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People in your life are reflecting back to you your own level of emotional either availability or emotional tolerability. And in this video, I'm gonna show you how to break out of the box of attracting only emotionally unavailable people, maybe people that wanna manipulate your energy.
And what I share with you in this video will completely transform your ability to not only experience more emotionally available people, but also open up yourself to a completely new level of depth, connection, and respect. Here's an idea that I learned a couple days ago that has completely changed my perspective on understanding all relationships.
And that is we attract people into our lives that are expressing the emotion that we are expressing. Let me say that again. So the emotions we've repressed in our bodies, the emotions we've repressed and not allowed ourselves to feel.
We attract people into our lives that are expressing that in some form. And this is something that's interesting because I just got done doing a whole entire week of plant medicine ceremonies in Costa Rica.
I do it two or three times a year. It's like these retreats where we bring in these plant medicine, people and stuff like that. And anyways, we do these plant medicines like Ayahuasca and San Pedro that just bring out this emotion. And one of the things and challenges in my own life has been becoming emotionally available. Because what I've realized is either I would attract emotionally unavailable people that weren't able to really
choose me mainly by the way, because I wasn't choosing myself.
This is the tricky thing of this whole thing, by the way. But what I realized is I was with some friends and my group of friends that I do these retreats with. And I realized that my best friend, Victor is extraordinarily emotionally expressive. My friend, Matt is also extraordinarily expressive. My girlfriend, Heather is extraordinarily emotionally expressive.
And it's interesting because I think we attract people into our lives to reflect back to us energy that maybe we can learn. So there's actually something to learn from the emotionally unavailable people that we may have in our lives. And this was hard for me to look at at first, because back in the day my story was that I was actually, honestly, if I being honest with myself, I was more so emotionally needy than I was emotionally secure.
So in a way I was desiring and wanting the validation of people in my life. And I find myself losing my own sense of frame and feeling kind of codependent based on theirs. But what I realized is my story was, well they just aren't doing the work. They're not emotionally available.
And that was my story. And it was always a story about other people. It was never about myself. That was another disempowering part of it. One of the things I had to wake up to though is that the reason I was attracting emotionally unavailable people in my life is because one of two things, either I was tolerating and I thought that I was only worthy of having people that were emotionally available.
That was the first part. Think about it. Someone that really is confident in their own frame, knows their own sense of self worth. They probably wouldn't tolerate that of an emotionally unavailable person that maybe wasn't choosing them.
But at the same time what I realized is that was the first part of it. The second part of it is that I myself was emotionally unavailable. The thing with this whole thing and the interesting part of this is that if someone is attracting emotionally unavailable people into their life and tolerating it, it's most likely because that's a projection of some degree of emotional unavailability.
So it's about realizing that some of the emotions growing up as children, we have familiarized certain ways of relating. And if you had a parent or parents that were emotionally unavailable, you will probably think that the only thing you are worthy of is another parent or another person, a partner that is also emotionally unavailable.
Because we familiarized it. I was on my way home from Costa Rica yesterday on a flight.
And I was watching this documentary on this UFC fighter. His last name is Bisping, Michael Bisping. And he's like this amazing fighter. He was a champion for a while, and he has a pretty crazy story.

[@AaronDoughty44]

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[@kexiao4247]

It asked me to log in on Vimeo to watch but it still shows the same thing after I have logged in. Can you fix it?

[@sergioaguis]

Aaron the video is private, you know everything we have to go trough just to log in in vimeo and can’t see anything?

[@Bluesclues-here]

We attract what’s familiar to us. I had emotionally unavailable parents who never expressed love towards me, therefore, that’s all I knew and have attracted the same. With therapy, I’m slowly healing myself. It’s hard work to reprogram yourself and imagine something that you’ve never experienced. I have a hard time imagining myself in a happy, loving, and supportive relationship because I don’t know what that feels like. At times it feels like a life sentence, but I try to be open, grow, and evolve.

[@seidenschnabelfederflugel5441]

I feel you. Its super hard to imagine me in a healthy relationship. Because i also dont know how this looks like or how this feels. And than i feel shame and think i dont even deserve that.

