THE WHOLE TRUTH ABOUT NIG WOMAN WHOSE HUSBAND GOT MARRIED TO ANOTHER LADY WITHOUT HER KNOWLEDGE.

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THE WHOLE TRUTH ABOUT NIG WOMAN WHOSE HUSBAND GOT MARRIED TO ANOTHER LADY WITHOUT HER KNOWLEDGE.
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@anthoniaalonge8200
@anthoniaalonge8200 Жыл бұрын
My daughter this is too much, whether you check his phone or not, just pray your husband did not come in contact with this devlish women.l am telling you out of my own experience l was 60+when it happens to me He came begging by that time every thing has turn upside down for him,he was also seriously sick,l forgive l just stay jeje in my own house,he eventually died My daughter it's a bad experience,if the woman is a one way woman like me (if she's the type that doesn't flirt)
@comfortmarthaoginuche806
@comfortmarthaoginuche806 11 ай бұрын
I only see a devilish man here, they tell lots of lies to involve these women in thier dirty lifestyle, then the two women begin the fight at each other and the man becomes a good man, wake up dear women, yoruba women have no problem sharing thier men though, but some women despite tribe cannot handle it that's why the evil man is disappointed,
@alisaalex3276
@alisaalex3276 8 ай бұрын
😮
@gladdigitalprints8097
@gladdigitalprints8097 5 ай бұрын
Lord have mercy
@CA-tq7kl
@CA-tq7kl Жыл бұрын
Neze, thanks for talking about this story. This type of story is so common with Diaspora wives. Diaspora wives work several shifts in the cold and spend the money to support their husband's business ventures in Nigeria. I have said that no wife should give her hard earned money to any man unless the business is in where she and her children lives either in UK, US , Canada etc. If he want to do the business in Nigeria, let him do it all by himself. Diaspora wives, dont work ur tail off to use ur money to fund another wife in Nigeria. If ur husband goes to Nigeria every year,twice or more in a year, know that there is another woman in Nigeria. If he want to go to Nigeria, I advice u go with him. Don't use ur money to build house for another woman to live in. U work so hard overseas, to entrust it over a decieving man. God will help u all.
@battleforwoodyplushshorts1268
@battleforwoodyplushshorts1268 Жыл бұрын
My sister, you are very correct. 👍 👍 👍 👍 👍 . 💯 💯 💯 . Men are very stupid and heartless .
@Iphie2019
@Iphie2019 Жыл бұрын
I think the advice should be if it ain’t working look out for your sanity. If one needs to do FBI work in marriage, is it still a loving marriage? It’s not hard to see when one ain’t wanted or when one is being used. No parent will want their daughter to be used as a doormat by a spouse in the name of marriage. I come in peace.
@mathewosayande4144
@mathewosayande4144 Жыл бұрын
I would like to meet with nezeepeperepe one on one, ❤
@kind2423
@kind2423 Жыл бұрын
As a diaporian Nigerian I can confirm this to be true. My father would leave for Nigeria at least once every year from the US and leave my mother behind with four children. He had a mistress in Edo state and she even had the guts to call our home. I’m not sure what it is with “some” Nigerian men who think they can treat their wives and children anyhow. It’s traumatizing and children do not forget. My sisters still remind my father of what he has done years ago until this day. So think twice before make foolish mistakes that can affect everyone around you
@stephnoraeddyson2177
@stephnoraeddyson2177 Жыл бұрын
First of all well said....how can the wife or wives living abroad always park up their luggages going to Nigeria each time he want to visit home,it doesn't fully make sense because most of these women are busy working for hours everyday most of their stay home times are major holiday/s. Why can't we trust the man we live with, so very important you discuss your intentions and purpose with your partner before thinking of Settling down with that man or woman so if it's not longer aligning you can start speaking up then if nothing can be done, you can sign out, Men that are intentional doesn't misbehave period
@MelodyMwakalombe
@MelodyMwakalombe Жыл бұрын
Am I the only Zambian who thinks Nezeville is the most good spoken Nigerian KZbinr? Boy or boy, do you act in Nollywood too?
@zurieldivine8071
@zurieldivine8071 Жыл бұрын
She's just the best. I love her always❤
@maryjuan508
@maryjuan508 Жыл бұрын
You can say that again! I have always said she was born for this.
@osinachiamuzuo4444
@osinachiamuzuo4444 Жыл бұрын
😁😁you've never seen something, her hubby is the luckiest man on earth. I swear I sincerely do not love women even my besties as deep n genuinely as I love everything about Neze,she's such a dull n a queen of our castle💞❤👄
@EniolaIjaduolagoodnews
@EniolaIjaduolagoodnews Жыл бұрын
She is a barrister/lawyer by profession. So her English is expected to be sound and proven. Not minding the old lawyers' English.
