The True Reasons Ben Affleck CHOSE To End His Relationship With Jennifer Lopez!

[@NormaLilia24]

Ben knew what he was getting into when HE reached out to her, when HE proposed to her, when HE married her … all the sudden she’s too diva for him, please

[@franklinblack2716]

There it is ..her DIVA crap..between her and another hollywood legend..who gives a damn

[@RoseofSharon-2335]

Please, he can walk away like he did whenever cause she done it to her ex hubbies so she should expect that what goes around will come around, or did y'all think that millionaire's are always going to get away with trashing people? 😂 she's getting what she deserves and she should be understanding and all of the whining people too. She needs to change and maybe this will help along with her own past that's come back to haunt her

[@RebeccaColeman-d7e]

YOU HITTING ON NAIL BEN KNEW ALL ABOUT JLO I FEEL FOR HER ..SHE LOVES HIM. ❤️ 😍

[@RoseofSharon-2335]

@RebeccaColeman-d7e 😂 let her deal with her criminal life first and possible coming lawsuits and medina the one who's been accused of SA by another man or more and jlo has had him by her side for decades knowing that Ben don't approve of him and that's probably why, cause medina is like another diddy or worse. Jlo is only going to get what she deserves, and getting fame through pervs is disgusting. I wouldn't even call her a millionaire, not how she got it, it probably belongs to them too

[@collagenbabe8173]

He drinks and smokes. She doesn't. Never works. Best they end it as possible friends.

[@hotjenjen1]

Ben is no prize either but if someone sold my stuff without my permission I would leave them instantly. That's messed up.

[@56kaliber5]

Sells his stuff and opens an alcohol company knowing he is a struggling alcoholic 🤦‍♀️. It’s always about her, her needs, her wants, her attention whoring

[@ehla0144]

My girl, she lost her mind for him again. Ben, though, has always been a whole issue. He's an issue with legs. Addiction, resentment, childishness, aggressive, volatile, too low, too hype, too selfish. My gurl deserves much better. She's already moved on. He, as usual, will be miserable as always.

[@idylledoll]

And publicised his love letters without his consent when he clearly didn’t want them shown to the world. She is so fucking disrespectful.

[@ehla0144]

@@idylledoll Even Matt Damon, one of his best friends, said it. That he is not capable of being a good husband to anyone.

[@ehla0144]

@@idylledoll @Love11904 Even Matt Damon, one of his best friends, said it. That he is not capable of being a good husband to anyone.

[@idylledoll]

This is what happens when you’re in love with the idea of being in love and too narcissistic to work on yourself and consider the needs of your partner. Her exposing his letters without his consent and selling his motorbikes without his knowledge was jacked up and crossed boundaries, imagine all the other disrespectful shit we don’t know about.

[@hkbuddy97006]

It was inevitable since Day One that this marriage was doomed. She's an attention-seeking control freak and he's completely the opposite and will not let her control him.

[@mattymattel5482]

You cannot have a relationship with a narcissist it’s impossible!

[@francheskavega7251]

He likes his privacy and she doesn’t respect that

[@lisbetharevalo2934]

Helloooo,He know how is this bussines

[@lillaurap]

We witnessed that and more in her documentary that never should've happened.

[@lillaurap]

​@@lisbetharevalo2934you're illiterate

[@alenaadamkova7617]

If Jennifer Garner couldnt control his drinking, JLo can not as well. Also the paparazi cause the problem....paparazii cause that celbs start drinking.

[@RoseofSharon-2335]

​@alenaadamkova7617 maybe the paps lie but really they weren't ever meant to be together so everything else was going to be excuses to let go bit I think the diddy support by her made the divorce process go faster but it's better

[@JimCooler-c7z]

Ben is a great actor love the accountant

[@kathleenattardo3215]

Remember Ben was on a dating app & the girl that he chose didn't believe it was really him, well shortly after that he was reaching out to Jlo, I feel like he was feeling lonely & just wanted to feel loved, he'd temporarily forgotten about what a Diva she is!! Or maybe he guessed she'd changed for the better in 20 years lol

[@Lolabelle59]

I read she wouldn't agree to start seeing him again unless they got married.

