The Reason Coming Out is So Hard| An LGBT Short Film

[@WhySoShayD]

What was your coming out experience like?

[@danieldean8434]

ShayD

[@swagbomb1]

I kind of screamed to my parents about my secret girlfriend during an argument about curfew 😶

[@helpme9766]

I can't come out something I was never in.(no offense or anything to anyone who is in the LGBTQ I have nothing against you at the end of the day it's you're life idc have fun) but My parents are against homosexuality and bisexuality.. They're Christian So it's kind of hard to get them to accept anything(without the consequences of being evicted from the only home I've ever known)

[@helpme9766]

@@swagbomb1 That's messed up I mean you should be able to love whoever you want...if they got a problem with it oh well...I'm so sorry that happened...to you.

[@lucask4998]

Mine was great felt like the weight of the world was lifted from my shoulders

[@DedricSilva]

I'm heterosexual and a christian and i just want to say the LGBTQ viewers that watched this video that you need to be proud of who you are and understand not all christians like myself are not like the ones in this video as i believe in loving everyone even the LGBTQ community. You guys have my respect and this month of June 2019 pride you guys need to understand your loved by all of us Straight people and christians that believe in loving everyone.

[@nia_m_h_2334]

Thx, we need more people like you

[@milliesspacebunzzz1746]

this is the most pure comment i’ve ever seen keep spreading your love you’re amazong

[@Jaykoito]

Thank you so much. This is what the world needs.

[@ClayBlock_]

Amen, I’m Christian too and I accept and love everyone of the lgbtq+ community❤️

[@mackenziekohlrieser7237]

I'm christian and LGBTQ, and you have no idea how much I needed to hear this. Thank you, God bless.

[@WhiteStars12]

The second they asked, I knew he was gonna say Love Simon

[@thebigenderqueen1586]

HeammerSmashedFox3209 I LOVE love Simon It’s what made me realize I was gay (in 2nd grade) Me, going back to my room: ohmygah I’m gay

[@sapphael.]

I watched love Simon with my girlfriend and then came home and told my dad I'd watched ready player one ahhahaha

[@mirandatownsend8153]

But love victor.🥺

[@juniper3271]

@@mirandatownsend8153 waiting for the time waiting for the placeeee

[@blue.berry.b]

@@mirandatownsend8153 are you team Benji or team Rahim?

[@Honey_hivez]

It was so hard for me to come out. Even with an accepting family, I felt so nervous. It took me a while, but in the end it was as if I had let out a huge breath of air. Thank you for this video.

[@WhySoShayD]

Thank you for sharing, and thank you for watching. 😊

[@heavenlymxss4198]

Sylvia Cohen I haven't come out yet, but I too have a very accepting family, I think a large part of the struggle is accepting yourself and learning to cope with your environment, as well as learning your audience.

[@unsettled3943]

Sylvia Cohen omg me too!!! I can relate so hard! Me and my aunt are both EXTREMELY lesbian and we’re also a Christian family. (Although my mom never believed any of that, AKA we’re atheists) Yet our family is very excepting and loving. My mom actually already knew I was gay by the time I came out

[@attractivecat9629]

My mom doesn't really "accept" me being bisexual. She said "That's not God's plan for you". But she said "There's nothing she can do about it" and "at least I still like girls".

[@smithslps]

Just tell her, "I got different chemicals in the woom" cause it's true C: I also hope that they accept you. :)

[@unsettled3943]

I Have Gross Fetishes that’s a very attractive user name 😂😂😂

[@geekface7567]

I'll send you a prayer, not that you'll become straight, but that people accept you as you are

[@yandere_1452]

My mom is weird about it. She says she accepts my bisexuality, but when I mention girls she says "How do you know you're even gay? You're probably not even gay."

[@M0rtalated]

Squirt Lps yeah bc its pretty much you getting hormones from yours parents for who you like

[@jumsh1811]

the part where he's googling "how to stop being gay??" is meee

[@mychemicalemotions]

I love that your name is Jesus Christ

[@onlyjenniekim]

hi jesus

[@nia_m_h_2334]

@@onlyjenniekim hi god so like tell me more about your son

[@salsmovingcafeteria]

god?

