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Hario Ovadtop

Hario Ovadtop

Күн бұрын

#narcissist #npd #ptsd #psychopath #narcabuse #empath #gaslight

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@brianrossiter6427
@brianrossiter6427 9 ай бұрын
So spot on about how hard it is for them to find someone even close to us. WE can seldom find a high quality person, as high quality people. The narcissist had their best shot with us and they may never see it again. Truly.
@naomifloyd4548
@naomifloyd4548 3 ай бұрын
I am in the process of officially ending my 11 years of torture. It has ended with a relief from abuse order, and him behind bars. I literally begged the Most High to set me free in a way that didn't transgress HIS word. My husband cheated yet again. I am grateful for the way things went down because at the end of the day, I am now free to worship and serve my Creator without hindrance and I'm free to raise my two beautiful children ( whom I was told I would likely never have) to do the same. Although this situation is not an easy one, we will finally have true Shalom, true joy, and genuine laughter in our house.
@jahawhitaker1016
@jahawhitaker1016 3 жыл бұрын
Yup they always try to come back because they know you gave them the world with no hesitation smh
@sisteroflight
@sisteroflight 3 жыл бұрын
@ Jaha You can never give a narcissist the world literally speaking, No matter what you do, how much you sacrifice for them, it does not matter . It does not matter how little or how much money you have, houses, cars...whatever material blessings you bestow upon them, genuine pure faithful love...it will never be Enough!!! Never, never. However you have a point they are aware of your goodness so once they miss you they want to come back; somestimes not only to use you even more but some Narc if you take them back will punish you for breaking up with or leaving them. If they left you they will still make you miserable if you embrace and accept them back into yourlives. I blocked my ex- narcissist he cannot call or text me nor can he visit me 450 miles between us Praise God for the peace of mind. Bless you move on Jaha. To God Be All the Praise and Glory in Christ Always🙏😇.
@dquest7761
@dquest7761 3 жыл бұрын
@@sisteroflight spot on!!! I built mine of from nothing and he said I did nothing for him!
@jahawhitaker1016
@jahawhitaker1016 3 жыл бұрын
@@sisteroflight thank you so much for this information I'm learning everyday from different ppl and from my experiences and trust me I'm getting stronger each day and will be strong enough to completely disappear from his existence pray for me 😣😣😣
@joleishahouse4404
@joleishahouse4404 3 жыл бұрын
Lol mine said he not coming back because we will always remember what we did to one another (aka I will always hold him accountable for what he does )
@sisteroflight
@sisteroflight 3 жыл бұрын
@@jahawhitaker1016 Fast and pray ask God for a portion of HIS strength and power to move on, ask God to make you invisible from the ex! Never allowing your paths to cross again but; before you do be sure you have forgiven him. Once God removes him from your space/ life you will never see the ex again. So forgive him right before you walk away whether he appreciates the forgiveness or Not, it is for you more than him. Forgiveness helps you to cleanse and break that " Soul- tie , bond you had with the ex for good. God Almighty in Christ be with, bless, protect ,comfort and keep you as HE opens doors for you. To God be All the Praise, Glory in Christ Jesus Always. Amen.😇🙏.
@elleesehouston267
@elleesehouston267 3 жыл бұрын
Hario I left my ex New Year Day this year. After 2 years of every type of abuse you can imagine. I cut his ass off. He stalked me..tried to kill me. I literally saw the Devil. Just 3 weeks ago he left a voicemail on my phone saying "I Love You." He has been blocked this whole time might I add. Changed my number..never looking back. People please go NO CONTACT! Love yourself. Heal yourself. You are Great. You are Beautiful. You are Worthy! 💟💜
@peacefaith560
@peacefaith560 3 жыл бұрын
they are crazy!!