[@MissBrooklynLove]

JLo needs to let go and move on. Ben doesn’t want her.

[@ednarodriguez6952]

I think Ben needs to stay single. It's all about him as well. In a lot of ways, Jennifer & Ben , are a like.

[@pilarcitadattus2016]

WRONG....Ben takes good care of all his kids. Lopez ignores her 2 teenagers, specially her boy..for God's sake..he is autistic

[@tile2820]

They are both leos.. i mean ego is huge both ways

[@ehla0144]

My girl, she lost her mind for him again. Ben, though, has always been a whole issue. He's an issue with legs. Addiction, resentment, childishness, aggressive, volatile, too low, too hype, too selfish. My gurl deserves much better. She's already moved on. He, as usual, will be miserable as always.

[@sarahpeyton1640]

I think this video make her look completely wrong but we have to remember Ben has a major alcohol problem that he went public with and why he divorced with Garner. He was supposed to be sober so yes I’m sure that was a huge problem trying to deal with an alcoholic. There are two sides to every story. Maybe he was tempted to drink when he was with his buddies. He ruined a lot of his life from drinking so yes she was probably trying to help someone who didn’t want to be helped.

[@barbaradonlin3675]

Firstly she had to of known he's living a life of sobriety And I hope they had a discussion in regard to his sobriety as to what is acceptable and what is Not Idk where he is in his sobriety but the first 3-4 yrs are the roughest and he has to face & acknowledge what his triggers are You would think as adults they spoke thru everything, they also should of waited b4 getting married.. they were trying to makeup from their breakup 20yrs ago 😢 Shame not even 2yrs and they've split ... All that this is the biggest Love story ever.. And it all went KAPUT.... Like Will & Jada putting o. This big show And None of it is TRUE

[@chipper3132]

I agree with you @sarahpeyton .He seems like such a hot head as well. He is the one who contacted JLO in the first place knowing how bad he hurt her in the past. I have lost all respect for him. Everytime I see pictures of him its always a mean look on his face. He is a miserable man and needs help. He deserves to be alone.

[@RebeccaColeman-d7e]

YOU SAID EVERYTHING JUST RIGHT ..TO SIDES

[@geneziogenezio3299]

JLO 55 KNEW ALL ABOUT THAT.

[@Tiny12-z5x]

Totally agree ​@@chipper3132

[@carolynamaro9113]

Jennifer such a drama queen.

[@keepcreationprocess]

I will never choose an addict and a cheater Ben.....

[@keepcreationprocess]

You have no idea - the best marriage and business partner -- first 3 years you have a lot of discussions and fights....Later, after you become a strong .....because you have learned about eachother - Ben doesn't love her.... All wives are caring for their husbands, like that..

[@lgstar3363]

Ben such a drunk

[@mariethornton3123]

​@@lgstar3363... yeh let's see where each goes from here...

[@boundariessetinstone5893]

@@keepcreationprocessBen doesn’t love anyone not even himself.

[@rebeccaciriaco2358]

That woman is just not a marriage material; she is all about herself. She loves attention and would do anything to get it. It seems like she feels above anyone. He was a fool to return to her. Run run run Ben run.

[@lydiakarwitha2752]

Don't worry you turn is coming

[@MabelleM-je1ir]

YOU SPOKE FOR A THOUSAND YEARS? “Nope”FOR A ETERNITY

[@susansantos3687]

Same Old story . Waste of time, nothing new.😢

[@marytorres4843]

You are so right ✅️

[@uapionanautoro7840]

So true

[@SuperNashum]

Never rush into the “fairytale” called marriage without discussing the important topics that dear to each partner

[@petraveler855]

Cannot be more true, I married my husband after 17 years together 😂

[@GelaRose-y6p]

@@SuperNashum people know most times they just try to change people to fit their desired narrative.

[@Psvu-m1z]

What important topics

[@cathyellis767]

Letting the world read your love letters as shown in her latest documentary is really crossing the line. Sad. Let go and Let God! Keep private things private! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@kimshuster7084]

It would be great. If let the lord in their life’s. But theirs no money. In it. So Hollywood comes first.

