The Tinder Swindler | Conned Out of $200k | Cecile Fjellhoy | Dr Becky Spelman

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Dr. Becky Spelman

Dr. Becky Spelman

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#Fraud #OnlineDating #CecilieFjellhoy #SimonLeviev #Psychology
This is an episode from our podcast where Dr. Becky Spelman interviews people about their extraordinary life stories.
In today’s episode Dr. Becky speak to Cecilie who thought she had met her the man of her dreams when she matched on Tinder with Simon Leviev.
Cecilie was a 29-year-old Norwegian masters student living in London at the time, her first date included a trip on private plane, she truly believed that the man she was dating, who went on to become her boyfriend was an Israeli millionaire who called himself the "Prince of Diamonds." Over the course of 6 months he managed to defrauded her out of over $200k.
This is Cecile’s story where she discusses what she experienced, it’s not a therapy session however it does cover some of the Psychological impact that she experienced. Some people may find the content of this interview distressing.
Dr. Becky Spelman is a top Psychologist in London, Becky is the Clinic Director for Private Therapy Clinic which has clinic's based all around central London including; Harley Street, Wigmore Street, Bank, Earls Court & Canary Wharf. Becky uses Psychodynamic Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Eye Movement Desensitisation Reprocessing, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) and Mindfulness to treat a range of difficulties with a particular interest in Borderline Personality Disorder and the difficulties that go with this condition such as relationship difficulties, anxiety, depression, low-self esteem, social anxiety, fear of public speaking, fear of intimacy, interpersonal difficulties, anger, body image issues, eating disorders and addictions.
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@sharhful
@sharhful 3 жыл бұрын
First red flag: rich people use exclusive dating services and don’t waste their time on tinder. This lady has such a great attitude after what happened to her. Bless her soul
@BlendedBarbieDoll
@BlendedBarbieDoll 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly That was what I was thinking especially with how busy his schedule was. He honestly is a Pro and I think most people would of believed him… maybe not give him credit cards but definitely not doubt him and the team of people he travelled with.
@packersfanforlife7903
@packersfanforlife7903 2 жыл бұрын
@@BlendedBarbieDoll they probably would. Would you move in with someone after 2 dates though?
@zadekeys2194
@zadekeys2194 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. This woman has Love Addiction and is addicted to the Disney fairtales
@BRado
@BRado 2 жыл бұрын
Idk if I was rich and could bang anyone I’d want I’d swipe right on random gold digging whores and bang the shit outta them. This is like saying rich people don’t fuck people who slide in their dms. Sex is sex
@Powerhaus88
@Powerhaus88 2 жыл бұрын
LMAO, she was a gold digger and got a taste of her own medicine
@EmeraldRaven
@EmeraldRaven 3 жыл бұрын
The first thing I would have thought once he offered to take me in his private jet: This guy is trying to traffick me. The second thing I would have thought would be: Why does a millionaire need me to pay for anything?
@pneron2032
@pneron2032 3 жыл бұрын
You're going to get scammed, sweety.
@EmeraldRaven
@EmeraldRaven 3 жыл бұрын
@@pneron2032 Why would I get scammed?
@juliet7703
@juliet7703 3 жыл бұрын
💯 yes why would a supposed millionaire need so much money from me?🤨. He was a scammer on a different level
@dmeditz8100
@dmeditz8100 3 жыл бұрын
@@juliet7703 they both are gold diggers she wanted millionaire match so she can have easy money that guy wanted to millionaire matchmaker girls he just outsmart her if you are dating someone just by seeing their wealth you are no different.
@juliet7703
@juliet7703 3 жыл бұрын
@@dmeditz8100 true true.
@dorcasnazarene5611
@dorcasnazarene5611 3 жыл бұрын
First clue ladies : Billionaires don't go on Tinder to look for a soulmate. Rich kids date and party with rich kids , not ordinary people!!! Sorry she had to go through this nightmare. I hope this con artist is put away for a very long time!
@packageism
@packageism 2 жыл бұрын
he only got 5 months prison in isreal and is now living a free man.
@dorcasnazarene5611
@dorcasnazarene5611 2 жыл бұрын
@@packageism Yes I watched the Netflix documentary. I was disgusted , he’s back at scamming women. What a shame
@rinmartell2678
@rinmartell2678 2 жыл бұрын
Ikr. They even have their own dating app. There is this dating app for the rich, famous and beautiful people in the world. Celebrities like Emilia Clarke mentioned that app and how most celebrities use this app. On the other hand, Zac Efron and Marc Jacobs mention that they use regular Tinder and Grindr but people always think that they are catfishs. So there is that….
@TScm07
@TScm07 2 жыл бұрын
Blinded by the light of money … seems that it’s even easy to convince American Express… they gave her the credit line .. ridiculous company … they are the same character as this awful , morherfucker ..may they should set up a new company together scamming young girls with credit lines they may never can pay back and make them slaves for their entire life.
@TScm07
@TScm07 2 жыл бұрын
@@packageism looking on the law he did nothing wrong .. he got private loans without any signed contract from third parties ..that’s not a fraud at all … that’s a private problem .. between two private parties … easy quick money …
@nipaba3627
@nipaba3627 2 жыл бұрын
I wonder how many ladies will fall in love with a poor stranger after a week and agree to date them after less than a month. Simon Leviev really showed us that with money you can almost every girl you desire.
@icyivy2424
@icyivy2424 2 жыл бұрын
I did! When I met my now husband he was still a student. Now we are married and have a family business. Not everyone is greedy.
@nevergiveup9937
@nevergiveup9937 2 жыл бұрын
Not really. He predated on women with a certain profile. I believe most women would have not dated him at all or stepped back in distrust at some point.
@tomaszdabkowski499
@tomaszdabkowski499 2 жыл бұрын
She talks about trauma. Imagine his trauma waking up next to her.
@wsrtwetr
@wsrtwetr 2 жыл бұрын
She hads s e x with him in less than 8 hrs after they met because he has a jet and is rich and now she's doing interviews and play victim. Stop. This is worst than cancerous tiktok videos.
@shonii119
@shonii119 2 жыл бұрын
She had to have been on the make the way she tossed herself into bed with him after just meeting him. It could have been the other way around, she was also trying to see what all she could get.
@ilianacolston8070
@ilianacolston8070 2 жыл бұрын
When she said I've always been " I'd rather regret something that I did, instead of not doing it" will stick with me forever, because I'm that way and I'm sure so many more people are that way too. We could all be in her shoes right now. It was bold of her to expose everything for us to learn from her and hopefully learn from her experience.
@BruceWayne-eh4im
@BruceWayne-eh4im 2 жыл бұрын
Nah, no self respecting woman would be in her shoes. A self respecting woman would have told him to fuck off after he brought his wife and a child on the first date lol
@mrt8944
@mrt8944 2 жыл бұрын
Nonsense... If she continues to act like her stupidity is compassion then she's a real idiot.
@deeandrews7051
@deeandrews7051 2 жыл бұрын
I have never given a date or a boyfriend money. Never would.
@wsrtwetr
@wsrtwetr 2 жыл бұрын
No we can't. Coz some of us actually have substance, aren't stupid and superficial who likes using people for their money. Just because you relate because you share those qualities doesn't mean everyone else does. Thanks for outing yourself for being trash tho.
@DD-si6qm
@DD-si6qm 2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you're sharing this sad story, Cecile. You helped many women already, stopping all this. You brave kind girl, wish you all the best!
@jovitavillalpando2827
@jovitavillalpando2827 2 жыл бұрын
What kind of looony needs help ! Give money to a man is a red🚩flag
@jimmyfabs78
@jimmyfabs78 3 жыл бұрын
If a man is trying to lure you in with his money instead of his personality, that should be all you need to know about the guy. A billionaires son ain't gonna have no problems getting women. If he's on a dating app, FAKE!
