This is why we CAN'T travel with our Autistic daughter!

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The Gentle Life

The Gentle Life

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@Blueivy115
@Blueivy115 3 ай бұрын
WAT ABOUT THE DAD 😮 LETS NOT FORGET HOW WONDERFUL HE IS AND THAT LIL GIRL LOOKS JUST LIKE HIM ❤ SUCH A NICE FAMILY . LOOK HOW GREAT THOSE TWINS ARE . VERY EDUCATED AND SO POLITE . GREAT UPBRINGING 👍 👌 👍
@gaylahall2880
@gaylahall2880 3 ай бұрын
I totally agree with you, they both are amazing and fantastic parents. All of their children are so blessed to have such wonderful parents! ❤❤
@natyshaifoster529
@natyshaifoster529 3 ай бұрын
My babies….. all I can say I am So happy you came in spite of all our setbacks. Travel is so hard but you guys are amazing and WE GOT THIS ❤❤❤
@cree920
@cree920 3 ай бұрын
When you look at Mikko, I knowwww all you see is your son…..they are twinzzzz…it’s was nice seeing her GiGi
@BlancheDeverOh
@BlancheDeverOh 3 ай бұрын
Her side eye while she was eating the grapes had me cracking up! Mikko is quite the character 😊
@shanellecunningham5635
@shanellecunningham5635 3 ай бұрын
so funny cause i kept replaying that part
@shelindaharris2210
@shelindaharris2210 3 ай бұрын
You are such a great mom. I saw your video where you were talking about the difficulties with raising a child with autism. Your patience with her is phenomenal.
@carolanderson5075
@carolanderson5075 Ай бұрын
It’s amazing how nonverbal kids can communicate everything you need to know without saying a word, or even making a sound. I have a friend who’s nonverbal and she’s the same way. 😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤪🤪🤣🤣🤣
@brigetteramey1173
@brigetteramey1173 Ай бұрын
Every single day is about this lil girl!! If she goes thru her lil world episode. Everything has to stop because all eyes on her. Wait until she stops crying, wait until she snaps back into reality, stop because she wants what the other kid has. Hands down to the parents I know I won’t do any of this!!
@amandacampbell6822
@amandacampbell6822 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing…my daughter non-verbal autistic and is 4 and ur videos help me so much to see I’m not alone and some of ur tips from ur experiences have helped me…love that you are sharing yalls journey even the ups and downs
@Soni-bl7tz
@Soni-bl7tz 3 ай бұрын
I'm in the same boat! It's quite challenging and I too appreciate seeing others experiences and learning from them. Sometimes ppl tend to post and speak of the easier moments, but those difficult times definitely exist and can be quite difficult. One day at a time.
@tomaram6938
@tomaram6938 3 ай бұрын
Wait! A rental, to the bus, to get to the plane, only to take a shuttle, to get the rental, to get on another plane? Girrrrrrrrrl, bless you and your family! 😮 - You are so gentle with your daughter-thank you for that! ❤ I think once you get home things will calm down a little. 😊
@carolanderson5075
@carolanderson5075 Ай бұрын
I was tired just listening to Precious explain that 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😆🤪
@moonyieqt
@moonyieqt 3 ай бұрын
Dont give up on vacations strictly on account of Mikko. You have two other children to think about as well. Regardless its good to take a break from the norm every now and then
@rowenaallen353
@rowenaallen353 3 ай бұрын
Try making her smoothie when traveling, with frozen veggies and fruit ! You can take a smoothie bottle with you, it’s very convenient!
@HEARTLESS_423
@HEARTLESS_423 3 ай бұрын
*I WOULD LOVE TO JUST GIVE YOU A BIG🤗 NO WORDS, JUST TO LETCHU RELEASE💜💜💜💜 YOU’RE A VERY LOVING, ATTENTIVE AND VERY PATIENT MOTHER🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 YOUR FAMILY IS VERY BLESSED TO HAVE YOU TOO SAY THE LEAST🫶🏽 GOD IS PREPARING YOU ALL FOR GREATER, JUST WATCH~ HAPPY SUNDAY GUYS*
@yvettemartin-t5p
@yvettemartin-t5p 3 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤ yeeessss 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭❤❤❤❤❤❤
@ninageorge1289
@ninageorge1289 3 ай бұрын
YESSS!!❤
@bianks6ones
@bianks6ones 3 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing. I've been a caretaker for a a autistic child who's now 17, for a while, and now I have an autistic granddaughter. It's definitely challenging, but it does become easier over time. Continue to travel, and it will become familier to Miko. Please don't get discourage. Just think how exhausting it for all of you with every milestone she goes through. Teaching her new things, ect. Traveling will become familiar. Try more short trips that aren't so far away from home, like more road trips and staying in an Airbnb to get her familiarized with staying away fron home. Also, remember Miko wasn't feeling well, which made the travel experience differently, than opposed to her and everyone else feeling well. Now you know, you have to check the air quality and do lots more research before traveling, as well as times of the year. I normally do night flights where it's a little less busier, and less stressful for the kids and I.
