Jimmy Carr: The Easiest Way To Live A Happier Life | E106

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

This was not the conversation I was expecting from Jimmy but it was definitely one of my favourites….. hit like and subscribe for a new episode every Monday

[@asabentley9174]

You're presenting skills WoW are 🚀 Open the question listen and let the guest flow. Keep smashing it!

[@bruce_daisley]

Pressed watch when it saw it in my feed. An hour later and I've just ordered his book

[@keithbucknall]

Interesting and excellent interview and I am at the same stage you discussed at 40Mins in can’t wait to see live in the new year.

[@samandjanesbubble3354]

Just listening to the audio version of his book just awesome this was also the best interview I’ve ever heard with Jimmy brilliantly conversational brilliantly constructed and delivered.

[@elizabethevans2790]

I'm only 17 minutes in and am already blown away by how eloquently he is speaking.

[@braidwooddesignstudio5536]

I am 80, inspirational podcast, I now understand, I can have a new life, having just lost my husband of 59 years to cancer. Not moving on, starting anew. Thank you.

[@karloliver3937]

Sorry for your loss, that must be really difficult for you. Remember grief is the price we pay for love. Peace :)

[@mattaitken888]

Chin up lovely 👍 We're all glad st least that you're still here with us 😘

[@swolefrog]

1:10:47 😳😳😳

[@yvethemetriccrafter688]

I'm interested in how your fresh start looks x

[@kasiak1238]

Thank you, now-THAT's inspiring

[@IBurningFuryI]

Jimmy is a perfect example of the value of this podcast. We get a totally different insight into the life of someone we think we know. Brilliant content and so important!

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

thank you ethan! Amazing compliment 🙏🏽

[@waltergimpsonjr619]

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[@CJEngelbrecht]

New to your podcast and share your passion for digital media that inform and educate, and as well entertain as well as entrain mutual flow state experiences. Thank you for sharing yours.

[@Stella-jq9up]

Absolutely agree.

[@lynclarke6184]

Laughter is an excellent replacement for happy pills. Congrats on being a father Jimmy. Enjoy every minute. The hardest job you’ll ever do but by far the most enjoyable. An overwhelming experience.

[@LoubinaA]

Thank you for confirming this side of Jimmy which I had a glimpse of years ago. I met Jimmy after receiving a Pride of Britain award, he came on stage after the cameras were rolling. He went to congratulate and speak to every winner. He was genuinely interested, asked questions and was super nice to every single person. He also remembered what everyone achieved and approached every person with kindness and being impressed by the achievements. He of course made us laugh but that was a by side of the whole experience. My respect for him went up after that experience.

[@SlinkiestTortoise23]

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[@adamk1924]

One of the main problems with society & Technology today is that we take “text msgs” out of context. ie: asking how someone feels and the reply being “fine thank’s yourself” now there’s no emotion in that at all unless you use an emoticon. So people actually take offense unless you write a fuckng book back to reply. But going back to what i originally said if you asked that question in person it would be a totally different outcome.

[@johnmcalester5165]

"You're not a noun, you're a verb" What a brilliant line, and a great way to look at life.

[@SC-ze1pd]

I seem to be a verb, quote by Buckminster Fuller )

[@helenkobayashi6900]

Who said this first? It's not a Jimmy Carr original

[@SC-ze1pd]

​“I live on Earth at present, and I don’t know what I am. I know that I am not a category. I am not a thing - a noun. I seem to be a verb, an evolutionary process - an integral function of the universe.” R. @@helenkobayashi6900

[@merokaren3285]

One line

[@GarethThomasTunes]

Nicely sums up a fundamental difference between Eastern and Western philosophy/religion. The western self is a temple, in Taoism, the self is flowing water.

[@kellie5476]

"95% of life is how you look at it and 5% is what happens to you." I can't even begin to explain how profound this is to me, thank you so much Jimmy.

[@danzephyr2797]

This line got me too

[@crazywiener11]

Very true, but it's the 5% that kills you.

[@StreepHetWeg]

It’s very stoic. If you like that read up on stoic thinking.

[@mattwilliamson1145]

This is the first time I’ve ever seen Jimmy show a side of his character that isn’t centred around his profession. What a knowledgeable, intricate guy. Learnt a lot from this man so thank you x

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

Amazing! Thanks Matt x

[@Adam-lf9vs]

I'd recommend Jimmy Carr's book- it's absolutely brilliant- very much in line with this episode!

[@thomasbone299]

I watched this for the first time today… I had to watch it again straight after. An absolutely fascinating conversation. Haven’t stopped thinking about it for hours.

[@charabaleben4100]

Most interesting interview. Fun and knowledgeable

[@AgoniesAunt]

Same! I'm not a huge fan of Jimmy's style of comedy, however to see this side of him... I'd enjoy a few long nights deep conversation with him over a bevvy or two.

