Uorfi Javed On DARK Abusive Past, Boob Job, Reddit Trolls and Indian Paparazzi | The Male Feminist

[@ophelia.7]

I've never understood why she gets so much hate. She is an artist and her clothes are her art. Art is subjective, if you don't like what she wears, there are countless other Instagram pages to follow. If you sexualize her body, that's your problem.

[@arora.akshay2312-Noida]

True

[@aanchalsingh5071]

Qki firstly ye cheap harkate krti hai, fir baad me ye aise baate krti hai ki kitni intelligent hai ye, iska mtlb iska ye sb cheap harkate janbhujker hai

[@hauterrfly]

Absolutely agree! 🙌 Uorfi is expressing herself through fashion, and it’s all about personal choice. If someone doesn’t vibe with it, that’s totally okay, but spreading hate is unnecessary. We should all celebrate individuality!

[@UmmeAhmad-rl1nj]

Sahi bole

[@swatipriya562]

That is coz it's not about judgement on her clothes but rather on her body , people target her for wearing exposed clothes

[@Kiara-ml6qt]

Shes very nice, outspoken, bold, confident, non judgemental. Just love her

[@hauterrfly]

Truly a gem of a person!

[@afsananisha7577]

She is truthful but showing your skin is not boldness..i'm sorry... Or talking about sex is not boldness.. it's shamelessness .. Haya is a thing. Remember this.

[@naziashaikh4835]

​@@afsananisha7577true iske alag drama hai aisa batarahi hai jaise isne hi trauma dekha hai kitne Log Bure time dekhte hai but aise toh nahi bante decent and successful life jeerahe Hai aaj isko Bachpan se gandagi ka shouk tha ab Pura hua 😅😅😅😅

[@afsananisha7577]

@@naziashaikh4835 yeah. The reason could also be, she didn't have a loving family. She didn't get attention from the family, so she was searching it from outer world. and sadly it was not a nice way of getting attention.. Too much love or too much negligence can spoil the kids, i think it happened to her.. May God guide her and all of us..

[@Koustobdas1894]

​@@naziashaikh4835 are you trying to normalise "trauma"?

[@TM_Tabz]

Why she is like this Its all because of her childhood trauma But she comes of it and how👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 She is boss babe ,intelligent,daring and truly amazing❤

[@NimraGul-dd5oo]

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@sidali2590]

No she's shameless

[@Koustobdas1894]

​@@sidali2590 if it gives her mental comfort, then is that problematic?

[@Koustobdas1894]

​@@sidali2590 if it gives her mental comfort, then is that problematic?

[@ee_30_harshitaarya33]

But why she said ki luckily beta ho gaya luckily kyun bola?

[@amirapatel2909]

No doubt why she is the way she is….bold, confident,vocal

[@ee_30_harshitaarya33]

But why she said ki luckily beta ho gaya luckily kyun bola?

[@Epicplayz-hy6ek]

You all shouldn't be hating this girl... She is really mature than all of us and know what is right or wrong.... I loved how maturely she told everything from a to z... Loved watching this. ❤

[@jyotsanasingh573]

She is bold ,honest and very clear in her thoughts !

[@hauterrfly]

Absolutely! Which was your favorite part of the conversation?

[@suhanachakrabarti1035]

Please bring Mrunal Thakur for your next segment

[@hauterrfly]

1000 likes on this comment and we'll get Mrunal Thakur on The Male Feminist, promise!

[@s.amondal1413]

​@@hauterrflypin this message

[@ee_30_harshitaarya33]

But why she said ki luckily beta ho gaya luckily kyun bola?

[@meghatiwwari]

Even about saree & how objectification of women's in india began Indians were progressive but these Mughals & Britishers have given the concept

[@ujjwalyadav3783]

What nonsense

[@alikhanmoazzam]

Just a typical Indian bigot

[@JahnviTakiar-kg5zj]

Really true! Aur ghunghat bhi tabhi introduce hua tha

[@jonahoftonga1786]

With all the female Idols India worships is disgraceful how they treat real women This is beyond mughals and the british

[@ashwinipatil3080]

Correct, our actual indian culture was really bold we can see that through the ancient stone carvings, all this shits called burkha,parda, ghunghat were introduced only after the mughals and British came to India.

[@RichaChaturvedi-q8o]

She is actually smart and we'll informed and has literal goodass brains , and now she has money too , that's awesome

[@hauterrfly]

Yes!

[@ee_30_harshitaarya33]

But why she said ki luckily beta ho gaya luckily kyun bola?

