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#narcissist #npd #ptsd #psychopath #narcabuse #empath #gaslight

[@brianrossiter6427]

So spot on about how hard it is for them to find someone even close to us. WE can seldom find a high quality person, as high quality people. The narcissist had their best shot with us and they may never see it again. Truly.

[@naomifloyd4548]

I am in the process of officially ending my 11 years of torture. It has ended with a relief from abuse order, and him behind bars. I literally begged the Most High to set me free in a way that didn't transgress HIS word. My husband cheated yet again. I am grateful for the way things went down because at the end of the day, I am now free to worship and serve my Creator without hindrance and I'm free to raise my two beautiful children ( whom I was told I would likely never have) to do the same. Although this situation is not an easy one, we will finally have true Shalom, true joy, and genuine laughter in our house.

[@jahawhitaker1016]

Yup they always try to come back because they know you gave them the world with no hesitation smh

[@sisteroflight]

@ Jaha You can never give a narcissist the world literally speaking, No matter what you do, how much you sacrifice for them, it does not matter . It does not matter how little or how much money you have, houses, cars...whatever material blessings you bestow upon them, genuine pure faithful love...it will never be Enough!!! Never, never. However you have a point they are aware of your goodness so once they miss you they want to come back; somestimes not only to use you even more but some Narc if you take them back will punish you for breaking up with or leaving them. If they left you they will still make you miserable if you embrace and accept them back into yourlives. I blocked my ex- narcissist he cannot call or text me nor can he visit me 450 miles between us Praise God for the peace of mind. Bless you move on Jaha. To God Be All the Praise and Glory in Christ Always🙏😇.

[@dquest7761]

@@sisteroflight spot on!!! I built mine of from nothing and he said I did nothing for him!

[@jahawhitaker1016]

@@sisteroflight thank you so much for this information I'm learning everyday from different ppl and from my experiences and trust me I'm getting stronger each day and will be strong enough to completely disappear from his existence pray for me 😣😣😣

[@joleishahouse4404]

Lol mine said he not coming back because we will always remember what we did to one another (aka I will always hold him accountable for what he does )

[@sisteroflight]

@@jahawhitaker1016 Fast and pray ask God for a portion of HIS strength and power to move on, ask God to make you invisible from the ex! Never allowing your paths to cross again but; before you do be sure you have forgiven him. Once God removes him from your space/ life you will never see the ex again. So forgive him right before you walk away whether he appreciates the forgiveness or Not, it is for you more than him. Forgiveness helps you to cleanse and break that " Soul- tie , bond you had with the ex for good. God Almighty in Christ be with, bless, protect ,comfort and keep you as HE opens doors for you. To God be All the Praise, Glory in Christ Jesus Always. Amen.😇🙏.

[@elleesehouston267]

Hario I left my ex New Year Day this year. After 2 years of every type of abuse you can imagine. I cut his ass off. He stalked me..tried to kill me. I literally saw the Devil. Just 3 weeks ago he left a voicemail on my phone saying "I Love You." He has been blocked this whole time might I add. Changed my number..never looking back. People please go NO CONTACT! Love yourself. Heal yourself. You are Great. You are Beautiful. You are Worthy! 💟💜

[@peacefaith560]

they are crazy!!

[@DannyNewport]

They are terrifying. They will never understand how we feel about them. Its not fond

[@blakkmor5947]

Elleese, GREAT for you!!!! I am proud of you. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@elleesehouston267]

Thanks for all the love and kind words everyone! 💜 I hope you are all healing as well. We got this! 💪🏽

[@reesemonique]

He told me he can't leave me alone because I will always be apart of his life tf I won't!!! I have never loved myself this much so for that I thank him for pushing me to a point where i broke and now I am healed and closer to my higher self Stay no contact forever!!!! They will try to call ur family to "see how you doing" any link they will take it

[@1010QUEEN7]

I am irreplaceable I know my worth he lost the best thing that ever happened to him

[@b.allison8761]

THEY THINK THE GRASS IS GREENER LOL... YEA OK HAHAHA THE JOKE IS. ON THEM

[@aqualove2054]

I prayed so much for my relationship. God had to step out of heaven to walk me out of this madness.

