The way you slowly Torture the

[@elsacarrapichano3507]

The lesson a narcissist brings to your life is to love yourself and live your purpose, without them 😊

[@merryj9934]

Very true

[@kerstitekko2257]

Yes, thank you. It is true. 🙂

[@mybestlifefortherestofmyli7137]

And that your peace cannot be replaced.

[@layzone2468]

I can’t believe they’re other people out here who has experience the same madness that I’m going through. I thought I was the only one. It’s insane

[@napendabelle9girl]

Leave girl!

[@lyndiamims898]

Please pray consistently for healing afterwards... AMEN

[@whynotbegreatjones1305]

I didn't know i was dealing with one until now. 😳

[@dimpleb2891]

I have a child with one. Perfect text book. Utube my saviour.

[@portiajackson1778]

You are NOT alone and your not the only one. Stay strong!!!

[@starr6850]

the best revenge of all is to take good care of yourself

[@lacrossslounge5403]

🤗 #yup

[@blessedchildofgod9112]

I said the same thing they hate to see you taking care yourself !!

[@katrinahill6741]

Yes your right there is no revenge for a narc . unless you leave and even leaving they don’t care .. it’s only the future that they learn and by that time you forgot they existed because of the pain you realise what you deserve and what you don’t xxx

[@katrinahill6741]

I want to know how they sleep knowing the damage they caused like literally no care unless you leave xxx

[@christychristy8712]

😂🤣😂😁 🎯

[@savannahnalls2099]

During the final conversation I had with my ex narc he told me I was more likely to be found dead, naked, and raped on the side of the road than to be a successful attorney. Several months later I moved to the beach in North Carolina, something I told him I wanted to do for years, with my boyfriend, graduated in the top of my class at university, and accepted a job in the legal department of a fortune 500 company.

[@wilfridjoseph6172]

Wow girl u damn win

[@madelenealvarez]

Congrats! I’m sure he’s kicking himself in the butt right now.

[@victorelliott5066]

@@madelenealvarez Thank you...

[@patriciamay2690]

I'm happy for you.

[@portiajackson1778]

Savannah you better show him. Congratulations 🎊🎉🎈 It’s totally unbelievable and sad to run into these types of people. Again I salute you for keep going.

[@dhilljack1]

Somewhere I read: SILENCE is the best response to a fool. It’s true😳😂

[@mobutter2879]

❤️

[@danyelleterry2138]

Yes,absolutely true!!! I had to learn that the hard way. It's easier now.

[@user-dj8dx7ro1r]

Leave

[@LawnBunny777]

@@danyelleterry2138 Same here. I responded to an email after he ghosted me for 3 weeks and he used it for an opportunity to further hurt and humiliate me. I never should have replied. He's blocked now but it pisses me off he got one final source of supply as I responded in anger and they love that.

[@lorrainemcdonald7982]

@@LawnBunny777 That's OK! But now you know better, get to freeing yourself.. that was your last mistake! 🙏🏾🧡

[@williambr88]

The best revenge is loving yourself. Then you will look back and wonder why you were ever dealing with such a low life. All the narcissist does is run games, but the only person they are playing is themselves.

[@5Luckyducky]

Amen

[@jessicahernandez2408]

Well said 😘

[@lushhaus7839]

Well said

[@heartmendoza3361]

thank you i really needed to hear this😔

[@aprildanielle2693]

True!

[@whynotbegreatjones1305]

The worst thing is that "you knew" but chose not to believe what you were seeing with your own eyes. #NarcFree ✊🏽

[@KC-ns9do]

Cognitive dissonance!

[@LettyABC]

💯

[@neicypickens3264]

Yep

[@AJay-bh4ib]

I would love to join your tribe.

[@AJay-bh4ib]

I’m so glad I found you. You are awesome and in your face to the point. I love the raw realness of your delivery. Thank you for that.

[@scottcaldwell9082]

My best advice is "Love yourself" and respond to the narcissist with "Silence". This will make your life sooooooooo much better

[@portiajackson1778]

Thank you

[@SDVaughn100]

Walking away from that Narcissist was the best thing I've ever done!!! I am now married to the man of my dreams.

[@harpalkaur2168]

@ Shanethia how long did it take you to heal?

[@alle126]

Good for you. There's hope for me then

[@SDVaughn100]

It took me about 2 years to heal. But because I had previously been in a relationship with a Narcissist, I began to see things quicker and clearer than I could before. It's weird, but I actually grew and healed while I was still in that relationship, so when the discard happened, God opened the door for me to meet my now husband. While in that relationship, I discovered who I was, what I was willing to tolerate and what I actually wanted in a spouse. I also learned to trust my intuition. So it worked for my good.

[@harpalkaur2168]

@@SDVaughn100 thank you for telling me. Stay happy x

[@SDVaughn100]

@@harpalkaur2168 You're welcome and thank you

[@pooh4025]

My absence is enough torture 🤗

[@queenaquarian8810]

Facts❤

[@amandamcdonald4815]

😁 it'll get better

[@anitadaniels5786]

@Kila bath & body....Say It again!!! Yesssss!

[@sr0716]

Lol well said

[@tiasara9643]

Wouldn’t you pay to watch though?

[@immaculatedocnato2054]

Life with a narcissist is extremely fruitless. Nothing prospers, too much toxicity, when you get out of that crap, you glow differently.

[@wandahwhetstone5720]

Yessssss

[@1010QUEEN7]

Yes yes and yes

[@EButta71]

Yes...the men make great boyfriends but terrible husbands. Nothing fruitful is right.

