The Secret That Keeps a Man Interested

[@travelfoodielove]

Damn ya so on point

[@_palak_malviya_]

Cat string concept:- 1. Don't spend too much time with him. Stay busy. 2. Learn to say no. Yes is boring. 3. Have girls only night. 4. Let him do his thing. Don't crawl around him. 5. Learn to be independent.

[@loverich3380]

Why can’t we go to the old days that love and dating are not this complicated and games.

[@kathleencohen5485]

Ladies, be genuinely busy with your own life and your own interests! Be happy and be independent! PEACE. ;-)

[@tinawashington2325]

Why does there have to be a mind game and confusion

[@jeanettebuzaz6911]

I have been researching "things that attract men" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - t.co/6k08LOlz0j Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my mate got amazing results with it.?

[@nicolebrowne3632]

I can’t keep any man interested . No matter what way i try it never works . You give him space and don’t show your being needy it doesn’t Work , you show your interest and they back off. I’m so over trying to get a mAn it’s to much game playing and bs. To much work ...

[@AmyNorthDating]

Sorry to hear about that. Don't worry someone better is destined to be with you.

[@davidlafleche1142]

A real man wants commitment, and a fulfilling purpose in life.

[@sudha2006]

Hes just not into you gurl.

[@becky2235]

I know how you feel hun,and your beautiful,us normal woman haven't got a chance!

[@drkingsley2422]

There is a way to get men interested in you without too much effort

[@jamesskinnercouk]

Basically have interests and you become interesting. Over time you develop with your interests and this is what keeps us interested in you (we liked the real you to begin with because of the things that you were drawn to).

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for dropping by, James! I appreciate your input! :)

[@jamesskinnercouk]

Amy North you're welcome.

[@sarahcole_ann]

I have been looking on KZbin for quite some time for relationship advice. I came across one of your videos and it was so helpful. I started to watch many other videos of yours and they were amazing and super helpful! thank you so much!!

[@AmyNorthDating]

You're too nice, Sarah! :) Thank you for your kind words. I'm glad you find my videos helpful! :)

[@daniell6816]

Shout out to the cat footage.

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for dropping by, Daniel! :)

[@becky2235]

I wish I'd seen this video years ago! My situation is My boyfriend of 3 years,that I've done everything for, well he cheated (he says we were on a break but really I was waiting for him to call or txt because I'd been seriously unwell, I was in I.C.U in hospital and I told him so and not once did he ask how I was,so I waited to see how long it would take him to call,he took this as a "break") during the "break" he paid a prostitute £25 for oral sex. His description of it was we weren't together and this girl would have had to go to the city centre and sell her body if she didn't get the money from him.as if he was doing it for some moral reason! If I bring it up he just says I know I shouldn't have ever told you! I then had to go through the indignity of a S.T.D. Check. He owes me over a £1000 and kept saying he's going to pay me back,but can afford a prostitute.ive never once had a Xmas, Valentine's, or birthday card from him despite sending all of the above to him and presents on those occasions,he just says sorry I'm skint. His own mother warned me about him, I told him it hurts me when he doesn't get me cards for those occasions,he says he got me something for xmas but I'm still waiting,it will be February soon. He says he can't send me my Xmas present because he spent the money on beer. That's his ONLY interest getting drunk and sexting (granted it's a long distance relationship) So why do I find it so hard to walk away? I don't want too,but it's like he's lost interest,he's gone from ringing me 8-10 times a day to maybe twice a week, sometimes less. what do I do to get him back? He was so into me at first,I'd just come out of a bad realtionship and he was like a breath of fresh air,he made the first moves and he actually begged and cried when he wanted me to visit him for the first time..now very little interest except now and again. Also he has been suddenly mentioned that he wants a baby! And that it's a deal breaker for him if I want to or not! Why can't he go back to being the man I met first off? Kind, charming, REALLY loving and thoughtful? I've tried making him "chase me" like the kitten with a ball of wool,and it resulted in him being with a prostitute. Were long distance,I went to visit him just before Xmas and it cost me £50 to get there and the prostitute text him all night,I say there bored and he was passed out drunk! When he's himself he's great but it's impossible to be any kinder and understanding to someone! Any tips on how to get him to how he was at first,? When he'd be more himself? Any advice would be really appreciated Thank you

[@michaelmannon611]

I am a man, and I do not enjoy the chase, the hunt, or the game. I would much prefer a woman who was straight up with me, didn't play games and was completely honest with how she interacts with me. If any woman tried to do this technique with me, I would let her go, and keep looking for an honest woman that didn't play games. But since most women these days seem to have their hearts set on playing these games, I have decided to just forget about them altogether and just go my own way. Where have all the good women gone?

[@DianaRoseYanni]

Michael Mannon but a lot of men get bored and lose interest when they don't feel the chase and thrill anymore... sad but true

[@michaelmannon611]

Diana Rose, It would be nice if there was a way that the honest women who don't like to play the game could find honest men who don't like to play the game and be able to proceed from there, i don't know how feasible that is, but i am just so disgusted with the entire dating situation and the game players out there, men and women, that i have just given up.