[@livamoore5566]

Amen. I was like you 2yrs ago. Jah/Jesus real true. My answers was answered. I am a narcissist survivor. You're warriors. Be strong and courageous.

[@indiahindiah7295]

You too 👌👍👍👏👏👏👏

[@ankhofmotivation]

Yes me too smh🤦

[@joanngross786]

The Father did the same for me! Our Father in Heaven is so good!

[@ElliePolat]

What makes me mad is I was on top of the world in an amazing place in my life when I met him. He begged begged begged me to get with him I mean begged because I was not interested in a relationship. I was happy doing my own thing being independent and this piece of trash pursued me for weeks to the point where I thought ok let me give him a chance and boom he had me hook line and sinker. Moral of the story don’t EVER give yourself up for anyone. If you’re happy doing your own thing just carry on

[@kisigma1011]

Amen

[@MIRNA_LIZ]

Amen

[@MRLX54]

I can relate to this I have experienced this before. Those damn narcs!

[@Thespiritualgenie]

Amen Sister!

[@pinnakal1]

Yep

[@michaeltaylor9096]

I discared the narc. Every couple weeks I get a phone call. They are still BLOCKED. I don't understand the CRAZINESS.

[@MusicTime3eb]

I just ended my 3 year relationship and 1.5 year engagement once I had finally had enough. It felt impossible at first to remain no contact and accept I am doing the right thing. But I am proud I made it through and did not ruin my life with marriage, mixed finances and babies with that monster. Thank you so much for these videos, please never stop. Anytime I feel weak or doubtful or miss the good times, I come back here for a priceless dose of reality.

[@latashakendrick9709]

$priceless you are I had to learn this

[@terribryant7699]

BOOM 💥 KEEP GROWING SPIRITUALLY AS WELL!! Your soul was almost snatched psalm 27

[@CF201]

Legend, I don't even care if they find another one like me or not ...as long as I ain't in that shit... I'M SUPER GUCCI...

[@1010QUEEN7]

As long as its not me it's lights out for him no power

[@ctnwsm]

I feel the same way, keep me out the bullcrap! Lol!

[@katrinarichard8461]

I know that's real....

[@tamarabaptiste4245]

Hahahahaha 😂😂😂 you done done 🙌🏽

[@tamarabaptiste4245]

Hahahahaha 😂😂😂 you done done 🙌🏽

[@munirahlewin4694]

Lol! He married and bought a house with that female narc and now she is literally beating his a$$ so we ALL know who the real Alpha is and it ain't him! Barely married a month and there's trouble in paradise with them saying they no longer want each other. Karma works fast....😂🤣

[@pandora30riz20]

Even if life doesn't have anything better for me anything even being alone is better than being with the ahole I was with.

[@GlambitiousGirlYT]

Literally my ex We legally divorced December and he got his new supply pregnant in December / Jan Then married her in the blink of an eye . Trys to make sure I see how " happy " he is. Now that I'm healing I realized how messed up all this is and how much more I deserved . But thank god I'm single now ❤️

[@ChristiansPrayingTogether]

You're soooo pretty - he is one dumb man. He will get overwhelmed with his pregnant bride and come begging you and it looks like you won't take any crap from him ! Way to go, stay strong 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@GlambitiousGirlYT]

@@ChristiansPrayingTogether thank you that's really sweet I appreciate it ❤️

[@cherrycastro3425]

He got a new bride and a child to torture. That crap could never be happy.

[@aundreamaradiaga4488]

Mine did the same and still continues to try to show.

[@1010QUEEN7]

Bless you ♥️♥️♥️

[@georgejgilles.3999]

I've learned from being with one for over 25+ years to leave the trash in the trash.

[@marvanewborn2287]

😔WOW, "EXCELLENT"!! 12 YRS NO CONTACT, GRADE "A"!!

