The Older I Get, the More Introverted I Become | INTROVERT DIARIES | Clay Vase | Slow Living

[@renec.7371]

I'm 82 and an introvert, also widowed. I have many hobbies and love my own company. I worked for many years and had more of a social life, but since I am retired I love having time to do the things I mostly put off for so long. I find, being alone, I am much more observant about nature and things in general. This period in my life seems to be the "real me."

[@slowlifestories]

That is simply amazing! ❤️ I’m an occupational therapist, I’ve worked with seniors for many years and I feel that it could go either way after retirement… many people tend to feel depressed and lonely.. but others just thrive once they have that time to do hobbies and simply enjoy the little things in life… I’m glad that you are one of them! 🥰🫶🏻❤️❤️ and I completely relate, when I’m alone I’m also more observant about the simple things 🥰

[@rosemarybanner]

Aaawww….so agree…retire and do what you want to do!

[@Belluser-we1uc5cb2l]

Same. Widow, introvert, and retired❤ Feel more alive when I'm alone. People drain my energy.

[@lillianwilliams5510]

You and I seem to be kindred spirits. I just commented, that I thought. I am depressed, but so many of us Baby BOOMERS ARE going through this time in our lives. When we are forced to be alone.it is good to know, we are not eccentric. I think how we live.or where makes a difference in our mental and physical well-being being.

[@thesun-N-moon8885]

Just curious about the labels we are either putting on or giving oneself at a rapid pace in America. You have been blessed with many years of wisdom on so many things. Is this labeling ourselves simply because we enjoy different things a common thing during your years. For me it seems to have become a modern day tradition. I’ve even heard those who enjoy having a clean home say they have ocd. I was raised that keeping a clean home was just life and part of our everyday routine. Just curious.

[@dyvonnem]

The older I get, the more authentic I become and for me, that means becoming more at peace with my inner introvert.

[@slowlifestories]

Embracing your authentic self is such a beautiful journey, and it's wonderful to hear that you're finding peace with your inner introvert. As we grow older, understanding and accepting ourselves become easier, and even more valuable. Keep nurturing that inner peace! ❤️❤️❤️

[@yvonneb-t3d]

I too have also realized that finding my authentic self brings inner peace

[@deb1130]

For decades, I would say to myself “What’s wrong with me?” More recently, I’ve been saying to myself “This is who I am.” Yes, more at peace!

[@FatemeLife]

So do i❤

[@jeanettekasper7467]

I too was a social butterfly when I was young, just loved talking to people and hanging out. As I got older and retired, I find solitude and having free time is a wonderful gift that I give myself. I love to do projects like sewing, reading, watching movies, take afternoon naps without multitasking, no agendas. It feels good now to just relax and do what I want to do. I felt selfish that all I want to do is think of myself and yet I told myself that it's ok, I've pulled in my time, I worked over 48 years, raised our kids and took care of all the home responsibilities, now it's time to rest and think about what I want to do and get to know myself on who am I.

[@EvieO1950]

I’m 73 and have definitely become more introverted since I retired. Relieved of dealing with so many people so much of the time has brought peace back into my life. I can only “people” on a limited basis. Too much too many days in a row wears be out even when it’s folks I love and we’re doing things I want to do. Grateful that hubby is not very social and we just enjoy each other and the great outdoors!!

[@slowlifestories]

I can completely relate.. I can only “people” for a short time 😅 but sounds like you’re really enjoying your life now and have been able to find peace! 🥰❤️❤️🫶🏻

[@debbievermilyea4037]

Same here! ❤

[@enchantedoctobermoon]

This is my life too, Evie. My younger self would have never believed it. But I have found so much peace by making my circle of loved ones and friends small. Our time together is so much more meaningful. But I can only do so much before I need to have down time and rest. I’ll be 50 in October and I wish I had found this peace so much sooner in life. Creators like Slow Life Stories has really helped me see what’s really important and to prioritize my life. I’m really enjoying “living gently”. I’m so thankful.

[@Youdoingnothing]

Your words resonate greatly with me and I’m also grateful for a husband like yours, Evie.

[@barbnauman705]

Evie, I appreciate your honesty. I’m the same way. I can’t be with lots of people anymore. It completely fatigues me. I find I need to rest some each day now. I’m avoiding the news, and anything i know will be emotionally draining. I’ve learned self care is ok, and I feel guilty about it.

[@williesmith3466]

I do too! Mainly, because people are so messy they take kindness as a sign of weakness.

[@slowlifestories]

That is true, unfortunately… 😔

[@ingenuity296]

I love being alone.

[@slowlifestories]

❤️❤️

[@abbz23]

Me too its peaceful ❤

[@Belluser-we1uc5cb2l]

Heaven on earth..I actually feel closer to God.

[@monicaramirez51015]

😊me too❤

[@echaleagua]

I'm 63 and very happy being alone. My family says I'm "allergic to people". I really tend to like people, but I'd rather be to myself. Crowds freak me out, I can't do parades or concerts especially church. There's got to be a reason I'm like this, but I ain't changing who I am to please all the extroverts in my family and beyond. Good luck and peace to my fellow introverts!,

[@slowlifestories]

Hehe I completely relate!! I’m the least social person in my family and I couldn’t care less! 🤷🏻‍♀️😅

[@Sketchbook999]

Are you an empath? , can you pickup other peoples energies?

[@Petruskinhap972]

Im an introvert and work from home. It’s bliss. I love being with my little family, pets and nature. Yesterday I socialized with a large group of neighbors and although it’s nice for my daughter to be around other kids, I needed a whole day to recover after being around so many people.

[@dawnvandenbroeck]

I found your video today. I have been for the most part an intovert my whole life, 63 now. I have always loved my quiet time learning new things, reading and just doing things yhat make me happy. My time out is very limited to my favorite coffee shop, thrift store and errand shopping. And i really have no desire to change that. Im glad to find othes who share the simple life.

[@slowlifestories]

I’m happy to hear that so many people can relate to what I shared in this video 🥰❤️

[@glendagai]

What a timely day to discover your chanel. I am 77 years old and an introvert. I was a trauma nurse and always came home physically and emotionally drained. I am so happy to be retired, and alone . I have many friends but just don’t need to socialize as much as most people. People just do not understand. Now my adult children are worried about me being isolated. Dear God I am not isolated I am happy.

