Second Date Update: She Finally Found Someone She Liked And He Ghosted!

[@okokok142]

True and she wasn’t ghosted she just refused to be passed up on - she’s totally self unaware and indulgent

[@rayabayaya]

Cassie is full of baloney. The caller asked for it and he delivered.

[@joamigg]

Casey is ridiculous. How it controlling to not tell her to wear something different and just say you aren’t my match? Controlling would be to make her wear what you want. He didn’t. He said wear what you want but i don’t have to be around for it. Casey hates men at this point. Therapy would be beneficial in my opinion

[@magusdx]

Geez Cassie needs to chill out. She is always so extreme on her opinions and against men specifically

[@dscse758]

Yeah she's been hurt somewhere down the line, no other explanation

[@kevincormier7417]

AGREED! And the way she speaks about men it's even more shocking that she's married to a man

[@M5snowhite]

Thank You Bert!! Finally somebody checked Cassie. Considering moe is quiet as a mouse, your our only hope. The segment have become so dry, its allways "men are trash" and "give women a pass". The bias is too much at times, good to hear the other side.

[@lorealsp.o.v.4607]

Kristin was trying to be the friend that softened the blow. Cassie is the "men ain't shit" friend.

[@summerrich1420]

Kristin is a no it all

[@kblack2248]

Ok lets call a spade a spade. Cassie is literally biased against men and Bert and Moe know how to play the game so they're not gonna go too hard. A guy cant sneeze around her without being called controlling or insecure. Like honey, project much??

[@s.holmes613]

Cassie is the type that would convince you to ruin your relationship but stay in hers for the same situation 😂.

[@Rudy-oh9wc]

Haha 😆 perfect way to describe her

[@dscse758]

😂😂😂 Nailed it!

[@londonlemons]

Man Cassie wins over reaction of the year every single segment 😅

[@kevincormier7417]

And this is why men GHOST. TO avoid an explanation of WHY. She's a perfect example

[@lyons11siren]

This caller doesn’t even know what ghosting means. The gentleman was a gentleman. The caller isn’t ready to look at herself the way she portrays herself. 😅

[@okokok142]

This guy did the right thing and she’s messsing it up for others bc she’s drama

[@skymoore212]

Cassie has a massive chip on her shoulders and over reaches on the smallest details

[@23awatkins]

Always. She misreads a lot of situations too.

[@dscse758]

All the time!!!😂 I sit and wait for it like, 'HOW is Cassie gonna twist this one to make the man a piece of trash?!' Never fails

[@jenellenelson4447]

I'll probably get blocked and hated on but whatever... My personal opinion. Davi "left" because she had a different opinion on everything apparently, the vibes were off... So why is Cassie still around? She's extremely toxic when it comes to her thoughts about men and considering the fact that she's MARRIED TO A MAN... Chad are you doing okay?

[@monicaclasener]

​​​@@jenellenelson4447Though I don't always agree with her either, she usually thinks her answers through. I find it fine that not everyone agrees with Bert, which seemed to be the overall impression I got after Davi was let go. In this instance Cassie got a bit overboard.

[@mariyaa111]

@@jenellenelson4447Same! I miss Davi! She had such insightful thoughts! Cassie is SO insecure with herself that she always comes across as negative and a know it all. I honestly stopped watching months ago because of her! This was the first episode I watched in months….and she did it again!!

[@mainegardenguy703]

Dude was classy and she can't accept that no means no. Stop chasing chads. Is she post wall?😊

[@edp6619]

I feel sorry for Bert and Moe.

[@dleehou1982]

Cassie needs to..... nevermind.... I like what you were saying Kristen.

[@estemeiring3705]

YOUR perfect date is not necessarily HIS perfect date. He was just being "nice"

[@estemeiring3705]

Imagine what she will be like the longer you know her she is TOO much. She keeps pushing. LET IT GO

[@gregmadison556]

If the guy said I would like to go out with you again, but next time wear something more conservative, that's controlling. If he was dressed in a suit and called the show because she ghosted him, everyone would say she likes a more relaxed guy not a stiff. Why is it what women like is a preference, what men like is controlling.

[@meganmoon6197]

Okay, Cassie. Did the reach hurt?

[@Sketch89]

Firstly : he established that he didn’t think they were right for each other. Which shoulda been end of story. Girl, why chase a person who’s not interested in you..? He’s ALLOWED to not like someone. Just bc you like him doesn’t mean feeling is mutual Secondly: what else do you want? He told you he wasn’t interested and you said “it doesn’t make sense”. Why..? Are you that vapid about yourself that some guys aren’t gonna want you ..? You can have a “good time” and still not feel any connection. People do it all the time. Thirdly : I don’t think it’s “intimidating” to him. I think he wants someone who meshes with his personality. And that’s not controlling. Controlling would be to get with her and try to make her more “demure” and acquire his tastes more. Sheesh, this is honestly why some women get BAD advice from their homegirls. Not every guy is controlling or intimidated by you. Men often know what they’re looking for tbh and you weren’t it. TLDR; he didn’t do anything wrong. He’s not controlling. She couldn’t fathom that he didn’t want to date HER. Men are allowed to say no. Men can have preferences that aren’t outrageous.

