HOW WE OVERCAME DYSFUNCTION IN OUR TOXIC RELATIONSHIP 🥺

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The Henry Family

The Henry Family

10 ай бұрын

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@OG_Genesis216
@OG_Genesis216 10 ай бұрын
I'm a new follower where can I find the testimony video???
@thehenryfamily_
@thehenryfamily_ 10 ай бұрын
Our TESTIMONY🥺 #blacklove #couplegoals #marriage #marriedlife #marriagegoals #toxicrelationships kzbin.infoCTCvxuvgw6Q?feature=share
@OG_Genesis216
@OG_Genesis216 10 ай бұрын
@@thehenryfamily_ Thank you so much! I'm new to your channel but it has really been refreshing to see all the wonderful things God are doing with you all. It give me hope🙏🏽✨
@abigailruth142
@abigailruth142 10 ай бұрын
​@@thehenryfamily_I'm from Uganda🇺🇬 but we love you❤😘🤟
@OneSphereUS
@OneSphereUS 10 ай бұрын
​@@abigailruth142I visited Uganda years back and LOVED IT! 🇺🇬
@Ms.Tee74
@Ms.Tee74 10 ай бұрын
Blessings I am new to your channel. I love your testimony. Give me hope allowing me to continue to wait on God. Thank you for sharing your life.
@ricardooconnor2362
@ricardooconnor2362 10 ай бұрын
As a 44 year old father of 4 and a husband of 25 years of relationship, 13 of marriage. I highly suggest to young couples out there to date and really get to know each other to see if either one of you meet what’s required for marriage based on your expectations. For example: I am a cultural man who rather a cultural woman in a marriage. If I as a cultural man marries a modern woman there will be problems in the marriage based on the two cultural differences which does not yoke well. This is the problem I see in marriages today. People are unequally yoked or unequally paired. We don’t seek God for our spouses anymore or get to know each other. We just choose based on what we see instead of what God sees. I am happy for you guys that you prioritized your marriage and make it more Christ-centered and it’s working out. God is a good God. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@Whoamiiiiiiiiiiii
@Whoamiiiiiiiiiiii 10 ай бұрын
Same goes for all of the Godly women out there. Don’t marry an unequally yoked, ungodly man. Make sure he has these characteristics first: The godly man: • repents when he sins (1 John 1:9) • considers himself dead to sin but alive to God (Romans 6:1-4, 11) • seeks to remain humble rather than exalt himself (Proverbs 27:2) • is a servant rather than demanding that he be served (Mark 10:45) • leads by example (1 Timothy 4:12) • (if married) loves his wife as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25) • lives in sexual purity, honoring God with his body (1 Corinthians 6:18; Romans 12:1-2) • seeks to be continually filled with the Holy Spirit (Ephesians 5:18; Act 13:52; Galatians 5:25) • desires to please the Lord more than himself (2 Corinthians 5:9) • bears fruit for the kingdom of God (John 15:5-8)
@nasasirapatience2180
@nasasirapatience2180 10 ай бұрын
Wow!! This is so good ❤❤❤❤❤
@LucyLucy296
@LucyLucy296 10 ай бұрын
This verse came to mind as I read your comment But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.” 1 Samuel 16:7 NIV Thank you for sharing your message and the truth, may God bless you in Jesus name Amen🙏🏾
@cookingforbeginners6770
@cookingforbeginners6770 10 ай бұрын
Y'all know some people got tricked by being in church 24/7, preaching, evangelizing, praying on tongues etc... Until you marry then and that's when the masks start sleeping off
@vanilla1657
@vanilla1657 10 ай бұрын
My issues 😭
@vell5052
@vell5052 10 ай бұрын
Humble man who can listen to his wife and take accountability that’s nothing but Jesus! 😂❤
@marianc.findley6723
@marianc.findley6723 10 ай бұрын
Well written.
@taylorspastpresent1014
@taylorspastpresent1014 10 ай бұрын
Amen Jesus is our Savior!
@RayrayWarren
@RayrayWarren 8 ай бұрын
I love this couple me and my husband need better communication skills so thank yall we been married 13 together 14 we just like annoying eachother 😂😂😂❤❤❤
@martymcfly5764
@martymcfly5764 5 ай бұрын
​@@taylorspastpresent1014there's no such thing.
