The World's Greatest Mom

[@kurt6410]

If she's acting like that when the camera is rolling just imagine what she's like behind closed doors

[@ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT]

She's worse on Dr. Phil. She straight up admits to child abuse. Oh... oops. Spoilers I guess.

[@ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT]

@Plamen Stoev Can we throw away the sand?

[@Zombie101]

You mean behind boxes of shit. You cant close a door in that place

[@helpmereach1ksubscribers386]

EXACTLY! #MGTOW4LIFE

[@grugg5353]

Think Before You Sleep she’s on dr. Phil too????

[@ambermargaret9746]

I love how she's complaining about the dishes in the sink while her house looks like a landfill.

[@coledibiase1777]

She looks like a landfill.

[@avf6532]

Did you pass your quiz on Cell Division? God damn you burnt her like hot garbage

[@apileofbeans]

You know what's worse? It's not even HER house!

[@thebean6496]

@@coledibiase1777 Ar least a landfill looks better than her

[@the_guy_on_the_internet5108]

Her house? lmfao

[@markdavidofficial4274]

I’m not the cleanest person, but sometimes I just snap and completely clean everything spotlessly

[@MagpieDynamics]

I think most sane people have those moments.

[@romanpisani8157]

I love the feeling of everything being clean, so I trained myself to be annoyed at stuff not being clean, and now I pop off all the time and my room is clean! Just wanted to share my method

[@highrulerdiamond6717]

It's called being a decent human being with a sense of self awareness, or just massive OCD

[@daddythefather2117]

@@romanpisani8157 pls share the steps you took to train yourself to be annoyed at stuff not being cleaned

[@romanpisani8157]

@@daddythefather2117 hehe I am glad and also uneasy that you asked, but here it goes. (Don't get offended lol). I have a friend that is Indian, and in Indian households they keep it VERY clean. Like I remember going over my friends house and thinking, "wow it's so clean" and guess what he said after going into his room. " Sorry for the mess" that's when I KNEW that they were really set on having a clean room. Now I know this method might not work for you because you may not have met someone like this, but it would help to imagine a spotless, perfectly clean room, and then someone *apologize* for it. Now, every time I looked at my room, I thought to myself, " what would ___ " think about my room. Now it may seem like a tall order, but trust me it's worth it. Once your room is very clean/ spotless (which may take a while to get everything into its designated spot, but that's fine) you will want to wait a day. Now normally when you would look around your room and be proud of yourself for the work you did, usually after a day there will be some small things that you can put back in there place. Rather than be happy that your room is mostly clean, be upset that your room has things that aren't clean. Personally, I only consider my room to be clean when there is literally nothing left to do to make it any more clean, and then you can be truly proud of your work. Lol

[@samsam2235]

He's clearly a monster for trying to live a normal life.

[@likeabossgaming5571]

Exactly. How DARE he even CONSIDER not tweaking his personality, life, and time to fit his wife's demands!

[@milesprower3854]

Lmfao

[@weebman2915]

I know its monsterous how he works and comes back complaining that the house is a landfill

[@thedukeofswellington1827]

Haha we gotta believe women tho!!

[@Baz09]

Absolutely disgusting how dare he live a normal life.

[@mysticjp7684]

Laura perfectly represents the quote, "Beauty fades, dumb is forever."

[@doublechocolatedangles7351]

I love how John hardly participates in Laura’s arguments. He’s just standing there like: “Just listen to Laura for 5 minutes and you’ll see where the problem is”.

[@raykenredgrave5692]

He knows that she will do a far better job of showing how terrible of a person she is without his input.

[@Thugshaker101]

@@raykenredgrave5692 aahhahahahahaah yeah

[@Truck-kun_01]

@@raykenredgrave5692 dang

[@TheDipset1233]

Yet he's her boyfriend? What a winner lol

[@awguitarroom8033]

@@TheDipset1233 he probably has a lot of love for the kids. I guarantee you if there weren't kids there that crazy bitch would have gotten kicked to the curb

[@locomixer]

"he doesnt compromise"... LOL, while she occupied 99% of his house

[@overlordwarlordtheomnilord9473]

I wonder what the outside looks like, and don't give me started on what the garage might look like

[@dandytastic7465]

@@overlordwarlordtheomnilord9473 What garage? There is just a wall of trash that is also covering the roof

[@erikrungemadsen2081]

Just need a toilet with a potted plant in it in the front yard and a Velvis on the wall.

[@titusjames4912]

38% probably most of the space is occupied by air. If you count the air she is wasting then maybe 53% twards the ceiling. She seems full of hot air.

[@jasoncomley9869]

She wants that last 1%

[@eofeden267]

"He doesn't wash his dishes." Coming from a professional hoarder, that's pretty hypocritical

[@alyssabaerne9508]

She: 'he doesn't wash his dishes!' My internal reaction: 'no you got that wrong he washes his and the kids, yours he stopped caring about looooooong ago'

[@MrRcb1996]

Sounds like my mum.

[@overlordwarlordtheomnilord9473]

I am surprised he loved her enough to be with her in the first place, If I was that guy I would have ran away at the first sight of the house and deleted her from my contacts Edit: after learning that was the boyfriends house... whoa I would definitely kicked her out and probably ask her daughter if shes ok with living with her mom, I pray to all gods that the father gets custody

[@peepeepoopoomyguy7457]

"He DoEsN't WaSh HiS dIsHeS" (And then,the camera shows John washing EVERYTHING)

[@takeshelter5313]

Thats how my girl acts

[@Greggery]

Damn, give this guy the dad of the year award please. Not only does he put up with the mom, he genuinely loves his children to the point that even though the mom brainwashed the youngest to hate him, he still loves her unconditionally. This guy deserves better, but I know he'd give that up for his family.

