The Selfish Nature Of Modern Women

[@crazykev1985]

My mom left when I was 12. I helped my dad raise my four younger siblings.

[@kean-leongang1167]

My ex suddenly announced she is leaving to achieved freedom, leaving my son and I in total shock. My son was just 2.5 months away from his A level exam. I have to step up to put him back on track in terms of his motivation. I think I did a pretty good job because he eventually got 4A* first attempt. He got accepted to do medicine in UK but he decided to take a leap year waiting for his mother to return. 3 years after she left, she hasn't even call him asking him how he was doing. He eventually left for UK to to do medicine, and suddenly got an Instagram message from his mother. He blocked her left and right, and now she is blaming me for poisoning my son on her. Shocking zero accountability.

[@marciosevero1925]

Christine is really a very gifted woman. She see the problems, not only look it.

[@iykeharrison9161]

I think I love her, not just because of her looks but she seems so level-headed. I really think she's a keeper

[@chasebrown7130]

My ex ran away took my daughter moved 2 hours away I haven't seen our daughter in 4 years because she's painted a false narrative of me to be a victim & make me out to be something I'm not she's putting me on child support because being together as a family doesn't fit her strong and empowered narrative... & The system is going to help her do it I never hit her I never cheated on her I provided for her financially the reason she says she did this is because she thought I was cheating on her or would cheat.... She's incentivized to drag me through hot coals risk our child's safety drain me mentally emotionally spiritually financially I'm done I'm exhausted and I can't do this anymore

[@ubongambrose4066]

that's what they are experts at and the society pander to their lies

[@know-ledge1707]

I'm really sorry to hear that brother. You have to keep working on yourself and fighting for your daughter. Don't let that evil woman win and she will slip up and you be there to watch her fall

[@adrianb714]

I'm praying for you brother 🙏🏽

[@integrity101]

Women are evil.

[@johnsmith-ik8il]

What you're describing is a covert AKA vulnerable narcissist. Educate yourself on the subject! I hope one day you see your child again and that she doesn't end up like her mother. If you ever need to chat bro then I'm here.

[@celluskh6009]

It's important to remember that the biggest economic consequence of dual income families becoming the norm was inflation rose to match that new household income, so now we're all worse off for having kids compared to a generation or two ago. But the rich did get very rich from increasing the worker and tax base, so it has kept getting pushed on us.

[@WarriorNoldor]

I don't get mad at female nature anymore. I have grown to become indifferent towards it.

[@JohnMoore-xf5wy]

It's primarily AMERICAN female nature. See the world, young man. It is filled with beautiful,"traditional" women. Enjoy!

[@markjulianoriginalhooli2217]

Because the female nature is the nature of the devil

[@oneoffew5682]

​@JohnMoore-xf5wy that is not nature, it cultural influence. The minite you expose them to western culture, the minute their true nature comes out. This has been known forever and was even joked about by Eddie Murphy in the 80s.

[@ninjedi6710]

@@JohnMoore-xf5wy i dont think so. ive lived in philippines (one of the most "conservative" countries) for most of my life and its starting to get westernized. filipino women are no longer ashamed of hooking up left and right. are there still conservative women in philippines? Yes. Should you bet on it? No. 8/10 chance she is already a westernized liberal.

[@JohnMoore-xf5wy]

@@ninjedi6710 Never been there, but I've been to all but two Latin American countries. Not for a while, but I found the most feminine, beautiful women were in Colombia and Brazil. Just sitting in the Rio airport terminal was like attending a beauty contest!

[@stevengiles346]

Men are better parents. I loved being a dad. It was fun.

[@wloonie]

That depends on the particular family. I've seen great fathers as well as terrible ones. Same with mothers. But yes, being a dad is wonderful. 👍

[@dupplinmuir113]

You could look at women going out to work in terms of Game Theory; it's a classic case of 'The Tragedy of the Commons'. The scenario for the TotC is that you have a village with a patch of common land which is for general use. Every family in the village has one cow, and the common can _just_ support those cattle. Then one family gets greedy and buys a second cow, so now the common won't support all the cattle so everyone has to buy some food to supplement their cow's diet - in other words one family gets the whole benefit of the extra cow, but the costs are spread over everyone. Then another family gets a second cow, and the same thing happens, until eventually everyone has two cows, but they're no better-off than when they had just one because they have to buy all the food for the second cow. In reality of course, medieval commons didn't work like that; there were rules preventing people over-exploiting them. Now imagine a situation where men go out to work and women stay at home. One woman thinks that if she goes out to work they'll be much better-off, but her decision to work increases the size of the work-force and reduces wages - on the principle of supply-and-demand - but again, that family gets all the benefits, but the costs are spread over everyone. Then another woman follows suit, and this reduces wages further. As more-and-more women start to work, it puts pressure even on women who don't want to work because they can no longer manage on a single salary. The end result is that husbands and wives are both working, but are no better-off than when just men worked.