@mmanduruth4791
@mmanduruth4791 Жыл бұрын
@@EniolaIjaduolagoodnews.... very true
@risimamabunda2952
@risimamabunda2952 Жыл бұрын
Neze’s storytelling skills are out of this world 😎
@candicet.9565
@candicet.9565 Жыл бұрын
True talk
@osinachiamuzuo4444
@osinachiamuzuo4444 Жыл бұрын
😁honestly, I give it to her💪🤝👏👍
@hariethjohn1729
@hariethjohn1729 Жыл бұрын
She is just good in her job
@funkeoniya8568
@funkeoniya8568 Жыл бұрын
Any working class woman should invest on herself and her children not husband , because husband belong to every woman
@helen9681
@helen9681 2 ай бұрын
Yes, Neze would be very good at narrating stories for children - they would be mesmerised. Perhaps she could also write books for children, books with moral messages about good behaviour and virtues, so as to provide moral education.
@mojisolaadebowale-marykayb6701
@mojisolaadebowale-marykayb6701 Жыл бұрын
Evil parent in-laws covering up.
@lorettemaufor1088
@lorettemaufor1088 4 ай бұрын
Trust and believe that most parents will support their son. That's why never give your all to any human. Trust me. Not even your husband. All of us humans are flawed
@amakachima-kanu9089
@amakachima-kanu9089 Жыл бұрын
No doubt this story is so heartbreaking. I wept for Oyindamola. The betrayal is in quantum measures. She shld forgive him as a true Christian but does not need to stay married to him only for this reason...her life and her children's lives safety because the intruder is armed for a full take over with her diabolic ammunition. Her doom will be served in due season. Oyindamola, if you 're reading this, my heart breaks for you but see, you'll be good. Whatever happens, commit to survive. You will laugh last. God sees u and pls. Let Him fight for you. Just hold ur peace.
@nka8786
@nka8786 Жыл бұрын
I don't use my money to play love. My father may he rest in peace warned me never to ever to forget that a husband is not my blood relative, that even blood relatives can betray u, that it is not my job to build any man financially only support and encourage.
@technophobe1912
@technophobe1912 Жыл бұрын
Best advise a loving father could give his daughter. You are blessed to have been advised well by your loving father❤
@nka8786
@nka8786 Жыл бұрын
@@technophobe1912 Yes, he loved me very much , I miss him everyday.
@lorettemaufor1088
@lorettemaufor1088 4 ай бұрын
Thank your father everyday
@dorisalfred2760
@dorisalfred2760 3 ай бұрын
You are a wise daughter for listening to your dad.
@tiyan8573
@tiyan8573 Жыл бұрын
It’s almost the story of my life. She will be okay because there’s life after a divorce.
@tinachizo6944
@tinachizo6944 Жыл бұрын
From some other source, I heard that it was an elaborate high-society wedding, and they gave instructions for nobody to take pictures of the couple together. So the guests at the wedding knew what played out. The wife is a registered nurse in the US, so he was cashing out and wanted to keep her for his pocket. Wicked man.
@kind2423
@kind2423 Жыл бұрын
What’s going with Nigerian RNs in the US? A lot of them are going through nonsense like this
@mamab2937
@mamab2937 Жыл бұрын
Wow Some men are evil
@ceemu8419
@ceemu8419 Жыл бұрын
I have gone thru dis. Tnx neze for telling my story I used to cry each time I recall but listening to your voice helped me fight back my tears and I have moved on from today
@Nezeville
@Nezeville Жыл бұрын
I 💜 you
@christisgodd
@christisgodd Жыл бұрын
do you want to remarry ?
@CA-tq7kl
@CA-tq7kl Жыл бұрын
​@@christisgodd If she will want to remarry , she will have to be healed first. It's hard to trust a man again after going thru that ordeal of decieving and lies from a man one was loyal to.
@christisgodd
@christisgodd Жыл бұрын
@@CA-tq7kl very difficult indeed. It's like going back to the kindergarten
@elohoroyimita9006
@elohoroyimita9006 Жыл бұрын
The lord is your strength
@atty7697
@atty7697 Жыл бұрын
I hope they both reap the wind. May the man not go unpunished for traumatising his children.
@caramelkisses8396
@caramelkisses8396 Жыл бұрын
My heart really goes out to her and her children. It's apparent that what she didn't know, would've eventually killed her. Imagine if she hadn't found this out, they would've ended her, maybe the children and her mother. Further, i don't understand how the side wife has nerve to be upset as if she were the one betrayed, lied to, and made a fool of! She should forgive, so it will be well with her, but i don't think I would encourage her to take him back. This is only the beginning of what the husband is capable of... he doesn't even care about the children, with all the juju the mom found in her house. He is a very danderous man! God will punish him and his family!!!
@marizzlesmagik2740
@marizzlesmagik2740 Жыл бұрын
Amen!!
@francaaustin3364
@francaaustin3364 Жыл бұрын
I have a philosophy that has helped me in life: what the ears do not hear does not upset the stomach. Women should even in the midst of love and loyalty learn to have a life, secure these lives, and make sure that everything you jointly work for must have your both names in full; not Mr and Mrs, but Mr Jacob James and Mrs Stephanie Oluchi Jacob-James. Wisdom is the principal thing, women!!!
