The Psychology of Trust | Anne Böckler-Raettig | TEDxFrankfurt

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Anne Böckler-Raettig is an Assistant Professor at the Institute of Psychology at Würzburg University. She studied in Berlin and Glasgow and completed her PhD at Radboud University in Nijmegen. After a research stay in Princeton, Anne worked as a Postdoc at the Max Planck Institute for Human Cognitive and Brain Sciences in Leipzig. Anne employs methods from psychology, neuroscience and behavioral economics to investigate the processes that underlie social understanding and social interaction. Specifically, she is interested in gaze behavior, empathy, perspective-taking and social decision-making. More recently, Anne began to address the malleability of socio-affective and socio-cognitive capacities and interpersonal behavior by means of meditation based trainings.
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@Halo-li8hg
@Halo-li8hg 4 жыл бұрын
This is why gossip can be so damaging it determines a person's trust immediately true or not.
@pialove3988
@pialove3988 2 жыл бұрын
I agree, people that like to gossip really can't be trusted. If they are talking bad about others and spreading bad things about others....what do you think they will do when they find out about you?? Spread your business and then be fake in your face like that's not what they are doing. Trust takes time to build and is based upon consistent action.... the facial features thing kind of through me for a loop. No one looks trustworthy, but in my opinion they have to act trustworthy.
@everburningblue
@everburningblue 4 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't trust their audio engineer.
@l3visandor
@l3visandor 4 жыл бұрын
I liked your comment a lot more than a button press could express. Thanks for the laugh.
@chrisfield7624
@chrisfield7624 4 жыл бұрын
If the audio engineer apologised & did much better next time. I think I could trust them.
@nirvanaselic
@nirvanaselic 4 жыл бұрын
Hahahhahaha
@user-fq4hj8yv2z
@user-fq4hj8yv2z 3 жыл бұрын
It's not that bad lol
@TheAdhdGardener
@TheAdhdGardener 3 жыл бұрын
Facts😆
@CynthiaSchoenbauer
@CynthiaSchoenbauer 6 жыл бұрын
I see that trust has been missing in my life. It feels good to hear about how trust is what is important in relationships and that it is something the can be re-engendered when it is lacking.
@coreycox2345
@coreycox2345 6 жыл бұрын
Not always.
@coreycox2345
@coreycox2345 4 жыл бұрын
@ It can be more difficult to trust anyone.
@buddylee9236
@buddylee9236 Жыл бұрын
You're not alone and the few that do have it are anomalies but that's not our natural state because we wouldn't have been able to do all we've done to get to where we are today otherwise it's just lost but we had it before and we can have it again once we fix our inverted priorities and declutter our counterproductive distracted lives and focus on what's important and what's productive and that would be the antithesis of what we now have
@Jet43791
@Jet43791 3 жыл бұрын
No, you cannot trust everyone. We already know, that trust is necessary for relationships, but people need to be careful, too.
@danmarquez3971
@danmarquez3971 3 жыл бұрын
Everyone can be trusted up to a limit. The acceptable limit is the big debate.
@yuryionov2303
@yuryionov2303 2 жыл бұрын
That's another way of saying don't trust
@quietismyjam
@quietismyjam 2 жыл бұрын
@@yuryionov2303 lol it really is!
@alibeaumont-filder3185
@alibeaumont-filder3185 3 жыл бұрын
Trust , respect and loyalty .. without we have these elements , we have nothing .... sadly when we do not deliver this .. we can lose people. Thank you for presenting .
@dianacalderon164
@dianacalderon164 2 жыл бұрын
very true!🙌🏽
@GoldhartStudio
@GoldhartStudio 4 жыл бұрын
Trust builds with time and being in different situation with that person.
@tinagvardanyan8627
@tinagvardanyan8627 5 жыл бұрын
Trust is that noblest of qualities that all are born with, few succeed in maintaining it, some aspire to gain it, and most conspire to abuse it. Don't give away your trust to anyone that asks, if you know its worth and value. And if you don't know its value yet, look back in your life and see how much trusting the wrong people has cost you, or cost them.
