THE TRUTH ABOUT LONG DISTANCE | Marine Girlfriend | Long Distance Advice | My Experience

[@katrinaspinella7612]

My boyfriend just left a week ago. I’m very new to this long distance thing. Especially military wise

[@HannahMadison]

Kat L Cruff it’s a challenge but worth it in the end! ❤️ be strong but don’t hide how you feel, there will definitely be rough days ahead but that doesn’t make it impossible to get through! Hang in there girl

[@baelinda212]

Thank you very much for your video girl! My boyfriend just left to the marines boot camp yesterday and it’s the first day for me that not be able to talk to him! He’s my only best friend and it hurts so much to accept the fact that he’s now gone for three month

[@HannahMadison]

Belinda Le it’s gonna be hard but it’ll go by quickly! Try to get involved in new hobbies and find creative ways to stay busy!

[@jenniferfreeman8559]

Me too girly! I honestly dont know what to do im so anxious😭im 16 and he just left earlier today and its so hard for me to understand that he will be back really soon🙈

[@tessymay933]

@@jenniferfreeman8559 is he back?

[@jenniferfreeman8559]

Tessy May hes back!🤗🤗🤗got back 2 days ago

[@tessymay933]

@@jenniferfreeman8559 yayyy happy for you :)

[@nicolecas445]

Exactly!!! My mom was in the Marines where she met my dad who was also a Marine, but it's still hard for her to understand from a civilian point of view. Communication with a grunt is so frustrating, especially when you're not married because you're not priority like meditate family (100% understandable). I miss my boyfriend everyday, especially like Ii said- we had a routine and talked everyday, but now it's practically nothing. I'm a worrier anyway, but the military life of a girlfriend is filled with anxiety. I know I'm ranting right now but your video was definitely something I needed to hear. Everyone goes through it but no one talks about it or explains. It's so hard to know what's normal for military and not letting insecurities get in the way.

[@HannahMadison]

Nicole Castilleja yes! I think that’s the cool part about sharing what you go through, especially when no one else is talking about it! It’s so easy to feel alone and like you’re the only one who’s gone through/is going through it.

[@marisolgomez6825]

ATTENTION if you are looking at this video and you S/O went to San Diego for boot camp there it’s a page one fb called USMC recruit Significant others (San Diego). It helps so much

[@paigan694]

THANK YOU 💕

[@shialohstubleski6005]

i love these videos so much!! my boyfriend is about to graduate on november 2nd!! he just finished the crucible friday! we have 9 days left!! your videos have really helped me understand & get into the right mind set!!! thank you so much!

[@HannahMadison]

shialoh stubleski congratulations girl!! Enjoy being there ❤️ thank you so much! I’m glad these have been helpful! ❤️❤️

[@thetorirose9027]

My boyfriend left a couple days for bootcamp and it’s already been rough

[@HannahMadison]

Thetorirose the beginning is definitely the worst 😖 hang in there!

[@saltymint6697]

I will feel what you feel in 2 weeks. Cheer up!You woll do this!♡

[@pamg7414]

I can totally relate on this :( my guy is a marine and stationed in japan. You just chat chat and talk then it stop coz both of us will be sooo busy. Then it is never ending waiting and missing. But because of love for each other you will learn to be patient and understand... i will definitely wait for him... and it is all worth it.

[@Babyashlyy]

That is so true with facetime reconnecting my boyfriend is a marine as well

[@teshuahhawkins5568]

My boyfriend is in the army Reserve, he was gone for a year and then came back and was only here for two months and then was deployed again. It’s very hard not to worry about him we’re inseparable and long distance is hard for the both of us. We’re always stuck to our phones when he’s deployed. He’s in Ukraine right now he’s a sergeant E-7 he’s got his own platoon and hoping he will be here for Christmas💕

[@HannahMadison]

Teshuah Hawkins it is hard! I hope he can be home for Christmas ❤️

[@savagejordan781]

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[@LeahLievv]

My boyfriend is leaving for the marines in a few months and I'm leaving for the Navy in a year and I'm just so scared. Thank you for the video ☺ it helps

[@lookatme2139]

So happy I found your video! My boyfriend just got to boot camp and I haven’t been able to talk to him and because of how much I’ve missed him I’ve been getting in my head and overthinking. It’s really hard dealing with this especially when I don’t have anyone to talk to about this. So watching this video is really reassuring so thank you for that! :))

[@HannahMadison]

So glad it was helpful! Keep your head up ❤️ good luck to the both of you! I wish you nothing but the best ☺️ I hope the time passes quickly for you!!