[@sciencebae]

Same my dad raised me so imagine emotionally what that looks like. Anything remotely healthy requires me to be healthy too. It’s hard being emotionally healthy when not only did you grow up around emotional unavailability we live in a world where emotional intelligence is on the low end. I’m always confused what I should do with my emotions.

[@Eg-jd9zt]

Yea it’s really hard to charge the mold and scary at that. As much as the familiar hurts it’s comfortable

[@flagirl0315]

I agree

[@shatha42]

We tolerate intolerable people because we don't want to stay alone. We make concessions at the expense of our dignity, which attract sick people and abusers. The main solution is to be close to God, ask him to manifest good people in your life, and to help you make the life path clear for you.

[@MonkyDollqueen]

What you think, you become. What you feel, you attract. What you imagine, you create

[@ForeverWandering222]

LOOOOOOVE

[@awakeningtarot4803]

This is very true I am used to people who are emotionally unavailable People who are emotionally available make me feel uncomfortable Like they are going to smother me or something But it’s ridiculous because I’m sick of emotionally unavailable men They break my heart every time!

[@Noname-oo9gn]

Sounds like me.

[@latenishadavis6355]

Mmhmm😔

[@liztowers2058]

So me. I'm lonely...and stuck on a FWB just because I don't want to be fully solo... I want a relationship. I don't want this bullshit. It's been 1.5yrs. I'm settling I guess :/ And emotionally men who want me....I fear. It's odd 😊

[@jainy1707]

💯

[@danishsiddiq941]

​@@liztowers2058Who is forcing you to be in that relation then..come out.

[@Darima2]

"The opening of the heart is saying yes to the unknown". Wow. That brought it home. Your video always matches exactly what I've been thinking about. This whole past week I've been obsessing over how I feel like because my parents are emotionally unavailable, I now have become emotionally unavailable and that's whats kept me from the deep emotional connection I so crave from all relationships. I was literally telling someone this 2 days ago and now this video comes at the perfect time. Thank you ❤️ I am too comfortable with the known, which is emotional unavailability, which ironically what I DON'T want but it's just that it's familiar. I actually can't stand closed off people who lack empathy( I am very empathic though) yet that's all I seem to keep drawing in or being drawn to? I'm sick of it. But I feel frustrated because I don't seem to know how to change it. I know I have to start blocking out those types, and pay more attention to the emotionally available out there because it's true, when someone is too nice and attentive, it's almost like I get turned off or lose respect for them. It's effed up!!

[@so_what]

I've realized that I don't need anybody to be happy, I have myself, that's enough for me❤ and it's not about unavailability, it's about my own worth for myself

[@Noname-oo9gn]

I feel the same way now.

[@TheMediumChannel]

There is a Native American teaching...well, it's a universal teaching but I first learned this through the Medicine Wheel teachings and that is of the mirroring. If you can step out of your ego and take a braod view of things if you can take the sum of all your relationships..lovers, friends, family, wildlife etc. you can know EXACTLY what energy you are putting out into the world. Either we can be in our egos and blame others for our problems or we can get out of victim mentality, expand beyond the ego in to Spirit and perceive from the place of truth then we can be like warriors and a true warrior takes responsibility for everything right or wrong in their world. Aloha

[@gretchenjohnson696]

Yes👏👏👏👏👏

[@TheMediumChannel]

@@gretchenjohnson696 Thank you 🙏 Love and blessings.

[@RoseQuartzGemini]

Yes to both! I am guarded and don’t let people in, and also feel like people don’t choose me. I will keep doing inner child work. Thank you Aaron.

[@gavinspeaks]

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[@huonglarne]

Can you explain more?

[@starrhall8160]

Thx. Yes, being distant and fearful as a defense mechanism...it's clear to others but not to the one setting up barriers.

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[@TehMocky]

I appreciate this! Been on the inner childhood meditation for the past 2.5 weeks! Absolutely life changing.