@DannyNewport
@DannyNewport 3 жыл бұрын
They are terrifying. They will never understand how we feel about them. Its not fond
@blakkmor5947
@blakkmor5947 3 жыл бұрын
Elleese, GREAT for you!!!! I am proud of you. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@elleesehouston267
@elleesehouston267 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for all the love and kind words everyone! 💜 I hope you are all healing as well. We got this! 💪🏽
@reesemonique
@reesemonique 3 жыл бұрын
He told me he can't leave me alone because I will always be apart of his life tf I won't!!! I have never loved myself this much so for that I thank him for pushing me to a point where i broke and now I am healed and closer to my higher self Stay no contact forever!!!! They will try to call ur family to "see how you doing" any link they will take it
@1010QUEEN7
@1010QUEEN7 3 жыл бұрын
I am irreplaceable I know my worth he lost the best thing that ever happened to him
@b.allison8761
@b.allison8761 3 жыл бұрын
THEY THINK THE GRASS IS GREENER LOL... YEA OK HAHAHA THE JOKE IS. ON THEM
@aqualove2054
@aqualove2054 3 жыл бұрын
I prayed so much for my relationship. God had to step out of heaven to walk me out of this madness.
@livamoore5566
@livamoore5566 3 жыл бұрын
Amen. I was like you 2yrs ago. Jah/Jesus real true. My answers was answered. I am a narcissist survivor. You're warriors. Be strong and courageous.
@indiahindiah7295
@indiahindiah7295 3 жыл бұрын
You too 👌👍👍👏👏👏👏
@ankhofmotivation
@ankhofmotivation 2 жыл бұрын
Yes me too smh🤦
@joanngross786
@joanngross786 2 жыл бұрын
The Father did the same for me! Our Father in Heaven is so good!
@ElliePolat
@ElliePolat 3 жыл бұрын
What makes me mad is I was on top of the world in an amazing place in my life when I met him. He begged begged begged me to get with him I mean begged because I was not interested in a relationship. I was happy doing my own thing being independent and this piece of trash pursued me for weeks to the point where I thought ok let me give him a chance and boom he had me hook line and sinker. Moral of the story don’t EVER give yourself up for anyone. If you’re happy doing your own thing just carry on
@kisigma1011
@kisigma1011 3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@MIRNA_LIZ
@MIRNA_LIZ 3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@MRLX54
@MRLX54 3 жыл бұрын
I can relate to this I have experienced this before. Those damn narcs!
@Thespiritualgenie
@Thespiritualgenie 3 жыл бұрын
Amen Sister!
@pinnakal1
@pinnakal1 3 жыл бұрын
Yep
@michaeltaylor9096
@michaeltaylor9096 2 жыл бұрын
I discared the narc. Every couple weeks I get a phone call. They are still BLOCKED. I don't understand the CRAZINESS.
@MusicTime3eb
@MusicTime3eb 3 жыл бұрын
I just ended my 3 year relationship and 1.5 year engagement once I had finally had enough. It felt impossible at first to remain no contact and accept I am doing the right thing. But I am proud I made it through and did not ruin my life with marriage, mixed finances and babies with that monster. Thank you so much for these videos, please never stop. Anytime I feel weak or doubtful or miss the good times, I come back here for a priceless dose of reality.
@latashakendrick9709
@latashakendrick9709 2 жыл бұрын
$priceless you are I had to learn this
@terribryant7699
@terribryant7699 Жыл бұрын
BOOM 💥 KEEP GROWING SPIRITUALLY AS WELL!! Your soul was almost snatched psalm 27
@CF201
@CF201 3 жыл бұрын
Legend, I don't even care if they find another one like me or not ...as long as I ain't in that shit... I'M SUPER GUCCI...
@1010QUEEN7
@1010QUEEN7 3 жыл бұрын
As long as its not me it's lights out for him no power
@ctnwsm
@ctnwsm 3 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way, keep me out the bullcrap! Lol!
@katrinarichard8461
@katrinarichard8461 3 жыл бұрын
I know that's real....
@tamarabaptiste4245
@tamarabaptiste4245 2 жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha 😂😂😂 you done done 🙌🏽
@tamarabaptiste4245
@tamarabaptiste4245 2 жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha 😂😂😂 you done done 🙌🏽
@munirahlewin4694
@munirahlewin4694 3 жыл бұрын
Lol! He married and bought a house with that female narc and now she is literally beating his a$$ so we ALL know who the real Alpha is and it ain't him! Barely married a month and there's trouble in paradise with them saying they no longer want each other. Karma works fast....😂🤣
@pandora30riz20
@pandora30riz20 2 жыл бұрын
Even if life doesn't have anything better for me anything even being alone is better than being with the ahole I was with.
