My parents told me in no uncertain words that if ever anyone blackmails me to come to them, regardless what I had done, they said that what the blackmailing is far worse and they would be on my side. Had she been able to go to her parents, he wouldn't have had any hold on her. Parents, please think about this!
@LaurenWoz4218 күн бұрын
Right, as a parent- I’d definitely want my children to come to me. There could be nothing that some person would potentially show me / our family that would be worth them risking their life to prevent us from seeing.
@athelwulfgalland8 күн бұрын
That's very similar to what I told my children as well; Only that I would take matters into my own hands to "solve the matter." My son forgot my earnest mantra to never succumb to blackmail. It must be hard, literally living at home in your parents basement, without medical insurance when you're left in dire need of dental care, dental implants or dental prosthetics~ I won't explain the details, of course, but the problem disappeared!
@saadbunni8 күн бұрын
Mostly yes but also a bit neive
@honeybunch57658 күн бұрын
Wise parents. I also taught my daughter to never take open drinks, and if you feel weird, go to the nearest bathroom. Lock yourself in and phone us. So many predators out there. They are subhuman.
@4refgwergdfg8 күн бұрын
Yeah my son knows that I will never think differently. I don't care if it was indecent images or some weird search history. I do not care.
@LittlePrincess968 күн бұрын
He ended himself?! That freaking coward! Anything not to face what he hade done
@ladybliss1017 күн бұрын
I assure you ,he is facing it now.
@renantemerin92487 күн бұрын
I think she meant hell...@@mc1069
@fisheyehand36557 күн бұрын
@@mc1069 I guess you don't believe in an afterlife for the condemned
@xiaozihua7 күн бұрын
@@mc1069 what's SA mean?
@HIStory847 күн бұрын
But there's a God 😢❤@@mc1069
@Steffi.EchoGraphix8 күн бұрын
The fact that she felt like she had to apologize for hiding this breaks my heart. As a former abuse survivor, I understand.
@newenglandcoast-b4p8 күн бұрын
Exactly! ❤❤
@athelwulfgalland8 күн бұрын
I concur - but it's a very different culture. It's similar in Japan.
@rositac72528 күн бұрын
And you know what's worse, some crazy Korean netizen is blaming her and commenting that tsuyang deserves it 😢
@honeybunch57658 күн бұрын
It's her culture.
@CuddlesNCassy7 күн бұрын
That's all you got out of the whole video? Tell me you didn't watch the whole video without telling me! 😂🤡 If you would have watched the whole video, you would know that they were instances that happened that were way worse than that! Duh? 🙄
@Brenmuffins7 күн бұрын
It’s so disgusting that SHE is apologizing. Everyone should be apologizing for her for not seeing the signs sooner and not protecting her!
@Dorvita6 күн бұрын
Sadly, thats one of the typical signs. We appologise for the slightest thing. Even to this day, I still am bad for it, its never left me. I send love and blessings to all who have been in this situation and those still fighting to get away. Blessings to you all x 🙏🌹
@flannelpillowcase64756 күн бұрын
the fact that there are still people victim blaming her and this video had to repeat 3-4 times the difficulties people in abusive relationships have to survive and why they can't just up and leave is even more disgusting. highlights just how truly irredeemable humans are.
@FEED_ME_A_STRAY_CAT5 күн бұрын
@@Dorvita yessss, it's a hard habit to break! I have to actively remind myself even years later
@miss_america86433 күн бұрын
Came here to say this! My heart breaks for her, especially when SHE is apologizing to the people. Whoever would be mad at her for this is just awful. She has nothing to be sorry about.❤
@TisOnlyAScratch3 күн бұрын
@@flannelpillowcase6475 Asking things like "Why didn't she just leave?" is a natural question. To ask these kinds of question to honestly analyze the situation helps us to recognize it happening and preplan methods to help others or ourselves when/if we see that situation in the future. We can't control þhise situations or other people but we can control our own actions. It's easier to control our own actions if we know what to look for and what we can do differently.
@ferchsakura7 күн бұрын
I have always hated when people say "why haven't you left" have always irked me- if you have never gone through it you do NOT know what it feels like to feel helpless. I cannot believe there are people who thinks it is her fault because she didn't leave, has nobody heard of the thousands of women around the world who did try to leave only to end up dead? If you really think this woman's abuser was a good person, or that she deserved everything she got because she used to work in the "adult industry" then you need to get your mind checked because that is not normal at all.
@amandaschmucker27875 күн бұрын
That's what it is. They don't know what it's like. Since they don't know what it's like, they think you should be able to just leave
@Jesusisthetruthwayandlife4 күн бұрын
Ive been conditioned by an ex that I couldnt leave him no matter what, and I believed that for like 2 years. I rly believed i was trapped, like a bird in a cage, but the cage was built by him in my head. It wasnt actually there. Yet i was scared bc of how obsessive he was. I thought he could just show up on my doorstep bc of how unhinged and how much of a stalker he was. It took me someone special to convince me that I wasnt trapped at all and I have to do whats right.
