The TOP 10 THINGS we wish we knew before having a baby | The Beeston Fam

[@williamtaylor2363]

Shoutout to Derik for being a solid male role-model for us up and comers. The fatherhood insights and examples throughout these videos are really appreciated. That's not to say Sarah isn't great too by the way!

[@SarahAndDerik]

Hey thanks so much man! Means a lot! Sarah is definitely the better half hahah

[@williamtaylor2363]

Behind every man right? Happy to highlight your example and it’s very inspiring.

[@independentopinion5302]

Jack always looks surprised. He got such big eyes 😳He's so observant

[@101kass]

I cannot tell you how much I appreciate your guys’ honesty about having a “difficult” baby. My son is 4 months now and was extremely colicky/unhappy with hours on end of screaming for the first 3 months. So much of what you say resonates with me and makes me feel like I am not alone in the struggles. Thank you for being so up front and honest!!

[@rw9019]

Research chiropractic for babies. Birthing really contorts a body. Theirs and yours. It helps.

[@lollsazz]

As the previous comment said: chiropracsis could help. It's also important to know about overtiredness, milk protein allergy, reflux, burping twice a meal (only by holding baby over the shoulder, no slapping their back) and ovestimulation. I feel those things should be mentioned very early on, as they fix a lot of "colic".

[@Sakmaquil]

If I may add... Cat nip tea was a huge help with most most fussy baby things

[@tmalloy9]

@@rw9019 this is true and absolutely helpful. There is also a remedy called “Colic Calm” which absolutely helps. It is also helpful for adult indigestion. It’s kind of magic.

[@tashachristy09]

@@tmalloy9 as an adult i can personally verify this (side sleeping, resting, napping) sooths an upset stomach. I have a digestive disease and can verify 20 minutes of laying on my side, a trip the the bathroom and im right back up feeling fine doing normal activities with a happy attitude. A lousy slow moving gut would make ANYONE ANY AGE cranky lol

[@PeekabooCockatiel]

I was 19 with my first baby. I had nurses that were horrid about my nursing for the first 3 days. They acted like I was starving my son on purpose when he wouldn’t latch on. Back then we stayed in the hospital for 4 days. I finally found a nurse that helped me and he latched on and it went well after that. I would have hoped nurses would be more compassionate by now. My son is now 42. They will always be your baby. 😊 You two are doing phenomenal.

[@jayannakelley9051]

Yes because your milk doesn’t really come in until about the third day. They get that important colostrum that helps with their immune system!

[@jayannakelley9051]

@kcevirodem - I feel so bad that you didn’t have good empathetic nurses! That sucks. I was 20 when had our first child. I’m glad you found a great nurse❣️

[@heyitsjustme.680]

That kids constant surprise eyes is a national treasure. I am binge watching your vids right now. Lol

[@HOODSSWEETIE]

Y’all are so sweet and Jack is just adorable with those big eyes.

[@blonksnarvish]

You both and your son are so beautiful! I know that alot of people keep telling you guys how amazing you are, but its true. My son was born 11/20/20 with a heart condition and hip dysplasia, and needed open heart surgery over 1000 miles away, and i was not allowed to travel with him. My husband was with him for the first month and i stayed home, and the spirit in which you guys support each other and your kiddo was something we talked about more than we realized. So thank you for being an unknowing source of inspiration for us to reflect on!

[@SarahAndDerik]

You are seriously so amazing for sharing this. That makes us happier than you know! All we could ever hope for with this channel 💛I hope things are okay for ya'll!

[@melissameyers1869]

Never feel bad , yall are right , it's ok to have feelings and to want a " break " doesn't make you a bad parent . Y'all are great parents , Jack is fed , clothed & has loving parents and seems to be happy . And is so adorably cute ...

[@dolphinsblu]

As a nurse I will totally agree with #2. We can give all the advise in the world but that's all it is. You can try it, check boxes off, add or take away a little from each thing but you're only going to feel comfortable with your own thing and that's the best advise ever! One thing I've always noticed too and it's frustrating for me as a nurse because it I know it hurts mommy but it's when we can do exactly what mommy did and it works but she tries so hard and it doesn't. I just try to remind them it's a lot to do with stress, lack of sleep, wanting your baby to have everything you can give possible, etc. Moms rock! Just know you will get it and you'll later wonder why was I so stressed? Dad's rock too but mom's tend to have a bit more stress. Y'all rock and are great parents, Jack is very lucky to have you, as you're lucky to have him!