@GlambitiousGirlYT
@GlambitiousGirlYT 3 жыл бұрын
Literally my ex We legally divorced December and he got his new supply pregnant in December / Jan Then married her in the blink of an eye . Trys to make sure I see how " happy " he is. Now that I'm healing I realized how messed up all this is and how much more I deserved . But thank god I'm single now ❤️
@ChristiansPrayingTogether
@ChristiansPrayingTogether 3 жыл бұрын
You're soooo pretty - he is one dumb man. He will get overwhelmed with his pregnant bride and come begging you and it looks like you won't take any crap from him ! Way to go, stay strong 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@GlambitiousGirlYT
@GlambitiousGirlYT 3 жыл бұрын
@@ChristiansPrayingTogether thank you that's really sweet I appreciate it ❤️
@cherrycastro3425
@cherrycastro3425 3 жыл бұрын
He got a new bride and a child to torture. That crap could never be happy.
@aundreamaradiaga4488
@aundreamaradiaga4488 3 жыл бұрын
Mine did the same and still continues to try to show.
@1010QUEEN7
@1010QUEEN7 3 жыл бұрын
Bless you ♥️♥️♥️
@georgejgilles.3999
@georgejgilles.3999 3 жыл бұрын
I've learned from being with one for over 25+ years to leave the trash in the trash.
@marvanewborn2287
@marvanewborn2287 3 жыл бұрын
😔WOW, "EXCELLENT"!! 12 YRS NO CONTACT, GRADE "A"!!
@unapologeticallyme4428
@unapologeticallyme4428 3 жыл бұрын
12 years!! That's beautiful
@marvanewborn2287
@marvanewborn2287 3 жыл бұрын
@@unapologeticallyme4428 , BUT I'M STILL "PISSED" THO!! I'M BETTER THAN I WAS BUT IF I "EVER" SEE HIM IN THE FLESH AND HE SAYS "ANYTHING" TO ME, HE'S GONNA GET THE "JUMP ON"!!😜 I WAS "DONE IN" BY HIM AFTER 20 YRS. OF MARRIAGE! I WAS WIFE #2, HE'S CURRENTLY ON WIFE #4!!😳
@marvanewborn2287
@marvanewborn2287 3 жыл бұрын
😣WHEN I FOUND OUT ABOUT THE AFFAIR AND "GAVE" HIM TO THE "NEW SUPPLY", THEY ONLY LASTED 5 MONTHS!😗
@JMthdjhgbnjk
@JMthdjhgbnjk 2 жыл бұрын
True. An entanglement with a monster.
@moniquemichelle.9374
@moniquemichelle.9374 3 жыл бұрын
Lol 😂… Happy searching, narcs for a Noble man or a woman !! I laugh when my ex narc,told me that he hasn’t found another girl like me .
@1010QUEEN7
@1010QUEEN7 3 жыл бұрын
And he never will
@davidcoppotelli3957
@davidcoppotelli3957 2 жыл бұрын
Funny as Shit.
@michaeltaylor9096
@michaeltaylor9096 2 жыл бұрын
I got discarded once went back after a hoover. THIS TIME I DISCARED THE NARC. I WENT NO CONTACT I BLOCKED THEM. FIRST 2 WEEKS PLEADED IN BEGGED. NOW EVERY COUPLE WEEKS I GET A HOOVER. KICK ROCKS IM DONE
@marsha04053
@marsha04053 3 жыл бұрын
These narsisses dont realize that they can catch deseases and possible catch aids. Have you all thought about that?
@vinniehenley6066
@vinniehenley6066 3 жыл бұрын
My ex had me arrested on Valentine’s Day cause I caught him cheating. He’s a ex cop so it makes it easy for him. I have been mentally and physically abused by him. I never knew what a narcissist was till him. I would of done anything for him. But now by watching your videos and others has help me so much so thank you
@pieramorra2423
@pieramorra2423 2 жыл бұрын
Stay strong one door closed and big door is going to open for you
@tammyfitzgerald5336
@tammyfitzgerald5336 Жыл бұрын
🙌🙏🏽🙌🙏🏽dam cops 👮‍♀️ yeah all jobs ❤
@youknow6607
@youknow6607 3 жыл бұрын
They will never care about you.