@kuriquesharesias1154 күн бұрын
Why haven't you left is such a insight question: where a person can think this thoroughly and would have left and no I don't support this for someone to say this to ashame someone but some people are mentally Hella strong and their boundaries are strong that if they sense disrespect they simply leave so yeah it's a shocker for you I guess but people like that exist and I'm glad there are people who can't relate to this lol but again I don't prefer anyone to use this sentence as an insult or in taunting way.
@lin-dundunduunnn2 күн бұрын
@@kuriquesharesias115 I understand that they are coming from a place of not knowing (thankfully) but there is usually an undertone of superiority and casting shame on the victim. “How can you be so naive/gullible to not leave at the first red flag? Couldn’t be me lol” most DV survivors(and those who didn’t make it) didn’t think or want it to be them either, a lot are actually very strong willed people, who thought their discernment was at top level. And from professionals, Abusers actually WANT the more independent people so the humiliation of abuse and breaking someone is that much more satisfying.
@FrostWing-k5u2 күн бұрын
So, your advice is for her to stay longer and suffer more? Women love to say that they are as strong as men until this type of situation happens. The fact that it took her 5 years to report to the authorities baffles me.
@alexandrathompson56358 күн бұрын
This was a good example of what DV is like. A lot of people don’t understand why victims don’t leave, but this video explains the complexity of DV issues
@DrinkYourNailPolish8 күн бұрын
Exactamundo!!
@dollpartz4u7 күн бұрын
💯
@amymccullough43966 күн бұрын
I've been through it & I absolutely agree...Ppl often don't understand & this video explains it very well considering what has been said is exactly how I felt/feel & why it took me so long to get away....😪
@Siimplyy_Alexa5 күн бұрын
"didn't you see the red flags?" "blackmail can't be that bad" "just fight back" -someone who hasn't experience DV
@Essie-Cakes5 күн бұрын
I've never been in an abusive relationship but I would never question the victim why they didn't leave. It's not that simple. People who say the victim just could have left don't even remotely understand the seriousness of the situation.
@Bandhari-Wickette6 күн бұрын
We need to stop asking women why they stayed and start asking the men why they would do this in the first place. Stop blaming the victims.
@diana777094 күн бұрын
Exactly!
@gemsxjourneyx1964 күн бұрын
It’s not about blame.
@debbiewalton7694 күн бұрын
i couldn't have said that any better, no one seems to ask anyone that
@Rieal0073 күн бұрын
its not always about blame sometimes it's the Stockholm syndrome those involve exhibit. had a friend in a DV situation she ended up calling the 5-0 on the ones trying to save her and standing with the assailant.
@MelonHere203 күн бұрын
This exactly
@RayvenLunaNite8 күн бұрын
As a fellow DV victim, it can be not only hard but terrifying to leave abusers. Especially so if you feel all alone. I really hope she can recover and live a healthy life after everything settles. She deserves peace and SAFE love. Don't blame the victim for trying to stay safe by not speaking out sooner.
@Hexenmeister9995 күн бұрын
"She deserves peace and SAFE love." What we deserve and what we get from life are two different things.
@gracec51262 күн бұрын
@@Hexenmeister999 it is for shame that people mistreat other people and cannot show basic levels of humanity, kindness or love should be a given. A sad state of the wickedness of human hearts who do not know what love is. God is love. As long as people do not know God they do not know the meaning of love, how to love or receive love for themselves or others. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
@SquirtlePower8092 күн бұрын
I'm very sorry for what you have gone through. May God keep you blessed and safe
@pearlseashellКүн бұрын
I was in one 5uears but he was a narc and had low low low self esteem. And i became the source for him to feel powerfull by verbally and mentally physical abuse.I got out and left him.
@RoxieParadox8 күн бұрын
Yall remember that mukbang girl who would eat obsurd amounts of sea food??? People suspected she was a slave and then she just disapeared from the internet completely. I wonder what happened to her 🤔
@raawrin8 күн бұрын
kate young?
@bouquetofemotions7 күн бұрын
Kate yup i think it was....@@raawrin
@ladybliss1017 күн бұрын
Kate Yup.
@Kateshellybo7 күн бұрын
I saw a video on her the other day. She came back on with an only fans account and then disappeared again.
@tenshimoon7 күн бұрын
@Kateshellybo yikes... that's highly sus. I hope she's ok and not in a similar situation...
@MangoPanic6 күн бұрын
The fact she blames herself for hiding it and allowing it to happen is so sad. She was just trying to survive. I'm so glad she can live her life now. Honestly, it's great that she had the escape of streaming, because I'm sure that those moments in front of the camera where she got to at least pretend to be happy were probably her only escape.
@TJMalana7 күн бұрын
This is a a prime example of never giving in to blackmail I'm glad she took her power back. This man a POS for what he did.
@harleyhendrix84674 күн бұрын
He was...not is. Past tense bc he's no longer alive ....