[@DianaRoseYanni]

Michael Mannon totally agree with you!!!

[@dbedazzling1]

All men thinks this is what they want. Talk when you have it n then well know

[@fifinana1000]

Michael Mannon normal ladys still exist just stopped looking, because they are tired of the players 😊 Regards

[@Jayna-xy3jw]

+Amy north I have a question. I've always behaved, naturally, the way you recommend in your videos. Ever since I was a young teen. I've been just the right amount of interested and standoffish, never ever clingy. I always do my thing, let him do his thing. I've had 4 relationships last more than a year, my longest being 7. Now I'm single in 2017 and the entire world changed. The men do NOTHING. They put on zero effort. And if you try to back off and see if they make a move, they don't and they're gone. Could you maybe address this new phenomenon ? Please???!

[@mitchellvong]

Jayna1286 No offence, but a guy who doesn't put in any effort into a relationship is simply using you for the "fun" stuff. By your comment, a shallow guy would typically see you as that cool, passive girl who they wouldn't mind having a relationship with, but not someone they wanna keep and marry. Some guys just have a relationship just because they want "Experience". It's shallow, but guys are absolute idiots when it comes to these type of things. It's unfortunate that you met people like that, but a guy who would make effort in a relationship is definitely a keeper. Just make sure to not friend zone guys and you'll find a man who makes you feel special romantically.

[@KS-nc7mm]

Pewent Jr The irony is that they still depend on women - their mommies.

[@joyceschotsborg3072]

Jayna1286 it's called Tinder, more attention with less effort. U don't like my way well there's enough on the internet

[@pamelabell6855]

ibrahim javed I actually agree....this is game playing I don't do games if a guy isn't interested then they're not interested, learn self love, contentment, independence, self respect and confidence the right guy will come along....the problem is that women think guys are stupid and fall for this shit they don't they see through it and drop you

[@jullietprincess3012]

Lol..I disagree

[@kopaskutq]

Thank you, Amy. This is what I needed to hear. I have recently been having these issues in my relationship but I will take your approach on.

[@AmyNorthDating]

You're welcome, Lucy! I hope you'll overcome these issues in your relationship. Don't forget to subscribe for more helpful tips! ;-)

[@lifestoryguy]

You know speaking as a guy, this is the same advice other dating coaches give men about women. They even use the cat analogy to suggest that women are like cats. If you think about it, if a guy follows this advice and treats his girlfriend like a cat, and the girlfriend also takes this advice and treats the guy like a cat, won't the relationship just implode? Perhaps "The Game", such as it is, is actually part of the reason relationships are so fragile these days. In the past, people got married for other reasons than mere physical attraction. Perhaps there's something to be said for just getting an arranged marriage and learning to love a stranger over time rather than trying to find that elusive "One" that's your idea of the perfect guy or woman. Just a thought. But hey, do what makes you happy. There's a thrill in the chase, even if the ball of string might not be worth it in the end.

[@khedachamwarura7029]

Eish ,thanx for saying this, i was wondering why man behavior like this ,these days, haibo ,we tired of eir behavior of hard to get, ey want us to be looking for em aswel, while ey are hungry for our love, and as a woman with famine energy it's hard to deal with.relationship advice is kak these days, pipo should do what does with themselves otherwise ey will destroy eir relationships

[@pixsiedoll2341]

Hello amy. How to keep a man interested in Long distance or online dating.

[@Meyouletsgo]

pixsie doll yes Amy plz ! Online dating texts and befor emeeting process

[@babye2895]

pixsie doll i wanna know that too!

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi pixsie! Have a look at these videos about online dating and long distance relationship: kzbin.info/www/bejne/sH-wdKebmJhneaM and kzbin.info/www/bejne/iX3amHiZlt6sY9U. There are more helpful videos on my channel so don't forget to subscribe to keep you updated! :)

[@simplyshanice2127]

Why would you online date?

[@arnokemp3723]

Besides saucy and sexy messages, try to make yourself invincible through what you say and not say. Focus on asking him about his day, the thungs he likes and doesn't like, rather than telling him about you. Use filters before you type and press enter. He must be excited about your next chat or phone call. Follow up on things he said in previous chats, and also be atuned to his message tones, his voice and subtle nuances that can reveal his feelings or moods. Use the gift of your 6th sense and do NOT ask 'what's wrong' or do guess work about his feelings. Be straight but kind.

[@v4veniseswright287]

She is telling the truth I used to do this FYI ladies never stop the cat concept

[@AmyNorthDating]

I appreciate the support, Melissa! Don’t forget to subscribe to keep you updated on my new videos! ;-)

[@indisingh9460]

I'm trying to be that good friend to him so I'm thankful to you along with your videos Ms North

[@AmyNorthDating]

I appreciate your support!

[@indisingh9460]

Yes I'll forever support you Ms North

[@bhavnacreates7205]

Hey amy, but it is said that we should show a man that he is needed...because not needing him is a slow death for him...as written in the book THE MAN ARE FROM MARS AND WOMEN FROM VENUS..please clear this...