@renab747
@renab747 3 жыл бұрын
This video is spot on!!! I left my narcissist ex over a month ago now and he’s been reaching out lately. I can feel it in my spirit he’s not happy and he’s so lost smh I pray for him.
@melinatedvessel6840
@melinatedvessel6840 3 жыл бұрын
Don't go back tho...Don't allow your empathy to suck you into feeling sorry for someone who mistreated you,he'll just do it again..trust me.
@1010QUEEN7
@1010QUEEN7 3 жыл бұрын
Don't even let him back into your life you will be sorry let karma get him
@sueznann8927
@sueznann8927 2 жыл бұрын
He’s not lost, he knows exactly what he’s doing, but you’re right about not being happy, they don’t know what happy is, they are miserable
@danscott2059
@danscott2059 Жыл бұрын
Your incite is truly amazing!!!. You have been right on every single issue.
@vincebrown8398
@vincebrown8398 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been out 8 yrs, I still get hovered constantly. We have son together, thank God he is 17. She tries everything to get to me! That woman is void to me! No matter what she tries are get my son to do! I’m free never going back,,she still is looking for me in another! However she will never find me!
@joannetier3044
@joannetier3044 3 жыл бұрын
After 18 years together I know he will never find another me, I allowed him to live a charmed life and I was always there to come home to, basically a door mat. The new supply lasted 8 weeks, now he’s just focusing on his alcoholism, that’s his fuel, it never lets him down.
@rillagriffin6471
@rillagriffin6471 3 жыл бұрын
Mine alcoholic too. 14 years later I feel like an idiot but i woke up. Now i see. For this I’m grateful. Now i understand
@carolkuhn6768
@carolkuhn6768 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@joanngross786
@joanngross786 2 жыл бұрын
My narc ex-husband was a doper and an alcoholic. I did the same as you, treated him like a king where he treated me like something on the bottom of his shoe. Never again will I be conned by these monsters.
@latashakendrick9709
@latashakendrick9709 2 жыл бұрын
The Alcoholism 🍾🍷🥃🥂🍺🍺🍹🍸
@ladyvirgo013
@ladyvirgo013 Жыл бұрын
Same story for me, I gave my husband 12 good years as he was my Love. He started drinking 7 nights a week and then brutally discarded me for the secretary from his work
@FredaFaithkennedy2523
@FredaFaithkennedy2523 3 жыл бұрын
A narc will bluff, go all in a poker game with a 2&7 off suit....🤦🏽‍♀️ Straight slime balls!!! While the Empath always hold the winning hand all Ace's. My ✂️off game is on point! Blocked, no contact, backspaced, deleted, altf5.🤣 To #trifflin for me to look back.... Thanks for keeping me on my toes Hario✌🏽💞
@veronicasilver6104
@veronicasilver6104 2 жыл бұрын
Thank u for sharing. My son passed away 2 years ago and the father sigh the agreement that he would help pay. I knew he would. Well i worked overtime to pay for things myself. He told me wasn't going to help me anyway. But he wanted my sons brand new cell phone. One of his cars an clothes. I didn't give him anything. Then told me i was selfish by not doing so. He wanted something of kai's. But he was never there for kai when he was alive. I haven't talked to him sense. Of course he's still calling me from an private no# . I keep declining the no#. So i didn't no there was an name to people like this. So thank u for keeping me strong. Continuing being very bless.
