The Peter Pan Syndrome: 10 Ways to Spot an Immature Man-Child!

[@peacejoy8454]

Over mothered and under fathered ... In some cases, this syndrome happens due to unhealed childhood trauma or abuse, abandonment wounds, childhood emotional neglect or narcissistic abuse. We often see things and navigate relationships at the point we had the most trauma so imagine if most of their trauma was experienced at a very young age. They will become emotionally stuck at that age until they heal the trauma, abuse or abandonment wounds/injuries. Disclaimer: it’s not your job to fix them; for one you can’t because it’s an inside job. You need to fix the toxic patterns within yourself that allowed you to entertain him.

[@yoonginavy4967]

Periodt

[@Alex-hj1vk]

🎯

[@paigenicholespeaks6172]

Facts

[@peacejoy8454]

Blue Eyes Absolutely not. You can’t fix it!! That’s an inside job. Maybe I need to add that as a disclaimer. It’s not your job to fix it. You have to focus on your own inner work & healing especially if you entertained a Peter Pan.

[@vfree4579]

Thank you oh how I have identified these toxic patterns that allowed me to entertain these type of MEN. I have been on a journey of healing my own childhood wounds and discovered that I was an empath and the same man had the same wounds that attracted. You see journaling is a wonderful thing and I had to identify what was toxic with each man and how it identified with me. Yes it is an inside job and I'm still on that journey within.

[@Glad2BGolden]

We live in a society that supports the production of Mr. Petter Pans. They are all over.

[@theselfcarechannel9895]

Fax

[@nu4968]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@iinlove118]

Codependant and narcisst. A woman who does too much (almost everything) in the relationship. And a boy in an adult body who wants to be a 3 year old untill his death

[@noluthandomangcotywa1633]

@@iinlove118 Facts, I had to have a child with a guy with a Peter Pan syndrome before I saw that I was working myself to the bone for someone who was not willing to do the same.

[@warriorhippie]

Society raises women but coddle men. Men are never held accountable, especially in the black community.

[@sydlaw2941]

I literally cannot be in the same room with men like this. They give me a headache.

[@sydlaw2941]

@@osmosisjones4912 You sure and the hell don't I will gladly leave lbdas.

[@sheebaby]

LMAO any channel that speaks of women & men dynamics. There you will find Osmosis Jones 🤣

[@Brandiisbeloved]

They’re super obnoxious.

[@tromboner6061]

Do they bite or something?

[@tromboner6061]

@Morgan Taylortrue. Either way.

[@AnonVocals]

Dating in 2020 is like war.. ladies are literally out here dodging bullets.. Chole’s videos are part of my survival kit and keep me peeped to the game.. Thanks sis.. 😘

[@CANDIEELU]

You speak for all of us sis , literally👏

[@chakralove4300]

The younger generation of women better take notes and apply accordingly because she is speaking the truth. So many women didn’t have this information.

[@Lovelyelizabeth12]

Big Facts!!!!💯💯💯💯

[@natashabrown41]

Best comment!!!

[@gorgeousa332]

Ameen 🤣

[@carolynwebb8726]

They are stuck to their comfort zones/ addictions. Avoiding connection, responsibility, discipline and growth.

[@firstlast8258]

Speak for yourself 🙄 🖕

[@Maki-00]

I just got rid of my Peter Pan! This syndrome is definitely tied to narcissist personalities. Don’t ever say that this term is overused. It is underused!

[@mysilhouette5278]

I agree with you it's only when people became aware to the disorder that they started seeing it around them hence the assumption that it is overused

[@Maki-00]

My Silhouette Bingo! 👍🏾

[@achiengcaroline5920]

Yes underused

[@Purepiscestarot]

Period

[@melaninmoxiellc963]

THANK YOU!!!!! I say this all the time, the term is highly underused!

[@sdot6569]

The beauty of the Peter Pan syndrome man is that after dating 1 you'll NEVER look their way again b/c they help awaken you to your worth....if it wasn't intact pre manchild era of your life.

[@Cocobrown1]

Awful sex. Then at 38 he decides to pursue a rap career. I ran!