[@nataliev.149]

Jennifer needs publicity in her love life with Ben for some reason. She doesn’t do it with other men, instead she is low key more private.

[@agegracefully7906]

I completely agree!

[@GelaRose-y6p]

@@cathyellis767 yes! It’s a sign of insecurity which proves Monet talent beauty etc won’t fix the holes inside of us! #LetgoletGod!

[@GinaBrooklyn1-ux3px]

So what ,even Nancy Reagan published a book with Reagan love letters what's the big fkn Deal

[@EmmyAng]

Ben is a recovering alcoholic, and he also has a track record as a cheater. Jennifer Lopez probably got tired of constantly looking over her shoulder! She, on the other hand, is a remarkable woman, but fame got to her? She seems controlling and very insecure which may seem surprising, in my humble opinion, they are better off living their lives the way they choose to.

[@EwYoureCringe]

Forreal.

[@carmenthomas3300]

When a man decides to leave, there's no turning back

[@Kg8f60]

When a woman begins to behave like she's done, she is "DONE!" 🙂 Women end marriages more often than men do.

[@londongirl1321]

clearly not he went back to her and got married. he should've stuck by his first decision.

[@maryellwood3653]

you can say the same thing about a woman

[@Stella_In_Real_Life]

Apparently not. 😂 If they do this three times, they need to move to Mars.

[@barrowbarre6411]

True. Especially when a man walks out of a marriage. I am not addicted to any drug, but my Ex wife tried to control every move I took. She even wanted me to stay at home and not go to work because we had some passive income. Some women, especially those who have had multiple broken relationships, are just control freaks.

[@sadeovusafarmer3751]

The way he open the car door and then closed it 😂😂😂 yea he sick of her shit😢

[@EvelynLopez-kc1lq]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@AbbyNormal777]

Ben slammed that car door like it was a78 Bronco.

[@Juan-j8k1o]

They should have lived together like Kurt Russell & Goldie Hawn! For the past 40 years K.R. & G.H., have been together without walking down the aisle. ❤😊

[@orianeasmore8941]

Are you for shocking up and living together before marriage?

[@Karen-fi6oi]

AGREE!! BUT SHE NEEDS THOSE RINGS.

[@AngelinaKravchenko-vn4lh]

JLo 👎

[@hikerhobby1204]

That works for non-christians.

[@888alp]

it wouldn't make a difference. they both shouldn't have been a couple. Ben has past issues and jlo dosent like it. she treats him like a child.

[@zuzelotano4948]

But JLo has to stop in being so controlling over men’s, She knows very well Ben and he is the typo of man “macho” and this means that he has his pants-on in this relationship with her. She had many husbands & she does whatever she wants , were like “poopets “ and after she got tired then she thrown them out…I am happy that Ben gets his own way apart give the lesson to JLo to calm down & not taking anymore all her B.S. Good for you Ben!!!!!!!👍👍

[@dianamarcelacuartas5365]

This is her, now.

[@Starrr-ro8hg]

😂😂😂

[@Asmabelahsnioui]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@PaulaGilmour-o3y]

I knew this what happen. Totally mismatched.

[@deborahstapf6195]

Ben did the right thing no one wants to be controlled he is a quiet man I really hope him and Jennifer Gardner gets back together as a family

[@marytorres4843]

He's an alcoholic. Jennifer Garner doesn't want him back!

[@kr50401]

Garner cheated on everyone she was with in order to get Ben. She’s a social climber like no other, she has no career without him. She’s really not a great person

[@CelesteVee-k4n]

I think that Ben’s love for Jennifer died the moment Jennifer Lopez told media sources outlets that Ben had kept all their love letters. Jennifer Lopez is a grown ass woman. You can’t tell me that that wasn’t going to hurt Jennifer Garner, the mother of Ben Affleck’s kids below the belt what was the need for all the display of affection when they hadn’t even had a moment to sit with their love. She managed to hurt him by not respecting his boundaries and managed to hurt the mother of his kids whether they’re together or not or whether they have a good relationship or not that is not cool. Jennifer always wants the men to be blended with her family, but she’s not willing to love the other person‘s kids.