[@unapologeticallyme4428]

12 years!! That's beautiful

[@marvanewborn2287]

@@unapologeticallyme4428 , BUT I'M STILL "PISSED" THO!! I'M BETTER THAN I WAS BUT IF I "EVER" SEE HIM IN THE FLESH AND HE SAYS "ANYTHING" TO ME, HE'S GONNA GET THE "JUMP ON"!!😜 I WAS "DONE IN" BY HIM AFTER 20 YRS. OF MARRIAGE! I WAS WIFE #2, HE'S CURRENTLY ON WIFE #4!!😳

[@marvanewborn2287]

😣WHEN I FOUND OUT ABOUT THE AFFAIR AND "GAVE" HIM TO THE "NEW SUPPLY", THEY ONLY LASTED 5 MONTHS!😗

[@JMthdjhgbnjk]

True. An entanglement with a monster.

[@moniquemichelle.9374]

Lol 😂… Happy searching, narcs for a Noble man or a woman !! I laugh when my ex narc,told me that he hasn’t found another girl like me .

[@1010QUEEN7]

And he never will

[@davidcoppotelli3957]

Funny as Shit.

[@michaeltaylor9096]

I got discarded once went back after a hoover. THIS TIME I DISCARED THE NARC. I WENT NO CONTACT I BLOCKED THEM. FIRST 2 WEEKS PLEADED IN BEGGED. NOW EVERY COUPLE WEEKS I GET A HOOVER. KICK ROCKS IM DONE

[@marsha04053]

These narsisses dont realize that they can catch deseases and possible catch aids. Have you all thought about that?

[@youknow6607]

They will never care about you.

[@renab747]

This video is spot on!!! I left my narcissist ex over a month ago now and he’s been reaching out lately. I can feel it in my spirit he’s not happy and he’s so lost smh I pray for him.

[@melinatedvessel6840]

Don't go back tho...Don't allow your empathy to suck you into feeling sorry for someone who mistreated you,he'll just do it again..trust me.

[@1010QUEEN7]

Don't even let him back into your life you will be sorry let karma get him

[@sueznann8927]

He’s not lost, he knows exactly what he’s doing, but you’re right about not being happy, they don’t know what happy is, they are miserable

[@danscott2059]

Your incite is truly amazing!!!. You have been right on every single issue.

[@vincebrown8398]

I’ve been out 8 yrs, I still get hovered constantly. We have son together, thank God he is 17. She tries everything to get to me! That woman is void to me! No matter what she tries are get my son to do! I’m free never going back,,she still is looking for me in another! However she will never find me!

[@joannetier3044]

After 18 years together I know he will never find another me, I allowed him to live a charmed life and I was always there to come home to, basically a door mat. The new supply lasted 8 weeks, now he’s just focusing on his alcoholism, that’s his fuel, it never lets him down.

[@rillagriffin6471]

Mine alcoholic too. 14 years later I feel like an idiot but i woke up. Now i see. For this I’m grateful. Now i understand

[@carolkuhn6768]

Same

[@joanngross786]

My narc ex-husband was a doper and an alcoholic. I did the same as you, treated him like a king where he treated me like something on the bottom of his shoe. Never again will I be conned by these monsters.

[@latashakendrick9709]

The Alcoholism 🍾🍷🥃🥂🍺🍺🍹🍸

[@ladyvirgo013]

Same story for me, I gave my husband 12 good years as he was my Love. He started drinking 7 nights a week and then brutally discarded me for the secretary from his work

[@FredaFaithkennedy2523]

A narc will bluff, go all in a poker game with a 2&7 off suit....🤦🏽‍♀️ Straight slime balls!!! While the Empath always hold the winning hand all Ace's. My ✂️off game is on point! Blocked, no contact, backspaced, deleted, altf5.🤣 To #trifflin for me to look back.... Thanks for keeping me on my toes Hario✌🏽💞

[@jameshill7763]

Honestly I truly loved them, done what ever I could to please them , make them happy, found myself, cooking, cleaning, shopping, which I enjoy, was never enough, I adored her to just cook breakfast , something when we were both off, she give me a choice , she’s not , if i didn’t like it there’s the door, I was fed up, I took the door, left and never looked back! NO CONTACT ALL THE WAY AROUND. THE BEST THING I COULD HAVE DONE, 6 months out , I am so much better, no more lies, cheating, worrying about whose in your house, just peace, Greatful the MOST HIGH GOT ME OUT. Thank you for your help

[@Tubey44]

Hario you’re knowledge on Narcs is DOPE!...OMG thank you, this resonates very deep. Life after Narcs is GOLDEN! Hoovers and Discards were fun and games for him when I was blind. “But now I see” he has no choice but to back TF off. Life is so peaceful and bliss, my glow is attracting a lot of beautiful people...Real Self love is powerful! Darkness and Destruction is all the Narcs know. What an ugly way of living.....FATHER FORGIVE THEM! Thank you Mr Hario, another great video. 😙

[@rashidarowe7882]

I ddn't take him back so he started dating one of my friends to punish me, while telling me if i take him back he will dump her, I told him keep her.