[@binofbread6975]

Lots of good takes in this vid. Christine has yet to miss.

[@iykeharrison9161]

She's wonderful here. Speaks my mind so eloquently

[@RobertMunteanu105]

I think that's a very interesting question I really want to discuss with the women I know "WHY do you want to work?". Because even myself and a lot of my friends, we wouldn't want to work conventionally to the end of life our lives, but just stick to a business or investment from our 40s. Great talk!

[@iykeharrison9161]

Because they see working as some kind of empowerment

[@thisdyingsoul76]

Cheaper to keep her... depends on how much you value your mental health and how bad the marriage is. 😂

[@garyrose9805]

Men work because they are far better at earning compared to women. Women generally raise and parent the children because of the previous sentence not because they raise better children!

[@BardOfAndromeda]

What is it with these people who can't pronounce the plural 'women' suddenly appearing all over the internet? It's creepy

[@zerodayknowledge]

The primary reason women work is that women voted in a welfare state. The cost of this welfare state is deliberately obfuscated as much as possible by politicos, however it must be paid for (taxes and inflation).

[@garyrose9805]

Society needs to stop hearing very loud voices as correct and import voices. Screaming doesn’t make what your saying more worthy, just more attention grabing

[@ubongambrose4066]

I took 9 months parental leave for each of our two children, it instead gave my ex more leverage to go out to cheat more in the name of working and schooling, lie lie lie lie, bullying, abusing and insulting me, sleeping with other ladies' husbands, and ruining the marriage...

[@celluskh6009]

One huge thing I learned taking time off to raise my daughter was how terrible a mother my ex and most of the women in the community are.

[@parrotshootist3004]

@@celluskh6009How perma horny for variety they are

[@khayr1]

Are you a man or a women

[@14shawn44]

Women largely joined the workforce to keep the home in order and contribute their efforts while the men fought and died in WW2.

[@shanenolan5625]

Cheers

[@MsGeoffh]

Should have stayed there sunshine.

[@Germinalx]

Every man and their dog goes to Africa to build stuff. Wtf? Maybe Sam Kinnisan was right, what they really need is a ride. Somewhere else.

[@tommack9395]

Yes time does not stand still... I'm sure if I could be in two places at the same time, work/life balance would be quite easy. ;-) When each of our children were born... I took my vacation time - splitting it so not to get behind nor stale because I had five weeks usually accrued. During the periods when my wife was pregnant I actually worked more, my typical 40+ hours went to 50+ hours - even though I'm salaried - Why? well to impress upon those people at work that I still had the drive and intentions of getting things done - meeting goals (deadlines) - and actually deserved my raises and promotions. When I hear the term "parental leave" I imagine money for nothing. People do not pay you for a lack of performance, and they certainly will not pay you more just for doing the minimum of what they're expecting from you.

[@user-vg8ox3he1i]

Well that's a very stupid take. It's as idiotic as saying people shouldn't get vacation days or sick days.

[@tommack9395]

@@user-vg8ox3he1i It's not like men had parental leave in the 90's. So I wanted to be there for my kids and wife at that time. You're only productive where you're spending your time. It's just a fact that leaves from work tends to stagnant your progress in a career. I'm a Sr. Software Engineer and happened to also be the high tier of production support on top of that, Why? well because I wrote the darn code. When our second child was born, there were at least five women in the office who were also pregnant. They took maternity leaves and much of the work they would had done piled on the rest of the staff... impact on goals pushes the entire enterprise behind. What's is also true is when anyone comes back they tend to feel lost and need to catch up due so much changed during a few iterations of releases also you should not be surprised about how people moved up the ladder while you were gone.

[@reneel2441]

Christine are you not working right now? Are you a stay at home mother? Get real

[@ROBOTRIX_eu]