@ohkaypretty
@ohkaypretty 3 ай бұрын
The twins are SO adorable and such good role models for your little one!! I bet their teachers love them!!! Love watching your family support one another
@kellivega28
@kellivega28 3 ай бұрын
I am so sorry that your trip was difficult! But I absolutely must say that you and Chris are the most amazing parents and I thank you! You are truly a depiction of the good in the world despite all your trials! I support you and have so much love and respect for you both!❤
@michellemckinney4678
@michellemckinney4678 3 ай бұрын
It’s too bad Chris’ mom couldn’t make the trip to see the family instead of vice versa. This was a lot to deal with for everyone…and that Vegas dry heat is unbearable…
@user-zk6qf8sr7j
@user-zk6qf8sr7j 3 ай бұрын
I pray they’re all receiving the same attention love and affection and soft, talking as the youngest
@apriladams5203
@apriladams5203 3 ай бұрын
Of course they are!
@queennanna5595
@queennanna5595 3 ай бұрын
It does not seem so. Mikko has been taking ALL the attention since her diagnosis. The other kids put their needs to the side and exist in Mikko's shadow. Too bad the twins father is not in their life. So at least they would feel special with their dad's side of the family. At least they have each other because mom does not care about them like she does Mikko. And while this is just a snippet of their lives that we are shown this is what they show.
@cjackson8826
@cjackson8826 3 ай бұрын
​@@queennanna5595We do not see their household 24/7 so what we see is not what happens 24/7. We see Mikko on camera because this is about what they go through with an autistic child. They are amazing parents to Mikko and I'm sure that same live is shown to them as well. You can't judge them by videos.
@ayanahardy6922
@ayanahardy6922 3 ай бұрын
Yes Mikko is autistic and she need a lot of attention but their is no doubt that the mother love her other kids or give them attention. Some people just assume just based off the videos but don’t know what goes on in the home off camera.
@apriladams5203
@apriladams5203 3 ай бұрын
@@queennanna5595 I'm guessing you don't have or know children on the spectrum. Mikko hasn't been taking all the attention. She NEEDS more help than the twins. An autistic child is a 24/7/365 responsibility. Some are flight risks. Some parents have to put locks on their refrigerator to keep their child from cramming so much food in their mouths they can choke themselves. Some love water so much that you have to hold onto them because they don't realize they can drown. The melt downs in stores, restaurants even parks. You are only seeing a glimpse into Mikko and her family's life. It's the hardest yet most rewarding thing to be blessed with a special child.
@YT4Me57
@YT4Me57 3 ай бұрын
Chris works so well with Mikko. You two are a great team!
@jsblackdiva
@jsblackdiva 3 ай бұрын
Precious, I think some of the time you are the issue. You've said in previous videos you don't like to travel and you have bad public anxiety. Children can pick up your energy. The twins seem like they enjoy traveling and Mikko goes with the flow. Calm down and relax. It's gonna be be okay🙏🏽🙏🏽
@nisha_j
@nisha_j 3 ай бұрын
Kudos to both of your abilities to manage parenting during stressful times and all the kids for their patience as well.. Beautiful family.
@Fuzzyfuzz66
@Fuzzyfuzz66 3 ай бұрын
Gosh that just sounds exhausting. What kind of things would help people when traveling with an autistic child? Is there something hotels can do to help accommodate autistic kids? You are such a good Mother. When Mikko was upset that her brothers had something and she wanted it, you took the time to teach her she had to wait. I think a lot of parents would just give it to her to stop the melt down. But there you are, with everyone not feeling good, and everything else you've dealt with, taking the time to teach her she has to wait. And in the middle of her meltdown, making sure your son felt heard and cared about with his bloody nose. I am in awe of your patience and kindness Precious❤
@catiehays3361
@catiehays3361 3 ай бұрын
I think first yall as parents need 2 take a deep breath & relax!! Somethings are okay like Mikko not eating much. That's normal 4 any kid her age, some kids will go all day with nothing. I promise she's be okay & gon eat when she's ready!! Then the other kids say nothing!! Things are gonna be okay, dont over think the small stuff.. Also there's a difference between a meltdown & throwing a tantrum!!
@moonyieqt
@moonyieqt 3 ай бұрын
AMEN
@dianaveloz5341
@dianaveloz5341 2 ай бұрын
She will act like you treat her. She is NOT an em icile. ❤
@Honeypepper.
