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[@nikkitaylor9665]

The validation hunter gives Devin on her growth is the best part ❤

[@sfsc77]

My favorite parts of this are a.) Acknowledging that loving someone is a choice rather than just a feeling, and b.) The ending where yall acknowledge that sometimes those close to us hurt us unintentionally because of their sins. These are extremely important and valuable lessons and i appreciate yall so much for speaking the truth as a Christian family ❤

[@Bp41882]

“Because I’m a testament to my moms prayers” brought chills to my body. I can only pray that my daughter says the same thing when she’s older.

[@mariamail0303]

Same here! !

[@joshuachao6480]

Yeah, like I know that my wisdom is a testament to my parents' prayers since I remember every night when I was a kid, they prayed that God would give me more wisdom.

[@gracekelly2810]

When you teared up when he said "I am so proud of you", my husband said that to me & I know exactly how that feels... I cried too!

[@kayredeemed116]

So glad Devin was able to process her pain before marriage. Its beautiful to see the authenticity of both of you. ❤

[@1daySomeday]

i adore how both look to each other for approval but in a healthy way. That is the glue in their authentic love for each other and their marriage.

[@beckyklepper315]

This was sweet. There's no prayer deeper than a parent for their children.

[@hugh200]

You guys are the best couple on KZbin! I love your clean lifestyle. I love the fact there is no cursing or sexual provocative content, proof that clean pure family content can be a hit without the dirty language. Good wholesome funloving family. Love you guys❤❤

[@carlijane]

When he encouraged you 🥹 what a rare treasure he is!

[@PascalMariaCoutinho]

Man do I love this couple. Hunter is so humble and a top notch husband. ❤

[@laceymiller959]

i love how real and honest y’all are. y’all are huge inspirations in my life and y’all have a beautiful family! i love y’all❤️❤️

[@freedom4063]

Divorce??

[@candiemcclain8353]

So relatable…one of my favorite videos you guys have done.

[@Thecordlefamily]

Thank you!! We love you 😊

[@laceymiller959]

@@Thecordlefamily y’all don’t understand, that means the world that you responded thank you!!

[@hannahmoore6798]

I would never guess on a million years either of you have been through so much. What a beautiful picture of choosing to allow yourselves to be healed and giving honor to not only Jesus but your parents by how you tell your stories. Blessings ❤️

[@christinamanweiler3541]

Right❤

[@Lwaite999]

Crying with y'all 😢 especially when hunter started tearing up slightly and he said such a loving thing to devin absolutely teared up and send feeling like a dose of cuddles from my gorgeous man myself

[@lizaikin3194]

I’m a praying momma. And was feeling down today. Like my prayers aren’t helping. This was the validation I needed. Literally just prayed for a sign that what I’m doing matters. My prodigal daughter is a few years older than you. I was a teen mom & we had a similar custody arrangement. With lots of kids in both households. TY for sharing your story.

[@philmccraken]

I don’t know how any one could think everything has been handed to y’all. Hunter was a firefighter and y’all have raised a happy and healthy child. That shows how hard working y’all are

[@michellebernal6361]

It’s beautiful the way Hunter took the time to acknowledge you Devin. It’s not easy to work on our insecurities especially when our childhood was impacted by trauma and or divorce. Something only God can truly repair in us. Such a sweet, raw moment. Thank you for sharing that with us 💗 love you guys!!!

[@AmyStotts]

When I got a divorce, my aunt shared her thoughts with me at a large family gathering. She said that I wouldn't go to Heaven and that if i remarried, i would be an adulteress. That floored me! He and i had both fallen into alcoholism and he became abusive. It wasn't until he was swinging at me when i was holding my toddler that i ended it. I know God wouldn't have wanted me to stay there. I'm 16 years sober and he's still a raging alcoholic. I feel like it was definitely easier on my son to go through that as a toddler than if i had waited. It never even entered my mind that you two didn't work for what you have. It's odd to me that some folks think like that. You two are the cutest couple I've ever seen. I wish for your kind of relationship.