@CA-tq7kl
@CA-tq7kl Жыл бұрын
Even if u have both names on all properties. U have to keep ur eyes open. I know a woman who her husband goes to Nigeria every year. The wife died and her husband remarried and brought another woman from Nigeria in 14 months after her death. Who knows whether it is the sidechick that killed her. The jointly owned properties is now jointly owned with another woman. Being naive and Ignorance can kill . God will save us from women who want to reap where they don't sew.
@yvettewilliams5967
@yvettewilliams5967 Жыл бұрын
Franca Austin, EXACTLY!!!!
@yvettewilliams5967
@yvettewilliams5967 Жыл бұрын
The other thing is ladies, be very business minded. Properties being purchased should also include the children’s names and have both parties putting down EQUAL portion in down payments. Make sure that no activity can occur on the family home in the abroad(loan), without you being notified for signature. She TRUSTED this charlatan. Be active in ANY transactions, don’t give over your strength. She trusted him wholeheartedly. Ladies, ALWAYS keep one eye open, alert. Love doesn’t mean that you have to give over your astuteness. I feel so sad for this lady. Another blogger, OBODO OYINBO TV, did a complete program on this couple and the details of the betrayal, with audiences calling in. Please check it out, it had over 25,000 views.
@hlengiwemasondo2858
@hlengiwemasondo2858 Жыл бұрын
Some men don't care about their children once they start dating another woman.
@kind2423
@kind2423 Жыл бұрын
I don’t blame him I blame silly women who give useless man like this a chance. What business do you have with a man who betrayed the women he vowed to and the mother of his children yours will be any better? Your own is coming x 2
@lorettemaufor1088
@lorettemaufor1088 4 ай бұрын
My dear. Look at yul Edoche?? Once a man I'd gone it's done. Let them go. Their story in your destiny is over
@hujamayagaye6045
@hujamayagaye6045 Жыл бұрын
Let her run for her life and thank God she found out about her husband's double life, going back to him will not change a grown man like him, he will do it again 😢
@evelynchukujama451
@evelynchukujama451 Жыл бұрын
Pls run for your dear life and your children. Pls don't accept him back cos he will move to the next lady. The mother inlaw is a long throat woman. It is a shame tho
@mau1150
@mau1150 Жыл бұрын
For her SANITY, and the SAFETY OF HER KIDS. Hold on to God, he will SURELY fight your battle.
@lorettaowobamirin8053
@lorettaowobamirin8053 Жыл бұрын
Correct! Women can be investigative journalists if they want to.
@agnesnzomene4640
@agnesnzomene4640 Жыл бұрын
OMG, I completely relate. She is lucky it was only after a year that she found out. It could have been 7 or 14 years and by then would have been in a 20 (or 27) years marriage without knowing anything. Some mothers-in-law are just impossible. I am yet to understand the rationale behind their decision to support their male children to hurt other people's children. May God help us all I applaud her courage to leave for her sanity. Prayers for her and her children.
@Kalin3284
@Kalin3284 Жыл бұрын
She should have sued him for bigamy. Of course she can forgive him later and visit him in prison 'for old times sake' )actually, just to make sure he's still there). What a snake!
@osinachiamuzuo4444
@osinachiamuzuo4444 Жыл бұрын
😝😝😝🤣funny ooh,sounds so normal,true n funny aswell. A beautiful name for the guy,SNAKE
@fauxgars736
@fauxgars736 Жыл бұрын
True but if he can betray her like that he can ki ll her. Good thing she left.
@lawrencekunda9253
@lawrencekunda9253 Жыл бұрын
The man is evil wicked he can even kill her
@ronkebossey4413
@ronkebossey4413 Ай бұрын
She can still do that. That is what I expected her to do before filing a divorce. Besides, that husband and second woman will suffer their evil did. That is for sure.
@annjoseph8197
@annjoseph8197 Жыл бұрын
As I listened to this story I cry, this is exactly what happened to me, but mine did not eventually marry her, I found out after 10 years, men in diaspora are wicked, their relatives are worse, they will never tell you. Even though I decided to forgive because of children, my life is not the same. I have been trying to move on but it's not easy. If is possible I would have loved to get in touch with this lady.
@promiseukpong9043
@promiseukpong9043 Жыл бұрын
Please stay strong ❤
@bibaolaitan5189
@bibaolaitan5189 Жыл бұрын
I hope you didn't get back to him..
@dorisike9153
@dorisike9153 8 ай бұрын
Exactly, please be strong. I don't think it's adviceable to go back to him please. Ask God to give you à strong mind. Its hard but it's possible. Try to work on yourself, focus your energy on yourself, your kids and what makes you happy and you will definitely heal❤
@kebomalunga1974
@kebomalunga1974 Жыл бұрын
I don’t know how will I have handle this, but I know it would have been good. I am so sad for this woman. If a man does not want you have his phone, he is hiding something, and woman intuition is always right. This in-laws are always involved especially if they get money for silence. Thank you Neze as always brilliant story telling.