[@22mgomez]

Wow! You described my children's father to a t. It took me 3 years to finally understand that he was comfortable with role reversal. It wore me out. I went from being vibrant, sexy and full of life, to becoming dull, boring and depressed. I kicked him out 2 years ago, and it was the best decision I made. You are spot on, girl 👌🏻.

[@alucardvekkia3966]

@@catmouse2882 why are yall marrying them??? my mom did the same with my inmature dad and now she resents me

[@xxxexxxeamsmith5819]

@@catmouse2882 I have a son and I’m raising him to look after his wife when he’s married but wait until he’s over 30 before he gets married and I’m saving for his first car and pay for his driving lessons when he’s older. Him to go to college and uni and be prepared to be a grown up and sole purpose to find his future wife in life and not throw his youth away. I will advise him to be with a mature woman who won’t just be wanting to use him as well someone faithful and have a happy life together. It’s crazy how dating in todays age is so stressful and you have to be so careful. I think it’s how a woman raises her son. Yes I know there are bad women out there and you wouldn’t want them for your son educate themselves on them type of women aswell but to find a lovely wife who will look after him aswell. It’s a balance. I understand woman and men shouldn’t settle down too quick so they can enjoy their life and be immature while their young but when their 30 should be looking to settle down

[@jessepera2457]

Abstaining from sex is absolutely Paramount.

[@jozzz222]

I’m an empath but there are empaths with boundaries. There’s nothing wrong with being one. Being an empath doesn’t mean people pleaser. Just means you can feel other people’s energy. If anything this can give us an advantage of sniffing out these Peter Pan or narcissistic men.

[@aminah761]

Good video Chole 👍👍.. it’s sooo many Peter Pan men in thier 40s it’s pathetic smh 🤦‍♀️

[@acopeland8248]

Guuurrrrl, you aint said nothing but a word

[@aminah761]

@@acopeland8248 ughh super annoying

[@charlinecharlostin3188]

Damn you described who I used to be. I’m glad I broke the cycle my mother put me in. My ex reached out because he’s now feeling the burn of me walking away for GOOD !

[@learningisuncomfortable2322]

My ex and my Dad are Peter Pans. Glad I got a few therapist. I no longer attract those types of men. Thank God!

[@webuysellhousesaptscashoff9453]

I need a therapist for me and my daughter. Good job. You recommend yours ?

[@melissalapompe8206]

Lord have mercy! I needed this 7 years ago. My ex is all of this - Peter Pan to the core.

[@jannet9623]

Spot on! I just left this kind of guy that i had a relationship with.. my gutt instinct was telling me that there's something wrong with this guy (pretending confused, doesn't like to think about future, wasn't properly raised on how to be a man)... I just really did the right decision of leaving this person.

[@villainouspixie2923]

My notification didn't show up but guess what? I'm still here 💚😏

[@ttfells2020]

This is 100% correct ... I was married & have divorced this type of person. The real gift is healing & reestablishing myself

[@autaut992]

I just broke up with somebody this video describes. Ladies: stick up for yourself and have respect for yourself because no man is worth ever putting up with this kind of bullshit

[@felicagary5432]

Chloe, I decided to graduate from ear hustling to new subscriber I love your channel and I look forward to the common sense lessons you give in your videos. I am really enjoying you messages

[@tai4short]

GIRL YOU ARE AMAZING! It's so remarkable how on point this is.. & I'm speaking from a Family Standpoint. I have seen these men in my family ... Which is why I create as many BOUNDARIES I CAN!!

[@oshun2866]

When this type of person mentions that they are seeking someone to build with run! They are seeking a partner with all the tools and resources so that they can attach themselves to what you’ve built. Once you realize you have been ripped off it takes all that energy you put into building to scrape that leech off. It may require an exterminator in the form of litigation. 😂😂😂

[@ST-yc7uj]

i like older women, he said. ..the ones who have their life in order. he lives with his mom and grandmom, is unemployed and doesn't see himself working 8 hours a day. says he can't make any real effort unless it is 'for somebody else', meaning- if he's not being pushed to do it by somebody else. but-he pushes back in resentment on every single advice he asks for. he is looking for somebody to break their spirit and do all the work for him and instead of him,period.