@amills9261
@amills9261 3 жыл бұрын
The problem is a psychopath is an expert at reading others and playing the part, it is all fake to them they are actors and some are not only indifferent to your feelings they are sadistic. It is a power trip to deceive others and profit from it. This woman has really suffered and will be suffering for a long time in spite of her good nature and attitude. Very sad.
@shila8379
@shila8379 2 жыл бұрын
She’s not going to be suffering for a long time. She has a strong character. Naive? Yes but not weak
@jamesreynolds7334
@jamesreynolds7334 2 жыл бұрын
@@shila8379 So true.
@zaidzaido4428
@zaidzaido4428 2 жыл бұрын
She a gold digger
@PlebiteBaller
@PlebiteBaller Сағат бұрын
yeah well he used her,,,, but at the same time she wanted to use him. For fame/status/money he has.
@Dan-mm1yl
@Dan-mm1yl 10 ай бұрын
Evidence of what? She gave him the money filled out cc application forms fraudulently ? She broke the law not him. Her greed blinded her to a con. Shes blaming everyone else but herself Procedures not followed nothing investigated straight away etc etc. She slept with him on the 1st night flew off to another country with him the next day It was life teaching her a lesson and teaching her how to value people not just in monetary terms
@olearycaroline4364
@olearycaroline4364 5 жыл бұрын
This was a really eye-opening/attention-deserving topic. As a young woman I am thankful for hearing about Cecile's story, she is a very strong woman.
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 5 жыл бұрын
O'Leary Caroline thank you for your comment, we are glad you found this interview informative and hope you enjoyed watching
@olearycaroline4364
@olearycaroline4364 4 жыл бұрын
@@kwilder7378 Strong for having come through that ordeal.
@Crozzzbonez0
@Crozzzbonez0 4 жыл бұрын
O'Leary Caroline what about all the strong men who go through this every day?
@olearycaroline4364
@olearycaroline4364 4 жыл бұрын
@@Crozzzbonez0 What about them
@Crozzzbonez0
@Crozzzbonez0 4 жыл бұрын
O'Leary Caroline do their stories deserve attention?
@christinejunk8184
@christinejunk8184 2 жыл бұрын
It is very easy to see all of the red flags looking back at this story, as they are typical narcissistic behaviours like love bombing, over-inflated sense of self-importance, sense of entitlement, needing admiration, engaging in whirlwind "romance"/fast paced romance, his anger outbursts she observed towards others on the phone etc. That being said it seems that he was an incredibly talented con artist and it is clear he has zero empathy for his victims which appear to be many. He is probably further profiting from his newly found fame and finding new ways to grift from it. I feel very sad to read so many comments of people blaming the victims of his abusive behaviours. I am so sorry to hear the Cecilie was one of the victims but I feel like she still could be susceptible to another relationship with a narcissist in the future as she seems to believe there were no flags when looking back there were a lot. I feel badly for Cecelie and hope she gets the help that she needs to recover and learn from this horrible experience as one of his victims--keep up the healing!
@Sarit473
@Sarit473 2 жыл бұрын
Sociopath/narcisist. My father did the same to my mum and to other people 20 years agò. I wish I could teach people how to recognize red flags since the day first. Growing up with a narcissist/sociopath father it's a huge open eyes.. I fell so sorry for this girl♥️
@MisKristalful
@MisKristalful 2 жыл бұрын
The host is great! She's respectful, tactful, encouraging and considerate.
@MoGumboFukUTubeForChngngMyName
@MoGumboFukUTubeForChngngMyName 2 жыл бұрын
And shallow and naive
@jumble-1238
@jumble-1238 3 жыл бұрын
Really frightening that he got a 3 year old child and lots of others involved and even showed off his private jet. It’s terrifying the lengths these people will go to and the number of people it worked on and how he just kept going even after being arrested. I think she’s right about sending him to a mental hospital.
@natashaeverafter6464
@natashaeverafter6464 2 жыл бұрын
Ikr; there were certainly others who played quite heavily into his whole con. Knowingly or not. He had (at least) a "business partner", a "bodyguard", and the mother of his child. (I assume the 3 year old is more than likely the 3 year old.) This piece of s**t is obviously extremely good at this. He's been doing this crap for a long, long time. It doesn't appear that he's stopping anytime soon. Netflix recently released a new documentary about this creep.
@notyourfrind9415
@notyourfrind9415 2 жыл бұрын
@@natashaeverafter6464 worst of all, the documentary said that the 3 years old's mother was one of his initial Finnish victims.
@annamariehewitt3173
@annamariehewitt3173 3 жыл бұрын
Handsome hunks with such an enormous amount of money don't need to search for a beautiful girl on Tinder....
@Rob-ry7yi
@Rob-ry7yi 3 жыл бұрын
You see actors on tinder.
@bravo_catz6455
@bravo_catz6455 3 жыл бұрын
@@Rob-ry7yi catfish
@teresaevans4840
@teresaevans4840 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you,I have always said that!
@Aydingenc62
@Aydingenc62 3 жыл бұрын
nailed it
@ainzstainton9766
@ainzstainton9766 2 жыл бұрын
wealthy people attract other wealthy people 💯🔥🔥
@yungaterror
@yungaterror 3 жыл бұрын
I normally find victims like this naive and vulnerable but he was actually a pro. There was a way to always answer any question she had
@natashaeverafter6464
@natashaeverafter6464 2 жыл бұрын
Right; I just finished watching Netflix's recent documentary about this creep. ("The Tinder Swindler") He's been doing this a long, long time. He's extremely good at it. That's how I found this interview; and I'm glad I did. It's seriously messed up.
@ainzstainton9766
@ainzstainton9766 2 жыл бұрын
he just got one up on her thats it, played her and the other women like a tune.
@wsrtwetr
@wsrtwetr 2 жыл бұрын
And i am sure Cecile nv played mem for money considering how she only hop on his lap because he has a jet....
@michalluriewjoelustica6545
@michalluriewjoelustica6545 2 жыл бұрын
If she were a real high value woman with self-worth, the moment a man asks to use her credit card, or asks to use her money for anything, is the moment she runs away fast and blocks his number. Also, a high value woman does not get on an airplane with a strange man she met on a dating app. From the very first date he showed all the signs of a scumbag, what decent man invites a strange girl he met on Tinder on a plane ride?
@BruceWayne-eh4im
@BruceWayne-eh4im 2 жыл бұрын
Yup, if she was a real high value woman, she would not get on that plane, leave alone get on that plane with an "ex-wife" and a "child". She was smitten by that high life. Paid for it.
@michalluriewjoelustica6545
@michalluriewjoelustica6545 2 жыл бұрын
@@BruceWayne-eh4im absolutely. It’s normal for a woman to be intrigued my men who appear to be successful and affluent, this is how we are programmed. But smart women know that true affluent men don’t flaunt their wealth like that in public, burning their money on BS like private jets and caviar on a daily basis. Which is besides the point. Anyway, she was willing to put her financial and physical health on the line for a random dude she met on the internet who wooed her and told her she was pretty, high quality women do not do that. I hope she learned a valuable lesson in self-worth.
@BruceWayne-eh4im
@BruceWayne-eh4im 2 жыл бұрын
@@michalluriewjoelustica6545 Doesnt look like she has learnt a lot unfortunately. She seems to be saying how nothing seemed out of ordinary and the "doctor" in the video seems to be backing her up. They just started a gofundme for her which reeks of entitlement because they seem to be traveling and partying like crazy despite their debt. She wants people to pay for her foolishness while she continues to live the life of party.