[@almondblondie3890]

@user-px1ne8yw4y That’s so petty & pathetic!! That’s not love! Tell me, why did Jennifer Garner divorce him, too? She’s the total opposite of JLo n they have kids! There’s something wrong with Affleck!

[@vanessacarvalho9076]

I agree 100%. Funny like suddenly it is all his fault. Just check how many marriages, engagements and boyfriends she had and compare with him. Yes, he has issue and needs good therapy but the woman can't keep ANYTHING private. Her friends are the people working for her and she brings the entourage everywhere. Also Benny Medina tips the Paps and never liked Ben. JLo parted ways with him when they dated prior. Medina doesn't want to lose again. To blame Ben is quite easy. The guy has been sober, supportive of her projects and quiet. She is selling booze and her team gaslighting.

[@boundariessetinstone5893]

@@vanessacarvalho9076Ever heard of a dry drunk or addict it’s real.

[@veronicajean3612]

I knew the minute she did that love letter narcissistic need to be above his ex wife in front of the world would be the last straw. It shows how her ego is more important that being mature in the fact he did love others and he respects the ex mother of his children. Trying to dismiss his ex wife made him see the true monster that she is. And who the hell sell another persons collection of motorbike. He should have sold her purse collection and said now we are even. And narcissistic control is beyond belief. They watch you and critique 24/7. Like even how you breathe is only ok if they think it is.

[@RoyalPurpleStar]

How humiliating that he doesn’t want her, yet again! 😂

[@olgabond5877]

It’s life. Can happen to anyone. Nothing is funny

[@boundariessetinstone5893]

I don’t think it’s humiliating for a dry drunk not to want you.

[@MarySantos-u5n]

👍👍👍👍👍

[@vutomi9874]

Can happen to you too. I hope you still laughing 😂

[@Lolabelle59]

She should have taken the past two years off and just enjoyed being married to him.

[@jenniferanngarcia2496]

You would have thought that they would have spoken about this before they got married. Of course, it would have never worked. They are two totally different people.

[@lorifleming2889]

Jennifer is on a its all about me program.. Sad 😔 It's over..

[@janetsmith7808]

Lopez uses men as accessories.

[@bucibuci1784]

BENNIFER FOREVER ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏❤️

[@positivepink4806]

Wow selling his collection thats horrible

[@LorettaJacquelinePereira-nr6fl]

Ben did a good job . So happy for him ❤

[@John-sk8cm]

$100,000 a month?!!? I could change my whole life for the better for the amount he pays for a month's rent...not to mention the lives of many others' through worthy charities.

[@sleepnomore6065]

Tells A LOT about someone to waste that kind of $ on rent or possessions when they could still live well on far less while positively contributing to society with the extra $. I understand why Greed is considered a sin!

[@AlbaniaRivera-t5v]

Bezos Elon and Gates and people like Ben and lopez should be in Jail noone need that amount of money.i forgot the kardashian.

[@AlbaniaRivera-t5v]

I will see them in hell.

[@ItsJustME-OnYx]

Its shameful (if true) when so many people in the world are struggling to eat and keep a roof over their heads. Wish rich people would not flaunt their money. On the other hand maybe they do give a lot to charity as well. But still ... I have much more respect for the rich that stay humble and who live like normal people and do good with their money.

[@karenj8406]

You cant control another's addiction and sobriety

[@marytorres4843]

Right on!

[@franklinblack2716]

It's a disease..

[@karenj8406]

@@franklinblack2716 correct

[@speakingthetruth945]

I think the problem is him not her. Before with Jen , he was marrying his ex wife, garner, and that chick was a good mother and kinda religious wife but he never happy now marrying Lopez n blaming on her ? It’s him the problem. At least Lopez married men not whoring whoring around

[@brownstar5432]

Ben found out that his intuitions about their relationship was RIGHT the first time 20 years ago.....But at least now they can never say they didn't give it a try. Truth is, Relationships can be complicated and are never easy, so I wish the best to both of them as they move forward.