@juliah94934 күн бұрын
@@harleyhendrix8467 still is in death
@janerecluse43447 күн бұрын
Korea needs to tell its daughters "We will not be ashamed. Some man tries this, YOU COME HOME."
@bluntslt80235 күн бұрын
North Korea it would never work. Maybe in South Korea yea
@teru_99215 күн бұрын
@@bluntslt8023 south korea aint so good either. The misogyny is deeply rooted in their culture. Hopefully SK can change
@FrostWing-k5u2 күн бұрын
@@teru_9921 change to what? Misandrists? Okay but women should work at oil rigs, garbage disposal and all the tough jobs
@realfarmerboy8 күн бұрын
to anyone being abused or recovering from an abusive relationship, i know it can seem hard or embarrassing but please try to tell someone you trust. Abuse is NOT okay and any help you can get matters. A lot of people probably care about you even though it may not seem like it. Stay strong chat, I hope this message reaches the right person.
@Hexenmeister9995 күн бұрын
Nobody cares bro.
@realfarmerboy5 күн бұрын
@@Hexenmeister999 shi someone might
@thebusinesswoman235 күн бұрын
@@Hexenmeister999 Well, we found the abuser .
@AlkubulanMahatha4 күн бұрын
You should never allow anyone to make you feel embarrassed if you're being abused
@kuriquesharesias1154 күн бұрын
@@Hexenmeister999go to authorities then at least
@TheHourofWitchery8 күн бұрын
I was in an abusive relationship for almost 5 years too, it's not east to leave. Trust me. This broke my heart, I started tearing up as soon as I heard the recordings. I've been there. I'm saddened anyone has went through this.
@CherylC7258 күн бұрын
Agreed, unless you’ve been there you cannot possibly understand how hard it is to get out.. I used to get so upset at ppl saying “why didn’t she just leave” like it’s not that easy… I’ve learned to educate rather than getting angry.. Thank you for sharing and God bless 🙏✝️
@trinomial-nomenclature7 күн бұрын
Took me 14 years to finally leave (with our son) my emotionally/psychologically, financially and medically abusive husband. My parents didn't believe me for the longest time and my mother would always say things like "well, you must have done something wrong" or "what did you do to upset him", not helpful. But eventually over time she started to believe me and said if I needed to get out I could move to her house until I get my feet on the ground. The only problem, she lived across the country (Canada), so I packed what I could and left everything I had worked so hard for behind. It has been extremely difficult, but way less stressful than living with my ex-husband.
@veronicaduplessis6 күн бұрын
Very sad .
@IronKore6 күн бұрын
So encourage other women to proactively leave at the first sign of abuse. Tell them not to listen to their heart but their logic. The more women talk about the solution the more women listen. As men we clearly can't change your way of thinking. Or just continue to excuse it and say, no one knows how hard it is. And for sure as a man that pities women that stay, I can never know but we all know what you're supposed to do
@debbie44656 күн бұрын
I was also in a domestically abusive relationship for 10yrs and you're correct 💯, it is not in any way easy to leave. I've only gotten away from him in the last few months. I had to flee MY home but Womens Aid from the court were able to get me another place within only 1 week. I'm so happy to be away from that monster!!
@LotBD8 күн бұрын
She is a survivor and my heart goes Tzuyang. People who hurt others like this are extreme manipulators. They cut you off from your support little by little seeding doubts and mistrust. They find ways to tie you to them, like the tapes or children or really anything that they can use to leverage against you. They begin tacking on other things and putting you into compromising positions and doing things that further destabilize your sense of self sufficiently and confidence. Then, even when it seems all sense of your capacity to act without them seems to have been eroded away, they don't stop. The amount of control they employ through force, manipulation and fear tactics makes it seem like there is no way out and because you are constantly frightened, unsure of yourself, and distrusting you fail to see those around you that would help if they could. Eventually it feels like there is no way out and hope for something better becomes nothing but a tiny ember with nothing to reignite it. For many, that is the end. They die/are killed or continue to live the abuse defeated. Then there are the lucky few who through some deeply buried will to fight or sudden change of circumstance occur that gives fuel to the dying ember of hope and they fight their way out tooth and nail until they succeed with the abuser trying every handbook trick out there to stomp out the flame or the person themselves before they can be free. Freedom only comes when the abusor can no longer reach you and you can let them go. This needs to be shared. This is a hard topic but people who have never experienced these things need to understand not only for their own compassion towards the abused but to recognize the tactics should they experience them too one day. I was with my abusor from 2006-2013. I finally got my drivers license in 2014 at the age of 27. I already had three children and was punished for getting my tubes tied. Everytime my money went to a car, it was put into the abusor's Mother's name so she could report it stolen should I try to leave with the children. Thats the other thing, sometimes the monster that sleeps next to you is not the only person part of the abuse. WIth no license and no proof that I bought the car, it wasn't until circumstances changed that I could finally navigate myself and my children away from the maw of hell. This public admittance Tzuyang gave must have felt terrifying for her but I hope it helps her in her journey to heal.