[@moviehub5395]

Is that you Jesus

[@ezry6239]

Coming out is hard.......the never knew how it feels......because they didn't stay in our position....facing the homophobic world...

[@hazazula1181]

I fought being gay for yrs and when I finally accepted it. I became angry and sad bc I was surrounded by my family who all had significant others and were happy. I became bitter. Until one day I broke. I wasn't going to be someone I didn't like just to make others happy. I came out and my mom doesn't like gays she accepts it from afar. It was hard to say the words, took me about an hr just to say it. She did not yell bc she saw me in such a vulnerable state how could she. When I finally let it out, it was like I could breath, It felt so good! I will say you will never be 100% ready but that feeling afterward is worth it. I honestly think my family could have disowned me but just me feeling good with myself is more worth it. At the end of the day you are the only one that feels your sadness, your happiness. Why not take care of yourself?! I love that we have such a big community that is filled with so much LOVE. I love you guys. Stay strong. Be happy. If you guys ever need to talk we are here for you. =❤🏳️‍🌈😘

[@kennahoyman8036]

When I came out my mom didn't accept me but then she started to accept me I'm lesbain and my girlfriend just left my house n now I have hickeys everywhere lol

[@nr_squad6246]

kenna hoyman your at 69 likes 😂

[@thebigenderqueen1586]

Lol

[@NamelessSwine]

I cried at the last bit, I've felt so suicidal for so long and I know I can't come out to my family

[@CrispyAirFriedJiniret]

I'm here for you🥰

[@maddypugs6686]

Great film! I haven’t come out yet but it doesn’t help that the person I’m dating lives in a completely different state.

[@ehiobanor]

Maddypugs literally, same.

[@sharonobibi7647]

I'm still in the closet and don't know how to tell my Nigerian parents that i'm gay. :(

[@Placebogrl_]

Did you come out yet? How did it go ?

[@emmaperez3598]

I came out to my dad when I was 13 when he was cooking and I told him I was bisexual. Reality was that I didn’t want to be a “full disappointment” by saying the I’m a lesbian. He just brushed it off and said “I swear u go from one extreme to another”. I continued to date girls but wasn’t really open about it. Then, at the age of 16 I had forced myself to stay in an emotionally abusive 3 year relationship with a guy and once I gained the courage to leave I came out to my dad again at 19 years old. He accepted me fully even though it was hard for him at first and now he’s super close with my fiancée

[@gio4243]

I had came out to my brother first in my family mostly because I knew he would be excepting cause he was always saying I like girls and everything. Well he was right but anyways next couple of weeks I came out to my mom and was hella nervous but she kinda knew and was ok with it. Now everyone knows I like girls

[@alyssaclark6342]

Wow, this was so good. I watched it a few times. It's very real and authentic, it was really powerful and hit so close to home. Great job on this!

[@WhySoShayD]

Thank you so much. Also, thanks for watching. =)

[@tumblrcat5325]

When I told my mom I was gay, (lesbian, to be more specific) she kept telling me I know nothing about relationships and she wouldn’t accept that. The sad thing is, I do know some things about relationships, yet, she accused me of not knowing anything about them. My homophobic grandmother, who is a catholic, said that it was gross. SOMEBODY HELP ME! How do I AT LEAST get my mother to accept the fact that I’m lesbian? Also, I don’t have a CHANCE getting my grandmother to accept that because she’s catholic. I have siblings, but there is NO WAY in hell that I will tell them that. Don’t you think it’s sad that random people, or people on the internet could support me more than my homophobic family ever could?

[@Raddiebaddie]

I am not sure how you are doing now as this comment is 2yr old. The book by Matthew vines god and the gay christian may help your mom to understand. There is also a group for parents called freed hearts

[@delaneygilfillan9296]

This hit way too close to home for me...I just talked my friend out of suicide for the second time yesterday

[@reve2712]

I know exactly how my family would react if I came out to them as bi. They'd all accept me. But I'm honestly not ready to come out. My parents would probably tell me I'm too young to love, but am I too young to feel emotions? No.