[@lorraineramon7218]

No they will not get back together , she screwed up and I’m happy for him, I hope he and Jennifer Gardner get back together, that wld be wonderful 🎉

[@marytorres4843]

He's an alcoholic. Jennifer Garner doesn't want him back!

[@lisawicks8205]

Jennifer Garner’s in another relationship and engaged to someone else

[@chart461]

Ben is a narcissistic individual. He cheated on Jennifer Garner with the nanny his children’s nanny before they even got divorced. And now he’s being done so wrong. Get out of here I don’t wanna hear this BS no more and I’m not listening no more.

[@dianemancino]

I Dony believe Nen Was Forced to do Anything HE WANTED TO MARRY HER❤❤

[@MangusCarpenter]

A relit cigarette never tastes the same

[@franklinblack2716]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@690169016901]

Seems like Ben behaved like a man that realized his mistake in getting married to jlo Lets all watch as jlo pulls an amber heard on him

[@JustaCutegirl1]

So JLo wanted what's best for her husband, not letting him indulge in alcohol again, and tried to have a Healthy life, Healthy habits... That's not a reason to leave someone, unless you"re an alcoholic that chooses toxic things instead of ur family. A loving wife will never let her husband fall off the wagon, unless she doesn't love him. So i don't find a mistake in her behaviour.

[@vanilittlestar6357]

Never try to change a guy. You will lose. Especially when you're a narcissist like JLo. She loves the camera on her always. Ben doesn't like the hoopla. I wish Ben would have just waited before jumping into that again. I'll Always be TEAM BEN! HE'S AMAZINGLY TALENTED!

[@RobertTruckey]

Dude watch your mouth when you speak about Jennifer Lopez I am her albino prince

[@audthemodful]

Sadly Jen had bought into the whole entourage lifestyle, there’s no room for Ben 😢

[@NoellePowell-jg6xx]

Life is too short. Your partner in marriage should be there to celebrate the ups and share the sorrows while creating deeper love through new adventures. Control has no element in any relationship except abuse. Your partner, lover, best friend, home, soulmate, secret keeper, and pajamas or naked day sharer is all that and more. If you try to control you will NEVER KNOW TRUE LOVE OR MARRIAGE. YOU HAVE TO LET THAT CONTROL GO, talk to your Almighty Father because until you do you will never find true happiness in marriage. No money can buy it. I am glad Ben identifies with it.

[@Karen-fi6oi]

MARRIED 49+ YEARS AND YOU HIT IT ON THE NOSE, IT'S CALLED COMPRIMISE.

[@LorettaJacquelinePereira-nr6fl]

Now I wonder whose husband she is going to steal next 😂

[@jeanettepelletier1402]

I think he needed love , patience, kindness and he got toxic controlling Jlo.. hopefully 🙏 he can find fulfillment and peace soon he looks so exhausted 🥱.

[@darlenedevegan7401]

Disagree

[@nikkic295]

"THIS IS ME.....AGAIN "

[@amartin8994]

I could’ve told them that wasn’t going to work when they got back together on day one. No surprises here.

[@lyndaash5440]

She needs to let go, and move on. He doesn’t want her. She’s making it harder on herself

[@bethoberly2825]

She's also acting like she's desperate now to stay married. If she really wanted him she wouldn't have done all the sneaky crap behind his back to hurt him. Releasing their old love letters and selling his motor bike collection without his permission or knowledge. That's an awful person who does that!

[@Aljosef6366]

How can she control HIM? The guy's got 2 Oscars. Absolutely her equal, if not, better than her.

[@marytorres4843]

He also likes to drink!

[@alenaadamkova7617]

If Jennifer garner couldnt control his drinking, JLo can not as well. Also the paparazi cause the problem....paparazii cause that celbs start drinking.

[@veronicajean3612]

A narcissist could control anyone. It is a rule.