@shila8379
@shila8379 2 жыл бұрын
@@BruceWayne-eh4im You know this is the result of a woman who doesn’t have a father figure in her life? Men are something else all around
@michalluriewjoelustica6545
@michalluriewjoelustica6545 2 жыл бұрын
@@shila8379 yes, she mentioned that she went to Oslo to stay at her mom’s house, implying her parents are not together
@patriciavasara1051
@patriciavasara1051 Жыл бұрын
As a European woman I find the cultural background of these women no accident. Scandinavians in general are very kind and trusting people, their women are the most open minded females in Europe, there's no patriarchal culture and they have no issues giving money to men. As a Spaniard I would NEVER in a million years jump with a Tinder stranger on a plane and my bull-shi-to-meter would be playing out loud looking at his flashy instagram, growing in a poor country makes you more streetmart, we're also more traditional and do not jump in planes with men who have not been properly introduced to our families. There's a reason why this man preyed on Scandinavian woman.
@elle9633
@elle9633 2 жыл бұрын
The truth is that this woman was enamored by his wealth. She describes him as being a normal guy when there is nothing normal about him, his wealth, and his entourage. To go on a trip with a guy she just meet, is insanity in and of itself. She did it to herself. Consequences of her own choices.
@drollette08
@drollette08 3 жыл бұрын
She is the one who contacted him first after reviewing his extraordinary luxury profile. What she was thinking 🤔 wow! I hit a home run
@juliesprik9479
@juliesprik9479 3 жыл бұрын
Just don't give them anything,how stupid.
@asoka7752
@asoka7752 3 жыл бұрын
@@FGC-ku4ez what about her unethical behaviour? being a gold digger is wrong. it's just wrong. relationships should be based on love not financial status. so she deserves it. yeah the guy is awful. I don't deny it. in fact they both are awful, gold diggers.
@InvestingAlex
@InvestingAlex 3 жыл бұрын
@@FGC-ku4ez Sure it's illegal being a conman and he will be and have been prosecuted by the law, but karma is something very real as well hence, the women who does immoral things like that will be punish by the universe which i believe is fair game
@thedarknessunderneathpodca6366
@thedarknessunderneathpodca6366 3 жыл бұрын
@@FGC-ku4ez I don't feel sympathetic for her and I still wouldn't do it. And at least it is something physical about the person and not just something else when it comes to physical attraction. And guys who leave their partners for a younger one or a model that are still just as pathetic and don't deserve any sympathy either when they catch a bad partner.
@thedarknessunderneathpodca6366
@thedarknessunderneathpodca6366 3 жыл бұрын
@@FGC-ku4ez he is a definite pos. I might find her superficial but that doesn't mean I sympathize with him either. He needs to be prosecuted.
@KELLY-maybeiCudBeUrGirlfriend
@KELLY-maybeiCudBeUrGirlfriend 3 жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to her and I wish her all the best. It would of been nice if you would of interviewed/questioned her in a way that we could of heard the whole story in chronological order. It was all over the place.
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment
@marykay7878
@marykay7878 2 жыл бұрын
i get what you are saying. but after watching the netflix documentary, it is easy to follow the conversation and it also offers information the docu did not give.
@dharmahikes
@dharmahikes 3 жыл бұрын
"Better to regret something you did.. than something you didn't do" I think she learned how wrong this line of thought is.
@BruceWayne-eh4im
@BruceWayne-eh4im 2 жыл бұрын
She clearly did not.
@jron5113
@jron5113 3 жыл бұрын
Why would a CEO of a diamond company need a strangers credit card?
@heyhandsome8079
@heyhandsome8079 3 жыл бұрын
why would a female with an above average attractiveness not able to find contentment with men around her social circle? Exactly, there is no reason that is acceptable to a high degree by most people.
@OFR
@OFR 3 жыл бұрын
As he told her, to hide his purchases and movements from his enemies. She fell for it.
@teresaevans4840
@teresaevans4840 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly,why would you not see the red flags
@Aydingenc62
@Aydingenc62 3 жыл бұрын
Ask her hahahaaaaaa
@michalluriewjoelustica6545
@michalluriewjoelustica6545 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly! She wants sympathy from the public, but the reality is that despite her advanced degrees, she has low self-esteem who was hungry to be swept off her feet, and willingly put her finances in harms way in return for his fake flattery, empty complements, and “affection”. Real wealthy men don’t need a strange woman’s credit card for anything
@SHurd-rc2go
@SHurd-rc2go 5 жыл бұрын
I feel for this woman. But the red flag for me would have been: why would a billionaire need to use Tinder?
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment
@kaheaisaac1
@kaheaisaac1 4 жыл бұрын
Hook up?
@1183newman
@1183newman 4 жыл бұрын
I think it should have been a red flag, anyone with any real money would be very careful about flaunting it on dating sites. If you are after a serious relationship then rule one is not to tell all the women or men you are a billionaire as it will only attract the wrong people.
@chibuzoakobundu8264
@chibuzoakobundu8264 4 жыл бұрын
Billionaires need love from gullible women on tinder too.
@purplepill2024
@purplepill2024 3 жыл бұрын
The moral of the story here is that anyone can get scammed from a young attractive woman like Fjellhoy to old widowers. Be safe out there.
@PlebiteBaller
@PlebiteBaller Сағат бұрын
moral of the story- don't be a gold digger
@yakomuto
@yakomuto Жыл бұрын
So le me get this straight, she being a golddigger went for him for his riches and she got scammed instead and I'm supposed to be sympathetic to her?
@juanitarichards1074
@juanitarichards1074 2 жыл бұрын
As soon ass they ask you for money, run. Rich people have plenty of friends and associates they can call on for a loan if they are in a jam, they don't need to ask you. A real man would never ask to borrow money from a woman.
@traciisaac6153
@traciisaac6153 2 жыл бұрын
My sentiments exactly
@leninfernandez9279
@leninfernandez9279 2 жыл бұрын
Right, only woman can ask money, gifts, dinners and all kind of stuff from man. F those gold diggers
@juanitarichards1074
@juanitarichards1074 2 жыл бұрын
@@leninfernandez9279 No we can't all because the men we fall in love with are nit rich and in NZ women pay their own way on dates. What about all the gold digging men out there who catfish women using false IDs and lobe bomb them and take all their money. They have multiple women on the go at once and are stealing their every last cent and leaving them broke and hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt?
@cathyvice1971
@cathyvice1971 3 жыл бұрын
Let’s try not to blame the victim. Compared to other stories that I’ve heard, this guy was a professional. And she was in love with him. I’m not surprised that she fell for it. And she’s got the guts to go public with this sad story as well. She’s got balls!
@cathyvice1971
@cathyvice1971 3 жыл бұрын
@@janos9969 yes that’s true but she DID know him versus the women who give thousands away to men they “meet” online, men that end up living in Nigeria. Plus as I said he was a professional; the private jet, the people who posed as his workers, his so called family, etc. He was good.
@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13
@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13 Жыл бұрын
This stuff happens to men everyday and no one cares, especially women.
@AsFewFalseThingsAsPossible
@AsFewFalseThingsAsPossible 3 жыл бұрын
22.58 There you go. She met him and slept with him the very same night. This tells you a lot about her character. She gives a complete stranger access to her body. Danger Will Robinson ! Courtship is there for a reason.
@heyhandsome8079
@heyhandsome8079 3 жыл бұрын
I agree with you but not exactly what was wrong. I bet if she met a male nurse, teacher, or even an average salary pilot, that she wouldnt have slept with them on the first night meeting. It's because she values money or social status a man has over everything else that a good man represents.