[@CCGR-2024]

I wondered how they could do this but they managed to tell a story that was gut-wrenching in just four minutes, But I could definitely identify with the main character. I am not sure how I feel about this film right now. Thanks for sharing it tho. . . .

[@PriscillaBrown]

Wow great video. Just came across you, had to hit that button. So much truth in this video, what lots go through. Hope to see more!

[@morgyn_m]

This made me cry because I did the exact same thing. When I figured out that I was bi, I would always google "How to be straight" or "coversion camps Canada" I'm mostly ok now, but it was a dark time of suicidal thoughts and cutting.

[@MiguelRamirez-gy1ms]

ThatOneEmoGirl I’ve experienced the exact same thing, although I still haven’t came out to anyone but at least I’ve excepted myself for who I am and I do plan on coming out to my sister soon.

[@morgyn_m]

MiguelXI good luck, I hope she accepts you :)

[@caitlinh303]

i don’t know who needs to hear this but please, please don’t take your life. the world needs you! it will get better, once you’re 18 you can leave and start a fresh new life with new friends and create new families ❤️

[@zebrahappy1760]

It doesn't matter if you gay, bi, lesbian, or any of that. At the end of the day it's about who you love and who you want to be with because if it's fate then you gotta spend the rest of yo life with that person so at the end of the day it's about you being happy and you being happy with the one you with. I can tell you that coming out is hard like it's so difficult. You feel like ain't nobody going to love you for who you are well, let me tell you. I freaking love you!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️ #LGBTQ

[@kissesbykaaay7180]

When I came out to both my parents they didn’t accept me the Christian side of my family said I’m sick my dad chocked me and my mom talked about my my brothers and sister didn’t claim me my great grandma talk about me and my dad keep trying to get me to talk about why I’m gay but my step mom and step sisters support me and my sisters on my dad side and my stepmom says I’m a strong person because I got bullied all my like getting talked about by family friends and other people she says I’m strong because even tho my family hates me being gay I still be me and I see the good in people So Be Yoo remeber🔈🔈🔊🔊YOLO

[@jordanmchighlander9365]

When I tried to come out to my Dad in person my chest became so heavy and tight that I could feel the pressure each and every beat took to circulate the blood. The blood pumping through my temples was so loud it was almost deafening. I felt like I was going to either vomit or pass out. I ended up coming out to him a few hours later with a text message.

[@Daniel-dl6cu]

I feel like this is a really good representation because he uses the internet. Often times the internet raises us as there aren't a lot of people around to mentor us. Hopefully that'll change. 😞 I could really use a real life mentor.

[@Harajukubarbie333]

I’m a lesbian and I’m so terrified to come out. I cry all day and night because I’m so ashamed and afraid of what my family would say. I just wanna have a normal life and be able to have a girlfriend I love.

[@xjupiter.nex.x5763]

I was forced as christian when I was younger I didn't have a choice and I hated it but growing up I slowly realized if you don't accept and love me for who I am then u dont have to b in my life and two years ago I went through some heavy stuff and attempted I'm fine now but my parents seen me as crazy not long after into my 8th grade year I came out as bi-sexual my parents didn't say anything bad but they kinda brushed it off. To this day I'm not a bisexual (idk if id say I'm a atheist) but like in between atheist and Wicca and I'm proud to be like this because this isnt something you can cure. Love is love

[@vroantic]

I actually didn’t come out to my family my ex-best friend did for me without my permission. She told my mom after I repeatedly asked her not to and she said “it was fine since my mom already knew” then my mom told everybody else in my family so I didn’t get to have a say in anything it just all happened. I’m glad to say she was toxic and I cut her out of my life.