[@remyrodriguez1300]

This has been the best one I’ve heard in a very long time. Love it 🙌🏼😍😍😍

[@teddywilliamson3547]

Blazed and scorched down to the bone. I appreciate this balanced breakdown between male and female immaturity. Head exploded, I'm done with KZbin for today ;)

[@keepingupwitheydie8245]

These are the guys that I used to date until I woke up, never ever again I’d rather be alone 😩

[@DianaNacho333]

This is SO my older brother, about to turn 41 and living at home. EVERYTHING in this video is him; 100%.

[@davidkent2688]

Painful to hear but beautiful ❤️💗 Keep doing what you're doing. Acceptance is the first step

[@go_off_Sis]

🤭I felt like you eavesdropped on my life...everything you said was- blow for blow- what he did to me and how he’s lived his life...I am amazed at your message 💯 thank you 🙏🏽

[@daisyashfordprayerlive1887]

You are so wise! I’m speechless at your accuracy of the subject matter and proficiency in your articulation of relationships and situationships❤️❤️❤️

[@blossomingshells4664]

Hold up a minute. Did I tell you about my life? LOL 😆🤣😂 No more! I finally got out. Thank God. It took me 30 years, but I’m out. All women need to hear this. THANK YOU 🙏🏽

[@ZixxTheLegend]

Shit if it took you 30 years to get out of this kind of relationship, i got news for you sis. He won.

[@blossomingshells4664]

@@ZixxTheLegend Thanks for the comment. And no he didn’t win. I’m living my best life. Sorry you’re not.

[@ZixxTheLegend]

@@blossomingshells4664 🤭❤️

[@Sochill617]

You are my spirit animal!!! My God this shifted my soul!!! Dead on sis!!!!!

[@jadalauren6171]

This video was articulated and illustrated so accurately!

[@janedoe5229]

Thank you for being very clear and very direct.

[@MissEbony821]

Wow this sounds like my fiance. I’m beyond sick of his laziness and inability to follow through with anything. The red flags I overlooked were the fact he filled his time with video games and he didn’t believe in marriage. He works making a decent salary but he refused to save for retirement or put money in savings. He’d wine and dine me but wouldn’t spend money on responsible things. I threatened to leave him and he changed. He became financially responsible, reduced playing games, ect so I stayed. When we moved in together I saw a new side to him.. he wouldn’t pick up behind himself, assist with planning vacations, or follow through with basic tasks such as go to the DMV. He blamed his laziness on the fact he grow up with traditional parents and his mother did all cleaning and responsibilities, while his dad cheated on his mother over and over. So he didn’t know he was supposed to help me. I’ve yelled and screamed and nagged and he’s improved a little but now I see him as a child and I don’t respect him. Most recently he has refused to get his vehicle inspected. The car has been towed a million times but he has procrastinated for a year on getting the proper tags. The more I urged him to go to the dmv the more he drug his feet, telling me he doesn’t like being told what to do. He also hasn’t helped me plan our wedding, previously saying that’s a woman’s job. The other day he called me and said he’s ready to be more responsible and he wants to move forward with the wedding planning but I’m seriously doubting he has really changed and I don’t feel like continuing to invest in this relationship.

[@nrah2630]

I just got out of a relationship with a Peter Pan and mannnnn this video was spot on!!! I am glad I am out!!

[@QueenKandake]

Unfortunately as the world continues to cultivate the attributes that lead to more masculine women -- we can expect to see more dusty and ashy Peter Pan men. This is indeed an epidemic. We can certainly expect more of this imbalance to come.

[@Purepiscestarot]

Nah. Let’s share this video and information with every women who is receptive to bettering themselves to combat that. Raise awareness 👏🏾

[@sayless1445]

Wow, this was my EX to the T!!!! He was every single one of these- that's why he is an EX #boybye

[@chocolatecvrdbeauty]

Me too, I want to send it to him so bad, but what will it accomplish 🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

[@sayless1445]

@@chocolatecvrdbeauty Right!!!

[@user-yv1fh3fc8y]

More specifically, emotionally immature, to be able to assume responsibility for an adult relationship.