[@surlycurly9970]

am so happy to be in part of your channel I learn more things.thank you amy

[@AmyNorthDating]

You're welcome, cynthia! :) Thank you for the support! :)

[@ErinDavila76]

This makes sense why men chase me and stalk me all the days of my life. I have zero interest in them lol

[@jeanqin869]

TBH. I'm just the type of girl who you mentioned in your video. I really think that I've done these 5 tips in my every relationships. But still, it didn't workout.

[@AmyNorthDating]

You just haven't met the right guy yet, Yunyi. Sometimes you have to kiss a few frogs to find your prince charming. ;-)

[@KingTairun]

Men are more direct than women, most men don't like playing games (the chase) don't be afraid to ask first or make the first move, you will stand out and you will show that you know what you want. Sounds like cliche but be yourself, find interesting things that you both can do together and have fun it is not that hard its really easy that chase thing and be hard to get makes all way more complicated that it should be. As result man who put the effort in the whole process might even give up.

[@marcosrosales739]

she is wrong dont listen that crap

[@davidlafleche1142]

What are your interests?

[@aspengrey1898]

@@KingTairun that means the man was never in love in the first place. A relationship where a woman is the driver is bound to crumble. I'm no longer the type of a lady who runs her life solely in a relationship. There many things to do. A busy schedule can make one forget this boyfriend completely. Just think about him for one minute and then you continue your productivity.

[@abbygarcia4633]

Hi Amy, i really want to know how I can keep my boyfriend interested if I live with him. I know all this is true because he's told me himself but what if we live together ? Please give me some advice I would really love it. Thank you !

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi Abby! It would help if you also have time for yourself to do other activities. You don't always have to do things together. Try to take up a hobby, enroll in classes or spend time with your friends.

[@ehe7376]

OMG I was knocking me head before you asked me to do so in the video😂 I love you Amy North!

[@AmyNorthDating]

Awesome! 😁 Thanks for watching my video, E He! Don't forget to subscribe so you won't miss any new videos! ;-)

[@ehe7376]

Amy North already did so 😘 love you girl

[@ukyultimate6812]

Whenever I I try to do my things myself, my boyfriend says that I am avoiding him and making out time to be with another guy and always as though is not his business. But if I am aways available for him, he begins to act like he doesn't want me anymore

[@AmyNorthDating]

That is a toxic behavior and unhealthy in a relationship. Thanks for watching and I hope you find my video helpful. If it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t done so yet, please like, share and subscribe to my channel to keep you updated on my new videos. I’d really appreciate your support!

[@HokieGrad2013]

So I had 2 dates with this guy, great connection both physical and mental. We made plans for the following weekend and he stopped contacting me. On Monday, he texted and said he was sorry and that he wasn't ready for a committed relationship but still wanted to be friends. The feelings are so clearly there and I don't want to give up on it yet. We still text occasionally and I try to keep it light. But how do I encourage those romantic feelings as well as encourage the friendship, without putting pressure on him? Supportive without smothering. He has a lot of pressure from family and life, I want to be there to help without being overwhelming.

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi Rachel Rice! Thanks for watching my video! I have covered this extensively in my Text Chemistry program so you might want to pick up a copy or at least watch the full video presentation on my website: www.coachnorth.com/texting

[@michellenorment6696]

Hello Amy i really dont know how to keep a man i run them away all the time.. when they get get on my nevers..

[@126tritonave]

Michelle Norment lol

[@AmyNorthDating]

I think you just haven't met the right guy yet, Michelle. :)

[@michellenorment6696]

Amy North u soo rite the men just lie all the time..

[@melissaebarb3116]

Thank you so much for doing this. You really are awesome! Do you have any advice concerning the way to kiss a man?

[@AmyNorthDating]

You're welcome, Melissa! :) I hope you find my tips helpful! I'll try to make a video about that topic, so please don't forget to subscribe to keep you updated! ;-) Quick advice though, it's only normal to be awkward on your first kiss with a guy. You have to find your rhythm and take note of how he responds to certain kissing styles so you know what to avoid or continue doing. ;-)

[@Suz562]

This is a great video Amy! Awesome dating advice to keep the chase alive.

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for watching, Suz! :) Don't forget to subscribe for more helpful tips!

[@nishattarannum7906]

Hi amy hope you r fine few days back my in law forced me to divorced my husband now we are divorced...but day by its getting harder for e to survive without him...I really want him back in my life ....please tell me which video should I follow to get him back in my life ...even I want to buy your book I live in Bangladesh 🇧🇩 can u pls tell me how will I get it ...please help me

[@AmyNorthDating]

Sorry to hear about the divorce. I would suggest you search for Brad Browning's breakup video: www.coachnorth.com/breakups

[@sabrinagreen7620]

Hello, Amy! Me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months now, and I can feel us drifting apart. We have lived together since day one of our relationship because of severe circumstances. We are now acting like an old married couple, we feel we have stopped showing love to each other and we want to fix it because we love each very much. But we don't know how. Help please.

