The comparison with our femininity and our sexual organ was mind blowing ❤
@JasmyneTheodora Жыл бұрын
Pretty cool, huh? 🤩
@ohkay1976 Жыл бұрын
@@JasmyneTheodoralove the part when you were saying men don't receive sexually... "well they shouldn't" 😂😂😂😂 that was too funny 😭
@JasmyneTheodora Жыл бұрын
😬😬😅
@thebravebird Жыл бұрын
reminds me of Matthew 11:29-30: “Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”
@arthurmaxteenax8934 Жыл бұрын
Great example of surrender
@PrayToday88 Жыл бұрын
perfect
@terenarosa4790 Жыл бұрын
Explain?
@thebravebird Жыл бұрын
@@terenarosa4790 I’m new to this walk but being surrendered as a woman has meant embodying “turn the other cheek”, even though I have every right/reason to pop off, because the price has been paid. Because the battle isn’t mine. Because we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers and rulers of the darkness of this world, and fighting means praying, it means having faith, it means cooperation and collaboration to solve problems, dying to myself daily and with it my desire to be correct, in control, and the victor.
@ONEFAITHofJESUS Жыл бұрын
@@thebravebird👍💜
@proverbs356_ Жыл бұрын
Jasmyne, as a 16 year old in this really confusing generation and time, thank you so much for your videos. You have shown me how to be a sincere Christian (because I was lukewarm before) and how beautiful it is to be a woman. You are like a mother to me (I come from a really toxic household). I love listening to you and this video made my day and I can't wait to learn more 🥰. Have a blessed Sunday with your little family 💕 ( i also hope to convert to orthodoxy soon!!!! The book you recommended "The Orthodox Way" by Kallistos Ware has recently been finished and your videos and Instagram stories convince me more every day!!💘💘)
@march3547 Жыл бұрын
Good luck with your conversion. God bless you ☦️
@chairty.124 Жыл бұрын
Hey girly, I want to let you know as a sister in faith, you are never alone. You have a friend in me and christ✝️💗
@PhoebeK Жыл бұрын
Hold on to the journey you will get there. A good book to move on to is The Religion of the Apostles by Fr Simon De Young, it really helps with understanding how the Orthodox faith is. I would also suggest that exploring what is available on Ancient Faith Radio may be helpful and a good way to avoid the less helpful parts of the Orthodox internet.
@joanna400 Жыл бұрын
You are hitting on something extremely important and not talked about enough. Women are controlled by their fears. We fear opening up, as we really should. Because you shouldn't be open to everyone who's not worthy. We fear being alone, but also fear relationships. We don't want to be hurt but also don't want to be alone. But if you find a descent man, taking that leap of faith brings a lot of peace. That's where I'm at. My husband is a good man, a good husband, and a good father. Young women just have to find the right person.
@mirelasemanjaku Жыл бұрын
You are soo right! I too have been (and still) am so much controlled by fear. But let us also point out that most of it is inducted by our environment. My parents (and society) would say to me constantly that I should not even think of not marrying! That being alone is the end of the world! But also not having a boyfriend or mingling with boys because having a relationship was a shame. it was like right after the last day of school, I miraculously found a husband and immediately get married! So This trapped me into not taking any sort of action and stopping myself from having any normal experience..which lead to 34 lonely years with the fear of ending up alone growing day by day. And at the same time, fear of settling with just anyone just so that I am not unmarried creeping in even more..
@joanna400 Жыл бұрын
@@mirelasemanjaku I know it's been a couple weeks, so forgive me for a late reply, but I've been thinking about it and just wanted to add if someone waits for the perfect person, it's not going to happen because no person is perfect. I've been married since 2002, and I couldn't say he's perfect the way God is perfect. He's just a good and decent man. We all have shortcomings and no one is perfect. He's just perfect for me. I trust him, he's a good provider and protector.... He's a good father and husband... But no one is perfect. It's a blessing to join with each other to guide each other in the right way. There was a time I was drinking too much, and my husband had to set me straight without abuse or intimidation. He simply said he didn't like what I was doing and I cut back. That's how it is supposed to work. I was in the wrong. Listen to your partners because they are guiding you to heaven.
