Simon Fung, we all hear you. Please try to settle your problems with your husband Brother Guang. Every family 👪 has problems. Do kot talk bad about a your husband any more. Get your parents or family members to join in the talk.
Lady I never advice peoples divorce, but this time I recomend you should leave, end this miserable marriage now, don't waste your time with this man, be independent and start a whole new life.