[@reneeboehm558]

@@EButta71 not even great boyfriends eww

[@djwkdkckkdcndkskksks7691]

Yah . Kick that narcissist out

[@gigijones1630]

You’re not lying, I lost weight reversed my pre diabetic diagnosis, controlled my pressure and started looking younger everyday. He looks like he’s 60 now and still in his late 40’s. Drug addicted and a complete alcoholic with too many spiritual demons from sexual confusion. You have been and continue to be a staple in my healing process. Thank you so much!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@Glitter504]

My ex too ! I have a sr corporate job always and my own house etc I only travel business / first class too I dumped his ass 😂

[@palomahair8616]

Is like my ex to late 40s looking old as hell and me i m late 30s looking like late 20s sense he left me i also loss a lot of weight looking more beautiful and working on to get all my things and life together

[@judithfloyd6693]

​@@Glitter504Beautiful!!!

[@Mcbeetles95]

Sounds like a narc I just dropped!😢

[@Queeneve78]

🙏🏿❤️

[@iammotley9212]

No revenge for me, just keep it moving and give them zero attention.

[@Thefinesttech]

I know that’s right

[@babyboytheeyeballa5344]

That’s it that’s all

[@nancybreaux9684]

Agreed.

[@tymyialove4113]

That's the revenge

[@celestelambert4831]

Did a 16 mile bicycle ride and pushed all the way thru. I’m loving myself for it. Love on yourself and don’t let no one disrespect you again.

[@cookiesandpie4837]

Good for you!

[@MrSamadolfo]

🙂 yup me too, i bicycle the chicago lakefront to reduce the anxiety of the discard, i spend the whole day out there, total roundtrip from home comes out to 54 miles

[@macdicaprio3094]

Proud of you ! Proud of us empaths!

[@MrSamadolfo]

@@macdicaprio3094 😍👍 yay!

[@ginagage3010]

🔥 MOTIVATION WAY TO GO

[@gladiatorninja1222]

How to get revenge on the narcissists? #1 Kick them off the curb. #2 Live your best life. #3 Remain on a strict and permanent NO CONTACT.

[@adetutuolaogun51]

Yes narcissists always think that success is all about money

[@pamelamarie6086]

He messed with the wrong empath, God thrusted me into super nova and I crushed that demon spirit in him, and got my life, peace, and joy back, God is faithful!

[@MZHARDBODYENT]

Big facts

[@pamelamarie6086]

@@everythingkaye what?

[@blessedam1210]

Amen

[@louiseboyd8896]

Same......

[@pazyamor1313]

@@pamelamarie6086 they are saying God will do it!! Take care of us and everything we're going through 🌅😊

[@Charoletta77]

God has never left me, and he hasn't forgotten me and with God I will make it 🙏🏼🙇🏽‍♂️

[@kendraphic87]

Amen 🙏🏿

[@1010QUEEN7]

Yes and amen

[@claudiaAnsu]

Yes indeed, with God all things are possible 🙏🏽

[@audreyconway7846]

If god put you through it he will most certainly pull you through it ♥️

[@rileysmiley9585]

He knows our name!🕊️

[@Oceanpurples]

This is my billion time walking away. Please pray for me. I am so stressed out.

[@braylonalexander762]

🤦🏽‍♂️ same

[@AjaAPryor]

@happyhappyjoyful make him or you leave...be happy in real life❤️

[@oniquekabright7492]

May God renew your mind, and give you the strength to see yourself, so that you would know your own worth. In Jesus name I pray Amen !!!!!!

[@flawlessbeautifulme]

It takes time, we have a way of being hopeful but they won't change.

[@tanham007]

Me too. Praying for us.

[@westindiesgalfruits2335]

The best revenge is to live your very best life🤷🏽‍♀️♥️..

[@Queeneve78]

I understand that assignment 😁

[@ericaclemons9077]

He went to jail in 2019 for beating up new supply Lost his job lost apartment every thing. Karma

[@vaeyaxzaveriastarnovae3744]

Wow

[@pastorgloriahawkins2488]

I didn't want Revenge. I wanted to be LOVED! I gave all of me but Received nothing but Financial, Mental and Emotional Abuse. I will be writing a book about it soon.

[@Sunshinestarryrose]

Love yourself first. You only end up with narcs when you don’t love yourself.

[@leanbikini_fitness]

Yes I had exactly the same experience 😢

[@elstevens8179]

@@pastorgloriahawkins2488 DiD you ever write ur BooK?....I would love to read it if U did😔....I live alone now, itZ just Me n my lil one. It's almost 3 yrZ but he'll come around to say he wants to take her to the park or something. He knows how MUCH she adores him N being that she's slightly autistic I feel he's taking advantage of this. PLZ hit me uP if ur BooK is available. Thank You n Good Blessings to you🌺

[@baniboo7]

My neck hurts from nodding

[@Dreambutterfly8831]

Mine too 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@SheLovessPink]

Best comment ever! 😂

[@antwionbrown5222]

Lol

[@ritanorfleet2458]

Totally!!! I declare I couldn't have expressed my feelings better...u did it for me...thanks, much 💘!!!

[@momfromnj911]

🤣🤣🤣🤣👍

[@Roberta_7777]

One of a narcissists biggest fear is rejection.

[@LeeW7233]

ALL I want to do is heal.🙌🏽🙏🏽

[@jonasnordh88]

You will!

[@gisellzozaya203]

& you will ❤️

[@LeeW7233]

@@gisellzozaya203 Thanks.