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi Sabrina! How about you try to follow the tips in this video? You can live together, but try to do some things apart.

[@jacquelinemolloy2977]

What about when you live with them. How do you keep the spark. I love my hubby but I kind of miss the 1st year honeymoon period.

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hey Jacqueline! Here's my video about bringing the spark back in a relationship: kzbin.info/www/bejne/f2LNqIdpotlrors I hope you find this helpful! :)

[@lissettemartinez8100]

Thanks Amy for your vedios... I've learned alot of what im doing wrong & what I'm doing right. There was a guy who was very interested in me until i told him how i felt ...i told him my feelings for him was much stronger then just liking him..then for some odd reason he pulled away but not to much..i tottaly thought i did something wrong to the point that i thought i was gonna lose him for good...so i started doing that keeping myself busy & kinda not texting or calling as much & for some odd reason thats when he started texting me. When i received his first texted after i started being distant i was shocked...so its true about the facts that men are like a cat.

[@AmyNorthDating]

You're welcome, Lissette! :) Glad you find my videos helpful. Don't forget to subscribe for more helpful tips! ;-)

[@79Luckyme]

My husband has been drifting out of our marriage and shutting down. How do I? Can I? pull him back into our relationship , when he seems to have stopped caring for me. we have been married 7 years and have a 5 yr old daughter together. please help if you can.

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi 79Luckyme! Have a look at this video to bring the spark back in your relationship: kzbin.info/www/bejne/f2LNqIdpotlrors You can also check my friend Brad Browning's KZbin channel and website mendthemarriage.com/video/female/ for more in-depth advice for married couples. :)

[@WowFan991]

Thanks Amy. I believe this applies to women as well.

[@AmyNorthDating]

You're welcome, WowFan991! :) Don't forget to subscribe for more helpful tips! ;-)

[@imane_Karouach]

What's is his in different Far city.. Then how to keep distance.. If I take a weekend trip to go and meet how can I keep distance ?

[@AmyNorthDating]

If you mean how to make your long distance relationship last, have a look at this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/iX3amHiZlt6sY9U

[@cari4723]

if i show him my independence it won't make him feel I don't need him? and he loses his interest about me? because I can do all by myself?

[@saundragabriela9512]

Hello Amy! We live together but now he s mad at me, doesn't kiss me, doesn t talk much with me, all because my jealousy fights. Long story short, he made some new friends recently, some girls and i got really jealous, overreacted, fight with them as well, told them to stop meeting but the result is exactly the opposite. They keep talking and hanging out. But he still have activities with me as well and told me to stay and all he wants is no more fights. I can't deal with his new friends no more bc all i tried did exatcly the oposite. i was a bit agressive in talking with them. he keeps telling me to chill and proove him i am cool and different. instead i became needy as hell bc i am jealous. i don t know how to fix things anymore.

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hey Saundra! I think you need to gain your confidence back. Being insecure and needy will only push him away. Do try to spend time with your friends as well or better yet take up a hobby or enroll in a class so that you will have less time to spend on being jealous and clingy.

[@jadebellphotographyandvide7638]

my boyfreind said to me a few days ago he 'cares about me so much that he would fight an army for me' but the next thing he said is he wants to end things.... can you maybe explain this? give me tips to get him back?

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi Jade! Have a look at this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/gn-nqX-LoqqZlZI You may find it helpful! :)

[@portiaqhuqha1447]

research ...narcissistic personality disorder

[@afrahmegha1846]

Amy, sometimes i send him some loving type message, sometimes he gives reply. Sometimes doesn’t. When he doesn’t reply in love mixing text, he takes some hours break & then text me with different topic. What does it mean? What should i do then?? Help me, please😥

[@AmyNorthDating]

It's hard to give a proper advice without knowing more details. How long have you been together?

[@afrahmegha1846]

Amy, we're not in a relationship. I know him since 1year.

[@chipomatsikure5878]

How about when he is the one dependent on you when doing stuff.......... And never does anything for me because he knows I'm independent but you know even when you are independent it's nice to have him treat you like you need him

[@AmyNorthDating]

Being an independent woman is empowering, but if a man is dependent on you for everything, then that's not a good sign, Chipo! When men are comfortable with the relationship, they tend to relax and be complacent thinking that everything is okay with you. In this case, it would be best to discuss these thoughts and feelings with him so he would understand and take things around. Good luck!

[@gingercuddles5282]

what happens if you don't have many friends and they can't hang-out and others hate you what do you do then?

[@AmyNorthDating]

Keep yourself busy, Ginger. Do something you're interested in or grab a new hobby. You'll be great! :)

[@horace_prince]

Girl, this doesn't work on every man. High value quality men who know what they want will leave you if you're too hard to be with. Then, if a man finally has their woman, it's not that they get bored, rather they get relaxed on the chase. This is the most misunderstood concept.