[@judithfernandes2877]

They should be together and forever ❤

[@user-nn8bm5oj6x]

Ben has his own money and fame he doesn’t need jlo controlling him, her diva attitude dose not work anymore she will end up with another backup dancer she a rude person anyway God don’t like agly

[@YomiLopez-y1z]

They are both Leos, what did you expect. Leos like to be in control and not be controlled. They did not balance each other.

[@pamyuhnke8143]

If Ben treated Jlo like this, we would all be screaming “ABUSE!”.

[@carieheighington9714]

Affleck and Aniston should get together

[@LindaMathie]

An ex is an ex for a reason

[@phoenixfly8825]

Correction around 10:37 Ben was married to Garner while being an addict and cheated at least 2x on Garner while Jlo had some relationships made public

[@BN2K]

End of Bennifer 2.0

[@PuissanceDuNeant]

Next round in 20 years😂😂😂

[@HildaCastillo-z3i]

Why do you vilify JLo when Afleck is the serial cheater, he knew how she is and marriage is supposed to be in the good times and bad times, not punk out like a light weight.

[@Sean-m3z]

I feel for Jennifer Lopez....I also feel for Ben Affleck.....and their family ...they can not just separate for the sake of themselves and their families..... they have inspired the world with their reunion, they have involved their children, and all the people around them.... they are bigger than themselves...they need to work this out...let love not go wasted!!! It seems they have given themselves time for reflection, to be on their own while working on their own projects...rush decisions can not be applied when there are so many variables involved...they need to learn from this venture called marriage from their past experiences as well. A love like theirs should not be allowed to deteriorate for misunderstood set ups interfering with their goals for the future.

[@francheskavega7251]

She is a villain,she’s not humble at all

[@NormaLilia24]

@HildaCastillo Exactly

[@AnnemarieHardcastle]

I think Ben made the best decision always put your mental health before anything

[@Labee-w9q]

We all know this was gonna happen I mean she is JHO Lol he loves his ex glad he left her

[@alexandrapatricio2727]

Why did he take a 2ºnd chance with her, wasn´´t that obvious the first time. ??

[@margaretortega8100]

Ben needs to move on and Jennifar she should stay single had too many MEN in her life

[@secretdiamond7198]

Ben you did very well! She doesnt deserve you, she it totslly nothing so you did the best choice!! She is nothing and you are a lot so dont waste your time for thinking of her and move on

[@xsportsrc3817]

When your star starts to fade, it will cause problems in a relationship especially when the husband also couldn't cope with his own, which the wife seems to control a lot. Ben looked like a caged child when he was with her - doesn't help if one is a control-freak perfectionist (when you have fewer and losing fans when your talent is in question). Time to let go or go crazy. He chose the right decision - now he's slowly starting to smile.

[@juns597]

You have absolutely no proof with all your accusations against JLO. DIVA attitude? How about the way he behaved in public? No accountability for the man? Gimme a break.

[@mr.e7084]

When Money & Fame isn't enough to make you happy... Jennifer doesn't want love... She wants everything else... Most of all, control.... She knows she can't hide the fact that she's a narcissist who really can't sing... truth hurts 😏

[@OlgaOlga-lq2ei]

She is smiling all the time with him, but he always has a sour and dissatisfied face...and always disgraces her with his constant displeasure... I feel really sorry for her, what she must endure with him all the time.

[@RitaWeaver-sc8gd]

Cause she’s fake and want people to think she’s happy when in reality she’s not. Like Jane Fonda told her…

[@jovitarich7078]

Agree, my ex was the same way, always upset/unhappy…it’s hard because I always wanted to be loved by him.

[@lacamaronconcola8103]

My great grandmother said all the time we see the faces not the hearts and not was going on in close doors. I'm a very serious person outside in the public people my sister says I look mad but very happy at home my husband looks very happy in public but very anxious at home we been together for 2 decades

[@k.s5889]

She is immature at 55 , and she acts like 13

[@msprettykawaii950]

Ben lost a good Jennifer once. His first wife did everything for him she never stood a chance

[@bridesnyc]

She left him..... He didn't walk away! He told her it wont work if she continue with the busy/famous life, he wanted to be more private but she has an agenda and she loves to work. He though they are getting old and will slow down but JLo loves to be busy. And JLO want him to stop drinking all together which he didn't accept. (she doesn't drink/smoke or use drugs). I hope it works out for both of them.