[@LeeW7233]

@Rose Jenny Thanks

[@LeeW7233]

@@jonasnordh88 Thanks

[@WillMartelinspire]

"The Best Revenge Is MASSIVE success!" -Frank Sinatra

[@louiseboyd8896]

And I'm on my way.......

[@mcjproduction]

Do you think that’s true, especially with a narc? You think your success kills the narc?

[@zalairfrancois9916]

Best revenge is no contact and let karma catch up with that a$$. Cause when Jehovah God chastise you.. Wow! I know about that all to well.

[@lovelypeaches4133]

Exactly right...My Ex Narc lost everything😂🤣😭Im watching now🚫No Contact-#WeWin

[@FireEmpress]

Guaranteed 💯.

[@idoyes1400]

Jehovah scourged me first to finish my training!! Next my narc!!! Whew i cant wait!!!

[@lacrossslounge5403]

333

[@kaylam8707]

Same lol. Facts. And amen!

[@starrsmythe8828]

I was just discarded 3 weeks ago! It was stone cold. He looked so evil when he dropped me after living in my home for 2 years. I'm in a lot of pain, however I'm already feeling like myself again. I am feeling more joy and wellbeing then I have felt in a while. I am pretty sure he had completely drained me. Therapy and these videos are helping me level up. I'm about about to shine so bright! There is a reason my name is Starr!!!

[@mami-e2q]

Yes, light and love to you!We will shine brighter and better!Elevate and let them see our soul glow !Love and peace!

[@Queeneve78]

How is your healing journey my friend?

[@SONAAwareness]

You torture them by applying the word of God into your life. Keep god first. Stay NO contact. He lost interest when I kept praying and reading the Bible. He left me alone. He suffers because he can’t torture me & fulfill his sick, sadistic desires.

[@carlaazuakolam1401]

He is torturing someone else as we speak. They never change.

[@macdicaprio3094]

Proud of you ! Proud of us empaths! WE MADE IT YALL ! LETS BREATHE & do gods work now .. ITS OUR TIME

[@pomyoung7328]

My narcissist husband tries to use the Bible as a way to try to control and manipulate me

[@indiahindiah7295]

Jehovah God 🙏 is the most high who can mock 😮

[@65022785]

Wow, I started bible study a year ago, I was on and off with my study, these past 4 months, I've been really consistent with my relationship with god, I have changed a lot, nd he noticed nd he blame it all on the bible!!I suffer a lot, I have learned alot, nd taking my life back!!

[@noelmorin8250]

Love yourself, learn from this,,let go and move on, don’t hold hate in your heart , work on yourself and be happy 😃

[@somethingdifferent6193]

That's so true. You have to face your enemy not run or avoid them or you will always be sour. Talk to them defeat their games look them in the eyes. Just as David did.

[@valerieriggins3184]

NO...U Don't have To Kiss Up To Them... Including Family. I Admit Sometimes It SOME... Days, Months Even YEARS To BREAK The Pattern of Accepting Rotten Behavior! Cause Let Be REAL A REAL NARC! DON'T Change .... PERIOD. The LESSON Is For U 😁 To Evolve And RESPECT Yourself.

[@nancylasavath5992]

Noel Morin, I’m totally agree with you, and I’m doing just that. Move on and get our life back 💪🙏👏👍😊

[@noelmorin8250]

Nancy Lasavath awesome 👏

[@deltaradiance9034]

Drink water, eat healthy, get enough rest and exercise.

[@IAmDasani]

"get yourself to a higher elevation, one that they cannot purchase their way to" !!!

[@BB-te7gn]

Say that again and again and again!!!

[@brendarewan7441]

“Let them see you glow in front of the world.” Golden!!!

[@2legit2Kwit]

Go to the throne. Seek the love, healing and relationship with our Lord and savior. Renew your relationship with the most high! That is the way. You won’t accept torment anymore.

[@RosasResources]

Amen

[@CindyBurmese]

Thanks, mark.

[@pazyamor1313]

Amen 🌅

[@marryjane1684]

This was the ONLY way

[@bonitasmith6064]

You are so correct. God is our refuge and strength. The narcissist will never prosper and see the face of Jesus in heaven.

[@smkscreen10]

Just 5 months after breaking up with the narc I'm slowly returning to normal my appearance has improved my wardrobe has improved my Bank account is growing I bought a new car 2020 bad ass ride I'm back in the gym back in the game and now the ( I miss you so much ) calls and texts start, word on the street is that her new supply wife has filed for divorce and she makes the money and now the narc wants me back BTCH please ! I'M A WINNER !

[@faithlives5643]

The narc is a professional game player. The narc will cry and plead as soon as they see you're coming back to your senses. If you falter, you will be used and overweight and not normal. They play with lives like they're 16 years old and waste your life if you let them.

[@tahiramatthews2163]

@smkscreen10 Good for You God Is Good We Are WINNERS!

[@zilcompton6171]

Keep doing you it's time for you .

[@smkscreen10]

Offered me a day of sex locked up in a hotel etc etc but as bad as I wanted to hit it I went the other way I didn't want her saliva on me and she didn't deserve to touch me or my ride I've lost over 11,000 in personal belongings that mysteriously disappeared from my storage that she just happened to be the last person there police report has been filed just a matter of time before the truth comes to the surface.

[@glory9585]

Good for you brother !!!!!!💯🌻

[@michellepetersen1354]

The best revenge is living a happy life ❣️

[@longislandny696]

The best revenge against the narcissist is to #1 LOVE YOURSELF #2 slam the door in the narcissist face and NEVER look back.