[@AnyaB18]

Well done for getting out of an abusive relationship but also banishing the toxicity that comes with addiction. That in itself is an incredible feat and to then add 16 years of sobriety? 🤯👏🏼 🙏🏼 You are a warrior and a beautiful example to your child. All the best!

[@rachelcrossen8136]

You did what was best for you and your son. You wouldn’t want him to believe that’s how a man treats his wife.

[@AmyStotts]

@@AnyaB18 thank you so much! He's 21 now and has made the decision to not allow alcohol or drugs into his life. I'm truly blessed with every day of my sobriety and with great "kid".

[@AmyStotts]

@@rachelcrossen8136 that was one of my worst fears, that he would see what his father was like and take that direction. Luckily, it seems to have had the opposite effect, probably because he had my best friend and dad to be good examples of how a man should be.

[@mariamail0303]

Can I ask what your thoughts or did someone else talk to you about what your aunt said to you. I struggle with that notion.

[@mirandaperry4526]

My parents divorced when I was almost 30. It was really hard on me, because I understood what was actually happening. It was hard on my spouse too, because my parents were our stable family unit. I can relate to you guys in that.

[@andreaw.5610]

Y’all are so sweet. I am going back watching old videos after I just watched y’all’s new birth video. You two belong together.❤

[@GingerNinja1]

❗️WE NEED MORE POSITIVE ROLE MODELS LIKE Y'ALL FOR OUR YOUTH!! We truly do. I laughed so hard over the eating & the hair dysfunction in the beginning I actually snorted 🤣 Only Devin can get away with eating on camera. They're authenticity is so genuine. If anyone was ever perfect for one another it's these two. They're definitely in it for the long haul.

[@JaimeSukraw]

Appreciate yall and your vulnerability. It’s encouraging to know my husband and I aren’t alone on this journey! We too are leading a different life and marriage than what we grew up with. Thankful for His grace and mercy through this process!

[@tarrahritchie8578]

I’m so proud of you guys and love hearing your testimony as a couple. As a wife and mother a little further down the road from you guys (born 1983, married 2005), I just want to encourage you guys and cheer you on. I’m praying for the Lord’s protection over your marriage and sweet Ivy. Keep walking in faith and obedience and shining that light brightly for everyone to see. ❤

[@lauraannmusic]

This was so awesome!! My parents got divorced four years ago whenever covid hit and i have been looking and looking for some good Christian videos about divorce from the kids perspective. Y'all are such awesome people. Thank y'all so much!❤

[@christiroberts8817]

Keep your Holy Scriptures close to your heart, sweet Laura Ann. Saw them in your photo and knew you were going to the BEST Source to heal your heart and lead you in the paths of righteousness for life. May God richly bless you!🩷🙏

[@lelanoel3499]

We took our vows very serious 55 years ago when we said I do. And if we can make it anyone can. Life has sure hit us in the head with some hard balls over the years, but if you keep Jesus first in your life he will carry you through the rough times. We had 2 children, 6 grandchildren, and now 3 great grands and two more on the way.

[@emilyklesick]

Following you guys is such a gift. So much of what you shared resonated deeply with me, especially talking about parental divorce and how it’s so much harder as an adult. You shared so much wisdom here and encouraged us all. I love when you sit down and talk like this, so would love to see more! 🤍 Thankful for your love for Christ and spurring us on to the goal of loving Him and serving Him!

[@Spartan-Of-Truth]

I haven’t always been the most polite, but I enjoy y’all’s content and apologize for any unnecessary commentary. Thank you for sharing, I enjoy watching the family!

[@rodneywhitley1499]

It's hard to watch Devin get so emotional 😢 Hunter always have the best face reactions 😄

[@monicavardeman4982]

I respect you guys so much. Your honesty is absolutely powerful. The way you honor all involved in your story by not putting it all out there shows such grace. Our stories sound so similar, even tho I’m a bit older 😌. Praying peace, love, and joy for your family.