[@cloudy772]

Wow that was good I actually cried a little when he typed in “how to stop being gay”

[@phoenixrose3976]

Same My brother is gay and the way I found out he was gay was: He was in our room and our desk faced the wall across from the door meaning if you stand at the door you can see the persons computer screen and I was at the door and I saw in his search bar was how to stop being gay it made me sad so I walked over to him and told him I loved him. He slamed the computer shut and started asking me questions about what I saw I said saw nothing cause I didn't to out him but then he broke down crying and told me how he was gay and not to tell mum and dad I said I wouldn't I I still loved him then my mum died of cancer and she never knew so my brother came out to my dad before it was to late and my dad disowned him he when't to live with a friend and my dad was devastated about mum and became abusive I got taken away to an orphanage I'm going to age out soon tho Also I'm mute now and have PTSD so that's great for me And by mute I just choose not to speak at all cause my mouth is messed up from my dad I'm bi to

[@cloudy772]

@@phoenixrose3976 Wow that is one hell of a story. I hope things get better for you and your brother

[@phoenixrose3976]

@@cloudy772 Thx I hope it gets better too, it means a lot.

[@darthvader1085]

@@phoenixrose3976 I know it's.. 1 year late,but are you okay? How did things went?

[@PickleBeezy]

Even though I have been an out lesbian for about two years, this still made me cry. I don't know what it is like to be told gay is a sin, but I know people who have been told that. My school and family is all very accepting and open. So I would like to say- If anyone needs a shoulder to cry on, or a hand to hold, know I would totally be there. And if you have "friends" that don't accept you, leave them bitches. They don't deserve a bootiful hooman like you ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@ameliaspencer5936]

I was in love with my best friend for years and when we went into high school she came out as bi and then I told my mom the man of my dreams was a girl and sh asked who and I said my best friend and now we dating ❤️ I was hiding it from everyone for years

[@niknak9361]

I’m not full out of the closet, only my friends know. I’m bi and I’m way to scared to tell my parents and it was so hard to tell my friends but one day in French class we were all talking and someone mentioned sexuality and she said I only know straight ppl (I hadn’t told this person yet bc I wasn’t sure how they would react due to their strict upbringing but she was very supportive) and my best friend, not knowing I hadn’t told them says one of us isn’t straight tho. Mind you this is in the middle of French class (this teacher is so annoying also she doesn’t really like me) and someone else in class heard this and asked who it is and ppl are afraid of her bc she is like ‘the mean girl’ but this bitch who I’m not friends with anymore due to unrelated reason outs me in front of the whole class. And this dumbass teacher just lets everyone discuss this bc she now knows that I’m the one who is bi, usually she stops every convo so ik that shit was personal. They were very supportive of me probably bc they know I will beat them the fuck up if any bitch is homophobic. Thank fuck it was near the end of class so I pretty much ran as soon as the bell went.

[@destinyalee5120]

I have to get something off my chest after watching this. I had a pretty easy coming out story, in fact my Aunt outed me without my permission or knowledge, and she didn't even know for a fact that I was gay she just assumed and told my parents. I just want to say that it gets better. I know as teenagers we feel like our worlds are ending or that we aren't loved because of who we are but it isn't true. It's also very hard to realize that when you feel this way. But it does, it gets better; you find people who accept you and love you and it helps you begin to accept yourself. If anyone who feels the way this video portrayed him as feeling and reads this comment, please don't do anything like this. You maybe feel completely alone, or hated or unloved but I can tell you right now that is not true. If your parents or your friend or your family doesn't accept you, move on and find people who will. If they truly love you they will understand that this isn't a choice. You are loved even if you don't know it. Okay rant over lol but seriously ^.

[@MJ-se9ho]

It’s very touchable 💔 thank you for this short film

[@rileyz8917]

This video is amazing!!! We need videos like this to show what some people go through.

[@remintro3199]

"how to come out to ur parents" .... felt that

[@kaylacote5376]

This made me tear up. Powerful. ❤️

[@stringbean3089]

I'm going to be completely honest I was hella homophobic when i was younger

[@mythierror404]

Thank you. Thank you for this.

[@mythierror404]

I just want to add. I came out at the age of 30 because I felt terrified of being myself. I hid for as long as I could. The one thing I hope is for everyone to love themselves and others. We are worthy of being loved and accepted.

