The Weasleys: Five Keys to a Happy Family

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What makes a family bond strong and long-lasting?
Licensed therapist Jonathan Decker and filmmaker Alan Seawright are talking about five keys to happy families with the beloved Weasley family from the Harry Potter series. They discuss how the Weasleys lead with love, have fun and bond, stand up for each other, and show support and comfort during good and hard times. They praise the production designers and the brilliant actors for portraying the love and care of the Weasleys. Alan wants to snuggle up in a corner of the Burrow, and Jono is trademarking his term Microaffection™.
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Written by: Corinne Demyanovich, Megan Seawright, Jonathan Decker, and Alan Seawright
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[@nicolehapgood6277]

I absolutely adore the Weasleys. Someone told me something once that I have never forgotten. "If you're ever feeling sad, down about yourself, or if you're just having a bad day, just think how excited Mr. Weasley would be to meet you." So for anyone who hasn't heard that, here you go lol.

[@CinemaTherapyShow]

That's so lovely!

[@IdrilSilmarien]

Thank you! That just gave me the warmest feeling. 😊

[@eunicekurniawan]

that’s so cute! i needed to hear something good today, thank you.

[@chaoticciel_2646]

I really needed that ty 🥲

[@reginaphalange8500]

I heard a similar phrase "if you ever feel worthless good for nothing, remember Arthur Weasley would think you are cool because you can operate the microwave"

[@GemR38]

As a Brit I feel the need to say that Julie Walters is a national treasure. The cast of Harry Potter had so many iconic casting choices and sometimes it's like she gets overlooked. Julie Walters embodied that role so well she was the glue that held that family dynamic together and made it feel so real.

[@CinemaTherapyShow]

One million percent agree!

[@jeanettecarnell8933]

She is amazing.watched The Mama, -Mia movies,she is one of 2 friends,I never even recognized her she is so able to become a different character.loved hee singing,a true force of nature.

[@amommalee9105]

Whoa. Didn't even know she had a name other than Mrs. Weasley. That's a testament to her acting though.

[@daniellemusella1594]

@@jeanettecarnell8933 "I think my soulmate is carbs." "Nailed it."; "To the wall, baby." (12/13/2022)

[@daniellemusella1594]

@@amommalee9105 She also voiced the wood-carving witch in "Brave". (12/13/2022)

[@liv97497]

Two moments that always break my heart in the books are first, in Chamber of Secrets, when Harry is staying with the Weasleys for the summer, the strangest thing he finds is that everyone in the house seemed to like him, and the narration goes on to describe the most basic things any child should have: Mrs. Weasley offering him second helpings of food, Mr. Weasley wanting to talk to him and valuing his opinion, and everyone else simply noticing him and giving him the attention he never had; second, in Goblet of Fire, after the graveyard, when Harry is in the hospital and Mrs. Weasley hugs him tight. The line goes something like "Harry couldn't remember ever being hugged like this, as though by a mother". It makes me so emotional 😭

[@madelinegarber7860]

Yes!!! That moment in book 4 is one of my favorites. She did and said exactly the right thing. She saw immediately how much he’d been through and silently gave him the comfort and permission he needed to let go and cry if he needed to.

[@lexlixatkwa7nelson3]

That last line "as though by a mother" was one of the first times a book genuinely made me cry. That line honestly got me more than the death scenes tbh it was just so heart-wrenching but also good knowing he now had Molly and the Weasleys to support him :((

[@Vi_Vi_1]

That moment in book 4 really hits you in the face with how deprived of a mother's love Harry has been since his own mother died. Like, you know it, but that moment twists the knife very painfully.

[@Highvibethings]

Goblet of fire was my absolute favorite.

[@missautumn764]

Molly is actually very gifted at charms. The clock, the dishes being washed handsfree, that's supposedly her work and not at all easy. She has her own thing, she's crafty.

[@scheneli000]

And she’s a magical knitter! Pun intended!

[@MissMoontree]

@Eli Schenk She should be knittich champion

[@korganrocks3995]

Slughorn also had great hopes for her iirc, and was disappointed that she "wasted her potential" by getting married and raising a bunch of kids. The way she defeats Bellatrix suggests that she certainly is good at spellcasting or at least has a serious amount of "magical power", since Bellatrix is supposedly one of Voldemort's most dangerous followers, and has already beaten both Tonks and Sirius 1v1 unless my memory is playing tricks on me.

[@peggyjones3282]

When she duels with Bellatrix, you see another side to her. To the kids, she's simply mom. And that's all she wants to be to them. But she is much, much more.

[@powerpuff_avenger]

Yeah, but kids don't notice that. They take those kinda things for granted most of the time, especially with an overbearing and caring mother who prioritises her family over anything else. If there's a certain style in upbringing, kids won't know any better. Just like Draco thinks his family is alright and probably felt weak for not living up to their expectations and being taken off guard when he's met with life-saving kindness by Harry in the room of requirement. Only then does he realise there are other ways and it changes him as a person. I'm not entirely sure about Dudley, but I felt (based on the deleted scene) that he went to something similar with telling Harry he doesn't consider him a waste of space.

[@EpicNerdsWithCameras]

One of the things that immediately endeared me to Molly in the second novel was that as soon as she learns that the Dursleys were starving Harry, there is an instant shift from anger to concern. She still reprimands her boys, still makes sure they know they were being reckless, but she also jumps straight to preparing breakfast and making sure Harry eats his fill. What an amazing, nurturing woman.

[@burntrosechick]

She also sends him more treats with the kids owls at Hogwarts.

[@ultimatebishoujo29]

So true!!!!!

[@nightfall3605]

Someone somewhere pointed out that her response is textbook caring for a trauma victim. Constant reassurance, keeping warm, easy food. They didn’t show it very well in the movie but Harry had been starved for weeks by the time the boys rescued him.

[@sapodilla25]

Arthur Weasley was the kindest person in the books. He was happy to include two people into his family (Harry, Hermione), he parented his kids and them, he looked out for Harry's safety, he made sure all his children had a half-strict and half-easygoing upbringing. He taught them his values by example, his humility and acceptance of his position, his kindness towards non-Magical creatures, his sense of humour. He's the OG dad and that's why JK Rowling almost killed him off but couldn't get herself to do it completely.

[@arkia...a]

arthur>>molly

[@bridi0821]

@@arkia...a ummm no. Both Molly and Arthur are amazing parents

[@helgaherbstreit5102]

@@bridi0821 No.

[@helgaherbstreit5102]

Totally agree.

[@arkia...a]

@@bridi0821 I think Molly was a little insensitive and she would often forget about Ron's existence. If you pay attention, she cares more about Harry than Fred, George and Ron. OFC I don't hate her, but Arthur is a better person in my opinion.

[@DearSis]

My favorite scene of Molly’s love is in the books. When she is struggling to rid the Black house of the boggart and the boggart just keeps transforming into different family members dying. Most people’s biggest fear is darkness or bugs or something crazy. This just shows that Molly’s family is always on her mind.

