The Truth Behind Made In Chelsea with Jamie Laing

Jamie Laing is a British television personality, and entrepreneur. He is perhaps best known for his appearances on the reality TV show "Made in Chelsea". He is also the founder of Candy Kittens and host of several podcasts in the UK.
In todays episode we cover:
- Jamie's Childhood & Boarding School Experiences
- Attachment Styles
- Taboo Around Men's Mental Health
- The Power Of Therapy
- The Reality Behind Made In Chelsea
- How He Manifested His Dream Company
- Why Failure Is Inevitable & so much more!
This episode is very different from the other podcasts that I have recorded but its also one of the most entertaining ones that I've had so I hope you all enjoy it too!
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[@liaconnolly8093]

What a lovely honest down to earth man. Breath of fresh air. He is not what you assume a priveledged person would be like. He gets it! Wish him every success.

[@ShivaniPauPodcast]

Thank you so so much! So glad you enjoyed the episode!

[@tinastock8540]

I remember as a kid telling my mum the teacher picked on me ,OMG she went mad ,up the school the next day dragging the teacher down the corridor to the heads office , my mum always told her 9 kids you can talk to me about anything which we felt comfortable about ,make sure you have that bond with your kids so they can talk to you about anything , by the way I'm 66yrs old now and miss my mum so much ....great podcast

[@JenS-dm8sy]

❤ she will forever be by your side

[@ShivaniPauPodcast]

Thanks so much for watching, sending you so much love

[@naheed03]

Your mama sounded so awesome ❤❤❤❤

[@nathansamuel222]

This is one of the best interviews I've seen with Jamie - congrats!

[@ShivaniPauPodcast]

Aww thank you so so much! 💛

[@katjaxxx7353]

I have de-personalisation always when I am in a depressive episode, it's like you look through glass and can't touch or reach anyone else, as if you are in a different world and you look from the outside into the world, when the stress or depression goes, it just disappears

[@kellylouisebrown4954]

Wow, I love this. I have a Drama and Sociology degree. I have ADHD. My parents divorced when I was 11 and my mum passed when I was 15. I saw Jamie on Made in Chelsea. I didn't know any of this. But I think I saw beyond and he was my favourite. I knew there was more to him.

[@Angustoso]

ive always wanted to learn this side of jamie and him creating his company, great podcast!!

[@ShivaniPauPodcast]

Ah thank you so much

[@chancoxo]

I had a lump in my throat listening to Jamie explain his first night at boarding school. As a mum of 8 year old boys I could not imagine them living away from home 😢

[@GenevieveFaulkner]

This was a great conversation and I’m grateful for the vulnerability you both showed when talking about attachment styles, and everything else! I would love to hear a part two with more of the business journey Jaime has been on. I think what he has achieved is inspirational and I’m grateful for him keeping it real regarding profit in Candy Kittens. The entrepreneur journey isn’t always an easy one and it’s important for people to acknowledge that and not just share the wins or distort things to create an image. So thank you to you both for the great episode 🙏

[@ShivaniPauPodcast]

Thanks so so much for watching!!

[@theweewoman]

Jamie Laing has gone way up in my estimation , hes a very intelligent guy who knows alot about life, I always watched made in Chelsea when he was in it and I always thought he was great but just sailed through life and didnt have much substance, how wrong was I. What a lovely guy

[@mmnn2937]

Jamie is a real one - respect J!

[@pips1zx]

This is seriously the best of Jaime, I feel so related! Omg ❤❤❤thank you 😊

[@punamm571]

Well done Shivani - this was another fantastic episode - good in depth convo

[@ShivaniPauPodcast]

Thank you so much!!!

[@wilM26]

Oh Jamie can I adopt you!!!!! I want to hug you ❤ Absolutely Amazing podcast 💓

[@ShivaniPauPodcast]

Awwww 💛💛💛

[@ThePawsomeRescues]

This was such a great episode. 🤗 We love Jamie. Please, please can we have a Part 2?

[@user-tw7bp3nr4d]

Oh I completely related to everything that was discussed here! Absolutely luv’d this podcast! Thank you! xx

[@lindseygheduzzi6196]

I need a part 2 ASAP

[@bijalvaghela559]

I've followed Jamie for a while and think I learnt most about him in this podcast, well done Shivani. It's a great listen. Can't wait to hear you on his podcast

[@malisaowusu-ansah357]

Amazing, love Jamie ❤ Such great advice

[@LivingDeadGirl770607]

Everything you both said deeply resonated with me. Thank you for sharing this. It is so refreshing to hear two people have a real conversation about life. Thank you 🙏.

[@ShivaniPauPodcast]

So glad you enjoyed it 🙏🏽

[@ashleygallagher5221]

What a beautiful podcast, i loved seeing this side of Jamie. I appreciate both you guys being so honest and vulnerable. Can relate in so many ways. Thank you so much. Hoestley what a poweful podcast, sending love ❤

[@ShivaniPauPodcast]

Thank you so so so much!!!

[@tishgrant]

Thoroughly enjoyed this. Such a pleasure to watch and listen to. Feel really proud of Jamie's growth x

[@ShivaniPauPodcast]

Aw thanks so much for watching 💛

[@user-dm9bb6yq7m]

Brilliant podcast!

[@ShivaniPauPodcast]

Thank you so much !