@jameshill7763
@jameshill7763 2 жыл бұрын
Honestly I truly loved them, done what ever I could to please them , make them happy, found myself, cooking, cleaning, shopping, which I enjoy, was never enough, I adored her to just cook breakfast , something when we were both off, she give me a choice , she’s not , if i didn’t like it there’s the door, I was fed up, I took the door, left and never looked back! NO CONTACT ALL THE WAY AROUND. THE BEST THING I COULD HAVE DONE, 6 months out , I am so much better, no more lies, cheating, worrying about whose in your house, just peace, Greatful the MOST HIGH GOT ME OUT. Thank you for your help
@Tubey44
@Tubey44 3 жыл бұрын
Hario you’re knowledge on Narcs is DOPE!...OMG thank you, this resonates very deep. Life after Narcs is GOLDEN! Hoovers and Discards were fun and games for him when I was blind. “But now I see” he has no choice but to back TF off. Life is so peaceful and bliss, my glow is attracting a lot of beautiful people...Real Self love is powerful! Darkness and Destruction is all the Narcs know. What an ugly way of living.....FATHER FORGIVE THEM! Thank you Mr Hario, another great video. 😙
@rashidarowe7882
@rashidarowe7882 9 ай бұрын
I ddn't take him back so he started dating one of my friends to punish me, while telling me if i take him back he will dump her, I told him keep her.
@melissamiller3345
@melissamiller3345 4 ай бұрын
How dirty!! The "friend " too!!
@amyeilering6470
@amyeilering6470 Жыл бұрын
I can’t thank you enough for all of your videos❤
@pj2.085
@pj2.085 Жыл бұрын
That would be a good line-I think Walmart has what you’re looking for!😂
@Highlyfavoredls
@Highlyfavoredls 2 жыл бұрын
Hario, I love your delivery!! It’s exactly what I need to hear and feel as I go through this!!
@farah4983
@farah4983 2 жыл бұрын
That's exactly where I'm at, I laugh so hard realizing what a total clown he is lol. And I say my god I invited an entire demon into my home! Praise God for leading me through this. I'm growing and glowing! Walk through this fire and keep leveling up my sister and brothers ❤️
@redbone8844
@redbone8844 2 жыл бұрын
Girl I been laughing to I use to cry 😢 but I have no more tears 😭 I’m moving on and it feels so good! He’s been hoovering texting saying he love me 4 ever and asking me how my day is!! I didn’t respond I’ll let him talk to himself like he use to do me!!
@slyfly4829
@slyfly4829 3 жыл бұрын
My ex gf narc discarded me twice. N she is literally a snake in the grass in my life. She won't fuck off! Everything she did is trifflin as fuck. Tries to get reactions. Tries to make me jealous. Constantly and I mean CONSTANTLY calls the police on me. Is always snooping for anything to use against me. And uses my child as a pawn. It's clear she wants some form of attention from me. N I just will not give it to her. I think what scares her the most of me moving on.
@metastract
@metastract 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Hario. You always make me smile. Yes, he was blowing up my phone when I went on staycation last week and wants to be friends. I'm just bulletproof now. I couldn't go back even if it were an option. Stay safe and well everyone. Keep moving forward!
@tammyfitzgerald5336
@tammyfitzgerald5336 Жыл бұрын
What is sad 😞 s they dropping kids and ruining the children 😮😮😮😮😮
@gregorygrayson8044
@gregorygrayson8044 5 ай бұрын
She uses her kids to try to ask for money I know it be her using their social media account
@overcomer3607
@overcomer3607 2 жыл бұрын
Omg he always said to me … “no one is thinking about you “ I always felt so belittled and unappreciated
@joanngross786
@joanngross786 2 жыл бұрын
Don't give ANY credence to what he said! The jealous oaf was certainly thinking about you and he knew how attractive you are. My narc ex-husband could never belittle me because I had multiple degrees and he didn't. And he confessed that he never appreciated ANYTHING I ever did. Our Father in Heaven will ALWAYS love us and affirm us!
@AZDC99
@AZDC99 Жыл бұрын
3:54 "They THINK they can go from a Grade A Supply (you or me) to a high Grade C Suppy and think that THEY can just swoop on in and come back." I needed to hear this because the predictable holiday Hoover is perhaps coming up for me again. This used to be my mistake, Hario. I was not chasing after them, but very nice and happy scene a good side of them for the first time in a while. Then all defenses were down, and they came in for the kill again eventually. I need to remember to do what you've been doing for a while and just close the book instead of reading the next chapter of the horror tale
@maryanngray4519
@maryanngray4519 4 ай бұрын
They can come back all they want ,l won't b available. I'm enlove with my peace, do not distribute, stick with what you ran too
@yvonnehill4854
@yvonnehill4854 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly what the hell have I done. No contact y'all. Heal!!!!