[@donevagonzalez7713]

I enjoy your work so much, Aaron. A truth I have found with the man my soul loves is he will mirror my emotional availability, then begin to be emotionally unavailable as time goes on (we've been doing this on and off "dance" for close to 6 years). It's then I rise up, call it out and set a boundary. He abruptly left my life recently and although it was initially painful, I understand how difficult the awakening process is. I've done innerchild healing, healing of my own masculine/feminine energy, and sought healing of my father/mother wounding. I understand also, if we are truly meant to be, it will be as fully whole humans...meanwhile, I don't accept or chase his emotional unavailability any longer. I remain in a heart-open space, free-flowing and unattached to any type of outcome. I know that is the discipline I had to learn from this experience in order to move forward in a more healed state of being for myself and my souls purpose.

[@zoeazsss5035]

For me to be unattached to any type of outcome would be a God send.

[@donevagonzalez7713]

@@zoeazsss5035 you’ll get there, keep being patient with the process 🤍

[@lionpikmin]

This! Unfortunately, I have many people in my life who are very emotionally unavailable. If I don't make the first step, the "friendship" would just collapse over time. I know, this sucks and yet I still put up with it, because I have no alternatives. I know, if I were to turn my back on everyone of these friends, I'd be very very alone, so I keep tolerating people I almost have to beg for to spend some time with me. And I know this isn't how it's supposed to be. Friendship should be something that I don't have to beg for, spending time with friends should be something I don't have to beg for. I want to make a change, I'm willing to do the inner work, it's just really difficult and I keep slipping back into this downward spiral of loneliness, anger and constantly saying "yes" to people I should say "no" to. I guess it's a practice of self respect and self love as well. For now I have decided to wait for them to make the first step and just leave them. If they contact me, nice, if not, that's OK too. Instead I try to focus on people, I feel are still trying to honestly stay in touch with me. I'm also open for new ideas and suggestions!

[@Eg-jd9zt]

I had to go through this and yes it’s very painful and yes some of those friends fall away but it is SO necessary to uplevel your life because those people who fall away because you did all the work and effort need to. You deserve better and reciprocity. This is hallmark in healing codependency is going through this phase. It’s very scary and painful but so worth it. You’d be surprised who falls off of the face of the earth to never hear from them again. It’s sad but eye opening. You have to get over the fear of being alone and face it and once you do you actually won’t be as alone at all because you’ll be in relationships that don’t make you feel lonely because they pull their weight. I lost a lot of people when letting go of control and backing off. Very sad how many “friends” for years or a decade never reached out again.

[@lionpikmin]

​@@Eg-jd9zt I'm currently relapsing and go through a depressive episode as I write this. So, hearing thos reassuring words kinda helps to stay focused. Thank you so much. However, looking back on this comment from 9 months ago some things did change. I do hang out with people more often and actually met plenty new people in 2022. I still have to evaluate these new relationships, because as of right now, I still feel very lonely. And I also find myself being very careful with letting new people get close to me. I'm almost 90% of the time not interested in forming close bonds with my new acquaintance (which is why I refer to them as "acquaintance") There was only one new person I really clicked with whom I even had a mild crush on, but it didn't take me long to realise that I was repeating my patterns. I chose a person who didn't choose me. Now he's dating my former best friend whom I'm also trying to get over with, because she, just like him, doesn't choose me. Not even once in those 10 years of friendship. It's a painful experience... And generally I feel very isolated towards everyone right now. I don't know if this is part of the process, but I'm feeling horrible.

[@Eg-jd9zt]

@@lionpikmin I’m glad you’ve met new people and it’s ok to be cautious and evaluate people as you should! Especially when having people you couldn’t trust in the past that is normal. Have you considered going to talk to someone? It helps a lot to get it all out. No shame in that at all it’s investing in yourself. And someone trained and licensed can also help give you insight into blind spots you may not see to better your life and get to the root of why you are feeling how you are. If already talking to someone you may also want to try someone else who can better help. Getting the right person for that is super important too. Not everyone is skilled in what you need

[@lionpikmin]

@@Eg-jd9zt Yes, I am actually considering seeing someone, but I really lack the energy to take the step. :/ Sometimes I wish I had someone who helps me with this kind of stuff, someone to motivate me. But yea, that's the main underlying issue: I am alone and have no one who really helps me. :') But still thank you so much for your advice!