[@MyRoosterWisdom]

Yep in a heartbeat

[@stevecarey2030]

I couldn't disagree more. He doesn't give one f about his children. Anyone who cared even one iota about their kids would not allow their house to be a garbage dump. He's a POS enabler.

[@blkgranit333]

@@stevecarey2030 Johns love is there but his will power to make the difficult decisions to save himself first and show tuff love by cutting off the hoarders fuel that keeps her addiction going.

[@jfraserfisher]

@@stevecarey2030 they ended up on Dr Phil, she blamed John, his daughter Jessie for the whole mess. He is an alcoholic and Jessie's an entitled brat who whispers in his ear to turn him against her! None of it is her fault and her daughter is so brainwashed that she wanted to stay with her. Dr Phil got her and Angelina an apartment for 90 days everything paid for and John gets to clean the house of her mess while she moves on to wreck someone else's place. She is lazy, entitled and full of crap. John has been beaten down so far he has given up.

[@stevecarey2030]

@@jfraserfisher I don't let John off the hook. You don't subject your kids to have to live like that. You stand up for them. Not surprised he is an alcoholic.

[@joeloliver2279]

Best quote I think I’ve ever heard “To be a good man, you need to be the man you wish your father was” - some guy on a YT comment section

[@yourfatboy5359]

But how about the people who have good dads tho?

[@spectra1096]

I'm wrote a list down of those things, read it everyday so one day I can be a father my son deserves

[@blakedino2885]

@@spectra1096 good job man :)

[@Slumpedashell]

@@spectra1096 be a good father

[@flashpointgodlevelbatman0688]

@@yourfatboy5359 there is always room for improvement

[@warcraftnut1354]

The sex can't possibly be so good that you would put up with this kind of behavior from your girlfriend. He looks attractive enough, just move on.

[@ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT]

He is a codependent. He is addicted to saving addicts. She probably gets all sad and begs him to not kick her out every time he threatens it.

[@josebottom5211]

Diggy d wtf lol

[@fkeita67]

@Diggy d Maybe she way crazier tho, we'll never know...

[@LawlessGaming13]

Simpin aint easy

[@The_Kirk_Lazarus]

@Diggy d I concur.

[@Forbidden_0ne]

Mom: I'm not a hoarder. Hoarders Film Crew: This is gonna be good!

[@ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT]

I bet most of the people on the show say that. Sandra from the last video I did on Hoarders filled up a mansion with 27 rooms and still maintained that she wasn't a hoarder.

[@warcraftnut1354]

@@ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT Good episode.

[@MrDaShread]

That is most episodes though

[@anthonyamato3729]

I saw that video

[@henocknoelstephan1038]

She has this emptiness in her eyes. It’s like she’s not fully aware of herself

[@fkeita67]

Possesion maybe, or unresolved trauma

[@lucas1309]

It's the eyes of someone who gave up on themselves completely. The stagnancy of life got to her.

[@ryarbrough1195]

The narcissist stare

[@albatross4920]

She's a wild animal

[@Sam-es2gf]

Yeo. Deny reality and parts of you will split off. This is a defense mechanism. If you are a child being abused for example, you have no power to change your situation. If people learn maladaptive defense mechanisms and never make the effort to unlearn them, it only gets worse with time. It's sad really.

[@philswift3126]

“No one questioned how much you love your kids” “ uh I will” best thing I’ve heard all day

[@omarherrick4823]

Was searching for that :D

[@MisaMouri]

I used to work in CPS. Hoarding like this is child abuse. Full stop.

[@lisettegarvin5030]

This chick's three older kids where taken from her years before she met John. How could she still not take care of her home? She's horrible!

[@michaelharris8598]

​@@lisettegarvin5030she is sick she needs help. Professional help and a support team not a guy trying to be all those things. Noone can be. Even God comes with the holy trinity.

[@markhannig1192]

How in the world did this guy get to the point of tolerating this for a second. He is an enabler.

[@CaesarBest]

He probably had a messed up childhood too, no self-respecting person would stand for that madness.

[@Martin-ep6xu]

I would say hes scared of her, she just explodes when anything is said to her

[@eternaloutlaw2634]

Sex

[@jeffmcilroy7081]

Eternal Outlaw it can’t be good sex with a sac of potatoes like her

[@jaybrava2741]

Ahhh of course. It’s the penis’s fault......

[@keiko909]

That black woman just staring like; wtf? 🤣🤣🤣

[@deltafire5058]

@Isabel Wallace So she's a therapist and she's still giving the WTF eyes.

[@crackgoat9780]

I’m not sure it was even wtf, it might have just been pure shell shock.

[@vicquinn7611]

The therapist:👁👄👁

[@hotrodmercury3941]

We need to make her first reaction a meme. Because that was my face this entire video with this lady

[@Bakamoli]

She’s observing...

[@simpletonapollo9723]

That poor 14 year old. Her growth is heavily stunted. That's gonna have lasting mental repercussions. The mother should be ashamed of herself, but she feels no shame. That's how a narcissist acts. When you can literally point out the problem, have physical evidence of the problem and the person goes "nuh uh! You do", there is no arguing with that.

[@CertainOverlord]

narcists are the reason we are still in a pandemic.

[@hjalmarnilsson1756]

Damn my sisters 6 year old is more articulated

[@hanatoro6399]

I thought narcissists were people who admired themselves in act of ego?

[@jayiven6625]

@@hanatoro6399 "Narcissistic personality disorder - one of several types of personality disorders - is a mental condition in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships, and a lack of empathy for others." You are absolutely correct, but it covers more than that. The lack of empathy is a consequence of the inflated efo

[@MOMOFCJ6]

@@jayiven6625 what do you call low self worth

[@fourthhorsemendeath218]

"He doesn't compromise" she says whilst having HIS entire house as a pig pen and that she lives in rent free.