[@kandiehill4693]

I can only imagine how challenging being a parent is. Seems to be that you are doing Awesome job. Your precious little boy is happy and loved what could be more important than that.

[@SarahAndDerik]

Thank you so much! 😊

[@djnewsgirl9990]

You guys are so awesome and fun to watch as you learn about life! Here’s a little minor mom advice...try not to let Jack just chew on random objects. Many households objects and plastics have toxins or lead paint that can be harmful without you knowing it. Also, sometimes there are little pieces that can come loose and be a choking hazard. You two are doing a wonderful job learning to be parents.

[@deborahortwine5283]

You’re so fortunate to have others to get advice from. I had a cryptic pregnancy and I couldn’t talk to anybody because I didn’t know I was pregnant. I was very lucky that my son slept through the night at three weeks old. I was also very fortunate that he was such an easy baby to raise, he was always so quiet and calm. The worst part, I couldn’t breast-feed either. I couldn’t produce enough either. You just need to model what you want Jack to be when he grows up because they learn everything by your actions. I would recommend that you let him be dirty, let him get sand in his mouth don’t use antibacterial anything and he will be building up his immune system by letting him be dirty. That just came naturally for me but his doctor told me that’s the best thing I could’ve done was let him be dirty to build his immune system and my son was never sick, never missed a day of school for being sick. Let Jack be dirty growing up. I don’t get some germs because it will build his immune system.

[@TaytoJack94]

I know that y’all already know he’s the cutest baby ever but I just thought you guys would like to hear it again ☺️

[@SarahAndDerik]

You're so nice hahah we LOVE hearing it!

[@m.a.i.l.a5481]

@@SarahAndDerik I WANT you to know that he is NOT being nice. That is the cutest baby ever

[@aloha8410]

The 100th agreed 👍 from me!

[@Paula-fu6pr]

I love and appreciate your honest. You are a sweet real family. Love you guys!!

[@itslaw3532]

@@SarahAndDerik for ⁷ why@@0

[@mackenziecostner1701]

I’m a first time momma and I agree with all these!!! I totally felt y’all when you mentioned your baby sleeping better in their own room.

[@deborahwalsh4247]

I'm so glad you brought up your experience with location department. As a maternal newborn nurse working in a "baby friendly hospital" on night shift. I see this some of the time. New mothers upset about lactation being aggressive and making them feel like a failure. I always tell my moms and dads it is your baby your family your decision. You should NEVER feel bad or feel ashamed. If you really want to BF just know it can be very challenging the first few weeks. Infant can cluster feed (feed continuously for hours and hours) in the beginning. So this is normal. But whatever YOU decide is perfect for you and you guys ROCK!!!!!!

[@deborahwalsh4247]

Sorry, lactation department

[@joannemazza1657]

Derrick and Sarah you have a beautiful family, little Jack is so precious. He is a gift from the Lord. Keep loving him and teaching him to love his neighbor as himself. You all will do well. Glad you are not alone in Hawaii, friends and family to help and enjoy precious moments like these. Children grow so fast you turn around, their teenagers, you turn around they are married with children of their own. It is great you have these videos to share now and in the future to reminisce about these special times. Take care and God bless you all.❤❤❤

[@angelsaboveus14]

I am so happy every time I see ANY videos of your family. I so much appreciate a Dad who is and wants to be so involved. I so very much more love a Mom who lets his Dad do his thing. You have such an AWESOME family!!!!! Thanks for sharing it all.

[@tammiepulley7167]

I struggled so much with the lactation specialist. I had similar experiences. I cried so much. My mom was sneaking formula to my son at night. Finally gave into formula after 2 months. My son cried a lot for at least 6 months. It was so hard. Bless you guys.