[@misskim237]

I have an uncle who is exactly like this and he has been with this woman for 2 decades plus, its really bad and he has no plans of changing. I feel so sorry for her cuz I know she'll never leave 😔 💔

[@lblove4756]

Men who say "Never date single moms" have Peter Pan syndrome too. They need mom figures so they're attracted to single moms first but then realize moms are too busy to take care them, so they get whiny like "She never puts ME first! me, me ,me!" If they are grown up men, they should understand and even help their girls.

[@randomobserver8168]

Interesting- since the 90s I had started to think of man-children as the sort of men who always expect a big party or outing on otherwise meaningless occasions like their birthday, in the manner of little boys expecting toys, and/or who expect a partner to always cater to their needs and complain when this does not happen instantly, or who complain about their partner never taking responsibility for their mistakes but not bothering to do so themselves, or who expect all their most trifling whims to be taken for urgent needs or difficult passions to be catered to without any effort to do the same in reverse.

[@gracejackson5002]

Omg she damn near explained my last relationship

[@trolleybee5515]

They usually live in someone’s basement for starters...

[@charmekiawhite3633]

I laughed on the "Insecure dust bunny" part. You got it down packed. Great video love it!

[@BlueBerryBronzer]

Bold of you to blast my ex like that Chloe! #NevaAgain My Peter Pan had a whole child too. How embarrassing.😭

[@iambrandin_]

I’ve met a lot of Peter Pans on social media and dating sites specifically 🤦🏿‍♀️

[@freespirit8635]

That's where they hide sis! Waiting to devour their next prey 😩🤦🏾‍♀️!!

[@katarinatibai8396]

Perfect - all on the point - 😂😂😂 - knew some of that kind that klicked all the boxes.

[@halimahcc8259]

Nice work! Can you do the Cinderella complex 🤔😭

[@alethiamillner5603]

Sounds like NPD to me, every single trait! These are the exact traits to look for in recognizing one of their kind. The only thing about it is that narcissism is on a spectrum and every person has their own personality traits one person might be lazier than the other Etc but in a nutshell all these things definitely do describe the narcissistic personality disordered individual with a covert or overt I've been with enough of them to know thank God I'm off that ship.

[@suecoates3485]

This should be taught in schools, sure would've saved me alot of issues in relationships.

[@sherritaylor5378]

I dealt with this for yrs. Until I was able to do the work on myself. Him and his mom were both bitter afterwards 😂

[@shekinahfire5936]

Your video had me rolling laughing. You know your stuff sweetheart. I has to subscribe, thank you!

[@RebekahAPinto]

Number 10 of this, really hit me as I never thought about it in That way.

[@TheForeverking100]

This was nothing but the truth! I've seen an increase in this type of behavior...its like they just gave up and want to be babies again...most men i observe or try to holler at me are bums...no matter the state...they are looking to be taken care of like a woman...and hell women don't even act like this!

[@Sharie.]

So true you hit the nail on the head Chloe! Every time it was a reality check for me thank you I appreciate you ❤️

[@buttertoast7262]

My older brother. my mom constantly let him get away with anything.

[@indym375]

Wow You are Right Truth is told on this channel it's CALLED TOUGH LOVE 👀🙏💜

[@kaebaegotsnax1907]

You spelled my baby daddy and our relationship to the T if I’d known this in my late teens and early twenties I would have been saved.. blessings!!!

[@joshuaprince6580]

How can women choose these type of men and then complain later

[@Brraveit]

I am actually dealing with this right now, SMH.

[@saritamoorebansa4485]

Lord have mercy…. This is my brother to a “T”… No wonder we can’t get along…. I was just saying it is like he didn’t grow up…. Mentally he is about 16 years…at late 40 years…

[@bluelily3514]

Have you ever met mr. peter pan? Me: uuuhhh He's my father. 😅

[@LadyofLeisure.]

You nail it every single time 💕

[@emperialempath1022]

The facts are so disheartening yet prevalent

[@KalimahSBICeo]

Chloe... Truth dont need no help!.. Your 100% on it!

[@destinydavis6601]

OMG! This spoke to me. Especially the last 3 minutes. I’m going through this exact thing! I’m currently working to build my self esteem, self worth, and lose the 60 lbs gained from dealing with this 💩.

[@siegrids554]

I love how you break it down. Good one Chloe.