[@Eg-jd9zt]

@@lionpikmin well I hope you feel better and things get better. Sending prayers your way ❤️

[@tamanna1994]

Thank you Aaron for teaching us about boundaries, this was really hard for me for being super empathic. You were the first person to bring this to my awareness! So grateful 🙏

[@charlottemonteyne390]

Big theme in my life right now. Thank you!!

[@debrabutler524]

This was so relevant for today…..especially for the Collective.

[@GA-rs2ei]

Well said. It’s amazing how medicine allow you to see these things and cure yourself and others. Aho!

[@matthewtolmasoff2139]

I watch a lot of your videos, and right or wrong, I can sense that you are really trying to help people and I think it's very generous. Very cool , keep it going, God bless.

[@mariamerchant373]

The video is so enlightening! Thank you so much 😊

[@LORENNACORRAL]

Thank you so much for the free inner child meditation. I bawled my eyes out! 🙏🏽🙌🏽💕

[@sabrinas.deoliveira3863]

All the content in this video is really good, it's just open my eyes, like removing a lot of doubts that I've about it, I really identify my self with this, thank you for share! You're doing a really beautiful and helpful job here, God bless you! Thanks again!

[@jeroenransijn25]

I just ended a relationship. And this video ticks so many boxes of things I was alrdy thinking about what was the big issue in our relationship dynamic, it's quite insane. This is a definite confirmation that I am right on track were I have to be in my journey. Thank you for making this video it helps, you have no idea!

[@ellenberg7961]

I´m glad that you are happy with Heather. It is honest from me.

[@yaraalzakoutl1352]

I really was confused about the reason a few days ago..Thank you Aaron💙

[@portalplainsandwich6766]

Appreciate these videos so much and they come at exactly the right time, always. Thank you!

[@cosmicmagnifico8842]

I agree

[@rinamovahedian3293]

This video was absolutely amazing. Resonated 😢

[@kellynichols3124]

Wow this was a powerful message for me!! 💥 crazy! Thank you 🙏🏽

[@lottalove5674]

thank you for this video, this got me out of a rut and back on track

[@UlisesMartinezMx]

Thank you!

[@zainabamadahy9918]

This was so helpful. Thank you.

[@danny-li6io]

FYI, MOST people are emotionally unavailable. Our “emotional sensors” get turned way down or off, in childhood when a child’s emotional needs are not nurtured/validated.

[@Stanifit]

Great video! Thank you 💕

[@Chanduchandu-iu3td]

Omgg fabulous videos 👏👏👏 it really changed my perception.. nd helped me a lot tysmch aron lots of love and light from india god bless you wherever you go whatever you do 🙏🙏

[@lesleybrady3948]

Bispin lived near me before he moved over to America. His Thai boxing coach Daz Morris, was my Thai boxing instructor! He was also a DJ Mikey B in a really dangerous club called Monrose!! Good times 😬.. thank you for your videos 🙏🏽🙏🏽.. they are amazing! Xx

[@hananiqbal2474]

You keep me going this ramadan😭❤

[@Realiz333]

Really appreciate your input

[@user-nm3si2en8d]

I love watching your videos

[@jkk4666]

My ex was also emotionally unavailable for me n I was drained in that relationship, I evn told him many times but he never changed his behavior n I kept allowing him bcos it was waste to tell him again n again as he will Nebr change n that made me loose worth in myself. I was started feeling like I'm no one n I lost my sense I just forgot who I am But now after seeing this video I got the answer.. I will never ever tolerate something I'm not OK with n will set boundaries . .