@mariagalleriaxi8632 Жыл бұрын
Double commenting ooops Ive noticed an increase in women beginning to embrace the idea of periods in a positive light. This makes me so happy. As a girl ive always felt grateful for recieving my period because it reminded me of the blessing that i am healthy and a woman. But i never shared this with anyone because i didn't want to be looked at as weird. So yeah. I guess what im saying is thank you for teaching us to embrace this.
@christianmaterial2417 Жыл бұрын
For me my gracefulness came from the fact that, I started very late compared to my younger sisters.
@ReneeDeane Жыл бұрын
Mine made me want to die for 35 years and literally almost killed me once. The fibroids/Cysts also kept me from having children, so none of it was even worth it.
@corym.johnson7241 Жыл бұрын
I loved what you shared however I must bring up a point. She's teaching you to surrender not embrace. Embracing is masculine. For example think of how your man or father embraces you in a hug as you surrender to the feeling/feelings of his actions.
@mariagalleriaxi8632 Жыл бұрын
@@corym.johnson7241 I apologize..but... i embrace people all the time. My mother embraces me. The pastor's wife embraces me. I thought embrace was synonymous with acceptance.
@Himmiefan5 ай бұрын
@@mariagalleriaxi8632 Yeah, embracing is fine. These are all great points, but we have to be careful that we don't get legalistic about this. We need to let people be the individuals God created them to be.
@juniorchavesopicassodeyahu988 Жыл бұрын
Your hair is gorgeous
@JasmyneTheodora Жыл бұрын
Ohhhh thank you! 💛💛
@myriamdiallo4434 Жыл бұрын
I would LOVE more content distinguishing between mature and immature feminine. I struggle with exactly what you're describing as immature, and while I'm working on that, I often can't tell if my response to a particular situation is me being surrendered or immature. I would say this is an example of "toxic femininity" -- a sinful distortion of my natural instinct to nurture and submit, much in the same way that men being violent or needlessly aggressive is a sinful distortion of their instinct to protect and lead.
@jcqwater8713 Жыл бұрын
wow beautifully said
@myriamdiallo4434 Жыл бұрын
The section about femininity not being weak is 💯 It is *so* much easier to respond to hatred with hatred, to hold grudges against people, and to harden yourself than it is to surrender your pride, remain kind towards those who are unkind to you, and genuinely wish well unto those who wish evil on you. The former legitimately feels good and cathartic in the short term but ultimately only brings more destruction. The latter takes work and might even bring pain in the short term but ultimately benefits everyone.
@ayushmitachakraborty3414 Жыл бұрын
Femininity is so peaceful. I was once the "boss babe". But thank God.. now I understand how soft life is so peaceful. Ladies celebrate femininity 💗
@luv4rina Жыл бұрын
I love you soooo much, your aura, presence, and just physical being is so ethereal, beautiful, and loving ❤
@JasmyneTheodora Жыл бұрын
Wow, thank you! How kind of you to say 🥹🥹
@luv4rina Жыл бұрын
@@JasmyneTheodoraof course !! You have helped me so much thank you 🙏🏽
@kimanimzalendo3678 ай бұрын
Give this woman her flowers for these truths which are resisted and hated in the world today
@AoKajii Жыл бұрын
About not wanting children I think it's deeper than that. I actually grew up having to care for myself and my father, who was almost unable to take care of himself and the house (due to dr*g use). Later in my teenage years I had to take care of my new born sister. I was either living to serve others or being blamed for being selfish for not doing what my parents actually had to do. Now my sister is eleven and her behaviour is horrible, I definitely would hate my life if I had such a child. Not mentionning how expensive it was to take care of her as a baby, the countless nights the whole family was not able to sleep because she was crying...etc All of this complitely took away my desire to have children. I know I can't do it, I don't have the patience, and would not accept if my child doesn't turn the way I want. I am not going to be a good mother, not because others told me so, but because I know my limits. I just want to travel a bit, learn crafts from othe cultures and later, find a little house in the deep coutryside, away from people, to finally have a simple and quiet life. Having children is not easy at all, and I have seen way more people who should NOT be parents having kids than the opposit. Countless parents messing up their child from a very young age, making them weak, breaking them with a lot of bullshlt...etc
@ReneeDeane Жыл бұрын
Right, I think people think we all had the same lives. Im tired, I have taken care of others' children for almost 35 years and I am only 43.