@ainzstainton9766
@ainzstainton9766 2 жыл бұрын
exactly!! thats why i have zero sympathy for this women. blinded by the money and lavish lifestyle. and when it all comes crashing down and too good to be true, she cries wolf. i bet shed be happy if he busted a nut in her, but before she found out the actual truth 🤣🤣
@Felipe_C86
@Felipe_C86 2 жыл бұрын
@@ainzstainton9766 Gold digger got exactly what she deserved.........no sympathy from me either
@kirstenkreativ3078
@kirstenkreativ3078 Жыл бұрын
Stay strong Cecilie! It helps a lot of defrauded people with their feelings of shame and guilt that you've come forward like this ❤❤
@skel760
@skel760 2 жыл бұрын
This woman is not victim. She saw him 2x. That’s it. 2x. The rest was messaging for a little over a month. She goes to great lengths to send him money every time he asked She lies on a loan application. Why? Why go through this for some guy you don’t even know. She chose to try and pursue a relationship with him thinking she was going to hit the jackpot. I think she’s pissed because she realized he didn’t want her so now She wants her money back. This is her own doing. And who the hell gets on a private plan with some dude you literally just met 30 minutes before, over coffee, and fly to another county. There were times she said how distant he was the last night she saw him. JC. Lady. You know him a month and most of it was texting . Now she’s asking to donate to her? F* that. I can’t even listen to her anymore. There’s something very odd with her. She acted like a damn schoolgirl.
@Victoria-rl4cu
@Victoria-rl4cu 3 жыл бұрын
First thing I would have thought: what does a millionaire want with me? Why is a millionaire in Tinder????? Anyhow, I just want a quiet life. Wouldn't be able to cope at that level. But, anyhow, poor girl 😔
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment
@therealdonaldtrump1646
@therealdonaldtrump1646 3 жыл бұрын
Nah. She just caught a better scammer that's all. Her gold digging skill wasn't enough for that guy : )
@LittleImpaler
@LittleImpaler 3 жыл бұрын
A lot millionaires do online dating. There's sites where women looking for sugar daddy cab hook up with one.
@Victoria-rl4cu
@Victoria-rl4cu 3 жыл бұрын
LittleImpaler but those are specific apps for sugar babies/daddies.
@maureenmeneses
@maureenmeneses 2 жыл бұрын
this is heartbreaking; when she retells the story in any interviews, it seems that the pain/trauma is still there
@linapesz313
@linapesz313 2 жыл бұрын
She still have the debt....It is hard to move on then you still have to deal with it
@notyourfrind9415
@notyourfrind9415 2 жыл бұрын
@@linapesz313 exactly, and these were high interest loans, she'll be paying them for a long time.
@likeandsharedeeznutsbruh2845
@likeandsharedeeznutsbruh2845 2 жыл бұрын
Shes just mad she got exposed for the gold digger she is and played like a fiddle. We all know she was using him for the money she thought he had
@juliansydney9819
@juliansydney9819 2 жыл бұрын
Check out her Instagram account - doesn’t seem too heartbroken to me
@linapesz313
@linapesz313 2 жыл бұрын
@@juliansydney9819 Should they post how much intrest rate is increasing on their loans? They are trying to move one with their life...
@allac3630
@allac3630 2 жыл бұрын
Dearest Cecile, You are so strong! 👏👏👏 You have such a big heart! 💕❤ Thank you for working up the courage and strength to share your story and going through this hell and still pushing forward with investigations and giving so much to expose this evil! 🙏🙏🙏 My heart goes out to you! You are not alone. Unfortunately, there are thousands if not millions of women who have gone through similar abuse and are too scared to tell anyone. THANK YOU FOR GIVING VICTIMS A VOICE! 🙏🙏🙏🙏💕❤❤💕💕
@JohnSmith-tz8jj
@JohnSmith-tz8jj 2 жыл бұрын
@@Shl-sal then you are as gullible as she is.
@skel760
@skel760 2 жыл бұрын
@@Shl-sal why? Have you suggested to start one for a abandoned single mom or a reliable charity?
@sophocles8761
@sophocles8761 4 жыл бұрын
If he had been a broke medical student and not the prince of diamond ... this story might have had a different ending
@BarriosGroupie
@BarriosGroupie 4 жыл бұрын
yeah, she could end up with a loser with little interest in family life.
@truejayoh
@truejayoh 3 жыл бұрын
@@BarriosGroupie I know plenty of medical students who became millionaires and parents to beautiful children. It's fortunate that these short sighted gold diggers don't go after these good people with huge future potential.
@sultryjmac
@sultryjmac 3 жыл бұрын
But like, oh my god, that loser is like so creepy! He doesn't even have any money! Gold digger got scammed. This people get a little karmic justice and are immediately crying foul. Welcome to what it's like to be a man 24/7.
@pneron2032
@pneron2032 3 жыл бұрын
*No match*
@GurjinderSingh12390
@GurjinderSingh12390 3 жыл бұрын
@sopho cles This story wouldn't have started. She was looking for a person like him. This time she was unlucky that he was fraud. However he spend so much money pn her too.
@Najda007
@Najda007 3 жыл бұрын
When I first heard about this I thought, wow how naive. But listening to this entire interview it becomes obvious he made such a show, it was not so easy to figure him out. He is really a pro. I didn't know decieving women was such a prolific proffession. My cousin had a few experiences like this, with less money involved though.
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching
@natashaeverafter6464
@natashaeverafter6464 2 жыл бұрын
Netflix recently made a documentary about this creep. It's called "The Tinder Swindler".
@Najda007
@Najda007 2 жыл бұрын
@@natashaeverafter6464 I just watched it. These girls did a good job, too 😂😂. But stll, he managed to get out of this quite unharmed. He had to change the strategy a little. Now that he is famous he will certainly try to cash in on this. Unfortunatelly he will get admirers and imitators.
@sayeeed1303
@sayeeed1303 2 жыл бұрын
@@Najda007 now we gotta punish and expose female scammers who scam men for free food, dates attention and time.
@notyourfrind9415
@notyourfrind9415 2 жыл бұрын
@@sayeeed1303 go and date the men you're attracted to - INCEL.
@Poppy-ur5wb
@Poppy-ur5wb 2 жыл бұрын
I mean does no one else think she had an arrow on her head saying pick me?! You meet someone for a couple of hours then get on a private jet to another country with him!? Then within a month you are sending him a credit card to use? I wouldn’t give my own brother my credit card? I can’t help but think if she had a bit of cop on she would have avoided this whole thing.
@BruceWayne-eh4im
@BruceWayne-eh4im 2 жыл бұрын
100% a pick me girl. Which self respecting woman would jump on a plane with a guy on their first date WITH an ex-wife and a child lol.
@Poppy-ur5wb
@Poppy-ur5wb 2 жыл бұрын
@@BruceWayne-eh4im I forgot about the ex and the child. That’s even worse 😂🙈
@waynekerrr9027
@waynekerrr9027 5 жыл бұрын
You gotta understand there are thousands of people just using these dating sites just to scam, so it's no use in using them, and crying about getting scammed.
@drumandbassob0007
@drumandbassob0007 4 жыл бұрын
its worse for men for man as well i feel were in general a easier mark , feel for this girl she seems like a nice girl , thought ha gold digger when i read the tittle but she isnt
@Kahrdis
@Kahrdis 4 жыл бұрын
There were plenty of red flags to spot before all that. It seems she was mainly attracted to his portrayed status & lifestyle. She got basically beat at her own game.
@sultryjmac
@sultryjmac 3 жыл бұрын
Shes crying cause she never got to scam him for his money. He got her first.
@asoka7752
@asoka7752 3 жыл бұрын
@@Kahrdis exactly. it's like two serial killers met each other, and one finishes another before another. nobody cares.
@PlebiteBaller
@PlebiteBaller Сағат бұрын
In fact guys gets scammed tenfold more often that females on datingsites. And it's only a big deal when women gets scammed. Bohoo
@linna3179
@linna3179 2 жыл бұрын
A guy who is always going really fast and they want everything with you without getting to know you! RED FLAG 🚩. I’ve learned that too! That never works Thank you for sharing your experience
@BruceWayne-eh4im
@BruceWayne-eh4im 2 жыл бұрын
So naive. Thinks Disney's definition of romance is real life. Got smitten by the private jet and expensive hotels. Hopefully she learns her lesson and grows and doesn't fall for crap like this agaIn
@orsolyahargita-varadi8726
@orsolyahargita-varadi8726 2 жыл бұрын
I still dont understand why on earth give somebody money after one month. "His family was rich" why not from the Super reach family. How can you belive somebody is madly love with you via Internet, she met with him only couple Times. Very sorry for the naiv ladies. He is a Monster.
