The Reasons

Insight on what causes a narcissist to become obsessed with you and stalk you?!
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[@WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd]

He was always competing with me. I use to say to him, "I didn't know that we are in a competition with each other." I see now what was going on. He was actually trying to steal my identity, my personality, and be me. It's total insanity!

[@tp324]

Sick

[@user-by4sd2jy2c]

Yes, he lived there his whole life and when I came to visit he adopted all of my habits completely. It was weird. I discarded and blocked him a year ago, due to devaluation. He calls last week saying he’s reaching out, being the better person. He’s an energy stealing deceitful loser.

[@HiddenNhisSecertPlace144]

My goodness the part hit the competing ! So wicked

[@WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd]

@@user-by4sd2jy2c It gives me the hibby jibbys whenever I think about him now. They are psychomaniacs! I cannot believe that I was married to a demon creature for over 3 decades and didn't know it.

[@WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd]

@@HiddenNhisSecertPlace144 I use to ask my children if they ever noticed how their daddy was always competing with me. They noticed it too.

[@Fire-Man713]

Narcissist are Stalkers! Lost Soul Walkers! 💯

[@ChildofLightOfficial]

Walking dead 💀

[@Jessecraft1954]

They can't be us and we don't want to be anything like them.

[@cthnc53]

Bingo

[@newnormal92]

Going no contact is really the only way. No amount of talking can explain your side of things to someone committed to always being the right one. If you wanna change, you will, it's that simple. They don't wanna change, they want us to change and accept them. Never ever ever. Need to get right with TMH before your time is up, obsess over that.

[@annenew8220]

Big stalkers with the phone. They follow their victim whereabouts. They are thieves: steak, kill, snd destroy.

[@Yahawadahhh]

Tes

[@weireffie29]

Very Disturbing and Troubling Souls

[@diana5253]

Omg! Yes, this man would take my ideas and habits and pass them off as his own. He even started eating the same things I ate, I thought I was influencing him but when I was discarded, I realized he takes on the personality of whomever he's with. He has no personality of his own, he takes from others to make a socially acceptable character. They are so pathetic!

[@cthnc53]

Right.

[@userSTAR3330]

THE REASON IS DESPERATION. 🛑NO CONTACT🛑

[@jjones4314]

I love listening to you because you always make me laugh when you describe the narc! "Backwards flying pigeons with feathers missing"! Hilarious! 😂😂😂 Thank you for all you do! You are truly a blessing to all of us narc survivors! Be blessed!

[@cthnc53]

Backwards walking giraffes

[@user-hd5fx9er8e]

😂

[@TheCurlyBeauty]

God knew to send that man 13 hours away from me. I, too, noticed he picked up my habits, and language, and just followed me around watching my every move. He mirrored me so hard. It's because he wanted to do what I was doing, be friends with my friends, and be wherever I was. His access to me gave him substance and exposure to so much. He was so shallow. It was eye-opening to see he didn't have any real substance to him. He fed off mine so much that it drained me completely. Now that I've cut him off, he has no host to feed off. He's a soul-sucking parasite.

[@cthnc53]

Yes. He really wants to be an entrepreneur and move like I move.

[@CarlaMcmillion]

"If you Rocks with your girl", Hit that like button 🥰, Your hair is Pretty ❤️🥰, Blessings to You 🙏🏾❤️

[@dezonwill33]

You ain’t never lied! My ex narcissist came into some money 2 days later she asked me to pick a date to get married I told that mut NO! And walked away a week later that nut job moved outta my house thinking I was going to chase and beg for her to come back after 3 years of no contact I find out that clown was stalking me the whole damn time! These people are truly disgusting and they honestly don’t care about them looking stupid they actually get a high from stalking… now she’s obsessed with me and my girlfriend and you can tell she has some bipolar mixed in with her narcissistic personality because one minute she acts like she’s trying to help my girlfriend with the lies about me cheating on her the next minute when that bum realize her lies ain’t working then she tries to be her enemy but we don’t pay her no attention because we know she’s a full blown coward using spam numbers to contact us

[@Yahawadahhh]

True

[@PsychicChrissyxo]

I’m going through this…. My ex makes fake accounts to talk to me and all. So creepy.