[@latenishadavis6355]

Dang..."you attract who you are"..."you attract who you tolerate"..."you attract what you don't want". So everyone is a reflection of you and your energy. Including your dark side or shadow that you suppress. So we should stay aware and be fluid with emotion and energy to stay adaptable to our reflections? Giving and getting positive energy exchanges to stay at a higher consciousness at all times? Idk. I thought this was interesting. Thank you for the thoughts. I'll meditate on them on and off all day and see what comes up. 🤗❤️👍🏾

[@JayBird227]

Partially true, but we also project onto other people, and other people also project onto us, it takes wisdom and discernment to know the difference. We are both reflecting ourselves while simultaneously fulfilling what others have imposed upon us in their world and what we imposed as well….it’s a little more complicated

[@latenishadavis6355]

@@JayBird227 Absolutely. That's why I mentioned "staying aware of your own energy and emotion" (remaining conscious to what you're projecting and picking up in their energy). And giving a solution to it by staying in a higher consciousness with "positivity". Essentially treating your reflection as you would want to be treated in the same situation. Caring with LOVE. Which would be tricky if you aren't grounded, practicing discernment and staying in an loving energy. Aaron would say something to the effect of "You can only perceived that of which you are in the vibration of." Leading back to your reflections and how everyone you encounter are still reflections of you. INCLUDING YOUR SHADOW, that you may not be exercising, but their shadow might challenge yours to step into the forefront. So yes. Awareness of these emotions/energy are necessary. You can use discernment to decide how to navigate, but it ultimately should lead to the (high road) . Haha unless you want to match their energy and get a little dangerous. Hahahaha 🤷🏾‍♀️ ❤️🤗🥰. Have a good one. 😁

[@robinsierra1029]

I am very emotionally available and connected to my heart. But I continue to choose men who are not available. I know exactly where it comes from in my family dynamic so even though I can see it and analyze it very clearly i unconsciously choose men who are part in and part out. And I am not young! And I have done decades of inner work. I finally got up the courage to end the last one which was very hard because it was the best sexual experience I’ve had in my life which was extremely significant to me because I had sexual blocks for most of my life and in this relationship they were gone and I finally felt like I came into my sexuality at a very late age.but the dynamics on his side were not healthy at all. But I continue to put up with the situation because of the sexual and sensual experience that I have never had before. So, I moved 2000 miles away so I wouldn’t cave-in but yet I still long for him even though I know it’s ridiculous. Although watching your videos I’ve made progress in terms of shutting him out, which is necessary for my well being. I have to say that I’m impressed with you being so young and having so much wisdom. You obviously have worked very hard to get there and I appreciate it.Any thoughts? Would be appreciated., Valentina. Btw: I have deeply done the inner child work as well as much more.

[@johnnycorn7225]

So relate to this every detail, stay strong I got through it, so can you. Very difficult I know.

[@WisdomWithin999]

I may be wrong is this opinion but sometimes I think that people just are the way they are. In my opinion, we don't manifest everything and every little detail in our life. Maybe it isn't that you are attracting emotionally unavailable men, maybe it's just that unfortunately there's still a lot of emotional unavailable men out there. But maybe that's a "belief"... idk I think it's just the state of the world. This kinda inner alchemy work and self exploration is pretty new, I don't think a lot of people are on board with it yet. Just my opinion, you sound like an incredible individual, I have confidence you'll find your true soul match soon. Love sent your way.

[@xtinamagwaza82]

You are ready, all you need to do now is let this story go and tell a different story. Script it out, change the story.

[@thehealingfairee]

That's so difficult! Maybe focus less on doing the work/healing since you've done so much already, and now focus on what you desire. Embodying the feeling of the wish fulfilled. If we're always doing the work it can keep us in a loop of always "needing to do the work" before we're ready. I think it's amazing that you chose yourself and got out of that relationship! I know how difficult that is when you feel that sexual liberation with someone. I think it shows that things ARE shifting in your life, and they will continue to shift in even better ways! Do your favorite manifestation technique to attract an emotionally available man, and then let go of it. Everyday embody the feeling of what it'd be like to be in a healthy relationship. Give yourself that feeling everyday! Remind yourself that you don't need a relationship to feel that way/to feel happy. But also remind yourself what you seek is seeking you. 🤍 You may want to look into law of Assumption affirmation tracks to get you into a constant state of feeling chosen. Good luck my love!