@Honeypepper. 3 ай бұрын
🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆 you guys are shining examples of how parents should act with children 🎗🎗🎗🎗🎗🎗
@valerieboles1391
@valerieboles1391 3 ай бұрын
Don't give up on family vacations. They're important ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@RaisingLittleLearners
@RaisingLittleLearners Ай бұрын
This looks exhausting 😢 I know this must be challenging. I love your calm demeanor, hoping for better trips in your future ❤
@trulysensitive5620
@trulysensitive5620 3 ай бұрын
Lord guide this mom .
@user-wc5dw2qx9i
@user-wc5dw2qx9i 3 ай бұрын
Her dad is awesome, she really listens and he's very detailed, both of you guys are doing great.
@marygarcia456
@marygarcia456 3 ай бұрын
Don't worry she will eat when she gets hungry enough!! Mom & Dad are phenomenal!!!!😊
@tonitwitty9529
@tonitwitty9529 3 ай бұрын
That side eye she was giving u while she ate had me laughing. U guys are really good with her. I know that u have ur rough days but just wanted to acknowledge how awesome u all are. The twins are so sweet ❤
@PrettyGirlW20p
@PrettyGirlW20p 3 ай бұрын
Omg you can tell that your work with her Momma makes a HUGE difference I hope these videos inspire other parents with babies with ASD.
@mcalmese36
@mcalmese36 3 ай бұрын
I can't imagine how hard it must be to raise your autistic baby and also spread yourself to the rest of the family. I know you only share parts of your life but from what I can see you're doing an awesome job. You are supermom and kudos to dad for not taking the easy route and leaving. He is there with you and all 3 of your children. I pray for both of you all continuous strength and guidance ❤
@marciedge4938
@marciedge4938 3 ай бұрын
Give yourself grace, you are an amazing mom. You demonstrate love, patience and understanding.
@robinjackson7535
@robinjackson7535 3 ай бұрын
Precious you handled the mishaps wonderfully. You are a wonderful mom. Happy Birthday Mikko. Enjoy your stay, safe travels back home.
@winterdream5710
@winterdream5710 3 ай бұрын
You guys are A-MAZ-ING!! Seriously, you guys are SO much better than I could ever be! I don't even try to take my two autistic grandkids to Denny's. When baby boy was younger, we took him to a truck fest because he loves trucks. The closer we got to the crowd and trucks, the more agitated he became. And when they blew their horns, we had to hightail it back to the car because he started screaming while other kids there were cheering. Vegas is a dry heat oven - I hate it! Giving you guys a ton of credit plus it is nice to visit family. You're going to need a vacation from your vacation! Hope Chris got over the food poisoning quickly. Oh, and the kids are sprouting!
@mrzp4935
@mrzp4935 3 ай бұрын
Hi, you guys are doing an awesome job. Mikko is just so adorable and I can relate all too well with the challenges you guys have to face. I just want you to know that patience is virtue and please don't get discouraged. I live in Chicago and have a 14 year old granddaughter who is autistic and lives in Texas. It took us 4 attempts to get her comfortable enough to visit with her nanna and grandpa. The first three attempts she would have very bad meltdowns to the point where her mom had to come all the way back to Chicago to get her. Well, I want you to know we kept trying because my daughter seriously needed a break. When I tell you God is so good, this is our fourth attempt and she is now visiting with us for the whole summer. It's been two whole months with absolutely no meltdowns and she has been enjoying the beach, restaurants, family gatherings etc. I am so elated that my grandbaby now feels comfortable enough to visit with us for an extended period of time. I'm going to miss her terribly when she goes back to Texas in 2 weeks but I am just so glad that God answered my prayers!!! Don't give up on taking her out of her comfort zone. I know it's hard but it took us years to to get there. I love your family and will be keeping Mikko in my prayers! Stay strong and continue being the wonderful parents you are!
@chinanguyen788
@chinanguyen788 3 ай бұрын
I think she may be feeling your vibe sometimes. She senses your discomfort and reacts to it. Yes she'll learn faster by watching your older children. Maybe sit her with the older kids to eat. She'll probably eat as they eat with them encouraging her.
@audreybranner1178
@audreybranner1178 3 ай бұрын
Children goes through stages of not eating, mines did & they're not artistic. They'll eat when they get hungry as long as they don't stop drinking.