[@dhanashreefale1914]

Urfi is most intelligent and most kind human being I ever seen. She knows what she is doing and what she wants in her life. Only Best wishes for her ❤

[@hauterrfly]

Yes, she really is one of a kind! Her intelligence and kindness always shine through, and it’s amazing to see someone so confident in following their own path! Which was your favorite part of the conversation?

[@lattym3647]

It is so heartening to see so much love and respect pouring out for uorfi ❤ I love and respect her a lot.

[@ee_30_harshitaarya33]

But why she said ki luckily beta ho gaya luckily kyun bola?

[@DrANC0304]

Urfi is new era of fashion She can create amazing mindblowing outfits . Which we see in met gala or fashion ramp walks . People should not sexualise her Look at art new fashion creation she portrays . Goodluck Love you uorfi❤

[@hauterrfly]

Totally agree! Uorfi's creativity is next level. People need to focus on her artistic expression rather than objectify her. Keep shining, Uorfi!

[@TheIndianArtisté]

Everything is fine but a man asking her about and so many private things , lingerie is kind of awkward. Suppose a woman interviewer asking a male actor about underwears n other intimate things. Feminism is not related to male or female . It is an ideology of equalizing genders. There are many topics that can be discussed to uplift our women . Please do converse on better issues rather than boob jobs , fillers, botox , lingerie , dresses just to increase views . Dont do injustice to the channels name.

[@ujjwalyadav3783]

Jab samne bethi hi esi strong independent ldki hai jiska kaam 90% nanga ghumna hai to usse kya sawal puche jaenge

[@Escapist...]

As long as the host is respectable towards the guest, uses correct terminology for body parts, questions or gives inputs in a dignified way, I see no problem. This guy is doing just that.

[@ektaaasar]

Exactly why he started off interview with asking her such private questions about her bra boobs super personal questions about size etc specially when there is no relevance as such & surprisingly Urfi also does not stop him. I appreciate her honesty but she should have boundaries. it doesn't make sense of interviewer asking such personal questions. Interviewer can ask his wife personally to have more knowledge about female loungerie. Why not ask Urfi about her fashion inspiration or more of substance related questions. As a woman I feel uncomfortable listening to his questions. Just my perspective

[@Tarun-hj1hs]

Exactly i am lookin for this types of comment in comment box, they are playing with a woman's dignity despite discussing actual topics that people needs now Interviewr = who was introduced you to first bra Was that even a questionable question?😡

[@kdrama__lovez]

She is such a pure soul I don't understand why people hate her

[@ee_30_harshitaarya33]

But why she said ki luckily beta ho gaya luckily kyun bola?

[@bishuthepanda]

@@ee_30_harshitaarya33 she said the word "luckily" from her Father's perspective. But she herself also wanted a sister as she mentioned "achchha hota ki pehle hi divorce ho jata"

[@NahidaKhan-e4u]

Because she is a muslim and islam not allowed this types of clothes and these activities

[@PrachiSharma-pl2xm]

Thankyou for this chat with Urfi She is soo real n honest 💕

[@Study.buddy.994]

16:45 my respect for her 📈...yarr how well knowledgeable she is❤❤🥺

[@WhereNext-999]

She is so transparent❤

[@ee_30_harshitaarya33]

But why she said ki luckily beta ho gaya luckily kyun bola?

[@shaktiojha16]

So sweet of u urfi. The lvl of confidence you show is just wow. Aap aise hi khud ko pehchano, khud pr work kro nd definitely aapke v dreams pure honge

[@hauterrfly]

Uorfi Javed ne khud ka path banaya with hardwork & consistency! It's time we take learnings from her journey too :)

[@shaktiojha16]

@@hauterrfly definitely she is an inspiration for many... its take a lot of guts to step out from the comfort zone and cut toxic people around you even if they are our parents

[@NimraGul-dd5oo]

One thing i learnt from here interviews; that "halat insaaan ko wo bana dete jo wo kbhi bnna nhi chahta....

[@priyayadav-bh4mn]

True😢

[@devikanair9704]

I'm so happy i never hated or judged her ever!❤ I just got a vibe from the very start that she's the only genuine celebrity!

[@shiningsuchi7565]

She is honest , smart and real.

[@thecutecatlife9050]

Urfi and Her sistera are Super Women in Real Life. They Deserve The Bestest of the Best. Urfi has helped them all and she is very intelligent. i am watching your show now Because of her . Keep it up ...

[@kripleenks9644]

Wow! I love it!! ❤ So candid & so honest & it’s so easy to judge this girl but I think it takes so much courage to survive in this world when you’re receiving so much hatred & backlash constantly!! Much love & strength to this lady ❤❤

[@mitisrivastava]

I love her and her honesty….she is so outspoken….