@semirainayatullah
@semirainayatullah 2 жыл бұрын
By watching your videos; I got to know the intentions and it's very much relatable in my case ... Right now, he doesn't call and I'm assuming that he is very much happy with the other supply ... Watching your videos everyday to get more composed and not to call him back from my side for my better future...
@mikegrass7325
@mikegrass7325 Жыл бұрын
Hario, your videos are excellent. I know I appreciate your time for teaching me about this evil narcissist.
@syahusha7776
@syahusha7776 2 жыл бұрын
I'm waiting on The Most High. There is a great goodly man out there for me. Ladies, you can do it. It's over!
@gladiatorninja1222
@gladiatorninja1222 3 жыл бұрын
I never want them to know where at in the first place.
@peacefulself7848
@peacefulself7848 2 жыл бұрын
Outstanding! Thank you so much! A GOD send!
@nancymc
@nancymc 3 жыл бұрын
Hario is no joke. He tells it like it is. So much information, thank you so much for your Work💕
@RS-ww8jo
@RS-ww8jo 3 жыл бұрын
After a month long Hoover he is spending the night with the new supply. I’m glad I didn’t let him get close to me. 61 and the biggest liar I ever met. We were married 33 years. Thank god my eyes are open and the divorce is almost final
@sharonlundy8579
@sharonlundy8579 3 жыл бұрын
I may be imitated but never duplicated!!!!!!
@dianeanderson2976
@dianeanderson2976 3 жыл бұрын
Love this man . Every thing he says is so true. . .
@capricetony
@capricetony 3 жыл бұрын
This reminds me of my ex, she was a BPD person (I never knew what that was). She left after 11 years, came back 1 1/2 year later, then left again 6 months ago. Wondering if she will circle back again. My devaluation was a masterpiece each time.... I learned the hard way.
@tammyfitzgerald5336
@tammyfitzgerald5336 Жыл бұрын
This is in the blood it’s a taught behavior severely Fd up 😮😮😮🙌🙏🏽🙌🙏🏽
@Sophia-nu7vh
@Sophia-nu7vh 3 жыл бұрын
Keep looking forward for every U turn you make that's a start over on you.
@livamoore5566
@livamoore5566 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks beautiful doamond queen.
@Lynnejordan1218
@Lynnejordan1218 3 жыл бұрын
Beautifully said, 19yrs they left I wish them well, still healing...God is faithful
@twannie1225
@twannie1225 2 жыл бұрын
So true bhro i cut the narcissists off
@divine_presence
@divine_presence 2 жыл бұрын
The old me is dead and buried.
@lorip.9836
@lorip.9836 3 жыл бұрын
Great video Hario. Thank you for lifting my heart! You’re so right in what you’re saying. A few months before he abruptly ghosted and discarded me, my ex said to me one evening, in a very cocky, aggressive tone, “You’ll NEVER get rid of me!!” Now it’s been almost 6 months of No Contact. And even though it’s been so painful being discarded, I am so thankful to God that it happened. But I just can’t forget those crazy, maniacal words. So you’re right, they never plan to completely give up us Grade A supply. Thank you again for the great video! 👍
@christianpulisic7784
@christianpulisic7784 3 жыл бұрын
Lori Paiva,Your lovely smile 😊 can make the news!!
@lorip.9836
@lorip.9836 3 жыл бұрын
Aww... thank you 😊
@christianpulisic7784
@christianpulisic7784 3 жыл бұрын
@@lorip.9836 You are welcome dearest 🌹🌷🌺.I am Christian from the States.You?
@christianpulisic7784
@christianpulisic7784 3 жыл бұрын
@@lorip.9836 Which country are you from?
@sindust150
@sindust150 2 жыл бұрын
Damn, i was a super empath and grade A supply,. I saw her new source which was an old source; He came by the apartment after i put my foot sown, and he looked devoide of a soul, draind and lost, she said it was her uncle going throuhg a divorce; i was oblivious to the situation and delived her and didnt listen to my gut. Anyway, she fuched up, 4years, I took care of everything and now, Im on the way with my business making millions so she missed out on the mega lottery...😅😅😅😂😂😂so hell no way to coming back...😂😂😂😂
@joanngross786
@joanngross786 2 жыл бұрын
Her loss!!