[@sbIvanov]

Quotes and notes from the podcast: The meaning of life - "Enjoy the passage of time" "You are the story you tell yourself" "Comparison is the thief of joy" "The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago, the second-best time is now." "You are not a noun, you are a verb" This is the one podcast I wish I had the chance to see in person. But maybe some other time! (PS I am in London, so if it is possible, I would love to see the podcast in person)

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

So glad you took so much away from it 🙏🏽would love you to come, my telegram community is the best place for this - always giving out spaces there - t.me/joinchat/ou7M4_mF7Jw1OWQ0

[@sbIvanov]

@@TheDiaryOfACEO, as you said, it was a different side of Jimmy. It was a pleasure to get an insight into him. If you haven't been to his show, it is 100% worth it! I joined and I can see the great value of the group!

[@robovac3557]

Sounds like a while load of dribble to me.

[@idontknowman399]

I'd like to add on, "Everyone with any kind of education has educated themselves" - I think that was brilliant

[@Young_Techiez]

You are not a noun, you are a verb

[@HDgodfrey]

Im currently going through a process where my brain has been completely stripped of neurotransmitters. Total lack of dopamine, serotonin, and endorphins; with simultaneous increase in cortisol and other stress hormones. Early on I didn't even have the desire to do my favorite things. Literally the only joy I had in the first weeks was putting Mr. Carr on my earbuds and could actually laugh out loud. Legitimately wouldn't have made it through without him. I hope he knows he's a LITERAL life saver. He's a little wrong about being a dealer. He's not a drug dealer, he's a safe drug that I'll never build a tolerance to. Thank you from the bottom of my heart Mr. Carr.

[@paulherd2437]

This was one of the best things I’ve ever watched. Thought provoking.I’m 52 years old and feel like a small boy when listening to discussions like this. Taking it all in and thinking about what is being said and seeing how it sits with me. Thank you for making me think with my eyes wide open.👍

[@dancingmatilda]

Bear in mind he would call you "dead wood".

[@Ssomeinxam]

​@Matilda 55 and up. Ha He also seems to think ENVY means admire. And envy is not bad. Go Cambridge!

[@HumbleMonsterUK]

@@dancingmatilda I would laugh and still say he’s a legend and idol

[@thirusathy5859]

​@@dancingmatildaOnly if you are over 70. 😂 I'm 57 🥰

[@dancingmatilda]

@@HumbleMonsterUK Laughter is often the best response, for sure.

[@rachael1686]

I loved this podcast so much. Stumbled on it yesterday with Lewis Capoldi's interview and then this one caught my eye. What a refreshing open conversation. Jimmy reminded me that while I'm not where i wanted to be, I am content. I have enough. I handled the cards I was dealt and came out the other end. I have raised two good men. I own my house which due to past experiences was important to me for shelter security. I'm not going to retire in comfort but I'm not going to starve or be cold. I have a rescue dog who is my companion. Three good friends who I can count on in crisis. I have so much more than many and I have enough. I'm now in a position where I don't have to provide for anyone but myself and I am finally trying to find my passion. Trying things I didn't have the finances to try before or couldn't take the funds from my family. Slowly I'm learning who i am.

[@TheRealUncensoredTravelGuide]

There’s no other interviewer/conversationalist on the internet. The 3rd time Simon Sinek is also great and extremely inspiring. I had an ah ha moment listening. Hell, even my Mom was able to listen 🎧 for 90 minutes. Not so easy for Mum. Will I AM most recently was great.

[@zoemakeupartist09]

"and if you're not, know that's ok..... because it's going to change" Literally started crying at this and what a way to end now one of my now favourite episodes. You know when a podcast just hits you at a moment you really need it... Thanks both!

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

thanks for sharing zoe, so glad it resonated with you

[@debboo69]

Yep just watched this and it brought me to tears, too. Incredibly profound

[@jaack]

Loved this.

[@morganlyndon1071]

Didn’t ask him the important questions did he jack like what’s his favourite meal deal, not a joke it’s important

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

🙏🏽cheers bro

[@ClickHere]

Well received well said mate

[@smokescreentom]

Best one yet 😃

[@omiethamsia9009]

he’s not gonna shag you mate

[@GCsinger]

I cannot believe how wise he is. Never saw this side of him before, wow

[@533MrHappy]

I saw Jimmy at the Lowry a few years ago and I've never been in such pain from laughing. It was like doing sit ups for 2 hours straight. Someone brought a photograph of their partner and put it on the seat next to them on the front row. After establishing that she wasn't dead, he just linked so many jokes back to this guy sitting next to a framed photograph, it was incredible. I'm so sad that this interview is over, what a pleasure it has been

[@HumbleMonsterUK]

I saw him in 2023 in September best day of my life I can go and watch him everyday ❤

[@josephgreenberg2063]

When Mr Carr said we are either going toward or away from something echoed part of my favorite quote from the Dalai Lama: “Each person is either going toward pleasure or away from pain. Understanding which is how we learn how to help them.” Thank you for a valued conversation that adds so much definition for the brilliance of each of you.