@amanda51600
@amanda51600 Жыл бұрын
Yes those men who like to go into the toilet and shower with their phones pls watch out , there is something they are hiding
@nonyegladys9163
@nonyegladys9163 Жыл бұрын
My dear many things can happen, the most painful is that devoted wife's are always the victim of such ,
@lorettaowobamirin8053
@lorettaowobamirin8053 Жыл бұрын
Waow!!! This is deep. I don't know when women would begin to know that most men are consistently, inconsistent, unreliable and heartless. The truth is, they don't ever get away with their numerous betrayals! It's just a matter of time. Women should not be caught unawares. Always be prepared. You can never tell the magnitude of betrayal, but it usually comes. God help us. Amen.
@millicentogola9911
@millicentogola9911 Жыл бұрын
Girl, you're good at what you do , I can watch your videos the whole day.
@Nezeville
@Nezeville Жыл бұрын
I appreciate that
@osinachiamuzuo4444
@osinachiamuzuo4444 Жыл бұрын
Me too, she's my icon of intelligence and beauty and my own sister too, can't wait to meet Neze one on one,much love honey'm
@olamao786
@olamao786 Жыл бұрын
I will personally not allowed such man back in my life. The separation might be hard but time will be the healer. I have seen such amount of deceit in my life
@nikkyloveg1941
@nikkyloveg1941 Жыл бұрын
Unbelievable!!!. Another Yul and May saga. Pls women always stay on your knees in prayers for your marriage. Do not settle for a second wife. God will give you your OWN HUSBAND. This is my prayer for every woman. What God cannot do will never never exist. To you my Girl and Friend Neze I give you ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ ❤ ❤👍👍👍
@amehka5416
@amehka5416 10 ай бұрын
This happens all the time in Africa.
@PstChristy
@PstChristy Жыл бұрын
This life na waoooo😢😢😢😢...The heart of man is indeed wicked...
@Unapologeticallyme89
@Unapologeticallyme89 Жыл бұрын
Your narrative skills are out of this world. This story is really heartbreaking. I pray for God’s protection over the ex wife and her children. Whatever evil they plan for her will return back to sender.
@kksal4375
@kksal4375 Жыл бұрын
My main takeaway: Always put God at the center of your marriage. Thanks Neze for sharing this story so we can learn something from it. This is an extremely tough situation, and I pray for God's strength for this woman and her kids.
@ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood
@ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood Жыл бұрын
She must have put God in her marriage. Both parties need to put God at the centre, not the woman alone.
@CA-tq7kl
@CA-tq7kl Жыл бұрын
These stories always happen when they want to start business in Nigeria or when they want to build a house in Nigeria. The funny part is they want to get ur money to start the business or build the house. Why don't u do it by urself. If it's only ur money, I won't care about the second wife u have. We just part our ways .Period. It hurts when I put all my hard earned money down and he use it to take care of another woman. How will he feels if I get money from him to take care of another man in Nigeria when I go home.
@lorettemaufor1088
@lorettemaufor1088 4 ай бұрын
I tell all my friends in the US once your husband start talking about a business in Africa, know it's time to tighten up.
@amakachima-kanu9089
@amakachima-kanu9089 Жыл бұрын
Sweet Neze, I can never have enough of ur content and ur delivery is top notch. Keep it up babe. You rock.
@irenedontoh9692
@irenedontoh9692 6 ай бұрын
This one na Yul and Judy o. Hmmmmm. So painful. Oyindamola, be strong. God's got you.
@colorfunch
@colorfunch Жыл бұрын
I have read the story somewhere but I still have to come here to listen to your beautiful narration. You’re too much Sis❤
@roberteze-cu4mp
@roberteze-cu4mp Жыл бұрын
🎉🎉
@missdella8
@missdella8 Жыл бұрын
This is a blessing in disguise she'll one day see that! Thank God for the revelation at the right time. Its okay to be hurt, it's okay to feel the shock. His family is verrrryyyy aware of all these. Eeeeeiiiii people are wicked, he'll reap what he's sown at the right time! Gosh you're an excellent orator... lovvveeeeee from Ghana 🇬🇭.
@mariaassumptaobieruwou399
@mariaassumptaobieruwou399 Жыл бұрын
Tears was running down my eyes, I will fight back but need to be strong for my 4 beautiful children,
@gloriatsaro-dii4831
@gloriatsaro-dii4831 Жыл бұрын
Neze, thanks for this thorough explanations that you have provided. Some men are worse than dogs ! No matter what a woman does you can't please a man at the end you are paid back in this manner. Any man that puts a password on his phone and doesn't allow his wife access to his phone has a double standard life. The wife should be very careful and watchful . Women have natural instinct that reveals any abnormal behaviour. Do not be in a hurry to speak out , watch him for sometimes and the truth will unfold by itself. Every woman should prepare and update themselves, be financially independent, educationally up to date, psychologically and mentally stable . Keep yourself and children on a balance scale ! You are not praying for evil to befall your family. But watch and pray ! This is what the bible says . Instead of being traumatised in a relationship, go your separate ways and be alive for your children.