@feliciaholley-loveless2343
@feliciaholley-loveless2343 4 ай бұрын
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@tamarar.4642
@tamarar.4642 10 ай бұрын
I’m SO happy to see this kind of communication in a marriage! About 4yrs ago my husband and I were very close to calling it quits. Our problem was miscommunication. One day I was tired and told him I was done if he didn’t change. We talked for 6 hours that day until 3am! Our relationship changed after that day. A marriage can’t work if only one person is trying and both people think they are perfect. I didn’t validate my husbands feelings. When he did speak, I took what he said the wrong way. Now I repeat back what he said to make sure I understand him. Believe me I was a firecracker lol 😂. We’ve been married 25yrs years and I couldn’t have picked a better person! We have disagreements but they are handled much different now. We don’t go to bed mad at each other. Life is too short and I never want him to close his eyes angry with me!
@thehenryfamily_
@thehenryfamily_ 9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@dominicchanga5116
@dominicchanga5116 6 ай бұрын
@tamara.4642 thanks for your comment, just got married and living through the process now.
@noemichernandez5751
@noemichernandez5751 4 ай бұрын
Cheating and Lying has always been 2 of the biggest problem among couples. It's hard to built any type of foundation when a cheater keeps lying.
@octaviadickson3218
@octaviadickson3218 10 ай бұрын
Antwan is a very loving husband,he let his pride go and fought for his family.May God bless the Henry family in continued love💕
@scorpiocara6798
@scorpiocara6798 10 ай бұрын
I don't think it was pride I think it was that he didn't know how to communicate and he didn't respond well to yelling and no one should respond well to yelling. There was a lack of communication n healthy communication on all parts
@carolynlong8701
@carolynlong8701 10 ай бұрын
Adorable couple 🥰praying for your family and marriage 🙏🏾
@sri1774
@sri1774 7 ай бұрын
I wouldn't take any man back if he goes to file for custody thats some snake ish
@lifefaithlove8708
@lifefaithlove8708 5 ай бұрын
Then you are not ready for marriage yet. One of the biggest things that marriage will teach you how to be good at, is forgiveness
@lifefaithlove8708
@lifefaithlove8708 5 ай бұрын
Then you are not ready for marriage yet. One of the biggest things that marriage will teach you how to be good at, is forgiveness
@carolynlong8701
@carolynlong8701 10 ай бұрын
My husband and I started out as friends and now 36 years but marriage can be hard at times 🙏🏾and we were separated for a year but God Grace and Mercy brought us back together ❤
@leealyciaknowles4830
@leealyciaknowles4830 10 ай бұрын
Your testimony is encouragement for me.
@BigCrossVita
@BigCrossVita 10 ай бұрын
Amen❤
@thehenryfamily_
@thehenryfamily_ 9 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing!! We appreciate your testimony!!!
@user-xj3fv4he4g
@user-xj3fv4he4g 5 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏🏼 Look At GOD 💜🙏🏼🙏🏼
@micheleshepherd-tigner4198
@micheleshepherd-tigner4198 10 ай бұрын
Everything you said is true! If I could just get my husband on board😔. My first marriage was wonderful and lasted twenty years before he passed. My second marriage is on edge. He said he’s a manly man and he demands respect. For me, it’s beyond that, but he just does not listen when I try to explain. I’m praying that God will intervene before I just give up. It’s exhausting!
@Angela-ot7es
@Angela-ot7es 4 ай бұрын
I get that. It's always good to pray and continue to do your part but if he doesn't want to change, God's not going to force him. That's his decision. It's not your fault at all.
@Linee_Said_It
@Linee_Said_It 9 ай бұрын
I LOVEEEE this. my husband and i have a VERY similar story. we were on and off in a relationship for about 7 years, had our son very early in our relationship. we went through the whole custody battle due to toxicity and distance (i was living in jersey, he was from GA), and it wasnt until we broke up completely and spent time away from one another that healing began to take place. being parents and forming an actual friendship brought us back to the table and gave us a firm foundation to begin to build on, FAST FORWARD: we got married in July of this year and are now cooking up baby #2!!! Glory to God for these beautiful testimonies and thank you guys so much for sharing your story! ❤
@problactive285
@problactive285 9 ай бұрын
May you continue to be blessed in your union!
@DithsHauteSpot
@DithsHauteSpot 9 ай бұрын
How did y’all handle custody living in different states? Like what was the schedule like?
@jacquelinewoodard4435
@jacquelinewoodard4435 4 ай бұрын
Love this. I’m planning to move to FL to give my husband and I some time apart. We met in high school and been through it. Hoping the space may bring us closer.