[@ksy4747]

I absolutely relate to that bc that is my biggest fear as well. Loosing the ones I love.

[@burntrosechick]

I was looking for this comment. It broke my little heart to read and understand intrinsically that fear. I almost lost my little sister when we were kids. And when I was in the waiting room of the children's hospital alone. Our parents both in the room with her. It was my first brush with truly pleading for divine intervention. I would have traded anything for her to be okay. And it's been about 23 years since....it still is one of my biggest fears. Molly became my favorite character in the whole series when I read that scene. A woman whose deepest darkest fear was losing those who she loved so deeply. For any child who grows up unloved by their parents. Or in a broken home...Molly is that pinnacle of what could be. Arthur too...technically. But she's the mom you want. The one who love is deep, unconditional, and present in everything she says and does.

[@duwisib802]

Absolutely agree! What I found heartwarming about this was that Harry belonged to her family too, the last thing she saw the boggart turn into was Harry's dead body. She adopted him and loved him as if she really was his mother :)

[@stacyclark8590]

Also when she starts carrying her clock around with her because she is so worried about them.

[@thebutteredf1y]

She also saw the twins dead together, if I remember rightly. So, even in their mother's worst fears, she never thought they would be without each other.

[@rayn0577]

One of the best examples of Mrs. Weasley’s love for her kids is in the Deathly Hallows book. For Ron and Harry’s 17th birthdays, she gifts them both a watch. Ron’s is brand new, while Harry’s is old and dented because it used to belong to Molly’s brother Fabian. As a younger child in a large family, Ron was always getting hand-me-downs, so getting something brand new just for him is something he’ll appreciate more. Harry has to buy most of what he has brand new because he doesn’t have family heirlooms, so being gifted something tied to the only real family he has is something he’ll appreciate more than buying one brand new.

[@FlyingBunnycorn]

That is an *excellent* point. Such a subtle bit of worldbuilding.

[@kazza6078]

No you're crying 😭

[@mutantie]

- oh I love that. I guess the implications went over my head when I read the books at like 12 but thats very sweet.

[@BlackGirlMarvel]

Okay I'm crying now 😭😭

[@theopkingdom3433]

100% agree. Molly gave them each exactly what they needed to feel loved and seen.

[@isiebelle30]

I remember a part in the book where molly is trying to get rid of a boggart and she was struggling because it kept appearing as her children dead and harry also appeared as dead and it was that moment I realised just how much maternal love molly has for her children including harry

[@Sam..123]

Arthur's reaction to meeting Harry is so wholesome. That quick transition to "Ron has told me all about you off coarse" and then asking about the rubberduck, I think he is actually aware that that is a weird question for someone who's grown up in a muggle family and asks it partly to further take pressure of Harry and make him laugh and it works so well.

[@akikaien6422]

That's my favorite part about Arthur. Any time there is tension, he picks up on it easily and tries to distract them from it. Like when he's escorting Harry to his trial, he asks him to keep track of their destination so they don't miss a stop, and he has Harry help him with the Muggle Money. He also treated Harry like an adult and told him about Sirius

[@Ami-jc2oo]

69 likes.

[@daydreamer2428]

@@akikaien6422 oh my GOD thanks! I've never seen him that way! But that makes so much sense!

[@nessuno3783]

I like that it seems he's happy to meet Ron's friend more than the famous Harry Potter

[@nerdiwolverine]

I love that Arthur was like "who are you?" to his kids friend. A very dad thing to say imo

[@zettagotbored9341]

One thing in the last movie that was really subtle with Molly is that she was washing the dishes while everyone was bringing Harry to the Burrow. Like actually standing at the sink washing them by hand because she just desperately needed SOMETHING to occupy her mind and keep her from totally giving into worry

[@windhelmguard5295]

it's also important to note that emotional turmoil makes ones magic difficult to wield with precision. (which is why snape is always preaching discipline) which i always thought was the reason why molly avoided using magic on fragile kitchenware.

[@scoylephoto]

I love that Arthur can be having a full on conversation and has so many kids running around that it takes him a good couple of minutes to even notice Harry is there. It gets me every time. Also, I have always admired how Molly and most all the Weasleys just treat him like another kid. They never treat him like "different" or "special" because at the end of the day, Harry never asked to be famous and have everyone know him, it just happened. I think that Molly sees that and just treats him like a regular person and lets him be a kid as much as she can in a world that is paying a lot of attention him.

[@sheaneal290]

My family always identified so heavily with the weasly's. There's 7 of us total, and growing up, dad would always come out to breakfast and bellow, "Morning, Weasly's!" And we would all shout back, "Morning, dad!". We came from a truly hectic but loving home, and I'll always be grateful to my parents for that.

[@brobs0463]

‘Where HAve You Been!?’ And ‘Oh really, how’d it go?’ Are my two favourite lines in the entire series. I love Molly and Arthur, the juxtaposition is comedic gold and so realistic 😂

[@nrrork]

My favorite was in Order of the Phoenix when they visit Arthur in the hospital, and he explains the doctors tried giving him this muggle treatment called "stitches". And Molly says "It sounds like you're saying you tried to sew your skin back together... but even YOU wouldn't be stupid enough..." And we never hear the rest because Harry and Hermione already know where this is going and calmly lead the other kids out of the room. So it's quiet for a bit, then they hear Molly shouting "WHAT DO YOU MEAN 'That's the general idea!?'" It's a shame that wasn't in the movie.

[@DearSis]

@@nrrork oh man, I love that scene in the book!

[@mariekedekker8376]

What I always found impressive from Arthur and Molly as a parenting team, is how there is no good cop/bad cop dynamic even though Molly is clearly more strict and Arthur more mellow. The kids don't fear Molly for being strict and love Arthur because he let's them get away with stuff. If needed Arthur will step in and that is when the kids know they done fucked up. And Molly showers is obvious that she is strict because she cares about THEM. Not about image, not about what anyone will think, not about cost of damaged property. Her first care is always her children and they know it.

[@tiffanypersaud3518]

❤❤

[@TheGrownUpMillennial]

I Love the Weasleys and your commentary, but I think it’s important to acknowledge that this family was the source of Ron’s insecurities. He felt he had a lot to live up to with his older brothers (e.g. he saw himself surpassing them in the mirror of erised) and there was also some neglect - his mother forgot the food or colors he liked, he got the worst hand-me-downs (George and Fred got normal dress robes from the oldest brothers but Ron got something ugly from a dead aunt). For parents with many children, I think they can get complacent thinking “oh, I know how to raise kids, I can take these shortcuts” but they forget that each kid is experiencing being a kid for the first time and they do notice when they’re treated differently or their parents put in less effort. Hell, my mom only had 2 kids, but my little brother was hurt that my mom can remember what time I was born but not him.