[@tridenttraining2072]

I’m Jimmy at 25, applying for the graduate scheme at shell and thinking ‘is this it?’…. It’s scary of how similar our journeys have been up to this point. The dyslexia, the experience at school, the need to prove others wrongs and sadly both our experience with our mothers… I’ve never cried through a podcast before, this hit home and I thank both of you

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

Thanks for sharing, glad it hit home with you

[@AnyaB18]

One step at a time! You’re going to be okay 🤍

[@evanlogan2603]

Have you considered comedy?

[@urinater]

Jimmy at 25 was also a virgin. I’m sure you’re way ahead

[@macktlo9]

@@urinater what a bonehead comment.

[@jake_wilkinson]

I listen via Spotify but I had to come over to KZbin to say that this is my favourite episode. What a great discussion but also what a surprise how amazing Jimmy Carr is. He’s better than many life coaches etc as he says it so simply and is so aware of his flaws and doesn’t try insist his way is the only or best way.

[@cryptominingsauce4043]

I never imagined that I would sit and listen to Jimmy C other than for his comedy. However, this video alone is proof that everyone has something more than what we see on the surface to offer.

[@jimbojimbo6873]

Not everyone

[@josso1]

I've never seen him be sincere on video, this is a gem

[@autonaryman]

Carr isn’t my favourite comic but he’s now one of my favourite motivational speakers.

[@karenwebb7412]

Your podcast regarding your diary was amazing. It's taken me 35 years to realise what's important for this very short life we have. I say 35 years as from the age of 15 after leaving school I have been on a journey on not knowing who I am and what is life all about? I have just recently thought long and hard about my life. My father passed away in September 2022 suddenly and the destruction of my life happened at the same time. My family became broken and my trust in my family broke. This led me to want so much more out of this life. All the insecurities I had from a very young age and the lack of confidence I had all my life came to the surface. My father passed away and a new me was born. I lost my family the day after my father's funeral because certain things came to the surface. This will probably mean I'll never see my family again ? I feel like I now have to start a new life. As Jimmy Carr states trying to make your family like you or respect you is a fight you can spend your life doing. I have so many ideas for business, ideas that can even help to support and change people's lives. The problem I have which is the same as alot of people come across is money, money to start your business. My father worked so hard at saving all his life, very careful with money not squandering on senseless material items or needs. I will not inherite anything from my father for the simple reason of speaking up about issues that were kept in Pandoras box. The truth the darkness behind family secrets. To realise your mother does not live you as she does your younger siblings. To realise she probably never even wanted you!! There is certain things I hate in life, jealousy, greed, the need to hurt others regardless of the consequences, lack of loyalty and lies. The most dangerous threat in life is the human being. The most destructive being on the planet. Again listening to your podcast to realise how we all yearn to be loved , to be excepted is the most painful emotion us humans enflict on one another and to ourselves. The most success you will ever achieve Stephen is your podcasts. The people you interview the stories you have unraveled I feel has changed so many peoples lives. You are the male version of Oprah Winfrey. Not to patronise anyone who is young and successful, but for your age Stephen I can honestly say you are a person who will always attract interesting and influential people into your world. That is the wealth you have gained Stephen and this I am sure will continue throughout your journey. Much thanks and love. Karen

[@seedsetter]

Thank you so much for sharing.

[@denisetownshend6439]

Omg please dont compare him to Oprah Winfrey

[@cathicraig8812]

Oh.... that makes me sad. I am 70 and this talk has inspired me. I believe your comments are applicable to any age. I have not given up yet! This is an incredible discussion. Thank you

[@dancindited]

Since I was very young I knew I wanted to be a good mother and a hard worker. When I had my three children I told each of them " I don't care what you do in life , just be happy " . I am 62 now and I'm suffering with chronic pain which is not being managed due to guidelines set to protect addicts. I have no income but I have a living husband and I am always happy. I hope people that are not in pain make the most with their lives as health is the one thing I wish I had back.

[@jared3370]

12 mins in and im already moved by his words. This man has brought me out of so many deep dark states with his comedy. It's refreshing to see this side of him too

[@Aaron-sz8po]

i have dyslexia and every time jimmy talks about what it was like growing up with it and wanting to prove yourself to others and to yourself is so true and i can relate to everything he says about dyslexia. its very nice to see someone that understands what its like.

[@badgoat666]

I have sex daily. No wait... dyslexia, I have dyslexia.

[@pavers88]

this is the first time where I can easily say I've been blown away by a podcast. This was exceptional

[@jazzochannel]

I was blown away like that by your mum.

[@adelefox9953]

This is the 2nd Diary I’ve listened too, and WOW. Absolutely blown away. Seeing the vulnerable side of Jimmy and how passionate he is about everything he spoke about is a real eye opener. I liked him before, but he has really raised himself up. Outstanding interview.

[@azurephoenix9546]

Jimmy reminds me of how grateful I am for my kids. They're such relationship focused people and they love so much and care so much for the people in their lives. It's like it's their generation's rebellion against the technocratic world they live in, that they will make time to go hang out with their friends without phones. They make time to connect to other people in a real way. Keep fighting the power, kids!