[@user-hd5fx9er8e]

He took control of my facebook account. I had to get another one in my middle name.😂

[@kathyvazquez7765]

LIKE SATAN🔫 JEALOUS OF GOD NEVERRRRRRR GONNA GET IT #ENVOUGUE GOD IS GOD ALL BY HIMSELF... IM STUTTIN" LIKE MY DADDY, ABBA FATHER... HALLELUJAH

[@wandadunlap3550]

Yes, indeed! I agree with you. They will NEVER GET IT! There is no need to waste ur time bcuz they won't hear you! No matter how many times u tell them or show them, they won't get it! I wish I had known that years ago...

[@ChanellG904]

Thanks for this video!! I believe my narc ex is preoccupied with his new supply and in my opinion isn’t thinking about me. However, he still tries to maintain control by hurting me through our children and because he had good legal resources than I did at the time of our divorce. But I find peace in knowing that God saw it all and HE will fight for me and my children.🙏🏾🙏🏾🔥

[@EButta71]

What a CUTE shirt! Also, I feel like the stalker-checking his social media etc smh I gotta get a grip and forget about him.

[@rochellemack642]

Block Yourself from MEDDLING. GET U 2,GETHER & SELF LOVE

[@bunnytaylor3868]

Dealing 😢 with a narcissist right now bout to make my exit soon as my lease up and run for the hills... narcissist also talk about the past alot look out for that yall especially when youre dating new people..iykyk!! 🚩

[@Yahawadahhh]

They do bring up the passed a lot it searched my name on the internet and found a 3 year old speeding ticket and used that information to dox and criminalize me

[@DoHisProphetsNoHarm]

That’s what I call “past-faking” they use this tactic when the future faking no longer works 😅 sad individuals. Got has us though!! God bless ❤

[@wandadunlap3550]

Thank you so much for the education, validation, and confirmation! My narcissistic ex bf has been discarded and blocked on social media! I finally realized he was never worth the heartache and asked him not to contact me again. Told him he was such a narcissist. He has tried love-bombing, hoovering, and manipulation, and none of it is working for him! He NEVER saw it coming. My last words to him were that you lost someone who was good to you and would have been a lifelong friend. I told him he would always love (in his own sick/sad way) me and think of me. I value and love myself more than ever. I guard my peace and joy above everything. He brings neither to my life. I am sure he is still wondering why. How he handles his pain is on him...I am done.

[@timsparrey7209]

Have Temporary fun... Sacrifice Permanent dreams!! Permanent Dreams.... Sacrifice Temporary fun!! STAY STRONG FAMILY! 💪 Tea you look amazing! 👏 😍 God bless all🙌 🙏 ❤️

[@rosemarieedloe2642]

That's why I have a ring camera on my door...evidences...

[@brigettejones6672]

Love your outfit !✈️

[@lagoldie9783]

Hello 👋 Ms. Telsha. I love your outfit, you look lovely! I'm glad you posted today. You make my day brighter every time you post! I pray God continues to bless you for sharing your wisdom ❤💯👑💎🙏❤️

[@user-hd5fx9er8e]

So pretty.

[@nopereradicator]

So childish he could have just told people we got divorced because we grew apart but nooooooo. He had to do his childish smear campaign and tell everyone he had to leave me….only to stalk me after that. Make it make sense.

[@1111spiritualone]

Exactly

[@Yahawadahhh]

Same thing

[@burgundieroberts135]

Same!

[@briannaennis876]

I said I’m leaving!! She help me pack!!! Then days later crying on the phone!! 😂😂😂😂😂

[@justpeachy0802]

I just wanted to say thank you for these videos. They come as a relief, a shelter from the psychological warfare inflicted on us. I find that I can't even relax enough to fall asleep unless I have your videos playing in the background. Appreciate you ❤

[@christinalyles5619]

You look amazing!!!! Miss you! Thank you for more healing content ♥️. God bless Telsha.

[@NovaPrincess]

Hello Natural Hair. Yaaas! 😍🥰❤️

[@tjetta]

Facts! I found out that my narc ex moved around the corner from me and now goes to my gym. I saw him there twice so I try to go at different times or different locations to avoid him. He hasnt done anything crazy yet but I'm expecting it. SMH Also, I'm pretty sure all the random friend requests I'm getting on social media are him too. I didnt start receiving these random ones so frequently until we broke up and I blocked him.