@CherylC7258 күн бұрын
I’m sorry you went through that and God bless you for getting out, especially for your kid’s sake.. I was in an abusive relationship yet I didn’t have kids yet and I could not imagine getting out WITH kids.. God bless you and your children 🙏✝️
@LotBD8 күн бұрын
@@CherylC725 God bless you as well. We are all survivors of the bad and now it is our responsibility to pull the pieces together and learn to thrive. I think I can say I'm doing well at that so far. Getting out with kids was hard. I could forsee so many ways it would end badly that it took a long time to see a way it could end well. But my kids are safe, they smile, my credit is repaired, we bought a home in this US economy. Sure my Husband, whom I married in 2015 and I, pull less than 40k a year but we all happy and with achievable proactive goal setting we are slowly doing better and better and so our our kids.
@tanjak727 күн бұрын
And that is why I live alone with my dogs.
@Annelie_perhonen54 күн бұрын
To anyone reading this, it's best to leave in secret, or the abuser can stop you with dire concequences. Please don't try to reason or talk with them about it.
@NightimeInDeepSpace8 күн бұрын
anyone interested in another person's finance is an immediate red flag. money makes people do terrible things
@zeroregrets59017 күн бұрын
yes you desperate for attention and affection and miss the clues oh well.
@mayseventy4466Күн бұрын
The love of money is the root of all evil. I agree with you.
@aturniakane45398 күн бұрын
sk doesn't have a good track record for caring for women.
@Nyx_TheGodess7 күн бұрын
okay now thats just racist
@tenshimoon7 күн бұрын
Sadly you're right. It's perfectly understandable why it was SK women who came up with and started the 4B movement when you live in a place like that.
@tahjjj14886 күн бұрын
Not many places do, really.
@sufficientphrase77695 күн бұрын
worldwide problem
@bluntslt80235 күн бұрын
What is 4B? @@tenshimoon
@lovexenos7 күн бұрын
Tzuyang seems like such a sweet and caring person, i remember finding out about what happened originally and crying because of how awful it was. i hope she's healing okay
@kkur0mi_266 күн бұрын
God, this makes my blood boil, the men in this story are such pieces of 💩. It's not just the abusive ex, it's the whole chain of men who wanted to take advantage no matter what it meant for the victim. Glad she found support in her work team and lawyers..
@MelonHere203 күн бұрын
Agreed
@karenemrick86772 күн бұрын
Agree 💯. They are as disgusting as the deranged one that harmed her.
@vminkooknamjinsuho1208Күн бұрын
Korea is crazyyy
@Ming34847 күн бұрын
The man at 33:06 who said, "I was just joking..." and that if he knew what she was going through he would not have gone through with it... Regardless of what he did or didn't know about her and her situation, it doesn't make you any less guilty of being a terrible human being. How about you just don't blackmail or extort anyone? These disgusting people. They are most likely only sorry because they were caught. Men get lighter sentences in some instances because of "stress?" So... men over there are weaker then women? Got it.
@tahjjj14886 күн бұрын
They get off on that excuse the world over. Sickening.
@-IGRIS-6 күн бұрын
@@tahjjj1488 not the world over... In India it's the opposite
@tahjjj14885 күн бұрын
@@-IGRIS- Not true. Poor women over there are fighting tooth and nail against gang grapes, being groped in public, etc., and it is NOT easy to prosecute the men over there.
@MelonHere203 күн бұрын
It's honestly disgusting how many men get away with things all over (yes women do bad things too but it's still majority men)
@vree49497 күн бұрын
I held South Korea in such high regard, but these responses calling her abuser a saint and the justice system failing her and blaming her makes me rethink things...
@tenshimoon7 күн бұрын
Remember, SK is so bad that that's where the 4B movement came from. And people wonder why SK women wanted to go 4B...
@theivyrosesxd13207 күн бұрын
I can assure you that this toxic audience and mentality will always be present in every country. i stop putting any country in high regards
@katiekawaii7 күн бұрын
Korea is very conservative, steeped in Confucianism and still significantly patriarchal. It's not the easiest place to be a woman.
@SanctuaryPassion7 күн бұрын
It’s really so bad underneath the pretty surface
@formershadow7 күн бұрын
Yeah South Korea’s soft power has a lot of people confused. There’s a lot of backwards thinking in the Confucian world. Every country has its social issues but some things are unforgivable.
@Soulociraptr7 күн бұрын
My God, this woman experienced such terror. I wish her nothing but peace going forward after this suffering.
@TripleBcraftsandcrochet8 күн бұрын
aw, 5 whole years of this?!! poor girl, I feel so bad for her, she had to pretend to be happy
@Yewwonnie8 күн бұрын
I'm crying, how can she continuosly being hrt and people didn't notice i hope she's happy and safe now..
@jetli7408 күн бұрын
you are ignorance ..all base on this video opinion
@LotBD8 күн бұрын
It will take years but yes if she works for it she will absolutely have a better life. The trauma processing and rebuilding of self confidence is often a long road but sharing her story can be healing for her. Especially when those who watch give love and support.