[@ajmalaika1287]

Love this ❤️ Something I worry about as an older sickly sibling, also makes me think of DH1 where Ron’s has the extra stress of worrying about his family while they’re on the run

[@radishraccoon3657]

I think that's kind of part of what makes them such an effective portrayal though; they seem realistic rather than an unattainable vision of family perfection. And I'd slightly challenge the language that Ron was 'neglected'; his parents are extremely busy juggling an awful lot of children, and not being able to remember your kid's favourite colour or food is hardly a crime, nor exclusive to families with lots of children. It's quite powerful to see that contrast between Ron and Harry, where Ron does sometimes feel embarrassed by his family and under pressure, but ultimately is surrounded by people who love and care for him.

[@TheGrownUpMillennial]

@@radishraccoon3657 Totally fair - no family is perfect, but I wish CT had addressed that as well, that love and being there for each other doesn't make your family or your children immune from experiencing some pain or that you can hurt your children (though unintentionally). Jonathan and Alan particularly were viewing this from the parents' perspective - which I get, parenting is hard, and this was overall an awesome representation of parenting. It's hard to remember that the children may have a different perspective though. And I'm not at all saying that the parents were neglectful in the "abusive" sense, but if one children is repeatedly having their likes and interests forgotten when the other children are not, then their interests have been neglected and that can sting. Not a crime, not unforgivable, but that feeling of having a lot to live up to while feeling he disappeared in the sea of his brothers was a big part of Ron's character that shouldn't be overlooked.

[@pamelah1220]

@@TheGrownUpMillennial It can be especially hard if one sibling shares an interest with a parent, because their interest is supported and understood in a way that another sibling's hobby might not be.

[@FerrerThess]

The Grown Up Millenial, I see your point, but I disagree. (Just a note before, Ron does not get a dead aunt's ropes, nor in the movie or in the books. In the movie, he jokes that he looks* like her old aunt, not that that is her ropes. In the books, he complains because they buy second-hand ropes and Molly makes some changes to it to not make it as ugly, but obviously it is not what Ron would have liked). There are two parents and 7 kids so, obviously it is not as if he were an only child (both money-wise and attention-wise), but Ron is far from neglected. In fact, later on when he is made Perfect, Molly throws him a party and asks him what he wants as a reward, as Bill, Charlie and Percy also got gifts, and she gets him the new broom he wanted. The problem with Ron is that he is the 6th in a family of overachievers. Bill, Charlie and Percy were either Perfects, Headboys or sport captains, and the two oldest had great exotic important jobs in Egyp and Rumania. The twins were unique, too, ironically because they were twins and although they were good at sports, they stood out for their charisma and Ginny was the only girl. Had Ron not made friends with literally the most famous kid in their world, and with the girl at the top of his class, maybe those insecurities would have been overcome earlier. But he is very much not neglected.

[@chelseathompson5334]

Whenever I see someone with ginger hair, I always say "with hair like that, you could be a Weasley". I always intend for it as a compliment, cause the Weasley family is the best example of good people and a good family that I can think of.

[@CinemaTherapyShow]

Love that! 🧑‍🦰

[@dracomalfoy4679]

The heartbreaking thing about Fred’s death is that not only did George lose his other half, but in the book, Percy made a joke for the first time in a long long time, and it made Fred laugh ( they were together during the battle) and Fred has forgiven him for being a jerk to the family. But right at that moment of forgiveness and happiness between the too, Fred dies. I also think Fred is the first to “welcome” Percy back and hug him if a remember correctly. And the fact that George asks “are you okay Freddie” a couple of scenes before Fred’s death. And it’s beautiful and so sad that Fred died laughing. He was all about laughter and fun. My favorite characters are definitely Fred and George ❤

[@ksy4747]

Mine too. I loved Luna, Hermione, Dumbledore and Harry of course, but the twins always had an extra special place in my heart. They always kept me laughing through the books and didn't take anything seriously. I was so devastated when Fred died.. I still quote some of their lines to this day. "Ask me no questions and I shall tell you no lies" 🥲

[@dracomalfoy4679]

@@ksy4747 😔💕

[@heathermcfarland6317]

I love the Weasleys. My parents are not the most caring people. Before this movie came out, I didn’t really have a clear view of what a functioning family looks like. The love they have for their children is so clear in their actions. This may sound weird but I used a lot of what I learned from them to help me raise my own daughter. I didn’t learn anything for my parents, but the Weasley’s are so supportive and so loving Not only to their own children, but also Harry, a kid that was not their own. I am so glad y’all are doing video on them.

[@heartdragon2386]

@@Moonwalker2923 well, if this isn't the right comment section to get it out, I don't know what is. The people that participate in this community tend to know how to, or want to learn how to be supportive and open minded. I for one am sorry you have to live in those unwelcoming circumstances. Hope you find a place you feel good to be yourself. Remember, you deserve that as much as anybody.

[@taschak3889]

@@Moonwalker2923 i'm bisexuell and grew up in a islamistic family, so I understand how hard it is. It's important to be yourself. If your family don't accept you as you are, it's realy toxic and you can't be fully yourself. I never told my parents. I also not in contact with them anymore. They were really toxic. If your parents don't accept and Love you like you are, you should think seriosly why are you still in contact with them. Because family means accepting, Loving and supporting your family like they are. Please don't forget, you don't own your parents anything. It was their choice to get you and they own you Love, acceptance and support for your whole life. Of course you can be thankfull, but it doesn't mean you own them anything. It's sounds like you are young and still living with your parents. If you don't trust your family, hide it. You know your parents the best. So If you don't trust them, only tell them If you are able to life without them. Maybe it's sounds extrem, but I only can compare with my family. I probably would have had to undergo an exorcism if they found out back then.

[@taschak3889]

I totally understand this. Family was for me always a "concept" that I never truely understood. TV helped a lot to find out, what kind of family I wished for myself.

[@madeleineg2049]

@@Moonwalker2923 personally, I think "love" just means to care, to want somebody to be happy and healthy. I have no idea what that has to do with "has penis/boobs" or whatever. What others find attractive, is simply personal. To me that whole "discussion" feels like "they like chocolate and don't like strawberry! Therefore they are evil!". Just weird. As to your family, sorry to hear that you worry about such things. I can only think about what I would do, if my own family was like that. And I would probably just ask, what exactly makes it bad when for example a woman loves another woman, whats the difference if she is loved by a man or by a woman. I mean the practical stuff is probably easier in hetero couples. You know, the "push x in y" stuff. But otherwise... I mean, a mother and child should also care for each other. And there shouldn't be a difference based on "the child has penis/boobs" to the amount of care. At least thats my opinion. If your family does get violent on certain topics, I would advise to think carefully about, if you want to come out to them and about your own safety during such a discussion (phones are pretty awesome when you want to be out of reach). As Tascha K put it, you know your family best and the decision is yours of course.

[@sempiterneldesiderata7439]

You'll do great because you are striving to be! I wish you the best in your parental efforts!