@LornaBaker-cw7qx
@LornaBaker-cw7qx 3 ай бұрын
Not if the child has ARFID, which is more common in autistic people. It doesn't matter how hungry we are, if the food is not safe, we won't eat it
@Just-Princess
@Just-Princess 3 ай бұрын
​@LornaBaker-cw7qx ARFID isn't usually due to categorising foods in terms of being "safe" or not. That is more common in other eating disorders like anorexia-nervosa or bulimia-nervosa. For kids who are neurodivergent and also have arfid, they tend to avoid certain foods due to a sensory reason like texture/smell, having a genuine lack of interest in eating, or if the food/meals are not items that they regularly eat as part of their routine. Occasionally, if they are afraid that food will cause them to be sick or choke (or really experience anything negative) they will also avoid it. For instance, maybe they experienced something negative happening previously whilst or after eating (choking and vomiting are the most common but it could be anything). Instead of viewing it as an anomaly or due to another factor, they begin to associate all/most foods with choking or throwing up etc. As a result, they start to restrict their intake significantly or avoid food altogether. This happens because cognitively they struggle with reasoning skills. This is a challenge for most young children because their frontal lobe is still in the early phase of development. However, it is even harder for many kids on the autism spectrum, especially if they already are delayed developmentally (e.g not reaching milestones in a time period that is comparable to their peers). Safe foods are usually associated with AN, BN or OSFED because those eating disorders are driven by body image concerns. So you often see people developing rules (like "safe" foods) to help them maintain the eating disorder. Kids (and adults) with arfid don't have cognitions (aka thoughts) like that around body shape/weight. So they don't develop rules about their oral intake that people with other ED's use to help provide them with (the perception of) control which helps to maintain their disordered eating behaviors.
@lamalady57
@lamalady57 3 ай бұрын
Mikko looks like her dad, he looks like his mother😊🥰
@marciwhitman3513
@marciwhitman3513 3 ай бұрын
I think it's because people with autism don't adapt well to change to their environment because they like things when they stay the same and also because there would be a lot of sensory involvement with different things to look at and different things to hear and too much at once is too upsetting and the reason why I know all of this is because that kind of thing affects me also even though I am not autistic but I am extremely sensitive and I react very badly to change and to too much noise and to too much going on in the environment such as colors and sensory things and I get sick and uncomfortable and I have to leave that particular environment in order to be able to breathe better. Like being in a mall is too much for me sometimes and I have to leave and be in an environment where there is no noise and no colors in order to be able to feel more myself. So I can totally relate when people have problems with change and new environments and things that are uncomfortable
@Prettybrwngypsy
@Prettybrwngypsy 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for being so open about your family 😊
@fairyfarmgirl
@fairyfarmgirl 3 ай бұрын
I bless you with Love. Your patience and ability to guide your children is amazing.
@Alivia-j4i
@Alivia-j4i 3 ай бұрын
You are sutch an amazing parent Edit 19 is the most likes I've ever gotten
@tonitwitty9529
@tonitwitty9529 3 ай бұрын
Well, u really are going trip with 36 now luv 🤣
@Izzymill
@Izzymill 3 ай бұрын
I always get the impression that the US makes very simple things more complicated than it should be. Banking, renting a vehicle, help for families, paid leave, one stop shop for people with dissabilities. This is suppose to be the richest country in the world. Why?
@divadenise1
@divadenise1 3 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing, as a teacher it is informative to hear and see your day to day challenges and successes with an autistic child. Be Blessed!
@angelahall7147
@angelahall7147 3 ай бұрын
I agree with you both 100% 😮
@scw5935
@scw5935 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for speaking the absolute truth! Government is trying too hard to be involved in other things instead of the problem at hand.
@rndlh1996
@rndlh1996 3 ай бұрын
There’s clove oil that you can put on a cotton pad or swab and rub on her gums. Also, consider smoothies if she won’t eat. Anything else will supplement the smoothie but you’ll know she’s getting the nutrition she needs.
@sarahisrael2943
@sarahisrael2943 3 ай бұрын
I love how patient you all are with her. I have a nonverbal great niece and she reminds me so much of her.
