The war between Grace and guilt...Grace Wins everytime

There is a war between grace and guilt. They are fighting for a secret space but I am living proof Grace Wins everytime.
Would I ever stop the cutting myself ?
Would I ever stop having suicidal thoughts?
Would I ever stop pretending to be a nice person? For some reason everyone some how thought I was a good person but I alone knew who I was.
Would I ever stop seeking attention?
Would I ever stop throwing up?
Would I be free from.......
I had heard that God loves me unconditionally, that His Grace covers all and Will also empower me in everything for me to have freedom. Could this be real? I even read it in the bible and I believed the Bible.
But I needed to really know personally.
I am a Christian, I am saved, I was persuing a personal relationship with Jesus but i seemed to carry more guilt than I was willing to admit.
But i am living proof that Grace Wins everytime.
What have you promised yourself not to do again? What have you said to,never again but you find yourself doing it?
Is it drugs, sex, masturbation, drinking, lying, self harm, smoking, fighting, stealing.....
Have you even tried getting an accountability partner but it's not working?
Have you tried to even get involved in church activities or any religious activities but it's still not working?....
Grace Wins everytime.
Don't give up!
Jesus always comes through. Hang in there. Keep on keeping on
I am God's beloved.
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God is Real, He gets involved in Real life and we can ALL personally know Him.