[@poietes7337]

Jack has the most incredible eyes. When you're finally ready for number 2, I'm sure he or she will be just as adorable. Speaking from experience, it really doesn't matter how prepared you are or are not, or how much you've read, or how much advice you receive, the only real manual to child-rearing is experience, and no two kids are ever alike. Apart from that, please don't put a bidet on your bed. 😜😆🤣

[@sierrabrubacher2710]

I love how jack Always looks shocked 😳 but has the cutest smile always 💙

[@tammiepulley7167]

Y’all are smart and wonderful parents.

[@StumpKitchen]

So honest and real and so true!!! My baby is 1, and everything you are saying is SPOT ON!!! Thank you so much for making these videos!

[@anaclaraalves6316]

And from all that you guys said, YOU GUYS ARE AMAZING PARENTS, and don’t let anyone make u feel less than that🤍

[@SarahAndDerik]

Awe thank you Ana!! 💛

[@jahouser6273]

This is now the baby beeston show…… mom & dad r props

[@whiggygirl]

Thank you so much for this honest video. I'm 30 weeks pregnant tomorrow with my first baby (I'm 40 in Nov and it's taken me 11 years and private IVF to finally conceive for the first time). This vid was really helpful and I appreciate it 😊

[@evelynschmidt7194]

My child specialist always said „even a ship needs a lighthouse „ this is very true. But also every baby is different. You are so wonderful parents with love you will find a way for your child. Also please go by your own feelings believe me nobody knows better than you do!

[@alwaysovercomingbear4809]

Jack reminds me of our first son. He was REALLY “sense sensitive,” meaning that he became easily overwhelmed by loud noises, tones and pitches, light variations, and sensitivity to touch, and even various smells and tastes! It made for a difficult first year or so, but he and we both got the hang of things, eventually….Your advice is spot on! Thanks for sharing your lives with us! ❤️🐻❤️

[@dabreal82]

Jack has already had more girls fall in love with him than I have in my entire life...

[@Ladyne77]

Jack has the biggest, bluest eyes of any baby I've ever seen and I LOVE IT! He is a perfect mix of both of you!

[@Awmgg]

I’m a boy mom of 2. I completely understand about breastfeeding. I tried with my firstborn, and it was super hard. I pumped and breastfed for a little over a month. I kept telling myself imma try better for my second baby. Once I had my 2nd, he did NOT like to latch at all. It was a miracle whenever he latched. Whenever I got him home, it was nearly impossible for me to get him to latch. FED IS BEST 🤍 you do what you think is best for Jack! That doesn’t make you any less of a good mom! I love you guys!

[@JennaLeigh]

Derik! Your mix up with "duvet" and "bidet" made me laugh so hard I snorted😂😂 and Sarah's face Omgosh I'm crying😂😂 Man I love you 3.💖 you always brighten my day!

[@renegilbertson3807]

This was exactly all the things I needed to hear! Thank you for posting this!

[@SarahAndDerik]

That makes us so happy to hear! Glad you liked it :)

[@cathyvanderzwan1016]

I had a breast reduction and couldn't feed my first daughter. The pressure I felt that I had to breastfeed my baby, waa terrible! I called the nurse the breastfeed maffia! Eventually I chose for formula, best decision ever! There is nothing wrong with formula en the bond between mother and child stays exactly the same! My children are as healthy as ever, always were! There are beautiful girls! 19 and 20 years old! So I'm glad you don't feel guilty! Just started watching you guys! Love you all!!

[@jessica2981]

HAhaa I can't get over Derik calling a duvet a bidet 😂😂

[@SarahAndDerik]

Right!? Like I knew what he meant but still 😂

[@pattysherwood7091]

@@SarahAndDerik my husband told everyone so and so lived in a condom. And he said it more than once.