[@iloveyouboo5414]

so i came out to my mom on today over the phone and shay really was a big part of that , thanks

[@asmrmiller4661]

I'm scared to come out...I think I'm bi. Or lesbian. Idk. I had a nightmare that my mom kicked me out because of it but I think she's accepting. But she always makes smart remarks about gay people and my nana said gays should burn in hell. Honestly i just wanna crawl in a hole and never come out.

[@noahxx2745]

I came out to my friend today she had told me she was an LGBTQ supporter that's why I decided to come out to her as Bisexual but she basically told me that I am wrong and it's just a phase and just basically didn't support me and she told me that I was weird. I tried explaining it to her what being Bisexual means and she said she understands and supports me but she again went and said that I am weird and tried convincing me that I am straight and then she completely changed the topic and talked to me like nothing ever happened. (sorry for any errors)

[@Its_sofia_loya]

i understand how hard this can be but remember you are a human being and you have the same rights a s anyone else in a relationship also let's be honest anyone who's gay is fabulous

[@citruspunch7]

Why am I crying at the googling? My middle school self was sobbing praying for God to make me stop feeling things for other women and praying to make me straight. Jesus my fucking heart

[@lenas6436]

My coming out to my mom was actually her asking me if i liked my (female) friend because i always talked about her

[@dh1432]

So, my friend out school, likes girls. One day it hit me that I did too. Then, I said, "You know my friend ttb st likes girls?" And she said "yes" "I might like them too" and then I broke down.

[@Maddie-c9z]

When i came out as bisexual i got a lot of anonymous hate and it really discouraged me and eventually brought me to self harm :l

[@furiouswarrior1353]

This get me emotional

[@artsyjane7122]

I'm bisexual but i'm scared to tell my christian mom what if she hate me if tell i like a girl and my sister keep saying if you are gay or bisexual you will go to hell i think the only one that will except me is my father i'm so scared

[@plaenteve6673]

When I came out it was just a mess and I cried and my mum explained how straight were normal (basically saying I wasn't normal) and talked about how she wanted me to have a husband and kids which made me cry even more, but the thing I was happy about was getting it off my chest and not having to do it in the future, at the end of it all she said she loved me and that I was her daughter and she couldn't stop loving me.

[@youtubelover1311]

I am a 15 years old and a gay Christian. At my church we have a gay reverend and everyone is very open. Sadly despite being blessed with supportive friends I am very scared to come out. Everyday my dad points out girls I should date. I know coming out to my dad will disappoint him an coming out to my mom will upset her. I wish I was a normal teen. Sometimes I wish I was more feminine so it would be more obvious.

[@kristenanderson1730]

I am a member of the LGBT community. I learned for certain by the age of 13-14 somewhere. I know I am fortunate having been born in the generation of acceptance in today's society. I know I am not alone here. But I do feel alone where my family is concerned. Not because my family does not approve. No they have supported me greatly. It is simply knowing the fact I am likely the only LGBT member in my immediate family. But I am sure I am not alone in wondering how I came to be genetically.

[@dinonuggets8973]

3 people called me the slur today and I want to die bc I hate myself

[@sallypellegrini7394]

I wish I could have waited a littler longer to come out to my parents but then I emailed ( this was when I was in 7th idk why I used gmail honestly lmao) my best friend that I was gay and her mom saw and told my parents so that was fun 😅

[@briskzzzzzz]

I should send this to my sister because I came out to her last year in October and she said i should tell my mother and father and i said no and she said i don't know why you won't tell them hmmmm I wonder why I won't tell them maybe because they might be homophobic

[@Goawayplz666]

My parents were actually really ok with it and they just kinda knew about it and they told me they are ok with it and they will love me no matter what so it went very well💖🌈 I'm bisexual and transgender :)

[@eternaI.nightmare]