[@mentracks]

Sounds like my ex. She lived with us for 5 months, she only ever wanted to play video games all day, eat expensive food, didn't to help with even minor cleaning and I suspect now wanted to get pregnant to trap me. I was miserable. I'm glad she's out of my life.

[@wafi988]

Big W, bossman

[@kesegoe9488]

Man a gaming gf is the only pro sad her whole being was a con

[@TranslatedAssumption]

Trick him and trap him, that's the game they play.

[@jamesmonto9562]

Glad you learned that expensive mistake. If someone’s name isn’t on the lease, I wouldn’t let them stay longer than a few days. I don’t even know if I’d even help family down on their luck. The only exception would be age, disease, or a family member that isn’t from the states.

[@scubadawg1555]

good choice king, hope you're doing fine!

[@mumtazshamsee5029]

16 years that guy put up with that? He needs to be in mental hospital as well.

[@carlwesternut2434]

Im surprised he's not already

[@survivorxxx6455]

He doesn't sound like a man to me for tolerating it so long.

[@raj-cr4nl]

Except he isnt too far gone. She is

[@RasoKye]

@Dirty Deeds Done Dirt Cheap either way, it's just one bad day.

[@alyssabaerne9508]

He'll make it our rather fine with the right trauma help, however i feel bad for the sorry sod that need to treat her mental issues, if that ends 'good' that shrink submits himself for lifelong isolation in the pillowroom. But jokes aside, she has issues beyond counting and seeing how slow the mental healthcare system is here in holkand, she's never going to get herself to a degree of functioning in society, sad to say,but the amoynt of issues shown so apparently in that episode make it clear that by the time she'd be done with her treatment, she'd be in a retirement home for a good while already. Wasn't sure initially,but asthe vid went on i realised i've seen this episode on tv and damnwas that some messed up shit

[@alcor7416]

When father said "I let you down" I actually felt like crying. That is some honesty only a loving parent can show to himself and his child. Mad respect

[@thebrotasticbro9465]

Fuck bro i read this comment before this scene so i feel like ima cry when i see it

[@ronhoek69]

Saying those things to your child but don't do anything to change things is horrible behaviour.

[@e.l.2734]

His voice crack said it all

[@SD-oi9gr]

“He doesn’t compromise” - man lives in a hoarding hell.

[@dwightrenfield2241]

Why is that dude wasting his time with that shrill, insane beast? He seems to have his stuff together. All the BS just isn't worth it!

[@Canadiangrammarpolice]

Him staying with her shows he has issues.

[@jeevesgeech6836]

@@Canadiangrammarpolice I would assume he's hiding some stuff when the cameras are off just he has the sense to play it kool. however he's obviously still with her for as long as possible cause he doesn't want to give her half of his house if they divorce and pay court fees for custody.

[@mysticjp7684]

One word is kids

[@napa5235]

He kinda said in the video... kids

[@malengcraft7757]

What is he hiding? you can't just assume something And I think he did not want divorce cause he love his daughter Sorry bad English @@jeevesgeech6836

[@putent9623]

Daughter: sees mum talk bad about everyone Also daughter: cries when everyone talked bad about mum

[@Friggsdottir]

She's been brainwashed.

[@niniseconda5839]

That's a kid for you. Parents are God. They can do no wrong. Ever. That's why crappy parents and their teenagers fight all the time, because teenagers expand their social circles and see that the almighty parents are not so infallible. Except, the girl's been brainwashed during all her life to never break the almighty image of Mommy, so she's genuinely confused

[@aphrodite7194]

like father like son and like mother like daughter. Parents have major influence on their kid.

[@tmw5520]

She is manipulative like her Mother. The cycle goes on.

[@asandax6]

@Nini Seconda most of the time teens fighting with parents is usually when the parents telling them to not engage in promiscuous behavior or to stay away from bad friends.

[@sandrant4642]

I literally can not understand how he hasn't kicked her out yet. At some point don't you just think to yourself this has gone too far?

[@fkeita67]

Love is complicated in this world

[@nobodynotme4840]

She needs to leave but it may come with financial and parental sacrifice. He appears unwilling to do that, which means this will only get worse.

[@craigmartinj]

Here's why.... Him: "Get out!" Her: *dialing 911* "he HIT ME!"... police show up - arrest him - she makes up a bunch of crazy charges some of them stick. He's fired from his job because he now has a record. A judge notes that she's been living there for more than 10 years and awards her the house ... for the children. 16 years together? That's common law wife area and that means... ALIMONY! FOR LIFE! AND CHILD SUPPORT!

[@rambomoore381]

@@craigmartinj the laws would be insane and pathetic is a 6 year old made them up, and for actual educated people to come up with those laws..... wow, words cannot describe

[@concerta56]

@@fkeita67 I disagree I think it is a scarcity mindset on his part. She can go on dating apps, not wash her @$$ for a week & thirty dudes will still want to pound her out just for a h00k up

[@veritasliberabitvos454]

She is a narc, has no empathy for her children or boyfriend. It is his place and she does that .... Guys, stop being nice to a person who treats you poorly.

[@ryarbrough1195]

The daughter seems to have accepted her role as an extension of the narcissist mother.

[@hectormejia5090]

@@ryarbrough1195 she's young. She will realize later in life the role she played in creating and normalizing that toxic household. That is if she's not dumb as a box of rocks 🧐

[@EvilxxIncarnate]

@@hectormejia5090 Dumb as a box of rocks and women... I thought that was synonymous.

[@survivorxxx6455]

@No you also it will be a nightmare for her potential partner just like her dad.

[@motherlyfather9871]

A M E N

[@thecentalist3160]

It killed me to see that the step daughter became a teen mom because of Laura's abusiveness.