@fulloffool5925
@fulloffool5925 4 жыл бұрын
It’s proven that a woman would rather share a rich and successful man with other women than having a unsuccessful man all for herself. Actually,ppl should be saying Behind every successful man there are women.
@JT-xj1pg
@JT-xj1pg 3 жыл бұрын
Lol someone broke this little boy heart and now he's mad at women
@fulloffool5925
@fulloffool5925 3 жыл бұрын
@@FGC-ku4ez So,what? Ppl get conned every time. Infact i got scammed too. My mistake and that man was clever than me that’s how he could scammed me. Nobody owns any one anything.
@fulloffool5925
@fulloffool5925 3 жыл бұрын
@@FGC-ku4ez That’s why i choose this name🤣. Jokes aside. Sure,it’s bad that happened to her. I am not denying that but if she was clever than she wouldn’t have got scammed. Or maybe she is clever but not as clever as the man who scammed her. There is always someone clever than you.
@NoReligion77
@NoReligion77 3 жыл бұрын
@@FGC-ku4ez maybe suggest not golddigging.
@NoReligion77
@NoReligion77 3 жыл бұрын
@@JT-xj1pg you were talking to a straight woman. Stereotyping gone wrong.
@allac3630
@allac3630 2 жыл бұрын
Hamish McClaren is in jail for 16 years for swindeling 16 people for a total of 7.6 million. Justice must be served for Shimon (Simon) as well!!
@marykay7878
@marykay7878 2 жыл бұрын
what i dont understand is even if they believed everything he said...why did they never wonder: even if privacy is an issue in the face of threaths, if your life is in danger and your daddy is a BILLIONAIRE, why dont you ask him to transfer money to you via western union or another cash service, using one of your acquaintances name as a recipient? why wait many days for a loan from a bank your girlfriend has to apply for? or why doesnt he send one of his many employees with one of his many jets and enough cash to pick you up or at least hand you the money? that would really baffle me
@SDiskic
@SDiskic 3 жыл бұрын
A very sad and tragic story. You are an excellent interviewer. You are a good listener and compassionate, as well as very supportive. All women sitting in Cecile's seat would feel so stupid, and shamed, but your approach is one of understanding. This could happen to anyone. Cecile isnt stupid. She is beautiful, intelligent and articulate, and she was duped by a professional conman with a whole entourage of criminals.
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching
@natashaeverafter6464
@natashaeverafter6464 2 жыл бұрын
100% agree!
@BruceWayne-eh4im
@BruceWayne-eh4im 2 жыл бұрын
There is nothing intelligent about her. She is a moron.
@MikSonus
@MikSonus 3 жыл бұрын
This guy is clearly a deceiver and an awful person, however, I’m very surprised that this lady didn’t see any warning flags. She was clearly looking for a guy with serious stats and that alone will bring only materialism and not really anything too real. Him taking her money was seriously wrong and he violated her in more ways than one. This is seriously not right. This guy needs stopping. That would be the same if it was reversed. No one should be able to get away with tricking and fraudulent love. Thank goodness she is ok. I hope this guy gets what he deserves.
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 3 жыл бұрын
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@natashaeverafter6464
@natashaeverafter6464 2 жыл бұрын
She isn't the only one he's defrauded. He's been doing this for a long, long time. He's extremely good at it. From what I understand; he's still conning people. Perhaps in another way, but still. He doesn't seem to be stopping anytime soon. Netflix recently released a documentary about this creep. It's really messed up.
@MikSonus
@MikSonus 2 жыл бұрын
@@natashaeverafter6464 Wow, so he is still doing it. Wondering what Netflix documentary is called?
@natashaeverafter6464
@natashaeverafter6464 2 жыл бұрын
@M H-C I'm sorry; I meant to include that. It's called "The Tinder Swindler".
@MikSonus
@MikSonus 2 жыл бұрын
@@natashaeverafter6464 Thanks for the update, Natasha. I’ll definitely be watching that. Crazy that he still out there conning.
@Somnivers
@Somnivers 5 жыл бұрын
33:24 I'm sorry but how is that stealing ?The guy was the same,her perception was different.He showed her cars and a jet and talked about diamonds.He even had a child with another woman but that wasn't a deal-breaker either.
@Somnivers
@Somnivers 5 жыл бұрын
''That is sexual assault'' No.It is not.In what court in the civilized world would that stand as sexual assault ?
@olearycaroline4364
@olearycaroline4364 5 жыл бұрын
Somnivers from a psychological perspective it’s assault because if she knew who he really was she wouldn’t have had sex with him
@Somnivers
@Somnivers 5 жыл бұрын
@@olearycaroline4364 I feel sexually harassed right now
@Lamedvavnik
@Lamedvavnik 5 жыл бұрын
O'Leary Caroline how do you know she wouldn’t have sex with him?
@olearycaroline4364
@olearycaroline4364 5 жыл бұрын
Kåre Berntsen he wasn’t doing this to get laid, he deceived her into a whole relationship with a false identity to rob a huge some of money from her. Her whole concept of him was a deception, of course it’s an assault
@TruthNotfame
@TruthNotfame 4 жыл бұрын
She wanted an easy ride he wanted an easy ride perfect match ✅
@howdan1985
@howdan1985 3 жыл бұрын
Spot on!
@kiturselassie813
@kiturselassie813 3 жыл бұрын
How about that
@InvestingAlex
@InvestingAlex 3 жыл бұрын
Fact!!! and Sad Truth.
@Rob-ry7yi
@Rob-ry7yi 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t see any woman who would say no.
@Aydingenc62
@Aydingenc62 3 жыл бұрын
Love it
@linna3179
@linna3179 2 жыл бұрын
Stop calling her gold digger!!! If she was a gold digger she would have NEVER spend a penny on that guy! Unfortunately she felt in love of his lies! And that could happen to anyone.
@victorjames7
@victorjames7 4 жыл бұрын
This type of weird (her own words) woman is attracted to rich, good looking, wow factor types to show off to her friends... who was actually just a crooked man gaining her trust for a basic con involving a private jet (true evidence of a prince of diamonds)... real men wouldn't ask a woman for money but would respect if a lady wants to go Dutch on a second date for example. Ultimately she's a gold digger and got owned, this exposes her as much as the "con man". Real good men this is a warning - steer clear of this "con woman" she will ruin you. Dr. Becky Spelman and the Private Therapy Clinic should warn men about this type of women.
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
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@preciousgem6506
@preciousgem6506 4 жыл бұрын
totally agree
@ainzstainton9766
@ainzstainton9766 2 жыл бұрын
no sympathy given, zero.
@BruceWayne-eh4im
@BruceWayne-eh4im 2 жыл бұрын
@@peggyderr9208 there is nothing smart about this one though.
@GoddessoftheNorth
@GoddessoftheNorth 2 жыл бұрын
@Peggy Derr too right! There seems to be quite a few Incels commenting here. This level of victim shaming, slut shaming and misogyny sickens me more than the Simon Levievs of this World. And the latter is a bonafide sociopath btw.
@apureenergyme9
@apureenergyme9 3 жыл бұрын
She need to look into herself, she was trying to have a easy ride too. She lost her mind when she see he looks so “ rich”.
@teresaevans4840
@teresaevans4840 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@Ale-cl1mm
@Ale-cl1mm 3 жыл бұрын
I have had some convos with Simon on tinder first , then on insta. He never asked me for anything. We were just talking . Anyway…. I don’t have questions to him. Probably , he had been always like that. But why would a young woman give her money to someone she doesn’t know? And also how can a lady travel somewhere on private jet with a guy she knew only one day? Wasn’t she scared ? …
@emmyemmy8669
@emmyemmy8669 2 жыл бұрын
honestly, at first i felt sorry for her. but she is not only naive, but she was blinded by her desire for the story to be true. she wanted him to be her prince.