[@Beth5171]

Come through with this word Chloe!!! Yes!!!

[@SabrinaDacosta]

This is the best video ever on this subject!!!

[@lisap2752]

What if you love him, being a lifetime childhood friend who just didn’t develop like you did based on household dynamics. I don’t wanna let him go, we could be great, we’re best friends, like family but he’s stuck and it sucks. He didn’t turn into the man I need him to be when I waited our young lives to grow up and finally give it a shot… a young crush that just kept developing. It’s tearing me up and I feel like he doesn’t want to let go but it’ll be easier to just deal with someone much younger than me. 😢

[@S.Marshall]

Jesus I embodied some of these traits of the women that attract Peter and played the role in my last relationship 😪

[@feliciawilson1763]

The very man I just left almost to a T with the exception of having his own money. Childish. Stingy. Selfish. Self loathing blaming. Yuck. I’m so glad I left.

[@ugiswrong]

Chloe makin Pan men everywhere houseless 😂

[@ettamae05]

My Paternal family trains up all of the males to be THIS!!!

[@AlanaK]

Love the video Chloe!!! I dated a man like this and I’m so grateful I got out of the relationship before it was too late.

[@annasirri87]

Thanks very much for this video. God bless

[@alexisngunyi8017]

Pleaaseeeeee do a video on the "Cinderella complex"

[@joanjones3677]

Nailed it Chloe!!

[@TikaRose222]

This video is so on point!!! 👌

[@imaxinebrown694]

Good analysis, thanks for sharing…….

[@kekacaddis3550]

Bravo....Bravo....Bravo girlfriend this on point

[@ocruz4013]

Amazing video as usual ❤️

[@CrochetStudent36]

I stopped listening to gospel music YEARS AGO but, all I can think right now is........Oh Lord, How Excellent!!! Girl y'all keep me going!!!

[@lifeisablessing247]

Peter Pan would also come to your KZbin channel and leave ignorant/unintellectual comments. 👀😁

[@Dontgiveup964]

🤣🤣🤣😭😭💯

[@paigenicholespeaks6172]

Right! 😆😆

[@agravery223]

Yup, they be the lurkers... on here instead of trying to become a better provider!

[@HazelGreen64]

Yes! There's literally a guy on another video all in the comments with the username Peter Pan and the cartoon character as his profile pic. He was very disrespectful and ignorant with his comments. Talking about a 30 year old woman is "old".

[@HazelGreen64]

MsZoomification yup

[@blairebeezy8684]

I can’t help but perceive that a lot of these “prank” channels are full of men with the Peter Pan syndrome 🙄 and ion like that

[@babygirleuobg3191]

So trueee

[@astateofserenity1022]

They only appeal to children. Honestly the fact that they're grown adults doing that is just strange.

[@briana14333]

For real! Punk'd, Impractical Jokers, Jackass... all shows created and hosted by grown ass boys!

[@briana14333]

@@astateofserenity1022 Right! My 7 year old nephew loves them.

[@avitalpikovski2613]

I feel like that's why I used to hate when my ex played video games...he would be so immersed in them, going crazy when he couldn't pass a level in the game talking about "my team needs me" while I'm sitting on his bed feeling helpless... after we broke up I swore to myself that I would never date a guy who playes video games but these days I think every guy in my age (20's) is playing them...idk what else to say

[@kimberlyhayes1474]

But they always find someone else to replace the ones who walk away. They actually never grow up.

[@jeralinsunflower7300]

Facts! It’s really scary actually.

[@warriorhippie]

Yessss omg they do. What’s worst, its like these type of men have extraordinary psychic powers to sniff out empathic women. They are true predators by nature.

[@Misssixty510]

N. C. Yes they are and it is scary AF!

[@sheebaby]

Yes that does appear to be true, but they are never satisfied and will forever be searching. Their life is a never ending cycle of them chasing could've's, would've's and should've's.

[@Purepiscestarot]

They will never be truly happy, that’s the sad part

[@brittaneycolon3047]

I was married to a narcissistic Peter Pan, never again. He was terrified of growing old. He now has a pickmesha and they’re living happily ever after, and so am I with my protector/provider.