[@Kevdaillest]

The Weasley's are great! Now I hope you guys do a discussion on Ron himself. The middle child not just in family but in his life as a whole. Charles travels, Percy was the oldest at home, the twins had each other, Ginny was the girl the parents wanted and popular in school, his best friend is the chosen one, his crush is the smartest girl of their generation, he's not particularly gifted in anything, he feels like the loser in his family, he has insecurities with living in another person's story, and feels like he contributes nothing. Yet he still fights for his friends at the end of the day. It'd be so interesting to see a discussion on how someone can still fight when feeling like they're the middle child in their own life. (In the movies they make his insecurities and shortcomings much more apparent then the books but still lol)

[@hameley12]

This is such a great idea! I've noticed that too in the books and in real life. There must be ways to cope for the middle child. The one who's always/sometimes being either "forgotten" or "love-smuggled" 😅 I know some parents who do smuggle their children with so much love. The adult child moves away. There must be a center Half-Way-Meet-Up where parents can be neither too cold or too hot. I hope Cinema Therapy sees your comment and talk about it.

[@simdivya]

psychology of a hero on ron weasley would be a badass subversion of people's expectations and it would be an amazing episode too

[@Kevdaillest]

@@hameley12 Yeah, as the middle one in my family I relate to Ron's insecurities hard lol. It really is like a weird limbo spot, especially when it bleeds into just life and your personality. I do hope they cover this in some way shape or form! 😂

[@Kevdaillest]

@@simdivya Agreed!

[@T_1.5]

Especially since Ron probably always felt defined by his relationships to other people, his parents’ son, siblings’ brother, Harry’s friend, Hermione’s boyfriend. He probably never felt like he was able to be his own person because everyone around him had such a massive personality

[@Moeller750]

I actually had a different take on the Molly/Bellatrix battle (side note, can we just appreciate how absolutely perfect the casting of both these characters was?). I always found that passage in the book really scary, because Molly was so unhinged and determined to kill Bellatrix. To me, it was a perfect illustration of how devastating war is, when it makes a murderer of even the kindest and most loving people

[@Ari.993]

I share the same feelings. Although the reason that Molly killed Bellatrix was to protect Ginny, it still terrified me that even someone as kind as Molly can commit murder, and everyone else just thinks that’s okay because she was trying to defend her daughter. I’m not saying that I wouldn’t do the same thing under this situation, it just reminds me that war is so cruel that can change almost every person.

[@MariOmor1]

Not to mention, Molly was also the first person to let out an actual swear word in the whole franchise

[@arctrog]

@@Ari.993 it's not murder if it's in the immediate defense of life. Period. Molly might be a killer but she's not a murderer

[@F69oud79triydutdou]

I see it as when you are a mother you will do anything for your children to protect them if that means killing someone so they survive so be it.

[@Fifi-jb3yx]

Yes its really poignant in the books because at that point they were incapacitating enemies not killing them but harry realises they were both fighting to kill and its like they’re both at another level

[@mihAru87]

I had someone like Mrs. Weasley in my life. When I was in high school, a 'not great' family situation happened and I lived with one of my best friends and her family for about five years. Her mom (and the whole family honestly) took me in as their own with unconditional love. They are family to me forever.

[@Moonwalker2923]

Honestly the Weasleys are the best fictional family I’ve ever seen. I wish I was a Weasley. Also, I know someone is gonna be like “too bad they’re all redheads” lmao.

[@jackwriter1908]

Don't worry I am sure there is a spell that can change your haircolour 😂

[@KittyStarlight]

@@jackwriter1908 Good one.

[@trinaq]

Haha, hair colour aside, seeing a happy family in an otherwise dark series helps to bring little moments of levity, which is always welcome.

[@KittyStarlight]

I really more tend to admire the Murrays and the O'Keefes from Madeleine L'Engle's books. (Oh. And by the way. Some of them have red hair too. ^___^)

[@Moonwalker2923]

@@jackwriter1908 noooooo 😭

[@unnecessaryartwork2955]

Thank you so much for this. The Weasleys were always such a bright spot of positivity and wholesomeness in these movies. When I watched them as a kid it always gave me a warm fuzzy feeling to see the family, even if I didn’t understand why at the time.

[@trinaq]

Precisely, we all wish that we could have a family like the Weasleys, but sadly, only a few are able to.

[@Moonwalker2923]

@@trinaq yeah. I’m honestly really happy every time I hear about someone who has a super supportive loving family like that, even if it’s something I can’t have myself. I wish everyone could experience love like that.

[@lovisaafschmidt1123]

There is a scene in The Goblet of Fire in the end of the book. Harry is in the Hospital wing and Molly gives him a warm hug and it is described as the first time Harry gets a from a parent figure. It brings me to tears EVERY TIME (yes, I re-read them a-lot). Molly does really love and care for Harry as if he was her own son. And the fact that she opens her heart, her home and bring him into the family, is just so beautiful. I love the Weasly’s ❤️

[@EA-le7ty]

I liked mostly how Molly's fight went. She strikes back immediately, and you see her shaking slightly for a moment. Works great to me as it shows her not use to the situation (and possibly a bit of fear due to her opponent), but at the same time the fact she won't back down to protect Ginny.

[@MrEvans1]

I liked more the book version, Molly an enraged momma bear, just going full 200% before Bellatrix realises she is in actual danger

[@TheVeyZ]

Mama Bear Mode 24/7 🐻

[@rainbow_doglover8301]

I definitely think they are a super loving family and they all really care about each other, but there are significant problems in their family too. Ron spent his whole life feeling super overshadowed, the boys excluded Ginny from playing sports with them to the point where she had to sneak out to the shed to secretly borrow their broomsticks, and Arthur and Molly argue a lot and keep secrets from each other (ex: Arthur secretly fixing up the car)

[@FabalociousDee]

I was going to bring this up. There are definite healthy elements to the Weasleys, but because there is so much going on in their home, there isn't really time to check in on each kid and see how they're coping. That does leave a lot of gaps to fill in later in life.

[@lindsaymorrison7519]

But I honestly think that's realistic as I don't think there's any such thing as a family with no problems whatsoever. No one is capable of being a perfect parent, spouse, sibling, etc. because no one is capable of being a perfect person. If they learn from their mistakes, which I would argue that the weasleys usually do, then that is what counts. They are still better than a lot of the falsely perfect families we see that at the end of the day actually aren't that deep or connected to one another and haven't had hard conversations. It is absolutely inevitable that you are going to hurt some of the people you love and vice versa. It is absolutely inevitable that conflict is going to happen. But love still wins

[@bellaluce7088]

YES to microaffections! Life inevitably makes withdrawals from our contentment "bank account," but simply being kind and caring with each other (and ourselves) makes such a difference! So appreciate this heartwarming content! ❤

[@felicityedwards1306]

I think one thing we need to talk about is how Molly gave the twins so much crap for not doing well on their O.W.L.s and dropping out of school--they are SO SMART. So incredibly smart, and Molly didn't see it for the longest time because she was so focused on the traditional "book smarts".

[@eryuu4016]

Not to mention she kept taking away their products and throwing them out. She discouraged their dream. She kept forgetting Ron's preferences. Like how he doesn't like corn beef. She dragged on Fluer when Bill got engaged to her, and encouraged Ginny to do the same. She joked about using love potions. She tried to run Grimmauld place when it was *Sirus'* house. Sure she can be kind, but she's overbearing and a tad neglectful.