[@daydreamer8718]

god bless you Amy i truly admire you keep up the good work we love you 💜

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thank you so much, Nassima! :) I appreciate the support! Please subscribe for more helpful videos! :)

[@mehzabeenzaman181]

Hi Amy, it's nice of u sharing useful tips. I am having very difficult time because the guy I like is not responding to me. He has very critical personality. I don't understand if he wants me or not. please help me that how can make him fall for me quickly

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi Mehzabeen! Have a look at this video to know if he likes you, too: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pJ7FkmV4Zrmjitk I hope you'll find it helpful! :)

[@nazishamin2548]

My boyfriend does not give me time and attention .....what to do ??? I am sick of him😭😭😭

[@AmyNorthDating]

It's quite normal if you're in a long-term relationship. Give him space. At the same time, do other things you love or interest you. Grab a new hobby perhaps? Also, visit my website and watch my video presentation. www.coachnorth.com

[@annandrea616]

I Left the country one year ago we were ok till now he doesn't text me often.if I call he doesn't pick up...when we talk he tells me always we are ok...us forever but no communication...don wanna loose him...please help me ...

[@AmyNorthDating]

What exactly do you need help with, ann andrea? Are you in a long distance relationship? Perhaps this video can help you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/iX3amHiZlt6sY9U

[@עדןהרשקוביץ-ס2נ]

Hey. I like to watch your videos.. but unfortunally i didnt found some video for my situation .. i need help ..i dont know what to do with my ex.. its a complicated situation:/ ..where i can write you more details?? Please help me with him 😔

[@esthergloria]

I've learned something

[@AmyNorthDating]

Glad to know you've learned something, Esther! :) I hope you find the information helpful! Don't forget to subscribe for more helpful videos! 💜

[@Tomomitanaami]

Amy, I love your videos and I'm your big fan :-) As I have watched all of your videos, I started to wonder if your tips work for millennial guys too? Maybe your tips are more targeted for older generations? Do you think we can apply your tips for any guys regardless of ages?

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi Tomomi Tanaami! I appreciate your support! You can apply these tips to guys too, regardless of age. :) Although, I would suggest you search for Brad Browning's videos. He has all the right answers for you.

[@vanessabouwman7492]

Hi Amy, I am 44 yrs old and I have been single for years now.(after my relationship of 7 yrs like 15 yrs ago.). I dont have trouble finding men on online datingsites but it is soooo difficult to have a deeper connection with them. It is such hard work. I have been following your tips for a few years now but nothing seems to work... men do nothing. They take off so soon I dont get a chance to show who I am. I always hear the same excuse , they dont want a relationship rn only to see them later INTO a serious relationship with another woman! I am an independent woman and I dont think that I am difficult. But it is so difficult to show your standarts. They just dont seem to care about that......ppppffff whatever I do it is never good.

[@AmyNorthDating]

The right man will come in time. You just have to extend your patience.

[@thunder.gun.cheese]

Awesomeeeee techniques +Amy North. I know all these super techniques personally. N yepp they works 100% if you do them wisely!!!

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for watching, Sitara! I appreciate the support. :) Don't forget to subscribe for more helpful tips!

[@valentinesnow9886]

Hi Amy i really need your help,everything you said is exactly what his doing,lm gonna put your advice into action,but my bf makes me chase him by ghosting me,if l dont text or call him he won't make the effort to communicate,it makes me vulnerable and not my best self,what do l do to keep lines of communication open and not seem like im chasing him,im afraid if l don't text him even just for normal things he would forget me,please help l don't know what to do

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi valentine! Perhaps you have to stop being clingy and needy. Doing so will not make him like you more, instead he'll lose interest in you and pull away. Here's a video that may help you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qpKqp2uEi6t6iJY BUT, if his actions seem sketchy, then there's also the possibility that he's cheating. Here's how to know if he's a cheater: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bZybhK13lpehrqs

[@shaziashameem2254]

Do you have any after marriage tips for husband and wife.

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi shazia! Since you're already married, I think you will find Brad Browning's videos more helpful in your situation. He also has a great program called Mend the Marriage that has helped married couples save and strengthen their marriage. Here is the link to his program: www.MarriageGuy.com

[@whosmira]

What if my crush already „had“ me once and now lost his interest, how do I make him miss me and want me again? He used to be so cute and text/call me all the time, now we don‘t talk anymore at all

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi Mira! Have a look at this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qZvOm5J-a76iqtE You may find some helpful tips! ;-)

[@briefmoments6008]

Well if we can't reciprocate same interest towards them then it will be be real.love

[@suffiah]

i have a crush on this friend of mine just early this year. ive known him since 3 years ago and we used to be close but not anymore. idk if hes a lil interested or not at all cuz he sometimes calls me sweetheart or honey bunny or cupcake then laughs after saying that. right after that a friend of him asked whether we're dating or not and he replied strictly with 'no'. when i text him,he replies quickly and make jokes or sometimes he doesnt reply at all. so our conversations are really short. its been a month and a half since ive started to take an interest on him,should i give up or keep trying to win his heart?