@emmagrace6396 Жыл бұрын
I get it, I mean if I had that experience I probably wouldn't want children either. You were forced to take a huge amount of responsibility at a young age, when you should have been the child being parented, not the one doing the parenting. Not only did you have this experience of parenting too early, but you also had no support, were criticized for your parenting, and had little control of the environment you and your sister grew up in. But, I will say this...there were a lot of aspects in that experience that aren't normal to parenting. I've enjoyed having friends with young children because it shows me a realistic depiction of parenting. Yes, the responsibility is a lot, but if you chose the right man, you have someone to support you. My friends have a good community that supports them and their children. I and others in our church go babysit for free when they need a break, or go help for a couple of hours while the dad is away at work. And they've raised kids that can accept being told no and are very well behaved, even being under 4. Because when you are mature and you have support, you know you have control of the way you raise your kids. Not everything will be in your control, but some things always are. Plus, getting to walk with your kids that you gave birth to and see them grow and change and love you and to love them is a unique experience. All that to say, I would probably feel similar if I went through what you did, and if it's better for you to not parent, then great! But I just wanted to say that because sometimes our negative experiences can give us false impressions of the way life can be, which is often more beautiful than we think.
@PhoebeK Жыл бұрын
I hear your struggle, I may not have walked the same path but too came to the same conclusion that it was not for me to have children. In your journing, you may find it helpful to visit women's monasteries as these can be places of healing for women who have suffered. You may even find a home in a monastic community with sisters who you struggle alongside and a spiritual mother (and spiritual father) who both cares and can help you become who you were created to be.
@christinapfeifer421811 ай бұрын
I first want to say as a mother of 4, I am sincerely sorry that your parents failed you. Reading what you went through broke my heart. As a mother I offer you a mother’s apology and I am truly sorry for what you had to endure when you couldn’t because you were young, needed guidance and love specifically from your mother. Having children is a beautiful thing. If you came to that conclusion as your life’s calling, that should be respected by society. Being a parent is a calling not all are called to. If you decided this because of fear that you don’t have what it takes, I encourage you to lean on Jesus and ask Him to show you what your life path is, it may still be Him saying no children but rather a service life to Him. We have Too many woman choosing to be childless because they don’t want to put in the work they know it takes because they want to self serve instead . ( Not saying this is you, I think you raised a child when you were one yourself a child and that trauma carries some serious scars and it should not have happened) May the Lord or God bless you and keep you
@keri287 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for being comfortable in sharing your faith when discussing femininity and surrendering gracefully.
@InChristIDelight Жыл бұрын
Amen!
@elzamikelsone9507 Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad you included a moment where you yourself struggled with surrenderence. It made the lesson more personal, reliable and achievable.