[@thatguywithanumbrella]

@Elizabeth Bennett everyone in my family is bitter and defects blame, taking no accountability. I have 5 siblings, yes there is a lot of love, only if we don't talk about anything. But that is realistic indeed. Though it leaves a bitter taste in my mouth. Also molly only has so many kids because she was obsessed with having a girl. I wonder what would happen if ginny decided she wasn't like other girls, perhaps she could have been a tom boy or gay, or trans. Would she accept a girl and be happy if one of her boys came out as one? I have so many questions. Molly reminds me so much of my mom, except she didn't get physical like my mom did sometimes. I don't think Molly realizes how neglectful she can be, she seems like the type to deny problems with her kids if it's not putting them in literal danger. I'm always skeptical of wholesome big families in the media for this reason, because of my own experiences with my family. Ginny is literally her golden child that can do no wrong because she's a cis girl that Molly can dress up and do girl stuff with, that has always been a disheartening aspect of their family to me. I always felt bad for Ron because he was so obviously mistreated as the youngest son, something I could relate to. I love Molly, but I wouldn't want her as my mom, because I know she couldn't accept me for who I am, despite being born a girl.

[@RenaissanceRockerBoy]

@@thatguywithanumbrella That’s a good point, I hadn’t thought of that (ginny being her favorite bc she’s a cis girl). I’m a trans guy (trans hp fans with conflicted feelings bc of the author unite!), and I feel like Molly is the type to not really understand and be quite awkward about it, but eventually accept once she realizes her children are happy.

[@AmberyTear]

@@eryuu4016 I appreciate that these books prepared me to expect flawed realistic people in my life.

[@not-a-ghost2206]

@@thatguywithanumbrella this wouldn't happen sadly cause jkr is transphobic Would make an interesting story line though I agree!

[@jackkilman8726]

The Weasleys are the family I wish I'd had growing up. My own family was toxic and emotionally abusive, so watching or reading about the Weasleys gives me a comforting taste of what I didn't have in real life. They're the best family in all of fiction to me.

[@chrissyt8111]

Still my most favourite films I've worked on, even after all this time it just holds a special place for me. Fun Fact, Bellatrix (Helena Bonham Carter) actually fell backwards off that table when fighting with Molly, and nobody in the crew thought to shout "watch out" because I guess the performance was so good.

[@pae7672]

What did you do on the films?

[@chrissyt8111]

@@pae7672 for the last two films I had the pleasure of being on one of the many VFX teams here in London, doing Matchmove (camera tracking, layout and bodytracks) especially for the wands.

[@mistymane52]

The scene with Molly fighting Bellatrix…. I actually really like that she pulled back scared and then came back with more determination and force. It’s like she was defending her daughter. Showing just how scared a mom is inside, but then showing that a mom’s love will push through that fear and give a new determination and bravery to push past that fear and fight for the safety of her children. Made her pushing back all the more powerful and moving

[@jbcatz5]

It was a stunning spell Molly cast, so powerful it stopped Bellatrix’s heart. She’d already lost one son, and wasn’t going to lose her only girl so naturally “NOT MY DAUGHTER YOU BITCH!”.

[@duffgirl216]

Can I just say, in the hands of a mother, that clock is amazing. In the hands of an emotionally abusive/manipulative partner, that clock is terrifying!

[@a.katherinesuetterlin3028]

I was thinking something similar, but more along the lines of an abusive parent -- covert narcissist to be exact. *sighs* Don't get me started. 😖🥺

[@Roronoa2zoro]

@@a.katherinesuetterlin3028 Yeah, imagine seeing that clock on the mantelpiece at the Malfoys' for example. Not as cute then.

[@a.katherinesuetterlin3028]

@@Roronoa2zoro Ugh...that is a stomach-turning thought. 🤢

[@hawkeye038]

I'm a big sucker for the "found-family trope" in writing/stories and the Weasleys are a great example of it. It's the little things they do for Harry to make him feel like family (Christmas gifts that match the rest of the family, making sure that he's fed or has all his books for school) that always get me.

[@m3rrys0ngstr3ss]

"Not my daughter, you bitch!" has to be the most badass line in the entire series. In the book it's even more intense, Molly pushes Harry out of the way and SPRINTS across the Great Hall, saying that Bellatrix is her kill. You get the feeling that she could broken Bell's wand *and* neck with her bare hands.

[@berdlyistrans]

i always loved the Weasleys they are just so loving to one another and despite being huge and low income, they're happy with what they have

[@KittyStarlight]

Sort of like the Cratchits (A Christmas Carol). Only the Weasleys, instead of the Cratchits.

[@hollynixon9570]

The moment when Molly steps in for Ginny just gets me every time. Movie and books: it’s a beautiful show of love and I’m bawling.

[@michaelpetronzio1402]

You guys are the best especially growing up in a group home and having to live in a mental hospital you guys made me realize what a GOOD Family is.

[@TrissTess]

Also been there and was reading the Harry Potter books up and down during the time in the wayward home. It helped me so much to get through it 🪄✨

[@michaelpetronzio1402]

@@TrissTess or do u remember the book A serious of Unfortunate Events . Where they lost their family although it was really scary it reminded me what the world is like some people only want to use you and some want to help but the ones who are evil always had a story and before they were nice or normal people who just went through their own thing

[@TrissTess]

@@michaelpetronzio1402 Sadly this story went by me in my youth, cause I didn't speak English back then and books were expensive..But I remember the Neverending Story and Anne Rice's Interview with a Vampire..

[@ThatBlackPiano]

Johnathan says he wanted Molly to "have her own thing", but she DID; her family! She's desperately wanted a huge family especially after the 1st wizarding war in which she lost most of her immediate family...courtesy of Bellatrix and other Death Eaters. If you guys read ALL the books you'll remember that her worst nightmare was revealed by the boggart she tries to tackle when everyone is cleaning up the Order of the Phoenix's headquarters. The boggart made her see ALL her family members laying around her DEAD. It's okay that her family was always her goal. She wanted a huge family but really wanted a daughter after having so many boys so she dotes on Ginny. Molly reminds me a lot of my mom. When Molly fought Bellatrix and said, "Not my daughter..." it cuts different knowing Bellatrix LITERALLY took several of her family members from her over the two wars.

[@naturesfinest2408]

i agree. The idea that her being a mother and wife isnt enough is baffling to me. Shes a damn good mother and wife. She doesnt want something else. she doesnt want or need anything else. And I think that is beautiful.

[@aromaladyellie]

@@naturesfinest2408 I think what he meant was her having her own identity outside being a mother. Arthur has his love of Muggles, for example. Molly doesn't have much outside her family periphery. If you take Molly by herself, not involving her relationship to those around her, she doesn't have much. She has knitting and cooking. She doesn't have something like pranking or collecting Muggle stuff, or aspirations to be Minister, a love of dragons, an interest in curse-breaking, or Quidditch... Her being a mother and wife is a wonderful thing, but who is she outside that? I think that's what Jono was complaining about. Not that it isn't enough that she's a mother, but that it's all she is. IRL, mothers generally have identities outside motherhood.