[@doncorleonen3521]

Had to pause multiple times to reflect on the jabs of wisdom and epiphanies they’re sharing. Love this interview!

[@danielzbennett]

Steven you did an amazing job letting Jimmy speak. It's very hard as the host to try and not take the lead the whole time. But you did really well to let it flow naturally! One of the best I've ever listened too.

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

Thanks for your kind words Dan 🙏🏽

[@adiroots]

I second that!

[@Chris-jy3el]

*listened to

[@colourful.foodie]

Very much agree, great skill to have 👌🏼

[@upper9052]

This side of Jimmy is phenomenal, I’m surprised we don’t get more of this. Great episode!

[@RuthShultz47]

Jimmy you are an absolutely genuine lovely man. I appreciate everything that you shared. I am so happy to hear you are in between your jokes. I am over 70 and you answered a couple of questions I have had for a long time Jimmy. You kept me laughing every time I have seen one of your shows.

[@bradfordist]

I have never watched Jimmy as a comedian but his sincerity here is superb. One of my favourite podcasts ever

[@marksmith1732]

I can't be the only one who feels like Jimmy Carr is the new dalai lama, with an incredibly healthy outlook on life. A genuinely shockingly philosophical and inspirational conversation from someone who you expect to be more sarcastic and guarded.

[@ciciolhaaqui]

This didn’t age well hehe

[@HumbleMonsterUK]

He is actually a qualified as a therapist

[@FineYungCannibal.]

Absolutely loved seeing this side to Jimmy Carr, one of my favourite comedians. I've been glued to this conversation and hung on every word he has said, the hour and half I've been watching has felt like 5 minutes. A lot of feelings and thoughts I can really relate to, I'm looking forward to reading his book.

[@ftfernandes92]

omg never in my life I thought that Jimmy Carr would be such an emotionally intelligent person and the level of intellectual thinking off the roof, is amazing

[@reginaldworthington7558]

If someone would have told me a few years ago that I would be adding a Jimmy Carr interview to my ‘Wisdom’ playlist in 2023, they would have gotten a bigger 😂 from me than Jimmy ever did - and he’s cracked me up a lot it has to be said. This was truly an informative and inspiring hour and a half listening to a guy we clearly never really knew. He had my respect as a comedian who had to endure endless barbs from his piers and just keep on going, but as of today, he’s got my respect as a human being with a big heart and a sizable brain to go with. Well done Jimmy.

[@Caznainthehouse]

Always liked Jimmy Carr for his quick wit and side splitting humor. To see this side of Jimmy laid bare was astounding. His intelligenge and deep insights were awe inspiring. Such an amazing man I could listen to Jimmy talk all day, so profound, so honest and a man that 100% knows his way around a dick joke. I found myself hanging on every word. Thank you so much for putting this to air 🙏

[@FineYungCannibal.]

The last time I seen Jimmy Carr live was a couple of years ago, and I was walking back to my car with my other half and I was saying how hilarious he is and how much I enjoyed it and I said, I just wish I knew more about him, I wish he gave us a glimpse of what he is like in real life and here we are, he's giving us the real deal and it's amazing.

[@NannyOggins]

Jimmy, you were ready for having a child, wow! Wow, you’re the first person i’ve ever heard say that. I wasn’t ready, I’m still not 40 years later! Some great advice in this podcast! Steve, I empathise totally with your belief that not having enough as a child, having no physical security, being the odd kid out, gave you the drive to succeed. I know for certain that it had that effect on me. Now, in my seventh decade I have enough, and as secure as human life can be.. Its the best feeling in the world but boy, did it take sacrifice and brutal hard work to get here.

[@aciuschristophores7789]

Pardon me I'm late to the scene, I DID NOT expect THIS LEVEL of brilliance from Jimmy Carr! I always knew about him but am not huge into comedy, this guy has such skyrocketing levels of intellect, every moment is sharpness and unique philosophical insight. This entire generation can benefit HUGELY from this podcast episode.

[@HumbleMonsterUK]

I suffer from depression and anxiety after I was diagnosed with epilepsy. I’m always indoors and avoid going out. I read his book and I watched this interview. The other night on instagram I saw a post he’s doing a live show close by and I thought you know what I’m going listen to his advice and remember I got one life f… depression and anxiety I’m going to book a ticket and go see him. If you are depressed and suffer from anxiety you know how difficult it can be to get out of bed so for me this is going to be an achievement. Thank you Jimmy

[@andyp743]

There was a moment in this that spoke to me like nothing else has. In short, how do you balance having enough and being content, but also being ambitious and goal orientated? I've tussled with this for years now. I had a family situation that I used to be able to use to drive me. They didn't believe in me and it was an 'I'll show you' reaction. Then I achieved what I set out to do. I have more than enough to be happy. Those family members have passed on and I've made peace. Every single aspect of my life ticks every possible box and I'm happy with it. But then what do you do with your day if you're happy? I can't wake up and go, 'today I'm going to just be happy'. Sometimes I wish for the time where I wasn't enough and I hadn't reached my goals. Creating more goals doesn't work as there's just not that drive behind them that I used to have. The best thing was hearing someone else ask that question, that I'm not the only one who has searched for that answer. Thanks Steven.

