THE SAD REALITY OF A TIRED HOUSEWIFE WITHOUT A HOUSE-HELP | STARTING LIFE ALL OVER ...

[@chiomaindiana]

Watching your video now just made me cry in the office The struggle we go through in the hands of Nannie’s is just alarming My nanny just stopped work this morning… no pre information or communication Just sent me a message that she’s traveling to one of her aunties place and for that won’t continue again.. I have a toddler and a 5months baby. With my 9-5 how do I even cope . Today has just been crazy but I will be fine regardless.. weldone mama all will be fine

[@elizabethjohndouglasakelem5575]

I've had 5 helps in the space of 9 months. I've discovered that no matter how good you are to them, they don't just pay back with goodness. Most of them envy the life you have and start behaving funny. Now I stick to having cleaners that comes in the morning and leave after work. You'll be fine mama. I totally relate to your struggle because I have 2 little kids too.b

[@judithurevbu.]

I can totally understand! I tell people that there’s no shame changing your helps till you find the one that is everything you want with a good heart. My last helps were really nice to me as I was to them, but the ending was not so great, in all they did a good job and now it’s time for everyone to move on. You on the other hand?! Wow! Just wow! Kudos to you!!!!🙌🙌🙌 cus these kids have shown me pepper 😂😂

[@TOPNOTCHHR-ke5nv]

So we all do these and go through practically the same things? Well done, Juddy. God bless all mothers ❤

[@ifeomas_depot]

Same issue I'm having now. I really want to send her away but she keeps begging that she doesn't want to go to the village again.

[@simplyoge1]

This is my reality with 2 kids. It's extremely draining, doing the house chores, cooking, and taking care of everyone without help . You will get through this sis. Sending virtual hugs🫂

[@judithurevbu.]

Wow!!! So many strong women here in my community. I’m so lucky to have you all. Reading this on a very tired night and it is helping boost my morale for tomorrow . Thank you for being here 🥹🥹🤍🤍

[@simplyoge1]

With all the stress, you still gave us angles. Take your flowers nne🌹🌹🌹

[@judithurevbu.]

I mean you guys are part of me too so I have to give you the best 😂😂

[@GodxTracy]

So proudddd of you, Judith! So proud of how you've taken it on the chin and you're pushing through quite nicely. See how Andre and Ava are still looking so so good - a testament to your effort. May God give you the strength to keep holding down the forte until you find new helps. Amen. 🤲🏻

[@Stephanie_551]

Girl I can relate to the joy of cooking small meals, cooking for 7 people everyday gets tiring. You’re doing great, someone good will come along ❤❤

[@judithurevbu.]

Oh yes!! I love it so much 😂😂. It’s so relieving honestly. Thank you. I’m praying for a good one bestie 🤍🤍

[@anitablessing3654]

Hey mama, have never commented on your videos before, i've been a silent fan but seeing you struggle with these kids, can't help but just send my ❤ to you and also to let you know that you are a very strong woman and you are doing well and i am rooting for you.....though, i am not married yet but was just thinking is this what i will face when i finally get married and also have kids too😂😂 But all in all, it's the joy that comes with motherhood that matters Pls be good, a good help will come along soon

[@GodxTracy]

A strong, beautiful woman who is marvelously helped by God. God bless you and keep you going. 💕

[@IamDamiinii]

Your a great mom And you’re doing your best, that’s all that matters. I pray God continues to strengthen you. I’ll love your videos and I’ll keep supporting ♥️ Sending you so much love♥️

[@judithurevbu.]

Amen!! Thank you for your support. KZbin is my comfort place to rant, so it feels good to know you’re rooting for me 🥹🤍🤍

[@anoruochioma]

The laying down Ava with skill got me 😂 Hopefully you will get to find a better nanny ❤

[@judithurevbu.]