@PrayToday88 Жыл бұрын
this was so on time for me. When you started to discuss the beauty of surrenderance and the beauty of the responsibility for it, intentionality, that has really made an impact on me personally. being "independent" doesn't seem to leave room for beauty because that would mean taking the time to cultivate, nurture, listen, learn, breathe and repeat to descend and transform- the art of surrenderance like you said its this beautiful and strong process...I feel sometimes out of place in world that is not slowing down at all...good news...I have cultivated my self-care and carved out beauty in my "me" time routines all while working and taking of my family and I learned to choose my battles on the job..femininity is not for everyone however I continue to manage...thats why we need it so we won't go crazy in a world trying to redefine men and women..God is ultimately in control anyway...and this subject I believe is where God is leading me next to cultivate surrenderance, and go within for more femininity
@briarrose9889 Жыл бұрын
I love how you talk about us women, it makes me feel beautiful and great about myself and it inspires me. I'm starting to be proud of being one (i used to dislike it). Thank you sm. 💗
@ivanaowona9146 Жыл бұрын
A round of applause please. This is so precious! I´ve had a lot of conflict since last year and I always get one word out of it. "Submit and let go". God told me to stop hurrying but it´s so hard, when I´m used to run at the bus, to be on time at the second meeting of the day. I have to stop. God told me last year, when I asked him what should I do this year, he said "Just be. Let me mold you into the woman you should be" . Haven´t figured out what "being" means. I mean, I have goals, I want money to submit peacefully... may God help the women of this generation, amen.
@carlykamps4119 ай бұрын
God told me the same thing last year. I’m still figuring out what it means, but I’m getting there. It’s a journey that starts with slowing down 🤍 blessings to you!
@winnieulatejimenez Жыл бұрын
I really love your music background ❤ could you consider it to maybe make a playlist for us? Feminine music, soft songs, I love music and I believe it can make you connect with anger, happiness, sadness… so maybe a feminine playlist to connect a little more with our feminine energy might be helpful! Love your videos ❤
@QRSTUVe Жыл бұрын
Oh yes🎉 i second this request!
@chinady18279 ай бұрын
Agree!
@CrownedDiaries9 ай бұрын
This feels like a masterclass on femininity ❤
@Mckduchess2013 Жыл бұрын
This was very interesting the feminine surrendered woman is often perceived as being weak. But it takes real strength to fight against your instincts. To respond and not to react as you said in one of your videos 🤗💛
@JasmyneTheodora Жыл бұрын
💛💛
@mariagalleriaxi8632 Жыл бұрын
The best part of my Sunday! Have a blessed day everyone!
@myriamdiallo4434 Жыл бұрын
Same!
@TakaraoftheElves Жыл бұрын
This video is so timely for my life right now, it almost feels like Divine Providence. I am marrying the love of my life in a little over a week...and just found out I am a month pregnant. We have a special-needs puppy, are drowning in mortgage bills, and do not have much in the way of enthusiastic and available family support. Everything feels so overwhelming, even though now is supposed to be a happy time in our lives, and I've found myself reacting from a place of fear and neuroticism. This video helped. Thank you. ❤
@faithclinger Жыл бұрын
10:40 I agree here especially. This can do must do approach is not a feminine approach to learning femininity and makes the journey EXHAUSTING and so stressful. I can finally put in words why most advice from men on how to be feminine is frustrating. They're not calling us incompetent but feminity has more elements of unlearning than learning sometimes. It's about not doing too much or getting caught up with what needs to be done. It really is a man's world so most ways are taught from a man's perspective to lead, to go and to find which hurts our femininity as the search for it becomes a battle for power and control.
@asya4553 Жыл бұрын
How are you so smart? Literally everything you say is mind blowing and illuminating
@march3547 Жыл бұрын
Your argument on why theosis and Godly femininity go hand in hand is beautiful.
@JasmyneTheodora Жыл бұрын
💛☦️
@wenjunbleeker6020 Жыл бұрын
I struggle so much with surrendering but am working on it. Thank you for your content and for teaching me and other women. Wish I had women around me teaching this ❤
@JasmyneTheodora Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome! So glad it’s valuable for you!
@Ryderschae Жыл бұрын
I live in India (studying here as an African) and i always stay up till 00:00 to watch your videos when they first come out🙂 Also, has youre voice always been this soft or has it softened since you started working on your feminine energy?
@jerrysalem1115 Жыл бұрын
Jasmyne my favorite youtuber right now❤❤❤May God bless you more my sister in Christ
@JasmyneTheodora Жыл бұрын
Im so happy to hear that 🥹🥹
@margueritebaranger3402 Жыл бұрын
The first time I felt feminine, I must have been about ten years old. I tied a long scarf in my hair and felt it for the first time. It's a feeling I cling on to today to rediscover that state of being. Tank's 🌿
@oliviaperry422 Жыл бұрын
girl you need to write a book!