[@benlotus2703]

Is Laura the father ? Lol

[@user-is9nm4vw8j]

Ben Lotus it’s Laura behavior that drive the step daughter to make stupid choices in life I don’t know that you protecting her behavior or anything but if you do Stop it, stop defending abusive people

[@benlotus2703]

@@user-is9nm4vw8j John is crazy for letting her into his home

[@benlotus2703]

@@user-is9nm4vw8j Laura is misunderstood

[@user-is9nm4vw8j]

Ben Lotus that doesn’t change the fact she is abusive Stop that, making others look bad doesn’t make her a good person

[@ilovedogs2642]

Imagine deliberately making sure your child can't look after themselves so they can't leave you... What an awful person

[@mariec3527]

That's exactly what my mom did She is a narcissis and wanted total control over me so she made me so dependent on her I couldn't even drive ! I still barely know how to drive and I'm 23 years old

[@stevenschnepp576]

Can't spell smother without mother!

[@thedrifter5531]

i would love to see someone like gordan ramsy in one of these shows just straight up plowing through her excuses and giving her cold hard facts

[@s52pana]

That should be a new show... reality switch off... Gordon Ramsey on hoarders and these psychologists in the kitchen 🤣🤣🤣

[@dylanmorgan5589]

@@s52pana Chris Hansen in Man Vs Wild and Bear Grylls catching predators. This is fun.

[@happy_bubble7]

That show would be epic!

[@thecapone45]

I love how the mom isn’t being validated by the other folks. They are telling her how bad she is.

[@Thugshaker101]

What's up

[@thecapone45]

@@Thugshaker101 hi

[@thecapone45]

@@Thugshaker101 oh shit it’s you lol

[@Thugshaker101]

@@thecapone45 lmao

[@beatnik6806]

Expect her brainwashed daughter 😔 I feel bad for her because if he throws Laura out, her daughter are going to follow her. That's the reason he probably don't do it. He definitely should get a spine and do it she is old enough to make it.

[@koalabear1938]

I bet he did clean the kitchen a few times but she will just trash it every time

[@nobodynotme4840]

Agreed. Cleaning is pointless anywhere she has access to.

[@f4ptr989]

He probably tried, and then got yelled at and said fuck it. He can’t win for trying.

[@robertmcguckin2713]

Clean the kitchen? It is completely covered with S_ _t!

[@SebastiansSebastian-fc4pj]

@@robertmcguckin2713 WHERES the lamb sauce

[@MJ123and5]

My question is how are you going to complain lady when ur house is full of crap

[@DontstayfallenVM]

She really said "Do you not see the horns holding up his halo???" Wow

[@helloliggy]

Constant yelling, living in squalor, forcing codependency, keeping your kid in a stressful situation - yes I’m definitely going to question your parenting 👏

[@333ragnarok]

He is atractive. I can't imagine why he is still there

[@mmcc5070]

Codependent

[@Allopientubefish2]

The children will suffer

[@gogot5244]

most likely because off the children, it would destroy them if he leaves and he knows it. i would not be suprised that when the last child leaves the house. he will also move out..

[@Gyrannon]

He owns the place. The mother doesn't.

[@MindfulW1zard]

I always hear that couples that hate each other stay married for the children. I think that's the dumbest thing you can do, the children pick up on the hate and suffering within the household. Sometimes the best thing is to split up and raised the kids with a good balance attitude without the hate and resentfulness.

[@PeachDragon_]

"I don't think their children are half as happy as mine" Every psychologist in the multiverse: WHAT? NO!

[@hahgotem3886]

Every psychologist: *wanna bet?*

[@alyssabaerne9508]

Only if her kids were mosochist to a konosuba Darkness degree, i'd give it a maybe, otherwise... get those children away from that woman and out of her custody Edit: and were those kids konosuba lebels of masochists, still get them away from her, just add good therapy for the kids cuz that degree of masochism is very UNhealthy

[@Crinale13]

@@alyssabaerne9508 you don't know how masochism works right? I'd bet those kids just cannot stood a chance against their "mom"

[@alyssabaerne9508]

@@Crinale13 i think you misread an important part of my comment. I understand that not evrn a normal mosochist would be happy with that woman as a mother or whatever. I meant it in reference to the character Darkness fromthe anime Konosuba, a masochist that prefers being assaulted, abused and worse it is not healthy to be like that which was what i meant. If her kids were like THAT yes i'd give it a maybe, they'd get all the verbal abuse they could want and more.

[@prehistoriccreator9600]

@@Crinale13 Darkness is the type of person who would enjoy something like rape happening to them, or being thrown in jail for a crime they didn't commit.

[@rpstardustx8360]

This guy is growing faster than a beta male provider giving validation to a 3.

[@elfhririn]

Lmfao

[@rexmann1984]

A 3 will actually support you because you're the best she's ever going to get.

[@webeducation]

Yeah 3 is too high, lol. But I get your point.

[@webeducation]

Remember watching this a year ago and was like dang. He wanted a marriage so bad, and was up there in age, so probably figured he could not do much better. He is not a bad looking dude either. Its probably his skills. Its like one dude said, you could be 6'4" and ripped and still not be able to pickup women.

[@razorsharp8250]

You meant to say ‐3

[@redman7124]

Seeing people like this makes me happy that I live a minimalist life, as long as I have at least 2 sets of clothes, mattress or something to sleep on, a restroom and a window, I’m happy

[@connorbeaton8375]

The poor kids, man...... that hug scene broke my goddamn heart.

[@D.IronsWorld]

This home looks like my inventory in the Skyrim XD

[@LeeroyPorkins]

You are overencumbered and unable to run

[@Nukestarmaster]

"But I don't want to get rid of my 20 Daedric warhammers, they are too valuable".