@deborahakhibi5241
@deborahakhibi5241 Жыл бұрын
@funkeoniya8568
@funkeoniya8568 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this massage, bible says a wise woman build is home, when a wise woman mistakingly married her enemy as a husband , the evil husband will uproot the home and plants sadness, sorrow and everlasting murn in to the heart of wise woman
@helenojo1347
@helenojo1347 Жыл бұрын
Moral of this story is that women should be independent, educated and empower yourself with everything that will not make men treat you this way, I think they're just taking the piss because our culture allows this behaviour, it's learned behaviour and it has been propagated by our culture. Our eyes are opening now. Women, let us use all the powers that God has given us, we have our strong intuition, we are strong, we have God's backing. A man like this will definitely get what is coming to him, karma will sure knocks on his door, he thinks he's enjoying now, it is his latter end that he will know there is a God is gives recompense for every action we do and every wrong decision. Oyindamola please don't consider going back, your children needs you, don't let them kill you, they're capable of killing you because they need your cash to live. Run for your life. As for d other woman, she wants to reap where she has not sown, God will deal with her don't worry, it's a matter of time. Oyindamola do take care of your mental health, God is on your side, you will laugh last!
@lorettemaufor1088
@lorettemaufor1088 4 ай бұрын
I bet that man had no job here in the US. He will come and beg so she can continue to sponsor him and his wife.
@florenceonuora4574
@florenceonuora4574 Жыл бұрын
Nne, I love the way you speak, u are eloquent and audible with the smile you put from time to time
@mamalin
@mamalin Жыл бұрын
This is the height of wickedness. It shall never be well with Bunmi and Tunde. It won’t end well for them. May they experience the sadness and sorrow this woman went through with her children. If you’re no longer interested in a woman talk with her and part ways mutually. You don’t have to treat another human being like this. Demons in human form! They will pay dearly for this! It’s a matter of time. This thing pained me to the bone though I don’t know any of them😢
@chynwejoiez3217
@chynwejoiez3217 Жыл бұрын
Tell them o! Just tell her and she would appreciate your honesty. You work out arrangements for kids upkeep and every body goes their way amicably.
@atweiwilson2492
@atweiwilson2492 3 ай бұрын
This is time to have a good relationship with God. Teach your children to know God as their source and creator. Daily devotions at home with them will help them tremendously. God is with you.
@lilianobi9731
@lilianobi9731 Жыл бұрын
Ahhhh!! Neze you are an amazing story teller. You keep me captivated till the end.
@enobongimaha2012
@enobongimaha2012 Жыл бұрын
This is my story too. I experienced something similar but l acted differently. I have written a book on this. The writing of my book was therapeutic for me.
@dorisobiora
@dorisobiora Жыл бұрын
Neze you are sooooooooooooooooooo gifted. This story is so hurtful! I am TEAM CHECK PHONE!!!!
@caramelkisses8396
@caramelkisses8396 Жыл бұрын
Neze, Nollywood is calling 🤣😍 It stands to reason that if you narrate this well, your writing skills are amazing!! *** And for sure, women can lead these organizations in regards to investigative skills***
@zainabibrahim293
@zainabibrahim293 Жыл бұрын
Neze was formally in Nollywood. Although briefly. 🥰
@caramelkisses8396
@caramelkisses8396 Жыл бұрын
@@zainabibrahim293 oh really? Lol
@DolineDibabonga
@DolineDibabonga Жыл бұрын
I personally find it very necessary to check my spouse's phone cus i don't like being taken for a fool. Men's phones have a lot of hidden secrets.
@carollaker
@carollaker Жыл бұрын
This story left my heart pounding so hard, It's better to check a phone and know my stand, Let her let it go and move on, holding on to such a person is toxic and she could even get killed if she holds on to him and his family
@funkeoniya8568
@funkeoniya8568 Жыл бұрын
You are right, thank God for her life, this is exactly what happened to a Christian singer's osinachi who married to her best enemy, a wicked husband whom later sent osinachi to earlier grave
@veronaacampora
@veronaacampora Жыл бұрын
just discover your channel of all the Nigerian I watch you are the most authentic vlog and a true story teller keep being real
@GracefulKnots
@GracefulKnots Жыл бұрын
She is very authentic. I only listen to her and one other person
@chynwejoiez3217
@chynwejoiez3217 Жыл бұрын
Please I have a question. Why are some men scared of honesty? What do they think will happen if they tell their wives they are no longer interested in the marriage. Is it that they think their women are so dramatic and they won't allow agree to divorce? Because if you ask many married women, the issue isn't the cheating but the deception. Why do these men would choose to string their wives along in their adulterous actions. Simply tell her the truth, you'll be surprised that she won't overreact the way you think. In fact you may realize that she too is tired of you, and is seeking a new path in life. You can now work out arrangements on how to take care of children, if you have any, and share assets amicably. See, no drama at all! But they just won't, so what really drives the need for deception and forcing a woman into 'polygamy'? Is it a case of ego? Wanting to eat ones cake and have it? Saving face so that their male peers will say they handled the first wife and she can't go anywhere? Or just pure wickedness?