@JasmyneTheodora Жыл бұрын
☺️🥹💕
@gabihuggins5042 Жыл бұрын
What a beautiful talk. Thank you for sharing your wisdom ❤️ I can attest to the necessary openness when giving birth and raising a child - it is God's natural way of humbling us as mothers/women so we can nurture our children in humility and gentleness.
@byebyegiomar Жыл бұрын
It's interesting to see that composure is the greatest asset for both men and women.
@ElevateEllie Жыл бұрын
Jasmyne Theodora, I am profoundly inspired and uplifted by your videos. Thank you for spreading positivity and enlightenment with your content.
@msrd2015 Жыл бұрын
I’m just in awe of your extensive vocabulary and how beautifully you construct your sentences. I’m a fan!
@floodedcastle Жыл бұрын
Idk how I came across your channel, but I love your content. U have good messages. ♥️
@JasmyneTheodora Жыл бұрын
Oh thank you! So happy to hear that!
@LittleAsian_6 ай бұрын
Your video about communicating in a femine way, while also expressing your concerse and boundaries really helped me. I am still working on it but thank you for your work you do.
@deatch7805 Жыл бұрын
I kept going back to the like button like 3 times during your video forgetting I had already liked it😅i love your channel and i am so glad that i finally found an Orthodox sister sharing most interesting topics 🥰 may God bless you ✨
@hephzibah.joviern Жыл бұрын
Thank you for making us feel comfortable with our femininity
@justian1772 Жыл бұрын
Just want to thank you for giving the ladies of our generation a good message. God bless you!
@beme7403 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing such wisdom. You always touch on key mature topics. You always have a soft, kind and sincere delivery- I appreciate you a lot. May God bless you more! ❤
@Basiieee_Artist Жыл бұрын
The value this conversation this video has it truly leads to awareness to vulnerability that femininity we mostly come across and afraid to explore our sense on innate nature and every parts from intro to passive and immature is amazing to watch.❤❤❤ Have you come across expecting perfection in your interest and vibe of life to wanting things your own way? Or does it have time to occur?
@snehopedia Жыл бұрын
Uff I constant checking up on you finally ends...you would never know how many times I repeatedly watch your videos throughout fhe week until you post the new one. If possible please post videos frequently 🙏 I admire your videos so much because no other content before yours made me understand womanhood so clearly. ❤️
@riannon005 ай бұрын
Just wanted to say I love your channel! I just found you and I’ve struggled for a while. It’s hard to find feminine friends these days in my city and previous toxic relations have left me very closed off and hardened, scared to share opinions, scared to be feminine due to the culture around me, but hearing your views uplifts me and gets me looking forward to regaining my feminine self :) thank you so much!! ❤
@angietrif Жыл бұрын
Amazing video as usual! You should make a video on emulating female saints and especially the Mother of God!! It would be really interesting to hear you tie femininity with faith in that way!
@loveismylanguage9162 Жыл бұрын
I love the way you speak! Your eloquence just adds to your elegance and it’s refreshing! I love that you are a Christian teaching this. I read and watch a lot. Being feminine is natural to me but like you explained I started to become more masculine after abuse. Now I am trying so hard to not be contentious
@juliai9960 Жыл бұрын
I would very much like and appreciate if you did movie/book recommendations with traditional gender roles and mature healthy femininity and mature healthy masculinity. Such recommendations would be quite helpful. Of course if you can't or decide not to, I totally understand! 💓🌸
@JessSoReal9 ай бұрын
Surrenderance is a beautiful thing. Surrendering to the lord and surrendering to your husband fully. Being willing to give up total control. I love your channel, how modest you are, how feminine and soft spoken you are. Surrendering and being fully soft in safety is the most amazing thing. I love how you explain this.