[@stevenlafever955]

@@Nukestarmaster "i can sell them for gold or give them to my companions"

[@livevilife]

Lol

[@jakefisher8691]

I make my companions pack mules

[@sararomero7090]

8:04 She uses her children as pawns. Any time anyone calls her out on her atrocious behavior, she brings up "Look at me, I'm a mom! I have kids!" She has completely brainwashed her daughters to be her little sidekicks instead of her children: "Hey girls, help me beat up on daddy!!!" Basically, they will stand up for her no matter what she does and John just feels defeated and outnumbered. She's molding them to be future man-haters who will make their own husbands completely miserable some day.

[@thebrotasticbro9465]

It is so heartbreaking 🙁😟😟

[@Nehauon]

My mother and sister do this shit. She views my sister as a little version of her and will always stick up for her

[@jackhhun2698]

Men have wised up Divorce is at an all time low because of marriage being even LOWER

[@paigehc6659]

I had a friend who's baby momma did that to her 11 and younger kids. They've got atrocious behavior and act like they deserve everything.

[@danielraleigh8363]

This is the same thing my mother did of course I saw through her lies and bs and moved in with my father He's awesome and A LOT nicer/tidier than my mom

[@VictorTheHan]

Imagine how much money is wasted with all this garbage.

[@alyssabaerne9508]

Either way, if she'd have to pay it back guy would be loaded,but after all he's had to endure because of that nujob it does litgle besides soften the spot the blow landed long ago, it would be little more than peotic justice that she pay him back every dime her bs hoarding cost him over the years

[@MOMOFCJ6]

Imagine the property tax

[@PhantomFilmAustralia]

If they had a garage sale, they'd lose money. Be more like a garbage sale.

[@PhillyB1]

Sister: No one questions that you love your kids Sane People: I'm your huckleberry

[@rigatony8241]

Bro I fr feel bad for John he’s a real one, but that woman is just giving him unwanted stress and shit. I feel bad for that guy.

[@admiralkipper4540]

It’s his fault for not doing anything about it

[@stevenschnepp576]

I don't. Dude ignored red flags and spent over a decade enabling her.

[@TaiPassionGP]

Her daughter is already deeply damaged, no point of return. The mother accomplished what she want.

[@jimdandy8996]

Don't worry, she'll be on Only Fans soon.

[@lukewood2662]

The woman is a total radioactive ruin, but I'm more worried about the girl. She's already poisoned.

[@professorlayabout4878]

Luke Wood looks like a classic borderline mom

[@geo-uv9pq]

They are all lost causes

[@hectormejia5090]

@@geo-uv9pq yup that's the sad part. It takes equal parts balls and brains to fix situations like this. They're lacking In both departments

[@tfyk5623]

i hope John can help

[@HollywoodHornet]

Good god, man. That house is horrible. My mom is a hoarder. She always was. When I was little, my dad used to work all day, then vome home and clean. His little cleaning and straightening up kept the house at bay. Every day it got a little dirtier and he put it back in order. As he fot older he stopled cleaning after work. He just got home and sat down. My mom never cleaned. The house eventually became full of my mom's junk. She spent all his money on worthless junk that filled the house. When it was full, she made him buy another house, refused to sell the old one and to this day (ten years later) he owns a house that is full of junk that he pays for that nobody can live in. That house is about 2500 square feet? A basement, a 1st floor, and about half of a 2nd floor. In just a few short years, the new house, a basement, and three full floors (about 5000 square feet)? Is worse than the original house. It's completely full of junk, her junk. My dad spent his whole life working and has nothing to show for it. What's his reward? A wife that yells at him constantly, physically assaults him, points loaded guns at him, and threatens to call the cops on him and have him arrested if he ever does anything to upset her. Me and my sister wanted him to divorce her when we were little. As adults we wish she would just die and he would be free to live the rest of his years in peace. Sadly, he's in bad health these days, and that evil bitch will outlive him and talk ill of him as if he were the bad guy. I hate hoarders as a result of my experiences, I hate women with nasty attitudes, I hate women who yell and scream and abuse men, I hate manipulative women, and in general I hate all women. I grew up seeing this behavior from my mom, and having little else to go on, I assume all women are like that.

[@ncg8259]

Well it sounds like despite what your feelings tell you, you know that not all women are like this. Don't ignore that these women exist as that would be unwise, but know that the best solution is to simply not spend your time and attention acknowledging them. When you meet new women, give them the benefit of the doubt. Don't go looking for issues, but be keen to observe when she reveals them. Above all, take care of yourself so that when you meet a good woman who has interest for you, you can deserve the goodness of a relationship with her

[@boombam9611]

Don’t ever assume all women to be like that , I know that a woman , especially your mom has made your life into crap and even your father , It’s time to move on , don’t care about mother , well I mean she definitely need mental help, but still I hope your life can move on and become better , I hope perhaps despite all this trouble , you will find a brighter and better future and move on

[@aussieairconditioner8023]

I know sort of where your coming from. Girls abused me at school from early childhood... Without anything happening to them because they were female. But I have made friends with some really nice girls (of course mainly having male friends) around 3 years later. Women aren't all abusive, abusive people are abusive.

[@clatterslam]

Would it be possible to clean up that first house and move your dad in there? Or take him in? Rent a place for him somewhere? Anything would be better than what he has, and the environment he's in is unsafe.

[@theforge4591]

i'm sorry for your childhood. may your father recover soon. buy/make him good food healthy.

[@FittedSheet2000]

Him hugging his daughter and apologizing was one of the most wholesome things I've seen in a WHILE

[@justinjames965]

My dad is a hoarder and my mom left because of it, we moved in with my grandma. Who was also a hoarder and it was a terrible situation and i was always surrouded by avalanching piles of junk. I grew up to be a minimalist and all my life's belongings fit inside two Rubbermaid bulk storage bins and my dad still lives in avalanching piles of junk.