[@melissamiller3345]

How dirty!! The "friend " too!!

[@amyeilering6470]

I can’t thank you enough for all of your videos❤

[@pj2.085]

That would be a good line-I think Walmart has what you’re looking for!😂

[@Highlyfavoredls]

Hario, I love your delivery!! It’s exactly what I need to hear and feel as I go through this!!

[@farah4983]

That's exactly where I'm at, I laugh so hard realizing what a total clown he is lol. And I say my god I invited an entire demon into my home! Praise God for leading me through this. I'm growing and glowing! Walk through this fire and keep leveling up my sister and brothers ❤️

[@redbone8844]

Girl I been laughing to I use to cry 😢 but I have no more tears 😭 I’m moving on and it feels so good! He’s been hoovering texting saying he love me 4 ever and asking me how my day is!! I didn’t respond I’ll let him talk to himself like he use to do me!!

[@slyfly4829]

My ex gf narc discarded me twice. N she is literally a snake in the grass in my life. She won't fuck off! Everything she did is trifflin as fuck. Tries to get reactions. Tries to make me jealous. Constantly and I mean CONSTANTLY calls the police on me. Is always snooping for anything to use against me. And uses my child as a pawn. It's clear she wants some form of attention from me. N I just will not give it to her. I think what scares her the most of me moving on.

[@metastract]

Thank you, Hario. You always make me smile. Yes, he was blowing up my phone when I went on staycation last week and wants to be friends. I'm just bulletproof now. I couldn't go back even if it were an option. Stay safe and well everyone. Keep moving forward!

[@tammyfitzgerald5336]

What is sad 😞 s they dropping kids and ruining the children 😮😮😮😮😮

[@gregorygrayson8044]

She uses her kids to try to ask for money I know it be her using their social media account

[@overcomer3607]

Omg he always said to me … “no one is thinking about you “ I always felt so belittled and unappreciated

[@joanngross786]

Don't give ANY credence to what he said! The jealous oaf was certainly thinking about you and he knew how attractive you are. My narc ex-husband could never belittle me because I had multiple degrees and he didn't. And he confessed that he never appreciated ANYTHING I ever did. Our Father in Heaven will ALWAYS love us and affirm us!

[@AZDC99]

3:54 "They THINK they can go from a Grade A Supply (you or me) to a high Grade C Suppy and think that THEY can just swoop on in and come back." I needed to hear this because the predictable holiday Hoover is perhaps coming up for me again. This used to be my mistake, Hario. I was not chasing after them, but very nice and happy scene a good side of them for the first time in a while. Then all defenses were down, and they came in for the kill again eventually. I need to remember to do what you've been doing for a while and just close the book instead of reading the next chapter of the horror tale

[@maryanngray4519]

They can come back all they want ,l won't b available. I'm enlove with my peace, do not distribute, stick with what you ran too

[@yvonnehill4854]

Exactly what the hell have I done. No contact y'all. Heal!!!!

[@semirainayatullah]

By watching your videos; I got to know the intentions and it's very much relatable in my case ... Right now, he doesn't call and I'm assuming that he is very much happy with the other supply ... Watching your videos everyday to get more composed and not to call him back from my side for my better future...

[@syahusha7776]

I'm waiting on The Most High. There is a great goodly man out there for me. Ladies, you can do it. It's over!

[@gladiatorninja1222]

I never want them to know where at in the first place.

[@peacefulself7848]

Outstanding! Thank you so much! A GOD send!

[@nancymc]

Hario is no joke. He tells it like it is. So much information, thank you so much for your Work💕

[@sharonlundy8579]

I may be imitated but never duplicated!!!!!!