[@psyniinstitute327]

The closer you get to your dreams, the farther you get from the narcissist.

[@PHENOMENALMAMI]

Yes...Do the THING that the narc Can Never Do... KEEP YOUR WORD! Dont backslide...Be Done! Be Free!

[@n4gg.593]

Yes 🍯 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 keep your word!

[@megs9185]

I love this!! Yes!!

[@PHENOMENALMAMI]

@@megs9185 LOVE LOVE LOVE SWEET SOUL ❤❤❤ YOU ARE APPRECIATED

[@kimbamw6713]

Yes so true! I obtained 2 education opportunities in my field in 2 years. For graduation I brought my sons to Chi-Town to enjoy fun and we made memories without him! Yes keep on moving, working on yourself!

[@PHENOMENALMAMI]

@@kimbamw6713 💪💪💪💪💪

[@liv_my_life6947]

Don't get me wrong, I have walked away...no contact. I learned this is the best revenge. Sometimes I just wish I knew if Karma got his ass

[@theerealatm]

Don't dwell on their downfall. Just live your life... Im sure they a dreading your absense and that should be closure enough*.

[@kara_tee]

Same!

[@spiritialmaffia]

Don't worry, they are getting it. They don't, and won't want u to know that.

[@lenal8314]

They are their own karma! Miserable and sick! Always and forever... and everybody can see through them!

[@MrSamadolfo]

😊 jiji yup

[@tarajohnson3801]

What’s super sad about this message is a lot of their inflicted pain comes from someone else. They bleed on you like you were the cause of their demise!!! Such a hurtful place with damaging effects. So glad that I was able to walk and not look back. Be encouraged everyone, you can do it!!! Don’t consider a second chance, it only gets worse. Trust and believe! Thanks Hario 🙏🏽😇

[@portiajackson1778]

Thank you Tara

[@pauleastwood3694]

I was nothing but good to her yet she was angry with me all the time for problems she had before she even met me

[@oisinroche6464]

@@pauleastwood3694 so true, the dysfunction of there behaviour is terrible, they are not capable of having a healthy long term relationship.

[@GracedToWin]

You’re right, they bleed on you like you were the cause and it’s sad because it’s obvious they experienced some type of pain in their lifetime. It’s disheartening to have to listen to this video but freeing at the same time! I held on to some type of hope but at this point I need to be realistic.

[@annemann9134]

The joy of the Lord is our strength...give them a blessing instead...bless those that persecute you and say all manner of evil against us for great is our reward.

[@thecalmwayhome8483]

Amen.

[@venusessentials]

AMEN.

[@janedough2492]

I pray the imprecatory psalms. God is angry at the wicked every day. God is on the side of the righteous.

[@janedough2492]

The Monarch Butterfly I agree ☝️

[@annemann9134]

Yes...you are correct...Luke was just a follower...but I dare say you will not ever escape the words that come directly out of the mouth of the Lord.. matthew 5:43-44 Ye have heard that it hath been said,thou shalt love thy neighbor,and hate thine enemy. But I say unto you,love your enemies,bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you,and pray for them which despitefully use you,and persecute you...so...that is red letter directly from Jesus...you can go your own devices but it is not fruitful and beneficial

[@theestarrchild]

Actively healing every day....been gone 3 1/2 weeks. Got my own apartment, furniture. I am still struggling financially, but I have peace and he has no part in it. I don't care what he thinks or says. He has tried to talk to me, doesn't work. I see him for what he is and I treat him accordingly. I control my environment now. He has no power here and he hates it.

[@tamekadingle9987]

You got this 🥰

[@aprildanielle2693]

Yes!! Keep going 💯🗣️🗣️🗣️

[@Linda-pd8en]

God bless you! Keep going sweetheart

[@barbaraellzey3586]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@sonyax6344]

I am so proud of you 3 1/2 months for me. Stay focus and know that you love yourself more and deserve healthy love.

[@michaelking4578]

In hindsight, the best thing that happened to me in the relationship was the discard. Otherwise I would still be there.

[@anacatandbosshog7116]

Yes in hindsight. But at the time. It was hard!! All the fuckery

[@damianryan3495]

My wife discarded me awful thing was she had a new source she was sleeping with within weeks! That hurt!

[@anneterussel5199]

@@anacatandbosshog7116 me too

[@anneterussel5199]

Me too x

[@keithlondon3822]

@@damianryan3495 mine too!! It literally destroyed me and when I look back she was basically bragging about cheating in my face but I didn't know at the time then she discarded me!! I was in a motel wanting to kill myself and she was a party not giving a fuck

[@thomasprice9889]

"When the student is ready the teacher will appear" that's what this video means to me it is just what I needed to move on with my life,blessings!

[@gtgirl38]

When I leave him in one year I bought a house.

[@tinylittlebutstillalion4101]

Yes, i never had this much money in my life. And i still do not have a lot, but what i have is mine and i make it on my own. It is wonderfull. Love from Switzerland

[@gracelikerain5039]

Ooooouuuu! 😊

[@lissetrodriguez211]

Awsome good for you. I bought a brand new car. Lol

[@ToniToni-rv4yv]

Yessssss baby

[@tresawill6247]

God bless u

[@Ladyjojo695]

They live in a world of chaos and delusions. Making reckless decisions. They don’t change they just change people. You’re 💯 accurate. Keep loving and living. I’m glad I’m free and I will never give him the satisfaction of talking to me again in this lifetime. They are pure evil and karma will come knocking. Thank you. Needed this today. Appreciate you 😊🙏🏻❤️

[@Paul-fk6eq]

Jo Jo. You sound like a very strong sensible woman. Good for you!