Max the furry I’m bisexual and transgender as well. I’m having a hard time trying to deny that I’m trans and go against it because I know how most of my family is with lgbtq+ and they all think they should burn in Hell ect i had to tell my mom I was trans and I was working up to it all day Bc I had to tell someone about it and she already knew I was bi so around 2 am we went to the kitchen to talk and it took me over 30 minutes to finally say it and I was crying the whole time and I couldn’t even say it... I had to write it and show her... she denied it asking if I knew what trans was saying I wasn’t and I told her I knew and explained that I am transgender.. she still calls me her daughter and honestly I have no idea what to do... every time she does I tell her I’m not her daughter and I even called myself her son In front of her.. she didn’t do anything. We live with her mother and I told her I was bi thinking I could trust her and I had a speech on how she thinks lgbtq+ should go to hell and stuff... so I really can’t tell her I’m trans..

[@christinaburton4099]

Thank you for sharing that was good and sad!!!

[@jumsh1811]

bro why the *FUCK* does this not have more VIEWS COMMENTS AND LIKES THIS SHIT IS THE SHIT OK

[@gianamartinez767]

This mad me cry bcuz me 2 is trying 2 find a way 2 came out and my parents bcuz they dont really support that so that that uh really um was sad and touching

[@hannahd8822]

This made me cry...

[@azadielspace1897]

I 'came out' to my sister and step dad on Facebook (agender/asexual) and all I got from them were "you can't be asexual, you can't reproduce by yourself" good thing my friends are cool and stood up for me.

[@Aaronholland2000]

I'm a Straight Christian girl. But I'm an LGBT Supporter. 100% You people need to know that I watch gay love stories more than straight stories. I support LGBT Celebrities and musicians. If I'm going to hell for that. It's fine by me.

[@ElissaM]

I'm not gay personally but when my brother came out we supported him even when he thought we didn't

[@sethleong6562]

OK here's the tea... I love the concept and idea the film was taking and yes it was partially reparable but at the same time so BASIC and the acting was not to sound rude just my opinion pretty bad and not natural in anyway possible so imma give this a 6/10

[@sethleong6562]

partially relatable*

[@Kittielover05]

my grandma was the first to know in my family and when I told her she chooses to ignore me and whenever she asked if I like any boys at school I gave her a "really" look and she would tell my grandpa "she thinks she likes girls" in a sarcastic way.and I choose not to tell my mom and my dad because they talk so poorly about gays

[@fallenroses3296]

My coming out story I still don't feel like coming out to my parents so this about my friends Ok so i had this friend names kaitlyn and I came out to her as Bi and she hugged me and then I wanted to try tell my others friends so I was explaining but didn't tell them I was bi I was so worried my friend said "want me to ask you I said yes and she asked "are you bi I said yes everyone accepted me

[@realaust]

Idk about you all but I'm in the state of trying to figure out who I am and who I want to be. :( does anybody know how to go about this?

[@oogabooga4575]

Just waiting till im financially stable

[@sophiec7353]

My friends were so understanding and u love them for that

[@elledevine4374]

This is awesome and such an important topic! Love you, keep it up!

[@EpicRealistTV]

Very well done video! I hope that you do more like this!

[@anthonyhilferink6178]

Cried...

[@carolineisntsweet]

I am Pansexual and I haven’t come out yet (well I guess I sort of am now) but I don’t know why I’m so scared to do it. I don’t personally know anyone who is against LGBTQ+ people. The people who I’m scared to come out to are all people who will most likely support me. But still, I’m way to terrified to come out. I can’t even ask anyone for advice because literally nobody knows I’m Pan. It’s getting really stressful and I just think I’m being stupid, because there isn’t anything I should be scared of at the moment, since the important people I need to come out to will all support me (I’m pretty sure). I’m getting mad at myself for no reason, and I have no idea what to do.