@queenlesegofauchier7208
@queenlesegofauchier7208 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy again. I never thought I'll be.
@SweetTee04
@SweetTee04 3 жыл бұрын
My ex narc was trying to throw my name in the mud like I was the bad guy….telling people he was done with me……but I just saw him drive by my house yesterday…….weirdo….
@Michelle....B
@Michelle....B 3 жыл бұрын
C Level supply aisle 5 at your local Wal-Mart. I cut my narc off December 2020. He has NOT tried to contact me but was looking at my social media until I blocked him. No text or calls from him.
@patricebeene5396
@patricebeene5396 3 жыл бұрын
Truth be told !!! Exactly. Bye Boy!!!
@debrajackson1244
@debrajackson1244 2 жыл бұрын
C grade supply at Wal-Mart. 😂😂😂
@denisehoffman2817
@denisehoffman2817 2 жыл бұрын
It's even better when they do it themselves!! You're full of wisdom Hario!!
@amitasharma4770
@amitasharma4770 3 жыл бұрын
I just thank God at all times, God bless us all always Thank you for your inspiring vids
@vickyalvarez6886
@vickyalvarez6886 3 жыл бұрын
My ex Narc is engaged to be married. I cold turkey his ass, nah, no new friends! We are not friends, he didn't like that. He did a BoyzIIMen and got on bended knees, and proposed to another, your fiancé is your friend not me! Now, he's going on live on FB, posting pics, on ig, Fb lol. Yes, doing the most trying to get a reaction from me. I no longer care. I don't deserve the mistreatment/gaslighting! Have a good life!
@lovelyc4633
@lovelyc4633 Жыл бұрын
Thank You! 🙏🏽
@shelleywoods2578
@shelleywoods2578 Жыл бұрын
You are so on point. That no contact is very real to me. I have the peace I once forfeit....NEVER, EVER will I do that again.😳 You know better...you do better.💞🙆‍♀️💕
@paulinerussell444
@paulinerussell444 3 жыл бұрын
I don't think they want another meee!!!
@tracyjordan5157
@tracyjordan5157 2 жыл бұрын
Feeling alittle inferior as Tim threatened this am with black eyes. I can back with who is going to do that, I know nobody here. Now are they gonna tear my shit up, is he going to follow me to store to threaten me. I have some things I need to do tomorrow! What do I do!
@danetteclay1753
@danetteclay1753 3 жыл бұрын
💯Hario your absolutely right
@soulclarity01
@soulclarity01 3 жыл бұрын
I've been 5 years NC and finally found love and then I get a follow request on IG from his good friend from high school. We dated in high-school and when things were going well for him he discarded me it was horrific to say the least. Now I think back and I see how strong I actually was to deal with that crap, because my dad was just the same so of course I'd attract him outside too.
@phylliskelley1570
@phylliskelley1570 3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes many co dependent are to insecure and not mature enough to date, which leaves open to Narcissist. Many need one on one coaching and deprogram for they are at the extreme level which is Stockholm Syndrome! Some co dependent will ignore all help available?
@misasmith6180
@misasmith6180 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like the old me. Was kidnapped when I met him wow LoL
@chasity3878
@chasity3878 2 жыл бұрын
Yup my narc told me I will always watch you no matter what u do where you go I moved away Two years narc free hallelujah!!!!!!
@rhr3455
@rhr3455 2 жыл бұрын
Never ever💔
@NewPhone-zn2wy
@NewPhone-zn2wy 3 ай бұрын
I'm a super empath
@monicatate6571
@monicatate6571 2 жыл бұрын
So glad I found this channel !
@pamelakelley5535
@pamelakelley5535 3 жыл бұрын
I can tell u have definitely lived this nightmare. As many of us have. Thank u for ur contined support!!! U r right he will never find another super empath. Thank God I am not on other social media. Always remember God gives u beauty for the ashes.
@joshuasjonas5787
@joshuasjonas5787 3 жыл бұрын
Good morning G i'm really glad to hear this i'm in this for 31 years i didnt know till a few weeks ago when i typed in narcissist that when my eyes opened now im treating the relationship with total silence , and outburst when it's overbearing now that she knows ive cut her of she doesnt like it but im not going to buckle
@barbaraannhenderson9049
@barbaraannhenderson9049 2 жыл бұрын
You're. getting better and better you know what you're. talking about great work.