[@LibertyMadison]

Pickmesha 😆

[@v.s.narcisse714]

👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@brittaneycolon3047]

Christina M Thank you, I thank God daily 😇

[@KK-bq3ns]

Trust, they're not living happily ever after, she's sick of his bottom feeding ass! When she'll dump him is another topic.😉

[@mom2suns857]

#goals 🙌🏾🙏🏾

[@arch0049]

As a forty year old straight man, I can tell you I refuse to be friends with guys like this! These guys don't just ruin partner relationships, they also ruin friendships. Glad to see so many women refuse to put up with these guys for partners. They ruin everything.

[@arch0049]

@@uunnoov Sure. They have no drive, and they become jealous of any and all of my accomplishments... They drone on and on with their long list of excuses for never accomplishing anything in life. Seriously, I do not want to hear a bunch of excuses... They say crazy, misogynistic things about women. And if you are not careful, you might start actually believing them... They never have money to do anything or go anywhere. Or, they complain about the price of anything from a ticket to a ball game, to the price of a drink... They have no actually hobbies or interests that don't involve reminiscing about their glory days and/or playing video games... They are just a bore to be around. There is a lot of good in this world, if you actually look for it.

[@hg3895]

Good for you

[@SagRising19]

On point! Especially the strategically forgetting your birthday and holidays..to condition you. Stay feminine ladies!

[@SagRising19]

@Sandra Mrewa Yes! Especially if you have kids with him and he starts forgetting their birthday too.

[@candice446]

A lot of them are narcissistic and lack empathy and remorse. Be careful with these types of people. Some are sadistic. When they realize that you are not the illusion they made up in their head, or after they get what they want, they can get real sinister. Don’t deal with them at all.

[@warriorhippie]

This is absolutely true. When you attempt to hold them accountable for their emotional abuse, they would embark on an never ending pursuit of revenge. Don’t ever underestimate the demons in these degenerates.

[@houston10]

N. C. Omg u are so on point with this comment

[@BBBunny11]

N. C. Literally what I went through, it was like a demon possessed them.

[@warriorhippie]

Iyesha Sheriff yes I’m currently going through this with my son’s father/covert narc. Run away and never look back from these men.

[@robertah2353]

It’s true

[@Toozip09]

Are these the same men dedicated to dogging women over the age of 30? I'm in my 20s but still disgusted by older men feeling entitled to women my age. As if they think they'll be young studs forever... It's hilarious and also ANNOYING.

[@sonyab2u974]

Yep! They looking for a purse and a nurse!

[@haryel5058]

I agree with you . Like I would obviously want someone at that age like ewww . They really feel entitle 🥴

[@jazzyone1986]

I’m over 30 and I don’t want these old men either l! So I feel you girl when I was your age I didn’t want men in their thirties either 😝.

[@belamcd9878]

Girl, I'm 32 and I was texting with a 50 year old divorced father of 2 and he told me "I like that you are older and great personality" like he was "settling" with a woman who is not in her 20s because I was "really cool".

[@tejas_jo]

dusty, broke and been divorced two or more times and now they're mgtow🙄

[@cc_chi123]

1000%... this was my ex and I was conditioned for 3 years but I woke up and LEFT!!! Whew so glad I got out of that and I woke up to the web I got sucked into. Ladies.. if a man is stingy, he is typically stingy in ALL ways... financially, emotionally, sexually. Do not attach yourself to a stingy man.

[@natashabrown41]

CC Preach 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@natashabrown41]

CC I know exactly what you’re talking about

[@warriorhippie]

The narc ex/son’s father conditioned me for 3 years too. However, 2020 was when I consciously washed my hands of his weak ass. I already have a son, I don’t need another.

[@ergus179]

Woah woah hold up I'm stingy but that's cuz I have to pay for college and rent and car and insurance even if I work 40 hours a week I don't spend nothing outside of what I can afford mam

[@ergus179]

I'm stingy because I want the money I have to be spent on things that make a difference

[@zsuzsuspetals]

You can spot these types in the manosphere easily. They are the ones saying they are the prize and they expect women to chase them.

[@jordangillespie7341]

Yesssss

[@SageShadow096]

And yet falling for them lol. I deal with mental health victims from these adventures. Unfortunately the vid is spot on with the type of population racial profile my clinic deals with a lot ay. Sry.