[@jaydeepbose7470]

@Brandon Schmidt mine left 2½. Months ago...half a month more and he is coming for 7 days..and then going back....we live in different countries..

[@dolce__g]

My boyfriend just deployed to the Middle East for 5months. I’ve never had to deal with something like this and I feel emotionally drained I don’t have anyone who can relate or fully understand and I came across your video and now I don’t feel so alone reading all the comments and to know that their is others going through the same thing. Sending encouragement to all the woman and men going through this

[@biancaalyssa_]

girl me too my boyfriend is deploying in 2 weeks for 6 months and i’m so scared but i see you posted this 6 months ago so your boyfriend should be back by now..and it made me feel a lot better reading your comment and others to see i’m not alone by any chance do you hv instagram? i have a couple questions on how you were able to get through it 😩😩😩

[@dolce__g]

Bianca Jaime he should’ve been back by now but he suffered a accident in the Middle East unfortunately and he got surgery in his back a week ago at least he’s back in the states but it’s been 6 months now and I miss him terribly due to COVID I can’t go visit him

[@biancaalyssa_]

@@dolce__g omg! i cannot imagine ! my prayers go out to you and your boyfriend 🙏 🤞🏽 stay strong girly you have made it this far, a little bit longer and you’ll be together once again. god bless you

[@dolce__g]

Bianca Jaime thank you so much I appreciate it. I wish you the best of luck to and may he come back home safe to you.

[@savagejordan781]

Same.

[@breannepierre5741]

As I watch the video I want to say I am beyond grateful this person is understanding and communicates very well and there is a age difference of 6 years so he gives advice and I can for him if needed there will be trouble but as we keep God centered we shall figure things out as we go along with trusted sources

[@christinaphelps5311]

This video has helped me so much! I just found your account today and will be watching more! My boyfriend is currently waiting to start MCT training and the little communication has been hard on me. But your video has given me so much encouragement and strength to move on and think about all the positive instead of the negative.

[@HannahMadison]

That's awesome! Thanks for the encouragement :) hope things go well for you guys! It gets better after MOS

[@breonnaflorence658]

My boyfriend is currently in mos and I wish I found your channel sooner it’s so nice to hear someone I can relate to.

[@HannahMadison]

Breonna Florence so glad to hear it’s helpful ❤️ Mos can stink sometimes 😩 I remember! Hope things are going well for you guys ❤️

[@Lilfootdes]

My boyfriend left for mos today, I swear the goodbye was no easier than when he left for bootcamp:(

[@HannahMadison]

Desiree Aguilera oh my gosh sending him back for MCT was he worst and then we went and visited during MOS and that last goodbye was the HARDEST 😭😭😭

[@Lilfootdes]

He’s going straight to Missouri for MOS so I won’t get to see him until way after:/ its really hard but I’m hoping it’ll be easier since he might have a little more access to his phone

[@HannahMadison]

Desiree Aguilera he should have more freedom during MOS! There will still be stupid rules but at least at night he should have his phone & weekends

[@margoismycat]

I just watched this and I want to say thank you so much! Nick graduates on May 24th! I can’t wait to be with him again ❤️

[@HannahMadison]

Michaela Cayton wow!! That’s so exciting!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ he’s almost done! It’s crazy to think a year ago daniel was two weeks away from graduation!

[@charmm2773]

my bf is also a marine... he is about to be sent to Tajikistan for his MSG Duty.. it’s already difficult that he can hardly get liberty to get out of the base to see me before he leaves Overseas. it’s been really frustrating and long distance for the next 2 years will be challenging. i love him and i hope that u keep posting these videos. i really need lots of love and encouragement. 🥺❤️

[@annaorlando2694]

my boyfriends been in the marines for almost 2 years now and I’ve been going through the emotions before he left for boot, he leave again tomorrow to go to a new base and I’m worried about the adjustment again. Although I always think about the positives. Although it’s hard there’s always positives to a negative situation and although you are not with each of you have each other’s back for everything and through everything. FaceTime is life saving and really helps if you have that option but if not , there’s many other ways to get help to feel better. Even if that’s talking to a girl or guy going through the same thing :)