[@ModestMellBeauty]

Leave quietly and go no contact. Anyone that is associated with them remove them out of your life. I left this man, divorced him and still he tried calling everyone even the place where I worship. I still stayed quiet, no response! Luke 1:45❤🎉

[@annesworld4007]

I believe he has new supplies right now, I blocked him over a month ago, he tried to call me the first 2 weeks and now nothing. I just hope it stays that way

[@cthnc53]

That bird is coming back. Be strong and don’t entertain him

[@sharonstallwort8303]

I dogged the bullet we live in different states 😊

[@npjakson]

I’m grateful for that fact every day.

[@JonathanMeade-l4v]

I really didn't know nothing about this until I started educating myself. But when I heard that at first I didn't believe it by how they mirroring me but I got to thinking that's when they were nice. They were real nice. You know, and I think I was telling you that they even changed the hair like a male wig that I wear, but they were real nice so I get it. I get it. Wow it's just i'm still learning

[@goddessari3926]

You are so beautiful I love your positivity ❤❤thank you for doing these videos

[@OneWhoKnowz]

When I broke up with my ex he got his new gf hair cut like mine, he started wearing the sneakers nd the shirts I wear which is like biggie, wutang and other hip hop people from the past. He started wearing my perfume ; u heard me but the masculine version and he started talking like me and acting like me . Personality wise! That’s how they land the new supply they siphon your energy and personality and use it for a time. Tell me that’s not sick? 😂

[@arisrangel7423]

I Love your "Like that button" song❤😅 God bless you, you've helped me so much❤

[@diannekevwitch6958]

You look so pretty T!

[@shirlspark_stardust]

Hello Ms Tea and everyone don't care if the narcissist becomes obsessed no contact from me at all they are time wasters and I don't have time to deal with any of it no contact. I moved into a new place and town thank God 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@ChildofLightOfficial]

My ex was freaking me out with the mirroring. Claimed he was looking for a job on his laptop and would sit there mirroring me working from home he would rush down before me and finish at the same time as though he was working. If I moved to the table I would find him at the table the next day. Weird, it’s like they really do want your position. They always mention ‘your soul’ too that’s a dead giveaway of a narc.. soul collectors

[@DoHisProphetsNoHarm]

This!!!

[@cthnc53]

Not working but not getting paid. Crazy!

[@shirlspark_stardust]

Ms Tea rocking my nations flag Haiti 🔥🇭🇹🔥

[@createdintheimageofgod1584]

My angels are ready to tare a hole in a soul if that narc come nigh me 🤷🏽‍♀️ he think he had trauma as a child 😳 booooyyy run up and get done up by my boy Michael and Gabriell

[@21stcenturylady15]

Love it! 😆

[@undergod8666]

Amen YESSSSSSS the mirroring more on that topic 😢❤❤

[@JavonJiVereen]

You are soo beautiful ❤ beautiful inside and out! God is great!

[@exploringnext1111]

Beautiful outfit...Patriotic

[@wakeupmypplone6394]

I like your hair like that the best. You look gorgeous sis.

[@WomanofGod-jc4cj]

YESSSSS. THAT IS SO TRUE. YOU'RE HITTING THE NAIL ON THE HEAD QUEEN

[@powerdynamics4life]

Love the hair Telsha🙏🏾💖🙏🏾💖

[@lagoldie9783]

👋❤️ Great Video Ms. Telsha!

[@risinggoddess559]

THANK YOU MS T. FOR THE ENLIGHTENMENT.

[@britneywalker3566]

Love the message and your top, too cute!❤

[@kurtrinamckinnon4214]

This is nothing but Truth!!

[@tp324]

Thank you beautiful 💖

[@sancho.darwin]

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[@Columbia712]

Hey Telsha, you look so pretty!

[@Xyzxyz-pl1jv]

What a beautiful blouse❤

[@lovehonesty]

Looking so cute as always!

[@Sabrielaaa888]

You're beautiful 💜💜💜 new subscriber

[@daynesmith5281]

I totally think it's desperation its like different sides where two women are trying to pull you on there sides trying all the tricks in the book crazy making tactics etc etc its very toxic and they expose themselves cause they don't got any attributes that you find attractive or want thet just in it for the lust yet wen u were grafting all them twenty years they were not showing no luv especially this fake love I c from them they don't know wat love is

[@hawawiamel2945]

You looks gorgeous today Telsha... Love you from Libya ❤

[@motivationalteachermissh9108]

Beautiful blouse❤

[@naomirose6910]

Make it plain!!!!! 👏👏👏

[@burgundieroberts135]

My ex-husband seems to know EVERY move that I make, when I don’t even tell him anything. It’s scary. I truly do feel like he’s watching me. He told me the other day “I know more than you think I do.” We have a child together, so that’s the only reason I still deal with him.