[@anikat6783]

Why is she still living there? Why isn't he kicking her out? She's crazy 👀 Oh he did break up. Good for him 👍

[@suspiciousfigure3096]

D: never mind

[@craigmartinj]

If he tried to kick her out she makes one phone call to 911 and says "he hit me". Instantly the divorce machine is rolling. She'll be declared his common law wife, awarded his house, alimony for life, child support of course, a lawyer for her paid for by him, etc. His life would then consist of being homeless and living in jail for contempt of court for non-payment of all of the above. You tend to lose your job after being convicted of domestic violence and unable to find another.

[@supercunthunt7756]

@@craigmartinj while I agree that men are treated very ubfairly in family court, i think this is another case. She already lost her 3 children to the fathers, so the judges know what type of person she is. I think this will be a clear case for the men

[@craigmartinj]

@@supercunthunt7756 I do hope you're right but remember - she makes no money as a stay at home. The state would get a lot more federal money taking his daughter and giving her to his ex than vice versa. Title 9 of the social security act pays states matching federal dollars for every dollar of child support assigned. At best she get assessed at minimum wage but his salary is likely much higher - ie. more money for the state if they do an injustice. Now I fully agree that it will be obvious to any judge that she's unfit however I also know that the judges salary, pension, and benefits come of out of the same pot the federal government pays into. The judge will have a vested pecuniary interest in giving the child to the mother which is a major reason why this happens 90%+ of the time. Still ... fingers crossed.

[@anikat6783]

@No you you never had a girlfriend die you? 😂

[@aladarmezga4942]

"You don't get to excape sucking at new things" a life lesson right there... at least for me

[@rugalbernstein5913]

There hasn't even been enough time to fully watch this video and I'm already absolutely dreading the fact that this woman has kids.

[@dankmemes8254]

Reason that license to be a parent

[@DangNguyen-yg4gw]

When she said you're not my dad, I just thought her dad would pop out lolol

[@crabmannyjoe2]

"Clean and perfect life he wants" right off the bat, she has attached an unattainable goal (perfection) to a very normal state of being (living a clean life). This is going to go very well.

[@ronaldmcdonald3965]

I am going to add a "No Hoarding" clause to my rental contracts.

[@ronaldmcdonald3965]

@cmiller8492 In CA, inspections for inspection sake are not legal. But that is splitting hairs. I change furnace filter and check smoke detectors and carbon monoxide detectors once per year, and that is a de factor interior inspection. I agree it is subjective.I will have to cite an external source. I had a friend get mad at his property manager for telling him to clean up his hoarding. I had to tell my friend his property manager is answerable to the landlord in terms of fire danger, and vermin danger, and if mold/rotting trash; e.g. the property manager is not on a power trip, just doing his job.

[@KageNoTenshi]

mother: your father is the devil son: so you mean I am the antichrist? sweet I am set for life

[@rdg760jr2]

LMAO 🤣 🤣 🤣

[@ultranecrozma7449]

lmao!

[@chronalcactus9258]

The worst part is that the father seems like an amazing parent who is doing his best admits his mistakes and wants and tries to get the best for his daughter

[@malengcraft7757]

If i the father I will suicide in no time

[@nicktalks1676]

I would’ve given her an eviction notice at that point

[@aussiepuppet5250]

As someone who is an actual hoarder. The absolute BEST and HARDEST thing you can do is also the most important. Throw it away and forget it ever existed. That's it. Forget it's importance. Forget how long you've had it. Forget what it meant to you. Once you've done that, it's one step closer to a smaller mess.

[@stevenschnepp576]

And... honestly, it's easier than it sounds. Go into the hoard, find something you've forgotten, and get rid of it. Rationally, it didn't matter to you if you've forgotten it, so losing it won't matter. After doing that, it gets easier. Not... easy, but easier.

[@jkm7983]

"I don't understand why you have to talk badly to her" Uh because it would be illegal to force her against her will so shaming her is the best we can do

[@ultrademigod]

The daughter is already lost at that point, because she hears all the bad things being said about her mother, but seems oblivious to the mothers insanity.

[@alyssabaerne9508]

One major issue with these shows, they leave the kids there for drama, actually scars the kids to a degree... iirc inthe proper treatment form for hoarding the choldren arent allowed around during talks, emptying and cleaning but are spoken to with the psychiatrist and the not-hoarding parent to help thrm understand how and what happened. Ina way getting on that kind of show with your kids amounts to child abuse if you ask me.

[@Lava91point0]

@@ultrademigod Because she’s young and easy to manipulate, she might be Johns daughter too but that’s not how the mother sees it. She’s accustomed to spitting out children and being on her own, so that mindset applies to this child as well. It means she’s prepared to mentally be on her own, John is disposable. It’s especially worse because he has his own daughter from a previous relationship so it’s always a competition. Her kids will always love her because they’re raised on the lie that she’s a good mother. Even when she does something despicable, it’s for them so they forgive it. There is no woman on earth lower, dirtier, more immoral, or viperous than the unemployed Single mother.

[@Argedis]

Damn I feel bad for the guy, he probably only stayed in that toxic relationship because he felt it was his responsibility to take care of the girls as the only man of the house.

[@womedrah1415]

"you don't get to escape sucking at new things, or things that are difficult. If you aren't willing to look bad then you will never be good at anything, or have anything substantial" Amazing life advice

[@mikifauns]

15:30 This goes for bad boys too, ladies. You can't "fix him." He's not a car, and you're not his therapist.

[@5starview]

"Perfection is the enemy of good" This saying has helped me more than any other in my life. If you try to be perfect in everything you do you will wind up doing nothing.

[@quincylee2276]

Dysfunction in the home should never be tolerated.