[@cristalcruzzin1756]

My bf is a marine sergeant. We’ve been on and off for 2 years because communication is the problem. It’s so hard. 😕

[@pinzjoe17]

Hi Cristal, I am a casting director and I am working on a military show about long distance dating. Let me know if this peaks your interest. Below is the casting notice. Do you want to tell your story about the ups and downs of dating someone in the military? Have you only met each other face-to-face a handful of times or haven’t met at all? Do you want to be an inspiration to those who are going through a long distance love connection? Then this is the show for you! A new TV series for a major cable network are looking for people in a long-distance relationship in the military. We want to go inside what it’s like to date someone stationed in a different part of the world. Whether you are both in the military at different locations or you are working a 9-5 job while your partner is serving, when it comes to matter of the heart, how does distance and limited contact impact your relationship when you’re in love with someone who isn’t always close by. If interested, please email [e-mail]

[@dianag6481]

Thank you for making this video I'm also in a military relationship and idk why but this makes me feel. That other women are having the same situation and this video just makes me feel like I'm not alone in a way

[@amybeltran792]

This was very helpful. My boyfriend left for marines bootcamp three days ago and honestly I haven't been able to really get myself out of my house. its been tough texting him like I did everyday and just hearing his phone buzz in his bag in the closet. Its hard being tough and strong enough to show him that everything is okay when it doesn't feel okay. Everything happened so fast and the after math has been so slow. I just feel like I've been stuck in the same day. Just wish I could talk to him.

[@HannahMadison]

The beginning is so hard, the adjustments feel so empty.. hang in there girl! It will get better and time will start to pass quicker. Head up ❤️

[@ladonnabarlow9200]

I'm a military girlfriend and I have problems with my Wi-Fi ECT.. also your right it's so frustrating this video was great advice I don't have people I can talk to that understand. Love y'all

[@HannahMadison]

Thank you for the support ❤️ hope you guys are doing well!!

[@morgangarcia1873]

This really did help me get into the mindset even more when he ships off so thank you so much !!❤️ he’s leaving in October so just gotta spend as much time as we can together before he leave and then we’ll take it day by day from there so thank you so much girl !!

[@ashleymahoney9837]

Morgan Villarreal how are you doing? My bf just left yesterday for BCT. I’d love to talk if you want someone to go through this with

[@rebeccascheinert6136]

I'm in college and I just recently met a guy who is in the marines, and I haven't seen him in person but we ft everyday since he is only on base, but is getting deployed in January or February for almost 6 months. I'm so new to this type of relationship and it is hard, this video kinda made me feel better thank you

[@Sophie-is6mt]

Hi! I’m in the exact same position as you, but I’ve been with my guy for a year and a half. Let me know if you have Twitter or anything we can talk on if you’d like advice or someone to talk to. I’d be glad to help out because I know how hard it can be 💖

[@rebeccascheinert6136]

@@Sophie-is6mt I have do not have Twitter but I have Facebook which is just Rebecca Scheinert and Instagram which is rebecca_anne24

[@pinzjoe17]

@@Sophie-is6mt ​ Hi Sophie, I am a casting producer who is working on a military show about long distance dating. We are going through the ups and downs of it and my job is to find people who are going through it. Below is the casting notice for the series. If you are interested, just email me. Do you want to tell your story about the ups and downs of dating someone in the military? Have you only met each other face-to-face a handful of times or haven’t met at all? Do you want to be an inspiration to those who are going through a long distance love connection? Then this is the show for you! A new TV series for a major cable network are looking for people in a long-distance relationship in the military. We want to go inside what it’s like to date someone stationed in a different part of the world. Whether you are both in the military at different locations or you are working a 9-5 job while your partner is serving, when it comes to matter of the heart, how does distance and limited contact impact your relationship when you’re in love with someone who isn’t always close by. If interested, please email [e-mail]

[@pinzjoe17]

@@rebeccascheinert6136 Hi Rebecca, I am a casting producer who is working on a military show about long distance dating. We are going through the ups and downs of it and my job is to find people who are going through it. Below is the casting notice for the series. If you are interested, just email me. Do you want to tell your story about the ups and downs of dating someone in the military? Have you only met each other face-to-face a handful of times or haven’t met at all? Do you want to be an inspiration to those who are going through a long distance love connection? Then this is the show for you! A new TV series for a major cable network are looking for people in a long-distance relationship in the military. We want to go inside what it’s like to date someone stationed in a different part of the world. Whether you are both in the military at different locations or you are working a 9-5 job while your partner is serving, when it comes to matter of the heart, how does distance and limited contact impact your relationship when you’re in love with someone who isn’t always close by. If interested, please email [e-mail]