@chloewikstrom64297 ай бұрын
GIRL- you are SO wise and intelligent and I am just in awe of your vocabulary and clarifying explanations of our divine feminine energy that comes as a beautiful gift from God. I love surrendering to His Love now that I truly allowed myself to give up control and let Jesus heal my broken soul (heart & mind), body, and spirit. LOVE your channel! Keep shining bright!
@brendah4701 Жыл бұрын
Thanks to you I am able to love and embrace my feminine qualities. I thank God for you❤️
@mabelbobie8008 Жыл бұрын
I love this woman❤️
@JasmyneTheodora Жыл бұрын
💛💛💛
@Shinellejack Жыл бұрын
oooohh~~ girl you are preaching, I'm so glad that other women are conscious about all this. Thank you!
@JasmyneTheodora Жыл бұрын
Of course!!
@imnoemit Жыл бұрын
Wow this video is a gem. Every word holds value. Proverbs 31 woman came to my mind listening you. Thank you. Love your chanel. You are wondeful 😍💜
@skyeseas9 ай бұрын
you’re so well-spoken and sincere. thanks for all you share!!
@mariannacoomes1094 Жыл бұрын
This is so powerful! Thank you for articulating this tender subject so well.
@JasmyneTheodora Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@beewell8683 Жыл бұрын
Just about everything you said resonated deeply with me. Perfect timing to come across your channel. Thank you so much for your invaluable contribution to this evolving space. 💞
@ohkay1976 Жыл бұрын
Please do "what i eat in a week" or some nutrition videos!! 😢😢 I would love that from you since you're one of the few KZbinrs i trust!! Much love to you & your family with the love of Christ sis 💖💖🩷
@ochuoleowan Жыл бұрын
Hi Jasmine, thank you for these videos, they've been such a blessing to me as a young adult lady learning to embrace her femininity. Please can you do a video on vulnerability? Many of us women struggle to be vulnerable and find out that it can be an issue in our relationships with men. I'd really appreciate this, thank you❤️.
@jennyamessler3805 Жыл бұрын
Jasmyne, you are amazing 🤩, highly intelligent 🧐 to think outside society’s boxes. Thank you for being extremely brave enough to even make this video. May God bless you a million times.
@sora23asmr56 Жыл бұрын
This video is so valuable, wow. I feel like women should listen to this while engaged. It can teach us how marriage is suppose to be,☺️
@bellaelias-ip6gp Жыл бұрын
This was great new perspective love how u talked about our sexual organs, birth, and motherhood. Learned so much ❤
@alexia94718 ай бұрын
This was a very convicting video for me. The music definitely added to the emotions lol. This was a hard pill to swallow. Thank you for your tips and the information provided.
@theroyalcrownedtiger2946 Жыл бұрын
Thank You Jasmyne, for doing what you do to have women everywhere become very feminine and stay very feminine, emotionally, mentally, etc. I do highly appreciate the physical femininity as well, but the emotionally, mentally, etc. femininity still matters more.
@хелена-н9х Жыл бұрын
Yess loving theseee❤
@HollyHarris-sd7ke8 ай бұрын
Wow! This is easily your best video I’ve seen thus far! Also, very thorough 👏🏻
@Campanula.rapunculus Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your encouragement. So many of the points you touched on really gave me some insight into some trouble I've been having. Also, I loved hearing Clair de Lune in the background 🎶
@rebekahbelete8984 Жыл бұрын
Hey Jasmyne! I love what you do, the way you articulate your thoughts, and your overall great energy! I am an Ethiopian Orthodox girlie, and I've come across a lot of backlash from other denominations against Orthodoxy. I remember you saying that you'd make a video on why you converted specifically to Orthodoxy. I'd love to know more on your thoughts and opinions so I grow my faith even more
@libiya_sheikh Жыл бұрын
this is off topic but the music she plays on her videos is just👌
@Ck-hp8zq Жыл бұрын
I loved this episode so much that I wished it was a book and I could highlight some sentences ❤
@amreens9987 Жыл бұрын
Jasmyne another Golden video thank you beautiful lady
@tamardates61696 ай бұрын
Thanks! I’ve recently found your channel and I’m so inspired by all of these videos.