[@JMvW100]

@@SarahAndDerik but a bidet is not the same as a toilet… please don’t use it like that. It’s a bottom clean place. And that doesn’t mean feet… bottoms only 😂

[@guns2keepmefree]

@@JMvW100 I was about 7 when I excused myself from class and went into the boys room and saw the urinals lined up, for the longest time I thought that they were used to wash the feet! 🤔🤣🤣🤣

[@rosannaburgess5782]

You three are honestly fabulous. Such a lovely family. ❤️ Everything you’ve said is so spot on. 👌🏻Sarah, check out a Gentlebirth course if you ever decide you want another baby in the future. I just had my first baby in 2019 and am enjoying the time with her before I consider having another. Hopefully we’ll be lucky enough to have that option. These courses were started by an Irish midwife called Tracy Donegan. She’s on KZbin. They are super empowering courses/programmes for both Mum and Dad. Your partner is very much involved in the course and has a huge role to play. I think Derek would love it. It’s not hypo-birthing-it’s about how to manage all scenarios and how partners and women can speak up, feel in control in the hospital and get the most positive birth experience they can despite what happens. You are so right, women are made to birth. We are all Wonder Woman! That mindset is very powerful. 💪🏻 Sending you both love and light, from my family of three here! X

[@Micheleh2o]

You two have such EXCELLENT INSIGHT! You are SO RIGHT, you know your baby BEST! I NEVER let my baby "cry out", and I fed her when she was hungry. I let her wean herself off of the bottle (she rejected all binky's, she just wanted milk!) It sounds like we had much of the same experiences with the breastfeeding as well ... Keep up the great work! ❤️👍🏼 Jack KNOWS how safe he is! AWESOME!

[@joannesmith9486]

THAT ADVICE WAS THE BEST, AND YOU FIGURED IT OUT FOR YOURSELVES!! WELL-DONE!! BRAVO... 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻😘

[@joannekelly8733]

Everything you feel an are questioning is so normal, we all as new parents feel an question the same things, no book tells you , your both so on the right track . Your both amazing parents, just trust who you both are . It only gets better. 🌸💕

[@sheilascoyne861]

I just have to say, I truly appreciate you both, you nailed it. Everyone and every baby is different. I am nearing 60 yrs old, had my 3 babies on my own. Gods plan, long story, my testimony. All I know is you both just nailed it. Perfectly said. God bless you all, and Jack is a perfect Jack. Thanks to his wonderful momma and daddy. ❤🙏🌞😊👏👏👏👏

[@marzbarj16]

Jack is seriously the cutest baby ever!😍😍 I dont think I've ever seen a baby I didnt think was absolutely adorable, but with Jack's biiiigggg blue eyes and blonde hair and his little smiles... he is simply THE cutest!😍💙 also, if you havent already, I would love to see you do a video sometime about 10 things you wish you knew before getting married (if possible?)! I'm 22 and still not married, and although I do get discouraged by that at times, I try to view it as me really not being ready yet (even though I think I am) and needing to improve myself before having another person to worry about🙃 (just got reeeeeall personal omg wow I'm so sorry) so I like to see what other young married couples have to say about marriage and get "advice" from them, even if I dont know them personally😉

[@SarahAndDerik]

Oh my gosh thank you so much you are too kind! We definitely need to do a video like that thanks for suggesting! I totally get what you're going through. It's crazy how much you learn once you do get married that you could really never prepare for before hah

[@shannonskidmore4684]

And for you!! (as parents!! You benefit from the schedule too) I have two kids and each one was night and day! So different! My son was an awesome baby, never cried, easy to breast feed slept through the night after 4 months etc. my daughter, cried ALL THE TIME, never slept through the night until she was 3! I could t breast feed, she fed for 2 hours every 2 hours! Girl!! It definitely not an easy job, but sooooo worth it! Enjoy the little things and go with the flow, your baby will be good! You guys are awesome people so you will be even better parents! 😁😊

[@sarshaburt7032]

Such good points... I agree with all of those.. our 1st baby had colic, wouldn't breast feed, got constipated all the time and never slept.. once he could sit up he was way better.. our 2nd thankfully was much easier.. breastfeed and was much happier... however was a much more challenging toddler! One thing to add to your recommendations is a breast steaming machine.. it helps sooth charred nipples during the negotiation stage of breastfeeding.. our birthing centre had one and I wish I'd known about it with my 1st

[@remmymills3453]

Looks like Jack is trying to talk , just like Mommy and Daddy

[@katrusja5141]

It made me so happy when Jack got this piece of paper in the end.