@lula3656
@lula3656 10 ай бұрын
Yasss I love this , the husband mentioned they needed a 3rd person (therapy) (church) to see that he was willing to get the help means a lot . This is a beautiful story so inspiring
@lbailey502
@lbailey502 10 ай бұрын
This is a great video. Thanks for being transparent and open. You’re able to help so many. I pray that your relationship, marriage and profession all go to levels beyond your imagination.
@thehenryfamily_
@thehenryfamily_ 10 ай бұрын
Amen! Thank you soooo much for this! 🤎
@sherrysunshinefreeman3434
@sherrysunshinefreeman3434 9 ай бұрын
Amen ❤
@sabrinamcmichael1905
@sabrinamcmichael1905 10 ай бұрын
Oh wow… that’s how me and my spouse was. The communication line has to be open no matter how short. Sex, money, a good time just don’t cut it! Sometimes you have to understand that it’s not always a couple issue but an individual issue and address it accordingly! Awesome discussion from you both🙌🙌🙌🙌
@loiswhite503
@loiswhite503 9 ай бұрын
Thank you Guys , my marriage divided 10 years ago , but the last few month's Give God all the glory , he is restoring our marriage
@marieiradukunda9298
@marieiradukunda9298 9 ай бұрын
Now this right here is what we call marriage, The kind of marriage that God wants people to have. Love love love it ♥️
@wendyhestick8514
@wendyhestick8514 10 ай бұрын
You are a beautiful couple and a wonderful black family. I really admire and respect you both!
@thehenryfamily_
@thehenryfamily_ 9 ай бұрын
Thank you l!!!
@scorpiocara6798
@scorpiocara6798 10 ай бұрын
What I loved most about this video is that you guys weren't having a conversation with us, you guys were having a conversation with each other and we were just peering through the window
@thehenryfamily_
@thehenryfamily_ 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for pointing this out!! 🙌🏾🤎
@scorpiocara6798
@scorpiocara6798 10 ай бұрын
@@thehenryfamily_ yes, it was beautiful!
@zeeshawnkotun3956
@zeeshawnkotun3956 2 ай бұрын
Did you guy's get counseling. Or did you guys make a decision to bet on each other for the better. I really like how you both admit it your wrongs in the relationship.
@niniamoree
@niniamoree 5 ай бұрын
God will do EXCEEDINGLY and ABUNDANTLY !!!! Once you surrendered your love life to him he restored what you already had and gave both of you the opportunity to create wealth by telling y’all testimony🤯 GLORY BE TO GOD!!! Y’all’s love story is so inspiring to me❤️
@Sirchingsince
@Sirchingsince 10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your openness and transparency. Sex is a faulty foundation.
@valeriacannon9524
@valeriacannon9524 10 ай бұрын
You guys are great. I have not been in a relationship in about 16 yrs. I have never been in a relationship and not been cheated on, including my marriage, and any relationship before or after my marriage. I just got fed up, and now I don't date, don't want to be in a relationship, and at 61 yrs young...I have had enough. What you two have is beautiful, keep the communication going, and stay in love. God bless you guys and the kids.
@shondacheesecake
@shondacheesecake 10 ай бұрын
I can say that I struggle with communicating because I know nothing is going to change. After repeating myself for 21 years, I just stay quiet and try to deal with the issues on my own.
@estherwandaka787
@estherwandaka787 10 ай бұрын
See a couple therapist
@shondacheesecake
@shondacheesecake 10 ай бұрын
@@estherwandaka787 I haven't tried that but I will consider. Thanks
@Kingjamesbible161
@Kingjamesbible161 9 ай бұрын
Actually just go to Christ an therapist is a human and has problems issues of their own including the emotional burden of hearing others peoples problems that becomes theirs mentally a The lord can handle multiple and issues all at same time and can work them all out in time Also it’s best to go to a bible believing believer in Christ counselor
@chongz702
@chongz702 9 ай бұрын
The first step to the solution you need is to correct the mentality that "nothing is going to change". Change is constant and very possible
@Yoshiecatattck
@Yoshiecatattck 9 ай бұрын
@@Kingjamesbible161 not everyone believes in religion or Christianity so I feel like that advice is only beneficial for those who practice that.