[@deeptimukesh3252]

Kitna aasaani se log kisi ko bhi judge karte hai.....what they are going through kisi ko nahi pata....

[@RuchasUncountableDreams]

She is very Intelligent and sweet...❤

[@hauterrfly]

absolutely!

[@ankitasarkar4575]

I honestly love her personality....matlab she is toooo real nd honest ❤❤❤❤I love you urfi ❤

[@user-bw8yn3zr1s]

Yeah when girls' boobs are growing, for many girls, people embarrass and harass girls. My aunts (father's brothers' wives) used to point it out in front of other women. And one sad thing I remember from when I was around 12-13 years old is that till that point, I never felt objectified (at least not consciously, if other people were objectifying me, I wouldn't know), but that time I was going to my singing lesson with my mom and a guy in the street looked at my boobs in such a way that I slouched, for the first time, and that feeling never left me as things like that kept happening since then. And now that I am a young woman, many men in the street (and some from 'friends and family' too) look at you in a very dirty way, like yeah she is grown enough, now she should be enjoyed by some man or the other, and it's inhumane. Families should educate their boys that getting girls and women is not the birth rights of these boys and men, women are free human beings.

[@Serenemind.135]

What an interviewer and amazing uorfi 🙏👏👏

[@user-el9bg3fl2i]

Love for being so honest. It really matters. Every girl who wants to come out from that kind of situation will be grateful to you.

[@akshit.84]

She is much better then rakhi sawant 😊who believes like 👍

[@RiyaSi22]

She speaks her mind and I like that about her. She was a year junior to me in my school. But Lucknow was sadly not all typical atleast my locality and the people there. I have seen a rather freer environment around me there in Lucknow.

[@tiyatalk7828]

Which school were u in

[@sumitadevvratshukla]

This is real India. Thanks for your courage to talk about this.

[@hauterrfly]

So glad you love the conversations! Which is your favorite episode?

[@preetisingh-ov3sw]

She is really pure hearted girl ❤and I respect her

[@hauterrfly]

A gem of a person, Uorfi!

[@shaurya9055]

I love her already, I love such independent people ❤

[@Atiebrahimi70]

she is so relatable.

[@amrutanaukarkar2963]

Most intresting and entertaining interview of uorfi javed😅

[@hauterrfly]

So glad you loved it! Favorite part konsa tha?

[@shaziyakhan100]

किसी को हमें जज नहीं करना चाहिए इस दुनिया का सबसे बुरा इंसान उस दुनिया का सबसे अच्छा इंसान हो सकता है😢😢

[@hauterrfly]

Bilkul sahi kaha aapne :)

[@shaziyakhan100]

@@hauterrfly thanks❤🌹

[@sandeepkumar6240]

Devels in the details when I research with own way with observation last above 15 years then got the answer.

[@surosreedhar5924]

Awesome episode.. Whenever I watch this show it always makes me feel confident and proud that there are shows which completely talk about the womanhood and it makes me feel more comfortable being in this Indian society where these true n honest people exist … really love you guys and especially Urfi who always inspire me to be sporty n outspoken about your thoughts and her persona is so genuine.. I want to meet you someday …

[@hauterrfly]

So glad you love our content & the conversations make you feel so confident! Uorfi nails it with her bold self & she's truly an inspiration for a lot of girls :)

[@PoojaAxomiya]

I have started loving uorfi's personality since I watched her interview in 2022❤

[@Junaid-mw4hy]

I have a lot of time & respect for Urfi. She is who she is and it takes some bloody doing to be your uthentic self. ❗️👏.

[@ghazalli8133]

Live and let other live,,, ❤everyone has his/her struggles. Who are us to judge? Are we perfect? Spread light and by compassionate towards others.. ❤

[@hauterrfly]

What a beautiful comment!

[@ashmitakanji]

Her last 4 lines are so relatable....im also stuck even if I have my degrees

[@hauterrfly]

As long as you work hard & remain focused, you can have it all!

[@SamathaM-kr6ff]

I really appreciate her words about women comfortable and other things

[@heenasiddiqui3888]

I won’t say she is bold or outspoken… she is true … this is all happens in every one’s life but people don’t talk about that… she is telling the truth… and the most amazing this she is clear heart that’s it

[@abhilashabajajrao7788]

Truest woman I have ever seen

[@parvathyi7068]

Loved this interview

[@pranalishinde2040]

She's so adorable ❤ I like the way she talks. I mean why are we only listening to the negative side of her. She's smart and intelligent.

[@Manseerat759]

Urfi is genuine person ❤❤

[@Niwedita.]