[@Eg-jd9zt]

I am realizing for me (37 here) it’s that “pick me” dynamic running the show. I don’t have it in other relationships only romantic these days. I’m realizing it’s that I need to heal that part of me that needs to be picked and that that somehow holds how valuable I am. It starts from knowing our worth and not needing to be picked then I feel like emotionally unavailable people won’t have much value to us bc we picked ourselves a long time ago so we let them run off. We don’t need them or our validation anymore

[@doloresdelatorre5827]

Makes sense we get attracted to those who are doing what we want to learn

[@amylovesu5477]

Your environment is a byproduct of what’s going on in your mind ❤️

[@theNobleone24]

Thankyou aaron!!..can you make a guided meditation for shadow work?

[@nathanplaks]

MUCH LOVE AARON THANK YOU. PS I will start commenting from my artist page from now on which is Mind Alarmy

[@Luna23__]

Thank you 🙏

[@ninabambinabambina2304]

I always find the video I need at exactly the right time on your channel. It's mind blowing. 🙏❤ I'm very grateful for this. My mother was definitely emotionally unavailable. I'm very sad at the moment. 😢 I tolerate the emotional unavailability.

[@sherwinfortuin]

I dated the exact same person as you, atleast now I know why and why it ended up toxic 👍

[@carloscastanheiro2933]

Thank you Aaron. Much love from Portugal. Namaste.

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[@Katrica670]

@4:08 I support you aka watch many of your vids, paid for two of your 21 day challenge,s, the love one, and probably the abundance one. However, it's Not that everyone thinks that's all they're worthy of, it's more like it's just plain Ole familiarity aka it's the norm when you have aloof, detached, dismissive, distant parents.

[@Stevenbhiro]

Your vibe attracts your tribe ♥️💫

[@MissPinkStiletto]

can you make a video about healthy emotional vulnerability and what that looks like. maybe you and heather together?? thanks 🙏🏻 and what it looks like to be emotionally available, some examples

[@jainy1707]

Totally 💯 real

[@Light-Shift]

Wow. Not allowed ourselves to feel. This negates the Hicks '17 seconds and then it starts to build momentum' scary statements.

[@niaane8567]

I don't think Hicks has got it all completely correct.

[@Arvyhernandez]

The solution is you should love yourself.

[@SuperFairymagic]

It's like you can read my mind lol, I'm exactly going through this.

[@Saar114]

Aaron i think you also have anxious attachment too. Like myself..

[@hankhill3417]

Dealing with people is draining of my energy. Being in a crowd will cause me to lay in bed for days to recover

[@Katrica670]

@7:33 well what about when people keep attracting people who scapegoat them and/or bully on and off through the years, betray them, get super duper angry when the person finally does stick up for his/herself? 👀🧐🤔

[@latenishadavis6355]

Sounds like a control issue. High toleration for control? 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@Katrica670]

@@latenishadavis6355?

[@latenishadavis6355]

Hi Laky! I was commenting that he states the reasoning for them attracting someone with these controlling features could be because they have a high tolerance for being controlled. Could stem from childhood. So he offers a course/video of "healing the inner child" that will shed light to the issue or alleviate the symptoms of that trauma by addressing the area that person may lack boundaries for. The timestamp that you choose of 7:33, Aaron marks a solution of being stronger with saying "no". Which can be a super hard thing to do for many reasons. But "being in your own frame" is to encourage you/other person's mentioned to hold on your principal and boundaries to maintain your/their well-being. Choose self. You MATTER. Or whoever you were describing in the comment that is being used MATTERS. ❤️🤗💪🏾

[@latenishadavis6355]

@@Katrica670 🥰

[@Katrica670]

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[@zoeazsss5035]

I recently had been head over heels in love (or i thought it was love) for two years. with this younger man,, but he only wanted to be friends.b I know this is way different that 2 people in a rship,, but to me it was love. We were friends first, then he took an about face, and kind of abandoned me emotionally, and I freaked out bc I couldnt get him back. Honestly, I dont think I ever had him. It was an illusion. But it hurt like hell. Most of the rships in my life have been with men who have cheated on me, lied, and basically unavailable. I am an honest faithful loyal woman and all I have ever wanted is the same in return.