[@mariecruz6764]

Rebecca Scheinert hey I don’t know if you’ll ever see this but I’m in the same exact position you were in only I can’t see him because of quarantine and because he’s being deployed in June, do you have any advice ? I’m kinda scared especially with the way our relationship started and how I most likely am not gonna be able to see him till after his deployment if you see this and answer thank you

[@candacerostorfer2280]

I’ve been feeling so emotionally distant with my marine boyfriend…it’s been making me so sad recently. Even though we call, I just don’t feel like we have stuff to say to each other anymore. We’ve been dating for 5 months and he’s been closing himself off emotionally more than before. It makes me feel as if I’m the problem even though I know I’m not. I want to be there for him but there’s so much I can say since that’s all I can do in long distance. Some days I wonder if all the tears is worth the relationship… I love him but I feel like I don’t even know him sometimes. Sometimes I wonder if I miss him or if I just miss the moments I’ve had with him.

[@baraaali4147]

Hey a lot of the times they end up having to close themselves off from their norm so they can focus on training. That’s usually it honestly. I would say reassure him you’re there for him if he needs to talk and keep an open mind and try to more understanding as this has been a major adjustment for him too

[@BFMV_rs]

I’ve been in the Marine Corps for about 4 years now. What she’s talking about in the video is very much accurate. Thank you for this video Hannah! Rah If any questions feel free to reply to this comment and I’ll give you straight forward answers.

[@zizatolyn7704]

Hi! having relationship with a marine.. it is normal that there some a times that he is not replying to my msgs?..coz sometimes he is not opening much more about his work.. so im having difficult to understand the situation of what going on to him

[@pamg7414]

It is very normal that sometimes they don’t reply to messages becausee they are busy with life, work and school. I am in a relationship with a marine for more than a year there are times you wanted to give up. And you feel insecure and i always break up with him. But in reality they are just to busy. He said that it won’t be easy and it will be to tough to be in this relationship. And i am still learning . Keep your self busy, and when he is available make time. That’s all you can do. And just believe in your man. And make yourself productive and achieve your own goals. Support him all through out..

[@learegnault8111]

Hey, my bf is stationed in Japan since May and I moved to Spain in September, I wanted to know if US Marines are allowed to take leave to travel to Europe, and if the Foreign Leave was only for professional purposes or for personal purposes too. Thank you

[@BFMV_rs]

@@learegnault8111 both! He can request leave to go anywhere he wants. However due to the COVID-19 situation going on around the world, that could become a factor in him going to Europe. But yes they can take leave anywhere they request. It’s up to their command to deny or accept his request. Hope this helps!

[@lallama1203]

Omg this video helped me a lot I’m 20 and my 23 year old boyfriend is going to the military soon and he wanted me to let go of him because he feels bad for me wanting to wait but I just know I can’t let him go I won’t I will make it work because ik he loves me a lot and I love him and yes like u said it’s not impossible also praying to helps I heard

[@pamelahumphrey2067]

She seems like she's been crying. Aww. 😢I am 3mths new to this. 😢😢

[@dajahmanzano8948]

I just want to say thank you so much for this video and channel. My boyfriend left for mcrd bootcamp 2 months ago. He only has a few weeks until he comes home and i have someone going through the same thing ( my best friend is also in the military and his girlfriend and I got really close once my boyfriend and her boyfriend left) thankfully but like you said I sometimes feel sad because he’s not physically next to me. It could be worse but I am finding that I’ve grown more to appreciate the time we did have and the memories we shared. I can’t wait til he’s home. I need this today so thank you.