@CA-tq7kl
@CA-tq7kl Жыл бұрын
The men want to decieve so that they can continue to get the wife's earned money to finance their sidechick. They don't want to leave the wife but they want the sidechick. They want to eat their cake and have it too.
@contemplatinggod2791
@contemplatinggod2791 Жыл бұрын
He wanted them yo fake a lon against their home, thats prt of why he couldn’t tell her so he can cheat her even out of what she owns!
@PstChristy
@PstChristy Жыл бұрын
Can't resist your content Neze...watching from Manila Philippines ❤
@joanisuama9516
@joanisuama9516 Жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness! You are such a great storyteller. Well done.
@Janieveraglobal
@Janieveraglobal Жыл бұрын
Tell her to find strength..I know its painful..but she will be just fine.Its best that she moved on. Let her do her best to protect those children. This story reminds of the yul edochie story....at the end of the day the mothers peace of mind is important and the childrens as well. Let her guard her life and her childrens life by distancing herself from the evil ex husband and his mistress. Never love any man more than you love yourself. Its well with you
@ia4228
@ia4228 Жыл бұрын
This is just my story as we are speaking now. I have been married to my husband for 23th years, in the UK with my four children. I just found out that my husband has been married for over a year now, in Nigeria and he hid it from me until I found out by myself. It's so painful 💔 I don't know what to do.
@omabkc3513
@omabkc3513 Жыл бұрын
This story is heartbreaking! Am lost for words !
@maureenchukwuemeka6279
@maureenchukwuemeka6279 Жыл бұрын
Even if she forgives, the husband is definitely not willing to let go of the other woman after all the wedding things with her and continuous frolicking with her? Even with the juju stuff which is the most devious thing haba, she should just move on, it’s gonna be hard and the pain will never go, but with her total trust in God, she and her children will be fine.
@pdm8446
@pdm8446 Жыл бұрын
She already filed for divorce
@XoliMlilo-pn4db
@XoliMlilo-pn4db 8 ай бұрын
I really enjoy how you tell these stories..u tell it so well...Now about this story..I feel in all honesty..woman should stop putting their trust on man..to build themselves and to love their kids more then man..These days man have no remorse and woman have no guilty conscience...I have learned to take care of myself more, love my kids more and build myself..so that if anything has to happen that i loose my marriage..I would move on the next day..I learned to accept that yes my man is capable of doing what other man r doing.. Praying at the same time that his not.. Acceptance can bring peace in ur heart.. Nigerian man r not to be trusted at allllll.... Learn from this story ladies and fix urself while u can..pray more and protect urself n home.. spiritually..
@Roza_Victorious
@Roza_Victorious Жыл бұрын
God had given her and the children second chance at life. She should leave that man and never look back.
@NeneBlessing
@NeneBlessing Жыл бұрын
This is the height of wickedness! This is indeed a sad story!
@ifeyinwaobi869
@ifeyinwaobi869 Жыл бұрын
😢😢this story got to me. The worst is that they always lie, thinking that every woman they deal with is a fool. No woman should go through this horrible experience in life. The nightmares won't go away...never 😢
@ngozidibia7278
@ngozidibia7278 Жыл бұрын
As sad as it is, I am glad she found out what was going on & that as painful as it was for her, she made the decision to leave him.
@chinyereubani7075
@chinyereubani7075 Жыл бұрын
I love how you analyze issues. Your channel is always my go to when any new gist is in town Gisike my sister
@eternitychannel5715
@eternitychannel5715 Жыл бұрын
Heart breaking story, everyone is asking Her To for give. Yes , forgiveness is good but let us not Forget, forgiveness is a process. She is still in a place of shock. She need To first runaway with thé children, file for divorce and then Process what has just happen To her before consciously making a décision of letting go. May thé good grant Her thé grâce To put herself together and act accordingly for Her n children safety. May the peace of God be with in Her heart. Much love ❤❤❤
@Happytobehereee
@Happytobehereee Жыл бұрын
People are always telling women in situations like this and more to just forgive and take him back….literally ask yourself and think…if it was you would you?…
@mr-nature0
@mr-nature0 11 ай бұрын
I've been watching your videos for a while now, I really enjoy the way you use vocabularies and idioms. I learn in every video I watch, thank you.
@CruiseWithBee
@CruiseWithBee Жыл бұрын
May God Protect her and her kids. It's his lost not hers . He will cry and no one will tell him sorry .. such a betrayal and cheat are too Grevious . She and the kids will heal with time. They should Co parent peacefully so the kids will not suffer much mentality. This man is another Yul . Tufiakwa
@pdm8446
@pdm8446 Жыл бұрын
How do you even do-parent with those evil man. A man who has placed fetish things in your home. Can you trust that he means well for the children? Can you trust your children with him?