@moed.harris4780
@moed.harris4780 3 жыл бұрын
You Are on point!!!!!!!! I just Closed the Door!!!!! Shiiiiiii..... You on Point!!!
@cocomi9901
@cocomi9901 3 жыл бұрын
I was finally able to watch your video in its entirety without interruptions and I’m so glad I did! You touched on so many things but what stood out the most was when you said “the carnage the narc leaves behind, they left a trail of destruction” this is so true. Not only did my ex-husband break our covenant with his infidelity but the women he had affairs with were destroyed, devasted, and decimated also. Now he has more enemies than friends. He recently began hoovering and I couldn’t resist the opportunity to tell him what I have held back from saying for so long. He asked what I needed him to do to fix our relationship. I told him some things are beyond repair and this is one of those things but if he ever wants to give me anything all I want is his silence and distance.
@dominiqueojehonmon9949
@dominiqueojehonmon9949 2 жыл бұрын
Bro ,I've been following your coaching and now I am out but she won't live me alone ,so I set her u and dump her like a bad habit
@Tinyshiny92
@Tinyshiny92 3 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed watching this, lots of good and helpful information/insight…I’ve been dealing with a narcissist, aka my former best friend for a few years and today’s the day I decide to cut all ties with him. He sent me a voice message saying “you will never find somebody else like me, somebody who accepts you for who you are” 🤣 it’s over with his manipulation. I could hear the fear and rage in his shaky voice. He’s realising that he’s lost me now for real.
@aspasiametaxa9804
@aspasiametaxa9804 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you one more time for another excellent video.!!!!!
@kathleenkirby2904
@kathleenkirby2904 3 жыл бұрын
HARIO .. LIKE THE NATURAL SCENERY BACKGROUND! LISTENING TO THE BIRDS & NATURE .. IN THE BACKGROUND. ADDS TO THE SPECIAL LIGHT .. AS WELL! YOU'RE RIGHT .. THEY WILL NEVER FIND ANOTHER ME! I SAID .. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! IF HE WANTED ME .. HE SHOULD OF RESPECTED ME & TREAT ME WELL! AND .. HE DIDN'T! SO .. HIS LOSS!
@denisehoffman2817
@denisehoffman2817 2 жыл бұрын
You always seem to be in a great space!!
@kylaren6337
@kylaren6337 3 жыл бұрын
Yes they will. They don’t care about you or the next person they deal with. So all of them are interchangeable.
@Smile-zs5hd
@Smile-zs5hd 3 жыл бұрын
"Got the new supply pregnant "
@peacefaith560
@peacefaith560 3 жыл бұрын
dont mean a thing...they still hoover and walk away
@robinburns1639
@robinburns1639 3 жыл бұрын
You are so inspiring Hario!! Please keep up the great work!!😊😉👍💜
@randiallen5652
@randiallen5652 3 жыл бұрын
Love you Hario thank you so so much! God Bless
@rafprice1
@rafprice1 3 жыл бұрын
Your videos have helped alot. Everything you're saying is true
@dquest7761
@dquest7761 3 жыл бұрын
Mr. Hario is telling the genuine truth!
@markscram3134
@markscram3134 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you brother. I am a good person!
@cindyhuntwalker4667
@cindyhuntwalker4667 3 жыл бұрын
Glad I'm 6 yrs free everything you say is true was with a narcissist for many years have 3 sons by one very low grade supply
@phyllisdecilla7267
@phyllisdecilla7267 3 жыл бұрын
So true! Beg over & over. I moved and refused to say where I moved to. I was messaged a picture of my new home with my address and message ...so you didnt think I could find you. Im sure you have nothing to say now good luck in your new place. 2 weeks later bought a diamond bracelet for me and 3 days later married (only because he had prostate removed & feels incompetent) the "girl" he cheated with (one of the many) when he was married and later on when he was with me. Joke is...she thinks she won! Lol
@ilgenis
@ilgenis 3 жыл бұрын
I hope they never find me again in the future.
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