@Jet43791
@Jet43791 3 жыл бұрын
Trust is NOT inborn! Children learn it in the first months and years - or learn the opposite.
@ScoopDogg
@ScoopDogg 2 жыл бұрын
I got a job and in the first week my boss heard me saying something about a jacket i wanted, a week later he called me in and gave me a 2nd hand jacket (the one i dreamed about owning) i wanted worth £200 (in 1988s prices) if bought new,....anyway i found a card with a name on an, appointment saying call me fiona and £300 in notes in another pocket. I gave him it back after 2 days pondering but tempted to keep it. I only earned 37 pound in the 80's on a training scheme. Anyway he said he thought he lost it and said thanks, turns out he didn't know about the card his brother gave him but he not read it yet after he slipped it in his pocket and forgot about it, i thought he was testing me, but wasn't lol. Ends up the card appointment to go see his sister who died the day after he went to see her and he hadn't seen her in 12 years. so wouldn't have known if i hadn't give him it back. Anyway made 3 people happy, and he trusted me which was a fantastic feeling for me to know and him... If i had spent it, i wouldn't even have a memory to mention and he wouldn't have made contact with his sister on her death bed... P.S he offered me the money and i said No. he gave it to the cancer charity.. A great man sadly gone now.; but that feeling i got was worth ten times the coat the money. Sorry I bored you with this long message lol : /
@ScoopDogg
@ScoopDogg 2 жыл бұрын
forgot to mention he hadnt seen his brother in 5 years the day he bought the jacket for me, he bumped in to his broither a chance meeting, and his brother gave him the card and he slipped it in the jacket pocket as they had a beer in the pub. (He must have been wearing MY jacket lol)
@user-we2rq1ql4w
@user-we2rq1ql4w 7 ай бұрын
Truth is truth learned lesson I guess
@estherspragge4008
@estherspragge4008 7 ай бұрын
I really like this speaker. Great speech. I learned way more than I was expecting to based off the thunbnail.
@JaneyImaaniEmotionalAwareness
@JaneyImaaniEmotionalAwareness 5 жыл бұрын
This is such an important topic, so glad we are talking about it in detail.
@helenjones2663
@helenjones2663 2 жыл бұрын
Trust is very important within relationships. I used to trust automatically, naturally until a person showed me that I couldn't trust them any longer. I have since changed. I also have learned that with some people you can overall trust them, but there will come a time where you know or realize that this same person can't be trusted in certain situations. I wish that I was my same old self, trusting automatically until a person teach me to distrust. It was easier for me then. To distrust automatically goes against my natural grain whenever I meet new people and I am uncomfortable, and it shows.
@raymondotoole2600
@raymondotoole2600 2 жыл бұрын
Matthew mcConaughey once said “ trust them until they cross the line. That way you can be 100% yourself” You ever just wait sooo long until you can trust someone and for that period of time you wasn’t really yourself. just a suggestion but I think the meaning of trust lacks context.
@capdan68
@capdan68 11 ай бұрын
There is a saying, 'give them enough rope and they'll hang themselves'. This is proven to me to be true again and again. It's only a matter of time and people will show their true colours. I've yet to be surprised by anyone not proving this saying to be 100% accurate in any given situation, especially in romantic relationships.
@DynamicLearning4u
@DynamicLearning4u 4 ай бұрын
Soothing voice. I could listen to her all day.
@gamezswinger
@gamezswinger 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent talk. A lot of people spend a great deal of time repairing relationships….
@Rob337_aka_CancelProof
@Rob337_aka_CancelProof Жыл бұрын
Trust works best when paired with reciprocity as trust and reciprocity combined the basis for all human interactions and they reinforce each other in ways that enable future trust and reciprocity but everybody focuses so much on trust and I don't think most people realize how important the reciprocity component is because both need to be present for long-term success
@reachingmygoals1652
@reachingmygoals1652 2 жыл бұрын
Trust isnt easy anymore anywhere really. Thats why im aware of trusting people these days. This year i had to cut over 10 people out of my life off of mistrust. I was thinking of not trusting people anymore. But what i do is still make friends but not get too close anymore since i am getting older. I know what its like to deal with mistrust. I only trust my immediate family.