@margaretdevine9755
@margaretdevine9755 Жыл бұрын
Wow, unfortunately, stories like this are almost becoming the norm nowadays. If I were in the first wife’s shoes I will forgive the man but I will not take him back because his not remorseful. This is a traumatic experience I will take myself and my children to therapy and counseling so we can come out on top at the end of all the drama. What goes around comes around, the other woman will surely get the abundant harvest from the seed she had sown. And for the women who are always looking for an already-made man with no respect or regard for marriages beware you are sowing generational curses into your lineage. I am almost certain 12 years ago a man wanted to marry this other woman but she told him she is not born to suffer but now she want to eat another women’s crops. God dey no be poor man prayer oh. God is alive and well and he fights for those that call on Him.
@ugoa.299
@ugoa.299 9 ай бұрын
Well said and I say A men to that!
@akintolatiwalade5600
@akintolatiwalade5600 Жыл бұрын
It's painful. The husband couldn't have hid it for long, though, as Bunmi would likely succeed in chasing her out. Hmm! May God heal her & her children, and restore her.
@priscillianzerem5827
@priscillianzerem5827 Жыл бұрын
Imagine sitting down to gist one on one with Neze! Chai... It would be so much fun... Thanks for your story telling
@covidvaseline81
@covidvaseline81 Жыл бұрын
I have come to a point in life where nothing surprises me. In my own opinion, if there is communication and true love in any marriage, so many things will be curbed before it will go that sour. We all know the difference between what is right and wrong and there's no justification for any wrong act whatsoever. the same way a man has eyes for other women is vice versa with the women, but most women out of discipline stick to one man. E no mean say anoda man no dey enter her eye oo... Men take note!!! because women are learning. I don go
@unoswartbooi
@unoswartbooi Жыл бұрын
Please Nze..come back and update us on how she doing now. I really pray she and her children are all fine. As for "privacy" story..my dear as soon as you say "I do" there is nothing private between you 2, nothing at all. The husband's cellphone is the wife's and vice-versa. As for forgiving him..Yes she should forgive him for her own piece of mind but never go back to him. What he did to her is too painful. As for the kids..they will grow up well with good counseling...
@suh-nfortangyie2729
@suh-nfortangyie2729 Жыл бұрын
Great narration as always. Fluency, vivid imagery and voice dynamics bring story to life. A story which affirms that happiness is but an occasional episode in a general drama of pain!(T. Hardy).
@chinyerenwude8046
@chinyerenwude8046 Жыл бұрын
Brilliant story telling
@olaoreajayi9760
@olaoreajayi9760 Жыл бұрын
This is beyond me. Father Lord, have mercy. The Lord will stand up for you Oyindamola and the children. Wow! Why human are wicked to each other ?
@faustineadoboe563
@faustineadoboe563 Жыл бұрын
This is so sad 😭 . The betrayal and deceit is simply too much. God will punish this man according to his deeds 😭😭😭
@ugoa.299
@ugoa.299 9 ай бұрын
A big Amen!
@Ekwy2023
@Ekwy2023 Жыл бұрын
Those people are crazy. What an advice? This level of betrayal is not a joke
@joygood2020Vlog
@joygood2020Vlog Жыл бұрын
Happy Easter dear, No privacy in marriage,we have to check each other phone every time,this is also a big lesson to learn from and thanks for sharing🎉🎉
@oluwoletoyin2191
@oluwoletoyin2191 Жыл бұрын
Great analytical skill demonstrated !
@mohamedmoijueh4387
@mohamedmoijueh4387 Жыл бұрын
Neze you are so estactic in your presentation thanks for a job well done, keep it up madam you are second to none
@naomiokoe3221
@naomiokoe3221 Жыл бұрын
What a sad sad sad story. That man will get his punishment on earth. 😡😡😡
@nonye3155
@nonye3155 Жыл бұрын
My beautiful sister, you are amazing. I cried. Some men are so wicked. May almighty God see her through. She shouldn't go back to that evil man.
@cassmaie
@cassmaie Жыл бұрын
There's no point checking your husband phone for any evidence of infidelity. The unpleasant discovery is not worth the headache and trauma....! If God wants you to know you will surely find out, like this lady did through her friends. There's a Yoruba proverb: the stick that was used to beat the senior wife is what will be used on the junior wife....! It's very silly that the wife left the house for the cheating husband....! What the husband does not realise is that him being with his former wife is what has made him successful.and now she has gone, his success will go down, and the Nigeria wife will leave him for another rich guy....!
@oam14l
@oam14l 3 ай бұрын
Very well narrated indeed. How painful though!
@mundialishebo2981
@mundialishebo2981 Жыл бұрын
Wow so heartbreaking story.