[@chakralove4300]

There is a very fine line between Peter Pan and a narcissist!! 🤷🏽‍♀️ Either way run cuz they are energy vampires.

[@teeb2681]

I don't see a difference other than 1 is a psychology term and the other is a slang term. Both are self centered, lack empathy and immature. Seems like an issue with that person's spirit moreso than the people they target to use and abuse.

[@ST-yc7uj]

@@teeb2681 Oedipal complex is not the same as the NPD. The starting point of these deviations is at different age in life. Peter Pan is reversable with therapy, NPD is not.

[@Cat-sx6ep]

@@teeb2681 Me too tee b

[@sugaray7435]

My ex never had money around my bday 🙄🙄🙄

[@cocomocha]

So basically a man child lol I’m sooo glad I’m not nurturing and I’m materialistic so I can’t be responsible for being a mans mother.

[@ogbasedmish9036]

I'm trying to be less nurturing too😩 only those who will deserve it the most, my future kids

[@jasminechavis4213]

🎯

[@warriorhippie]

I need your strength sis

[@jackfrost326]

Then you hit 40 and wonder where the men are at and think we just hangin on trees 😂😂😂✌

[@lisalisa3223]

@@jackfrost326 no, we just weed out men like you. buh bye ✌🏾

[@Eka-p]

I met a guy like this when I was 18 and we where at a vocational school. He seem fun and chill at first but once we where done with the course and it was time to find jobs I realized that he didn't want anything out of life. He would rather play video games all day rather than find a job meanwhile I already had a job and was saving for college. This guy never took me on a date or done anything for me but as soon as I started making money he wanted me to buy games for him! Imagine that. I am just glad I was smart enough to never do so and I jumped head first out of that relationship. A lot of young guys now a days are like that.

[@bluevillsplash]

Haha 😂😂😂 Now? 2003 killed all hope for me. And he was almost a black belt. Told me his plan after HS was just to chill and live of mom. My ex husband did that too, refused to leave his parents, then ended up needing me to speak to some deportation judge. I kindly texted mommy 😊 number, seems like he forgot who his real wife was.

[@bbgirl800]

Witnessed a peter pan with two clearly weak minded parents. His parents are getting older and are sick and working full time while he who is 30+ sits at the house makes grandkids and asks what's for dinner. And I really don't feel bad for his parents at this point, that is what they allowed.

[@lisalisa3223]

That's why Chloe says ppl that do that are enablers. i wouldn't feel bad for them either.

[@pinkbouquet1955]

His parents created a monster. Unfortunately when they pass away, He'll find a woman to take advantage of Its a disgusting cycle.

[@bbgirl800]

@@pinkbouquet1955 and honestly I wouldn't have a ton of sympathy for her either. He would scream dusty from a mile away.

[@Diamsraven]

Just had someone like this try me & I slowly walked away, didn’t even say a word because I don’t have time to explain myself to a man who clearly wants to act however he chooses & thinks I will tolerate this behaviour 🙄

[@blackscriptstudio565]

We done explaining sis we just walking away! 💪🏾

[@Natalia-lk7hw]

Good for you, sis. Just make sure they don't follow you to your car or nothing like that.

[@madelineasmr926]

@@Natalia-lk7hw 911

[@msmariam3517]

This is exactly how I ended a one and a half year relationship with a peter pan. I just blocked him with no conversation. He drained my life, if I stayed any longer I would have slept one day and not wake up.

[@Kulisara109]

Another sign of men that women should avoid is a man who never lead any important decisions in his life, girl has to initiate a marriage, initiate finding a good job, initiate a separation and finally initiate a divorce.

[@BKATwigs]

My older brothers are all bums, I always wondered why so many women were having children with them. Fortunately, we have diff moms but unfortunately share the same Peter Pan dad... ugh, my parents are divorced because my dad, not surprisingly, has been a selfish jackass the last 30 plus years... Chloe is right they never grow up. My oldest brother is turning 52 and 14 all at once this year 🤪🙄 with a quarantine baby on the way by some idiot woman my age (30-ish). I’ve already blocked her 😤 I don’t wanna be friends. I’m good 💅🏾