@eternalssssss
@eternalssssss Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your gift
@buddylee9236
@buddylee9236 Жыл бұрын
When you ask people everybody without exception feels that they are deserving of and even entitled to Grace and forgiveness and understanding yet so few willing to extend it to others
@wyntonbenjamin6331
@wyntonbenjamin6331 2 жыл бұрын
Best TED Talk ever
@vidyutmankodi5159
@vidyutmankodi5159 2 жыл бұрын
Lovely talk on concept of trust.
@fiddlestix3025
@fiddlestix3025 Жыл бұрын
Wonder, wonderful… Thank you 🙏
@user-cs9bw5wm5n
@user-cs9bw5wm5n 5 ай бұрын
संसार में हर कार्य विश्वास की बुनियाद पर ही निर्भर रहता है।जिसमें विश्वास पैदा करने का गुण न हो, वह व्यक्ति कुछ नहीं कर सकता।
@martinbrousseau2560
@martinbrousseau2560 4 ай бұрын
Agreed.
@lordkanti8260
@lordkanti8260 4 жыл бұрын
My question is what happens when too many times is your trust unreciprocated. Do you then become untrusting too and if so which is more prominent? Do all grow old and untrusting or lucky enough to have a change of heart?
@airashiitheempress5798
@airashiitheempress5798 4 жыл бұрын
Trust is indispensable and a much needed experience for everyone now SDSU’s we should all be trusted and be trust worthy. Imagine how great of a world we would live in. Also with out trust we can’t see what distrust looks like so it is very important to forgive and trust people you are in a relationship in order to have a successful long friendship relationship
@indianb1918
@indianb1918 Жыл бұрын
Great explanation.
@thyyu1874
@thyyu1874 8 ай бұрын
That example with the two guys' faces is the definition of "don't book a cover by the judge" deep..
@MrZkoki
@MrZkoki 8 ай бұрын
I was fascinated by the mechanism employed by the bats. It is as if active solidarity were encoded in their genetic material, which secures the survival of the species collectively. Despite their predatory nature, amongst themselves they behave humanely, one could argue. Of course the effectiveness of the trust mechanism presupposes that this value, which morphed into a biological institution,remains unbreached.
@AppleSlicesUnite
@AppleSlicesUnite 4 жыл бұрын
Organic trust is different than manufactured trust as she's describing here. I feel what she's teaching is how to play the game of getting what you want/manipulation of sorts. I'd elaborate on organic trust but that's a book that I'm not writing here in the comment section.
@user-fq4hj8yv2z
@user-fq4hj8yv2z 3 жыл бұрын
I feel that she's just stating facts or general logic related to trust
@jacknjill3000
@jacknjill3000 Жыл бұрын
I’m 59 and still foolishly trust ppl. Then I find myself getting disappointed in the ppl. I trust. So I go back to being selective and wait for someone I believe I can trust. But again they let me down or seem to not care as much as I thought. Oh and I’m single so I look for friends to fill that void, which I find it’s not that important to others. So bc of my expectations from ppl. I eventually get disappointed bc my need is usually greater than these ppl. I try to trust. I still know and read ppl. but some are good about hiding how truly feel. So from my experience, it’s not easy to trust others and others trusting me. With my eagerness to be friends and thinking I show them I value them and making the time for them, it seems to send a different message. So some ppl. may follow the same advice, but still get a different results. I know understand why humans pair up, it’s not easy to even trust one person and here I’m expecting to have a trusting relationship with many.
@thegoonist
@thegoonist 5 жыл бұрын
yes but a little too simplistic: trust is important, but you also need to consider other factors. while a greedy selfish person might feel good being trustworthy, he might feel even better stealing money. a corporation cannot afford 1 fraud of 1 billion from its employee, and so the 'giving a second chance/forgiving' suggestion does not work in that context.
@payaso537
@payaso537 4 жыл бұрын
too trusting is terrible too. that's how ppl loose their kids or loveones
@LoveAllCreations
@LoveAllCreations 4 жыл бұрын
Her talk is too simplistic, I agree. There are many situations in life where trust and trust-issues are far more complicated than what is implied here (I’m thinking about people who survived horrific traumas, just to mention one example).