[@ThatBlackPiano]

@@aromaladyellie her "thing" is FAMILY. It's what she had as a child before Bellatrix murdered nearly everyone she knew. It was all she wanted as an adult so she and her husband worked together to build back the love in her life that had been snatched from her. THAT was her dream, her goal, and her wish was to have at least one girl...check, check, check. Just because her goal is different from others' it shouldn't be devalued or discounted as though it's not a legit goal. Family takes work and a family this big even more so, but it was the challenge she wanted. Arthur liked learning about Muggles and worked to make that a steady part in his life/career even though others looked down on him for it. Molly wanted a house cozy and bursting with wild energy and love like she'd once had so she put in work to allow that love to build up in her life. I don't see why people don't get it or think that it's not good enough or just flat out not enough. Many women today, literally, wish they could just be a stay at home mom and be the one to educate their kids as well. It's a legit dream to have and it's not at all "easy" to maintain or just do. Kids test ALL your patience and get on ALL your nerves, but you keep on loving them because they are doing what kids do and you wished for them and your job is to teach them how to center and calm down and grow as time passes. Even with all the money in the world such a job is not easy and the Weasleys had so very little money, but they made both their dreams come true together, made others jealous of what they've built, and that's amazing and beautiful to me.

[@darias.6668]

@@ThatBlackPiano that’s the definition of loosing yourself in a relationship. Yes there is a tragic backstory and a noble goal. Still as Ellie pointed out she is basically nothing outside of it.

[@ThatBlackPiano]

@@darias.6668 She did not "lose" herself. that would require her to cease from functioning when she loses one or all family members (her dreams)...she never stops. She continues to fight and rebuild her family and life. She doesn't stop when she almost loses Arthur, nor when Percy betrays and abandons the family, nor when Fred is murdered. "Losing yourself in the dream" implies the dream is all you have going in life. She had more people she loved and lived for so she continued to live and fight. There is/was nothing wrong with her life you just don't want what she wanted....and that's okay. Ya'll need to get used to that because there's lot of that out there in the world, people living a life differently from how YOU would choose to.

[@a35362]

I wish the movies had taken the time to show the break between Percy and his family. That was an awful situation for the Weasleys to be in. Then when he comes back in the final fight, it's really heartwarming. There is also a scene in one of the books at the end of the school year when families are coming to visit and Harry assumes he will be spending the day all alone... and the Weasleys are there and are happy to see him. Awww!

[@lisabibby3222]

I’m just still bitter they cut Teddy Lupin from the last film in the ending! I honestly adore the Weasleys and Fred’s death honestly still gets me every time. I balled my eyes out at that scene AGAIN for the millionth time 😭 I have always wished that scene with Molly and Bellatrix was longer! She was so god same badass!!!!

[@woodneel]

"Word to your dead mother" made me laugh and cry pretty hard. I love... it as much as one can love a persevering beauty born out of pain. Peace be with you, Jon, may you remember from your family kindness and love and leave a legacy worthy of that which you have been given. Alan, may you keep crying tears of healing for all the strangers who need them as much as if not more than you do.

[@yolandacarroll558]

I love the Weasleys. I love the set design of the Burrow. They made it look so homey and welcoming. The Burrow in the movie looked and felt true to the books.

[@CinemaTherapyShow]

The Burrow is the best!

[@CM-pf1xc]

Oh yeah they NAILED the book description

[@anjelica948]

I live in Hawaii, and here on the island we have a word called hanai, and it basically describes an informal adoptive family. And as someone who grew up very much like Harry, in a neglectful, abusive, punishing household, over the years, I have been very fortunate that I’ve had hanai family. My best friend’s family in particular always took me in and treated me like their own. We didn’t always understand each other completely (bc they’re extremely different from me and my family), but the love and the support was never in doubt. And even though I don’t live close to my friend or her family anymore, I know that I could show up on their doorstep without warning and I’d have a safe place. So I definitely connected to Harry’s relationship to the Weasleys, and their interactions always resonated strongly with me.

[@mylifewithmarmalade4624]

That Molly vs Bellatrix is my second favorite moment in all the movies. Such a perfect “mama bear” in the best way moment. My first favorite is McGonegal bringing the castle defenses to life and being very satisfied with herself “I always wanted to use that spell.” It was just so perfectly played.

[@sya286]

It’s a book > movie moment, but how they handle Percy is also a very human part of the family. Molly loves her son, and they welcome him back when he returns. It’s nice.

[@Christina-xc7on]

I hope to be like Mrs Weasley one day. One year I went to summer camp with a friend and her mom wrote me a little letter when she wrote one to my friend. To this day I am incredibly touched that she thought of me like that. Similar to Harry, they also weren't as well off as my family but there was a lot of love in their house and I spent a lot of time over there ❤

[@jessblackproductions]

Molly Weasley is my inspiration as a stay at home mom. I don't want as many kids as her, but if I could make my home as half as warm and inviting as she did with the Burrow and love and protect my kids with same fervour and fierceness, I would consider it a success.

[@mro2352]

Moly was more than just a mother. She was an absolute fighter.

[@alexandrafletcher7853]

They don’t add in Percy’s whole arc in the movies (which is I suppose due to time) but it is a wholesome one. They go through a hard time but he eventually comes around and is there in the most dire time and was probably almost affected as George was my Fred’s death. I feel like it’s there to show that families aren’t perfect but they had a good foundation that was able to withstand it

[@elliotludwig7487]

The comment about taking interest in your child’s interests made me remember something. As a child, I always loved drawing, and still very much do. I remember trying to show my mom a drawing I had done of a Pokémon on my dsi, and I was so proud of myself! I showed my mom immediately, and she just went “that looks great”. She didn’t even look. I told her she didn’t even look at it, and she just? Ignored me? I never went out of my way to show her another drawing again

[@visualartsbyjr2464]

Mom Wesley and Harry remind me of what happened to me. When my mom died a couple of years ago a short time later my best friend’s mom sent me a card (live in different cities) stating that she was basically adopting me. I have always adored her, so reading the card stopped my world for what seemed like an eternity. A bitter sweet time.

[@caesar98]

I've always loved the Wealeys and dreamt of having my own family unit like that. I don't have any contact with my bloodfamily anymore after years of abuse and neglect but I've my chosen family and I know that they'll support me for life and I them. In the future I want my own children and give them the loving and caring home I never had

[@KarolSilva-kl6tw]

OH MY GOD! I don't even know enough words in English to describe how amazing this video is (actually, how all of your videos are). The meaning of words and expressions on the corner of the screen, Dwight's face checking the facts as you say them. What a work, I'm amazed. Cinema Therapy is unquestionably my favourite YT channel.

[@rainoftheflames]

I actually love family dinners... when it’s with friends. My family doesn’t have a set time to eat and we don’t eat together more than once a year or two. It was weird when I first went to my one friend’s house and they had a table that they all sat at and ate. Made me actually appreciate it and realise that I like that.