Uorfi is an inspiration for all the women's who go through different hardships 😢

[@neetichauhan2312]

She is just telling the truth 🫡

[@richardmuntawbira3212]

she should grow up now - shes above 27 still dresses and acts like a rebellious teenager and stop blaming her dad for everything. what he did was wrong but shes no easy child to deal with either.

[@Ana-n3p]

You know what right upbringing leads to right character build ..parents play a major role

[@Ait.55532]

This is my favourite podcast.❤❤❤

[@Unknownn0D]

She is my absolutely fav.💌

[@anjalichaurasia2613]

Urfi.. very humble and beautiful person in real❤

[@hauterrfly]

Can't agree more :)

[@PreranaTripathy-h3q]

She is really very pretty snd bold with her talks she is very talented 😇 she is really an amazing star ✨

[@hauterrfly]

Truly a gem! What's your favorite part of the episode?

[@hinajuveria7972]

😂😂😂

[@ZikraShaikh-v7t]

I like to watch her ❤the way she talks and the manner is also gud with ppl ,l love her❤

[@kirtislifestyle9299]

It was a nice conversation ❤

[@Kuchbhi_360]

I am not a very big fan of such kind of dressing sense but that shouldn't be the reason of hating someone who is promoting it as her passion. She's a self made artist and I respect that. She's even a good person by heart so why to hate her just beacuse she is styling herself in the way you don't want her to style. If you are critisizing her because you don't like it then it's your problem.

[@layba2000]

As a Muslim, I believe that she has a pure heart and that her actions are the result of trauma. I would like her to return to Islam and learn more about it so that she can understand its true teachings, rather than relying on her father's perspective. I pray that Allah guides her back to her true self. While I do not condone her clothing choices or shameless talk, I recognize that she is a human being and that no one is perfect. Despite these concerns, I believe that she is fundamentally a good person.

[@kmruby-q9r]

This is so talented and humble person 😊 kyuki esko sab kitna kuch kahte h or y kuch nahi so guys please kisi k kaam ko galat mt kaho

[@vyshnavikolla7295]

hat's off to urvi javed. she is the "real one". and you know that for being "real" people "hate"

[@suhaskaviskar9427]

Really nice video man!

[@hauterrfly]

So glad you loved the episode!

[@kripadshah]

I love you UJ mam❤❤❤❤...for me you are an inspiration ❤❤❤❤

[@loneweenie]

16:30 Precisely said by Urfi. British people looked down on us and our fashion and made us ashamed of our bodies because they sexualized us. Most of our habits are influenced by them

[@phurqeeuhmad9425]

I used to think after few days of marriage, a child appears out of nowhere. Then one time, one of the oldest cousin and my mother were talking and he was telling about this one particular couple who's child born after 15 days. Obviously, they were gossiping. Anyway, i assumed kids are born after 15 days and I told every adult at that time I know how long does a baby take to be born after marriage😂 So, yes! I totally get her 😅

[@Kanikatyagi]

Most of the things i totally relate to uorfi..that bra moment, periods moment, sex education, family restrictions and so many..

[@saloni_sona]

OMG 😳urfi bhout honest hai

[@TestAS-er4vl]

Haters go away...urfi keep going we're with uh

[@hauterrfly]

US too!

[@Rana_mini_vlogs]

7:56 : she said hayye Ram😂 bolo jai shree Ram

[@bristimitra1129]

That is so true we get to know about many thingd from female gossip, we all went through that ki "dono sath soye and bacche ho gye" 😂😂

[@meharisma2767]

She’s right. If someone find her rude so it’s not her fault she is impudent. She has childhood trauma . She has barely controlled over these things . Those children who have faced parents abusive behaviour are less likelihood to fill them from inside.

[@preetiharpreet7597]

Al the best Urfi. U are here on your own hard work. Throw all the negative comments in a the rubbish bin. You r so honest

[@nehagajle7805]

I know she is good person but now she's lying I don't know why but in her video with Farah Khan she said she never went to college and now she said when I was going to college I am wearing heels and doing makeup she is liar 😢

[@User_whatshisname]

Tumse kabhi baat kartey waqt ghalti nai hui? She said I only went for 6 months… matlab college chorni parri usko… agar koi cheez chorni parrey tou insaan ye bhi kehsakta hai, ke nai mili..

[@aafreenansari229]

Kis kis ko urfi traditional look m zayada achi lgti h...❤

[@genevieve91]

Just like urfi, i was so embarrassed about my boobs getting developed in my pre teens. I prayed to God not to give me big boobs every morning... God answered 😂.

[@hauterrfly]

Hahahah, I can relate!