[@slowlifestories]

Hahaha I completely understand how you feel! It’s not easy for others to understand unless they are also introverts.. I can only imagine how demanding your job was.. your alone/rest time now is very much deserved!!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@wood12352]

Wow me too👍 as I get older the more I love to stay home 🏡

[@slowlifestories]

❤️❤️❤️

[@HarlenePenberthy-dq3md]

I am soooo glad I found this video. I am 74 and retired. I was a Registered Nurse for 52 years. I have been beating myself up for the past 3 years for not wanting to be in social groups. Through this video, you have taken away my guilt and inspired me to develop some more hobbies and enjoy the solitude and my own company when I want to. Thankyou so much.🙏🏼

[@slowlifestories]

I love to hear this, thank you for sharing your thoughts 🙏🏻❤️❤️ It’s wonderful to be able to accept and embrace your true self and your personality… as you probably noticed from the comments on this video, there are many people who feel the same way ☺️

[@BalletShoes-c1k]

To reach 81 and live alone is bliss. No-one´s bad moods to spoil my day. I talk to myself & am a very good listener 😂. Seriously, if you’re blessed with good health what’s not to like about your own company at this time in your life? At last I come first.

[@tinainglima]

I’m going to be 59 months end. The last 26 years I thought something was wrong with me because I isolate. I stumbled on this channel read about others and actually feel like I can stop fixing myself. It’s normal to be alone. Being overstimulated just because you think that’s normal is not. Now maybe I can relax and enjoy myself.

[@sealife13]

It’s only a problem when you feel lonely and want company

[@elistia]

Only after reading Quiet by Susan Cain when I was well into my 40s did I recognize that I wasn't broken. I mistakenly (as many do) confused introversion with shyness. I am definitely NOT shy but I do require an inordinate amount of alone and quiet time, am easily overstimulated, etc. It's such a huge relief to finally know there's nothing wrong with you, per se. But carving out and claiming the time you need for yourself can be so challenging! Best wishes on navigating in a way that suits and cares for your spirit.

[@juliebarrett943]

Finally, truthful, unapologetic words about being an introvert! I have always been an introvert - too many people, too much noise and social expectations often felt like a violence to my soul. At 66, I have learned to respect my own knowing/intuition. Thank you for this video, and so many acknowledging comments.

[@slowlifestories]

I’m glad you can relate! And I feel the exact same way ❤️❤️❤️

[@dianaweirich5106]

I worked all my life starting at 15. I retired at 54 and we live in peace with nature. Everything I need is here.

[@slowlifestories]

That sounds lovely❤️❤️ I’d love to live closer to nature…

[@mariaanderson505]

I too love my own company, I was never alone until I was 67 and widowed, now 76. I love my own company and love to be silent in my thoughts, being able to do this is a gift beyond measure. Happy in my own skin and that makes me a very contented introvert

[@slowlifestories]

It’s wonderful that you've found peace and contentment within yourself 🥰🥰 and I couldn’t agree more, embracing your own company and finding solace in silence can be a beautiful gift indeed ❤️❤️

[@angelacaires8772]

I echo so many of these thoughts. I’m an introvert, 65 now and work part time. My husband is an extrovert who thrives on people and noise and chaos. After 12 years together I finally moved back into my own quiet house, my sanctuary. I love my husband but I’m reclaiming my peace, my space. He has come to understand this and is supportive. We are still married but love each other enough to give each other space to grow in our own way.

[@slowlifestories]

It sounds like you've found a beautiful balance that works for both of you. Respecting each other's needs for space and understanding is crucial in any relationship. It's wonderful that you've found a way to nurture your individual selves while still cherishing your bond together ❤️❤️🥰🥰

[@jenniferpalumbo2813]

When menopause hit I started sleeping in our guest bedroom. I like the quiet and ability to read and pray etc while my husband likes to watch movies loud and flip channels etc. my brain couldn’t handle it and it works for us now, having peace and no stress when it’s time to sleep ❤

[@sml0266]

I've been dreaming of my own place. I don't want a divorce either, I'd just like to have my own haven. It sounds like you have the best of all worlds.

[@katrinas8128]

This sounds fabulous! I'm so happy for you!

[@keepingitreal618]

Oh gosh that sounds like perfect solution😊

[@lifeaccordingtocynthia5657]

I am 65 and have become much like Beth in Little Women. In one version of the movie, she says to her sisters, "why does everyone want to go away? I love being at home!"

[@slowlifestories]

🥰🥰❤️❤️

[@elizabethcameron6045]

I love that line in Little Women!

[@JenniferHenson-n9q]

Me too🩵🩵

[@lindajackson6959]

Me too 65, just retired…love to stay home

[@Heidi.M]

Same here. Yet, I struggled with accepting it. Many of my close friends thought I was shutting down and really noticed a change. I don’t make excuses anymore and I love my simple life. I look forward to waking up each day without an agenda.

[@slowlifestories]

That’s great to hear! ❤️❤️ I can relate to having friends who thought you were shutting down… it’s happened to me too, they simply didn’t understand and took it personal… I have a very small circle now, mostly long distance but I’m perfectly happy with it! 🥰

[@Heidi.M]

@@slowlifestories it’s very liberating! Your video will help so many. I’m glad it came up on my feed❤️

[@jankrygier1607]

What a lovely video. Felt my blood pressure drop just watching this! Why does society encourage everyone to be an extrovert, as if the introvert has some sort of personality deficiency? Subscribed!!!

[@slowlifestories]

Awww thanks so much for subscribing! I’m really glad this video helped you relax ☺️☺️ and yesss, I ask myself the same thing… they keep trying to get us introverts “out of our comfort zone” to be more extroverted.. 🙄

[@lorianne4608]

At 59 I’m finally able to enjoy my alone time. I’ve worked as a Paralegal for many years + now retired. Unfortunately I’m unhappily divorced. The thought of being alone terrified me. I always lived with my husband. I started to panic cuz I felt like time was running out to find someone new. After thinking about it I realized that I was now able to live a nice quiet life without fear

[@debc315]

I married at 25 had 6 children, divorced after 19 years of marriage. I was single for 19 years, I enjoyed my work and home life. I met a man in church , who was also divorced and not looking for a relationship. Good Lord willing next month we will celebrate our fifth anniversary. We have a good life, we pretty much keep to ourselves. I am still adjysting to retirement. I was doing eldercare and I miss the clients and their families . Both my husband and I are introverts. That suits me fine , I feel exhausted 8f I am around too many people. When I worked , my drive home was my separation time. I also do mot watch the news. If something important happens we will find out about someone will notify us

[@roseoreillysievers6057]

You don't need a man to make you happy. You can get together with your girlfriends and go out for a meal. Enjoy yourself and take up art or volunteer at the cancer places, which I did when my husband died 12 years ago.