[@christianranalli8547]

So excited for more Beeston Family moments! 😍❤️👍🏻

[@SarahAndDerik]

🤗🤗🙌

[@GG-yn6jw]

Great advice, you are both such an amazing couple and parents 👨‍👩‍👦 wise beyond your years. Jack 👶 is an absolutely beautiful baby, you can clearly see how happy he is, he is very blessed 💖🙏 to have you as parents!

[@annamcvey726]

This wee fella has such a wide eyed look.of astonishment. As if you say how did I manage to get such awesome cookie parents

[@JubileeDancers]

You two are SOOOO adorable, bright & loving 🥰 Thank you for sharing your goodness and life journey with the world. It’s really beautiful to witness! And you just left me up watching your videos. I’m so thankful you can share your gifts this way and make a living!! I wish I could restart my life and live it like you two do!! I am learning so much from you about having a playful and loving relationship!! Can’t wait for the next video. Thank you, thank you, thank you and God bless you always 🙏🙏🙏💗💗🙋🏻‍♀️

[@JubileeDancers]

You LIFT me up!!! Dang typos🤣

[@melindamorrison4010]

You ARE the freaking best parents!! Jack is so lucky!!! His googly eyes as he looked at that paper Derik had made my day!! Have a lovely weekend, and thanks for enriching mine!😘😅😇

[@SarahAndDerik]

Wow you are SO sweet thank you!

[@melindamorrison4010]

@@SarahAndDerik 🤩

[@MrPaulcm1]

Lovely to see you guys doing well and feeling better about yourselves. Parenthood is a challenge and you are both doing great.

[@rosestanhope7073]

Watching your whole video surprised me.Jack crying for months was a shocker because every time I checked in Jack was smiling mom and dad were smiling. Good videos

[@Wheezersmom02]

That's why these types of videos are SO important! To let people know that they do only show the happy times, but they have the "bad" right along with us! Besides, if they posted their screaming baby... Who would watch? Lol. Besides people with well-meaning advice I reckon. :)

[@tmalloy9]

Jack already “got” the talking into the camera thing and wants to be heard. Babies are as smart when tiny as when bigger. They figure stuff out.🌻

[@Elizamcculloe]

I work in a NICU with older babies that have never been home. They all were premature some 24 weeks; a normal pregnancy is 40 weeks. I loved when you said parents know their baby. When the parents are at the hospital with their baby as much as they can…… they DO know their baby!! All medical clinicians should listen to the parents!!!

[@jamiewilhelmy9990]

So proud of Sarah for making it through without yawning lol. Jack is adorable! You are a beautiful family!!

[@lunamaharuni]

I had three daughters..I only breastfeed one until the age of 10 months old only because my mom forced me and guilted me into it. I was a single mom at the time and lived with my mom.. It was so hard and so painful. When I got married and had my two other daughters..I tried..I got mastitis over and over. By the time I had my last daughter I breastfeed for 10 days and I was DONE. I am so glad to hear you listened to yourself and didn't guilt yourself over not being able to breastfeed Jack 💜 you guys are awesome parents!

[@jirinaaragon4077]

I think something I didn't know but I'm glad I learned in time was it's OKAY to put your baby down. It's okay to put them down in a safe area (bassinet or crib) when your overwhelmed and take a minute to regather yourself. Take five minutes to cry yourself or pray or do breathing exercises. IT. IS. OKAY! They are right it does get better.❤️

[@Simplehomeschoollife]

Schedules are a must in our family as well. Babies thrive with a routine.

[@jayannakelley9051]

So true!

[@joanhamilton2651]

There are books all about what to expect and every one of them is rubbish. Most are written by people who are not married or without children. It’s all about your baby and your natural response. No one knows you or your baby like you do. 💖

[@valerietaylor-haines876]

You two are Freakin awesome parents. Jack is so adorable and I love it when he does his baby talking. 👶 Can't wait for the day when you announce baby #2 is on the way. You are all so good looking and love the way daddy puts Jack on the skateboard and surfboard and it makes me smile that he loves his son so much! 💙💚💛🧡❤🤍💜 A fan of your videos from Woodinville,Washington.