[@NeonPixels81]

Comedians are generally the most intelligent and philosophical people, because they are so aware. They understand, usually from a young age, that we're born into a losing struggle.

[@SeyfShares]

"Comparison is the thief of Joy" - favourite quote from the podcast. thank you Jimmy and thank you Steven

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

🙌🏽 and thank you 🙏🏽

[@Dawn-yo7ly]

It’s weird how sometimes a podcast or video comes to me that is so relevant to what’s going on with me and my life right now. I’m coming out of a period of illness where I was housebound and bedbound for a long time. (Years.) Im recovering, but now need to find my purpose and what I enjoy, as well as get fresh perspectives on just about all elements of life and living. And I didn’t expect to get it from my favourite comedian, I never knew he was so insightful, intelligent and deep!

[@aidanoleary636]

Thank you Jimmy and Steven. This was one of the most incredible podcasts/discussions I have ever heard. I cannot explain how important it is for me to have heard this now. Thank you thank you thank you.

[@fromthedumpstertothegrave3689]

Love the use of the cancer analogy for depression. I use that all the time that the idea of telling someone with depression "You need to try and cheer yourself up is like telling somone with cancer "You need to try and stop having a tumour."

[@timbob1145]

I have a slightly different view of depression, I don't think it's an illness... I think it's a perfectly natural thing for the human body to do, it's just that the modern world makes it seem like an illness because it doesn't make allowance for it. Sometimes you just don't have the right chemistry in your body to 'perform' the role of the modern human. If people were just allowed to feel that way and not made to feel worse because they don't want to partake in the pantomime, then the thoughts may not spiral towards feelings of uselessness and suicide etc.

[@fromthedumpstertothegrave3689]

@Tim Bob yeah that's fair. It's essentially an illness by definition of societal expectations. I work two days a week as a nurse and the rest of the time I keep myself busy with gym, painting, whatever. 2 maybe 3 days are the most I can work and stay healthy. Was ready to top myself trying to do 3 or 4 12 hour shifts in a row swapping back and forth between days and nights. I've found what works for me and have stayed in a good place mentally for over a year now.

[@paigegordon9707]

shed tears during so many points of this podcast, not because I'm sad, because it makes sense! who knew Jimmy Carr, one of the most famously brutal comedians would be an inspiration to do better

[@jackwhitbread4583]

Wasn't surprising for me, all the comics speak highly of Jimmy as a person. Russell Howard is very close to Jimmy and he's always said how kind Jimmy is in real life and what a genuinely nice guy he is. I feel I would connect deeply with Jimmy also, he doesn't like small talk but he will talk for hours on important serious subjects that capture his interest or 4hat challenge him intellectually, Jimmy is insanely intelligent and I think this interview really showcases that

[@edghall]

😊

[@danran1691]

What a great episode this was. I have to say I was never a fan of Jimmy's comedy. Ever since I saw him at Uni in 2000. But....what's beautiful about this circle is that I was at one if his failure shows....that he so profoundly described as important towards success. This episode has completely changed my perception of this man. I've listened to it twice already and will vow to listen to it more. He may be paraphrasing, he may be stating quotes, but that's exactly what we (I) need. It's a brilliant collection of ideas and I LOVE this. Thank you so much you two. You've helped me more than you know.

[@howardhill4077]

I'm loving your series and the many wise and inspirational comments being shared. Just wanted to add something about gratitude, which Jimmy raised in this interview. I have practised Nichiren Buddhism for many years and once heard an elderly Japanese man called Mr Izumi talk about gratitude. He described how the word 'but' can be a pollutant in our life. To explain this he used the example of someone offering you a cup of tea. If we say, "Thanks for the cup of tea but where are the biscuits." all we are expressing is complaint. If, on the other hand we say, "Thanks for the cup of tea it's lovely. Do you by any chance have some biscuits?" we are expressing gratitude purely but also expressing our desire for something else. Thank you.

[@xzonia1]

That is a good point. I try to not use the word "but" when I speak ... but ... it's not easy to do. Lol. I'm a Christian who finds a lot of wisdom and value in Buddhist teachings, so thank you for sharing this lesson! :)

[@TheHawkeyeQuilter]

"Enjoy the passage of time" brought tears to this 50+ woman. The next set of tears came when Jimmy answered "Yes" to the question "Are you happy?" It was not that he answered yes, but that he did so with such a stern resoluteness vs. "looking" energetically happy. It reminded me a lot of myself when I'm happy (more pensive and reflective of the moment vs. spasmodic energy). The entire episode was incredibly inspiring -- for young and old. Fairly new to your channel; this episode made me click the subscribe button although each of the 3 episodes I've watched to date has affected me to make changes in my life this past two weeks! Thank you. Another of your episodes I'll be sharing with others.