[@debc315]

@@roseoreillysievers6057 I love my husband , but my most important relationship is with My Dear Savior Jesus, then my husband. We share our faith and many values, but we are opposite in many ways. At 68 O am comfortable enough to engage in something I love like reading or furniture painting and my hysband can pursue his interest in cars( the ones without computers) . I feel we are better for maintaing our individual interests in addition tk our time together. I always used to tell my children Nobody listens to me like me. I enjoy my own company and peace and quiet.

[@goodvibrations9073]

Thank you for sharing. May I ask how you overcame the fear?

[@lorianne4608]

@@goodvibrations9073 I was pretty scared cuz I was intimidated by a random guy who kept asking me out despite my being married. I had to leave. I was being terrorized. How I got over the fear was coloring, friends, etc. I go through periods of loneliness sometimes but being with a man scares me more than I hope you are well.

[@dianacopney8977]

Enjoying solitude is so wonderful. I’m 79 and am so happy to know that I am not alone as an introvert. I have always been surrounded by extroverts. I enjoy learning different hobbies and watching crafters on KZbin . Thank you for sharing .

[@slowlifestories]

I agree with you, it’s truly heartening to connect with others who appreciate the beauty of solitude and introversion, especially amidst a world that often celebrates extroversion ❤️❤️

[@lindawilson8434]

Yes I agree with you Love solitude and quiet

[@mscreative7345]

If I did not know you were in your 30's, I would think that you were of retirement age. You speak on this topic the way an older person would. You have explained me in this whole video. I have be retired since 2011 and gradually over the years have withdrawl from the larger society to become more of an introvert, and I love it. Do not have ANY friends and don't want any. Do not hold long convesation on the phone and don't give my phone number out. Those days of trying to fit into a society that does not easily let just anybody join the club, are OVER. I am perfectly content not going away from my property days at a time, unless I have errands to run or go buy groceries. Thank you for this video, it was very sweet and informative. Peace and Many Blessings to you, Iris 😊😊😊😊😊😊

[@ram3170]

When I was younger I wanted to be an extrovert, but I was never really comfortable with it. I've finally accepted that I'm an introvert. I like being with people, but I have my limits. I enjoy spending quiet time alone doing crafts and reading. That's when I'm happiest. By the way, your scarf looks like it's coming out great.

[@slowlifestories]

Same.. I always tried to be an extrovert but was never good at it hehe.. never felt comfortable either… thank you, I’m trying to be super careful this time and not have any holes 🤞🏼🥰❤️

[@gailcornwell3433]

I have always thought that there was something wrong with me for not enjoying socialising. I have never really had friends but aquaintances, who I seem to enjoy but I don't keep in touch with for long. For me family and home are enough, and when I retired I have finally come into acceptance of who I am. There is so much pressure to enjoy 'forced fun', but alone time is precious in this increasingly fast paced and insane world.

[@slowlifestories]

I’m so glad that you have finally accepted who you are… ❤️❤️ You’re not alone in thinking that something was wrong with you for not liking to socialize much but trust me there's absolutely nothing wrong with you! 🙅🏻‍♀️It's just that our world tends to celebrate extroversion, making introverts sometimes feel like we’re not fitting in… 🫤 Embracing your personality in a world that expects everyone to be outgoing can be a journey, but it's a beautiful one once you fully accept who you are 🥰❤️

[@Chrissyhappy]

I too find as I get older I am more my authentic self. For years I gave in to the ……you need to do this. You need to do that. You need to behave this way. You need to socialise more. You need to be more outgoing, brigade. It made me stressed and uncomfortable in life. Some people just aren’t meant to be outgoing and sociable. Me included!😊

[@slowlifestories]

It's wonderful to hear that you've embraced your authentic self as you've gotten older… I am learning to do the same! 🥰❤️ Society often imposes expectations on how we should behave or socialize, but it's important to honor our own nature and preferences 🫶🏻

[@Elizalynn-sunshine]

Wow! Im almost 61 and so happy to just knit, crochet, make comforters for Christian Aid Ministries all alone or with my cat, this was so relaxing❤

[@heidimeigs5192]

How lovely of you to make comforters for others. I’m sure they can feel the love you put into making them. 💖

[@slowlifestories]

Glad you enjoyed it! I’m just getting into knitting and quite enjoying it.. it’s very nice of you to knit for others❤️❤️

[@susanmundy8037]

Peace, tranquility and a deep connection with self and nature - it's all you need ❤

[@slowlifestories]

Agreed! 💯❤️

[@Freesiasoapsud]

I was lucky enough to give up work at 58 a couple of years ago now and I love my slow pace of life, I have one best friend, we love to craft together, I have time to do things properly, cooking, cleaning, hanging out the washing etc, I love being at home alone with my two Jack Russells, I absolutely dread too much social interaction it leaves me totally drained, my husband is the same, he calls us Mr & Mrs unsociable and that’s the way we like it ❤️ I liked your clay creation.

[@slowlifestories]

It sounds like you've crafted a wonderfully peaceful life for yourself! Taking pleasure in the simple things, enjoying solitude, and spending quality time with loved ones and pets sounds idyllic! ❤️❤️❤️

[@kristinamikkelsoncasanova6287]

I am also a introvert and live out on the Arizona desert...love the quiet ..and the peace.

[@slowlifestories]

Thanks for sharing! 🥰🫶🏻❤️

[@FatemeLife]

🌱🌱🌱 KZbin has been a beautiful platform to connect with like-minded souls, and I'm so thankful for the sense of belonging it brings. 🌷🌷🌷 Thank you for being a part of my journey! Fateme🌱🌱🌱

[@Videodiarysmi]

Finally found a comforting channel

[@slowlifestories]

Aww so glad!!! 🥹🥰🥰❤️❤️

[@debbievermilyea4037]

I am too comfortable with my introversion. It has made my tolerance for so many things less than healthy. I have such tremendous peace with solitude, for the most part! I am prone to depression so I hold close to my heart 2 dear friends I've had for 50 years. ❤ One is an introvert. The other doesn't get it at all but she loves us and makes us laugh. Life is beautiful and should be cherished. Introversion allows us a pace of life that enhances all things good and minimizes all its flaws. My heart is with you. Blessings from a 68 yr old.