@l.aposdif4855
@l.aposdif4855 3 жыл бұрын
@@LoveAllCreations indeed
@buddylee9236
@buddylee9236 Жыл бұрын
As a twin and an infj who values high quality close relationships and has experienced just that personally I found that I have rather unrealistic expectations on my relationships with people and a visceral reaction to betrayal that doesn't serve me very well most of the time because my first relationship was deeper than most people ever can experience or imagine in their lifetime and unfortunately the one I compare every other relationship to and the one my unrealistic expectations for all other relationships are based on
@buddylee9236
@buddylee9236 Жыл бұрын
Trustworthy people are the ones who naturally trust and the untrustworthy ones are those suspicious ones who distrust because we all project onto others both the good and the bad so people will naturally tell you exactly who they are if you know how to read the ques and tells
@veronicaspaulding209
@veronicaspaulding209 Жыл бұрын
Unless you’ve experienced trauma, being taught to not trust people is different than being inherently untrustworthy. There’s usually a reason people distrust others, and its typically by negative experience from the world.
@user-we2rq1ql4w
@user-we2rq1ql4w 7 ай бұрын
Yep and yes
@Rob337_aka_CancelProof
@Rob337_aka_CancelProof Жыл бұрын
"Few things can help an individual more than to place responsibility on him, and to let him know that you trust him." Booker T. Washington.
@jerome1643
@jerome1643 3 жыл бұрын
I trust her research because of the accent.
@dianacarolinagalvezvictori8455
@dianacarolinagalvezvictori8455 3 жыл бұрын
Hahahah
@ramonam9251
@ramonam9251 3 жыл бұрын
Ok then 🤣
@user-vd3hu7np8b
@user-vd3hu7np8b 6 ай бұрын
This is very true that trust is an investment to anything. It is just like an investment in share market. When you see share price is going higher, we invest more, whereas when the share value starts to go down before it becomes nil we just withdraw. Similarly, when people show signs of trust then we invest ourselves in them otherwise we just withdraw. 💯
@Rob337_aka_CancelProof
@Rob337_aka_CancelProof Жыл бұрын
I've learned that trust (and distrust) like everything else is often projected on to others which I think is why good people often get taken advantage of because the trustworthy person is also the trusting person so if you know someone who is always paranoid and worried about not being able to trust others there is a very high probability they are not trustworthy and it is this very trusting people who are arguably the most trustworthy people you'll ever know
@hartfantom
@hartfantom Жыл бұрын
this comment is like a seizure manifested in words, I don’t even think you yourself know wtf you just typed.
@user-we2rq1ql4w
@user-we2rq1ql4w 7 ай бұрын
I Don't trust everything with everyone with certain things trust is earned that statement is true
@buddylee9236
@buddylee9236 Жыл бұрын
Do you have any numbers on the ones who lose trust quickly compared to the ones who can go several rounds and their correlation with income or economic status?
@stephaniemoura9325
@stephaniemoura9325 2 жыл бұрын
I think anxiety in my case is coming from a lack of trust in many aspects of my life
@TheAdhdGardener
@TheAdhdGardener 3 жыл бұрын
TED talks you jacked up on this audio
@Montacap1
@Montacap1 Жыл бұрын
Once it's broken I really do not think it can be fixed .
@memtesin5918
@memtesin5918 Жыл бұрын
Trust is like predicting the future, that someone would never do anything wrong to you. Is that true? Why trust, why risk? It's possible and good and righteous to trust no one, yet love, be kind, be friendly and be honest with everyone. I say this because there are people who trust no one, yet they themselves take advantage of others, look down at others and keep a distance from others. This also is not good. Just stop trying to predict the future, we can't; therefore, guard well what is most prescious to you.
@DjSoulKing
@DjSoulKing 3 жыл бұрын
My trust emitters have been dismantled.
@cmauro6827
@cmauro6827 Жыл бұрын
Reciprocity is key.