@junkfoodguy
@junkfoodguy 2 жыл бұрын
but bwfore the was his wife was vixtim where the blame in that right?
@Hanna-wh2wk
@Hanna-wh2wk 3 жыл бұрын
Watch the full documentary before judging this women. This man was a professional con ARTIST. He was flying in private jet, traveling all over Europe while having arrest warrants out for him..he had multiple passports and identities and fooled so many others working with him to strengthen his deception. She seems like such a sweet person and really strong.. she is responded to bring more awareness and prevent him from hurting others like he hurt her; she has a good heart and was victimized by this sociopath. So sorry she had to go through all of this :(
@bt82330
@bt82330 2 жыл бұрын
I totally understand your point. But do you want some thousands of examples where gold diggers like her ruined successful men and their families ?
@junkfoodguy
@junkfoodguy 2 жыл бұрын
@@bt82330 but where do you drsaw well way before 1st woman there was sorta wife that she part of the problem
@Poppy-ur5wb
@Poppy-ur5wb 2 жыл бұрын
Would you get on a flight with a stranger after meeting them for 2 hours? Would glue send someone you have known for one month your credit card? Sorry but I feel like this was always going to happen to her. She’s absolutely away with the fairies
@junkfoodguy
@junkfoodguy 2 жыл бұрын
@@Poppy-ur5wb why not blame his ex?
@Poppy-ur5wb
@Poppy-ur5wb 2 жыл бұрын
@@junkfoodguy blame his ex for what? It doesn’t matter what anyone’s ex has done, I’m not sending you a credit card with no limit when I’ve known you for a month. Call me crazy, but she had an arrow on her head saying pick me 😂🤷🏻‍♀️
@essmax373
@essmax373 4 жыл бұрын
First sign was him claiming to be the son of a billionaire. Good people who are genuinly wealthy don't brag like that... but if they do those are the once you stay away from. She was attracted to the latter which is why don't feel sorry for her.
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
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@teresaevans4840
@teresaevans4840 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!! I always said that
@katrianamalone2201
@katrianamalone2201 2 жыл бұрын
She is very brave to speak out and share her story.
@BasilFomeen
@BasilFomeen 2 жыл бұрын
Guy is definitely a sociopath. She is a lovely woman I feel bad for her but she has everything she needs to put this behind her and win in life
@PHlophe
@PHlophe 2 жыл бұрын
Geoff, his dress sense is 100% current and he looked fresh at all time. he had a couple of things working for him. a good sartorial taste, impeccable grooming and charisma. all those 3 if any man has those at the same time . everything will work just fine. He is a monster but we can point a few good things that could work in the corporate world. Dude can close ANY DEAL.
@tomsawyer7429
@tomsawyer7429 2 жыл бұрын
Damn. She seems like a genuinely lovely person. I don’t get the impression she was even looking for a billionaire or anything.
@ainzstainton9766
@ainzstainton9766 2 жыл бұрын
@@earthtoimani lol what a crock!! shes a naive, vain women. if it was some average joe, she wouldnt even look twice. all his jets, flashy lavish lifestyle blinded her of whats actually real.
@shila8379
@shila8379 2 жыл бұрын
@@ainzstainton9766 that’s like you getting played by a beautiful woman and everyone blaming you for it. Men like beauty, women like success. It is what it is
@ainzstainton9766
@ainzstainton9766 2 жыл бұрын
@@shila8379 yea i concur with what you just said, but doesnt give her the excuse of signing all that money under her own name for him. i say lie in the bed you made hunny.
@shila8379
@shila8379 2 жыл бұрын
@@ainzstainton9766 People in general need to stop falling for someone’s exterior. Looks and clothing can’t speak. It’s persons character and heart that should be recognized and valued. Shallow world we live in
@ainzstainton9766
@ainzstainton9766 2 жыл бұрын
@@shila8379 indeed!!🙌
@whiteangel1677
@whiteangel1677 4 жыл бұрын
It is not easy to go publicly with such a story. She is extremely brave and bold. I really admire her. People are judgmental nowadays and do not understand the extent these evil scammers go to manipulate unsuspected victims worldwide. It is a shocking experience. May God bless you Cecilie. I hope KARMA hits the evil scammer 🙏
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment, we hope you enjoyed the video!
@dondraper2488
@dondraper2488 4 жыл бұрын
She only went public out of spite.Poor,poor loser! She needs to up her shovel game....
@dondraper2488
@dondraper2488 4 жыл бұрын
@Daniel Freeman-Rayner The shovel god.... :-)
@bambangsudanto5309
@bambangsudanto5309 3 жыл бұрын
Let us support Cecillie's recovery....we do not have time to judge her
@sultryjmac
@sultryjmac 3 жыл бұрын
@@bambangsudanto5309 I do. She ki da knows what it's like to be a man now. She'll really get it after 10 more times.
@Powerhaus88
@Powerhaus88 2 жыл бұрын
So basically Cecile got a taste of what millions of men around the world have always gone through. No one cares, hell, they make fun of men for it, but when it happens to a single woman? OH GOD NOO WHAT A TRAGEDY CALL THE ARMY
@vTefLon
@vTefLon 4 жыл бұрын
She got a taste of what men go through
@Sara-jy2bt
@Sara-jy2bt 4 жыл бұрын
are you kidding me? tons of men prey on women for financial gain.
@vTefLon
@vTefLon 4 жыл бұрын
@@Sara-jy2bt sometimes gazelle can kill a lion. lmao. whats more common?
@SA77888
@SA77888 4 жыл бұрын
Well said Murp.
@DokoloCity
@DokoloCity 4 жыл бұрын
i don't feel sorry for her.. yes you are a suspect and a criminal
@LittleImpaler
@LittleImpaler 3 жыл бұрын
What a jerk. Being scam can happen to both sexes.
@specialtwice4975
@specialtwice4975 3 жыл бұрын
He is a sociopath, plan and simple. I dated one, they suck.
@asafaingram9088
@asafaingram9088 4 жыл бұрын
Too funny. She only really liked him AFTER she had seen he was wealthy. Educated but not bright. Mediocre looks but not beautiful. Uses a dating app but not looking for authentic connection. It glitters so it's gold. No sympathy.
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
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@ilovecarlitoganja206
@ilovecarlitoganja206 4 жыл бұрын
He Uno reversed her.
@etiennedegaulle3817
@etiennedegaulle3817 4 жыл бұрын
Poor gold digger got her own shovel used on her.
@howdan1985
@howdan1985 3 жыл бұрын
LOLLLLLLL haha bang on my friend.
@courtneyraiyn-eshaiyn7815
@courtneyraiyn-eshaiyn7815 4 жыл бұрын
Hate this happened to her. I was taken for a ride by a sociopathic fiance for 4 years and about lost my mind. He lived multiple lives as well. Although I didn't lose $200,000 dollars, I lost my home, my car, my friends along the way and half of my family bc of the way he meticulously molded a web of doom around my entire orbit of life. It's been over 2 years and I'm still trying to glue my life back together. Most of everything is gone for good though, he made sure of that. Anyway, he wound up getting another girl almost 14 years younger than him pregnant and he is now all hers. He didn't just cheat on me. He was meeting with the family of the other woman and they actually thought he lived with them!! It's amazing how these freaks sleep at night. This woman here is so lucky she made it out alive. There have been times I've wondered if my ex wouldn't have killed me to further his own needs bc that girl got pregnant and he didn't want me to find out. You think you know someone!
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Courtney, so sorry to hear you went through this. Thank you for sharing. If you ever wish to speak to someone we can offer a free 15 minute phone call with one of our therapists.
@niviamaeva
@niviamaeva 4 жыл бұрын
I am sooo sorry! 😪
@fulloffool5925
@fulloffool5925 4 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that but i can’t stop thinking how it lasted 4 years. I mean were you on Mars mission or why did it took so long to figure out that person isn’t who he seems to be?