[@lizford8316]

This interview has presented such a deeper funny side of Jimmy Carr I love the evolution of his work Great interview

[@estellesilver8299]

I've listened to dozens of these and I think this is the best one I've ever heard. Love both of you ❤

[@bazza5699]

Blimey, Jimmy Carr was totally not what I expected. His TV persona is slick, quick witted, juvenile and to me - somewhat superficial. yet, this Jimmy Carr is thought provoking, deep, engaging, incredibly interesting. I really hope I get to see more of this Jimmy in future.

[@fidelcastro9579]

Watched him live at the O2 in Brixton. Absolute class. Brutal delivery with the content. Ended with total warmth and humility. Brilliant night, would see him again time after time.

[@MrsDallimore08]

Thank you thank you, dear dear Jimmy Carr, this is the best podcast Ive listened too. You opened my already open mind to an extent I did not feel possible. Thank you x

[@irinaiv6259]

‘We all have someone to serve’ …that’s brilliant how realistic u become after these words. I loved so many of ur podcasts, but this one is just another level

[@christopherdavis4135]

I've always loved Jimmy as a comedian, and this interview just proves that he's a great guy as well.

[@ashleycooper4453]

Unbelievably eye opening..first podcast I’ve cried listening to. Just hit home on so many points! A very wise man he is. Similar to others I only knew his public persona, but I have even more respect for him now! He’s always been my fave comedian and a lot of the situations he describes I’m going through or have been through (in my own version) surprisingly profound and philosophical, love it!! 🙌🏽💪🏽

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

Good to hear you enjoyed it ashley!

[@OpenMind3000]

Wow. Haven´t seen this side of Jimmy before

[@TheOceanLoader]

Absolutely brilliant episode to hear these two highly articulate, very intelligent conversationalists discuss some inspiring concepts.

[@djd8305]

"Take some hard work and and time - that's your luck." As a late starter 56 yr old He's soo right.

[@jamiecarbine2628]

Wow, absolutely hooked from start to finish. It's actually incredible how relevent this discussion is to my life at the moment and how much I really needed to hear what was talked about. Massive thanks to both of you!

[@grumblycurmudgeon]

What makes this SO remarkable is I don't think there's a person alive for whom it's NOT contemporary, not immediately relevant. This really is one of the honest treasures this platform - KZbin, that is - has contributed to the world.

[@angalmeida29]

@@grumblycurmudgeon totally agree with you ! KZbin you are an angel to humanity

[@lollages111]

This was such an excellent listen. It got me thinking a lot about how much more access people have to advice these days. Young people at the moment who are just leaving school/college or in their first jobs have so much access to this type of valuable content by way of the Internet. I'm not particularly old (mid 30s) but even 20 years ago this sort of thing just wasn't available. We just had to go and make mistakes - i'm glad I recovered from mine. Like Jimmy, I blindly went through school, university and work until I pursued other things. But a lot of people stay stuck. There was advice from teachers/relatives and books but this is so much more relevant and I'm really glad to see positives from social media/the internet such as this. Maybe younger people can be more informed in their choices than my generation were. I think what Jimmy was saying about how much would you take to give up on your dreams (e.g. the 35K job) is something people should really consider. It gets harder to just walk away from those stable income streams the older you get - so choose wisely. You have a new subscriber :)

[@missrachmc]

The best podcast I’ve ever listened to, this man is so knowledgeable, he is living his life and sharing his amazing experiences👏🏼

[@lazatron2547]

This episode is ground breaking as it's so much more like a conversation instead of an 'interview'. Such a great episode.

[@nextari]

Now I know why I love his comedy so much. He's brilliant and introspective and dead honest with himself.

[@lneleven1708]

Listening to this at the age of 40 knowing that I’ve only just started my journey of happiness is a contradiction in feelings

[@mindspeaking583]

He is so interesting! So smart, so clued up with life, so good at understanding himself and everyone else too! I’ve stayed up for 4 hours watching him, never gave him the time of the day until Shaun lock died I realised how funny Shaun was I ventured into the others on the program and realised I should be watching the others as they are just as clever. He’s one of my favourites now.

[@alleycatiron4395]

Jimmy carr is an absolute genius and pretty much a philosopher. He understands pain and depression to an astounding degree. He is a great comedian but an excellent man. What a great man.

[@gracelouise3014]

Experience and knowledge and understanding of the workings of the mind, married to produce wisdom, insightfulness and most important of all, self responsibility - what’s not to like?! Superb episode!!

[@lewishayward994]

Half way through and had to stop and re-listen to it as the first 30 mins HIT HARD. Absolutely brilliant podcast which i really needed.