[@Ladyjojo695]

Paul thank you. I wasn’t but I am now. Big life lesson.

[@maryhungi1329]

I really needed this today. It's crazy how this was the first one on the list of videos suggested to me by KZbin...I believe it was/is God reminding me that he is with me through this process. My narc ex served me with court papers claiming that I've denied all access to our 5 year old. He got covid19 and been hospitalized for severe symptoms and chooses to come get (try) our child and refuses to show me results. So I told him as soon as I see negative results you can have her but till then I'm not risking my child's health and life. He got pissed and filed....just to spite me. Mind you, he's a narcissistic alcoholic... he's turned my family against me in the past and has completely tarnished my name at this point. This video has given me so much strength and hope, and has also reminded me to always hold onto God's ✋ and put him first in this and all other aspects in my life.

[@psyniinstitute327]

Yes, “They don’t change, just change people.”

[@lioydwilliams1850]

@@Paul-fk6eq you must be a kind being

[@SouthernGirl89]

“Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.” Take good care of yourself, love God and wish them love and light. You’ll know when you’re ready. ❤️

[@portiajackson1778]

Thank you 🙏🏾

[@nicollerochelleofficial]

My favorite quote

[@kerstitekko2257]

Great advice.

[@donel77642]

"Life is a marathon, not a sprint...Good always wins!" Amen!

[@abdulc5726]

Its true that u get your life together and u even look at the narc differently, coz u see them for what they are.

[@kimberlywilson1435]

There EMPTY VESSELS

[@paulwillems1656]

I wanted to get you to 100 likes. Enjoy you're day!

[@bonnies7805]

And you feel nothing in your heart for them....but they cannot understand that your so over them

[@reneeflamand8991]

I just need you to talk to me for 10 hours straight. You’re like the best, best friend, a girl can have. So honest.

[@christianpulisic7784]

Renee Flamand,You look stunning 🌹🌷🌺 dear

[@okgirl64]

In the beginning..the red flags..constantly calling and texting..was exhausting..I mean I had a life , things to do..and I didn't put up a boundary..these people are gluttens for attention..no remorse..or reflection..very damaging..

[@reneeflamand8991]

I talk a lot about boundaries on my channel, okgirl. It’s so important you set them and don’t budge, but it’s the same for all of us with narcissists. They come on strong; we throw everything out the window. No more. Now we know better.

[@reneeflamand8991]

Thank you kindly, Christian. Shucks.

[@MontanasWorld375]

I been no contact for 18 days, and I finally got my appetite back, I’m sleeping better and I’m loving myself more everyday. I feel like I’ve come far.

[@ceekodog7730]

I'm proud of you

[@demonslayer4107]

Yup, because I fully understand what NO CONTACT means understanding that narcissist never did EXIST because nothing they gave you was TRUE . NO CONTACT IS FOR YOU ! LOVE TO A NARCISSIST IS CONTROL.. I FIGURED THAT OUT THE HARD WAY!

[@amberlyoness555]

and when you cut them off REALLY cut them out physically mentally dont even give them a thought again , make them dead to yu

[@lindareif7868]

The greatest revenge is success! Sounds negative, but the positive is that you have moved on without a second thought about them!

[@sherryjameson2942]

You go girl! Congrats

[@annemann9134]

Turn the other cheek...and walk on...they will never have what we have.

[@anyapinder5272]

Amen

[@ladyliberation3852]

Yep, peace!

[@JBSDIVERSIFIED]

Absolutely! I walked away and staying away forever. No contact, no nothing. You are right you must cut them and their family members off completely. Happiness and peace is a virtue. I had to finally realize that the narcissist was taking up my valuable time accomplishing nothing but giving me hell. No more narcissist forever!!!!

[@tammyfitzgerald5336]

🙏🏽🙌💯💥

[@merryj9934]

Good work!

[@Lynnejordan1218]

Beautifully said, and God said Vengeance is mine said the lord

[@sweet_kandyy]

Amen, God already knows how he's going to handle it!! 👑❤️🌹🙏🏽

[@pinkrose4322]

@@sweet_kandyy Yep!

[@Feber2001]

"Let the world know that you're back." Oh, YES! I love that.

[@margomazzeo1680]

Me too!!

[@marcealvarezg]

Me too !!

[@marina6785]

It feels great when you have peace and happiness in your life once there is no narcissistic chaotic personality in your space!

[@oscarwilliamson1264]

Marina,you are absolutely right 🤙 🤙🤙

[@lioydwilliams1850]

Marina,your pretty smile can make the news!

[@1stlast]

They ARE Stalkers too, they will go out of their way to be in your vicinity. I don’t know what I was thinking because he’s not even that attractive 😅. I feel wonderful now not having them in my life.

[@PrincessNiyaah]

Yes I’m getting weird phone calls had to change my number smh

[@1stlast]

@@PrincessNiyaah don’t go back. They don’t change💯

[@leratom3783]

My current husband will say to me, "you're with the wrong guy. You will find someone that will make you happy, and he will love you so much, you won't believe it. This marriage is a joke, there is no marriage here. Take the kids and go, I don't care. Your life means nothing to me" so yes I'm literally planning my exit now. I can't wait to finally live...

[@mbstephens8034]

Once you're passed the pain and the loss of the dream/lies, you're going to be so much happier!