@nkechiokoye4770
@nkechiokoye4770 Жыл бұрын
It's indeed a wicked world. I am of the opinion that checking a husband phone is not Bad
@kateanusionwu2235
@kateanusionwu2235 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Neze for the way you always share your stories and may God help Oyidamola and her kids
@ulans.3965
@ulans.3965 8 ай бұрын
I felt the pain through your storytelling
@lawrencekunda9253
@lawrencekunda9253 Жыл бұрын
Mama I like the way you talk and the way you bring your Storys no insults but explain the story very well love you mama
@AugustinaEtti
@AugustinaEtti Ай бұрын
Never do joint accounts with any man . Women , keep your account and let him keep his . Find a meeting point for the family Bill's. Women should not allow such to over shock them in case it happens . That situation is not polygamy . It is deadly . Let the woman move and take care of herself . The man is a murderer.
@bridgetofodile5613
@bridgetofodile5613 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this.
@correy1323
@correy1323 Жыл бұрын
Nothing can and will happen to Oyindamola and her children. ALL she needs to do is to stay constantly under the protection of God.
@Goldpoint3295
@Goldpoint3295 Жыл бұрын
You are a great story teller❤
@MzConcept13
@MzConcept13 Жыл бұрын
We are going to need an update on this story please!
@benedictachiechem7250
@benedictachiechem7250 Жыл бұрын
Thanks a million Barrister for this true story, God bless you. She should stay close to her God pray for the kids, cut off every link with her God forsaken husband. Take time to heal and give love a second chance. She should accept the fact that her marriage with that monster is ended. Give her herself peace.
@SandraSalomeAngolorctr
@SandraSalomeAngolorctr Жыл бұрын
Hmmm! Is all I can say! This man even went to Juju??, That would be the last straw for me! She better take those nightmares seriously! That man is for the trash! Her God is indeed alive! Just one pop up message opened a Pandora's box for her...chai! God ooooo!😢
@msztlc9679
@msztlc9679 Жыл бұрын
Excellent narration! I haven't heard anyone better. The experience is like listening to a bestselling novel via E-book.
@mariamohammed6367
@mariamohammed6367 Жыл бұрын
IT IS BETTER TO KNOW EARLIER
@rebeccahillsares8253
@rebeccahillsares8253 Жыл бұрын
Neze,sincerely am silent watcher,but I can't hold my self today,Indeed you are a great storyteller.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@rebeccahillsares8253
@rebeccahillsares8253 Жыл бұрын
Though is a sad story 😢, but I have listen to the story close to 8times to listen to your voice.
@kuulmama.8679
@kuulmama.8679 Жыл бұрын
@Rebecca hills Ares . I see you🥰❤️I have been watching neze for a while .
@rebeccahillsares8253
@rebeccahillsares8253 Жыл бұрын
@Kuul Mama. Haaaaaaaaa! my wonderful sis, I love you so much. Ok, you are?❤️ that is great,I enjoy her too.
@kuulmama.8679
@kuulmama.8679 Жыл бұрын
@Rebcca hills Areas 🥰❤️🥰❤️
@annalawson6788
@annalawson6788 Жыл бұрын
She can sue him in America ooo. He was never her husband in the first place. Am pained for her
@kind2423
@kind2423 Жыл бұрын
Exactly, these men try this abroad thinking nothing will happen to them.
@aiyedun150
@aiyedun150 Жыл бұрын
This kind of story is not a new thing anymore. It's normal in most married men of nowadays. Once you go into marriage,pls, expect dis or more terrible things Dan dis. Well, marriage is sweet but dea is no way you are not going to pass through the marriage trials. So, kindly expect unexpected. The man is coming back to Oyin,let her take him back but she must be highly sensitive & Careful. God collected my husband back for me but ....... May Almighty God help us all ! Sweet & intelligent lady, well done ma. Men ? majority of dem are hired assassins. But pls, Let women stop snatching each other's husband now ! Na women dey do women o ! NO WOMEN, NO CRY !
@kylieking8163
@kylieking8163 Жыл бұрын
How can a woman snatch a man? Let's stop giving excuses for these men please
@Sugarbubblepoppink
@Sugarbubblepoppink Жыл бұрын
This is not marriage trial idk why African women like to lie to themselves that this is a behavior in marriage it’s your society
@enobongimaha2012
@enobongimaha2012 Жыл бұрын
I love the way u told this story with lots of suspense and well selected adjectives.
@chinenyekamah9541
@chinenyekamah9541 Жыл бұрын
Oh my god this is really so sad 🙆‍♀️💔💔💔😢😢🤦‍♀️
@sabrinalevasseur2991
@sabrinalevasseur2991 Жыл бұрын
He will reap his due reward
@MaddyCircle
@MaddyCircle Жыл бұрын
What a shameless mother in-law
@pdm8446
@pdm8446 Жыл бұрын
Gbam! Why? Why would a mother allow and partake of such callousness???? What are they getting from the side chic?
@olapejuoluseun1275
@olapejuoluseun1275 Жыл бұрын
@@pdm8446 They are getting bournvita.
@hopeonwubuche9858
@hopeonwubuche9858 Жыл бұрын
You are beatiful and a great story teller keep it up
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