Like how is that girl a baby?! I sometimes forget 😂

[@vivianreginalds]

Take your flowers mama; it’s how you still found time to film and edit despite the stressful family situation you are experiencing. you’d get a good nanny who’d love your kids like theirs soon🤗 I know how exhausting it feels; I’m currently searching for a replacement for my live-in nanny who suddenly became disrespectful and aggressive. I’m glad my day time nanny is sooo good and has worked with us since I had my first child in 2021. Just try to get some rest when the kids sleep at night & remember to monitor the new one you’d find when you do. Nothing is as irritating as finding it a nanny is aggressive towards the kids, what then are you doing as a nanny? It is well. Enjoyed watching ❤

[@matildaloveth3082]

You’re doing a really good job with managing your home, nice vlog dear

[@judithurevbu.]

Thank you so much 🥹🤍🤍

[@cynthiaokechukwu4084]

Hollup!!! The other lady from your last grocery haul has left too?? Oh my!! It must be so stressful and exhausting for you. Weldone mama

[@judithurevbu.]

I miss her 😔😔 but she had to go 💔

[@chicecil7240]

Well done mama! You are amazing

[@judithurevbu.]

Thank you for being here 🥹🤍🤍

[@amaratheblogger]

The teddy part got me😭😭😂 You’ll be fine Judith, you’re doing a great job❤

[@judithurevbu.]

We gotta improvise sis 😂

[@catherineakinwale]

I laughed 😂😂😂 like I was praying for her not to wake up 😂😂

[@toksakinyemi7350]

Kai sorry about that sis. Used to have two as well earlier this yr . Then I was down to none and I had to travel for work. I was torn!!! But I got a good one later. Na so we Dey see am ooo. It’s one of those things. I hope ur 2nd ddnt leave cos d 1st help left sha. Na collab.

[@Natandfam]

Story of my life, I've never had any helps because of fear of stories I've heard and seen, i have a toddler and a newborn,a boy and a girl and it has not been easy,the Lord is my strength and He will strengthen you too😊❤

[@judithurevbu.]

Wow!!! You guys are strong oh!!! I couldn’t have done that 🥹, but in this phase I’m winging it. It’s loving and tiring at the same time🥹

[@chidinmaemmanuella2714]

You are doing so well❤! One day at a time ❤

[@judithurevbu.]

Yes bestie. One day at a time. That’s what I tell myself daily 🤍

[@Gracey_spa_and_beauty_place]

This has been my reality since this year started It’s not easy at all I must say I just relocated to Abuja now hoping to get one very soon

[@demunah]

Big ups to you mama, you can try putting some milk in the cereal next time just as you would cornflakes, I bet Ava and Andre will love it .❤️

[@doyinogunkunle94]

So sorry you have to do all of this,but then it's gonna be okay and fun ponding with the kids too you are doing so good ❤❤❤❤

[@judithurevbu.]

Thank you bestie. Yes it’s actually good bonding time but I’ve got work too! So we bond 23 hours in a day 😂😂

[@toksakinyemi7350]

Exactly. U learn more and discover new stuff.

[@doyinogunkunle94]

@@judithurevbu. Enjoy it while it last dearie good nanny will soon come,but you re actually doing a good job feeding your nanny and all the good stuff am sure better one is coming

[@preshysylver7099]

This is what I go through everyday, and they are boys 3yrs and 1year old it's not easy I have never had a help, it's so stressful 😢 hopefully u get a good help.

[@judithurevbu.]

You have never had a help?! Omg!!! Look at how strong you are!! I could never 😩 is there a reason why you haven’t?

[@preshysylver7099]

@@judithurevbu. I feel no can take care of my kids like I do, there are things my kids would do and I will over look because they are just being kids but I fear a help won't over look and just pour out their frustrations on my kids so I decided to just face it but sincerely it's draining, i put everything on hold because of them hopefully I get to do the things I love to do again😊.

[@judithurevbu.]

⁠​⁠@@preshysylver7099you’re right. No one can take care of your kids and have that much patience like you can. You putting everything on hold shows so much strength! And I know for sure that you will achieve all you dream of in the right time. Good job mama. I’m rooting for you too 🥹🥹🤍🤍

[@toksakinyemi7350]

This is why I over respect our abroad content creator mummies.