@kavitadeva
@kavitadeva 3 ай бұрын
Hi precious, I'm just making this comment to you but I know Chris and everyone else was affected as well hearing you talk about the buses and the shuttles I could never ever ever even do that. You are the most incredible human being I've ever seen. I struggle a lot with COMPLEX PTSD and I also have very severe depression and I struggle with chronic illnesses which leave me pretty much disabled. When I was listening to you and watching you with Mikko I almost had to turn off the video. It is just so overwhelming what you go through. And of course I hope you know that having autism is not a curse it's not you know some horrible moral problem anything like that. However it is so challenging for you to deal with your beautiful daughter who cannot speak to you and tell you what is going on with her. All I know is watching you with your daughter makes me cry because I cannot believe how much you love your children and the highlight obviously of these videos is Mikko. I watched in disbelief literally I cannot comprehend how you do it I did not have parents who gave a crap about me at all I was raised with so much abuse and trauma to watch you being so absolutely patient and selfless and committed to her comfort and committed to understanding what to do is beyond anything I can even comprehend. When you said at the end I hope you enjoyed the video I was thinking how could anybody enjoy this video? It was so obviously challenging beyond challenging and just to go on a so-called vacation is so incredibly difficult. I'm with you I would stay home and never put yourself through that or any of your kids through that or your husband through that It was just unbelievable to me It was so painful to watch to be honest It was very painful. To me precious you are a hero a true and literal hero. You always amaze me but this one took the cake. I know you have your own struggles as well so just seeing all this coming together is just too much too overwhelming way too overwhelming. I just send you all the blessings in the world May you have some of those blessings to help keep you cared for and comfortable. Bless your entire family and bless you for being a mother that should be getting awards whatever those awards are would be whatever you wanted because you deserve it.
@CoolBreeze-mj8gp
@CoolBreeze-mj8gp 3 ай бұрын
Glad you were able to even try your best... Hope their grandmother was able to spend time w you all. Always try to find the silver lining. Thanks for sharing and I'm sure another family Vaca will be in your future, oneday 💜
@paintressmaya1450
@paintressmaya1450 3 ай бұрын
❤YOU are so patient and She doesn't want to eat because of teeth issue...😢
@ChaucerInLove
@ChaucerInLove 3 ай бұрын
A couple things that might help - we travel with a small, carryon suitcase of my son’s favorite shelf-stable snacks (ex. fruit pouches, pop tarts, cheese its, etc.) so that we always have some stuff with us that he’ll eat. Usually if there is something available that he will eat when we go out & travel, he is more likely to eat stuff that’s “new” or made a different way at a restaurant, like sausage that is in a patty instead of links or a different flavor of yogurt. As a Vegas local, I can say that people get headaches and nosebleeds a lot when they come here because it is so incredibly dry. We have no humidity here at all, and coming from Texas it would be a shock to your systems & often folx don’t up their water intake to counteract the extra dryness. Next visit, I recommend doubling your fluid intake, using those saline nasal sprays to keep them from drying & bleeding, and asking if the rental house has humidifiers - they really help!
@harvestmoon_autumnsky
@harvestmoon_autumnsky 3 ай бұрын
Just got back from a day trip with my ASD son and neurotypical daughter, both teenagers. It was amazing how the first half of the trip, he was in such good spirits. He loathes leaving the house and especially hates day trips. But for some reason he was very jolly. Half way through, he was done, but we were three hours from home. And then, when we finally get home he has a huge meltdown, huge, and his sister is right there, fanning the flames. This is why it's so hard to go anywhere.
@mariealicejacobieregermany9918
@mariealicejacobieregermany9918 3 ай бұрын
Ho do your other children cope of the fact that you take care of Mikho a lot more ? It’s just a question, not a judgment
@jessicamack-ni2nf
@jessicamack-ni2nf 3 ай бұрын
I been wandering the same thing the other day never new she had more kids because I never seen at all
@BumbleBeezzBuzz
@BumbleBeezzBuzz 3 ай бұрын
Coming from someone who has a younger sibling with autism, it is hard to accept when most of the attention goes to the autistic sibling. But, oftentimes, it is the parents job to at least give some love to the children. The parent needs to explain why this is happening, or if the kid is too young, dumb it down and help them understand. When my sister was born, it was hard to accept that she needed more attention. She was non verbal and had sensory issues, but I had my mother to help me through it.
@BumbleBeezzBuzz
@BumbleBeezzBuzz 3 ай бұрын
Hopefully that helps
@rickeybobbie
@rickeybobbie 3 ай бұрын
@@DogMommy. One of her twins is autistic
@carolanderson5075
@carolanderson5075 Ай бұрын
Mikko’s older sister is also autistic, but they have different levels. I’m sure that there may be frustrations, but I’m also sure that they do the best they can to help and support her. I think her sister understands Mikko’s struggles the most because she’s on the spectrum herself.
@comesharemyworld
@comesharemyworld 3 ай бұрын
Mikko is beautiful and her siblings, bless the whole family!
@doranazareth5434
@doranazareth5434 3 ай бұрын
It is very hard travelling with Mikko but you're doing a great job so just forge on, you and family will be fine. I hope you know that persevering will help the entire family deal with her meltdowns and it will prepare her to face life long after you and you partner are gone. KEEP HOPE ALIVE. we know that you are only human but we are cheering you on.
@shirlthompson2654
@shirlthompson2654 3 ай бұрын
I wish you and your family well. You looked drained and yet you pushed through you the amazing mom you are.