[@SunuAkkad]

Right!

[@tafedits]

I told the same thing to a narc idiot and he said to me that's unrealistic .... Haha 🤣🤣 I laughed as he gave me that narc crazy look that mother has

[@timboll1]

Those hitting the thumbs down must be hoarders.

[@waldlaufer3333]

Or women sensing the mansplaining, when they have to move their lazy a#$ to clean up.

[@NilsonCosta]

Or... don't like bad acting! How can you not "see" the script!?

[@bigbag6709]

@@NilsonCosta hmmm

[@nuegaifuentes9738]

My god.... you hit the nail on the head. I have lived under these conditions and been blamed as the reason. Im glad that time in my life has passed.

[@mysticjp7684]

"YOU'RE NOT MY DAD" even a 7 yo can make that non-argument

[@rodbeaucejour4285]

Going through some of your old videos i realize that some of these patterns that you point out apply to me and it applies to me hard. I would be the one to blame others and not take accountability but after discovering channels like yours and the other stuff that are either red pill or about improvement. I have become more determined to be the best version of myself. honestly thanks man.

[@aproudtexan6798]

Oh hell no, what kind of stay at home wife would not feel obligated to clean the house and get everything nice and neat for whenever her man comes home, especially since shes just at home doin nothin, that's just her being lazy and he should not deal with that bull

[@simpletonapollo9723]

@James Stewart Then she should see a professional. I have depression as well, I don't ever get like that and that's because I value the people around me.

[@mrspeigle1]

Yeah if you want to be a homemaker, guess what your job is.

[@dickmarx1298]

@James Stewart These broads claim depression because they are bored Depression, no. Refusal to be a responsible adult, yes

[@kashregester3974]

@General Necromage deadbeats lol they are all deadbeats bur dang id i was home all day i wouldnt clean unless it was all dirty n i shure as hell wouldn't clean for anyone else i will clean cuz im a sane person who doesn't like filth not just to please someone

[@midtiermagic]

Frustrated perfectionist. More like a perfectionist of frustration.

[@prehistoriccreator9600]

My aunt,who is OCD would have an aneurysm

[@aldaoroman]

I've got everytime more and more incentives to get SINGLE.

[@cadetwright6496]

Yes more time to play tf2

[@МикаФлавин]

It's what they want you to do. Everyone should be single, isolated, controlled individually.

[@raulrosas5068]

men-winning booyah women-losing boohoo

[@dolphineachonga555]

@@МикаФлавин🤔Government control tactics as implemented in America. Everyone protect their own space isn't concerned with what government does to everyone else and thus can't organize themselves to fight back.

[@wickedlittleyumi3143]

You can be happy with or without someone, it's your choice. It just depends on who you're with.

[@ianmartin3466]

The dad is so caring I don’t understand how he’s still living with her

[@DarkSpino306]

Remember that episode of Spongebob where he kept so much junk in his house that it even went outside his house, but at the end he had to throw everything away and his life was back to good? Good episode.

[@JostenJ]

The car analogy about maintenance towards themselves was SPOT ON! holy shit

[@dartheinnulfr8986]

That boyfriend needs to ask himself why the hell he's really there?

[@bakermiaz]

yep and he needs to kick her out of his house

[@danielsteel5251]

Cheaper to keep her? Doesn't want to break up the family? There could be plenty of reasons. EDIT: elsewhere in this comments section, TBYS suggested that the reason is that the guy is a "codependent" (which to me seems like just as plausible an explanation as any).

[@rodrigolima2422]

Kids

[@fkeita67]

@@bakermiaz That ain't going to help her fam

[@rambomoore381]

@@rodrigolima2422 Ummmm no! He has a daughter and she has a daughter. I'm sure he wouldn't lose his own kid and who the F cares about their stepchildren?

[@biosvideo]

She found her Enabler. Well done! There are no victims; only volunteers.

[@kenshi1960]

Oh really what about rape victims . . . .

[@morelhunter3966]

@@kenshi1960 true...John did get raped for everything he had. Even his kids.

[@ovencore2549]

tell that to bosnian citizens 💀💀💀💀

[@r5t6y7u8]

"There are no victims; only volunteers." - That's great, I'm borrowing that. The only victims here are the kids who have to live in that house. 17:10 Girls from messed up families think they can redo the past by building families of their own ... baby first. Jessie probably opened her legs for whoever came along, just like her Mom Laura did in the 1990s. Once Jessie has to care for her own house and baby, she'll blame the guy for "raping" her. The volunteering and blame-shifting are genetic.

[@ryantellez2871]

Watching your videos makes me clean my house and work out.

[@joebutcher7456]

That dad is a fucking champion. He has unbelievable patience with a person who doesn't see their mistakes and he BLATANTLY loves the daughter. As a teacher, it's fascinating seeing parents and the interactions they have with their children. Are they good listeners? Do they give the child the opportunity to speak? Are they empathetic to their needs? Do they consider the impact their own behaviour has? Do they show emotion (positive and negative) around the child? This dad ticked almost every single box I keep an eye out for during parent-teacher meetings. It's a pleasure to see. Not gonna lie though. Him almost crying and saying "I let you down" had me sobbing...

[@flyingbirbod94]

I feel bad for the therapist that had to sit through all of that fighting

[@kendov288]

I felt so disgusted after watching this episode, that I legitimately went to clean my room and take a shower. Kind of like Ace Ventura, but with less crying. Edit: The daughter becoming a teen mom is the worst part - that is my worst nightmare. The literal by-product of the most toxic of relationships. Makes me want to be a good father even more.

[@DanielLopez-sh2pp]

She is definitely has some reverse logic or is mentally is messed up. She aint right. She seems to have a hormonal, chemical, or mental imbalance that produces a strange fixation or attraction. Maybe even laziness or just her brain is hardwired or fixated on trash.