[@jennaskingdom8994]

Love how honest you are and how faithful you are. Nodding my head through the whole conversation. Love seeing how God has changed your lives.

[@OtterMylk]

Thank you for being so vulnerable and talking about this kind of stuff. I think it can definitely be helpful to people who are going through similar situations.

[@pamelabell5897]

My Husband And I Believe The Samething When We Said Our Vows , We Have Been Married 24 Year's Today We Are In It For The Long Haul.

[@kristabradleymusic]

Our marriage dynamic is so similar to what you guys shared (your different childhoods/working through things as adults). 19 years married to my best friend. Still healing, still growing. So grateful for Christ who is the unshakable foundation we both stand on. Important stuff - appreciate you sharing! 💕🙏

[@jannafolsom1069]

Y'all are so gosh darned adorable! Thank you for making me smile. 😊

[@daniellecarter628]

I can only imagine how awesome it is for your momma to hear you say she's a prayer warrior. I had so much anger from my childhood. Jesus delivered me and all those anger chains were broken! Praise God! And that feeling of having the Lord in my corner at all times, no matter my shortcomings! Thank you Lord!

[@callmejoeben]

That part about having to love your parents differently and give them grace.. 💯! I’ve been learning that as I’ve grown older. Especially when certain decisions and actions they’ve made caused me trauma and a lot of pain, I try to remember they tried the best they could at that time or maybe they didn’t and they were just at a season in their growth. It’s so nice to hear y’all talk about this. Thank you for sharing ❤

[@Thecordlefamily]

Thanks for watching ❤

[@rachelcrossen8136]

Remember they are human too. Just trying to figure it out the best they know how

[@GetToItAlready]

What a blessing you two are to the KZbin community. Thank you thank you thank you. ❤❤

[@DarleneWhite]

I was always told for better or worse it was you, your spouse and Jesus! Always 3 in your marriage!❤❤

[@KileeBuchanan]

You two and your children are hands down, my absolute FAVORITE FAMILY ON KZbin! ❤❤❤ So inspirational!

[@charliec9209]

How sweet. A promise to eachother and a covenant with God. Thank you for setting an example

[@abbymurphy1556]

Love that you kept Devin getting emotional in this video. It’s hard sometimes to remember that the influencers we see are real people. Seeing you guys get so emotional and talking about your struggles really hit home with me. Love you guys so much ❤️

[@Therealadamsfam]

This is so wholesome! Even made me cry🥹 thank you for having the courage to share!

[@taylorramirez5916]

I love how vulnerable y’all were to record this. Talking about where you come from can be so emotional because that is apart of one’s story! I love y’all and I hope one day I find someone to have such a strong bond with 😊

[@chelsiewilson]

Devin is speaking WISDOM! GOD BLESS YOU BOTH ❤️

[@laurawells1598]

Ok I’m bawling you guys are so sweet!! I just love watching your channel 🥰

[@briegracee]

I rarely comment on videos but I just wanna give yall the biggest compliments and virtual hugs that I can. I'm about to turn 19 and my parents divorced a few years ago after a decade and a half of intense emotional and physical abuse. SOMEHOW, despite that, being a wife and a mother is my greatest dream and you all were really a blessing from Jesus Himself because I look up to the two of you so much. As a couple and followers of Jesus, you guys are so inspiring and a reminder of what marriage SHOULD be. I love you guys so so much and I hope you know how many hurting people are inspired to keep going and keep dreaming because of yall (and Jesus ofc)

[@jessq3565]

Holy cow! Thank you so much for this video! I can relate soo much to you Devin and you talking through your emotions in this video really helped give me some clarity on my own emotions! Thank you so much for always being open about your faith and not being afraid to talk about Jesus!

[@tinaplexico9790]

Amen to that 🙏😊

[@jazminlee8073]

I needed to hear how Devin went through her childhood and healed from it.

