THE TRUTH NOBOBY TELLS YOU ABOUT LIVING ALONE

[@stellakiin-kabari475]

Living alone has made me a planner.... I can plan how to spend a certain amount in a week and trust me, except for emergencies, that’s exactly Wah I’ll spend that week. Living alone has made me realize I’m not really a going out person, I love my company so I’d rather stay at home than go for an outing I’m not sure will be fun

[@tobiasmedia6895]

Game on gonna end like that? (Director) Skinny girl in transit too? (Producer) Wow! Worked for a company for almost 7years. Greatness 💙

[@dammyschannel]

Living alone makes you have time to think, analyze and work towards it without distractions from others

[@wandeking5111]

Very true

[@e.m.a.8862]

Living alone has made me see me. I know me more. It’s no more seeing myself through the lens of others but seeing me through my own lens. I know that ok for example neutral colors are best for my nails, I know my character more, learnt how to manage my space without shutting my family out and the list goes on. I never saw me but the people around me. Now I get to acknowledge myself and celebrate my wins no matter how tiny they are!

[@Okonjideby]

I love the inscription on her t-shirt

[@growwithstephanie]

I learnt to talk to myself a lot, since i started living alone

[@komolafeboluwatife9734]

The most scary thing about watching your vlogs is how much we are similar 🥺🥺 Imagine being lonely but you still push people away cos they don’t meet that standard you have set😒

[@nkoyoanwanakak9163]

EXACTLY!!!!!!! Same here with me.... I will be lonely bored at home, but as long as the invitation comes from someone who doesn't meet my standards, it's a NO NO for me ooo.... My close friends, are truly tired of my kind of person but still love me same same, cos i come with a different kinda spice to life....

[@wandeking5111]

💯💯💯

[@oritsegee]

I love living alone, really do. I'm single and will need to learn to adjust to accommodate my man, but living alone is amazing! Positives include the space to become self aware, more confident and prioritising my needs. The only negative is that I can be a bit selfish and impatient when it comes to my space, however the good thing is that I can be intentional about working on that. I have decided that even after marriage I will have occasional (semi annual?) weekend staycations by myself. Hopefully hubby will like that idea 😀 All the best in your future endeavours Abimbola ❤️

[@otofunmi_lola9555]

Living alone is peaceful, makes you live more intentional, creates more self awareness. Good to hear from you after a while ❤️❤️❤️

[@anadelemouafo9708]

Loved loved this video ❤️❤️

[@anuoluwapojojo7306]

Totally loved this💓💓

[@favourmarysamuel5195]

Thanks for the helpful advice

[@mercyjimson3353]

The table and chair is so nice, In fact the new things look so cool

[@musasalamat1394]

I like the fact that you are always so open. You are amazing

[@Mefua]

I love you 😍😍, thanks for saying it rawww

[@DamolaKayode]

You reminded me of Shonda Rhimes when you spoke at some point ❤️✨

[@Temiigold]

Thank you for sharing Bimbs, I love your content.

[@estheromadivi4546]

Thank for sharing Boo! I just learnt to see positivity in every negativity 🤔

[@gbemisolaodedina8067]

Awwwnnn sending you lots of love ❤️

[@opeyemiondemand]

Abimbola left Ndani! That was heavy to hear but I wish you all the best 🤗🤗

[@adedoyinadeyemi5648]

Like my heart skipped for a second😩 but I wish her all the best.

[@spiriterbaptistapanka3084]

😭😭😭😭😭

[@oyindamolaalao]

Living alone is stress less abeg it's one thing m proud about... Left ndani is touching but the fact that it's important to prioritize your mental health means a lot, I really wish I had your courage. I want to leave my job but sis, I still need their money and I am not certain of what the future holds so I just stay with the sad and depressing job and tell my mental health sorry once a while. Now let's address the part of you changing things abeg who do you give the former stuffs? Send it to people like us too I also live alone o(help us with the stuffs u don't want na)

[@elizabethumoh5650]

Thank you for being so open, Abimbola. This video just made sense for where I'm at mentally atm.❤

[@oyed861]

You look amazing as always. All the best in your new pursuits😘

[@tutsypie]

Very Apt on one's wellness!!! We need to learn to prioritize what make us happy and keeps one going!!! Mental state is key!!!

