The Pain We Run From Is the Key to Freedom

The Pain We Run From Is the Key to Freedom | Awakening

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@ishapattanashettar9504 9 күн бұрын

Thank you ❤🙏

@einclient1282 14 күн бұрын

thanl you very much

@kathleenwharton2139 Ай бұрын

I suffered a horrible marriage. I was often suicidal. I was always complaining! Then I realized..he simply was who he was and I chose him. Duh! 😊❤

@Asperouragreement Ай бұрын

I’ve had an interesting experience with sitting with pain… I have found that when I sit with mental discomfort and focus on the feeling in the body, it will keep on increasing. But with physical pain, it always decreases or goes away when I focus on it. Then I realized that when it comes to the mental suffering, underneath my trying to sit quietly with it, I’m actually still feeding it with thought. Very quiet, very blurry thought, so I barely register it, but it’s there. So I’m not really letting it be after all. I have wondered if this has to do with my childhood trauma being suppressed by my mind, so it knows how to create a trauma response without feeding me direct and obvious thinking. But anyway, I have stumbled upon something that does work for me- I first focus on feeling into my body in a pleasant way- it comes up for me as a light, warm feeling in my chest/upper stomach area. Then from there I let the pain come too. And then it does actually seem to dissolve. Interesting how personal it is.

@karenann5090 Ай бұрын

Being tired of it is key. Tired of hitting your head against a brick wall. Like scientists who labor over a problem and reach the end of everything they have tried, they go for a walk or go to bed and when it’s least expected , the answer appears.

@ascendor.ascendor Ай бұрын

@@karenann5090 Exactly :)

@janewambui7576 Ай бұрын

Thank you. Jane africa kenya

@haniévaladí Ай бұрын

❤❤❤

@MegaTen-ts5xf Ай бұрын

love binging on these videos, like when suddenly everything you say makes sense

@heartsofgoldenrod Ай бұрын

Truly felt you in this transmission. Much love, brother. 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

@JohanHjalmarsson Ай бұрын

This is so real. I feel your authenticity. My being is relaxing in to whatever is through this transmission. I have so much respect and love for you brother ❤️

@Sagacifer Ай бұрын

Thank you for this video, this is a great message. Acceptance is key

@dirtyreiner Ай бұрын

It's very obvious to me that the words you say are running through you. Seems they come from beneath. Thats why they sound so honest. Thx bro

@witnessmind Ай бұрын

Amazing video as always wish you the best friend

@janewambui7576 Ай бұрын

Thank you thank yu .jane afric kenya

@isabelmorel2225 Ай бұрын

you are helping so much!!! I cannot tell you how much!!! it feels like balsam hearing you talk. I feel that there is nothing more to be done or said. still suffering lingers because how can I help someone who feels unable to live on with suffering and thinks about leaving this world?

@viasnaturae6785 Ай бұрын

I reallly enjoy your videos. It remindes me what i already had. When you stop fighting against your sickness or thoughts you become free. You can just watch it happening but its not touching you anymore. Iam on this way for the second time now.

@ruthmorrow5696 Ай бұрын

This was amazing! Thank you so much David! ❤

@ranmad415 Ай бұрын

Thank you for continually trying to explain the unexplainable using words. For me, going into the awkward ans sitting with it, instead of hiding, running or distracting myself into avoidance has been really helpful in shedding the beliefs that cause me to suffer. Many thanks for the support and daily insights. Enjoy the day!

@ascendor.ascendor Ай бұрын

@@ranmad415 Thanks for your comment! Enjoy your day aswell🏝🙏

@MegaTen-ts5xf Ай бұрын

This mind wants perfection like you say, but heart wants peace and love

@TheBhannah Ай бұрын

Very wise !

@BJJ_Richie Ай бұрын

Man your videos are so sobering , really something else

@Jewelmind Ай бұрын

Thank you, wonderful words. Bless you

@AnastasijaPetrovic-ct8rh Ай бұрын

My heart thanks you

@claudelebel49 Ай бұрын

Great title Reminds me of Michael Singers article, Pain the price of freedom

@kathrinschmidt5780 Ай бұрын

Danke, dass du den Weg nach Hause zeigst ❤

@curb2ivanic414 Ай бұрын

Lovely message today. Thank you! 🙏

@Stefan69whatever Ай бұрын

❤

@cajuputoil3468 Ай бұрын

deyum, Transcend Malone~ thanks a lot for this opening wisdom! hope you be well always!

@cheriemiller669 Ай бұрын

Beautiful, thank you!❤

@TheOne-gj6rr Ай бұрын

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏

@dahmanbeck5256 Ай бұрын

Thank you. I was struggling with this very thing today. I was trying to be untouchable by my own anger and intolerance of other peoples religious beliefs

@ascendor.ascendor Ай бұрын

I understand :)

@vijaypant1649 Ай бұрын

❤🎉🎉If I could Just stop and see self in the timeless now as source at the background from where my world arise...

@viktorianagy7965 Ай бұрын

❤💙💚

@pursuitofspirit Ай бұрын

Your content is f*cking awesome man. Keep going.

@ascendor.ascendor Ай бұрын

@@pursuitofspirit Thank you 🙏

@pursuitofspirit Ай бұрын

@@ascendor.ascendor Anytime my friend!