@Qibilii
@Qibilii 3 жыл бұрын
As you grow, it becomes harder and harder to trust people with certain traits. Sometimes it's better to place trust in AI than humans (says the guy wanting to work in AI RnD). :)
@hmm6298
@hmm6298 2 жыл бұрын
thx❤
@serengeti4027
@serengeti4027 5 жыл бұрын
There's something really attractive about her.
@markcoe4755
@markcoe4755 4 жыл бұрын
@@EdwardGFunk You noticed that to Bro , I thought I were the only 😄😆😉🇺🇸🤙✊
@shellyt556
@shellyt556 3 жыл бұрын
It is her gentleness and she is well spoken.
@SS-xr2tv
@SS-xr2tv 2 жыл бұрын
Intellect and empathy?!
@nadantagaming2276
@nadantagaming2276 Жыл бұрын
But is she trustable though?
@raymondotoole2600
@raymondotoole2600 2 жыл бұрын
You see the thing about trust is really odd. Why I say this is because it lacks a lot of context. I mean what do you really mean by trust right because I am myself with everyone I meet but my meaning of trust goes way deeper than some. I guess as our lives are lived in an extremely individual way that trust is also individual. like the trust I think about is can I be vulnerable with this person and speak to them about my past and can I trust them to never tell anyone unless I give them my permission. I also wouldn’t want them telling me other peoples secrets and I would like to see how they would defend my name when I’m not present. Like I said everyone’s different but if those three things presented themselves within this person, I still wouldn’t trust them with certain secrets or future plans. I was always taught to never trust a soul with future ideas or plans or certain secrets and recently I’ve been more open and honest with people about the fact that I will never tell them certain things but I will always be honest and loyal when they time comes for anything other than those secrets and future ideas and plans
@sivakumarthevaki7959
@sivakumarthevaki7959 6 жыл бұрын
useful
@sunsetkitty2932
@sunsetkitty2932 3 жыл бұрын
This does not have nearly enough views to have a positive effect on the world. So please pass it along. Thank you.
@Thomaschapmanbfc
@Thomaschapmanbfc 4 жыл бұрын
👍 👍 👍 👍
@sylviamartin3445
@sylviamartin3445 2 жыл бұрын
PLEASE look for LOVE & TRUST and focus attention on this so you bring it into your life.......
@isabelleboulay2651
@isabelleboulay2651 Жыл бұрын
trust, like respect, are earned and exchanged. Without reciprocity, the previous investment is retracted. The only time recipe isn't happening and one person keeps giving, abuse takes place. Distrust will block reciprocal possibility. It takes 2 to tango.
@user-we2rq1ql4w
@user-we2rq1ql4w 7 ай бұрын
Observations actions body language in others time tell all people can change for the better or the worst experiences
@jcronin3155
@jcronin3155 3 жыл бұрын
Heavens......she's pretty!!!
@Laffingrl
@Laffingrl Жыл бұрын
The most powerful sermon I have ever heard has stayed with me for years; the minister said "Trust in God,not in individuals".
@user-we2rq1ql4w
@user-we2rq1ql4w 7 ай бұрын
Building the foundation back up it can be done takes commited or all relationships in a daily settings normal day to day amen
@Rob337_aka_CancelProof
@Rob337_aka_CancelProof Жыл бұрын
As to the forgiveness everybody when asked will say that they feel they are worthy of forgiveness and understanding yet so few are willing to extend it to others in the same proportions that they expect it to be extended to them which in my opinion is problematic at best
@S2Tubes
@S2Tubes 6 жыл бұрын
What's with the buzzing audio?
@The420Phoenix
@The420Phoenix 6 жыл бұрын
There's gotta be some Auxiliary cable that isn't muted, that's just dangling.
@audionerd8821
@audionerd8821 5 жыл бұрын
Sounds like a ground loop. Either the audio engineer had zero help(Production didn't want to hire a proper team) and/or a short set up time(production didn't plan right)or production didn't want to hire a professional and had the camera guy run audio too(Very Common)..i know... im just another complaining sound guy but hey you asked! haha
@Charlotte-ug9tp
@Charlotte-ug9tp 4 жыл бұрын
Big up those trusting the guy at the right
@vice_tiger4810
@vice_tiger4810 5 жыл бұрын
I'm thinking about ending it. I don't trust anyone and Im worried I'm a failure. Not to mention my future looks dim. I don't necessarily have any friends and my mom is a drug addict. I was born into poverty it doesn't look like I'll ever get out of it. Im bad at decision making and critical thinking. Is it worth keeping going?