@annafarr5827 күн бұрын
@jetli740 so what are you?
@Yewwonnie7 күн бұрын
@@jetli740 I didn't watch her previously till after hearing this news i'm not familiar with Korean content because i'm not korean thx
@Yewwonnie7 күн бұрын
@@LotBD Yes I was abused at school for a bit till it stopped and i totally understand how long it takes to heal but I'll have Tzuyang in my prayers
@BexySC7 күн бұрын
They called us crazy for commenting she needs help on her videos . I'm so sad we were right.
@MompreneurDiary3 күн бұрын
To be threatened to become impregnated by such a person doing this to you. Is the most horrific thing i can think if so he can abuse the poor innocent child to. I shed tears for this woman deep deep tears
@mimzeyy-l68953 күн бұрын
Yeah fr...its so sad..
@carmelalinka7 күн бұрын
The fact that a small part of the abuser's letter somehow made people feel symphathetic towards him made me sick. South Korea has a great image because of kdramas, kpop and kmovies. But in real life, it's misogynistic, superficial, vain and racist. Im not saying all Koreans are like this but most of them are. For all we know, our favorite artists could be one of those too. We just don't know what's happening behind the cameras like what this poor girl had gone through.
@victoriavonheals23843 күн бұрын
I mean, just look at what kpop stars have to go thru, or the unrealistic beauty standards the SK women are forced to hopelessly conform to. Or at least try to or else they're made to feel less than. :(
@roxyhart56927 күн бұрын
Imagine studying to become an attorney only to do something like attorney Choi. Disgusting.
@MrRainbowDoge7 күн бұрын
anyone who victim blames has NOT went through anything similiar to that. poor Tzuyang
@jczephyr18 күн бұрын
This story hits soo close to home as I am also a survivor. I know exactly how she feels. We should not think that women who are in a position of influence or power could not be victims too. I did not look like the typical victim. It was harder for people to believe me and it is harder to open up to people about what happened because of the position I was in. There's a certain shame that comes to how I could have allowed it to happen. When clearly, it is not the victim's fault. I am sorry to hear women all over the world still goes through this types of abuse.
@kafyu8 күн бұрын
I used to binge watch so many of her videos and didn't have any idea what was going on, seeing bandages on her fingers i assumed it was probably from chopping food. My love goes out to her
@visualaudio228 күн бұрын
Um???? Why am I just now finding out about her? Most of these people I don’t find out about unless they are getting tortured?
@ferchsakura7 күн бұрын
tbf she was mostly popular in South Korea, her having 10 million subscribers was the reason why it became such a huge case. I also only knew of her because of Stephany Soo who spoke about the case when it first happened.
@Ew4ya6 күн бұрын
we are billions
@hazelmint66716 күн бұрын
You're not interested in Mukbangs maybe. She's afmous in the Mukbang scene.
@MelonHere203 күн бұрын
34:15 arrest warrant denied??? He literally sold a clients private information, that should be cause for him being fired and stripped of his rights to practice law.
@sarayuki85406 күн бұрын
Very sad that even with evidence the victim still gets blamed.
@liamburke82252 күн бұрын
imagine going through all that pain and suffering and then the public go against you too!? absolute madness.
@FlintGirl8107 күн бұрын
It would be NICE if Gordon Ramsay and others that were guests on her show could come together and HELP HER even if it's to have her on their platforms.
@FreckeledAngelKisses4 күн бұрын
Gordon Ramsey wasn't a guest on her show. She was eating at his restaurant.
@pasteltessa87948 күн бұрын
Girlie don't be sorry for not speaking up ❤
@OfTheSeaKND7 күн бұрын
I was shocked when the news about Tzuyang came out. I’ve only seen a handful of her videos, but she seemed so cheery that I never expected the pain she was enduring. 💔
@fyeelessarndra33926 күн бұрын
Can you believe that some K-netizens actually blamed and bullied Tzuyang online for her abuser's decision to end himself because he was a coward and didn't want to face the consequences of his detestable and disgusting behaviours? Yeah, that happened. Being a highly patriarchial society, I can kinda understand if they are against feminism and feminist ideas, but blaming a woman while she suffered all kinds of abuse for 5 years? South Koreans (men & women alike) really be out there protecting criminals SMH
@bluntslt80235 күн бұрын
That's disgusting behavior from k netizens
@absolutedomain96427 күн бұрын
My heart goes out to this poor woman and I hope she's doing better. It's hard to believe this all stemmed from a young woman just wanting to go out and meet new people. The world is a scary place.
@yahainHotPink8 күн бұрын
😮😮😮 is she safe now??
@dreamycatcher28528 күн бұрын
Yes, She is fine and continue her mukbang videos
@yahainHotPink8 күн бұрын
Thank you. I wrote that question so early in the video as I am very concerned. I am so glad she is safe. 💖🌻
@BtheLee118 күн бұрын
No... The food became animate and decided to eat HER!!!