[@slowlifestories]

I relate to every single thing you said! 🙌🏻 my tolerance for so many things can also be less than healthy (at least that's what l've been made to believe in this society) but l'm also so comfortable with my introversion at this stage of my life that I just don't care hehe 😅 It sounds like you've found a beautiful balance in embracing your introversion while cherishing the connections you have with your dear friends.. it’s very important to find the balance between enjoying being alone and not feeling lonely… especially because you mentioned that you are prone to depression… I love your perspective on life's pace and the value of solitude ❤️❤️ Wishing you continued peace and joy, blessings to you too 🫶🏻🥰❤️

[@pearlgee5970]

I saw your channel for the first time today. Watching this video and reading your thoughts and the comments, I realized I’m ok after all. Have been enjoying being alone and do not feel lonely. I do text with my family and do volunteer work which I love. Thank you and everyone very much. I’m really A-Ok!!!❤😂😊

[@slowlifestories]

Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts, and I'm glad to hear that this video and this community have resonated with you 🥰🥰❤️❤️ You are definitely A-Ok! 🙌🏻😁 and it's wonderful that you’ve found contentment in solitude and fulfillment in your volunteer work!!

[@NadineWendellMojica]

At 76 I join in the chorus of agreement. Spending over 30 years in the field of mental health as a family therapist and previously in criminal justice, as a retiree I treasure my peaceful life.

[@slowlifestories]

Oh I bet you do! ❤️ Those two career fields must have been very emotionally demanding!

[@samanthahoos9827]

❤ I’m 53 with distant friends, but keep quite busy caring for my home, work, family and own interests. A therapist once said I needed to get out and make new friends as my children aged. I am attempting to do this through ladies at work, but my home is my sanctuary. For my birthday next month I’m taking the week off to do garden chores and on the last day of my vacation I’m throwing myself a birthday party with the ladies in my life over for a lazy dinner. 😊 Thank you for your beautiful videos!

[@slowlifestories]

Your birthday plans sound lovely, and it's great to hear you're making efforts to connect with coworkers/new friends while still cherishing your sanctuary at home. I'm glad you enjoy the videos 🫶🏻🥰❤️ and I hope your birthday week is filled with joy and relaxation! 🎈🎂

[@lillianwilliams5510]

I recently read am article on as we age, we choose more to be alone.we want people but less and less. I thought,I was just becoming more introverted because people have hurt me so many times. I like my solitude. But my health is making me become more of a recluse. It is also hindering me from going out. Also I stopped doing anything of joy; therefore. I am not sure if I am an introvert or depressed. I enjoy my utube,texting and emailing. I do write poetry and journals and talking to a few people. I have been downsizing my home, for too long. So basically my solitude is not as happy as I would like. I don't miss being around lots of people and all the socializing. Thank you for this video, now I don't feel so different.

[@slowlifestories]

Thank you for sharing how you’re feeling ❤️ I’m sorry to hear that your health is affecting your quality of life.. I’ve also read that it’s natural to become more introverted and enjoy our time alone as we age… but that’s the key though, it should be enjoyable and bring you peace and contentment… I have many hobbies and things I enjoy doing… if you have no desire to do anything of joy, there might be something else going on other than just being an introvert (and I say this from a kind place) ❤️❤️❤️

[@waldtochter5004]

Thank you so much, that's 100% the way I live and what I'm feeling. And today I'm 62 and finally I know that it's okay. It's me.❤🙏🏼

[@slowlifestories]

The best feeling is when we accept who we are ❤️❤️🥰🥰

[@waldtochter5004]

@@slowlifestories ♥️

[@RandomMusings05]

I am also an introvert to the point that I have no problem spending time by myself. I love spending time with my husband and family. I am not really sure though if I am an introvert or just have social anxieties. But, I love quiet moments, nature and animals. Thanks for sharing.

[@Beckythroughtheblock]

Knitting is my passion and way to relax. It’s served me well as an introvert. It’s very meditative and rhythmic.

[@slowlifestories]

I’m really enjoying it! 🧶🥰🥰

[@heatherrae4126]

I’m 36, always been introverted. It’s been getting more introvert for me too. I love reading, painting, cooking, walking, watching shows. All things I can do alone.

[@MadhuraGunjal]

Getting closer to my late 20s, I can relate with everything you said about being an introvert. For a long time now Whenever I socialize I feel the drain of energy both physical and mental. I love being at home, doing the mundane chores. I have always been an introvert but tried to adapt to the world unintentionally, because I thought this is how everyone is supposed to be. I am now giving myself rhe space to be this child I was 20 years ago! BTW loved this video, it was a heartfelt conversation between introverts! Love from India.

[@JJ-nn9de]

Just turned 35. I've always been introverted (and high, yet invisible to most, anxiety). What I have noticed is that I am more direct and less willing to wear the perma-smile and be "sweet." I'm a kind person in general, but I mean less willing to stay sweet for the sake of others, which can be/has been to my detriment in the past. Honestly, a direct woman who doesn't come off as sweet/smiley/bubbly...doesn't really lend themselves well to mass appeal socially. I feel drained in public. Can't seem to put that mask back on for favorable office politics. I feel less willing to put up with people. I love being alone, being with my immediate family, a quiet house, reading, painting, stitching, being with our pup. I could also spend days, weeks in my home just chillen.

[@loreliepo7246]

Thank you,for sharing.I’m introvert as well at age 50.Love my alone times and prayer times.I have kept a small group of friends that are dear to me.❤

[@slowlifestories]

❤️❤️❤️

[@DemetriceVassar]

i have always appreciated my space in life as an introvert. As an introvert, I tend to listen more than I speak, but not because I am shy. Shy I am not. But I have friends who talk much, much more than they listen, so I found myself always struggling to get a word in edgewise. Then one day I decided to lessen having conversations with them. I am pushing 70, and I have so much peace and quiet now. Although I love my friends, I found that calling them every four to five months has been quite refreshing.