[@scarletalchemist5158]

Molly is the mom who doesn’t just hold her affection for her kids but even for her kids friends and I think that’s beautiful

[@edwinreid8355]

Mrs Weasely actually reminds me a bit of an Art Teacher I had at Boarding School ( Mrs Amos ) whom I still keep in touch with, even if I generally only see her annually for a catch up. Her warmth, her dress sense, her house & she's a Red Head. In fact she was without doubt the most fair & laidback Teacher in my whole school which wasn't really that big for a Boarding School. Almost the polar opposite of Mr Goldie, our Maths Teacher.

[@Rakshiir]

I think especially Molly was a great example of a strong female character that isn't used that much anymore. She is protective, cares about her children and looks after them. There are alot of examples where she shows how much she cares. All the enchantments of the home also are impressive in my opinion. Her reaction to someone threatening her children also shows alot, she might not be the best wizard in this universe, but as soon as someone threatens a child of her? Damn she can be scary, showing she has it all. Strengh when needed, compassion when needed, and also some tough love in other situations. Such a great character. Sidenote: Jonathans Mother died 3 days before christmas? First of all: what a timing, second: That's my birthday. Talk about coincidences... damn

[@RedMoonSolitary]

Wanting to be a mom and a housewife isn't considered a having good ' strong woman ' characteristics anymore :/

[@fleetskipper1810]

@@RedMoonSolitaryThat’s sad. As a young woman, I pursued a professional career, but my stay-at-home Mom had a powerful influence on my doing that. She encouraged in any choice I am without judgment. I’m not sure I would’ve been able to do it without her bringing me up the way she did.

[@Ratt54]

One thing that always struck me about Rowling's character descriptions is comparing the character to an animal in both appearance and personality. IIRC, Molly was described as a lioness. Quite fitting, I think.

[@stephj505]

​@@Ratt54 Yep. Mrs. Weasley was the perfect combination of understanding and assertive.

[@subratanandy2142]

No ,. people only think she isn't one of the best, but she was !! Slughorn thought so too (Slughorn thought she was wasting her potential by being with the stupid Weasly bloke). Her brothers were incredibly powerful, so was she . Just because she chose to be a homemaker, nobody paid attention to the raw power and knowledge she owns .

[@HalE14]

Another family you should cover is the Calvins/Millers from The Santa Clause movies! I have ALWAYS loved that they are a happy blended family! I love that they legit support each other and love one another. I really don’t see blended families in movies much and I didn’t grow up in one myself but it honestly brings me joy seeing the way it’s portrayed

[@strawberryfrog76]

I just wanna take a moment and thank you for your hilarious editing on top of everything else you do that helps us across some sad scenes, you guys are the best internet dads and I love how your sense of humor always shines through ♥

[@CinemaTherapyShow]

We so appreciate that! Thanks for watching! :)

[@HeatherNickless-vt8zr]

@@CinemaTherapyShow ; I just remembered that the Molly Weasley/Bellatrix LeStrange battle did drag out less than 30 seconds longer in the 7th book than it did in year 7 part 2 film. Although no matter the timing in either version of the story; that pocket battle was meant to be short anyway to save the moments for the more heartbreaking dramatic stuff that comes up later.

[@pamelah1220]

I'm a black woman. If I had a problem with media because authors were racist or sexist I wouldn't be able to read anything written before 1970.

[@angelm.bouchard3722]

Excellent point.

[@hopefakelastname3653]

There is a book series called the ghost mountain shifters series, by Audrey Faye. It is full of , stuffed with micro-affections. it is a werewolf series so if that's not your cup of tea you can duck out. but it is an amazing example of a community/ really large family of people loving each other and helping heal each other from and through the trauma they shared. I adore this series. there's a lot of " I don't think I'm helping by being here, and I don't want to hurt them" and them responding " we want you here, this is how you can be helpful with the things and love you give" it is wonderful and I highly recommend giving it a read. there's also a lot of giving trauma survivors real choices and making sure they know they can actually choose, like we will love you and we won't abandon you if you need to move across the continent.

[@brandiewilliams5395]

Omg! That gallows humor had me laughing so hard. I don't have any siblings but I'll say some darkly humorous stuff about my dad that my mom will just roll her eyes at, because she knows he'd be laughing his butt off over it.

[@desi9007]

"word to your dead mother" craaaacked me up!!! My sister and I make "dead mom jokes" a lot. It's comforting for us, but def earns some weird looks from folks when my sister goes "wanna meet my mom?" (she has her ashes) but I giggle.

[@therestiveone7369]

I remember when we got our hardcover copy of the final book and (as an adult) I stayed up all night reading it. I woke my husband out of a sound sleep with my shriek of joy with Molly's famous line in her duel with Bella. To me, it validated how powerful and important mothers are. But then the final movie came out and while the scene was good and made me smile, it was the family gathering around Fred after his death that revised my opinion. of Molly Weasley, elevating her to one of the strongest characters in that series. It was a beautiful shot that as she is mourning the death of her son, she reaches out to help Ron grieve for his brother. That always stayed with me. That love and compassion is what makes Molly powerful.

[@MysterySteve]

I'm 23 and my family only *really* started doing dinners this year. It seems like a tiny little detail, but it really can make all the difference

[@groofay]

Growing up in an emotionally neglectful family, I desperately wished for a family like the Weasleys. Sometimes intrusive and chaotic, sure, but always with the best intentions and always there for each other.

[@seelistenlearnm7859]

Rowling has said that before she was a mom she worked as a healer at St.Mungos wizard hospital. She’s also a member of the Order and was in the original Order as well.

[@funny_kind_of_day]

It's Julie Walters, you can't not love her. She's a solid gold national treasure.

[@dreamcherub7541]

My family went camping every summer for two weeks. That was our tradition right up until I was about 18 when i stopped going with my parents. We didn't get a lot of game consoles, we didn't go to disney land or anywhere "super special" but those camping trips every summer were the highlight of the year and it was all I needed to feel as rich as some of my school friends were.

[@fdiw]

I want to push back on giving Molly more to do. They she is a fierce protector and nurturing whole person. Not every person needs to be all they can be and do have this side passion or career or whatever. That's part of why I love Molly so much she is so comfortable and happy and fulfilled being who she is.

[@clover2739]

Exactly! Like of people don’t want to be that’s also good, but I’m sick of people nowadays putting down mothers who just love being mothers and make it look like they are less and should be striving for this big career. Molly adores being a mother and everything about it, it’s very clear that’s what she wanted and she’s doing what she loves and has her own hobbies as well. There’s nothing wrong with that and doesn’t make her worse or a character. People like molly do exist and she can be a loving housewife and mother who’s also badass, she doesn’t need to have this huge passion for a career to have this. I think because nowadays people think the definition of girl power and independence of woman is being more less emotional and career driven when you can have all these woman who are different and value different things and that doesn’t mean any are better than the other.

[@justforkicks5112]

Weasley is Our King! Thanks for everything you guys do!