[@patriciawatson7241]

Yall are one of my favorite young couples. Bc yall have experienced blended families and divorce, the way you can actually have these conversations about the not so pretty, and choosing to put God first, I see a long, healthy happy home/life/family. Continue to live, laugh and love! ❤

[@madilou257]

I love when y’all get deep !!! Thank you for loving Jesus !! I am excited to be in heaven with y’all 🤗!!

[@melinalicharowicz7332]

I appreciate your honesty and relate to some of Devin's story. Really respect Devin doing the work before marriage to processs a lot of that! Stuff I had/have definitely impacts my marriage and I wish I had dealt with some of it sooner.

[@lenileaver3983]

Hunter, I love when people openly eat and talk on videos. It's like I'm sittin' there with y'all! Love you guys. God Bless y'all. Love y'all so much!

[@jemmamanley8562]

i look up to your guys’ faith and marriage so much. you’re always so transparent and vulnerable and keep it real. y’all are the best.

[@caroline_self]

So thankful that you two are so genuine and share your faith so boldly ❤ praying for God to bless and protect your marriage! With Him all things are possible! 🙌🏻

[@nataleatotten4773]

My parents divorced when I was four and when I got older I always felt like I had to live out of a bag…never put clothes in my dressers… I’m 25 now and it’s still very hard for me to put clothes away in my own house. I also still take a bag with a couple change of clothes everywhere I go, out of habit. Drives my partner crazy 🤦🏻‍♀️😆

[@meganbracy2974]

Omg. You just helped me realize why I HATE putting clothes away 😂 I can wash them, dry them, fold them...and then they sit in a basket. I have always wondered what's wrong with me😂 This is it. Because I always lived out of bag going back and forth

[@purple0774]

Love this! 💕 I’ve always said be kind to people we do not know each other’s life story.Thanks for being so genuine & speaking out loud for the rest of us…. 🥰

[@bioncarippetoe.6333]

LOVE THIS COUPLE! I have to be honest I just started watching you a couple days ago but yet I feel like it’s been a long time. The vibe you 2 share is incredible unlike many couples these days. You would never have to say that you walk with God…. It’s evident in your lives. God will continue to bless you as you use this platform for His glory.

[@lemrahatb]

Ivey is so lucky to have you guys and you guys are so lucky to have one another!!! God bless.

[@carolinasilveria9596]

Thats suchhhh a God moment that her grandmother delivered Hunter. God is so in the details ❤️

[@Fivebirdsnest]

Devin, I am 27 years old. I relate to you so much ❤ My parents also divorced ..when I was 3. I suffered from trust issues, insecurities, and anxiety with relationships and I have the most compassionate and loving husband now who sees me and helps through this. What a blessing these men are to us.. although we may have not have HAD the amazing marriage example through our parents we absolutely can still have healthy and loving marriages and grow old with our spouses. I love both of you. Your personalities and marriage reminds me so much of ours. Only through the blood of Jesus my girl 🫶🏼

[@jadesilano6476]

Thank you so much for opening up with us. Just know as a women hoping to be married one day I really appreciate your insight. ❤ all the best

[@brittney_jeannelson2721]

I sure do love yall. I'm do great full for God's love for you two and your marriage. This is such a great ministry to the world.

[@alicerice8506]

Love is a choice not a feeling. That speaks to me ❤

[@its_me2424]

This is beautiful and stronger to see such a young couple put this on the internet. I would like to share with you both that this is a beautiful video you shared about your love and faith with GOD.

[@Richardsfam]

Thanks for sharing! I know it can be hard to be so publicly vulnerable❤ On a lighter note learning that Hunter played soccer and baseball just made so many things click for me. It makes so much sense😂 (fellow soccer player myself) he has that energy about him + the baseball chain necklace lol

[@PostGirl]

Loved this & related so much.. another thing you learn with age is how many people have a similar story. You’re actually not alone ❤

[@Nellbae]

You both are so wise. Every time I watch , I always get inspired and end with a smile on my face. Love ya'll💛

[@tracker1955]

You have become so wise, yes love is a choice and not just a feeling, and for your entire marriage, you hold onto that choice and be committed to your vows. When you have that commitment it forces you to work together and work things out instead of running away from problems or disagreements. In the end, it makes your bond stronger because your partner knows and trusts that you're not gonna run at the first sign of difficulty. You don't let your eye wonder when someone pays attention to you other than your spouse, as Satan will test your resolve and your commitment to your marriage and place people there to test it. Just hit 47 years with my wife on the 11th of September, she is my one and only and we met when we were both in bible college. Don't disappoint me down the road, stay committed.