@williamdillard8330 Жыл бұрын
I love women who love being women! You go girl! ❤
@AidaB-d9i5 ай бұрын
Loved it! Thank you so much for your time! ❤
@nontlahlantantiso6926 Жыл бұрын
Wow i am speechless Thank God for you❤️
@hephzibahb.73708 ай бұрын
These videos are needed.
@dadadaexe8679 Жыл бұрын
hello jasmine, I really love your videos. My name is Sonya, I am 20 years old and I dream of finally becoming vulnerable and feminine, because this is what I feel the need to become all my life. but the situation doesn't give me that. my boyfriend simply does not know how to work or save ( we have debts to pay, but he can't work on a schedule, just there is not enough concentration and willpower, That's why I can't count on him and I'm taking extra shifts.) , he has frequent outbursts of anger and shutdowns, he considers any of my requests as whims and I do almost everything: household chores, work, choosing where to take a walk and what to eat, searching for rented housing, making money plans. he constantly asks me for advice instead of making decisions on his own. I tried to delegate at least part of the work to him, but this will only cause him to burn out (the last time he did not work for 4 months because of that) I have no one else to rely on, my mother has her own life and a lot of debts, and my father left us when I was a little girl. I love my boyfriend and I don't want to leave him, but I'm so tired and I don't know what to do at all, don't want to be in the position of a victim, I'm trying to do everything I can.
@divinemerger Жыл бұрын
My love, you are with a little boy (inside) not a man. And I know you think mothering him is helping him, but it’s actually making him weaker and resent you. And it’s not your job to be his mother. You deserve an equal partner. There is a book called “Boundaries” written by Townsend & Cloud (two Christian psychologists). That may help. I went through this and the only thing that helped was me developing more self-respect and love. I had to let go of “fixing” my partner and fix my own unhealthy codependency instead. Ultimately me stepping back allowed my partner to step up. But like a child he threw angry tantrums when “mommy” stopped caring for him in the same way, and I had to maturely, gently ignore his outbursts and attempts to blame or fight with me. I had to let go of the need to control and accept that if I got healthy then he would either leave or get healthy too. Or I would get healthy enough to know I needed to leave. In my case, he chose to work on himself and match my effort. But I had to get to where I was 100% okay with the relationship ending. I had to surrender to a loving God (not to a petulant man-child). Codependency is not real love-it is fear, trauma-based attachment, and emotional dependence masquerading as love. Wishing you success in your journey to knowing your worth.
@dadadaexe8679 Жыл бұрын
@@divinemerger Thank you very much for such a detailed answer! I will definitely read this book. God bless you
@jessie453 Жыл бұрын
you’re a wordsmith!! 🌸🌸🌸 love
@ancaa12393 Жыл бұрын
While i don’t fully share your beliefs and to an extent don’t agree with most of the things that you’re saying (mostly because i don’t relate to them as a young woman), i do appreciate your openness towards more delicate subjects and i also love how well-spoken and pleasant to listen to you are🫶🏻
@a.s.m.3246 Жыл бұрын
Yeah but that's cause you're actually a dude, right ? 😏
@ancaa12393 Жыл бұрын
@@a.s.m.3246nice try, but no, im a 20-yr old woman:) why are you supposing i’m a man?
@a.s.m.3246 Жыл бұрын
@@ancaa12393 Uh, no offense but you pretty much look like a guy. 🙁
@ancaa12393 Жыл бұрын
@@a.s.m.3246ok troll
@a.s.m.3246 Жыл бұрын
@@ancaa12393 Takes one to know one, you can't fool anyone except maybe a blind person. 🤭
@merryfamily22 Жыл бұрын
I really appreciate this video!!! You explain things so very well!
@JasmyneTheodora Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad!