[@slowlifestories]

Introverts do tend to be good listeners… I also tend to listen more than I speak.. unlike you, I am shy.. and I also hate small talk so I find myself being on the quiet side… I’ve had friends like the ones you described… now days I stay in touch with a very small group.. Thanks for watching 🙏🏻🥰❤️

[@missp5050]

Wow! I didn't think there were so many introverts as myself. I'm 62 and have always been an introvert, Being around a crowd of people makes me nervous, and drains me.

[@slowlifestories]

I feel the same way! And I was also surprised to read so many comments of people who can relate ❤️❤️

[@JenniferHenson-n9q]

We are impaths probably and feel very deeply. We have to protect ourselves within Ourselves, And that for some reason Does take time..🩵

[@ArtwithOlga]

I am exactly the same! I appreciate time alone more the older I get. In my 20s I loved spending each weekend with my two closest friends. Now I truly rest when I can be outside in nature. Stunning piece!

[@slowlifestories]

I feel the same way about spending time in nature ❤️

[@jillychandler]

Being a pottery painter, I LOVE your hand built vase. I am also an introvert, at 67 years young, and yet do love meeting folk when I am feeling up to it, on my walks with Madge. I live alone with my rescue greyhound Madge (love your beautiful dog by the way) and only go out of my rural home to walk her, or take the rubbish to the end of our private lane, where there are 6 houses. I too am at my happiest spending time in nature, especially by water, or surrounded by trees. xxx

[@slowlifestories]

Awww thank you that means a lot coming from a pottery painter ☺️☺️ I also enjoy spending time with loved ones, just not every day hehe.. the dog you saw on the video is also a rescue 🐶.. I have another one, a chihuahua 🐕 thanks for watching! ❤️❤️

[@jillychandler]

@@slowlifestories I saw your lovely chihuahua as well, who is so loved, and very wobbly I see! You are a lovely person for rescuing these beautiful souls, thank you, from the bottom of my heart, I love animals. xxx

[@emmapelak]

I seriously can’t get over watching the beginning footage - recognizing my hometown library and Twin Brooks and living not 15 minutes from there now. Your videos continue to amaze me! And I soooooo relate - I am the biggest homebody and spend 99% of my time at home. As I get older, I feel more + more at peace with it. Love your channel! 🤍

[@slowlifestories]

Awww so we live close by… I live in a town near that library… I passed by the other day and it was so beautiful (to my eyes) that I had to stop and film it… thanks so much!! ❤️❤️🥰🥰

[@danieladeutsch1708]

Our dear Claudia, I feel the same. In my 20´s I used to be the center of the party. Now I am 46, I have chosen to invest my energy in a small group of my friends, not "everyone". I love my time alone with my book, paintings, gardening, studying. A lot of social interactions exhaust me. Which wasn´t the case in my 20´s . So it´s perfectly normal, how you feel. And if you feel comfortable, even being alone or with people that you love, it is always your choice. Just enjoy. I love your channel (ujiii it´s growing so fast!) Best wishes, Daniela XX P.S. The vase is gorgeous! You are very gifted!

[@slowlifestories]

Aww thank you so much Daniela, you’re always so sweet! 🥹🥰❤️❤️ yeah, I’m glad to hear that it’s perfectly normal to feel this way as we get older, and many can relate to this! Wishing you a lovely and relaxing weekend ❤️❤️

[@Lee-de2wl]

Wow, over 500 comments from people who are introverts too. I’m 67 and I so enjoy not going out. I dread social occasions, I know that sounds terrible but there it is. I’m so glad that there are so many of us. 👋🏼

[@slowlifestories]

I feel the same way about social interactions most of the time, you’re definitely not alone! ❤️

[@StillPointJourneywithMarla]

I just came across this episode, and I cried . Thank you , not only did I get relaxed, I felt validated!!! Everything you mentioned resonated throughout my body. Touched my Soul. ❤

[@slowlifestories]

Awww it's truly heartwarming to know that this video touched you so deeply 🥹🥹❤️❤️ I’m really glad to hear that you felt validated! Thank you for sharing this 🙏🏻🥰🥰

[@Tina-Faith]

I wish I would of realized what you did in my 30s I'm in my 50s and just realizing it's OK to be an introvert. So many people look at it like it's a bad thing but it's a wonderful way to live now

[@slowlifestories]

It’s true.. that’s because we live in an extroverted world… and better late than never realizing that it’s perfectly okay to be introverted 🥰🥰❤️

[@JJSolitude]

I've never enjoyed socializing, even as a student. I just did it to fit in, or because I thought I should. Now at 64 I'm loving who I've always been but hadn't given enough permission to.

[@slowlifestories]

Giving yourself permission to honor and embrace your true self is so important, and it's wonderful to hear that you're finding joy in being authentically you! 🫶🏻❤️❤️

[@Cjv615]

This video resonated with me- I’m a nurse for more than 20 years and when you mentioned about healthcare and the desire to be alone after a day of work- I, too, feel emotionally drained and it never occurred to me…the compassion and empathy I give to my patients- it IS draining and exhausting. Thank you for sharing this video…I feel so much better that I’m not the only one who feels this way.

[@slowlifestories]

I’m glad this video helped! As an OT, I completely understand how you feel… ❤️❤️❤️

[@janelannan4913]

So enjoyed this video...my first watching you...I have always felt this way...I like myself and like being home alone...I work in food industry and find it depletes me daily. .I'm 74 and am with you the whole way. Thanks for sharing...love light and grace from boston

[@slowlifestories]

I’m really glad you found this video and enjoyed it!! It’s difficult to have a job that you feel depletes you, I completely understand and hope you have lots of energy replenishing time when you are off from work! ❤️❤️❤️

[@lourdesjames1152]

I really like what you are doing..NOW,I REALISE THAT I AM DEFINITELY INTROVERT..I ENJOY MY OWN COMPANY.