[@maclove8135]

Believe him they try to warn us before they try to ruin you so get away asap

[@wilsandr21]

Run as fast as you can away from the trash!! He doesn’t deserve you nor your kids!! Let him sprint to the next victim. God has great thing in store for your life! Keep your head up and keep push far away from him.

[@bernesemuir8022]

What, what a terrible man, love and blessings to you❤

[@saralongmire6109]

Wow, me too. My little boy and I are so bewildered at how cruel it was. We are 5 months out, now. Glad you are getting away from him.

[@godsfavoritechosen1]

"Revenge is mines" said the lord. I thought of harming the narc but its not worth it. The things that was done to be will not be done in vain i believe the creator has a plan for these evil creatures.

[@jazzylove7721]

True

[@Whiskeyshotglass]

I loved it when you called them a “thing”

[@lauragraves4342]

Aka the creature feature, lol. Swamp Thing. Nosferatu. It. They have many names.

[@toniwilliams9817]

They are things. Not human..

[@dontbelongherefromanother]

Narcs are only things and not humans. Better yet, we don't know

[@jeanpors4441]

Laura Graves is the time of time to get this app to

[@lauragraves4342]

@@jeanpors4441 yep.

[@sharongilmer268]

I just went through a horrific discard . I've spent the last few weeks understanding what a narcissistic person is. I see it all now . 8 years with a narcissistic person. Without realizing, I was doing what these videos said to do to protect myself . I'm beginning to heal ... and I am grateful that the trash took itself out. I protected myself legally and financially. I'm very grateful for discernment . I have peace ...and I will dust myself off and live my best life. Sending love to all who are and have been affected by this kind of abuse.

[@lauraoki8368]

I have a similar story.. married 10 years with him for 14.. left and filed for divorce.. he is doing horrible things to me.. went no contact!

[@sxyrachelle]

AMEN SHARON!!

[@Glam_Broker]

Ladies always maintain yourself and know that you’re the prize 🏆

[@chaabimaroc]

Sorry men are the prize because its a mansworld and you only using the benifts.no soul is a prize.only for the batlle between god en satan.

[@dannyphantomproductions656]

True love is the prize. It’s mutual on both parts to achieve the same goal.

[@amirhudsin5463]

You know my ex always saying she the prize because of the scripture about a man who finds a wife finds a good thing which takes away any value that a man has ever in her life....way to misinterpret the scripture and twist it to devalue a man

[@andrakathereaper303]

comments like this make women feel like they are something better than man even though nothing is brought to the table. Its either the same or less

[@danabrock4570]

💥

[@PrettyToez07]

6:13 "Force them to have third party conversations where they have to get information from other people to find out about you". {-------- This right here. ✔️

[@kendragrant7139]

Best thing I could've ever done was walk away I thank God everyday for giving me the strength and keeping me covered I feel so great🙏😆

[@syahusha7776]

I left. I prayed and Yah answered. He has stripped him two just nothing! I am healing, healthy, still have my apartment, and my children are with me. That is my payback. YAH is on my side. Thank you.🥰

[@RealTalkWithYanie]

The revenge part leading up to ”get healthy” was everything 😂😂👏🏽 Yasss!!!

[@lindaakinwale9899]

Thank u so much Follow ur passion,that really hit me,and keep doing good

[@shanekabattle6535]

I've been through this and just got out! Thank you Jesus because it was pure torture!

[@wandahwhetstone5720]

Ok

[@sinafreeman1753]

It don’t seem like it

[@lianecornils8733]

You sound like your the sick one.

[@motivationalteachermissh9108]

And to make matters worse for him ,I am a Stand Up Comic! His Ass is going on Stage!😂😂😂

[@wandavelez6714]

I love this I also created a 45 minute stand up. Funny as hell just like him. Bye bye clown

[@culenahalim9683]

Lol

[@wandavelez6714]

It does help to laugh at their audacity.

[@louc3135]

@@wandavelez6714 I wanna hear it!!!

[@wandavelez6714]

Lou C313 it’s called mommy issues

[@soniad9207]

I just got out 2 weeks ago and I don’t want revenge, I actually feel sorry for my narcissist. I am on a journey of self healing and developing my empathic ability, I feel free and I can breathe again. This is an AWESOME video!

[@christianpulisic7784]

Sonia D,You are absolutely gorgeous 🌷🌹🌺,you don't need a narc 😈 in your life!!

[@anacatandbosshog7116]

Feel sorry for mine as well.

[@lovelyone2031]

Feeling sorry for them is what they count on. They could care less if u feel sorry for them, they knew what they were doing when they were using and abusing you. They take kindness for weakness. I don't feel sorry for them! Even their story on the "bad childhood" is a lie. Wake up!

[@dunderwood4444]

Don't feel sorry, feel Nothing for the Narc

[@sharonsimmons6582]

I’m glad you got out of that relationship 🙏🏽

[@justwaiting471]

You are correct, there is no love. Their definition of love is contempt for you. Never vulnerable…just half a person with their walls up and their mask on tight.

[@christicurlin1932]

GOD is our vindicator. He don't like ugly!!

[@annsam2111]

Exactly!

[@JBSDIVERSIFIED]

That's very profound and the absolute truth!

[@antoniomarialuisa7173]

I am nervous that I may have been in a force relationship with narc but the scary thing is he is a police officer n I'm scared everything is superfast with him help me!!

[@fredmad4988]

Ugly heart that is.