[@pinzjoe17]

Hi Dajah, I am a casting producer who is working on a military show about long distance dating. We are going through the ups and downs of it and my job is to find people who are going through it. Below is the casting notice for the series. If you are interested, just email me. Do you want to tell your story about the ups and downs of dating someone in the military? Have you only met each other face-to-face a handful of times or haven’t met at all? Do you want to be an inspiration to those who are going through a long distance love connection? Then this is the show for you A new TV series for a major cable network are looking for people in a long-distance relationship in the military. We want to go inside what it’s like to date someone stationed in a different part of the world. Whether you are both in the military at different locations or you are working a 9-5 job while your partner is serving, when it comes to matter of the heart, how does distance and limited contact impact your relationship when you’re in love with someone who isn’t always close by. If interested, please email [e-mail]

[@jaelynnherbst8837]

Loved this!!! My guy is going into the marines soon and it’s scary, but I know we will make it 💕

[@HannahMadison]

Jaelynn Pruitt it can be scary but it isn’t impossible! Communication (the lack of) can be the hardest part, so if you’re able to overcome that you will be doing good!! Best luck ❤️❤️

[@jaelynnherbst8837]

Hannah Madison Thank you so much 😊 I think staying busy and hanging out with family and friends will help too, thanks for the advice and help!

[@breannepierre5741]

I keep screaming and rewinding you saying fiancé when I just watched a video of you saying your his girlfriend I don’t know the time stamp but I didn’t think I’ll get on the video of this transition of your life that quick 😂😮🎉❤

[@goelenamilano7812]

I've been trying to find a video that has actual good advice, not that there are none with good out there, you just summed it up well! My bf is active duty Air Force, and ya know pandemic is happening. So, every time we think he will get to come home, or I will get to go see him, it keeps getting canceled. But you really helped! Thank you!

[@HannahMadison]

Goelena Milano so glad it was helpful! I hope you get to see him soon ❤️

[@alyssafrields6171]

currently at MOS school part of our journey, this helped a lot, and made me feel not crazy for feeling all my feelings. thank you!

[@HannahMadison]

You’re not alone! Glad it helped ❤️

[@jordyntaggart451]

My boyfriend just went to the field and won’t be back till January and it could change to longer, very new to this military relationship

[@HannahMadison]

It’s an adjustment for sure! Hang in there and remember just to take things day by day :)

[@biancaalyssa_]

@@HannahMadison girl me too my boyfriend is deploying in 2 weeks and i’m be new to this too i’m scared asf. i’m just seeking support from people who are going through similar situations.. lmk if you want to add each other on snapchat😌

[@diamondzamora]

This video was really good for me. My boyfriend of 5 years is planning to go into the military and there are a lot of questions and concerns I have. Another random thing. I have an android phone and he has an iphone and I'm thinking about getting an iPhone to easier communicate... I'm not sure

[@HannahMadison]

Diamond Z that could be easier in case the connection isn’t great because of iMessage, but if you both have WiFi and Snapchat or something you probably wouldn’t run into many issues ☺️

[@Nurse_sunny]

I love ur video my bf is not a marine but is newly in ait from boot for army infantry and a lot of what u said in this video makes me feel ok those r problems that usually happen in a military relationship. There’s not a lot of military gf videos talking about what u said but thanks so much it definitely has put a lot at ease for me when it comes to frustration, communication, and understanding and keeping positive mindset for the situation thanks for the video!

[@Nattzzz]

Is your boyfriend in Mct/mos atm? My boyfriend is non infantry so mct is about a month ( 29 days??) and his mos is apparently going to be 6 months. He just left and I’m coping well. I was just wondering when he would be able to use his phone.

[@HannahMadison]

Natt Zzz my boyfriend is currently finishing up MOS! He got his phone back the Friday before he graduated from MCT :)

[@fabianarodriguez7062]

Thank you for you video ♥️It has helped me a lot yesterday my boyfriend went to boot camp well first he has to be quarantined because of the corona virus it is difficult because we are not sure if we can go to his graduation or he can come 10 days, I miss him and I know it is difficult but I have to be strong

[@HannahMadison]

That’s so tough 😩 I hope you’re able to go to graduation! Best of luck to you both ❤️ stay strong

[@kierstenmiller1978]

Hey I’m in the same boat! I hate the uncertainty, I hope they can come home soon :( stay strong!