[@Sweetie8387]

I feel like you’ve just described myself. How strange and marvellous in equal measures. So comforting to know I’m not alone and there are so many just like me. Thanks for sharing

[@slowlifestories]

Aww 🥰 yes, I’ve also been pleasantly surprised to read others’ comments and how they relate ❤️❤️

[@Crissyjswayvlogs]

Just found your channel. New subbie. I used to be such an extrovert and social butterfly. Now….i good time for me is solitude. I love my own company. A perfect weekend for me is to book a nice cozy staycation, order room service, watch tv, fall asleep, read and do it all over again. I love to shut out the noise of the world and be one with myself. I don’t get alone time often and it’s definitely something I truly crave.❤

[@slowlifestories]

Thanks so much for subscribing and welcome!!! 🥰🙏🏻❤️ I love your idea of a perfect weekend and completely understand about not having as much alone time as you would like to!!

[@kukana60]

Beautifully and thoughtfully expressed, Claudia. Hearing your wise and compassionate comments on how being an introvert has helped you find peace in your life is truly inspiring. You have validated my chosen lifestyle as a single, 78-year-old woman. BTW: I just found you today on YT and subscribed.

[@slowlifestories]

Thank you so much for your kind words and for subscribing! 🙏🏻🥰❤️❤️ I'm truly touched that my reflections resonated with you and validated your lifestyle. It's wonderful to hear that you've found peace and fulfillment as an introvert ❤️❤️

[@jenniferpalumbo2813]

You just said every word and thought that I have been feeling these last few years as a hairstylist. The constant socializing and mentally draining conversations all day everyday have really caused me to crave time and really want to shut down and turn my phone off, tv off, be in silence every chance I can. I’m so glad I’m not the only one.

[@slowlifestories]

Ohh I can imagine!! You would love me as a client because when I go to the salon, I just want to relax and enjoy my time… 🥰🥰 but unfortunately I’ve had the opposite experience, always a stylist that wants to chat and I get it, they are trying to be friendly and nice.. maybe it’s my fault for not being straight forward and letting them know that it’s okay to not have to be engaging and chatty the entire time… I completely understand you, it makes total sense that you would be drained after a day of work!

[@judithpurpora1493]

I am the same way as you Claudia and I so appreciate your insight and thoughtfulness on the subject. I recently retired and am flourishing now that I am home and not having to be in a busy office anymore. I love spending my days crafting, reading and anything else all on my timeframe. I couldn’t be happier! Great work on your first knitting project (the first attempt was just to teach you what not to do 😊) but being a beginner, your stitches look nice and even. Handcrafts are the perfect “introvert” activity and you get to enjoy the feeling of accomplishment from that. Peace to you as you discover what makes you happy!! ✌️😊

[@slowlifestories]

Aww your life now sounds amazing, I’m sure you’re enjoying it and I’m glad you’re happy 🥰❤️ 🧶thanks, I definitely learned for my first attempt and it looks much better this time! Can’t wait to finish it!🧣

[@jansfield5314]

I feel the same, been hurt so many times by people I thought were friends, I love my crafts and garden, more than happy with my own company!

[@slowlifestories]

I’m sorry that you’ve had that experience with people who were supposed to be your friends… 😔 I think many of us have gone through something similar… crafting and gardening can be so therapeutic ❤️❤️❤️

[@maryblick944]

Love your poetry creation and knitting. The unraveling was beautiful. I could stay home too for days at a time…..unless I’d run out of coffee then I’d have to go out 😂☕️

[@slowlifestories]

Thank you so much! 🥰❤️🫶🏻 hahaha I totally get it.. I’m not a coffee person but I have my things I would also go out into the wild for 🤣

[@heidimeigs5192]

I am more of an extrovert, but life and unexpected circumstances have pushed me into being more of a stay at home person. And I find it’s ok, I don’t mind not being busy, and surrounded by others. This was a lovely few minutes of sweetness. Thank you.

[@slowlifestories]

Glad you enjoyed it! ❤️❤️❤️

[@kathleenepugh9495]

Thanks for the soothing background music, too. Perfect for watching your video. Yep, being an introvert has brought peace to my soul and helped me to identify TRUE relationships.

[@slowlifestories]

Thank you for watching ❤️ I feel the same way 🙌🏻

[@mrcrazzycat]

The same is happening to me; the older I get, the more I want to spend time alone, and I'm not an introvert. I love to be around people, but lately, maybe after COVID, I discovered how much I enjoyed being by myself.

[@slowlifestories]

I’ve heard this before! As long as you feel happy, that’s all that matters ❤️❤️

[@tinkerbell9399]

I’m also an introvert. Am happy to spend time with my beautiful family, but haven’t really got any friends. I am happy in my own company, and need to be on my own much more than when I was younger. Thanks for sharing this video, and reading replies from so many like minded subscribers ❤️

[@slowlifestories]

It's great to hear that you find happiness in your own company and cherish the time with your family. Embracing your introversion and finding contentment within yourself is a wonderful thing that sometimes takes us a little long to accept and understand… I’m glad you enjoyed the video 🫶🏻🥰❤️

[@Euca053]

I am in my early 40s and completely identify with the thoughts in your video, and love your vlog in general. So beautiful and thoughtfully made, brings such joy!

[@slowlifestories]

Thank you so much!! I’m really glad you enjoyed it 🥰❤️❤️

[@AnnMarieBurke-bj8dj]

Thank you for creating this space for us introverts. I know from my own experience, that I often feel like the oddball for being me. SO happy to know there is a safe space to land when I feel alone. Deep bow sister opening this youtube channel and Deep bow to all the sisters who show up so authentically. 🌸💕

[@slowlifestories]

Thank you so much for your kind words and heartfelt support 🙏🏻🥰❤️❤️I love knowing that this space provides comfort and connection for fellow introverts ❤️

[@angelacurran5924]

I'm a proud introvert too! I had to force myself to be more sociable more often when my son was born and made some lovely friends at baby groups, but now that he's older and doesn't need to be collected from school or accompanied to birthday parties I'm so relieved to retreat and be more selective again!

[@slowlifestories]

I completely understand, there are life situations that force us to socialize a lot more than we would like… I’m glad you’re now able to live a life more true to yourself and your personality ❤️🥰

[@tlee4218]

69 retired and doing then things I loved as a child. Painting, writing. Hopefully one day learn the piano completely. I live alone. You’re married. Being introverted with someone would be different but good to know lots of us out there. Rediscovering who we are after decades of giving, helping others find their way.