[@IceQueenKimberly]

You two made the cutest little guy. Pure preciousness

[@marciaschiffman7363]

Same experience with the lactation people! My favorite nurse finally told me it is fine if you don’t breast feed. It was such a relief!

[@MJB550]

Babies need boundaries! This includes almost everything in daily living. Naps eating , baths , discipline. The latter if started with a simple “no no “ helps so much when they are older.

[@Awmgg]

My second comment 😅 sorry! But my firstborn was really colicky. He cried and cried. Rarely slept and when he did I was passed out. I remember a time whenever I fell asleep. My husband had woken me up for some reason, I started to freak out cause I thought I fell asleep while my son was still awake. Only to find out he was asleep too. I was so relieved. Like y’all said, every baby is different! My second was chill. Slept great. I swore I thought I’d be going through it again whenever I got pregnant again after my first.

[@michelledermgrdichian]

you guys are the cutest family, Baby Jack could not have better parents

[@SarahAndDerik]

Wow thank you so much!! 😊

[@sarahfarr272]

Agreed!! I never slept in the same room as my son since day one and I kept a record of when he ate, cried and slept. At 3 months he was sleeping through the night! I wasn't able to breastfeed either, your great parents!!

[@bellaluv1070]

You guys got this. Natural parents 💙

[@rosestanhope7073]

Hi again, I love checking in with you guys. You two maybe serious and still can bring a smile . Good nite / love the video

[@karenshepler7128]

I know this one is older but you are bsolutely right all children are different and so are people as I went in thinking it was going to be like my sister and mom not a chance all kinds of trouble all to early and c-sections so a lot to think about..thank you for lessoning take care.

[@kellywomack8882]

Oh my Gaaaaaa!!!! Derick…so darn cute!!! Duvet/ Bidet!

[@janacrittenden4870]

On the breast feeding issue -, there isn't one! Some women can, some can't...I couldn't, both of my kids grew up healthy with no emotional scars from it! I 😁

[@Phantom19913]

There’s a lot of pseudoscience involved with the breastfeeding debate.

[@ovahadi6891]

His eyes is so beautiful

[@canditamcguckian9470]

You both are so right!!! Every child is different! I have four of my own and they are all completely different lol but that’s what I love about them!!!! I love them all the same but different! Does that make sense??

[@mostrelaxingsleepnoise6920]

The best advice my doc told me at baby 2 week check up. Put the baby in her own room. turn the monitor down low. A baby wakes up a lot in the night and will pacify themselves back to sleep if you don't interfere. He was right! It worked.

[@SarahAndDerik]

Totally works! Wish I heard that advice sooner hah

[@janetmcdaniel2755]

You can listen to others advice but you know what works best with your child.... Go with your instincts

[@mariaagathadelatorre7979]

Omg!! Im waiting for this video😍 thank you for all the informations regarding parenthood, sarah im sorry to hear about the breastfreeding thing😯 and for derik" its ok to feel these emotions😉 i agree with that, baby jack your big now' i love those matching outfits with your mom, your always the cutest😍loving your family as always.advance happy easter☺

[@SarahAndDerik]

Awe you're too sweet thank you Maria!! 💛

[@mariaagathadelatorre7979]

@@SarahAndDerik stay healthy to your family:) waiting fo your next video

[@anaclaraalves6316]

That little face full of food😻😻 he is so adorable!!!!!

[@SarahAndDerik]

my absolute favorite thing hahah thank you!!