@starchaser8023
@starchaser8023 5 жыл бұрын
Fact is peeps are biased, won't be the last time you get betrayed or used by them, but have heart ; There is a crowd out there who are just waiting to find you ,a crowed where you will fit in and finally smile, I'm in your situation and that keeps me going. Hang in there hero!
@HazelGrey.
@HazelGrey. 4 жыл бұрын
Hey, everyone’s dying anyway don’t be too eager to skip the only chance you have to lead a life the best you can with the cards that you’re dealt with. I think you got the first step covered because it’s important to acknowledge your mistakes, not to wallow in them but to learn from them. You are way ahead than most people because you have the courage and awareness to admit your weaknesses. It’s a really good place to start improving on. It’s better to see it as a goal instead of something you’re lacking of. You know? It’s all about how you control your own narrative. Focus on what you can control, like your attitude instead of the circumstances itself. Accept the things you can’t with time and maturity. Easier said than done, cliche yada” but it is what it is. Resilience comes from the belief that you only fail when you stop trying. So you are not a failure because you’re still here. Try to reach out for help. It’s easier to deal with things when you’re not alone. Stay strong :D
@abdul2009
@abdul2009 4 жыл бұрын
What helped me was checking if the cause is one of these and then to choose to do the corresponding thing: •Could it be out of revenge - so wanting to hurt others as you have been hurt? in which case focus on empathizing with others. •Could it be out of displaying inadequacy - so have you given up on yourself and want to be left alone? in which case focus on accepting encouragment from others and encouraging yourself or learning how to encourage yourself •Could it be out of a desire for power - so not wanting anyone to boss you around and wanting to show people that no one can tell you what to do? in which case focus on the fact that you can work together with people and collaborate on a larger project to contribute •Could it be out of attention-seeking - so wanting to be noticed? in which case focus on noticing and encouraging the cooperative actions of others. I learned this from a book called The Psychology of Courage
@nicholefox7036
@nicholefox7036 4 жыл бұрын
Vice_Tiger it sounds like you are smart and know that the people you are around are not trustworthy but you are. Trust yourself and trust you’re worth. You come first. You can get yourself out of anything, trust yourself.
@nicholefox7036
@nicholefox7036 4 жыл бұрын
Vice_Tiger Don’t take life too seriously. You’ll never get out alive. -van wilder. Speak your truth. Be what you are. Create
@buddylee9236
@buddylee9236 Жыл бұрын
Trust is required in order to maximize cooperation and all the benefits of the greater than the sum of our parts Dynamic we used to do so well because the for agriculture and civilization 95% of our time here on this Earth we did that very well back in the day when things were the polar opposite of now and we used things and loved people like it's supposed to be and with that being the most effective tool in our kit we've been going backwards ever since
@user-we2rq1ql4w
@user-we2rq1ql4w 7 ай бұрын
Positive forward thinking
@brendacrawford8653
@brendacrawford8653 3 жыл бұрын
My man says I need trust of him
@user-yn9vp4xn1o
@user-yn9vp4xn1o 2 жыл бұрын
Human memory
@plinden
@plinden 4 жыл бұрын
5 minutes in: Some people look more trustworthy than others. We have no studies about whether someone who looks more trustworthy is more trustworthy (my guess is that they are because intuition is based on past experience). It would be good to know who is trustworthy. I hope it gets better. There is a link between understanding others and trust. (No doubt because if you cannot read people, you don't know who to trust obviously.) Wow this is was pointless and boring.