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi Oh Sooyeon! If you are confused with his mixed signals, have a look at this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/i3bEaGV8qMarh9U I hope it'll help you! :)

[@emmaselasie6326]

Hi Amy I met this guy not long ago he showed interest in me and along the line we got intimate but I feel he's gonna lose interest because we had sex how do I keep him still interested in me for long ...

[@ricaanonuevo9570]

Hello amy😊 Is it okay on a relationship calling once a week only,but he consistently texting me everyday even late reply .

[@victoriahomdus2719]

What great tips Thank You Amy

[@AmyNorthDating]

You're welcome, Victoria! :) Don't forget to subscribe for more helpful tips! ;-)

[@yasmin3912]

hey amy I need help. So I’ve been texting with a guy for about two weeks now and now it’s strange. He kept texting me things a boyfriend would text his girlfriend. He always wanted to see me and so on. He called me out of the blue and we talked on the phone a couple of times and it seemed that he actually had interest in me. Knowing me. Something that could lead to a relationship. Now he kinda isn’t texting as much as he did 2 days ago. I don’t know what to do. I kinda want to make him jealous and keep him interested but I have no idea how to do it. I just want to know if he’s just bored and he uses me or if he’s actually interested or not. I’m debating in just asking him but. I don’t know what to do. Pls help me

[@mariamshiref8877]

Absolutely you're rigrh ma'am Amy ThAnk you so much. WACTHINg FROM Kuwait MARYAM Sharif

[@AmyNorthDating]

You're welcome, Mariam! Thanks for watching and don't forget to subscribe so you won’t miss out on my upcoming videos! ;-)

[@vd2821]

hey Amy! I have a question... a few days ago, I went to France with my class, a guy from my class started getting interested in me, at least so I thought, he wanted to have sex with me but I didn't give it to him, the next day he sent me a text apologizing for that, then 2 days later he kissed a girl. I wanted to talk to him, have a conversation with him but he seemed angry and it looked like he didn't want to talk to me... but he acts as tho he is interested in me, I always catch him staring at me and he always tries to be close to me... what does that even mean?? shy is he acting like that? is he interested in me or was it all for the sex? I'm really confused

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi Vale! I think he is just interested for the sex. If he truly likes you, he won't even ask for sex and instead he will be more interested in knowing you more. Don't be confused, you made a wise decision by not giving in. At least early on, you already know what he's really after and what kind of guy he is. There are better guys out there than him. ;-)

[@vd2821]

Amy North omg thank you for replying to me and for the advice :) love youu

[@giztek161]

hi amy, I love to learn dating tips from your videos..everything you say is so true!! please also post a video about"how to make a guy friend in love with you" i keep waiting for your new videos.. thank you a lot!!

[@AmyNorthDating]

You're welcome, Giz Tek! :) Thank you for the support!

[@giztek161]

also i would like to get an appointment for your relationship couching..i have a toxic friendship with a guy and need your advices..we had a relationship for 1.5 years than he said that he doesnt want to hurt me and he thinks we dont have chemistry and feels nothing..but we still see each other every week more than 2 years.I could never make this no contact process:( i afraid to loose him if i dont text him..

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi Giz Tek! Please go to my website, www.CoachNorth.com to register for my Devotion System program and choose the “Personal Coaching Package” upgrade that will be presented to you during the registration process.

[@jackieorellana6727]

I like it is very interesting information thanks for sharing 😘

[@AmyNorthDating]

Happy to share, Jackie! :) Glad you like it! Don't forget to subscribe for more helpful tips!

[@patatafume3308]

I discovered your video on Covert Attractor Audit - there's plenty more awesome videos there that should help out .

[@maryaluel5843]

Do these tips work for married couples as well.

[@ellagunther8533]

What do I do, when the guy I want recently got a girlfriend but I feel like he flirts with me when we meet? Should I try to get him anyway ?

[@sadibarry]

Ella Günther No. He will only have you on the side. Don't let him have his cake and eat it too. If he wants to be with you he'll leave his girl for you, if he doesn't stop talking to him in that way, yeah flirting is so fun but you'll get stuck liking him more than he likes you. Believe me. I've been in that situation.

[@ellagunther8533]

Sãdï Berry yeah, you are right. It is just not easy... thank you xo

[@poisonedkittylitter1633]

Saturdays are for the boyssss

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for dropping by and watching my video, Just a Person on KZbin!

[@galaxygamer9069]

Thank you Amy for the helpful videos and advises

[@AmyNorthDating]

You're welcome, Lise! :) Glad you find my videos helpful! 💜 Don't forget to subscribe so you won't miss out on any new videos! ;-)

[@swishyescrito10]

Hey Amy... My guy is not interested in commitments... Nd I believe I am getting clingy... How do I create a chase... When I know he has tons of options...

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi swishy! Showing him too much interest and being clingy can cause him to pull away and avoid committing to you, so I hope you'll stop doing these things. This is actually a topic I cover extensively in my Devotion System program, so you might consider picking up a copy (or at least watching the full video on my website): www.CoachNorth.com

[@tiahyre6206]

What if you live together??