[@sarahsullivan9985]

I was 23 when my parents divorced, and it was really strange and stressful, since my parents didn’t have (and still don’t, 7 years later) an amicable split. So I agree that it’s weird when you’re older.

[@AbbyAdams94]

Hunter playing with his hair made my entire day 😂

[@lowerytravels6783]

Just know that there are some people who just are unhappy and pull people down sometimes unintentionally. So don’t worry about them just pray for them. I’m a traveling healthcare worker and my wife workers remote so she travels with me. Wee started our channel and our TikTok to document our adventures and experiences with family and friends back home. But, because of that people think we just have money and have this perfect life but like Hunter said I wish you could see the times that weren’t so great years ago. Everyone had a story that has molded them into who they are now. But, the good thing about this story is that it hasn’t ended yet. So you can make the story what you want! Love watching your shorts, reels! Just started watching the channel. We hope to have the following you guys have. ❤

[@sergiovalenti7255]

Excellent video. It’s amazing how many of us have been through similar experiences. 🙏

[@natalysaenz9687]

It’s the boldness and courage to share your faith for me. All glory to God! Please don’t ever stop because God wants to use you in the lives of people to reach them for him ❤️

[@kaeleenboggs6647]

My mom passed away this last February, i came from a very broken home. Jesus really showed me exactly what Devin just said, we are all God’s children and just trying to figure this all out. I’m now able to look at my mom as a child who just had a broken heart. I wish i could have given her this compassion while she was still here. Thank you for being real and sharing Gods grace for all of us!

[@terrahhall8789]

Thanks for being so honest. I love that your mama’s prayers are the reason you are here today.

[@tonyahughes2217]

I just love y'all. When either of you talk I feel it , not just hear it. Like you are family, other than my sister and brother in Christ. I pray that y'all have a blessed life. ❤❤❤

[@hstiles1952]

So thankful for your testimony of faithfulness to the Lord and each other! My hubby and I are going on nine years! It has definitely not been easy every step, but… JESUS! He is so good and faithful! It’s His love for us and our love for Him that keeps us going! Stay faithful to Him! ❤

[@haleyparkhurst1453]

I just love how pure and genuine y’all are! Christ truly shines through both of you, and through yalls relationship!!! ❤️

[@jennifergonzalez0817]

Seeing how Devin grew up and hearing how she was broken in her past, and seeing how she is now I would’ve never knew that about her. What a strong women you are. Keep that golden retriever energy. We love you Devin. 🤍

[@haileymoss9016]

I can relate to y’all so much me and my fiancé are going through the exact same thing where I grew up in a divorce home and broken with lots of bondage and his parents are getting divorced now that we are adults it’s been so hard for him but he grew up with a praying mama life is just crazy we are trying to still plan our wedding in this season of life but it is very encouraging seeing y’all be so vulnerable I cried the whole time watching this video ❤️

[@lxxredxxl9587]

My parents got divorced when I was 7 and i did the same thing as you Devin! Mon Tues Dad, Wed Thur Mom and then every other weekend!! It was honestly just normal to me, it never bothered me!!

[@BipolaranticMallory]

I love watching y’all videos! The love between the two of you is so great to see! By far my favorite KZbinrs ❤

[@anikrossignol8809]

I felt every emotion and tear Devin ❤️ my dad left when I was 1, and like you, I never knew my parents together. There’s a lot of similarities…thank you for opening up like that. I will listen to your testimony video. God bless you both my brother and sister in Christ ❤️

[@CharlaD-zv7rc]

God bless y'all. Thank you for allowing us ( ME yay❣️) to be a part of y'all's life. Love y'all so much. Much love from Dallas Texas ❤️

[@jbmayretta]

You both went through different ways of childhood but I love how you have known each other since age 13! Jesus put you both on the same track! 😊 Thanks for sharing!