@sterlingpless9280
@sterlingpless9280 2 жыл бұрын
History of mistrust and hurt from people hurt people seek to hurt people
@buddylee9236
@buddylee9236 Жыл бұрын
Authority and competence are completely unrelated and lately it seems almost mutually exclusive but people love to the conflate the two. Everybody when asked what they value in a liter names confidence as one of the top three and they shouldn't because being safe is better than feeling safe despite the opposite being the normal state for people. Now considering the dunning-kruger effect, where does this leave us if that's what we prioritize knowing the in the Integrity free modern society we live in now and human conditions high propensity to parasitically exploit everyone they can when they're certain they can get away with it? I think that accurately describes the problem in the 2020's and probably Beyond unless something changes because it's worse now than it ever has been and with the General artificial intelligence projects currently making big advances the last human generation who's already be here if the parasitic class does the Unthinkable that comes naturally to them because that's just one of those things that we might have only one chance to get right so we need to maybe slow the rule and discourage countries like China who are already integrating it into their military. Don't get me wrong I'm not talking about Skynet I'm talking about megalomaniacal narcissistic parasites with aspirations of world domination like Klaus & the Gang in Davos (the Money Junkies) unintentionally one day bringing the population down to levels that are unsustainable and with such a shallow gene pool possibly not even viable
@an-internet-user6398
@an-internet-user6398 6 жыл бұрын
terrible audio (background sound !!)
@grv_agni
@grv_agni 3 жыл бұрын
Audio Engineer Sus
@blanchy
@blanchy 3 жыл бұрын
I learned you can't trust a face after about the 50th time I thought "she looks like a nice girl" wasn't true.
@saintmarybulicek567
@saintmarybulicek567 3 жыл бұрын
Now I believe trust in relationship is overrated. After my husband was always making calls at night , I would ask and he would just wave off those calls as unimportant.I couldn’t deal with all his lies anymore at some point. Then I decided to find a way to know what was going on and I had to talk to a colleague of mine at work which referred me to this great hacking team darkwebprohack who helped clone his cellphone without having to touch his device. To my surprise my husband has been a cheating Narcissist. and I’m glad i found out all his secrets and infidelity and how he planned on using this pandemic to get back to me. I got access to his Facebook, iMessage, GPS location , WhatsApp, Call Logs and Text Messages both recent and deleted ones with a remote link that was processed . I’m here in New York and was able to access my husband’s phone even while he was away in Australia cheating on me. I was heartbroken when I found out about all the conversation my husband was having with other girls and how he was flirting on dating site. I am glad I was able to get help. you can contact them via email at darkwebprohack(at)gmail com or via WhatsApp,text or call +19087998357 now i have enough evidence to go through divorce but I’m not sure if I should let him go or stay cause we have 4 years old girl together. Please I need advice to know if I should give him another chance or just let him go
@francismausley7239
@francismausley7239 3 жыл бұрын
Baha'u'llah, Founder of the Baha'i Faith, tells of once He "gazed on one of the Beauties of the Most Sublime Paradise, standing on a pillar of light..." who cried aloud "By God, the True One! I am Trustworthiness and the revelation thereof, and the beauty thereof." "I am the supreme instrument for the prosperity of the world, and the horizon of assurance unto all beings." The Beauty asserted that She was "the foundation of every human endeavor."
@christfollow156
@christfollow156 2 жыл бұрын
Short reminder: . "Repent ye therefore, and be converted, that your sins may be blotted out, when the times of refreshing shall come from the presence of the Lord." Acts 3:19 KJV . "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" 1. John 1:9 KJV . "That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved" Romans 10:9 KJV . Our HEAVENLY FATHER bless you in the mighty name of JESUS CHRIST
@martinbrousseau2560
@martinbrousseau2560 4 ай бұрын
I’m sorry to say,,, she does not have a clue… Though she does make some good relatable points.
@nathalie5238
@nathalie5238 3 жыл бұрын
Why can’t people just give some trust and see where it goes? That’s how I go. Let say trust is 100, I give everybody 50 trust from the get go. You show you’re trustworthy I’ll give you some more, you don’t I’ll diminish my trust, you get 2 to 3 chances. Simple Most people give zero trust and request the other to prove they are trustworthy. You miss a lot of real good connection working that way. Saddening
@marcelsmiley858
@marcelsmiley858 3 жыл бұрын
Kind of a description of the benefit of the doubt 😁
@jcronin3155
@jcronin3155 3 жыл бұрын
@@marcelsmiley858 Except she didn't give them the benefit of the doubt, she gave it 50/50.