[@moyoofulue776]

I could totally relate to this video and I'm super excited for the next chapter in your life cos with God you going to smash it. Love you mama.

[@vivian_eni]

the title got me hooked 100%% i was thinking about the same recently but wasnt sure if i wanted to talk about it on my channel. Thank you Bimbo'

[@udemeasian]

I recently started living alone too and I’ve been documenting my journey. I can relate to everything you mentioned❤️❤️❤️

[@ngozio.9347]

Especially with this pandemic (or pounded yam like I say) I wondered how it would be living alone. I’m glad you’ve found positive ways to enjoy your own presence during this time and that you’re doing great! Looking forward to another room on CH ✨

[@gloriaokoh8209]

I can so relate to Abimbola Craig almost all the time🤦. She's definitely my senior or (mentor) as she's obviously way ahead of me but really it's so weird. I never pray to be like anybody but I definitely have a lot to learn from her. I so understand what you mean by "your person" "loving family more now" "loneliness" "knowing yourself more" "taking yourself out" "getting too set in your ways" I'm scared watching these videos. I really pray my life gets more structure and I'm willing to work towards that. I know I need to meet amazing new ppl tho. And I would love some community. But I guess I'm still very much in the Workin on myself first stage. Pheww I've talked too much. Btw I love you very much Abimbola Craig. Hah I'm scared of listening. Giving yourself away and then learning from experience. Recently l learnt to prioritize my wellness. I recently lost most of my friends because I felt I was giving too much and not letting myself be happy. And you know what you say about being a hard guy or being to comfortable to let someone in. My friends always say "Girl I wonder the kind of man you'll end up with" "oh I can't wait to see who you'll end up with" and all of that makes me feel very uncomfortable. I kinda feel like you are alrdy in the future so just tell me how to get past this phase I'm tired. I'm also learning to reach out to my annoying friends sometimes (I don't think it's of much help tho). Infact maybe what I need to be ur twin is having being truly discipline in my decisions and probably getting myself into something I'm into. Nice video Ms Craig I loved it. 🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦

[@meenahwurldz]

It's the new energy for me 🥰🥰🥰

[@bakaredamilola6198]

I love how sincere and vulnerable you're in your vlogs. I wish you the best in your career, moving forward

[@goldawince779]

I love you!!btw you're looking amazing

[@amakaossai5410]

Thanks for sharing dear, i wish all the best in whatever you're looking to do now.

[@adeolaadelusi5919]

Nice work

[@faithaffi9212]

Thank you so much for sharing ma... just made me feel better and replan my life🥰

[@jumokesalami2673]

God bless you so much for this especially talking about wellness it’s so important we make ourselves happy

[@ogujecinta5985]

Thanks for sharing, I love you

[@misst4346]

Living alone is absolutely amazing, expensive but amazing and I’ll take the expense and peace of mind it comes with, I love that I can cook dance sing and do absolutely everything naked 😂. I like my things arranged a certain way so I love that I’m alone and be sure to meet something exactly the way I left it. Just amazed how much I’ve been able to work on my self and I am extremely happy, I even started working out!! .I want a man though, an awesome one , someone to spoil with all these plenty love in my heart and so much more!🙏🏼

[@Temiigold]

Thank you for this, I plan to stay alone sometimes I ask myself how I'm going to live financially. But then all I think about the most is my growth. I appreciate you for this

[@HeartDiary]

Your reply is one of the best

[@misst4346]

@@HeartDiary thank you ☺️

[@Neme98]

Gosh babe u are me and I am u😂🥰❤️

[@ihama99]

If you intend on getting married. Dont get used to it cause once you move with your husband it will be a hard very hard adjustment

[@ijeomaosuiwuachatwithoma7402]

I love you and your channel. You motivate a lot of people like me thanks and God bless you

[@emmanuelaagbikimi9300]

Loving alone is the best thing that has ever happened to me

[@celestetankou5700]

For me I enjoy leaving by myself I think mostly because I’m an introvert and never really do feel lonely...I guess no more sgit then wish you the best on whatever’s next

[@saranghae2808]

Thanks for this video, it was so relatable!