[@geeky_sasha6813]

Another thing worth pointing out is how quickly and easily the family forgives each other. I forget how the movie handled it but I remember when Percy shows up in DH for the final battle and admits he was wrong, his brothers welcome him back right away.

[@CinemaTherapyShow]

Good point!

[@CJ-hh3gx]

I agree that Molly's fight with Bellatrix would've hit harder with Allen's notes. I also felt like it was a little flat for something that would mean so much to a mother. I know my mom would've been ferocious in the same situation, losing or not.

[@jesslyn6813]

Me and my siblings also have gallows humor about losing our mom and tbh, it helped us cope better than anything else

[@jocelynfisher3174]

I absolutely love this family. That's it. I just love the crap out of them.

[@gardensloth0]

Jonathan's Molly Weasley impression is truly a treasure. Happy Tuesday!

[@sharonsomers5342]

You said they didn't "look poor" and that just hit me wrong. In 2007, one of my friends had a lovely home with a ton of regular stuff that made them look solidly middle-class with a good stock portfolio. The housing crisis hit and their stocks just turned into garbage. But that doesn't mean their stuff disappeared. For 2 years they had a lot of ramen dinners. They sold their car to buy a more fuel-efficient cheaper used car. Their kids stopped participating in after-school activities that charged money. Poverty is measured in income, not stuff. Don't judge a place and say "they don't look poor" because that stigma prevents people from accessing the social safety net put there to get us through the tough times. The Weasley parents probably had plenty of disposable income and got a bunch of stuff. Then they had to put 7 kids through Hogwarts. Nothing in that place is new. It's either handmade or old. The house is staying together with magic, not good construction.

[@clover2739]

Exactly! Plus especially for the wizarding world standards they ARE poor. Like they have magic so it would be easier to get some stuff compared to others but clearly from the standard of everyone else and how they are treated, they are poor and are struggling to get by

[@wormfood83]

Yes to literature therapy. Starting with The Brothers Karamazov. Ready, Go!

[@Emma-sq8iz]

Your commitment to honor and support communities other than your own while being professional, kind, and admiring of art is something everyone should aspire to.

[@juliwang3751]

THANK YOU Jonathan and Alan. You brought me to tears when you talked about your experience of “toxic religiousity”. I’ve been “co-parented” by both the Catholic and Anglican communities as I grew up because the constant change in countries/places that I lived in. Back when I was young (90s) the two groups get along just fine in the country I was in (Switzerland). However, this is not so much the case at this time and in the country I have been living in the past four years ago. Unlike you, I’m not that strong. To me, that actually DOES become a religious struggle/crisis for me, because I started to doubt any religious institutions and doubt why God would let this happen. Is this the kind of mindset (toxic religiousity) that should prevail in the kingdom of God. “The feeling that I can’t fit in” is exactly the feeling I have now. Jonathan and Alan thank you so much for making these shows. Not only are they therapeutic and educational to me (a religious geneticist and neuroscientist), they gave me the vocabulary to define and connect my feelings with you (and hopefully people alike that I’d find in the future). God bless you. P.S. My other favourite word you coined was “micro-affection” in “the Weasleys” episode.

[@nataliemarie8942]

Sorry to hear about your mum Jonathan, sending condolences. Was really beautiful what you shared, it sounds like she was a very special lady. I loved this review and how you guys picked up on all the little nuances. Potential review suggestion: the After films- would love to see you guys' take on it :) Also Happy Holidays!!

[@annarenshaw9532]

Now that you’ve made a doctor who reference I feel that we are entitled to a video series analyzing each doctor/companion relationship

[@vivek_02512]

The thumbnail and title put a wide smile on my face What a wholesome way to end my day Thanks ♥️

[@HeatherSanderson-vv9do]

JK Rowing is awesome, she is just standing up for women and I appreciate her so much! I love how the Weasley’s saw Harry and took him in without knowing much about it but saw that he needed love!❤️

[@janiemyers3662]

Hey guys, I love your channel and will keep watching bc I get a lot out of it and think y’all are great! Just a friendly reminder that when you say “so and so sucks” because she has a different opinion than you, that’s the same as looking into your viewers eyes and saying “you suck and we don’t like you” if we share her opinion. Defending one group of people by calling the other group names is hurtful and unnecessary. You can stand in solidarity with one group without insulting the other group. xoxo

[@Laf631]

I had never noticed before, but in the Bellatrix and Molly scene, you can see Arthur protecting Ginny and George in the background. The attention to detail in these moments is insane.

[@mimichu465]

Love you guys so much. Thank you for making your videos they always make me laugh or cry!😁🍄

[@clairiebeario]

The two women I aspire to be are Molly Weasley and Minerva McGonagall. I love Molly's warmth and worry and Minerva's command of respect and adeptness at handling less than savory characters.

[@GwendolynMC]

They made a Doctor Who reference, we need a video on the Doctor and River's relationship!

[@jaciemokidm2287]

Oh man. You killed me when you said to re-write Molly with something other than mom and wife. Many women I have met genuinely love it and I don’t understand why if someone is happy we need to tell them that they need something else (meaning just a career or hobby that others find “successful” or “individual”). There are lots of strong female characters studying at hogwarts and perhaps other moms could have simply been more emphasized if you care that the modern female archetype be represented more. I think traditional roles are unfortunately looked down on now and this suggestion was an example of it. With all of her kids in school, I’d imagine she had some hobbies that she was enjoying anyway.

[@sarahmartinez6203]

The gallows humor me and my siblings have about my dad who passed in 2021 is always quality and I know my dad would have laughed

[@Lady_Katherine]

I love the expression on the twin's faces at 2:57 😳

[@Guzel-o8w]

I cried so hard watching this realising how much I want a happy family and feel love

[@KZebrastripes]

i have been going through family drama all year on and off, this episode is so heartwarming. i've also been in a funk for the past month and watching Jonathan doing a molly weasely impression made me laugh my ass off😂😂

[@JonathanDecker]

I'm so sorry about your funk! Happy to help in my small way.

[@patrickdorman5933]

Technically, the Weasley's weren't poor. Arthur made a good salary, it was just stretched to accommodate all of them.

[@TheCrimsonIdol987]

Arthur always struck me as a classic British dad, loving, but very traditional.

[@hannahcrossett3415]

I'd watch it if you started a Literature Therapy channel.

[@hannahcrossett3415]

I can help you with it, too, if you'd like a writer. I'm a pre-licensed mental health counselor myself who is almost done with my doctorate to teach counselors. I'd love to team up with you to make it happen. I'm on Instagram.

[@e_moo]

I think the reason why I love Harry Potter so much was because of the Weasleys. 10 year old me very much wanted to be part of the golden trio to experience a family like this. They just made everything fun and loving and it was something younger me( possibly even older me now) badly craved. I still do hope to encounter a family like the weasleys (but thats kinda hard to find). That takes a lot of work, maturity, dedication, and love

[@kevinschoenfeld6294]

Can't go wrong with Harry Potter!! The Wesley's were a great family