[@ranikster9955]

Yes. Why do I always attract unavailable men, engaged men or men who prefer other women? I deserve so much better than this 😢

[@Branaymolly]

That's all I attract is emotionally unavailable people and then they try to tone my energy down and I don't understand it it really sucks

[@Branaymolly]

It's like they can careless about how I feel

[@donaldtrumpy5652]

❤️!

[@maggiethird928]

Keen to do your meditation for healing the inner child. Can't get the link to open. Is it just me...?😊

[@Branaymolly]

They say I do to much, I talk to much, and I want to be myself it's really sad but people with my personality type doesn't talk to me I always attract people that think I'm childish, talk to much, do to much I don't understand this I always attract the opposite and I try to keep things exciting. I'm confused on this I'm serious I'm so serious about this.

[@JayBird227]

Some people hate themselves, but attract perfectly loving partners. Contradiction of life lol

[@caliblue2]

Woow- u don’t know how much this aligns💜 Irony is even when you heal you keep experiencing the same thing so you can assert yourself. It’s difficult but necessary🌈 thank you 🙏

[@aaavictor7011]

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[@MauricioRamirez11]

I noticed this pattern of being attracted to emotionally unavailable people. I got tired of it so my response to this has lately been to associate attractive people as red flags, as big walking run signs, get the fu**k out of here, that girl will hurt me if I try to connect with her. But you see that confuses me big time on another level because if I avoid all people who appear attractive to me, does that not mean that I will always be single?

[@Eg-jd9zt]

I have this same issue. How do become attracted to who is available? It’s hard forcing attraction and uncomfortable for both parties

[@emmalynrae592]

You have to heal what makes you attracted to emotionally unavailable people. When you heal, it will feel natural to be repulsed by their behaviors and you will see red flags very very early on so you don’t waste much time. When you are deeply healed or even working on deeply healing, you’ll start to notice that your attraction to who is emotionally available is more centered. It can be uncomfortable at first, trust me I always felt like damn this guy is not interested in me…but he was! He just wasn’t looking to rush into something which was something that emotionally unavailable people do to get a void filled. He was a whole person all on his own he didn’t need me 🤷🏽‍♀️ super awkward feeling but it MADE SENSE.

[@111lxx5]

I have 2 main issues in my life. First is I attract friendships that are full on. They act like I'm the best mate they ever had. Then they dissappear. It's a pattern that i got sick of so just don't have many friendships anymore just a couple of people. The second is every guy I attract is in a relationship. Even people I meet who seem decent and single. I later find out they have a partner. I desire a man I can have a baby with. I do like the attention of attracting men so maybe that is my problem

[@user-nm3si2en8d]

My dear friend Aaron I really need your answer on this: I can't practice gratitude I just can't do it correctly I tried for so many times before but I just couldn't do it I wrote in my phone's notes the things I should be grateful for and I tried to do it to practice it but like I said I couldn't though and I have seen your videos on gratitude and I found that they were really useful and good to watch but still though couldn't do it and just to let you know I have gouls in my life that I want to achieve and I imagined achieving them today but then after doing that I tried to practice gratitude but still couldn't do it and this is so needed for me because like I said I want to achieve my goals by practicing gratitude but I just can't do it so please make a video about how to practice gratitude in the right way if you just can't do it please please please I really need it you'd change my whole entire life if you make that video for me answering this thing that I want which is about how to practice gratitude correctly if you can't do it

[@latenishadavis6355]