[@danielwaldron2197]

He's not controlling, he has preferences and she wasn't what he prefers, simple as that. Woman can run down a list of what they want and expect from a man but as soon as a guy says I don't like this or that he's labeled a douchbag or controlling and thats just your insecurities on the image you are trying to project being insulted. Yes ladies guys are allowed to have standards too.

[@TheDivineracer]

I ❤ this show! I love hearing all of your ideas. Constructive criticism is what it's all about. To be able to find out what makes people click or not. Great show! I look forward to watching. If I could I'd give y'all a thousand thumbs up every time! ❤ They're just not a match. He's conservative & she's more vivacious. Wish them both the best! And hope they each find the love of their life.

[@estemeiring3705]

If someone says I don't think we arse a match, meaning he is not interested. Don't force it!!

[@reneegabbard6437]

Women complain about men being to perverted as far as always wanting women who show off and stuff. And finally there’s a guy who is laid back and doesn’t want a woman who shows a lot of skin and Cassie says that’s a red flag??? What??? Lol

[@estemeiring3705]

He is NOT controlling. Just because he gave HIS opinion doesn't make him controlling Cassie is being "woke". He didn't WANT to tell her, she FORCED him.

[@Flyonyourwall]

Forcing him to give an answer that pleases her is what’s controlling 🧐🧐😊😊

[@frenchbluehen]

He could have had some issues with someone in the past. It is what it is. He didn't ghost her. I can see his point. I wouldn't date a guy who had to flirt with everyone either.

[@yeahokaycoolcool]

Cassie, it's a preference.

[@jennyonthecoast]

Abby’s look says it all

[@joieb340]

These women need to read the book "He's just not that into you"

[@kevincormier7417]

What she's missing: YOU had a great time! That doesn't mean that HE had a great time. 😂😂😂😂

[@kevincormier7417]

Somebody go give Cassie a hug. She's so hurt

[@smidgelette]

Oh Cassie… he didn’t try to control her, he respectfully declined to progress due to an obvious misalignment, there’s a huge difference. Please calm down and stop with the knee jerk reactions and over reaching for the ‘red flag’ alert. Speaking as a woman, your desperation to have every woman’s back makes you come across as a misandrist at times. We’re all entitled to our opinions but you sure are quick to pull the trigger at men without proper consideration. If you were my friend I would take your judgments with more than a pinch of salt.

[@dochamp2]

Intimidated? Kristin! Embarrassed is more like the way he was feeling!

[@dougmurray3692]

If he wantes somebody eho sas more conservative, thats ehat he should've aaid? He did, read beyween the lines. Contollimg, huh? Like telling him precisely which words to use and in dhich way?? Not that kind of controlling? Sometimes, what we don't like in others is something that we don't like having done to ourselves, even though WE DO IT ourselves.

[@kevincormier7417]

She's desperate. She needs to get her a few female friends so they can help educate her on how dating works

[@anniemccasey8032]

I love you, Cassie. But I think you are off in this one. It's simply a miss and not a match. The guy didn't do anything wrong.

[@ThesteelLion]

In all honesty if I don't get the same amount of effort I'm putting in in a relationship I will ghost it's not fair for me to be the only one putting in the effort my last relationship ended because of my disability I know this because she told me to my face a year later she married someone else that needed the exact same help I do feel like I wasted a year

[@kevincormier7417]

No "you had a good time on the date" what does that mean? It means "I'M.NOT INTO YOU" What else u wanna know? If he tells u ur forehead is too big or ur breath is bad of ur shape isn't hot, would that make u feel better? Women always do this. This is why guys are better off just ghosting bcuz they don't wanna get into a back & forth with u about them not being into u. Ugh

[@kevincormier7417]

Here comes Cassie 😂😂😂😂😂 right on cue

[@ladydip]

She keeps saying how she’s “dated a lot”. That’s not attractive to start. How about stop going on dates and just focus on yourself and let love come to you. It will find you if you stop looking so hard.

[@frenchbluehen]

That's dumb

[@kevincormier7417]

The definition of DE LU LU

[@valerierobertson6334]

I think she should take notes and tone it down

[@Sephiroth1550]

The ladies on this show honestly come off as hating men.

[@gs2782]

Intimidated?? That's a far reach. Imagine if the roles were reversed, the guy is all Chad up, chatty and flirty with everyone, dressed over the top with a low V cut shirt... ya'll will definitely say the guy was 'too much' for her anyway lol... give me a break, the double standard is as usual too much in this room. Cassie is also someone with low confidence. She likes to project her insecurities and her personal bad experiences with men unto people. Being condescending whenever men have standards just shows the amount of low confidence when it comes to rejection. Pretty sure she was scorned by men whom she deemed attractive, and to cope, she convinced her delusional self that men are the problem instead of her unattractive character.

[@JiroProject]

Imagine being the husband of cassie. You already know dude doesn't have any balls. Everything you do is wrong and judged at her house, even if he's right.

[@kevincormier7417]

Typical Cassie😂😂😂😂 Is anyone surprised? 😂😂😂😂

[@micheleking3160]

So she was too outgoing and he was more quiet

[@justthat9547]

any good man won't want his woman's good shown to everyone. He will care about what she wears. I would not want my girl wearing that crap. These women on your show are most likely single and it shows. Guys care about these things. these girls on your show got it wrong.

[@frenchbluehen]

None of the women on the show are single. Does THAT show?

[@beebeelicious]

Oh don't chat bull Cassie