[@cabellero1120]

It's not surprising to see this Sofia Vergara and her trophy husband separated as well... I think that Ben couldn't cope with the fact that JLo is more successful than he is ..

[@16nowhereman]

Marriage counselors say that if the relationship didn't work the first time, it won't work the second time unless these issues have been addressed. Poor Jennifer. There will be more relationships with the same outcome. Jennifer also has time against her. She is getting older, and most men won't want an "old" woman.

[@bethoberly2825]

When someone has been married and divorced and engaged as often as JLo has, you need to look at the common denominator, which is her. There must be a reason why an attractive, wealthy, talented woman can't keep a long-term relationship. I believe she is a controlling, bossy, DIVA, who wants everything in life her way. Life and love are about compromise, something she obviously knows absolutely nothing about! I feel sorry for all the men, I really do. Ben needs to find a nice common woman, not someone in show business. He can have his quiet away from the spotlight life and his friends. Do a film now and then, do the promo circuit then go back to his quiet life. I don't blame him for that. I think you can take Jenny from the block, but you can't take the block out of Jenny....meaning I think she has big time insecurities because of her beginnings. She needs a psychiatrist not another husband or fiance.

[@tomlidot4871]

He should have known better. Who wants a controlling partner like that? Once she's in the driver's seat she just wants more. Always has been. Always will be.

[@marialombardi9892]

I hope he goes back to Jen Garner and their kids.

[@HollisAllicock]

I hope so too

[@franklinblack2716]

Garner deserves better

[@phillipsmom6252]

I said I’ll give it two years. I was right.

[@estrellalucero5633]

im so happy for Ben i hope he go back to hes real family jennifer garner ❤❤❤❤

[@jettamoss7142]

❤ I don't blame him he is standing up for his self. Move on Ben and take yourself go be with your friends and someone that cares a out you being happy too.

[@GelaRose-y6p]

He’s not even mad at Jen! He’s sick of paparazzi. She’s not in love or she would have flexed rather than being unwilling to hear his gripes. Let’s face it. When wealthy people want out they get out. No need to fight & fuss plenty of money to Cush the heartbreak & break the fall.

[@trinathompson8587]

Ben broke off their first engagement, and that's probably why Jlo was so into him! He keeps being the one who got away!

[@vanessacarvalho9076]

I agree 100%. Funny like suddenly it is all his fault. Just check how many marriages, engagements and boyfriends she had and compare with him. Yes, he has issue and needs good therapy but the woman can't keep ANYTHING private. Her friends are the people working for her and she brings the entourage everywhere. Also Benny Medina tips the Paps and never liked Ben. JLo parted ways with him when they dated prior. Medina doesn't want to lose again. To blame Ben is quite easy. The guy has been sober, supportive of her projects and quiet. She is selling booze and her team gaslighting.

[@uhuraenterprise6372]

The way he slammed the car door😮😅

[@mariadesjardin9397]

Happily they are divorcing. Ben was rashed into it, he was emotionally inestable and bumping into old flame was like dead end.

[@debtrethewey-tervree9928]