@glennfields8121
@glennfields8121 3 ай бұрын
Wow Precious, I am so sorry that you had to go on vacation to where there was a wildfire. I hope and pray that you recover quickly and Chris with food poisoning too. Mikko was sure enjoying what appeared to be bluberries. She may also like cantelope slices in addition to the grapes, even watermelon pieces too. Your whole family is so nice. I cant help but observe how sweet Makenzie is and Matthew too. Matthew, I was pulling for you with your nose bleed. It sounds like the rental car company wasn't as helpful as they should have been. You all deserve a nice vacation but in all honesty, sometimes the best vacations are 'staycations' where you stay home but just do some nice and different things near home. I'll be praying for your family.
@vanessalacks9072
@vanessalacks9072 3 ай бұрын
Hey, Mom and dad you guys are doing a phenomenal job with Mikko. You do the best you can with the resources you have. What a fantastic example for your other two children to see. You can only do the best YOU can do. G-D bless you and I pray that he gives you the strength to endure whatever challenges that come to your family!
@vivianjoyner8773
@vivianjoyner8773 3 ай бұрын
sorry to hear about all of the hiccups. I just want to say, that you as a family are troopers. there will be other vacations in the future. your older children are patient, and your husband a great support. you Mom was fantastic. thank you for sharing.
@kathrynd.3930
@kathrynd.3930 3 ай бұрын
Please don't give up on traveling. Y'all do a wonderful job with all of your kiddos...so patient and kind. Let it go and try again. ❤
@kathrynd.3930
@kathrynd.3930 3 ай бұрын
Maybe try an AirBnB next time?
@AzizaMiller
@AzizaMiller 3 ай бұрын
Mikko is eating those blueberries very fast and I think she knows she is getting away with it! She is very smart. Mom does'nt notice so Mikko is doing her thing while she can 😂
@diawesthues7504
@diawesthues7504 3 ай бұрын
Yep!! She's smart!
@candieyes172
@candieyes172 3 ай бұрын
You can travel with her. Of course you can. I worked with children like this for over 20 years. Don't think you have to live in a bubble,just get an aide to help out in the house ... For a few hours if it gets too much. I took them everywhere. The Mall ,block partys, out of state and away camps. Without there parents
@jaiyabyrd4177
@jaiyabyrd4177 3 ай бұрын
*Precious you are a phenomenal Mother* God Bless You and Your Family 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@Retried77
@Retried77 3 ай бұрын
What a strong family you all are! You need a vacation from the vacation. You all are such a beautiful and loving family. Love all of you.
@karensimmons3694
@karensimmons3694 3 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing. I can only imagine the effort it took to video while going through the various challenges during vacation, Hopefully more autistic family friendly vacation locations are in the making. 🙏🏽💕
@doreenboyd3347
@doreenboyd3347 3 ай бұрын
I love the way you communicate and comfort her. I’m sure it’s not easy, God bless you and your family.
@thereviewspot2629
@thereviewspot2629 3 ай бұрын
How do you tend to your other children Meeko takes up so much time
@rickeybobbie
@rickeybobbie 3 ай бұрын
I know how old is on the spectrum too. All we can do is pray for them at this point. I just hope that the other ones don't resent their mother as they grow older
@c.t.murray3632
@c.t.murray3632 3 ай бұрын
Hello to all your beautiful children give them all hugs.
@sundaytaybron1213
@sundaytaybron1213 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing. Things will get better for you and your family. Absolutely!
@StacyDaniels-xe6xo
@StacyDaniels-xe6xo 3 ай бұрын
I’m glad her brother and sister are smart and show their little sister
@patriciacook6970
@patriciacook6970 3 ай бұрын
Girl I love you and the whole family. You’re a great mom. And hubby is a great dad.
@sherri1304
@sherri1304 3 ай бұрын
I like to see that Mikko has no issues with anxiety of being out in public 😊
@lynetteroy7692
@lynetteroy7692 3 ай бұрын
I feel for you guys. Hope you’re all on the road to recovery ❤️‍🩹
@remeldafields8099
@remeldafields8099 3 ай бұрын
You and Your Husband are GREAT Parents..Always so very informative and helpful, I have a 3yr. Old Autistic Granddaughter and I've learned so much from you guys...Keep up the Great work, Videos are always so very good, you all are my FAVORITE You Tube Family❤❤❤
@carriejames5038
@carriejames5038 3 ай бұрын
They did every thing right . Though took long time or few melt downs . The title kind of not liking where they said can't travel they can travel just takes patience and keep at it. Don't let the autistic in child dictate the weather or not go on vacation
@Nubianette
@Nubianette 3 ай бұрын
To you parents 🏆🏆 Vegas has very dry air, plus smoke, dust, would make it harder for sensitive sinuses. I have to use a moisturizing nose spray. At least this is a learning experience. I hope the older kids enjoyed it a bit.