@dreamycatcher28528 күн бұрын
@ lol
@bluntslt80235 күн бұрын
@@BtheLee11💀💀
@goose75747 күн бұрын
As a survivor of DV and SA, I can completely understand "surviving" versus outing your abuser... 😢 I'm so glad she's safe for now.
@galileo2333-ue1ti10 сағат бұрын
You should be removed from any ability to tell men how to treat women.
@skullrose89858 күн бұрын
I wish she wouldn't blame herself for any of this , its not her fault for any of the abuse she suffered..Even saying it's her fault she never mentioned it , none of this was her fault , she is the victim in this.. Hope she gets the help, live & support she needs to get through each day
@CherriPye3.145 күн бұрын
thank you for being aware, i never heard of this young lady and to see how strong she remained through it all is so powerful. both amazing, you Spill and Tzuyang❣
@This_Is_Acting8 күн бұрын
Oh wow! 5 years??? That’s SAD 😩
@lolalolita35374 күн бұрын
people with the biggest smiles have the most tragic backstories
@coralrauch5625 күн бұрын
Why as dv survivors so we always feel the need to apologize to people... I am still healing from my trauma and abuse... and I have to catch myself from saying sorry to people who make me feel like it's too much for them handle hearing the truth. Just sad... we need to better💜
@kshitijatomar62596 күн бұрын
This was horrifying and excruciating to even hear and she went through it...a victim is a victim whether they fight back or not...the fact that even after listening to all this there are people who'd rather find faults in her than condemning those who wronged her is just utterly disgusting 🤮 I wish she gets the justice she deserves and lives a happy, healthy and prosperous life from the coming new year!❤
@tanjak727 күн бұрын
Poor woman. I don't know how abuse is charged in asian society, but she is a warrior in my humble opinion.
@simplyshirene88336 күн бұрын
When a person leaves their abuser, that is the most dangerous, scary time for them. An abuser doesn't want them to leave so they will do dangerous things to get back at the victim.
@PrickedByThorns7 күн бұрын
I hope she happens to read this. It is 100% not your fault that you chose to to keep this quiet. If you would have spoken out it could have made matters much much worse. So never ever say that you're sorry. Those recodings sound terrible. He was a terrible person. I'm very happy to see that your aren't under anyones control anymore. I wish you good health and happiness.
@aliciazubiri21324 күн бұрын
that is sad knowing she had to deal with that DV and SA for so long, and getting blackmails for the other youtubers and the lawyer of her ex...Hope you have a good and better New Year Tzuyang..Aja! We are praying for you!
@AbstractlyMe835 күн бұрын
“It would have been obvious if she was forced” I genuinely hope that adult establishment, and everyone victim blaming gets what’s coming to them. Absolutely disgusting
@SoftySenpaii7 күн бұрын
I'm glad she seems to be in a better place now, though it is disgusting that the guy ended his own life because he was too much of a coward to face the consequences.
@SWEETPEA.5222 күн бұрын
For those who have never been in a dv relationship, let me put it simply for you to understand, "IT'S SCARY TO STAY, BUT EVEN SCARIER TO LEAVE"
@yahainHotPink8 күн бұрын
Never heard of her until today. 💔😩 I'm not into traditional Mukbangs
@rainbowdropsrainbowdrops45468 күн бұрын
Can't believe people are being enslaved and exploited like this....................
@felixhenson99266 күн бұрын
ok...?
@lightsoutisay6 күн бұрын
The story just keeps getting more disgusting. Greed is one of the most deplorable plagues on this planet.
@Kelbel8119Күн бұрын
How horrifying that she feels bad for hiding it, not for being abused
@ItsMeNanaD717 күн бұрын
I don’t watch videos like that. I’ve seen a trend on tt that bothers me because I think something similar may be going on behind the scenes. They have thousands of people watching their lives. One is them getting dunked into water & having to dance in the water & they look miserable. The others are them acting afraid while writhing on the ground below a giant balloon being filled with water waiting for it to break. They have to fill the balloons themselves. I just get really bad vibes when they pop on my screen & I just simply cannot watch. I’m old, I understand fads or what y’all call trends now & I’m not a fan. Never have been, never will be. They keep everyone distracted from reality.
@KJ.85Күн бұрын
So "the ceo of her agency..." was only powerful behind closed doors but when he realized his truth wasn't going to remain a secret and he no longer had the control instead of ending her he ended up ending his own. This is an example of the type of treatment that led to the many suicides of young Chinese, Japanese, and Korean. I pray she finds herself and the strength to avoid going down that same path, especially when it comes to those who are victim blaming.
@dnisey646 күн бұрын
My heart breaks for her. Please anyone and everyone please, please, please help yourself! Even if it means acting insane in public to be removed from the situation. You are much more important than what anyone else tells you
@npc44928 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing about this ❤ I started seeing info about it on tiktok a bit ago, but didn't know much info.