[@1010QUEEN7]

Demons hate God they are of the devil

[@DaleMcCluskey]

Revenge represents planting a seed of bitterness in your heart. Just walk away from this type of person and forgive to release yourself. Forgive yourself at the same time. Narcissists are in love with themselves and it was never about you the right way to begin with.

[@bonitasmith6064]

Remember God gives the best revenge and karma never forgets their address. It doesn't get any better than this when you know they will reap what they sow.

[@portiajackson1778]

Thank you so much. Going threw the process

[@SenSakura-dj6bq]

You don't even need to forgive. Forgiveness is for those that regret, but those who stand tall for all the mayhem they've created do not want, need or deserve forgiveness.

[@shirleyrussell7089]

The 7 dislikes are probably from the NARSASISTS 😂😂

[@valerieriggins3184]

Probably?! That's Their Personality Hate TRUTH.

[@carlaazuakolam1401]

Most likely?! Definitely is them. They are always watching and stalking. They’re so mad!

[@nani3466]

You know it is 😆

[@jacalyntaylor6721]

True. Lol.

[@BeautyAtTheAltar]

Always

[@pamelapatterson2037]

Yes indeed I have won because GOD covered me and I thank you. This message is on point

[@IndianG46]

The narc always said he wanted peace and positive thinking. Lol

[@LettyABC]

He just was saying the things he knows you want and are quite capable of having.. ughhh… so glad I walked away when I did.. before I created no contact.. my very last text to him was.. NO MORE .. God is Good 🙏🏽😇Amen 🙏🏽

[@catiedunne7082]

Did we date the same guy?🤣

[@Fizzy5pringwater]

That’s so you doubt yourself for being different from them.

[@rlsloan80]

The last one I dealt with told me when I said I really just wanted peace in my life that "Peace is overrated." To which I immediately responded "How would you know?"

[@Exceptionalistic]

Omg yes! Usually after they drive you insane and immediately say “ I don’t want to argue”

[@shuwonnasmith8388]

The best revenge is success happiness and joy. Live your best life without them. Level up and love you throughout the process.

[@margaretrefile8207]

Yes

[@sunnyclouds1372]

I laughed in his face.. he watched me change, get my life together, my place together and was trying to act like he was cool with a new doormat😂 I was like we are all good bro lol and walked away now my life is content and hes miserable and he told me he was not happy lol surprise

[@MrSamadolfo]

🙂 yay

[@carlaazuakolam1401]

Haha! I love your story! Sounds like mine. Oh but wait.. all narc do the same things and the story IS the same! My ex narc is so fake and acts like he’s happy, but we all know he is with a doormat, too. That’s why they hate us. Because we escaped. We rediscovered our worth and light within. They tried to destroy us and they succeeded temporarily. But just like the Phoenix we arose from the ashes of their abuse! Stronger and more healthy than ever. And their sorry asses are still working on destroying innocent people.

[@jorgecarrera5637]

Straight up. Embarrassing. Forgive yourself. No contact. Move forward.

[@theartoflivingoutloud888]

They sure won’t have the satisfaction of destroying me. WATCH ME IN ALL OF MY GLORY. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@vesnalukic9877]

You cannot break someone who is already broken man.

[@PRETTYGIRLSWAGG918]

This is true

[@believer2223]

Wow, that certainly stopped me in my tracks! Yes, I believe that "brokenness" is what's at the root of all their evil. Their main goal is to see you suffer like they believe they've suffered.

[@vesnalukic9877]

@@believer2223 which is why you cannot "win" against a narc, they got nothing to lose..

[@PRETTYGIRLSWAGG918]

Vesna Lukic absolutely nothing to lose , they have no soul to begin with .

[@1010QUEEN7]

@@PRETTYGIRLSWAGG918 no soul that is scary

[@MIRNA_LIZ]

TOTALLY TRUE EVERYTHING YOU SAID. He gets CRAZY when someone talks about an ex he KICKED and today she is A STAR !!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂

[@mbstephens8034]

Love it!

[@MIRNA_LIZ]

@@mbstephens8034 Me too !!!! 😂😂😂😂

[@danarenee5916]

Yeah my ex narc has a severe narc injury when he saw his ex wife was thriving. We were together at the time but we separated bc he was doing too many extreme things. She’s thriving and not even showing off. He’s showing off with posts like #mindfulness #healing. Lol he’s healing one instagram post at a time haha. Not sure where he’ll go with me but hopefully soon I won’t care.

[@MIRNA_LIZ]

@@danarenee5916 😲😲😲 They're too crazy !

[@razasyeda6054]

I wish my ex fiancé goes through something similar!

[@mami-e2q]

I was afraid I will become an empty shell and my goodness will dry..but NOOOO..I have back my empathy and my kindness and I feel so blessed, my soul is shining bright just like before this horrific attack !!Praise the Lord!Amen!

[@TheUsurperGuy1]

The last words that I exchanged with the narc face to face was Narc: See you next year~♡ Me: Goodbye 🙂 Little did they know that that Goodbye was not a "see you later" It's been 2 weeks since I've been Narc free and I'm loving it

[@lindaredlick8821]

I'm so happy for you. I'm narc free one day and it's great!

[@janelleanderson6744]

Good. Keep it goin, IE--keep it goin.

[@daweller]

I wouldn't celebrate until it has been at least 2 years.

[@mindfulpeace8060]

How do I leave this narc when I live w him 8 years and all my belongings are integrated in this home?