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

Great to hear it resonated with you 🙌🏽

[@BlinkVirus]

Always loved Jimmy Car's material. I wasn't expecting him to provoke me with life changing thoughts. Love it

[@aussiechris5904]

Same for me, I love his stand-up routines, never saw this side of him coming. Shouldn't be too surprised though - he's obviously a clever and observant man.

[@jackwhitbread4583]

@@aussiechris5904 said to be one of the kindest comics out there too, he speaks to his fans and shows genuine interest and even remembers them.

[@williamodonnell4928]

Disposition is more important than position. 95% of life is how you look it and 5% is what happens to you. One of the most important and profound things I have ever heard.

[@badgoat666]

Jimmy Carr ia an absolute legend. My absolute favourite British comedian. Probably because of his intelligence and perspicacity. Inspiring.

[@mariajosefanjul6105]

What an insightful man! I am in awe of his wisdom and humanity, thank you!

[@Tommo171UK]

Has to be the best interview I've seen in many years, such an intelligent guy and it was great to see him open up so much. Great work.

[@MadMattyDig1]

Stunned at the depth in this chat. Jimmy Carr’s clearly well read & personable, really enjoyed the conversation. Thanks!

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

Thanks Matt, glad you enjoyed

[@MariaInstantKarma]

It's so surprising and amazing to see and hear Jimmy like this. The amount of wisdom is so thought provoking. I don't know much of Jimmy's material, but I love him in QI and always watch the episodes with him over and over again. When I stumbled upon your channel while searching for interviews with Stephen Fry (also an amazing episode), I found this gem. The topics you're talking about are very serious, but it's amazing to see that everyone is having a good time and obviously has no problem to open up to you. At this point I haven't listen/seen a lot of the episodes (yet). But I'm definitely going to. Thank you!

[@the_panos]

looking for interviews with Stephen Fry is exactly how I found this channel as well! And then just the start of this interview made me buy Jimmy's book and I've already gotten so much from it.

[@jessykaiser6373]

My family used to "technologically decompress" back in the 80's when we would go to an old farm house in France. We had electricity, a fridge and a stove, lights, but only one radio! ... No telly, no cassette or cd player, and no instant heat either. ... We chopped our own wood, or filled the mini oil oven with oil. ... For a while we did not have running water either, and had to get it from an old iron cast water pump in the field. ... I highly recommend doing this. It brings family closely together & makes you extremely thankful for any comfort in life.

[@davidbidwell4091]

Wow,I don’t know if Jimmy is better a comedian or with his life guidance. Either way,he’s brilliant. I’m actually going to see him tonight.

[@CarJul666]

I suspected that Jimmy had a serious side and still I'm surprised over how serious he is. Loving his honesty.

[@christinerush236]

I've watched this twice bc I love it so much. Jimmy speaks SO much sense here. What a wise and lovely man!

[@becbec3541]

Something which has become very apparent to me in the last couple of years is how much our society has encouraged and conditioned us to strive to live “independently” from our families. Not only is this ideal presented as aspirational, those who don’t manage to achieve this goal are looked down upon. Examples being young people fixated on moving out of the family home, with those who “still” live at home being seen as having failed, and the majority of elder people now living in care or retirement homes instead of with family because they “don’t want to be a burden”. I am absolutely convinced that this trend has caused a large part of the pandemic of loneliness, depression, suicide, cognitive illnesses (such as Alzheimer’s and dementia) as well as many physical conditions that we are now facing. These issues do not seem to be as prevalent in societies where people live in larger more traditional family groups and communities. One thing that a lot of people said to me when I had my son two years ago was “it takes a village to raise a child”. Well, I think this saying can be extended to many of the things that we have to deal with in life but for a lot of us that village does not exist to the degree we need and online communication is not an adequate solution. I feel that the future of our society in many ways will be driven by us reverting back to living, working, shopping and socialising in more local community groups.

[@jardavondruska]

Absolutely!!!!! ,👏

[@ktkee7161]

Did you see the Jon Snow show how to live to a hundred? He discusses this. Of course, there are downsides to every up, and not every family gets on, or are abusive, and women can end up being the skivvy in these "happy families".

[@widaa911]

A real conversation ❤ You might have saved many lives on this day

[@eyemallears2647]

Paraphrasing: “Being famous/known by everyone is the norm because in history everyone knew us in our small communities” Jimmy just blew my mind.

[@bokchoiman]

That is pretty revealing.

[@thepoofication]

Jimmy is incredibly spot on in this podcast - he is looking at the interviewer and the camera at the same time, true pro... jokes aside, really loved this interview, only seen short funny interviews / apearances where he is basically in his standup conversational form. Will look for more long form interviews of him like this. OP thanks for this podcast

[@dangibsonmusic2291]

Love Jimmy's comment on pattern recognition, focusing more on structural representation rather than subject knowledge. Jimmy relates it to being a comedian, but the way he described it, it kind of explained the way the high functioning autism manifests itself.

[@CanwegetSubscriberswithn-cu2it]

Its how we all work, not just autistics

[@Betterworldforyou.]