[@FM-wb1xy]

What expect while expecting - very good book

[@l.agurl3108]

Aww Jack Jack is such a good baby!! He’s an adorable little guy! 😍🥰💋

[@lxo.vayvay]

i absolutely love your guys family. your guys family is so cute. and jack is the most cutest baby i have ever seen🥺 i wish yall the best and stay safe🥰❤️

[@SarahAndDerik]

Wow thanks so much! 🤗

[@Brittany-Powers]

The first few months usually can be hard even with breastfeeding they might have you give formula while doing the in-between pumping and finding the right bottles can be hard but yes it gets better specially when they are able to eat a bit of puree in between breastfeeding instead of formula, but yeah eventually your breasts will be able to make enough though it just takes time sometimes ❤️ it can be hard sticking with it though, I had to stick with it no matter what even though I did have to add formula sometimes at first cuz I plan to breastfeed till each baby is 2 to decrease the chance of them getting type 1 diabetes like my husband, it's his biggest fear and I support whatever is best for them and hopefully easing his mind, I'm glad you found what was best and what helped keep everyone happy, the breastfeeding does stop hurting at some point though 👍❤️ stay happy! 😊

[@jencarter339]

That was a great message for new parents. Good job

[@saragarg7910]

Awww! A little human being ...so much love from India🧿

[@maryelizabeth8058]

U r the best. Jack is a lucky boy🙏

[@monzettamcferrin5721]

Awwww!!! My last day off work and I will be spending it here with Jack!

[@crystalphillips696]

You two are awesome parents.

[@cherrimullins9632]

Love you guys...been seeing how reading to babies,early...really helps them develop well.Hope you have time to check out the developing books and toys.❤😁🙋‍♀️

[@JubileeDancers]

You just LIFT me up!! 💗

[@jayannakelley9051]

‘Surfer’? How much does that pay? Life skills are the most important things to be taught! All new parents figure it out. One thing my husband & I did since we both loved music, we left stereo on low & all 3 slept well & didn’t wake up if friends stopped by. Just a thought for Sunny.

[@elisabethtaylor6914]

So my son was a cranky baby at first and it was frustrating bc he screamed a lot. Turns out he had a tongue tie. I thought breast feeding was really hard and gave up quickly. And now I know that the tongue tie also prevents good latching. Now I advocate for people to understand and check for them! We ended up having to fix his at 6 months bc when he started solid food he had a really hard time swallowing.

[@mary89]

Oh my lordy!! Yes, yes and more yes! I had my daughter on 11.19.20, I wish I had found you guys sooner to hear your advice. Especially about the nurses and lactation specialists. I agree, like you said, they know a lot, and mean well, but everyone is soooo different. After I had Penelope Rose, I had ZERO clue on what to do. I asked two different nurses how to burp her and I kid you not, one said "always burp the baby on your shoulder" and the other literally said "NEVER burp the baby in your shoulder" *insert ummm WTF face from me* But fast forward to now, she's happy, healthy, sweet, sassy and (a little) smart ass-y 😜😜

[@susanyork8124]

The three of you are adorable. X

[@devin7703]

It is a medically proven fact that until sids is no longer a risk (aka at least the first year) it is best to have baby sleep in the same room ( in separate bed of course). It usually takes a baby six months to sleep through the night.

[@chelledegrasse2787]

Very important to bring God into all these situations. Never forget to pray.

[@Nor1998_]

Jack is so cute. I can’t get over it.

[@shelbyharker8404]

He is so cute His hair is everything I love it🥰

[@SarahAndDerik]

Awee thanks!!

[@ginasimpson645]

Some great statements and comments. I have to make a comment on number 9 … though. A cousin has had 4 babies, all caesarean at the orders of the doctors. Her pelvis is so tiny that, if she had them vaginally, it would have broken her pelvis. A very rare exception though, always follow your doctor’s advice. By the way, that doesn’t make her any less of a mother.❤️

[@Hiddenwriter666]

Take it from a mom with 2 toddlers 2 and 3 is when the real problems start and it might be easy or it might be hard but good luck.

[@joanneweiss3864]

My son just got engaged and I'm saving this video for them❤️❤️❤️ I adore watching your family & I need to be a grandma lolol 🤣

[@kaylabruner1045]

Thank you so much for this video!! Super helpful

[@SarahAndDerik]

Awee of course!

[@Chabi311]

You are so awesome !!! Cutest Family

[@hazelhadley-britt6396]

I was told by our family doctor to have my son sleeping in another room. They hear your sleeping - snores, breathing etc - and it interferes with their sleep. Also. Babies do not always need milk. A little water may be all they need. They get thirsty too. Agree with the breastfeeding.