[@lisarubi3576]

You are awesome lady

[@Adelinagoodbody]

You are cool mate ❤🇦🇺

[@MM-so6sd]

One of my brothers is like this with me. Dam I am his sister. We never been close and all of my brothers dislike me and so does our mother. I am the only female in the our family. My brother is PURE EVIL, the devil himself. He will hurt you on purpose for no reason.

[@melj3880]

I remember when my narcissistic X husband told me that he wish he had 3 different kids other than the ones he has. That was the most shocking thing I’ve ever heard… How could a father get to think such things about his own flesh. Your children are your blood and every normal person would fight for and love theirs kids unconditionally but for the narcissist it’s different. So shameful. I was so sad for those girls and since I’ve been in this relationship with that man I’ve been telling him to take care of his children. To stop neglecting them because he divorced their mother. Lies lies lies 10 years of lies cheating mental abuse and the list could go on and on. This man ruined my mental health, my physical health my finance, he even boycotted my children’s life , their education. He tried everything to break us down but we are alive still. Thank God. 2 days ago he tried to call the police for his own daughters and I stood up for them saying that I’ll tell the truth to the police if ever he does so. I feel so much shame for falling in love with such horrible person…in fact a monster. But I didn’t know.

[@wandadunlap3550]

So SAD that he would think such a thing, but to say it out loud to you was just plain cruel! I hope that ur daughters seek counseling for their own mental health and well-being. I pray that they are able to forgive their father not for him but for themselves to be free. God bless you and ur daughters always.❤🙏🙌👏🏼

[@11216mel]

You look so beautiful and blessed ❤

[@tazakmazak6332]

I rocks with the girl

[@NoCappingSportsLegend]

Question if a narcissist thinks that they finished you off and destroyed you will they leave you alone

[@TbAa-ym9pj]

No shots but no shiet😢 good one

[@NoCappingSportsLegend]

@@TbAa-ym9pj wish she do a video on this my ex narcissist did me extremely dirty

[@burgundieroberts135]

I believe this is true. They want to see you broken all the way down! Don’t let them do it!

[@NoCappingSportsLegend]

@@burgundieroberts135 I won’t but the situation is tougher if you have a child with them

[@pjdavis4420]

O wow this happened to me I cut her off for cheating she started stalking me with her new supply at the same hotel me her use to always go to to be spiteful n hurt me don't get me started on social media

[@animatedblueproductions]

Your outfit is fire! 🎉

[@FREEATLAST-7]

Hello and they stalk the comment section

[@user-vj2sn7vv5s]

I wonder if this also applies to Women friendships, I feel like my Friend is a Covert Narcissist and even though we were best friends in Elementary school , she was self centered back then, now that I reflect and she seems to be the same way , we seperated and went down our own paths. and later reconnected a couple years ago and it seems she is a covert narcissist as well. I just get a weird awkward vibe around her and with conversations , she seems sooo controlling . I can be very comedic sometimes and when I am she does not like it and I am truly a funny person and its not in a rude way either, its like when I am myself she does not like it, but when She is talking or anything she is doing , its the best thing since sliced bread. Its weird. And we are 45 years old,

[@WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd]

Oh yeah... She sounds like the Poster Child for a Narcissist. I would silently disappear from her. The creatures are sick puppies.

[@rochellemack642]

Low key HATER

[@CarlaMcmillion]

@@user-vj2sn7vv5s Narcissistic females are jealous and envious of others peoples happiness, I had a so called friend like that yrs. ago, I cut all ties with her, very mean and miserable! They are a special kind of crazy too😂

[@luvbug7179]

❤❤❤

[@kelli2643]

❤❤❤y r u so freakn pretty

[@michellefiery739]

Have you watched any videos of “Princella the Queen Maker”? What are you thoughts on her perspectives? ✨🌴💕

[@1111spiritualone]

Even if they discard you?

[@Terri302]

Yep the discard is a setup..

[@ebearscanada1302]

I had to leave the country🚫

[@marcusxsara8896]

L❣️🤎E🤍💙

[@seeminglyunaware]

T, I am wracking my brain on this one. Why do they believe they can be us? A friend told me it was a lie of the enemy, and that is the most satisfying response so far, but honestly, it sounds absurd that they really believe this 🤍

[@Megan-f2t]

❤❤❤

[@Megan-f2t]

I renounce those emojis