@libbygrace4192
@libbygrace4192 3 ай бұрын
When I lived in the Midwest I had bad nose bleeding,left there and had lived in California and Florida for decades!! Moved back up there and had my 1st nose bleed in 12 years!! Had a slight one in the desert out West but nothing like how bad the air was in the Midwest and how it effected my sinuses!!! Miko is a beautiful child and told you No she wasn't sleepy!! She's learning!!!😊
@twannajester3408
@twannajester3408 3 ай бұрын
Look mom baby girl is a dad girl all day and it's good her grandma won't to no her. (dad mom )so suck it up its not about you. She understands her dad about every thing he says to her look her eyes with him says alot
@fraghead42
@fraghead42 3 ай бұрын
Get her smoothies or make them see how that works, yall make them together
@angelaalston971
@angelaalston971 3 ай бұрын
Too much sugar when fruits are broken down into smoothies.
@marygarcia456
@marygarcia456 3 ай бұрын
Sometimes you just have to let her Cry!!
@leslynwhitfield1000
@leslynwhitfield1000 2 ай бұрын
Continue traveling with her. I have a 3 year old son with autism we have traveled 3 times. 2 times to Aruba and one time to NY. Dont give up.
@sherriemedellin5575
@sherriemedellin5575 3 ай бұрын
She has anxiety poor baby Have you tried pediasure some sugar free applesauce might be good I’ll be praying for all of you
@LisaPrincess93
@LisaPrincess93 3 ай бұрын
Ihr seid so eine tolle Familie und ihr geht sooo lieb mit mikko um ❤ ich weiß es ist nicht immer alles leicht aber ihr schafft trotzdem alles so toll
@nenenene9744
@nenenene9744 3 ай бұрын
Mikko is at the age when kids only eat certain things. And not much of that. My kids only ate macaroni and cheese.
@bettygreene7948
@bettygreene7948 3 ай бұрын
Please dont abandon vacationing. You need to Relax and You"ll Find it. Next time the air will not affect you Chris will not get sick and You'll be more ready and prepared for what may happen, and You did Great JOB despite the miss haps. Always ALWAYS travel with Activated Charcoal capsules. Its good for a lot of things like food poisoning. Read up on it. If Mikko does not eat do not worry about it because she will when she gets hungry. (she was sure eatin them blueberrys Lol) Let Mikko help her brother if he has a nose bleed by allowing her to hold the cold cloth to his forehead or show her how to pinch the bridge of his nose to stop the bleeding while he sits with his head back. It seems she wants to be involved and express her concern for him. she is very brilliant. It seems she does not want all the attention always on her. You are a Beautiful Family. I Pray You will see fit to Give Your Marriage a chance somewhere down the Road. IT IS NOT TOO LATE...(Not unless ya'll married other people already) GOD CAN FIX ANYTHING AND ANYBODY including marriage GOD BLESS YA'll Beautiful People
@ForPeace14
@ForPeace14 11 күн бұрын
Amen to that.
@lynnejohnson4469
@lynnejohnson4469 3 ай бұрын
You are doing a wonderful job. Remember to breathe a lot. I love beautiful Miko 💕 My grandson is now 13 and autistic. His speech is still delayed, but knows as much as most 13 year olds. I have 3 other grandboys. We just came back from his 7th trip to Vegas. He loves to travel. Lots of immersion, therapy and experiences. It is a lot, tiring, but rewarding at the end of the day. He has begun using his headphones for comfort. Travel is challenging with children in general. He now travels better than my other grandsons. You are doing a wonderful job. 💕🙏🏽 By the way, my nose bled on and off for 5 days while in Vegas. I think of you guys often and watch your videos.
@ninageorge1289
@ninageorge1289 3 ай бұрын
You guys do such a great job with your babies! I know it's hard, but keep pushing! I love watching! I get a lot of tips to use with my 3 year old granddaughter. ❤
@1daniellejones
@1daniellejones 3 ай бұрын
You guys are doing a fantastic job, your patience is out this world
@sicajones7513
@sicajones7513 3 ай бұрын
Im in love with these two... mother's Love goes to no end!
@KimberleyCrowe-e9r
@KimberleyCrowe-e9r 3 ай бұрын
Very pretty little girl. She is good and treated the best. Great Moma. Cudos
@carolbamforth7475
@carolbamforth7475 3 ай бұрын
You are fantastic parents, keep up the great job of raising amazing children.