[@saranghae2808]

I came back in March 2023 to watch this video again. It's that good. Thanks Bimbo and hope you have a pleasant day! 🌻❤️✨

[@chidimmaokpara211]

Love,love you abimbola just do you always it brings more happiness

[@wholesalesschoolbooksanded9328]

You look so happy🌹

[@tutsypie]

😳😳😳leaving Ndani!! Wow!! Grace to do greater exploits in your new journey/ phase!! I neva lived alone till i got married strange! Bt it made me independent,yes lonely bt i had all d space to myself till i had my son..

[@anniegabby6117]

Happy weekend Ma'am Bimbo. Always looking gorgeous.

[@charisse.c]

I am happy that you have used this time to come into your own. Good luck on your journey to peace and contentedness. I've lived alone for many years. It can be expensive as other commenters have mentioned, but I like to be one with my thoughts, have quiet time to reflect, listen to my own music and have an overall peaceful atmosphere. It has its benefits.

[@TheChibuogwu]

I can relate with all you said. Living alone has helped me connect and build friendships with more people online that I may or may never even get to see. Lol. Living alone has helped me be more aware of myself and about that loneliness part, I know and can tell exactly when and why I feel a certain type of way. I've been more in touch with myself since living alone and that's great. Productivity while living alone is topnotch. It can be hard to mingle and reach out and be vulnerable because living alone gives this 'I got this and I can fix it' mindset. I barely reach out to people for support because I feel they also have their own issues and wouldn't want to add to it. You know what, I should just make that call now. There's someone who's been on my mind lately. I absolutely enjoyed this video.

[@Funmi_Richards]

You've left Ndani, whoa. We are going to miss you but I wish you the best in whatever you've decided to do next. Love & light

[@allthingshala9935]

At point did she say that please?

[@Funmi_Richards]

@@allthingshala9935 the few minutes

[@Mira_Moves]

E shock me too

[@Funmi_Richards]

@@Mira_Moves goan listen to the video again na

[@Mira_Moves]

@@Funmi_Richards I did na! That's why I choke. Assin what will we now be watching on Ndani? Game on just finished season 1 with Bimbo as the director

[@deeron1554]

I love living alone it is absolutely amazing. I'm enjoying it even more working from home. We are on our 3rd lockdown, and I'm in no rush for it to end! It's given me a better perspective on life, agree with having a support network. I have always liked my own company (used like been on my own even though I had 3 sisters) so when I started living alone I embraced it so welI! And well done moving on with your career the unknown can be scary but exciting at the same time - my personal experience leaving a job! There's no point staying on just for the sake of it, enjoy and embrace the season you are. Life is an adventure.

[@Mystyjoy]

I can relate on the loneliness aspect since I live alone... I tend to read, watch comedy on KZbin, Netflix and travel a lot...

[@doraannan9976]

Great pointers. I think we mostly downplay our mental health issues, because we weren't brought up to really care about it. Thank you very much for sharing once again and I am going to try and ask for help when I need it even though it feels a bit uncomfortable. Thanks Beembola, 🤗🤗😘

[@VanAddae]

Bimboooooo.....my lil sis in my head. Such a great video, even us married people you have to be ok being alone and doing things by yourself sometimes. Great tips you shared. I so feel you on the giving. Just this morning I remembered someone I had always given to and not one time did she do anything. I was able to finally say in the past year or 2 to say no. Its draining!!And you left Ndani? That's the shocker BUT it's a shame cos you'll be missed. Such a great asset you were to them and I know they wont realise it till now that you're gone. Been offline too long but wishing you all the best in the next chapter. You'll do so great!!!😘😘😘

[@OmaNdamati]

Love love you💛

[@tolu_tosyn6835]

This really hit home. 2020 was hard core and some "selfish" decisions needed to be made. Personally I went off most social media platforms because they became "too noisy". Keep winning!!