[@AmyNorthDating]

How long have you been together?

[@vivianegbuna2401]

Does it work in long distance relationship

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for dropping by. Have a look at this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/iX3amHiZlt6sY9U kzbin.info/www/bejne/eKGtmqSQm8uIo7M You may find this helpful!

[@lpsloversyayofficial]

Hey you think you can help me, a guy I like at school gave me his phone # and I texted him back and forth for about 3 hours, I sent ;) and he straight up told me about me being different in person then in text but at school he acts like it's good, what do I do.

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hey lpsloversyay! How are you different in person than in text? I think he means well when he said that because he acts the same when you're in school.

[@cherrylyndaigo4930]

Thanks for the videos. It is so. Much helpful. U r an angel.

[@airinamalik5022]

Hey Amy,I'm a big fans of ur vids and dating tips.So the problem that I'm facing is I broke up with my ex 8 months ago and i have done many things during that time no contact,and many more.But then he kept on friendzoning me.He told me that he is not ready for a relationship.He acts like he want more but he denied it.I was really patient with him as he is a very stubborn guy,i tried to move on but when Im away from him I lost a huge parts of myself when he in contrary does not feel that way.When I decide to stop contacting him,i thought i will be free in a month.I did everything to move on like go out and have fun,kept all things that remind me of him away but then I will woke up at the middle of night crying for 2 months.It was really a hard process for me,so I crawling back to him and act like his friend and he acts like how he use to do during our relationship which keeps my hope high and he even told me how he missed me so much during the Valentine's day and he even wished me happy valentine day but last night when i asked him who am i to u he said "Friends with benefits" In a way I feel like he's treating me like a backup plan?what should I do?

[@airinamalik5022]

Kim Sikorski Thank u. 😢

[@cenetraynor3175]

Airina Malik I'm sorry to say this but she's right. You have to stand on your feet and recognize that he is just using you. If you will let him use you, he will never love you because he knows he can have you whenever he wants even without commitment. It will be tough at first but you have to stay strong and don't let anyone use you.

[@kittusarkar9959]

I have a question my bf says dat he can't marry me he says he will marry the one his parents choose but I wanna make him desperately fall in love with me and make him fall on his knees to marry me pls reply

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi Kittu! Have a look at this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/haisnouMa5Wcqck You may find this helpful! ;-)

[@brookemichelle5081]

Let him go he's not for you. A better person for you will see you as the only option.

[@amybenam3394]

hello Amy. I love your vedio so much. I just want to know what are the signs to know if a man really loves you? please make a vedio.

[@AmyNorthDating]

Great idea Amy benam 33 ! Will surely add this on my list. Don't forget to subscribe to keep you updated on any new videos! :)

[@Luxeamirah]

This is so true It always works!

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for watching my video, Amy! 💜 Don't forget to subscribe for more helpful tips! ;-)

[@melissalacson4998]

How do I get in touch with you?

[@AmyNorthDating]

You can get in touch with me through my website, www.coachnorth.com :)

[@PeaceFullyCalm22]

I've been seeing this guy for 4 months. like only once a week. We don't text as much like we used to. I've been using your method and it's been working, but it's exhausting to keep doing it lol. Is it okay for me to just be honest and tell him like hey I developed feelings for you? It's better to get rejected than being led on right?

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi PeaceFullyCalm22! Yes, you can make the first move and tell him exactly how you feel. It's better to set things straight while you still haven't invested too much in the relationship.

[@dbedazzling1]

Do yourself a favor n go on some dates. He didnt commit so why are you?

[@ivakardasheva]

Good advice

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for watching, Iva! :) I hope you find this helpful. Don't forget to subscribe to keep you updated on my new videos! ;-)

[@beatricesepoe8797]

hi army ,please tell me how to keep a distance relationship with him not amidting his feelings.

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi Beatrice! Here's a video about long distance relationships: kzbin.info/www/bejne/iX3amHiZlt6sY9U I hope you'll find it helpful! :)

[@ghielee9198]

wahhh...looks effective,thanks for this video,looks very helpful for me...

[@AmyNorthDating]

You're welcome, Ghie! Glad you find it helpful! :) Please don't forget to subscribe for more helpful tips!

[@artemisthehuntress1076]

LOVE LOVE LOVE this video!!!

[@prossyolivia3180]

very interesting thanks dear😍

[@AmyNorthDating]

You're welcome, Prossy Olivia! :) Thanks for watching and please don't forget to subscribe for more helpful tips! ;-)

[@mokeymantorres2341]

what are some ways to start a steamy conversation with a man im trying to try something knew with my man

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi Nadia! These videos might help: kzbin.info/www/bejne/hIqypphrlNp1r68 and kzbin.info/www/bejne/oInFaIqsbJ1qd7s. Are you in a relationship with him?

[@whosmira]

Btw I love your videos so much!!

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks so much, Mira! :) That means a lot. 💜 Don't forget to subscribe so you won't miss out any new videos! ;-)

[@henrya2161]

Hi Amy Can you do a video on how to get out of the friend zone with your crush?