@amark8786
@amark8786 3 ай бұрын
Have you guys ever thought that you coddled her too much? Especially With her child development breakthroughs, she’s speaking more, etc. etc. sometimes she’s just gonna have to feel it🤷🏾‍♀️flipping out because she doesn’t get what she wants, having all this options for food… she will get older and we pray she’s gonna be more independent, but what do I know at the end of the day? Thank you for sharing!
@MarciaTalbot
@MarciaTalbot 3 ай бұрын
You do know at two yrs old they go through faces where it’s hard to get them to eat that is a toddler thing so it’s age appropriate
@MamaCee518
@MamaCee518 3 ай бұрын
If I'm not mistaken, she is 4 pr about to be 4
@maryharris1012
@maryharris1012 3 ай бұрын
You are a great Mom!
@peacebalance8067
@peacebalance8067 3 ай бұрын
Real talk I don't have an autistic individual in the home, but vacations, traveling is not fun for me. It's hard work. The hustle and bustle of packing, flights, lodging. Not fun. It's like hurry up to get there, to then hurry up and relax, to then hurry up and leave to be left with bags and bags of dirty clothes needing washed, dried and put back away. It usually stays dirty for a while. Id rather have a stay-cation and we visit all the local summer fun options. Home has all the amenities I could ever ask for. Then go back to my job rested.
@KeCee1975
@KeCee1975 3 ай бұрын
Such a beautiful family. God bless you ! God knew you all could handle it. I know it’s stressful at times, but your babies could not have had better parents ❤
@Shiawase-ft8gw
@Shiawase-ft8gw 3 ай бұрын
So sorry for the other two kids; I hope they are not damaged by all this!
@NicoleFischer-qg9tu
@NicoleFischer-qg9tu 3 ай бұрын
Sorry it has been a while since I watched your videos! I thought things were getting better when I stopped watching because she was starting to talk ! I see she has grown alot! I pray she gets better on the eating situation! You two are Awesome Parents! You take your time with her! She is beautiful ❤and so are you! I hope you figure it out
@CrystalCat24
@CrystalCat24 3 ай бұрын
I think she is doing 'better'! She's just having lots of issues with her teeth! Off days are okay... Doesn't mean she's regressed or anything. ❤
@g-mawof5310
@g-mawof5310 3 ай бұрын
She’s ABSOLUTELY ADORABLE! Reminds Ne So Much Of My Granddaughter!
@traceygilligan1201
@traceygilligan1201 3 ай бұрын
Bless you fam, i appreciate your travel video. I have a teen with Autism, and we find it hard to book a holiday, as they have meltdowns for many reasons, and they are strong now, and aggressive when upset. I am glad that you all had the trip. I hope that Miko's teeth are ok. Best wishes from London UK
@michellesawyer1923
@michellesawyer1923 3 ай бұрын
May I say that you both are incredible parents, I have so much respect for you both. xx
@najiHER
@najiHER Ай бұрын
Cloves? I love it! I just chewed some yesterday for my tooth pain. Mom your doing a great job. For the parents that do have neurotypical and neurodivergent children under one roof, understands the struggle. We try, we try, we try and I have no criticism beautiful. Just manage the day best way you can and self-care.
@tresiadavis7941
@tresiadavis7941 3 ай бұрын
I hope you guys make it as a couple it’s so hard but he’s a good dad wishing you guys love peace and happiness ❤
@domajoh
@domajoh 3 ай бұрын
God Bless You All! Safe travels home!
@ameenahmuhammad8763
@ameenahmuhammad8763 3 ай бұрын
She'll be old enough for Kindergarten next year. What's going to be going on with her to get her prepared for K - 12 school life?
@BrownBeauty2u
@BrownBeauty2u 3 ай бұрын
She will most likely be in special education.
@ameenahmuhammad8763
@ameenahmuhammad8763 3 ай бұрын
@@BrownBeauty2u That's obvious. I'm speaking on how they're preparing her for the structure of school life. Reading comprehension is fundamental.
@Starbeoghtuser3475
@Starbeoghtuser3475 3 ай бұрын
Maybe they will homeschool
@ameenahmuhammad8763
@ameenahmuhammad8763 3 ай бұрын
@@Starbeoghtuser3475 neither of them have any experience homeschooling children, much less special needs children. That would be a bad idea. She needs all the core subjects, plus early intervention.
@ameenahmuhammad8763
@ameenahmuhammad8763 3 ай бұрын
@@courtneylucas508 she could've been on an IEP at a special needs preschool as early as last summer. It's concerning that she'll be 5 years old next July & is on the level of an 18 month old baby. She needs to be on an IEP in a school setting 5 days a week. The teachers and SPECM will really help her out.
@MykianaRichards
@MykianaRichards 3 ай бұрын
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