[@joybhadmus139]

I thought it was just me who leaves social media because it's too noisy and can be soo overwhelmingly😂

[@Wani___]

I always learn from you. I love you Bimbo😩❤️❤️

[@LumataVen]

My youtube big sis. I admire your self-confidence, honesty. You seem to be stuck up but I love your soft core. BTW u are glowing on this video dayummm

[@hillaryawosanya978]

The picture quality of this video😍😍

[@bisabibat216]

Thanks for sharing this ma'am

[@GORASPACE]

I can't wait to start living on my own, even though I know my parents will have a problem with it, at this point I don't care.

[@majidaabah3050]

Bimbo so in all I want to tell you you're a brilliant woman ❤

[@bintueditn9208]

I feel you..I dont talk about my problems with anyone ..I just live through it and hope things get better..since I live alone .the loneliness crawls in once in a while and I just call a friend to keep me sane

[@Yewi_M]

I relate to this video 101%. Thank you for sharing and being so transparent. You seem very happy and at peace which is so heartwarming and very good for the soul! Meanwhile shout out to friends like Keji who not only listen, but also offer to come through with the kizz, even though we don’t want it from them LOL. Cheers to you Abimbola, more love and light ❤️

[@anajadorcas5113]

We want a house tour!!❤❤

[@ayindeabimbola692]

Wow. This is great. I can relate...like...namesake, are you my twin? Living alone gives peace, you have your time planned out, your money, time, I can sing, dance in the shower, cook whatever, eat whatever, no one poking hand in my eye and space, no bad views or derogatory remarks. I have to leave alone again before tying the knot abeg. The experience is awesome... But then it can get boring sometimes, and when you are slacking, there'll be no one to talk sense into your head except you.

[@wearenotsharon]

Wow. I totally relate where you said you’re not a sharer & how you’re unable to be vulnerable even with close friends. I also believe that the only person who would really really get me would be my significant other.

[@jumokeokunlola]

This video explains it all!! Living alone is a different experience entirely and I love that you are able to express it all. I have experience part of this living alone life. I started living alone two months ago and working from home😵 so, I can relate with some of the instances you shared. Glad you are enjoying life as it comes😍 Staying alone is quite amazing, you have all your space to yourself😊😃

[@FavouredDaily]

Wow Working from home? Please, permit me to ask What do you do? I want to start working from home too

[@adebanjoifeoluwa8037]

I really enjoyed this video, you really made an impact at ndani TV, spoiling yourself is very good I've had to learn that lately, enjoying my own company.I wish you success in all your future endeavors.

[@adedoyinadeyemi5648]

Yeah I always hear you talk on TCH on clubhouse

[@safiyaabubakarno7927]

Wish you higher in what you choose Abimbola no more you on Ndani show I like your hair

[@tomiibukun]

Bimboooo.... beauty and brains.

[@chiomareginald_]

Leaving Ndani 😳😳😳 Wow, may God be your strength really

[@Missmatter14]

You've left Ndani? Wow. I wish you the best in your new and next endeavour.

[@fatimalawal2315]

I wish you well in your next steps, it is well.

[@rebeccanaa-narkieofori1588]

Wow.. she's left Ndani Who will direct season 2 of Game on

[@ogunwuyiabisola]

Right now, I am at the point where I need to get my own space again ….. I feel like I can't take deep breaths anymore, but I have been looking around and it is damn expensive. It is a complicated mess but I know getting my own place will give me the peace that I need.

[@udemeasian]

Yes the bills are crazy but peace of mind is ❤️ If you can afford to share with a friend, separate rooms then go for it

[@ngozio.9347]

Also Anime has really added to my experience when others aren’t in the house. I’ve always loved it but I’ve really been enjoying this winter 2021 season. I’ve also gotten deeper into the Bible; bought some books like Michelle Obama’s book, Ruth Bater Ginsburg’s book, “The Toni Morrison Book Club”; and I want to get back into Audible and podcasts.

[@jenniferoriaku1569]

The Youversion app helps alot

[@ngozio.9347]

@@jenniferoriaku1569 it does!

[@hopeonome448]

Thanks for sharing Abimbola, I just kept smiling watching this video cos it felt I'm the one sharing....... There is a part I have in mind you didn't add though..... Living alone can restrict you from wearing some particular clothes sometimes simply cos there is no one to help with the zipper behid😂😂😂😂😂😂. Chai!!!! We'll miss your face on Ndani though, but I'm sure greater paths lies ahead. Wishing you the very best out there....