[@egirlmars]

Hey girl ! I love your videos. My boyfriend left for boot camp on Jan 6th, less than 4 weeks til the crucible! We're doing really great with communicating through letters. I honestly didn't think I would be able to do long distant, but maybe it's because I'm used to not being with someone all the time? Idk if that sounds bad or not lol. I do have a question though. Do they get to pick their MOS? And also if the graduation is in the All Weather Facility, only immediate family is allowed, correct? (If the weather is bad) Thanks for these videos! Lots of information and definitely taking notes!! :)

[@HannahMadison]

I'm not sure about the immediate family only if the weather is bad. If you are on a facebook page I would ask the questions, there are usually a few people with lots of experience that can help! I think that reservists usually get to pick their MOS but I am not sure if active duty gets to pick their MOS? I think sometimes they have an idea of what they will do but I kind of feel like they end up getting told what they are going to be doing. I would also ask that question on a FB page :)

[@briannab638]

This video was really helpful thanks for sharing this advice !

[@samikshaaind4152]

Thankyou so much Hannah. This helped me a lot.. Its been a week since he left and all I cam do is to drop him texts over whatsapp. Idk when he'll be online 🙃

[@rebekahjohns6236]

I just came across your video and it encouraged me so much!!! My boyfriend just finished the crucible and I just got to have my first phone call with him yesterday:) I'm really curious about what his access to his phone will be like during MCT and MOS, how was it for your Marine?

[@HannahMadison]

Rebekah Johns Aww that’s so exciting!! Congrats! During MCT he got it back only a few days before graduation and during MOS he had access to it basically 24/7, with the exception of when he was in class and when he had to be on fire watch (which was maybe once a month? or less)!

[@rebekahjohns6236]

@@HannahMadison okay yay that makes me feel so much better about MOS!! I'm literally so happy I found your channel!!!

[@HannahMadison]

Aww yay!! I’m so glad 🥰🥰

[@oliviasfitness]

tbh i don't know if i could do it i think i might just have to end things

[@HannahMadison]

Sometimes it’s sad but that’s the right choice for certain people’s’ situations!

[@oliviasfitness]

@@HannahMadison he's always wanted to be a marine but he got in an accident & was told he couldn't anymore but now it's a possibility that he can join & he's already starting the process. he also tells me how he's doing this for me too and i'm the main reason for him wanting to do it, for our future but like, i don't know i'm stuck and it's hard.

[@HannahMadison]

I’m do sorry girl. That sounds really complicated 😩😭 I would ask your parents or trusted adults for some advice and see if there are any couples near you/online who were in the same position that could offer more insight. Distance is hard, not impossible but with the military that can add another layer of unpredictability and frustration!

[@tuptup2852]

My boyfriend defence pilot he is so busy he is from another nation that means we are in long distance relationship honestly it's really tough for me sometimes for lack of communications..now a days he gave me time evening and night time .. it's been 7 months our relationship please advise me something sis😔 whenever he get free he don't text or call me sometimes..but come from work and called me every evening sometimes not .. whenever I saw him in online it hurts me honestly

[@maugustus21]

This is my first time dating man military it’s already been 6 months social medial and now into text messages he suppose be coming home Next months but their some paperwork he’s have pay and trying to be with me for long run but I need to know if this true or not please reply back because this my first hearing and I’m new to this info. Please respond back.

[@jaspreetquinones2948]

I’m new to this too.. my boyfriend leaves in October and I would really like to have support and someone to talk to.. are any of you guys willing to help me 👉🏼👈🏼😔

[@HannahMadison]

Good luck girly ❤️ find a support group and keep yourself busy and as motivated as you can be ☺️

[@kyrawalker2155]

Jaspreet Quiñones my bf is leaving in November! :/What is ur Snapchat girl ?

[@purnimakhadge8775]

My boyfriend just left on September 7 and i am missing him so bad !!!! I am just talking with him through letter 😭😭

[@kyrawalker2155]

Purnima khadge Ugh I’m so sorry girl😕😕

[@ashleymahoney9837]

My boyfriend just left yesterday. I would love to talk if you want someone to go through this with!

[@paolapenalver3778]

My Marine boyfriend dumped me and broke my heart after seeing me on special liberty. Best of luck to you tho girly 🙂❤

[@HannahMadison]

Paola Peñalver I’m so sorry girl 😕 that sucks

[@jaydeepbose7470]

I am in a long distance Relationship and my bf is in the Army..I am a girl.. it's been three months since I have not met him..

[@purnimakhadge8775]

Same here !! Even he is in BMT !! Just talking through letter!!! Missing him so bad

[@kehdoh7649]

There’s a lot of military bf and civilians gf. Is there a channel where I can find the perspective of a civilian bf and military gf?

[@HannahMadison]

I don’t know of any personally I’m sorry! I’m sure there’s gotta be one out there though!