@niviamaeva
@niviamaeva 4 жыл бұрын
@@fulloffool5925 i think that the fact the person is a con makes one not able see it! There are really talented con out there. They may live among us. Please don’t judge people! 🌷🙏🏼
@howdan1985
@howdan1985 3 жыл бұрын
Why do you feel sorry for her? She was a stupid gold-digger who cried like a baby when the tables were reversed. She knew the game, she got played and she was a sore loser. Pathetic.
@michalluriewjoelustica6545
@michalluriewjoelustica6545 2 жыл бұрын
A normal, healthy man does not invite a random woman he met on-line to be in any situation involving his baby mama and child a few hours after the first date, let alone on an airplane. The baby mama and child made her feel safe? She should have freaked out because this guy is a psychopath, and ran quickly in the other direction!
@Felipe_C86
@Felipe_C86 2 жыл бұрын
She was blinded by the MILLIONS she was after
@angelinajolie3427
@angelinajolie3427 2 жыл бұрын
She is crazy going in to a airplane with a stranger man she met online....very dangerous
@codingisthegame8839
@codingisthegame8839 2 жыл бұрын
She was gold digger lvl 3 and he was conman lvl 34 xD
@divadoodledoo
@divadoodledoo 2 жыл бұрын
This is like a prequel to Tinder Swindler!
@nickimarie4733
@nickimarie4733 3 жыл бұрын
REAL MEN DO NOT ASK WOMEN FOR MONEY. If a guy starts mentioning anything about financial problems, I’ll drop him so fast. That’s a huge red flag. Ppl that ask for money will never have enough to pay you back. Otherwise they would’ve asked a bank.
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 3 жыл бұрын
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@shirlainewilliams152
@shirlainewilliams152 3 жыл бұрын
when ever i meet someone the first thing i find out is where are his family and friends ,where actually he works do your own investigation
@florence1395
@florence1395 2 жыл бұрын
Keeping yourself too yourself can be a little lonely but being scammed by someone would totally & does bring our hate in me towards them! They are cruel being’s who deserve a strong punishment!
@adish7275
@adish7275 Жыл бұрын
After I watched I couldn't understand how she gave him money, he is supposedly from a rich family, didn't she ask herself how is it that she's his only rescuer?
@zadekeys2194
@zadekeys2194 2 жыл бұрын
I think this lady needs Love Addiction councelling. She clearly chases the dating / romantic high. It's very clear that her desire for love led her down this path. 2months of dating and she says yes to moving in... Something isn't right.. For an IT consultant with a Master's degree, she didn't use much logic or reason.... You should only lend > $100 to someone you've been with, or have known for atleast 12months.
@kartoonle
@kartoonle 3 жыл бұрын
My heart goes out for this brave young woman. She's right to describe him as a psychopath. The show he put together was very disarming. I hope she doesn't blame herself. She happens to be at the other end of a monster's work. She's also right that there's little or no patrolling in Shangen/Europe despite having the facade of authority. This continent also witnesses countless of Trafficking incidents,which somewhat also use similar deception tactics. May you heal and may your humanity remain intact.
@natashaeverafter6464
@natashaeverafter6464 2 жыл бұрын
At first I might've judged her, too. But I just finished watching Netflix's recent documentary about this piece of 🤬; looking for further information. It's called "The Tinder Swindler". That's how I came across this interview, and I'm very glad I did. She isn't the only one he's defrauded. Not even close. He's been doing this for a very long time. He's extremely good at it. It's seriously messed up.
@skel760
@skel760 2 жыл бұрын
Brave?
@chibuzoakobundu8264
@chibuzoakobundu8264 4 жыл бұрын
Turns out she is a Gold digger who fell for what she thought was a rich man. She got played by a professional player.
@BarriosGroupie
@BarriosGroupie 4 жыл бұрын
She's a success digger and I wish her the best.
@teresaevans4840
@teresaevans4840 3 жыл бұрын
I agree
@paridoesupcycling
@paridoesupcycling 2 жыл бұрын
Cecile is a very strong woman after everything’s been through. Don’t think she’d read this but I really want to send a support and positive energy. If this happened to me I’d have ended my life.
@codingisthegame8839
@codingisthegame8839 2 жыл бұрын
Get off internet and get some help if you think she's some kind of role model. She's a gold digger lvl 5 who met conman lvl 34.
@gianclaudiomoresi9650
@gianclaudiomoresi9650 4 жыл бұрын
Very nice interview. Cecile was looking for a very special and luxury guy, and she found exactly the opposite. Cecile is a Gold Digger too: she swiped right to the guy with a extreme Luxury Life (with a Jet!), and not to a normal nice guy. The normal guys are just rejected with a swipe to the left-side, isn't? This is life and she was even part of this game; she enjoyed the luxury around her. I would like to hear the story from the point of view of the guy. I am pretty sure that the version is very different. And by the way: similar stories are happining to men too, who are meeting unintetionally professional Gold Diggers. Of course if a lady is asking money, it will be OK, right? The other problem is the wrong declarations to get a Platinum Card. This is a real fraud. I am just wondering, why AMEX did not check carefully the declarations. Basically - to get a Platinum card - the AMEX Office checks the tax declartions too, in order to prove, that the income & wealthy is enough high. How can a lady from the university, get such of Platinum-Card ???
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
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@Mattlifts
@Mattlifts 2 жыл бұрын
Is it even a scam? He asks them for money without a contract in place and they happily give it.
@adelineouhin8969
@adelineouhin8969 2 жыл бұрын
That's where there is a fine line between manipulation and free will. The guy is a fraud.
@BruceWayne-eh4im
@BruceWayne-eh4im 2 жыл бұрын
@@adelineouhin8969 She faked a pay check to get a fake credit card lol. She is a fraud too.He is just worse.
@adelineouhin8969
@adelineouhin8969 2 жыл бұрын
@@BruceWayne-eh4im Check again. I think she worked that job for real. He got connection to get her hired 😊.
@BruceWayne-eh4im
@BruceWayne-eh4im 2 жыл бұрын
@@adelineouhin8969 no he did not lol. Go look at the Netflix documentary
@adelineouhin8969
@adelineouhin8969 2 жыл бұрын
@@BruceWayne-eh4im Wow...I missed that detail. Gotta watch it again. Ok.🙂
@dianakatuuo3056
@dianakatuuo3056 3 жыл бұрын
She would have spared herself all this, hadn't she inboxed him. What exactly did she want from him when she 'reached out'?
@gotmilk1331
@gotmilk1331 5 жыл бұрын
Maybe done fall for a man's money.🤷‍♂️ Legend has it, he is still the most respected man in the world
@JT-xj1pg
@JT-xj1pg 3 жыл бұрын
Beta
@NoReligion77
@NoReligion77 3 жыл бұрын
@@JT-xj1pg yeah, no man of worth wouldn't resent women for seeing him first for his wealth before anything else. Pathetic.
@NoReligion77
@NoReligion77 3 жыл бұрын
Whether she is a golddigger and sucks too or not, if this guy is the most respected man in the world shoot me now.
@bozidara1178
@bozidara1178 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing interview. thank you for that !
@robinbanks.
@robinbanks. 5 жыл бұрын
Respect for sharing this Cecile!
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 5 жыл бұрын
Robin Banks thank you for your comment we hope you enjoyed the video
@beatasenderakovajakabova2483
@beatasenderakovajakabova2483 2 жыл бұрын
Cecile, wishing you all the best, you are very brave, thank you for sharing your story ❤
@jkm402
@jkm402 2 жыл бұрын
Whose here because of the Netflix movie?