@Solstiic8 күн бұрын
I immediately knew it was gonna be about tzuyang. poor girl :(
@pamelaphelan41445 күн бұрын
My gosh.. I love this young lady and I had NO idea that she was going through any of this!! I hope she’s doing better now that she has protection and HE is gone! 🙏💔😭
@CharliStar7 күн бұрын
I do not get how some people can be so heartless to this poor woman, even after learning what she was going through. I have zero hope in humanity.
@kazukezu7 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for this. You have the best and the most detailed story about Tzuyang. You did not upload a video about her just because her case is on the "trend" but you waited, and you covered everything necessary in order for people to understand her situation deeply. All the evidence / receipts you have is really something I was looking for, and it never showed to any other videos that involves Tzuyang. I really thank you so much for this.
@erinnobert31938 күн бұрын
I hope she can move to a new country and start over, maybe where women have better rights. What a heartbreaking story. I hope she finds a happy ending.
@Finity_twenty_ten7 күн бұрын
The biggest problem with that is that she would have to learn a new language. North Korea is the only other place where Korean is widely spoken, and well, at that point, she might as well revive her dead boyfriend if she went there. Japan, while it's language has ties to Korean also isn't that good if you're looking for women's rights, and while the US has excellent women's rights, it would also be a big culture shock and she would also have to learn English. It's all completely possible, but definitely not easy.
@baddestjoanna-michellesmit55787 күн бұрын
Where is this place. ! ?
@Finity_twenty_ten7 күн бұрын
@@baddestjoanna-michellesmit5578 What place?
@BabyJesus667 күн бұрын
Happy ending at an asian massage parlor? That's insensitive on a video like this! Shame on you!
@handytoolboy8 күн бұрын
And people wonder why 4B movement came out of Korea.
@tenshimoon7 күн бұрын
Yup. And people wonder why women choose the bear.
@MervtheWarlord7 күн бұрын
@@tenshimoon I was DV by my mother, and this is why I dont care when it happens to women. go to the bear. I wont save you. neither will your soy boy friends. you will need a man to stand upto that other man. and you guys do everything possible for me to say. GO TO THE BEAR!
@jacobishii61216 күн бұрын
Nobody wonders why......nobody knows it came out of Korea to wonder.Most haven't heard of it until women started shaving their heads over Trump election in the US
@definitelyahair53396 күн бұрын
*sigh* you guys let one bad ex bf or an obvious extreme example ruin your whole view on men. Its honestly sad
@tenshimoon6 күн бұрын
@definitelyahair5339 sigh. Many of us like me have never had a bad ex bf or an extreme example. We're just smart enough to see the patterns. Meanwhile you guys let the patriarchy ruin your whole view of women and then wonder why there's a male loneliness epidemic after women have stopped putting up with you people. It's honestly sad.
@tamiyadiaz27992 күн бұрын
IVE BEEN THOUGHT THIS! A lot of Asian and Chinese ASMR videos seem so strange and forced and for the last 2 years I’ve always felt like a lot of them are forced to do it and no telling what else..
@JinMu-xyz87 күн бұрын
It enrages me that the abuser's lawyer has faced no consequences.
@kgs22802 күн бұрын
And this is why South Korean women are going “4B”, and now, women all over the world. If you don’t know what the 4B Movement is, I suggest looking it up. There are also a number of YT videos about it. It’s basically about not having anything at all to do with men: no dating, no marrying, no physical relations and no having children. And one of the reasons South Korea’s population is dropping rapidly.
@owoisabelle43852 күн бұрын
The 4B movement is harmful for everyone and the future of Korea. There should be higher punishment for abusers regardless of gender. What happened is unacceptable, but the 4B movement won't fix anything
@Sa_m-samКүн бұрын
@@owoisabelle4385what about be good to women… you didn’t even mention that. I hope these women do everything to keep themselves safe!!!
@MikaylaPark-d5g6 күн бұрын
I only know her through this video. I may not have been there, but I'm here now. She deserves better, I admire her because coming forth to such trauma takes guts. She's an inspiration for other women to come forth, no matter how scared or ashamed. Nobody's opinion really matters unless you say otherwise. Lots of love to her and other victims.
@rachelcamire3757 күн бұрын
I feel so bad for her, it can be hard being outside looking in but anyone that has lived with a narcist or abuser in her life will feel this all to well. I just left a 7 year abusive relationship where people (his volunteers from his CHARITY) came over sometimes 2-3 times a week and never even batted an eye at me with black eyes or after I was missing 2 teeth (which had been replaced by a dentist at one point during) and now he's slandering my name all over town and has been I found out for over a year. I doubt I will ever escape him unless I leave the city or I release a bunch of stuff like Tzyuang did but then it is possible I will still be the bad guy because he runs a children's charity.