[@evybahena]

Are they able to have their phones with them and when are they able to call if they don’t have their personal phone ?

[@HannahMadison]

Depends on what phase of training. Bootcamp is no communication minus letters, MCT they might get their phone. Then after that they generally have access to person phones ☺️

[@evybahena]

Hannah Madison -He is going into the marines. I heard they get to make one call to their family to say they made it safe ?

[@HannahMadison]

They do when they arrive but it’s a scripted call. Other than that they may have the chance to win a call home but it’s rare. After the crucible they also may choose to buy a phone and be able to call on the days when they have Liberty

[@evybahena]

Hannah Madison May I text u on ur ig ? Thank you for sharing ur experience and much more I love ur videos 🙂

[@HannahMadison]

I am not on Instagram currently but I’d love to chat over email! you can reach me at [e-mail] ☺️

[@biancaalyssa_]

thank you so much !!! my boyfriend and i jist watched your video!! he just visited me on his leave and left today :( he leaves in 2 weeks for deployment for 6 months and i’m extremely sad. i feel as if i’m going to feel alone.. he’s my best friend. do you have insta ? i have a couple questions on surviving a deployment as a military girlfriend 😩😩

[@HannahMadison]

I do! @hannahmadison_

[@ansleyhollingsworth491]

My boyfriend just left today for boot camp and is going active duty later. Im just really struggling grasping the idea that I won't be able to talk to him for so long. If anyone has any tips or words of advice or affirmation it would be greatly appreciated.

[@HannahMadison]

It isn’t going to be super easy and especially the beginning is such an adjustment! My best advice would be to stay as busy as you can and create goals for yourself to learn new things/accomplish certain things so that you have something you’re personally able to be working on too! If you can find community and support with others who can relate, that helps too!

[@jazs2300]

My boyfriend left on the tenth of January. We were already long distance before he left, but I still found it extremely hard and cried so much especially on the first and second nights. After that I didn’t cry as much, and I write him a letter every day, that really seems to help. He’s going to the Marines, so he’ll be gone for 13 Weeks for Boot Camp, and an additional two weeks for quarantine that I can’t talk to him.

[@zenitsu7605]

Hey do you have a Instagram or snap we can talk on? I need some advice for our relationship he’s in the airforce and it’s been almost 5 months since the last time I saw him and I feel like it’s effecting us so bad but he also doesn’t like to FaceTime or call

[@HannahMadison]

heather rilene I don’t have snap and I’m not on insta hardly ever but you can send me an email! It should be in the description of this video

[@lallama1203]

Plz get back to me I’m desperate to know these answers 🥺🥺

[@sophiaseliasannes9993]

Damn I needed this

[@lallama1203]

I also have a question how is it like with the communication like ?do they let your boyfriend call u when he is free ?or u write letter ?and how is like vacation time? when he comes to see u because my boyfriend is gonna stay in the military for 25 years plzz get back to me when u can it will really help me

[@HannahMadison]

During bootcamp you can only communicate through letters. When they’re in training they usually get their cell phones and can call or text when they have free time. I think for the marines they get 2.5 days of leave a month so they can save it up and use like 14 days at a time or something like that, I’m not positive though.

[@lallama1203]

@@HannahMadison awww thank u and your boyfriend in the marines nice and thanks for replying 😊and God bless your relationship I hope me and my boyfriend relationship can last and we get through it 🥺🙏

[@HannahMadison]

Thanks girl! Best of luck ❤️

[@lallama1203]

@@HannahMadison thanks🥺😊🤞🙏

[@shrishti8215]

Same thing am going through

[@zizatolyn7704]

I have bf marine and were new in the relationship...he went vacation to his home country and we have plan after his vacation.. suddenly there some urgent happen right now in iraq..until am not receiving reply from him.. is that normal not to receive reply.. am worried whats going on to him.. but he is receiving my msgs in watsapp but am not seeing him online😔😪 .. its hard to understand when there is no reply...

[@shrishti8215]

@@zizatolyn7704 it's ok , i too face same thing sometimes, actually some countries have some rules , like free face calling not allowed, even voice calls , network issues main thing , if u r sure about ure relationship , then wait 😊 , it too happened sometimes with me , and for week that we can't contact, and sometimes message takes 2-3 hrs to send , so it's normal , I'll just say busy ureself in some stuff have some hobbies . Take care