@jcronin3155
@jcronin3155 3 жыл бұрын
Not sure that's a very good base though. If you can read people, including yourself, then you will be better able to judge people before giving them anything.
@marcelsmiley858
@marcelsmiley858 3 жыл бұрын
@@jcronin3155 But isn't that the benefit of the doubt? 😅 I mean from 50% it can go both ways and you don't go full on from the start 🤔
@jcronin3155
@jcronin3155 3 жыл бұрын
@@marcelsmiley858 I would say if we were to give somebody the benefit of the doubt, then it would have to be more than 50%. 50/50 means 50% is trust for now and 50% is distrust for now, but we are not giving them any benefit, we are just giving them a 50/50 to prove what they are. Giving them the benefit of the doubt would mean giving a little more trust....say 60% until they prove us wrong. Maybe it's a 6 and a 9. Definition of benefit of the doubt from Webster's dictionary: the state of accepting something/someone as honest or deserving of trust even though there are doubts. He might be lying, but we have to give him the benefit of the doubt and accept what he says for now.
@eugeneano285
@eugeneano285 10 ай бұрын
or your parents were so busy working, like my parents on the farm, that they could not possibly spent time with you. or kids were not important - they had food and kept warm. would be nice to speak how to learn to trust when you were hurt, neglected as a kid
@user-we2rq1ql4w
@user-we2rq1ql4w 7 ай бұрын
Mean what you say do what you say your going to do yes be yes and no is no otherwise lies
@user-we2rq1ql4w
@user-we2rq1ql4w 7 ай бұрын
Don't know you never walked in your shoes just i haven't walked in yours
@cynex2252
@cynex2252 4 жыл бұрын
no
@MS-ns4ki
@MS-ns4ki Жыл бұрын
Trust no one
@Qwertyytrwq92
@Qwertyytrwq92 Жыл бұрын
So basically, you can't trust people based on appearances-
@blitzcreegzero8807
@blitzcreegzero8807 7 ай бұрын
talks about trust, puts up a pic of fruit bats and starts talking about vampire bats...
@sageharmony3128
@sageharmony3128 5 жыл бұрын
I can't keep up with her smart person lingo
@debojitmandal8670
@debojitmandal8670 2 жыл бұрын
Lol this Ted talks just says the clesahed points without giving or hunting a solution to it.
@VladyslavKL
@VladyslavKL 2 жыл бұрын
🐳
@karlangelina4423
@karlangelina4423 2 жыл бұрын
Get Dr Gbenga love bind spell and forget about trust issue, mine is working effectively, we love each other like never before.
@dariodelgado9444
@dariodelgado9444 4 жыл бұрын
awwww i would not trust her ww3 i would trust the guy with the man face.
@Firewalkerbg
@Firewalkerbg 6 жыл бұрын
Why does the more trustworthy face have a lighter skin colour?
@shaalis
@shaalis 5 жыл бұрын
I think that was part of the experiment.
@thegoonist
@thegoonist 5 жыл бұрын
could be a psychopath though. ala ted bundy
@dariodelgado9444
@dariodelgado9444 4 жыл бұрын
baby face baby genetics ..manly face means manly genetics
@dennisr.levesque2320
@dennisr.levesque2320 6 жыл бұрын
This is based on so many wrong assumptions. by people who only think they're objective.
@anamikahari2221
@anamikahari2221 2 жыл бұрын
The guy in the left looks like jonny sins,i wouldn't trust him
@nosoyhaternosoyhater1396
@nosoyhaternosoyhater1396 3 жыл бұрын
*talks about bats. So you're saying communism is natural 🤔 (check mate capitalist bois)
@kashvithaop1855
@kashvithaop1855 2 жыл бұрын
Alice is not trustful
@Joshisjoking49
@Joshisjoking49 2 жыл бұрын
The mic guy cannot be trusted
@buddylee9236
@buddylee9236 Жыл бұрын
"Few things can help an individual more than to place responsibility on him, and to let him know that you trust him.“ Booker T. Washington.
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