[@naheed03]

Didn't know much or particularly like jamie if I'm honest. I just assumed he is a rich kid who made it as he was lucky until i saw him on strictly and then listened to his podcast. He is so aware of his privileges and so funny and down to earth. Love him and Sophie and loved this interview ❤ thanks x

[@MandyD445]

Be true to you no matter what, regardless of what people will say/think/opinions. Our job is not to conform but to embody our individuality. Be who you are unapologetically. It will set you free. And then the right people and opportunities will gravitate towards you. Much love and warm wishes. 🥰 🙏 ❤ 🤗 ✌🌟 💎 💞 💫

[@hallieshouse13]

We had friends who went to St.Paul’s in London. They all hated it, they just wanted to be with their Mummy. The youngest one went off at 5 years old and sobbed every other weekend when they left after a visit. My partner went to boarding school and felt abandoned by his Mother. He’d fly with the staff of the airline to Dubai twice a year and would go back to London whilst all his siblings would stay. Half- terms, a friends family would take him home to their farm, not every holiday. He would stay at the school 🥹. I couldn’t send my children away.

[@MG-1907]

Oh my goodness I have only made it 20 min or so through this.. Crying and sick to my stomach. My husband has a similar story. 😢 My kids have always been home with me I can't imagine their foundation coming from others or their security and we'll being in others hands... No way

[@sandytw5229]

Nice job👌

[@Helenkeys927]

Love Jamie such lovely person

[@ShivaniPauPodcast]

he really is!

[@irisdanagher]

Would love to hear your story Shivani.

[@ShivaniPauPodcast]

ive got lots of videos on my channel explaining :)

[@sbiz3881]

Omg I totally relate to the self worth🥺🥺

[@stilettostandards1160]

I was an extra on this show for a couple of episodes, Jamie was absolutely lovely. The whole show was scripted of course and he seemed to take it all very lightly, a really pleasant person to have around on the locations.

[@Rock.Romeo.]

Nice ❤

[@ShivaniPauPodcast]

Glad you liked it!

[@fitfatkittykat1789]

It’s because of the whole sweep it under the carpet side of society with things that society deems too emotional or embarrassing etc. Since me too we have been breaking cycles and doors down to talk more about all of this stuff and exposing it. But unfortunately in our era’s of childhoods being brought up primarily by boomers they had the whole hush it up sweep it up don’t embarrass the family keep it locked down forced on them by their parents. My mum can’t easily give affection because of it, so what’s weird is I have the most cuddly loving partner and I happily give affection to anyone but yet my brother will mirror my mum. I definitely fall into anxious mixed with a little avoidance but my brother and mum are full on avoidant. Love this pod very insightful ❤

[@Threadbow]

Their parents went through a war where secrecy and stoic behaviour due to many loses of life. Most code breakers were sworn to secrecy and all names deleted. The war made them have to hold their emotions. Else you would fall apart. 💣 dropping on their houses towns cities. Body parts miles apart. Trauma they tried not to pass onto their kids. The horror of war they only said "you don't know your born. Subtle

[@user-fm8br2my4n]

Love Jamie

[@theresaguilfoyle5795]

It oi a ribbosh sjoe now. You lot were the best

[@kidscrocs]

Privelege often comes with great confidence..

[@TaraTiaraBell]

I love made In Chelsea, more so now than ever. I watched an episode the other night of everyone in Bali and I went through the comments after and someone said why would anyone want to take advice from old nen that have no place on the show (Ollie and Garth) I was so mad because they are the nicest guys they give great advice and they are younger than me, I felt anger there but it obvs came from a child’s perspective so I had to calm down because that really annoyed me. I absolutely love Ollie and always have. Years ago Jamie was always getting in trouble on the show he was very entertaining but a brat lol

[@yaslynsahota]

Shivani that is terrible. She sounds like Miss Tunchbull. What a horror story 😳 that sounds so traumatic. Crazy what difficulties adults and children encounter. Really enjoyed watching this podcast & to see Jamie in a different light. Bless you both 🙏

[@ShivaniPauPodcast]

Omg I read this first line and thought you meant the podcast was terrible!! 😂😂 I know!! She looked like her too 🤣

[@yaslynsahota]

@@ShivaniPauPodcast lol you joker. That's even more horrendous 😫 p.s your podcast is NOT terrible. It's the polar opposite! The Steven barlett podcast was fantastic. I love so many of your podcasts. I just wish I had more time to watch every single episode

[@gulabdiamonds346]

❤

[@jane2242]

The lump in the throat could be Globus 🙂

[@MarsEchelon27]

He said he’s relaunching private parts!!! OMG i was scared it was gone forever but YAYYYYYYY

[@isaidwhatisaid..]

Oh that's strange Because I know I don't need anyones love but I will accept anyones love If I say I don't care I really don't and I will say it once not continuously I need a therapist to unlock my mind lol Find out why I'm like this

[@sarahradford9822]

School not allowing parental contact is emotional abuse.. I'm appalled by this.

[@chellie7887]

This is sad, he's family seems like they don't really care!

[@Sezables]

So many misconceptions cleared up in one podcast.

[@b.c.besaint7854]

Watched Made in Chelsea and cant see why anyone would date or marry him. My idea of a man is 100 % different .

[@suecoo66]

We don't all like the same men

[@karatekai6384]

I don’t understand, why anyone would marry him,My question is why?

[@sarahradford9822]

How awful he was just left ..aged 8. 😢