[@dorisuhlman7926]

Maybe try by just coming out to one person first

[@jayceeplant8111]

I came out to my parents they were fine with it but I can't tell the rest of my family

[@GangsterHivMan]

I still haven’t came out even though my mom said if I was anything that wasn’t straight she would accept me but I’m still scared

[@jazzyboy3363]

My parents (luckily)have always been okay with it. But my cousins are SUPER Christian and I have some friends of friends that are almost to homophobe level about it. I always use the excuse " I like guys" *in my mind* and girls..... Yeah I'm bisexual but barely anyone knows......so..... yeah......I feel the pain.....and I'm young too

[@kjlm4567animations]

Omg this is so sad

[@nlecamelot9483]

I’m just tryna do my history homework

[@ElissaM]

AH my heartu Love Simon was a good movie

[@plzkillme9376]

i was to scared to go see it my famely might have thought i was gay wanted to still want to

[@chxrrykoo]

you like kpop dont you (just a guess from "heartu"). also yeah it seems like it woukd be, i havent seen it yet though

[@dakotaduffer5926]

Mine was bad my mom got mad at me, and I am not aloud to talk about it, it makes me so ashamed to be pan. I wish I was normal.

[@costyhetalia]

Dont say that

[@billieeyelashhh4613]

I was good coming put to my friends as bi but now I have to come out to my family 😭

[@Hope-yd3gr]

same, i dont want to 😫😫😫

[@richgamer2259]

i haven't came out yet

[@sheba8847]

How should I come out to my parents?

[@randomcomment1358]

Bisexuals who haven’t came out yet Like this

[@yovaniarce6796]

I don't know how to come out to my parents especially because there méxican I'm very scared

[@graciescrivenss]

I cried 😭

[@braxzzzz]

Yes queen

[@cyber.creature]

Thank you for making this

[@WhySoShayD]

jay-jay thank you for watching.

[@emoafsatan5062]

I love the movie love,Simon

[@christinaburton4099]

haven''t came out to family and some friends yet to scared to :-( so I need your help please

[@WhySoShayD]

I would Start with the people you think will take it well so you have a strong support system around you. There’s honestly no right or wrong way to do it. Just go at your own pace, and make sure you put your safety first. I hope that helps. 💛

[@christinaburton4099]

thank you WhySoShayD!!!!! that does help! May I have you support to please? will you get instagram at all? Cause I want to private message you about some things. Thank you again your the best :-)

[@MariaM-rn8bn]

christina burton can u help me ?

[@gecko5892]

I m straight but those videos are very interesting

[@jessebankston6889]

None of my parents accept me... My mom especially

[@vrittidhanjani4356]

I hope they will one day. I don't know you at all but I know enough to see that everyone deserves to be accepted for who they are and not for what they should be.

[@jessebankston6889]

@@vrittidhanjani4356 thank you

[@thebigenderqueen1586]

I’m non bi pan

[@romanogaers]

Okay even if it WAS a mental illness why would you be disgusted and not try to help them? I’m sorry it’s not you who made this is just people who say that

[@Demonamic777]

The dialogue looks extremely hamfisted, not very subtle and while the emotional impact of having to cover ones tracks or backpedal is still the same it feels a little less so with how forced the dislike/hate dialogue is.

[@melmel1071]

I told my brothers a couple day before Christmas. I told them I had a plan to come out on Christmas. My older bro decided to be a dick and fuck up my plan. He said to my mum “melody has something to tell you” and I’m short I cried and texted him to tell my parents. They hugged me and went on a speech about how it’s okay and blah blah. A couple days later my mum says “are you sure it’s not a faze?” And yah. A couple months before that (like a year lol) I decided to date this kid (male. You’ll see). Anyways. That lasted 6 days. After that I came out as bi.. then literally 2 days later as gay. Then a couple months later.. they cake out as gay too. And now she’s come out as trans 😂. So I find that pretty funny. I was technically dating a straight girl all along! (Also I didn’t know what to use as pronouns for before she came out so I used they. Idk if that’s offensive but if it is I’m really sorry! I just wanted to wait until the end to spill the tea lmao)

[@Art_with_Meg16]

My name is a kayleena cantu jessica you call me kiki

[@chromaticribbon]

Okay but I love Ready Player One and there’s a whole GAY BLACK ACTRESS IN IT SO WTF BRO TALKING ABOUT “love Simon is gay” so is ready player one and ain’t nothing wrong about it 🤨🤨🤨👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

[@sophiaroye9188]

Me too