[@dianeanderson2976]

Love this man . Every thing he says is so true. . .

[@tammyfitzgerald5336]

This is in the blood it’s a taught behavior severely Fd up 😮😮😮🙌🙏🏽🙌🙏🏽

[@Sophia-nu7vh]

Keep looking forward for every U turn you make that's a start over on you.

[@livamoore5566]

Thanks beautiful doamond queen.

[@Lynnejordan1218]

Beautifully said, 19yrs they left I wish them well, still healing...God is faithful

[@twannie1225]

So true bhro i cut the narcissists off

[@divine_presence]

The old me is dead and buried.

[@sindust150]

Damn, i was a super empath and grade A supply,. I saw her new source which was an old source; He came by the apartment after i put my foot sown, and he looked devoide of a soul, draind and lost, she said it was her uncle going throuhg a divorce; i was oblivious to the situation and delived her and didnt listen to my gut. Anyway, she fuched up, 4years, I took care of everything and now, Im on the way with my business making millions so she missed out on the mega lottery...😅😅😅😂😂😂so hell no way to coming back...😂😂😂😂

[@joanngross786]

Her loss!!

[@queenlesegofauchier7208]

I'm so happy again. I never thought I'll be.

[@patricebeene5396]

Truth be told !!! Exactly. Bye Boy!!!

[@debrajackson1244]

C grade supply at Wal-Mart. 😂😂😂

[@denisehoffman2817]

It's even better when they do it themselves!! You're full of wisdom Hario!!

[@amitasharma4770]

I just thank God at all times, God bless us all always Thank you for your inspiring vids

[@vickyalvarez6886]

My ex Narc is engaged to be married. I cold turkey his ass, nah, no new friends! We are not friends, he didn't like that. He did a BoyzIIMen and got on bended knees, and proposed to another, your fiancé is your friend not me! Now, he's going on live on FB, posting pics, on ig, Fb lol. Yes, doing the most trying to get a reaction from me. I no longer care. I don't deserve the mistreatment/gaslighting! Have a good life!

[@paulinerussell444]

I don't think they want another meee!!!

[@tracyjordan5157]

Feeling alittle inferior as Tim threatened this am with black eyes. I can back with who is going to do that, I know nobody here. Now are they gonna tear my shit up, is he going to follow me to store to threaten me. I have some things I need to do tomorrow! What do I do!

[@danetteclay1753]

💯Hario your absolutely right

[@soulclarity01]

I've been 5 years NC and finally found love and then I get a follow request on IG from his good friend from high school. We dated in high-school and when things were going well for him he discarded me it was horrific to say the least. Now I think back and I see how strong I actually was to deal with that crap, because my dad was just the same so of course I'd attract him outside too.

[@phylliskelley1570]

Sometimes many co dependent are to insecure and not mature enough to date, which leaves open to Narcissist. Many need one on one coaching and deprogram for they are at the extreme level which is Stockholm Syndrome! Some co dependent will ignore all help available?

[@misasmith6180]

I feel like the old me. Was kidnapped when I met him wow LoL

[@chasity3878]

Yup my narc told me I will always watch you no matter what u do where you go I moved away Two years narc free hallelujah!!!!!!

[@rhr3455]

Never ever💔

[@NewPhone-zn2wy]

I'm a super empath

[@monicatate6571]

So glad I found this channel !

[@pamelakelley5535]

I can tell u have definitely lived this nightmare. As many of us have. Thank u for ur contined support!!! U r right he will never find another super empath. Thank God I am not on other social media. Always remember God gives u beauty for the ashes.

[@joshuasjonas5787]

Good morning G i'm really glad to hear this i'm in this for 31 years i didnt know till a few weeks ago when i typed in narcissist that when my eyes opened now im treating the relationship with total silence , and outburst when it's overbearing now that she knows ive cut her of she doesnt like it but im not going to buckle

[@barbaraannhenderson9049]

You're. getting better and better you know what you're. talking about great work.