@TA-mu4he
@TA-mu4he 10 ай бұрын
Nothing but GOD❤! You guys are such a blessing and for me, this is right on time!! ❤ I needed this reminder Father 🙏. Thank you for these 2!❤ Come wit it, Part 2!!! Thanks for being obedient!! Please keep doing vids like this! SHOW US what it looks like. HOW do we actively listen? Or HOW do we start over after 10&12 years? Great tips guys!!!! ❤❤
@thehenryfamily_
@thehenryfamily_ 10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for tuning in!!! We are taking notes and will continue to bring more videos like this!
@cloudie9druoid172
@cloudie9druoid172 10 ай бұрын
Wow that’s very impressive the struggles you’ve both recognized and overcame, most couples don’t get passed the hurdles it drives them apart. 💯 communication is the main downfall in most relationships. You two are an inspiration of overcoming adversity and working towards changing together than expecting the other to change while one stays the same. Amazing
@user-ol9bo2ei1r
@user-ol9bo2ei1r 10 ай бұрын
Heavy on the last sentence. Because that is exactly why my parents divorced. One matured, the other stayed the same.
@thehenryfamily_
@thehenryfamily_ 9 ай бұрын
Thank you!!!
@kendacebowe
@kendacebowe 9 ай бұрын
Sam, I love how you are so intentional with bringing clarity and understanding to the conversation. You love depth and transparency, it's so beautiful to see you open about your personal struggle.
@ginadantus7619
@ginadantus7619 10 ай бұрын
I don’t know any transparent KZbin couple other than you, when I’m watching your videos I see reality in them, thank you for sharing your truth, thank you for showing to the world that love is not always sweet🙏🏽❤️
@thehenryfamily_
@thehenryfamily_ 10 ай бұрын
Aww, thank you so much for your kind comment. We really appreciate you!
@blessedlucy782
@blessedlucy782 10 ай бұрын
By that it gives them breakthrough 😊
@Tina-is1jg
@Tina-is1jg 10 ай бұрын
You guys are growing on me, funny what transparency does.... you about to be even more popular 🎉
@puddin12dt
@puddin12dt 10 ай бұрын
💕 thank you guys so much for sharing your story. Keep it coming, love the transparency. Black couples need more examples and discussions like this. 👏🏽 Wishing the best for y’all and your family!
@sharsmith5539
@sharsmith5539 10 ай бұрын
I am not married, not even in a relationship😂 I loved this conversation and transparency though because it gives insight to what will truly matter ❤when the time comes! Especially for someone who is not the most affective communicator! I can begin to work on my own flaws BEFORE I meet my person💗
@dawnlaubach4970
@dawnlaubach4970 10 ай бұрын
Well said!
@thehenryfamily_
@thehenryfamily_ 9 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@e.wilson729
@e.wilson729 5 ай бұрын
Finally, a channel/video without cursing and bedroom overshare. What a beautiful love journey. God bless.
@tredinabrown2249
@tredinabrown2249 10 ай бұрын
I Am Pleased To Know That Negativity And Toxicity Aren't Allowed Anymore! Praise The Most High!
@TiaJoy1372
@TiaJoy1372 10 ай бұрын
I know that the Lord led me to this video as my Kingdom Spouse and I are not married yet. There was so much toxicity, a lot of breakups and back and forth. As we both are doing the work and has drawn closer to our heavenly father. This kingdom spouse journey is not easy, but it's well worth it. For I am learning a lot about him and as well as myself. For we both decided a few months ago to go celibate. And wait until we are married. It definitely has drawn us closer to one another. As we are building a spiritual and emotional relationship with each other with no sex and i truly tell you it is such a blessing. Neither one of us has done this before in past relationships and it feels really good. What the Lord brings together, Let no man separate Amen😊💛🙌🏾🙏🏾
@sondraphillips6316
@sondraphillips6316 10 ай бұрын
Wow, what an inspiration and motivation for my relationship IF we make it. It sounds similar to mine, but I don’t know if we’ll make it. I am praying to the Lord for our relationship/ for him because he does have a temper and our communication is poor. I am more like Antwon and he does the yelling and cussing at me. 😢
@poppnitwithpre
@poppnitwithpre 10 ай бұрын
@@sondraphillips6316this is where I am
@thehenryfamily_
@thehenryfamily_ 9 ай бұрын
Amen, in Jesus name!!!!
@hotgirl24ization
@hotgirl24ization 10 ай бұрын
Lovers to enemies to lovers again i appreciate y'all's story. Marriage is not for the week and needs to be watered daily thank y'all for sharing ❤
@thehenryfamily_
@thehenryfamily_ 9 ай бұрын
Well said, thank you for watching us!!!