[@chiomareginald_]

I really really like you It’s how much I can relate to you

[@MetrogypsieS]

Hey boo.. long long time

[@uduakotu]

Men I feel this video and I thought I was the only one who felt this way o.. but the friendship part is one side I don't know how to handle.. Please how can I make new friends 😭 living alone I realized I don't really have new friend's..

[@fisayoolupitan2345]

Online😃From Instagram/Twitter/Any other social media platform

[@iaiyanyo9942]

Very interesting video I loved everything about it. I am also very happy for you now that u have realised that you should always be top of your own on your priority list...

[@imoleayosarah9586]

Hy Bimbo it's my first time ever commenting on a KZbin video...I just wanted to tell u I love you and I admire your courage, you are the real MVP... I would also love to be part of your team, so whatever you want to do after this, you already have a volunteer hoping to work for and with you. 😘

[@HeartDiary]

Same here dear, she's amazing

[@HeartDiary]

There are lots of things I would love to do but the fact that I am staying with a full house is a whole lot of limitation. I have always and still nursed the feeling of living alone because that's how I like to be even though my family members won't buy the idea and of course I am still nursing the courage to tell them one day. Maybe that's the day they will finally chase me out of the house lolzzzz. Being a youtuber and staying with a house full is sought of stressful for someone like me, whenever I want to film or talk about something I have to battle the noise from the background in the house and the filming space, its just not easy, coupled with the fact that I like having my space, but who dash me.

[@TheMotivationSquad12]

Leaving alone is comfortable ohooo

[@udemeasian]

Word, I love it

[@thelayosobo]

Omoh, leaving Ndani? 2:01 ... I wish you all the best Mama

[@2010MsGail]

Yes, these are the trials/ benefits of living alone. I like you have problems being vulnerable with people but I am with God. Thank God for my friends who reaches out each day via social media just to say hi and that helps.

[@rubybello3465]

So you didn't bring back SGIT 7 and you've left ndani.. oh our hope is dashed.. Chai! Wish you in all your endeavors

[@JuliaIitula]

I can't wait to leave alone,be fully independent...just need to figure out how to tell my parents when the time comes

[@Geebee07]

Me too

[@udemeasian]

You will love it, but be prepared for the endlessss bills😂

[@christianairoha2455]

How can you leave Ndani when we have not finished watching SGIT.....? 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭...... Oh myyy Bimbo 🙆🙆🙆🙆🙆.......... Will miss u on that platform. I practically fell in love with Ndani and her programs courtesy of u. Will keep following u back to back though. I love your guts esp. when it comes to being dearing and exploring new frontiers whether or not u are certain of what the future holds. I wish you all the best dear.

[@HeartDiary]

Bimbo I would love to work with you cause you're really amazing.

[@vivian_eni]

oh nooo, you left Ndani???? well done but ill miss your shows

[@Tracytheace288]

Thanks for sharing these. I've admired you since sgit. I wish you all the best in this new phase. Cheers to more growth 🥂 I just subscribed 🧡

[@onomenomodiaogbe9198]

Rude shock mehn..didn't see you leaving NDANI anytime soon. But greater heights!😘

[@beatriceboamah1640]

🙌🙌🙌

[@annee4103]

Eh God! see beauty 😍 She sang the peperempe song today!💃 I got to know Ndani through you anyway I wish you all the best in whatever you set out to do. Anywhere you go sha we de follow 😄

[@atinukeakomolafe2660]

I am always ashamed to ask for help. Right now I need the all help in the whole world but the Ekiti pride in me will not allow me to beg. God please help me.

[@mercyjimson3353]

Awwwn,so I wouldn't be seeing your name on Ndani shows any more. 😑😑😑 Grace for greater exploits o

[@titilayobankoletheglobalma489]

Brains, Beauty, and booty.. That’s real creative. Let’s get you on your way to your next venture.

[@kemioseni]

Eft Ndani 😳🥺

[@opeoluwaolowe2764]

💜💜💜💜