@phillem Ай бұрын

Relaxing eyes, like if they were supported from behind is what work best for me to see thoughts. Felt pain on heart for few days, now i'm struggling with creative process of the mind, it's not intuitive not to fell into because of the curiosity and the pleasure it gives. Thx for your vid dude!

@carlavela7106 Ай бұрын

🦋🕊🙏

@HahariHallers Ай бұрын

I only watched this cuz we are all more connected then we can realize... :D When I see your videos often I can say,oh you felt today this,you thought today about this. Beauty in that :D

@Akave99 Ай бұрын

Hi Ascendor. I have been watching your videos for a while and you helped me comprehend more (with the help of the Headless way, other meditation, etc.), what is the awareness and just being observing and noticing everything, however, the suffering remains, even if I am able to become more and more aware of it and stay in awareness overall (remember to become aware more often). My question: is it a gradual process for the pain to dissipate while staying in awareness (takes a long time), or will it happen in an instant and I still don’t understand the essence of it?

@Gratitudejoy21 Ай бұрын

🤍🙏🏽' The Heart says it's okay.. the mind says it is not' 👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽❤️‍🔥🙏🏽🙏🏽

@mork8144 Ай бұрын

my mind says it ok but my heart says its not

@ViniSing1 Ай бұрын

How does one know if am "simply watching" or a thought about "simply watching" spurred an concentrated effort of watching? When in a moment I enquire if i am at one with the awareness, i get confused if this is what "awareness" is, the thing shifted me into this enquiry, or a thought of striving did? Not aure if i make any sense.

@kakarot8565 Ай бұрын

Is it normal that only sometimes I feel so extremely in the presence, and sometimes I don't no matter how hard I try?

@DarrenMichaels-bu9cp Ай бұрын

That’s where I’m at

@JohanHjalmarsson Ай бұрын

The harder you try the further away from it we get. Again who’s the one trying to be aware? And I’ve been there to. I stoped most of my practices and meditation to instead just sit with whatever is. Uncomfortable or not, everything is welcome 🙏

@DivesSet Ай бұрын

@@JohanHjalmarsson I think this is my current plateau. Wanting control when I really don’t have any. Thanks for your comment. It made me realize that I needed to let everything just be but not necessarily let it determine my next actions. I could just let myself feel the entirety of the emotions whether good or bad. At the end of the day, my truth is that this reality is an illusion and no point in letting something that’s not even real affect me.

@viasnaturae6785 Ай бұрын

Its not about trying. Trying creates just more suffering because you dont accept the moment is it is. Its also not about ge giving up. Ist just "accepting" and let it happen

@JohanHjalmarsson Ай бұрын

@@DivesSet I feel you. For me a had to let go of the identity of the achiever. Which I guess I just another way of controlling your reality and to get something in the future. “There must be something complex I need to master before I can get self realized. Just a few more years of Kriya yoga, media ration and a few more plant ceremonies and I will finally get it” My mind loved it for a couple of years and it had its place but eventually all of these things didn’t help with the suffering I was experiencing, only during brief moments. What really worked was to go in to it and accept whatever I was feeling or experiencing.

@TruthBounty Ай бұрын

Hey, perhaps a video on how when talking to someone you are talking to yourself. For example, if you are the no-name (or aware of the awareness… the watching) and when talking to someone, who are you talking to? Who is talking to whom? Are you talking to their no-name, are you talking to yourself, are you watching the talking between two humans knowing their no-name is also watching (which is yours). Is the no-name aware from their side, or is it our awareness that it is feeling it from? It’s feeling itself through us (them), from us, to feel itself 😂😂😂

@Ayla77-K Ай бұрын

The same questions ocurred to me, too. Great. Thanks for asking. 💞🙏💛

@soisoisoisoisiiii Ай бұрын

Is there a way to contact you? An email or something like that? Thank you❤

@DivesSet Ай бұрын

I am at this point where I know the truth. I could feel the truth but I seem to not want to accept the truth. My body doesn’t want to accept the truth

@codee6659 Ай бұрын

The ego doesn’t want to accept the “truth” because that illusion disappears in “truth”

@chopp3957 Ай бұрын

@@codee6659so what we do?

@ascendor.ascendor Ай бұрын

@@DivesSet Then there's still joy in the search. Enjoy the journey. Eventually, the energy fades, and all that's left is the truth. :)

@einclient1282 14 күн бұрын

because if you see the world as it is its heavy

@einclient1282 14 күн бұрын

and then funny😂

@AshrekaKuku Ай бұрын

What is the point of everything that exist. What is the point of pain, suffering and love?

@marievam Ай бұрын

There is no point. The mind wants to find a purpose for it all. The mind questioning Surrender to this question 🙏 💙

@BritaKluwer Ай бұрын

I have question...so many tried to explain this to me, but I do not see or understand this...why is everyone telling me that everything is an illusion, from what' reality' are they talking about...are they saying that consciousness is an illusion, is energy an illusion, some say, everything is a thought...what about the earth ...isn't it real? My feelings? I understand that thought can create something...and when I feel miserable then that's a fact..and that a thought is more like imagined... some claim that every is an illusion, like there is nothing? Not even something, that we can not understand or conceptualise? Not even something unknown? Please can someone explain this weird awakening movement...

@BritaKluwer Ай бұрын

When we are nothing ..is that a reality or is that also an illusion!!

@BritaKluwer Ай бұрын

Or do they claim that any form is an illusion..therefor all is..because that is the only thing they see, because when some could see that everything is alive...then say that that is all an illusion must be contradictive..