[@favorbraide]

I enjoyed watching this vlog ❤ I pray you receive Strength 😊

[@DeLois.]

Judith, you are a strong woman, you will be fine. Why not get another help or helps

[@judithurevbu.]

Thank you Bestie. Well it’s not easy finding a good one. So many factors to consider. I will explain it in the next vlog. 🤍🤍

[@toksakinyemi7350]

That one too is a hard thing to

[@DeLois.]

​@@judithurevbu.I guess 😢. The lord is your strength. How is Ava and Andre?

[@chiomajudith8351]

Ah ahhh upon how good you were to them😢. So sorry Dearie. You'll get a hold of things till better Help comes.

[@judithurevbu.]

Thank you namesake. These ones were good too to us as we weren’t them. but we couldn’t take some things. Anyhoos I believe I’ll find another good one too

[@chiomajudith8351]

@@judithurevbu. You will definitely find. Just matter of time.

[@ifeyinwanwaoha]

Its the way you crawled out of the bed like spider woman for me😂 i can relate!😂 well done Judith, you've got this!❤️

[@judithurevbu.]

If anyone had screamed or my phone rang, I would have cried! 🤣😂😂.

[@EuphemiaEze-v6o]

Hello pretty judi and her amazing squad ❤

[@judithurevbu.]

Oh hiya 🥹

[@ifeomas_depot]

I've told myself that if this my live-in help leaves, I'm done with live-in helps. I'll just employ a live out help so help me God. All I pray for is good health.

[@yasminyakeen9710]

Sorry for the stress mama You got this Hopefully you can find someone to take some stress of you soon

[@judithurevbu.]

Thank you. I’m kinda taking my time looking for one, as I study my kids some more. But a good and kind person I pray to find soon

[@true_worshippers]

The teddy part got me😂 That may just be the perfect use of teddy bears Welldone ma❤

[@ijeomaloveth8340]

Weldone momma sending 🤗

[@judithurevbu.]

Thank you bestie, I need it

[@Natandfam]

9:48 sorry for laughing but this part got me😂😂😂 Teddy acting as mommy That's how i used to crawl out too, nahhhh, motherhood aint easy😂❤

[@judithurevbu.]

Not me laughing so hard and putting Ava to sleep AGAIN while reading this 😂 guess all mamas are crawlers! 😂😂

[@I.am.His.007]

My mom and many of my aunties thought this would be their life too until they found themselves in the US. I don’t know a single person with a house help or legit baby sitter so they do everything alone. I pray God will give u the strength to continue and hopefully if u want you’ll find help soon ❤

[@toksakinyemi7350]

Hahahaha…I have the exact same microwave. I screamed when my hubby bought it.

[@ogomsseries]

It's really exhausting keeping up with the homefront. Welldone sis.

[@judithurevbu.]

Tell me about it! It’s exhausting and draining but we gotta do what we must 🤍

[@janedaniels7618]

😂😂😂😂forgive me laughing but the teddy acting like a human got me so bad…..some skills u gat there 👌!

[@talkwithValerie.]

9:42 Omo 😅 Well done Yummy mummy ❤❤❤

[@bolou_ere16]

It's so sad that no matter how kind someone is they can still be taken for granted.

[@judithurevbu.]

True. We should still be nice regardless of how people take it

[@dear_purity]

You were so good to them But I thought it was one that had to go From your IG story

[@judithurevbu.]

Sis yes I was and they were also good to me. The domestic violence was the IG story 😂 the other one left to get her life started. I wish both of them Goodluck in their endeavors. So here we are 😂

[@Maris_space]

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[@judithurevbu.]

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[@hidanlearn]

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[@judithurevbu.]

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[@toviaaustin]

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[@judithurevbu.]

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[@77derya77]

So sorry for you. Damn those who forced you to have kids….

[@UmuMohammed-g7f]

Helllooo

[@judithurevbu.]

Hola

[@kelechiokeke1950]

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