🤔 I would try a little trick first. The game of appreciation. Writing, speaking, singing a list of these things you can appreciate. (A kind smile, a great gesture, time spent, a gift given, attention focused on you, a great conversation, an induced thought, an unexpected shift that went your way, a calm day, and eventful day, new information learned or taught, a good song popping into your head, acknowledgement from a peer or mate ect.) Things that you have and things you don't have that you admire existing would be key points on this list. Putting this in practice by writing, speaking or singing about these things will help grow an appreciation. Giving out positive energy. Meditation on this positive energy will give you openness in receiving and sharpen your awareness of said good things (energy) being given to you. The more you're aware and open to it the more it would happen and you repay with your gratitude by reciprocation. 👍🏾🤗🤷🏾‍♀️❤️ Good luck

[@TheWildchildxx]

What if I do not attract people to my life at all and even if I do, they are all very different.. Anybody, any advise on that? :D

[@shamayim2001]

How do you become emotional available?

[@nathanericschwabenland88888]

And Mr enter an animated series reviewer predicted dc comics joining the Disney pantheon as well

[@user-nm3si2en8d]

My brother has Autism and he's damaging us in a really bad way he's annoying us he doesn't let us sleep at night , is there's anything I can do about it?

[@rachelj110]

Be his friend. Entertain him treat h like he doesn't have autism

[@shog369]

I am already lonely dear 😔

[@nellieatkinson]

🙌🙌

[@god563616]

This is good but this isn't for me. I have a done a healing process to the point where I am healed and WONT NO MORE DRAMA and want the peace but i am still attrracting men that emotionally are void and it turns out I give 70 and they give 30

[@antoniobortoni]

YOU ARE GOD so just ask the universe what you really want and that person love you back, also ja, dont allow to dated people that thinks are greater or bigger or more important or value than you.... not more but no less, just the midle, right... so for that you need to be humble because people will choose material over love.. she or he will appear like magic, like it was allways there but you never look.

[@JoyFay]

You had sexual relations, off and on, for years and with a girl you knew you didn’t like, instead of being honest with her so she didn’t have to waste her time with you!

[@patrickvanderhorst8177]

Aaron new happy news go promote single live man the wonderful feeling of a life without a partner is the happiest feeling in this beautiful world. luckily divorced twice you don't take the trouble of say filthy behavior that many women have in their bodies. the best advice you don't take strangers into your life, never throw your own life away towards women because then you have reached the saddest dullness in your life. living as a free man is a wonderful feeling with the freedom of an eagle in your mind

[@CruzyThaMan]

Well said my friend

[@UniversoSpiritualUnido]

Iboga

[@doodooasmr4829]

First ❤️

[@wadyahrh6107]

I feel i have a lot in common with u 😂🙈it is crazy

[@denisesorenson4000]

You recorded this with sound too low

[@aaavictor7011]

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[@mfimabefig9822]

I’m tutor ur gf from high school for real 😂

[@sabrinamalik1147]

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[@louisecoffey9843]

I need a dictionary to understand this tongue twister lol

[@aaavictor7011]

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[@aaavictor7011]

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[@1CT1]

Romans 10:9 “That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.” King James Version (KJV) John 3:16 King James Version 16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. Accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior and you will be saved. John 3:16 (share the good news of the gospel around the world!) Have a wonderful day/night, may the LORD bless you all, and farewell! Galatians 3:26 King James Version 26 For ye are all the children of God by faith in Christ Jesus. Titus 3:5-7 King James Version 5 Not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according to his mercy he saved us, by the washing of regeneration, and renewing of the Holy Ghost; 6 Which he shed on us abundantly through Jesus Christ our Saviour; 7 That being justified by his grace, we should be made heirs according to the hope of eternal life. ................................................................

[@latenishadavis6355]

Loved the scriptures. I was wondering how they related to the topic. 🤔❤️

[@connarcomstock161]

Take the meds.

[@DrSoapp]

You attract what you are blah blah The same video carbon copied in a thousand videos. Do you people ever offer your own unique opinions or is that too scary to go against the status quo? When people get bullied, do you blame the person being victimised also? At what point do we point the finger at the reward systems society has in place for this type of behaviour?

[@maleidi]

Thank you!