@mcrsal2603
@mcrsal2603 2 жыл бұрын
✋🏻
@miguelanthony4956
@miguelanthony4956 2 жыл бұрын
When we watch the Jeffrey Epstein's documentary, we can understand that manipulation skills that such individuals can have to make you believe what they want. I believe her and I hope she keep having professional support for as long as she needs it 🙏🏾
@cyndigooch1162
@cyndigooch1162 2 жыл бұрын
miguel anthony That's exactly right and it's so good that you have understanding and compassion for the lovely young woman! I keep mentioning to others that most people tend to take others at face value, especially if they're friendly and polite, not to mention good-looking. It's also incredible how powerful charisma can be as a factor in manipulation. I've learnt the hard way that certain narcissistic individuals are excellent actors, including my EX, but even other similar types assumed that he was a lovely man, because he's friendly. They usually have a strong radar for vulnerability as well, which he boasted about. I've witnessed him and others in action and it's like they put their targets under a spell, hence why it's best to be very wary when meeting new people, especially via online dating. 😊
@thealchemist6994
@thealchemist6994 4 жыл бұрын
Wow.. this is like a movie story created only in the mind but real. A SICK man!! Simon is playing in the real people's worlds. This is insane.
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
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@heyhandsome8079
@heyhandsome8079 3 жыл бұрын
Im not defending Simon's actions, but it only takes such a sophisticated scheme to have a woman part ways with her money is just sad. Women would not be in a situation in which they have to financially support the man. Never would u see a female doctor with a male nurse, never would you see a female finance director with a male used car salesman, and the list goes on.....
@StarofDavid616
@StarofDavid616 2 жыл бұрын
Human are evil. You be suprised that there are evil people out there that would kill a person for 5 bucks
@lazarcatalina1176
@lazarcatalina1176 2 жыл бұрын
1.Where he had money after jail?Maybe he deposit over the years,but his spending habits were outrageous,even to use a private airplane is 5000-1000euro per day for one trip. So either he deposit or he has an organization behind him,Like black axes do exist in Nigeria,romance scam i assume ,having his face exposed everywhere,he cant no longer perform this,so he is doing behind the scene.Trainining other guys who r online now doing the same thing.Despite we got his face,tomorrow are going to be hundreds of new Simon with new stories ,new face on evey website or doing it live .you can meet them at parties,holiday claiming are rich! Conclusion?Organization behind him or he with 2 guys were independent and now are training other people expecting a share. 2.I m not claiming those women were not naive but he claimed all his family had his their bank account frozen,therefore so-called father could not help,but of course,how about the family friends? Also they saw his fake passport of his with that name of that billionaire,in fact on their first date he told her to keep his passport,so she could see his name and gain trust probably. 3.All these news published online about his family problems,the woman thrown from the window.related to his family,i dont know if are real about that family,but i assume he had some hackers publish fake news on some sites,cloned sites. This will add more credit to his story. 4.The first girl she only made a fast loan once or twice for 25000 and 15=total of 40000 n her name but afterward to remove his daily limit he had provide her with some documents from his so called company,he hired her for his company, claiming she earns 90000 euro per month. She probably assumed if the loan is made on his company as his employer,she wont pay. Im not saying they were not stupid but these reasons counted!
@rxlam2287
@rxlam2287 2 жыл бұрын
She desired to pursue a guy with money n fortune, but she got played big time by a professional. What she need to do is to go back and continue her pursuit. Hope she'll get lucky next time. What a heart want will keep wanting the same shit
@baraka629
@baraka629 3 жыл бұрын
For all the times tinder girls have just gone out with guys for a free meal, finally the women get a taste of their own schemes.
@kiturselassie813
@kiturselassie813 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@user-bf7zw3nt2q
@user-bf7zw3nt2q 3 жыл бұрын
What the fuck. I've never had a free meal, I pay my own shit. Your generalization makes me think that you are an incel loser
@NoReligion77
@NoReligion77 3 жыл бұрын
@@user-bf7zw3nt2q incel is a cliché. Do you think Ted Bundy had a positive outlook on women or was an incel?
@ainzstainton9766
@ainzstainton9766 2 жыл бұрын
@@kiturselassie813 exactly. they were both in it for the wrong reasons, he just played the game better.
@drollette08
@drollette08 3 жыл бұрын
Now, I ain't sayin' she a gold digger (When I'm in need) But she ain't messin' with no broke niggas (She give me money) Now, I ain't sayin' she a gold digger (When I'm in need) But she ain't messin' with no broke niggas. Kayne west song
@annr3800
@annr3800 3 жыл бұрын
Where did he get the jet from?
@heyhandsome8079
@heyhandsome8079 3 жыл бұрын
From the money he scammed from his previous relationships
@Rae2492
@Rae2492 3 жыл бұрын
She was not "physically safe" at any point. How many red flags are necessary? I'm not sure. I'm pretty street smart. Just because child there..who says it was his child or the baby's mother. He was a stranger. It was the first date. The trip itself was big red safety flag flying. Perhaps, only one red flag needed. She is very brave to go public.
@ED80s
@ED80s 3 жыл бұрын
Imagine going on a first date flying somewhere. What happens if it goes bad or dangerous? Not like you can call an uber to take u home! Plus the expense of having to take a plane to get home on your own. That's just insane.
@essymoniq
@essymoniq 2 жыл бұрын
Who is with me coming to watch this after watching (the tinder swindler) ? Waaah 😭 am shocked 😮
@BayOctopus
@BayOctopus 2 жыл бұрын
Incredible story, saw the documentary this week, certainly mind blowing and have sympathy for the victims but also recognize they made really bad choices. No, this was not rape, give me a break. You can't go and equate falling for a guy and having a consensual relationship with him but then he manipulated you into loaning him money he never paid back and then say it was rape, she broke up with him actually! Please ladies, personal responsibility. I get she was conned and it's awful but this is not rape or sexual assault, it's fraud.
@WasBlind_NowISee
@WasBlind_NowISee 2 жыл бұрын
Biggest plot twist would be that shes in on it playing the victim going around doin interviews as they do this as a team to get insurance money.
@Fishka5678
@Fishka5678 2 жыл бұрын
Well, some could say they were naive etc but on the other hand they agreed to take fake payslips and be a part of “hidden crimes”. I wont call them his victims but victims of their own greediness. He is an asshole but found easy way to fool easiest target .. women looking for “rich love”.
@gd2860
@gd2860 3 жыл бұрын
lol she got played. She was bout to ride him to the bank herself. She mad she got done dirty first.
@thabthim3456
@thabthim3456 3 жыл бұрын
I love the video he sends her showing an attack 🤣 James Bond
@celticRicky
@celticRicky 5 жыл бұрын
Sad already. Its not the money, its the Hurt in our souls.
@johnconnor4184
@johnconnor4184 3 жыл бұрын
it is about the $$$$ that's what you don't understand these bitches out here trying to live off a man and baam the tables have turned. LOL
@coldwhitespring5004
@coldwhitespring5004 4 жыл бұрын
She is so brave to go public with this story! (Her name is Cecilie btw, not Cecile.)
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 4 жыл бұрын
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@SouthernBeautyQueen
@SouthernBeautyQueen 4 жыл бұрын
He’s a good looking guy and everyone is looking to level up in life. This could of happened to any women 😢
@dondraper2488
@dondraper2488 4 жыл бұрын
Her game was weak,she took a shovel to a gunfight....
@dr.beckyspelman
@dr.beckyspelman 3 жыл бұрын
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@DrD3m3nt0
@DrD3m3nt0 3 жыл бұрын
@@dondraper2488 , No, she took a hand chisel to dig out gold nuggets but he brought a gun to rob her.
@heyhandsome8079
@heyhandsome8079 3 жыл бұрын
@@FGC-ku4ez neither is she but that isnt the issue here, a women can look like a potato but attracted to men that seemed wealthy and high social status.
@NoReligion77
@NoReligion77 3 жыл бұрын
Nah, won't happen to any woman but ones who are credulous and looking to level up, as you think of it, by using a guy for money, are definitely vulnerable.
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