Ben SHOULD take a cue from Matt Damon & find a partner that is NOT in "the business", but is just a regular gal who cares very little for that attention & wants no part of a celebrity lifestyle & just prefers to experience everything & anything with him but with minimal fame. Just their own quiet little bubble together. It's almost as if J.Lo sat back one day & said, "Hmmmmmm......how can I get back in the game? How can I make everyone love and adore me all over again? Like back when Ben & I were the IT couple of the industry? OH, I GOT IT!!! I'll just get back together with Ben, & we can start where we left off! After all, EVERYONE loves a good romance rekindle, & then we'll be that power couple all over again." Except that isn't what happened AT ALL. No one cared one iota about them rekindling their romance... except J.Lo herself, & I think that surprised her, & she probably took that revelation out on him & blamed him for the lack of attention or interest in her again. Even worse is that I don't think she ever told Ben about why she wanted to get back together again & unfortunately it wasn't until her disaster of a self-funded "movie" that he finally realized what she was doing, which was essentially using him as part of her desperate plan to becoming relevant again. Which is the last thing he wants or probably even wanted back then, for that matter! I think he was under the assumption that since it had been so long ago, & they have both matured that she would want the same things he wants, which is to just enjoy the rest of their lives together. I think he truly thought she no longer cared about all that hoopla. He just wants a peaceful existence. And to enjoy whatever the helk he wants as his own boss & to just move on to new & different opportunities. He no longer wants all the drama that came along with their union 20yrs ago. I think he thought she also grew out of that desperate need to be the IT couple all over again. And it probably took him by surprise when he could see she's even MORE desperate than ever because of the fact that she's gotten older & she can't seem to move past the sheer desperation & the need to be desired by any & all around them (like what the Kardashians will do when no one cares about them). Ben just wants to be happy, like we ALL do. This is all just IMO of course. (FYI: IF you feel the need to reply & / or send me a message, PLEASE make peace with the fact that I won't read or even see it. I just don't like doing the whole back & forth debate thing & what I really just want to do is watch more YT videos & since mean spirited/nasty comments have effected me in the past I came to the conclusion that this is what's best for ME, which is to not read any of them since there's really no way of discerning between a negative or a positive without actually reading them. So, to keep my head space a happy one, this is what's best for me. Plus, adding this statement saves people from wasting their time responding to my comment. TY so much for understanding).✌💕

[@paleface1979]

This is hilariously one sided, it takes two people to make a relationship work, just like it takes two to let it fall apart.

[@christ7957]

I'm so TIRED and DISAPPOINTED!!! What the HELL drew them back to each other in the first place??? And HOW could Ben have ignored any red flags before he proposed to her????!!!!!

[@ellenchavez2043]

JLo doesn't look for a companion, she looks fir the perfect prop for her display of life...she needs to sit for 5 minutes by herself: no staff, stylists, assistants, ladies in waiting, photographer and videographer. And he needs to stop using females and friends as co-dependents. Jennifer Garner needs to let him sit in his own mess, and turning her girls into co-dependents as well. She needs to let him establish his own relationship with his children and stop filling in blanks.

[@laurelchaconas9450]

She failed in her attempt to emasculate him!

[@samanthajeenasookoo7296]

Poor Ben, I would've ran too, peace of mind is everything, one day Jlo would realize you can't change someone no matter how much you try to control them, they'll change only if they want too...

[@katebishop38]

She just didn’t trust him

[@IDH888]

She needs closure he needs stability. Her ego is hurt he’s evolving

[@kathleensanford6338]

Ben had to put his sobriety first. Without that he has nothing. She is a desperate insecure woman who can’t be alone and has to be the center of attention. It’s very sad as the joy she is looking for is in front of her face and she can’t see it. She is so needy for fame ,control, money, being adored she is missing out on the love of a good man and children. It’s sad for her and him as I believe they really thought it would work. She just couldn’t accept him.

[@namaaniao6300]

*It always happen to every man Jennifer is having‼️I think their Relationship won’t WORK AT ALL…)))))))))*

[@Butterfly74luv]

With her ways, he’s never gonna take her back

[@moinschatz777]

Okay if a woman is demending and having high expectations she’s a diva- but if a man is beeing demending and has high expectations he’s just precise and a boss?

[@Foxie635]

She tried all types of men. Who is for her, a woman?

[@hernandez23951]

Lol, "a couple of drinks". A lot of people dont know whats going on behind the walls of a marriage life. Ben could have a serious drinking problem or is developing one. J Lo might be trying to avoid him from crossing a line he might regret crossing. But as most alcoholics, we dont want to admit that we have a problem and rather put a bandaid over a serious open wound.

[@truthseeker4084]

I dont know but when I look at them, they just dont match. She is energetic, healthy, witty, funny, organized and he is more independent and private. She is kind of too much for him and he is not enough for her, so I guess they should just stay separated.