You two are best In your ways . Thank you for bringing such a beautiful episode and honest talk to your heart. Thank you from Australia 🇦🇺.

[@AussieRoos]

A permanent solution to a temporary problem 🙌 my friend lost his battle with depression at 33, Father of two daughters 9 & 7 absolutely devastating, mental health is crucial, glad society and particularly Men are addressing their MH more

[@AussieRoos]

@@Kinematographer keep strong Brother 💪🏼thanks for sharing your story, so true about depression effecting those who we perceive to have everything, tragic when parents leave young kids behind True regarding running & swimming or exercise is general, I have struggled with substance abuse in the past and my family has a history of alcoholism, still does unfortunately, but I have used running to stay on track. Swimming can be a great form of meditation and escape from the noise. I am not materialistic, I ride my bike to work most days, but my mind still races at times. Cutting out social media and garbage 🗑️ TV 📺 has been a blessing, still enjoy quality viewing but happy to read a book or listen to a podcast while doing something productive. I love technology, but as you said, there is a time & a place and taking breaks and enjoying nature or just chilling and appreciating the simple things brings me gratitude 🙏

[@Kinematographer]

@@AussieRoos thanks, I was worried my post sounded like a me me me story, Im so disabled by erosion of character. Im trying, one thing I forgot to say that I think is really important..if you hear yourself say "but other people are in a worse place" thats true, but a very strong sign you don't respect yourself.Better to get better -and help those people, than for you all to drown, right? I have a bike i found for 5 euros, and a kayak. Its all I need. Maybe all I ever needed.

[@derekcoaker6579]

​@@Kinematographer It's ok to give a "Me, Me, Me story." Like what was said in this Podcast, "If you don't put your oxygen Mask on first, you're no good to anyone". Appreciate you sharing.

[@poissonpuerile8897]

What a tremendously thoughtful, sensitive and deep man Carr is! I had no idea until I watched this interview. Bravo!

[@joecoolioness6399]

I find I am surprised when comics get on these interviews and they are deep and thoughtful and intelligent. But then I think, yeah, you gotta be pretty smart to be a good comic. Coming up with jokes is not easy by any stretch. It makes sense they would have more brain power than the average person.

[@tclips__]

I was kinda shocked that this extremely intelligent, well-spoken and sophisticated man is the same guy who tells jokes about fucking people's moms on stage. And I love both sides of him.

[@VeRTz7]

going through a really dark time at the moment, struggling to see a way out and this conversation made me question my perspective and what I want from life. loved it. subscribed. 👍

[@NamaDoodoo]

Hang in there pal, you’ll see a ray on sunshine soon enough 💜

[@johnshore3095]

VeRTz the dark is promoted at moment. Nature, pets, friends, fresh air.. the last 2 years have been tough on many. I have been going through dark times, I seem to be exiting them. Know you are not alone in this.

[@markrieke8753]

Perhaps get his book?

[@Lloyd1885]

What Nama said, just hang on, bide your time, don't be frustrated and look for a quick solution, it will get better, it always does, open your eyes to what's around you, you wont be able to see the light at the end of the tunnel otherwise...best wishes 👍

[@ZUMBACOSTABLANCA]

Full disclosure, I have never heard of or seen this man before- I live abroad and have done for almost 30 years, so almost didn't watch this one. However, ONCE AGAIN, I just learnt so many thought provoking nuggets. I absolutely love these podcasts, even though they are making my reading list ridiculously long. Thanks Jimmy, and thanks again Steven (full, full disclosure, I hadn't heard of you either until finding these podcasts. I wasn't aware of Dragon's den. Mindblowingly awesome- all of the interviews. Thank you 🙏

[@fionarangel9486]

One rule i told my children - find something you enjoy, something you're goid at and focus on that. Once school is done you'll not have to do those subject you hate! When I was at school the only homework I actively participated in was maths. I loved it so much I i asked for extra work. I loved problem solving. I worked harder than most people would because i had a baby at 15 and another at 18 and i wanted to prove that didnt mean i was going to be a waster on benefits in a council house. I'm a senior supply chain leader now, still climbing the ladder and still learning... And still loving it

[@eonryan8491]

42:00 42:46 44:02 - zen and the art of making a living, what color is your parachute (workbook for knowing yourself and finding purpose) 45:57 51:10 - you look at people who had been given everything and had done nothing 53:53 1:07:17 1:11:46

[@carlcarlsberg5900]

This was really good. The first time I've watched this channel, just stumbled on it. Faith or no faith, a lot of people will feel a lot of honesty and positivity from this. Respect for this interview guys. I look forward to the new material Jimmy. 👍

[@no-oneman.4140]

The most thought provoking interview I've ever heard. Sincere thank you to you both. My dear ol' mum always said contentment was the key.

[@mrsrees4010]

Absolutely loved this 💜 so good to hear about the real Jimmy Carr, talking about mental health and happiness really helped me realise you can be open about how you truly feel. Love your podcasts :)

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

Thank you mrs Rees 🙏🏽