@KittieriRavynVlogs7 күн бұрын
I’m recently out of an almost 17 year abusive relationship. Even his family was in on it. I am so grateful for the people that helped me out of that situation. My little dog and I might be living in a car now but, at least we are living. ❤
@Ash-nk8lk6 күн бұрын
Wow this is sooooo sad. I feel so sorry for her. I hope she finds her light again and I hope she never feels shame or guilt again. I wish her nothing but success and happiness in her future and career
@viviansytsui8 күн бұрын
I thought it would be about the girl who ate a lot of seafood and randomly disappeared. This is also awful. 😢
@BlindGirlUK2 күн бұрын
Same.
@patriciamurfitt4590Күн бұрын
As a survivor (not SA but all the rest), someone who has not been there will never understand how it gets that bad. I had to check into a psyh hospital to get my brain back enough to even think clearly. I hope this beautiful child finds healing and happiness 🥰
@galileo2333-ue1ti10 сағат бұрын
Most SA should be legalized
@heysitti4 күн бұрын
The fact that she had to apologize and tell this story to everyone because she was BLACKMAILED by other youtubers that happened to be MEN.
@susanmartin37624 күн бұрын
Don't EVER TELL SOMEONE ,"CHEER UP!". You have NO IDEA what a person is thing through and you have no right to ask.
@vandodbrandli94487 күн бұрын
I had only heard about this, but didn’t know the full context. It was much worse than I thought. I’m glad she’s doing better now and I hope she’ll continue to heal and be the best version of herself. And to all survivors out there, you are so strong❤
@DennisTheInternationalMenaceКүн бұрын
As someone who's been blackmailed before, When I told my family and friends the whole story, They were more upset that I didn't tell them/come to them sooner. And I've learned that the truth will set you free!
@sharihazlett37743 күн бұрын
We need to stop victim blaming. Shame on all the people who blamed her
@reginasutton923Күн бұрын
The fact that the society in which she lives in and the politicians who could change the laws there, but won't because they have such a low value of women and refuse to protect them makes me sick. This is what is wrong with the world.
@mochichi83558 күн бұрын
Im shocked yall are covering this already
@marthamarshall44722 күн бұрын
This absolutely breaks my heart , this poor young woman 😢. I hope all our messages get back to her so she sees we are on her side. This is not her fault in any way. I know that we don’t understand how she feels she has to apologize for being alone, trapped,terrified, tiny, he could have snapped her in half. I so hope she is surrounded by loving people. Now is not the time to give up even though it’s hard. You deserve help, kindness, support and to be very loved.🙏❤️❤️❤️😢
@robinanna55317 күн бұрын
"Of her then boyfriend". Nah, that's not a boyfriend.
@Melwinchester23Күн бұрын
This country's legal stand for women in abuse is terrible. 😢
@streetchat5054Күн бұрын
This is happening a lot more than people realize unfortunately.
@VincentNajger1Күн бұрын
What's even worse is that you tube and the internet has suspected this for years and nobody bothered to actually follow up and just made money by making vids much like this one.
@TheMimmieb7 күн бұрын
This story broke my heart. Man that poor girl 💔💔💔💔
@lisaleone22962 күн бұрын
This is insane. I'm glad she got help. It's horrifying that she didn't have anyone she could go to for help, and I have to wonder how many more people are out there in this exact situation. Human trafficking isn't always for s*x. Sometimes it's far more insidious.
@maxkim79374 күн бұрын
i love how her name keeps evolving as the plot thickens. you keep changing the pronunciation. although you got it eight on the second one...
@betsyshider85072 күн бұрын
I’m so thankful that she lived to tell her truth. She’s a beautiful strong lady and I wish her well and much success in anything that she does ✝️❤️✝️🙏🏾
@honeybunch57658 күн бұрын
Eating all that food is abuse on its own. Why do viewers even encourage it? 😢 Wish her the best.
@Nyx_TheGodess7 күн бұрын
belittling that all to food Is disgusting You’re disgusting
@Matilda-y7 күн бұрын
I see your point, yes. In this case though it saved her from worse. (Making the boyfriend money through adult entertainment). If nothing else i guess we know she got to at least eat.
@hazelmint66716 күн бұрын
She said she has fast metobolism, so she eats that large amount. She's still eating such amounts in her recent videos.
@vaiolal1673Күн бұрын
poor thing so sorry she had to go through that but good for her for being a strong woman. You never know what people are going through behind closed doors
@Sami-high57 күн бұрын
It breaks my heart and I do not understand what goes through some people’s minds I guess unless you’ve been through that situation or know somebody that’s been through that situation I guess you’ll never fully understand it. I hope as time goes on she finds a little bit of peace in her life and a little bit of happiness.
@vidajordan9803Күн бұрын
Makes you wonder how many KZbinrs are being exploited. The poor stay poor and the videographer takes all the $$.
@PollyAmorous7 күн бұрын
Gosh, nothing was her fault. Poor girl. I hope she finds happiness with someone who really respects her.
@miaraharris4826Күн бұрын
This really made me cry because everything she said I related to and it hurts I’m so glad she got out of it because I did and I’m grateful she did some women don’t
@FalkLorre7 күн бұрын
It's terrifying how easily we as humans can adapt to such darkness :(. I hope she never has to endure this again.