[@slowlifestories]

Oh that sounds lovely! Everyone seems to be really enjoying life after retirement 🙏🏻❤️❤️ My husband’s personality is very similar to mine so there’s no issue there 🥰

[@tlee4218]

@@slowlifestories I think if you worked hard and helped others along the way with what you had, retirement feels like a well deserved vacation. You have time, make your own schedule is wonderful especially to introverts is easier….my view anyway. I have 2 lovely little dogs who make me get out and walk few times a day and be social with my neighbors..living in The Netherlands walking is normal..anyway I find being able to do absolutely nothing if I want to, heaven on earth.

[@stevethomas74]

Hey there - Yet another slow life video that speaks to me as both an introvert and a HSP (Highly Sensitive Person). One of the things I love so much about content creators like you good self, is that you are all so wonderfully deep and articulate (not that that comes as any real shock to me!) 🙂 I live on my own, and recently turned 50. I can tell you that for me at least? Becoming more of a homebody just feels like a natural progression!

[@jennifer6437]

I love the vase you made ❤ and I like the flowers you bought. Thank you for sharing this moment 😊

[@slowlifestories]

Aww thanks so much 🥰❤️❤️🙏🏻

[@cindygaudet1390]

My first video here. I have never seenanyone do pottery with out a big wheel. Pottery is something I love andthe vase is beautiful and the yarn has amazing colour. I am 67 and becoming more introverted as well. I have noticed it since covid. I didn’t mind the having to stay home, other than missing my children and grandchildren. I continue the quieter home routine with my husband still. I am an only child of an anxious mother who was introverted as well. As a child, I lived at the library, loved my books. Ironically I as well worked in the health care field and retired due to osteoarthritis and my body just not able to do the work safely. Lovely video and interesting that you appear very young but learning about yourself now as many comments are from older people.

[@slowlifestories]

Thank you so much for sharing your story and for your kind words! ❤️❤️ It'm glad to hear that you enjoyed the pottery process... It's interesting how life’s experiences, like the pandemic, can influence our introversion… I definitely think that the pandemic was a huge turning point for many people! I'm glad you found joy and peace in your quieter routine... Thank you for being here and for your lovely feedback! 🙏🏻🥰❤️

[@Chubby.Pencil]

I feel the same! I love being by myself and getting to do things that I like to enjoy. I love socializing, but sometimes, I hate the drama that comes with it. I just want peace lol.

[@zdcruz0514]

Nice video and I can relate. I am 62 and as time passes the inner peace has given me so much joy in living alone and doing things with no rush and the way I want things to be done. I am truly grateful that God has given me the chance to see things differently and always looking forward to see more of life's journey ❤️❤️❤️

[@yvonnemarcuzzi6722]

Claudia, I just came across your channel and I really enjoyed your video, and the music was just wonderful. I'm a southern California native, and now I live in a forest in Italy. Perfect for an introvert like me! I'm retired now, was a widow, and remarried. What a change, but I'm enjoying my quiet life. Thank you so much for the video, and I'll be watching more. Hope we can be friends. Love your crafts.

[@slowlifestories]

Hi and welcome! ❤️🥰 wow, an forest in Italy sounds wonderful! I bet it’s beautiful 😍😍😍 thank you so much for watching and taking the time to comment… I’m glad you enjoyed the video and I hope you stick around for more! 🥰❤️🫶🏻

[@Kat-n-Ollie]

I used to be a social butterfly when I was younger. I worked in high-tech, which is faced paced, dealing with engineering issues and a lot of people. Now I am 63 and I don’t need all that external energy nor do I want it.i love being at home, being quiet and spending time with my husband and pets. ❤ thanks for your video.

[@slowlifestories]

I feel the same way ❤️ Thanks for watching and sharing this about yourself! 🥰🙏🏻

[@gramarye_cottage]

I’m 64 and very much the introvert. I live in a tiny cottage in the forest, and I can spend weeks on my own. And I absolutely love it. I spend my time walking around in the forest and communing with nature. Just a tip with your knitting (I’m no expert though) wrap the yarn once around your little finger of your right hand, and that will help keep the tension.

[@slowlifestories]

Ohh that sounds lovely!! 🥰🌲🌳🌿🌱🍄 and thank you for the knitting tip, I will try it! ❤️❤️

[@jude1515]

I am too. Love being around all my hobbies. Gives me peace.

[@slowlifestories]

That sounds fantastic! And I feel the same way 🫶🏻🥰❤️

[@jude1515]

@@slowlifestories I also like talking to friends and family but big group situations are not for me.

[@slowlifestories]

@@jude1515 same!!! 🙌🏻

[@diynook5994]

Lovely vlog. Could relate to everything you said. I m 52 and an introvert. I always used to think that being an introvert is like a failure, an hindrance to your success. It’s some sort of disorder. With severe social anxiety, I still get goosebumps, when I m in the crowd and asked to talk something. I feel embarrassed. But , now I m slowly trying to accept myself as a person. I m trying to find myself , who has got lost in all these years trying to satisfy people.❤ love u for this beautiful video. Thanks. Subscribed 🙏🏻

[@slowlifestories]

Hi and welcome!! ☺️ Oh I was exactly the same way, always tried so hard… I also have social anxiety and I’m very shy, in addition to being introverted.. of course as I have matured, I have found ways to cope… accepting our true self and personality is key! I’m glad you enjoyed this video and thank you for subscribing! 🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️

[@goodvibrations9073]

"Solitude and introspection, " two of my favorite things. . . Love the colors you chose for knitting. My son at 12 was taught by his great aunt to crochet. It warmed my heart to see it and amazed me to see the patience he had to unravel so much work just to fix one tiny mis-stitch (probably because crocheting is not my hobby). Thanks for sharing.

[@slowlifestories]

Aww is he still crocheting? Thanks for watching! 🙏🏻❤️❤️

[@goodvibrations9073]

@slowlifestories You're welcome, and yes, he still does once in a while. Thanks for asking.

[@suehaley2788]

I really enjoyed watching you craft the small vase. I often get overly excited, animated with a group of people and love the calm in solitude.

[@slowlifestories]

Glad you enjoyed the pottery!!! I think having that balance of social time and alone time is great!! 🥰❤️

[@nanetten6238]

I am 60 and am getting more introverted as I grow older. Sometimes it's hard for me to leave the house these days.

[@slowlifestories]

Oh I feel you!! The same happens to me.. but as long as you are content with it, that’s what matters ❤️❤️

[@nanetten6238]

@@slowlifestories Do you ever feel like you are supposed to travel to broaden your horizons, but just don't want to deal with airports and people?