[@cocomi9901]

I was finally able to watch your video in its entirety without interruptions and I’m so glad I did! You touched on so many things but what stood out the most was when you said “the carnage the narc leaves behind, they left a trail of destruction” this is so true. Not only did my ex-husband break our covenant with his infidelity but the women he had affairs with were destroyed, devasted, and decimated also. Now he has more enemies than friends. He recently began hoovering and I couldn’t resist the opportunity to tell him what I have held back from saying for so long. He asked what I needed him to do to fix our relationship. I told him some things are beyond repair and this is one of those things but if he ever wants to give me anything all I want is his silence and distance.

[@dominiqueojehonmon9949]

Bro ,I've been following your coaching and now I am out but she won't live me alone ,so I set her u and dump her like a bad habit

[@Tinyshiny92]

I enjoyed watching this, lots of good and helpful information/insight…I’ve been dealing with a narcissist, aka my former best friend for a few years and today’s the day I decide to cut all ties with him. He sent me a voice message saying “you will never find somebody else like me, somebody who accepts you for who you are” 🤣 it’s over with his manipulation. I could hear the fear and rage in his shaky voice. He’s realising that he’s lost me now for real.

[@aspasiametaxa9804]

Thank you one more time for another excellent video.!!!!!

[@denisehoffman2817]

You always seem to be in a great space!!

[@kylaren6337]

Yes they will. They don’t care about you or the next person they deal with. So all of them are interchangeable.

[@Smile-zs5hd]

"Got the new supply pregnant "

[@peacefaith560]

dont mean a thing...they still hoover and walk away

[@randiallen5652]

Love you Hario thank you so so much! God Bless

[@rafprice1]

Your videos have helped alot. Everything you're saying is true

[@dquest7761]

Mr. Hario is telling the genuine truth!

[@markscram3134]

Thank you brother. I am a good person!

[@cindyhuntwalker4667]

Glad I'm 6 yrs free everything you say is true was with a narcissist for many years have 3 sons by one very low grade supply

[@phyllisdecilla7267]

So true! Beg over & over. I moved and refused to say where I moved to. I was messaged a picture of my new home with my address and message ...so you didnt think I could find you. Im sure you have nothing to say now good luck in your new place. 2 weeks later bought a diamond bracelet for me and 3 days later married (only because he had prostate removed & feels incompetent) the "girl" he cheated with (one of the many) when he was married and later on when he was with me. Joke is...she thinks she won! Lol

[@ilgenis]

I hope they never find me again in the future.

[@evelyn2542]

💯 thank you so very much!!!

[@fionafearon6078]

True!

[@777JESUSISLORD71]

The grade A supply is JESUS. They will never find rest in there soul without the one who gives rest

[@berniekennedy9793]

IF only I knew then what I know Now🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿❤️

[@tammyfitzgerald5336]

🎉❤🎉❤

[@shana2cute22]

Why everything u say resonates but all I can see n hear is ALL the natures natural sounds, beauty n just a serenity. 😊

[@avistop1]

Great video. I went through that earlier in my life. Grateful for that, better earlier than later. I knew from the beginning that something is wrong. Block, block, block.. bye Felicia.👋

[@angelinbrooke2324]

"I think they sell it at Walmart " lol

[@millionairemom]

Moms only have you as a supply.... the empath/scapegoat

[@MrErsahil]

This is the only reason why my nex has been stalking n hovered me more than 20 times from July 2020. The Recent one was today.

[@susang.perlina653]

You’re funny 😄 Thank you 😊

[@millionairemom]

Hello hario!

[@jamainedingle5198]

You right! It feels like she doesn't care that she discarded me and not looking back. Alot of people say she's not done with you yet.she use me emotionally and financially and we didn't have sex.

[@QueenOfWands1111]

Wassup #Harioovadtop. This is (mind yo bizness) I changed my name but still claiming it. My ex's Narc's) have gotten mad at me because I wouldn't cooperate with their narcissistic ass behavior. they have told me that they're going to try their hardest to make their new supply just like me🤔the juggling act has failed. it's impossible for these Narc's to ever find another me💛 I'm the only me on this earth that is like me and no one else can compete or compare 😁 when they realize they can't find another me, they end up hating the supply they with. they argue with the supply about me all of the time🤣 they realize what they lost but it's too late because I am not an enabler and if they feel they have a chance🙄 yeah they got a chance all right👇, in hell 🤣🤣