[@TheUsurperGuy1]

@@mindfulpeace8060 Your peace of mind and your life is worth more than your stuff. You can get new things but no one can get a new "you"

[@givegodthanks]

Amen I was telling someone this today over the phone that he will never hear my voice ever again.

[@livinglifetothefullest4386]

My last conversation would be yesterday. He will never hear this voice again.

[@stariytwitch3960]

I was finally hoovered today and they secretly still ARE ANGRY demons.

[@erehistruth2356]

@@livinglifetothefullest4386 Amen. My ex is mad because I changed my number and I don't want him in my life anymore. His new girl can keep him company.

[@webuysellhousesaptscashoff9453]

Wow

[@empathicwarriorlissy3716]

No Contact Narcissistic Injury

[@jackiejones4029]

So true

[@stariytwitch3960]

I was finally hoovered today secretly they still ARE ANGRY like a demon.

[@empathicwarriorlissy3716]

@@stariytwitch3960 they sure are

[@lakishacurtis1926]

Stari Ytwitch prayerfully you stayed strong

[@AftabAhmed-ib9ex]

Yeah lol, she discarded me with WhatsApp msg and blocked me without giving me chance to ask any question, i told her that i knew what she was doing and wish her all the best, after two weeks sge Sent me an email that she want to meet me last to breakup like adults lol although she discarded me lol i did not respond and did not went there although she waited for me, today she sent me unwanted Information to show me how she care for me lol, ITs only three weeks Post discard and i got my confidence back because i was not too invested in her, after two or three weeks if she tried i will take her Back and after dirty fuck, i will dump her 12 oclock in the night und let her Ass walkaway 💪i tried so many Times to breakup with her but everytime she came back and i Tool her back because i did not knew how narcissists behave,

[@Veronica-z8x]

I was told I was going to end up a bum on the street and so much more that I’m too embarrassed to share. Yet I was and still is far fetched from that…what a manipulator!!!

[@Veronica-z8x]

FYI your video felt good to me. Thank you 🙏

[@melissaparry1069]

I wish him the best and I forgive him. I’m happier and on a wonderful journey in my life now.

[@jacobromero2634]

U reap what u sow heal bless them n move forward

[@CryptoProphet]

My life has never been better. My friendships have never been been more fulfilling. Getting away from narcs has changed me forever. Never going back.

[@lioydwilliams1850]

Aura Wright Media, you got a nice smile

[@nadiayofav8]

Same

[@Zamstein]

This video has come back around to me 3 years later. After what I’ve learned I don’t think it’s possible to hurt a narcissist… and you shouldn’t try. It will only destroy you further. Even if you “ruin their lives” etc.. they’re already broken. There’s really nothing else you can do worse than they already are.

[@hsmith9838]

It’s been NO CONTACT now for 68 days from my ex NARC!! I’m my energetic, spunky happy self again!! Karma will eventually find them!!

[@PureWater-w7c]

I'm wondering if they are ever happy? Narcissists are about to go down. Never fight fire with fire. Peace is wonderful. ❤

[@natashatwine7818]

Amen!

[@ME-jw3br]

I met him in June. August, he's blocked. I'm not playing with ANYBODY!!!

[@kuukuyankson2033]

Now that's not messing about. I blocked my narc mate and suddenly, he's going round workmates asking for my number again with the pretext he's lost his phone. Funny thing is, he's not asking me directly. 🤦‍♂️

[@margaretrefile8207]

Good!

[@denisechaoub90]

Yeah you go !!!

[@dolitamaggette3964]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@5Luckyducky]

Yes! Cut them off IMMEDIATELY

[@terrywallace3975]

Most men that had history with a certain female always come back to her even if she did them bad, you gotta be the coldest dude she dealt with that walked a way from her forever 💯

[@BR9900-w5l]

When he was around me, my recovery I was going through for illness almost halted. As soon as I discarded him I was back on track and moving forward with a positive and new attitude. These people are like a slow creeping death.

[@melaniecorley7011]

How can this person hurt and use me when I did everything for them. I felt treated trashy when I am caring, loving, beautiful, and good hearted sweet person.💜💜💜

[@yevonnevanhorn8533]

It does hurt when you have done more for them than they will ever do for you. They will run across someone who treats them bad every supply is not good supply

[@stariytwitch3960]

Misery loves company can't change misery

[@stariytwitch3960]

It's also a Jezabel or Judas spirit youtube it.

[@justinjunior4682]

Don't worry Corly, they are useless and wicked beings. Bless you

[@tracyking7682]

Melanie I felt the same way when I was discarded. 14 Months later I am Soooooo. Over him!!!! GOD Blessed and Healed me from the excruciating pain of that “Situation” and He will do the same for you!!!! Stay NO CONTACT!!! It really does help in the healing process I PROMISE!!! Over 25 unanswered Hoover’s “ text messages, Phone calls and email attempts” NO RESPONSE!!! I Won!!! 🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆 Every unanswered attempt I counted as Trophies!!!! You’ll get through this and you too will WIN!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽😇

[@suemorgan2185]

I just ended a 17 year marriage to a covert narcissist and I am loving your words.

[@IamMandyPoo]

Same here!! I’m slowly healing and these videos are really helpful.

[@jeanchen1770]

same here. 17 years.

[@facechemistry5424]

Me too

[@elgenfranord1651]

Stay strong silence is the best and never talk to them they hate that

[@lisarolph4789]

Beat ya wasted 26 years with mine lol only now can I smile to myself free free free and at last doing me hope you are doing the same xxx

[@ranxerox5310]

The old saying that “success is the best revenge” is especially true for the narcissist.