[@alex_danceskpop]

Seeing Devin cry, made me cry. I feel you girl.

[@djk1979]

It doesn't matter what "they" see, only what God sees. You are both refreshing to see on here, and I pray others see what Jesus can do when you let him. ❤ BTW you are as old as I've been married lol....so proud of the wisdom you have now that took me WAY more years to learn!

[@Thecordlefamily]

Hi!! Thank you so much for watching 😊

[@mariyahperson5556]

Loved getting to know you guy on a more deeper level. I also grew up similar to you having 2 days at moms, 2 days at dads, and every other weekend. Also being so young when my parents got divorced and having a lot of older siblings. Thanks for sharing this! ❤

[@haleybarker9747]

Thank you so much for this! My parents are divorced and have been since I was 8. This was a very toxic relationship even today and has caused many road blocks in my life. Thank you for your stories!

[@jaimeharvey3569]

I am so thrilled to hear you freely talk about divorce and marriage! My husband and I are both from divorced families and both dads were changed after fighting in Vietnam. I am so happy to find fellow Christian’s as well. God bless! Devin you are going to laugh but I get told all the time that people love my accent…….. I live in the very southern half of Illinois (we are about half hour from Paducah, KY). I generally hear this from people of my own state…… Chicago and the north. We were a actually asked by a bartender in Joliet what state we were from……Illinois…… the same state as you. Anymore to stop confusion we just say we are from Kentucky. Lmao

[@erinmariem2021]

Advice video! I love hearing you guys apply your faith into feeling responses, too!

[@winonabannon8556]

It is interesting how things change so much. I am in my early 70's, so I can look back at what a difference there is from my childhood to now. We now have so much more access to more advanced education then our parents had. Even child raising is different. I think now parents are exposed to more phycology in how to teach your children, if you choose to look for it. One thing I feel is important is teaching your children respect for themselves as well as respect for others. Also teaching them to never be afraid to come to you with questions and problems. I was always afraid I would be in trouble, even about things that were not my fault. In this crazy world, I think it is very important for parents teach your children about inappropriate touching and what to do when this happens. This is not just a current problem. It has been happening forever. It is now just brought more to our attention.

[@LindaClark-k8k]

You both are great Christian people. And loving I can see that in both of you. What a beautiful family.❤

[@stacyreynolds2955]

Ya'll are so precious to each other. Just beautiful. Can't He do it! ❤️🙏🏻❤️

[@naresh2592]

This is my third comment, your channel is so real and genuine in every way. Why I started watching more of your videos was because it began to influence me proactively. Your honesty really helps me and others I'm sure. Btw, Devin my birthday is a day after yours. Much love to the two of you. God bless. ❤❤.

[@nicolevisser723]

It is so refreshing to hear you give all the credit to our Lord Jesus Christ. We all are nothing without him. God bless you and your family 🙏❤️

[@StephanieMichael-q3d]

You guys are truly phenomenal! Your honesty is refreshing! And I can safely say who cares if your Family has blessed with with anything....my Mom gifted me two homes in her passing. I was blessed and loved and admired my Mom...and I was a Foster child...parents love and give....jealousy is an ugly thing. Let the haters be haters...PS...loooovvee the accents!!

[@halleyevans1980]

I love your channel you guys are so real and so awesome, much love to you!!

[@kfinman]

My parents divorced when I was in my mid 20s. They fought a lot when we were growing up, but it was really strange and hard to work through. I also live across the country from them so I am very much removed from the situation.

[@sdmomxs3]

I absolutely adore you and love that your daughter will see a healthy relationship. I pray for this for my own children.

[@wesleysmith6018]

Amazing testimony, Gods Grace too your family!