[@fkeita67]

LOL

[@fkeita67]

Trash

[@DanielLopez-sh2pp]

@@fkeita67 Yep. Lady. Is completely out of her mind. She is in fact. Crazy. You just don't get to the point. Normally something over time pushed her over the edge. I am just attempting to use a observations into psychology and medical science.

[@matheusrubimdepaoli5409]

Don't compare her to us lazy people, even we give more of a shit about things than this woman

[@delledaye2035]

This made me get up so fast. I have issues similar to this but seeing it up close and personal was a serious eye opener. The commentary is what did it. Think before you sleep made some extremely valid points for the real illness.

[@therandobando2737]

I have a real respect for the father apologizing to his daughter 🙏

[@Chad_Hart]

Her looks faded long ago, her entitlement remains in tact

[@MrMrbrianbechtel]

I saw this recently. This woman is the worst

[@uceclassic]

I did see it too... The man is completely miserable. I feel for him.

[@johnthompson5792]

she is not the exception! she is the rule!

[@fije82]

I doubt any man knowingly dates a crazy woman . This is bait & switch on steroids.

[@boondoggle4820]

I am so glad that I live alone during this pandemic. There is nothing like having peace at home.

[@johnhurt7736]

I'm I minimalist, I'm abstinent, my two boys are all I care about. And setting a good example for them through my actions and work ethic

[@lazlow9640]

The boyfriend is just as much to blame for any issues he or his daughter have, because he's prioritising his obviously failed relationship over his children.

[@rachelosiria7865]

I agree. He is obviously the better parental figure, but he still has a lot of flaws. Why would you have children with someone who already had three of their kids taken away? Why would you allow her to continue to live there after you had to call hoarders just to get the place cleaned up and gave her a month to move out? 🤷🏻‍♀️😥💔 Why would you allow her to sleep in the same bed as your teenage daughter? If you reverse the gender roles there, and it was the father sleeping with his son or daughter at that age, many people would think it's perverse. 😥💔

[@orkzin]

Just stay single

[@GOTTA_RUN]

Hey.. i don't really understand Orkney Mgtow but he lowkey speaking facts 😳😩🍆🗿

[@raulrosas5068]

Oh Nah no feelings all facts

[@kashregester3974]

Im ganna stick with my pets n a roommate lol

[@theeyepatch1219]

Holy shit the sweet 14 year old daughter has crazy eyes on her.😳

[@mysticjp7684]

Oh god you're right, that's really disturbing

[@yourfatboy5359]

Who knows what happens to her when her dad is out

[@mysticjp7684]

@@yourfatboy5359 😨Emotional & plausibly physical abuse

[@yourfatboy5359]

@@mysticjp7684 the worst part is that her mom brainwashed her D:>

[@mysticjp7684]

@@yourfatboy5359 Yep that's manipulation which is abuse

[@G34RH34D]

The very same way I view women who have massive debt. I talked to this girl 12 years back who at one point I liked, but one of the major red flags was her 10k credit card debt. i instantly knew that she was bad with money, and wasn't worth keeping. She wouldn't be a good partner when it comes to finances.

[@marcusanark2541]

This needs to be said more, debt is slavery.

[@SoulDelSol]

It was likely 10k in 1am grub hub deliveries to diff guys houses. Look at her grub hub delivery list- you'll see 100 dudes addresses

[@shadowmomochiuchiha6839]

damn bro i was so down bad back then my ex never cleaned her room but when you said you can tell how someones gonna treat you when they get comfortable by how they treat the people and the things around them i realises how stupid i was thank you bro i need more of your vids in my life your not sexist you speak fax not bs people are too sensitive

[@zmeu_md3831]

dude you are the only youtuber which ads are acctualy fun to watch , i never skip them xD

[@ThePatriots010304]

My ex wasn’t a hoarder but she was messy and disorganized. Every 3-4 months we would clean together only for it to go back to being a mess because of her. We did this for about 2 years before I told her I’m done helping you clean because it’s YOUR mess and I’m tired of it. She became upset and accused me of being lazy. Never again will I cohabitate with a woman.

[@dubbula]

It sounds like trauma. I know I'm like this and idk how to change because I can't help myself because my thoughts are so disorganised. I'm autistic/adhd/ocd cptsd

[@stevenschnepp576]

​@@dubbula Step one: Stop accepting excuses. None of those physically prevent you from cleaning.

[@dubbula]

@@stevenschnepp576 they don't but they contribute to me buying more things and thinking I need it and Fomo. Which starts the endless cycle all over again

[@hitandruncommentor]

Honestly this whole video is a reason why I want to live alone.

[@Da.Onus.Burger.618]

Dudes, as soon as she invited me over the first time to smash and her crib was looking like this...?!?! (Spongebob meme) “Aight, imma head out!”

[@farrellmcnulty909]

LMFAO - Don't blame you...hear hear

[@immortalgamer2564]

Assuming u can even find the exit.

[@b0zz1380y]

Hoarding is a literal mental disease that needs professional long term help. I feel sad for her as well as him. Truly tragic that no one or herself have tried to get help

[@b0zz1380y]

@@Raya-ir4tm killing is an action. Calling it delusional schizophrenia is removing all personal responsibility which is a sympathy ploy which doesn’t solve anything. I would ask here if you think you sound silly here, but you more than likely have it in your head you are correct. Despite the fact that it is widely accepted that hoarding is a mental disorder and that numerous steps need to be taken to rectify it

[@karavandine]

Thank you for this video. It was therapeutic viewing! I really appreciated it, after watching this toxic woman on various Hoarders and Dr Phil clips tonight.

[@okramoffacebook1381]

13:30 She is the Guardian of her moms emotions. Her mom cannot guard her own emotions and needs her child as a shield