[@slowlifestories]

@@nanetten6238 yess, although it’s never kept me from traveling… crowded airports are not ideal, but I can handle being surrounded by people as long as it means that I get to travel.. my husband and I find ways to tune it out… what I can’t do is travel in groups… that’s a no no for me! I only travel with my husband. 🥰

[@HerNewHabits]

Everything you said resonates with me. I always did things differently to people around me and when I was a kid that left me feeling like an outsider. After years of self-discovery and self-awareness, I've learned to embrace my introversion. Now, I'm more confident about myself, and I enjoy spending time alone. This is a beautiful video and thank you for sharing your thoughts with us.

[@slowlifestories]

Thank you so much, I’m glad you enjoyed it 🙏🏻🥰❤️ and I'm glad to hear that my words resonated with you! Embracing your uniqueness and introversion is a journey of self-discovery and growth. It's wonderful to hear that you've found confidence and enjoyment in spending time alone. Keep embracing your authentic self! ❤️❤️❤️

[@maryndegwa8010]

You've earned yourself a new subscriber. At 40 I feel more introverted than ever

[@slowlifestories]

Thank you so much and welcome!! 🙏🏻🥰❤️ and you’re definitely not alone in that feeling ❤️

[@ForeverEclectic]

I agree with you, as I age I have become more and more introverted. As a child, I was a social butterfly, but there were always times when I would keep to myself. I enjoy my alone time. It brings me peace and solace. Beautiful vase.

[@slowlifestories]

Thank you!! ❤️ It's interesting how our social tendencies can shift with age, isn't it? I’m glad you have found peace 🥰🫶🏻

[@SDC1949]

As a young person I was described as an extrovert. I don’t think I ever truly was. Being alone was always preferable to me. Now fifty yrs later my most precious moments are spent with my dogs, a good book or a diy. It’s peaceful, no matter what’s going on in the world.

[@kimpirosko1384]

I am right there with you. I’ve been stuck in the restaurant industry for years. You always have to be “on” how I think of it. Friendly, kind, warm, just chatty with people. I’ve been burnt out for a long time but don’t know what other kind of job I’d do. I find myself getting overwhelmed and anxious when it’s very busy. I definitely enjoy my quiet time at home before and after work. Even if we are introverts I don’t know that we’re supposed to become completely isolated. I believe people were meant to live in community and help each other, encourage each other and be kind to each other and you can’t do that if your locked away. I guess you could have blog or platform of some sort but it’s not the same as doing those things in person.

[@hummingwind8869]

You expressed how I have been feeling so beautifully. I was beginning to think it was me but I find comfort and real joy in being with my own company now more than ever. Thank you for sharing yourself.

[@Roberta-anne]

I strongly relate to your introvert personality. As a child I was an introvert within a very large extended family of extroverts; so that was a little challenging. As a teenager and young adult I went out with close friends frequently and enjoyed it - so long as I balanced it with quiet and alone time. As I have grown older my introverted personality has, once again, come to the fore, even increased. And I love it. Wouldn't change it, not one bit.

[@slowlifestories]

It sounds like you've had an interesting journey with your introverted nature! Finding that balance between socializing and solitude can be quite fulfilling. Embracing who you are, without feeling the need to change, is a beautiful thing 🙌🏻🥰❤️

[@monalichakraborty1316]

I also now feel more peaceful in withdrawing myself from this outside world...though I most of the time have been like it... Some time though of being something cool but, nah, this is good. My focusing on myself in my own cosy world

[@l_i_l_y38]

Well i am 16 years old and i always described myself proudly as an introvert because i love being introvert but i am not living alone and I have to interact with my family and classmates and 1 or 2 friends and then after a tiring week i feel so exhausted for no reason but then i remember the introverted soul i have. Thank you for this beautiful video, keep it up 💜

[@margieleon8044]

New subscriber🙋🏽‍♀️ Hello, I am so happy your video came across to me today. You are so right about the our energy being drained from work where you have to socialize basically. I let go of being a school secretary 5 years ago and never looked back. I’ve become more and more of an introvert, and I love it. I protect my energy. Your right “Once an introvert always an introvert”👍 I’m 58 and I’m happy I found your channel. Nice to know I’m not the only one❤

[@lenageorge1686]

58 year old Australian woman here. I’m off on a short break next week to a remote “bubble house” to do some star gazing. Going on my own, with a pile of books, and can’t wait. Loved this video. Just beautiful.

[@janinepowell7781]

I’m 56, and used to think something was wrong with me , feeling uncomfortable around invites to my sons in laws house for all get together… then figured I must be that if an introvert as would rather stay home. I too work with healthcare, physio, so yes couldn’t understand how I appear out going at work but introvert at 🏡… so happy to hear I’m not alone here ❤ thank you for sharing. X love the vase and scarf…I knit too…I’ve recently learnt how to do the moss stitch… doing scarves too haha

[@renugajeyanthi2021]

Glad i found this one❤... I am 21 years old, i am way too introverted that i have barely made any friends and prefers home :) 3 years back i used to regret for being this way but later in my 20s i have already realized that simple things can you happy way more than anything else!! And seeing people admitting it in the comments make me feel grateful for realising this at much earlier stage And also i loved your video its so soothing❤

[@slowlifestories]

I’m glad you enjoyed the video and found reassurance in the comments… it’s great that you are accepting your true self and personality at such a young age! ❤️ as long as you enjoy solitude and don’t feel lonely/sad, I think it’s perfectly fine to nurture your introverted personality 🥰

[@nicolecipriano3228]

Beautiful self-striping yarn, awesome clay vase, and so happy I found your channel tonight! I also am an introvert, more and more every year. At 49 I'm very comfortable with my own company, and enjoy lots of time alone in nature and reading (but I have a wonderful family and some close friends whom I adore, it's just I can only handle so much social interaction before needing a break).

[@slowlifestories]

Thank you so much and welcome! I’m also happy that you found my channel 🙏🏻🥰❤️ It's wonderful to hear that you're comfortable with your introverted nature and that you've found joy in your own company… I feel the same way! Enjoying time alone in nature and reading sounds like a perfect way to recharge, right up my alley as well… and I completely relate to loving your family and friends but only being able to handle so much socializing.. (for me that’s true even when it comes to talking on the phone or texting)