@DreamBodyTribe Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad to hear this type of information! Femininity has been a lost art even in the Christian world
@Amy-uu Жыл бұрын
This is truly beautiful. A wonderful video that is definitely going to make a great difference in my life! Thank you ❤💕💕
@louisesimms7 ай бұрын
I see surrendering as giving yourself the gift of relief. That burden doesn't belong to you, it's in God's hands. You are worthy of being relieved. He is worthy of trusting.
@jessicarhodes9998 Жыл бұрын
Excellent video 🥰 you inspire me so much!!! Thank you!
@ohkay1976 Жыл бұрын
Yes please do a video on feminine sexuality
@user-ps6vn7pg5k Жыл бұрын
I really love your videos!! It is very beneficial
@keepingupwithfrancine Жыл бұрын
Beautiful video God bless you sis❤
@JasmyneTheodora Жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
@FernGray Жыл бұрын
So impressed and inspired… thank you 🙏🏽
@mojokombue44637 ай бұрын
1:30 in and I know what that I definitely need this. This is well said.❤
@puerry Жыл бұрын
The Mature vs Immature Feminine segment-- it feels like there's a bell curve between the passive, immature/wounded feminine woman vs the aggressive "boss babe" vs the mature feminine woman. On both ends, there is surrenderance, but one half is out of passivity and lack of discernment whereas past the bell curve on the latter half, the surrenderance is not passive and is, in fact, a conscious decision. In the middle is lack of surrenderance altogether, it's the defiance that is so readily encouraged and therefore cultivated so often in modern western women, that we are all taught which is why the majority of women fall under that part of the curve.
@Frosts858 Жыл бұрын
Hi i just wanted to say thank you so much for what you do. What u put out here for us to learn is beyond incredible. You are really helping us a lot. As a young lady myself you’ve really made a huge impact in my life. So much so that I crave for your content everyday. Thank you so much Jasmyne😊🙏🙏♥️
@longingforjannah Жыл бұрын
I love your content, thank you so much, may Allah allow you to be a benefit to mankind. I just wanted to say, maybe how you look at the concept of " Where there's a will, there's a way" is from a different angle! It doesn't necessarily mean that you're trying to make something happen, it's looking at it as it has already been willed...decreed (meant to be), and nothing I can do will change it, which ever outcome plays out, it was meant to happen, regardless of my action or lack thereof...which is the Will (decree). Which actually is complete surrendering. I hope I made sense. May you be guided to all that is good.🌹
@lissajean3133 Жыл бұрын
I love your opinions about birth control!
@JasmyneTheodora Жыл бұрын
Thank you 💛
@ladystrauss1570 Жыл бұрын
I’m trying my damndest to be less uptight. Thank you!❤
@nicoletan445 Жыл бұрын
This is amazing.
@JasmyneTheodora Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@lindseywest9209 Жыл бұрын
I needed to hear these words.
@JasmyneTheodora Жыл бұрын
So happy to hear that
@fa_abdi3001 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the warning! Much appreciated
@JasmyneTheodora Жыл бұрын
You bet!
@graziasstudio3 ай бұрын
I love the music in the back 20:49 🥹
@em97c Жыл бұрын
I'm on birth control specifically because I DO want children, and it was recommended to regulate my hormone cycle to increase my chances of getting pregnant in the future. I'm lucky to have access to something like this. I'm not saying this to disagree with you but simply to point out that in some cases it increases fertility, or decreases the likelihood of being infertile.
@aneliabacchus753 Жыл бұрын
God bless you for uploading this video. it was and is extremely helpful.
@vembercrochet8 ай бұрын
I just finished watching at least five of your videos in a row. I genuinely feel like I have finally been given permission to be feminine - as Jehovah created and purposed me - and it is such a relief to my soul. Aah. Years of burden gone in hours.
@sekamanerelebohile49477 ай бұрын
I like that you highlighted the importance of living a surrendered life when you have Jesus as your protector, it is not easy for a woman especially single woman to open themselves to be vulnerable when they don’t feel like they are safe or have some sort of protection to fall under, this video is actually teaching me to be closer to God if I want to be open and vulnerable and be feminine. thank you keep sharing and growing!!!