[@AmyNorthDating]

I'll add that to my list, Henry A. Please don't forget to subscribe to keep you updated of my new videos! :)

[@henrya2161]

Amy North thank you :) I am subscribed to your channel and will keep a look out for your video

[@steffisingh6894]

You are so true....😑😑 The cat string concept is absolutely right....he has no time for me now, we stay together but he's always home late coz he's out with his boys. He rarely takes me out😫 what should I do to keep myself involved.

[@tinykillx2432]

steffi, don't do anything, just tell him you're going to find someone who will treat you better. you deserve to be happy too.

[@loabali9681]

mi mom don't like him n mi frnds also don't like him.. now m tired of him .. his behavior.. I tried mi best to move on but still when he texts me I get flat again :( wot should I do ?use ur advice or leave him?... coz I don't want to give up.. n be in his list same like rest of girls .. m so confused please help me😭

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi Loab! Your mom and even your friends can see that this guy is not right for you. I think they can see that you're unhappy in the relationship. But it won't hurt if you follow my advice first and see how your relationship goes within a month. If he still won't change, then it may be best to leave him and move on.

[@loabali9681]

+Amy North thanks Amy😊

[@hebahmuhammad8607]

Does this apply to (long term) relationships?? 5 years here!

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for dropping by, Hebah! :) Yes, this applies especially to long term relationships since at some point one of you will lose interest in the relationship or you'll find that your relationship has become stale and boring.

[@justmissy8764]

Hi Amy I really love your videos I've been seeing a guy 2 weeks. We kissed etc.. and I really like him. We text now everyday but I'm always the first one who text him if I don't we can stay like this no messages nothing. Ok one time he just text me " good morning or goodnight " that's.. he told me that he likes me but he don't show it and I don't feel it. What can I do ?please

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi Missy Keaira! By the sounds of it your guy is losing interest, and it could be for a few reasons. Have you been messaging him lots or showing too much interest? If so, he may be feeling smothered or thinking he doesn't need to put in much effort because you're so into him. Either way, the best way to make this guy want you is to cut off contact with him. I know it sounds strange, but instead of being the one to message him all the time (which can seem desperate), wait and let him come to you.

[@justmissy8764]

Amy North Thanks Amy that works!

[@drishtikakkar4561]

I'm in a relationship for last 4 months I don't feel like I'm in a relationship...he do not talks to me on phone no phone calls but we talk only by texting and idk why he says that it's difficult for him to talk on phone

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi Drishti! You may find this video helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/i3aZo3dtppuDa8k :)

[@portiaqhuqha1447]

listen to your instinct he may be living double life..

[@slackbeba7]

Thank you @Amy for all your great advice! I wanna use this technique in texting... I was wondering. if a guy texts you first every morning (3days in a row) to wish you to have a good day, then I thought it is ok the 4th day that the girl could text him for the same reason, so it feels reciprocal... right? So, that is what I did and not only but we had an ongoing chat throughout the whole day with some long pauses!! The next day though, no sign! Is that a moment to wait for him to text? A moment that you have to "pull back the string from the cat"? :P

[@iamkathkatpalomar9526]

Do you have books ,ms Amy north

[@aretaflexin972]

Hi Amyy! If i already know someone and we love eachother how can i protect my relationship with him by the threat of other women?×

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi Areta! Show him that his life is better with you in it. You can do this by appreciating and supporting him. By showing him that you care about him, but also by having your own life - if you become too clingy he'll pull away. By the way, how long have you been together?

[@sophialara1962]

are the e-books still free?

[@AmyNorthDating]

You can visit my website at www.coachnorth.com :)

[@Priyanka-xo3cd]

I feel shy in expressing myself..and get affected by others mood and temperament..I start responding the same way like if they do not take initiative to kiss or hug I also back out n become cold..and which actually kills me and I feel unappreciated.. please guide me Any..thanks..

[@AmyNorthDating]

Being shy in a relationship is not entirely bad, however, when men show their affection and you seem unresponsive, they will also feel unappreciated just the way you are feeling. And if you continue with this path, it might not result positively.

[@Priyanka-xo3cd]

Thanks Any..♥

[@Priyanka-xo3cd]

Amy🌹

[@cgabs7510]

great stuff Amy ! will def try out some of these " techniques ".Thanks a lot for sharing your wisdom with us all !

[@AmyNorthDating]

Hi C GabS! Glad to know you're enjoying my video. Don't forget to hit that subscribe button. ;)

[@mishashakeel9312]

what to do to keep your husband always interested in you

[@AmyNorthDating]

Thanks for dropping by, Misha Shakeel. Have a look at this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mqWnZaV-gr-VrLs You may find this helpful!

[@chaneilgrant472]

Thank you but we like broke up and I really want him back but I don't know how

[@AmyNorthDating]

You're welcome, Chaneil! :) Here's a couple of videos that can help you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/gn-nqX-LoqqZlZI and kzbin.info/www/bejne/oYmThqaPoZp4rs0 BTW, how long has it been since you broke up?