[@tejinderrKaaur]

Same happened to me 😂😂. I didn’t know that I was manifesting in others way . 😂😂😂

[@NehaMishra-xn4si]

i just luv this girl man! how can anyone hate an artist like her?❤😢

[@sandeepkumar6240]

Every gandh in India is created by Brahman and Muslim. Both ideology destroyed akhand bharat it's heritage, phylosopy, culture.

[@handyfacts33333]

I love ur interviews n few dresses 👗 cover u ...cz it suits ur personality

[@food11269]

Papps have gotten out of hand. I really hope actors or just the film industry comes together and sets down some rules since it is the actors because of whom these papps are making money, it is wrong at so many levels to take pics when told not to. Not all actors call papps for PR, some are papped cuz their pics pay well

[@hauterrfly]

Completely agree! There should be a balance between what fans want and respecting an actor’s privacy. It’s fine to take pictures for the fans, but if an actor says no, it should be respected. Hopefully, the industry sets some rules to protect their privacy.

[@raganiprasad5238]

Urfi jo bhi bol rhi bilkul shi bol rhi ek ladki ye sab feel krti chote place pr ab toh social media hone se bahot kuch pta chal rha ha

[@hauterrfly]

Yes!

[@meghatiwwari]

The facts about burkha & abaya is 💯💯

[@hauterrfly]

We’ve all been brainwashed by the vices of patriarchy…

[@sk937]

lol ..... her knowledge on abaya and Islam is so vague and baseless

[@poonamhasija6775]

Purest soul with prettiest face ❤

[@hauterrfly]

You're a girl's girl

[@shikhakaushal5672]

Urfi is innocent and transparent

[@NimraGul-dd5oo]

Mental abuse made her this today.... despite doing suicide,she still chooose to stay alive...so what ever comes in her way ..she did that ..why soooo much hate for her?

[@Bs-hj8jd]

It’s correct about dress. Because we are tribal our ancestors didn’t wear blouse.

[@Study.buddy.994]

6:42 the pain in her smile 😢

[@manjukumari6316]

Urfi is very pretty and bold ❤❤❤❤❤

[@hauterrfly]

Can't agree moreee! Favorite part konsa laga episode ka bataoo?

[@Yog31abc]

She is just real 🔥🔥🔥

[@shashikantsharma9009]

👍 fantastic much appreciated and brilliant 🤩 and bold 😊

[@eleeayemi]

I was traumatized when I got to know how we humans make babies.😂😂😂 I could relate to ourfi.😅

[@mohsinraza3712]

Well showing confidence does not mean showing off ur body or provocative words. Just saying

[@SanteriAbhyankar]

Having said that, I have not seen my friends / family having any issues with growing bigger ones either

[@nehafaheemkhan2024]

I just love her❤❤❤❤❤

[@hauterrfly]

We truly wonder why she gets so much hate!

[@nehafaheemkhan2024]

​@@hauterrfly its all about personal choice maybe🤔

[@sumedhagupta9140]

Lucknow is not a backward city ,her family was

[@minaladiti8764]

Honey!! All of India is backward!! It's just that u haven't acknowledged those things

[@SHAHKAR_AHMAD]

She's very Intelligent

[@hauterrfly]

Extremely well-read and well-spoken! Did you like the episode?

[@SHAHKAR_AHMAD]

@@hauterrfly Yes of course i really liked and enjoyed the episode. I'm glad you replied 🫶

[@sakshivinchurkar2881]

@@hauterrflyI like it ❤

[@sandeepkumar6240]

I agree

[@arpitakhan786]

Too bold to handle...but respect the way she is

[@zeelchapaneri7446]

She is very brave

[@anukshyasubudhi1800]

Don’t you reply appreciate it when someone claims to be a male feminist and then just listens instead of campaigning falana dhimkana 😭❤️

[@SanteriAbhyankar]

Because u asked...No, I am pretty flat chested which was the cause of teasing sessions. But I have never been ashamed of having small boobs. Later, after becoming a mom, I was able to feed very well for 1.5 yrs without a glitch and now that I am menopausal- I thank that lord that he gave me none😂...lesser mass for gravity to work upon.😂

[@Hinduveer-]

Bad times turn even a good person into a bad person.

[@shaitech807]

She is very well spoken girl.apmi baat ko samjhana bht ache s ata h urfi ko.log use uski dress ki wajah s troll krte h or usko bura bhala samajhte h but please dekho usko she is very well behaved and well spoken girl.i like her after dis interview.

[@hauterrfly]

Urfi Javed is often judged for her fashion choices, but it’s important to see the person behind the public image. Glad you enjoyed the interview and got to see a different side of her!