The Power of Forgiveness. Why is it so Important?

[@chidinmaagba5128]

Why forgiveness can be sooo difficult is that the people who can hurt us to the point of unforgiving are those we love and care so much about. It’s not easy but it’s doable, I think the best way to approach is to think of the good times and the value that person has once brought into our lives and then replace that energy with the negative ones. I’m sure there are good enough reasons to love someone over and over again. Thanks Vanessa for this. I’m also writing this to myself❤❤❤

[@tundesosan]

Vanessa baby, so proud of you girl. Love your channel already. Been ages, hope you remember me thorugh.

[@hopebell673]

It might be hard to forgive but at the end of the day its for your own good❤️

[@ademidemo]

True Forgiveness does more for you than it dies for the other person. My mum would say your reaction to something matters because your reaction affects you the most. Our emotions are valid, our reactions too could be valid but yeah release yourself and forgive the person

[@tizanege9175]

How can I forgive someone who has wronged you multiple times?

[@thevisionbyvanessa]

The idea of forgiveness has never really been about the recipient of forgiveness. It's something you do to release yourself from the shackles of anger and resentment. That being said, the people who can truly hurt us are the ones WE allow in close proximity to ourselves. Now, that being said, you should be able to forgive someone multiple times but once you notice a pattern in their behavior, it's important to reprioritize how closely we let them into our lives. Always wish them well regardless, but you then know that since you've been wrong multiple times by them, they should now no longer be close enough to cause you any real pain through their actions. Lead with love always and forgive as often as you need to - because you are doing it for YOU, not them! ♥

[@tizanege9175]

@@thevisionbyvanessa wow ! thank you so much for this, i have really learnt something.

[@simeonadewuyi9898]

@@tizanege9175 also learn not to expect much from people so whenever dey wrong you, it wont hurt much