sometimes, I'm so surprised whenever a friend of mine randomly says they like me (romantically and platonically) and I just can't comprehend someone actually likes me for being me sometimes. When I did get a actual romantic healthy relationship I didn't feel comfortable and sorta pushed them away. I don't know why it's like this and I feel bad but I push away the people who like me the most and it's so weird because I do love them but I'm just not used or comfortable with it
@ZanderEzekial7715 күн бұрын
Here's to my mom and dad. They did their best.
@duke-of-fire5 жыл бұрын
I know y'all don't really care, and it's more of something I need to vent. Since this will probably get lost in the sea of comments, it seems like a good place to put this Parents finalized their divorce papers today. Since they split - about 8 months ago - I knew they weren't going to get back together. My mom seemed much more like herself without my dad around. And my dad... He's still unhappy. He tried so hard to hold on to their relationship, but it wasn't healthy for either of them. I'm not mad. I don't see this as something to get mad about. I don't have any strong emotions either way about it. This song was really good for me when they fought often. It was the angriest song - in my middle schooler's brain - about something like divorce. They never talked about it, but I could tell it was coming. My mom wouldn't kiss my dad anymore, my dad slept in a different room - etc. I used to blame my mom for leaving my dad. I thought it was her choice and that she just didn't love him anymore. I didn't understand how deep it went, how much they'd hurt each other. It was both of them, my dad wasn't as perfect as I thought he was, and my mom isn't the monster I'd made her out to be. They're just people. They'd both fucked up. I'm about to leave for college, and the only thing that really worries me is my little sister. She's doing her best, but it affects her way more than it does me or my older siblings. I hope she'll be alright. Anyway, that's it. Sorry about putting this here but I couldn't think of anywhere else where it would belong. I'm just relistening to this for nostalgia purposes
@pork_soda65 жыл бұрын
There’s always a light at the end of the tunnel, buddy. Everything will be alright. You have to fight just for a little while longer. Good luck. I wish you well.
@markrozenberg79595 жыл бұрын
You’re going to make it through this year even if it kills you.
@renafelix51865 жыл бұрын
You have such an amazing perspective on darkness in your life. Keep growing and getting stronger, be patient with your sister she may not be ready to understand right now but when she is she'll value your perspective. Keep hanging in there, now your parents are happy and they can love you the way you and your siblings deserve to be loved. Good luck with school
@sunrisewolfy5 жыл бұрын
Things will get better as they heal. It’s nice they have a supporting son :)
@selfishsoliloquy56755 жыл бұрын
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@mattabson11675 жыл бұрын
I first heard this song during a really dark period in my life. Heartbreak, excessive drinking, and terrible decisions will do that to a man. A few months down the line, and everything seems a little bit brighter. Nothing is perfect, but through the love of my family and friends I found a way to feel better. Now, this song brings me hope. It makes me happy, makes me realise I'm stronger for having endured difficult times. Music makes you strong. Art, creativity, and seeing the beauty in this world makes you strong. And everyone listening to this is a better person for having heard it. Love you all.
@dallyh.29604 жыл бұрын
I mean it's a rather hopeful song, regardless of how damned depressing it may sound. There's a lot of value and possibility in destruction and chaos, which the guy's wishing for.
@hornsholdinghellishlyhotho73965 жыл бұрын
Idk, this song sings self-destruction
@johnvandal12955 жыл бұрын
What gave it away Dilbert lmfao
@immagreenunit83014 жыл бұрын
@@johnvandal1295 nice reference
@whateverIFeelLike2 жыл бұрын
I'm 6 years old sitting in my dads car as he drives me to the meeting place halfway between where my mom lives and my dad lives. We had an okay weekend, he rented movies we watched together and we tried to play some video games but the skill difference between a 6 year old and a 28 year old is pretty drastic. The divorce is still pretty recent and it's hitting me really hard. My dad puts in one of his CDs of music he likes. He made about a dozen of them and this sing was on the one he put on that day. I didn't get the lyrics, but I really liked the music. It sounded so jaunty and happy. I learned the lyrics pretty quick since it wasnt a long CD we listened to it a few times during the 90 minute drive. We finally arrive at a gas station in Chehalis and I hug my dad goodbye as I get into my moms car. All I could think about was this song. I start humming it and after 20 minutes I sing some of the lyrics to myself. My mom is very shocked and asked where I heard those words said. I told her it was a song my dad was listening to. Without knowing it I caused another fight and the rest of the car ride was very quiet.