@msinspired101
@msinspired101 9 ай бұрын
Weak not week. But well said
@candacejohnson8649
@candacejohnson8649 9 ай бұрын
Another thing for me outside of the friendship is….what are we or what will we be without the kids? Of course it’s about the kids but when they leave the house…do we fall apart? So, outside of the kids we have to want each other for each other. Basically, I want you to want me because of me…not because of our kids. I loved this guys, thank you 😊 🤎🫶🏾🙏🏾
@shawnaholmes7340
@shawnaholmes7340 9 ай бұрын
I love your story!!!!!A true story of redemption and an example of what it looks like to allow Christ to be a part of your marriage. Your family is so beautiful!!!!Content like yours is so needed!❤❤❤❤
@ShelleyannHenry
@ShelleyannHenry 10 ай бұрын
Marriage is not a easy at all I am in a marriage and we are having some great challenges..I hope one day we will be able to tell our story ..God bless all you are struggling with there relationship. 😢
@Chasing_Destiny
@Chasing_Destiny 10 ай бұрын
Thank y’all for being transparent! I’m a new follower and always saw your shorts videos but this was my first ful video of y’all’s and I appreciate y’all’s transparency. Im a newly married woman and I got some valuable tips from y’all’s testimony. Thank you for that
@shirleypettawaypettaway9973
@shirleypettawaypettaway9973 9 ай бұрын
You two are going to save a lot of marriages and relationships. It's a lot of people in marriages and relationship that are not reaching their potential because they don't feel comfortable opening up to the other person. I am so proud of you the devil is mad because you two got back together continue to put God first and everything will work out fine and keep dating❤🙏 here's to you 🥂🎉🎉🎉
@sherminbaileybrown3419
@sherminbaileybrown3419 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story because y'all look so perfect together and so many times we only hear about the good and not the challenges, so it can help others who are currently going through what others have overcome, you guys are amazing I love the way y'all support each other and mostly putting God first, I pray y'all grow old together as you go from strength to strength in the presence of the Lord with the power of His might ❤❤
@thehenryfamily_
@thehenryfamily_ 9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@kchay7012
@kchay7012 10 ай бұрын
Tears all day guys😢we so needed this. God knows how important this journey is for us. Thank you so much for providing hope and direction. May God bless you guys and cover your family from all evil continually
@thehenryfamily_
@thehenryfamily_ 9 ай бұрын
Awwww, thank you!!!
@arabernitaglover7174
@arabernitaglover7174 10 ай бұрын
A family that prays together stays together continue to keep god first I love black love
@alvinmatthews2910
@alvinmatthews2910 9 ай бұрын
I'm definitely glad yall made it through. I didn't make it through, but I've moved on for the best
@malikasampson7673
@malikasampson7673 10 ай бұрын
You guys are truly a testimony of how GOD is awesome. Such a wonderful blessing and gives me hope for love.
@martinapfaar7902
@martinapfaar7902 10 ай бұрын
Thank you guys for these videos.Yes I was one of them who did ask. Thank you so much. I am praying for my man right now. He is not a man of many words.
@Chosen4thistime
@Chosen4thistime 10 ай бұрын
I really do enjoy watching the entire Henry family & how each one interacts with each other & especially the love that you two have for each other!!!! I believe that your marriage & family is blessed because you realized that.... God is #1...Spouse is #2....Children are #3....When priorities are placed in order....blessings fall into place!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤
@thehenryfamily_
@thehenryfamily_ 9 ай бұрын
Thanks so much
@tarodman
@tarodman 10 ай бұрын
I discovered this page yesterday & had no idea I was about to get this! I NEED this so much right now bc this gives me hope. Thank you for showing us that #couplegoals was something y’all had to work on & it’s possible to work thru the hard times & come out stronger together on the other side ❤
@thehenryfamily_
@thehenryfamily_ 9 ай бұрын
Thank you!!!
@katrinaassoumou1531
@katrinaassoumou1531 10 ай бұрын
Thank you guys for helping others to communicate with each other. Praise God. Amen
@thehenryfamily_
@thehenryfamily_ 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for being here🤎
@TanyaMercer-xt6bs
@TanyaMercer-xt6bs 10 ай бұрын
I have only been following y'all about a month now. I really appreciate how you have so much love for each other. Looking at you two now I would have never imagined the situations in the past. I'm asking that you pray for my family to grow together more spiritually. September will make 15 years married. We definitely have history together before we got married. Too much to talk about on here. May God continue to bless and guide your beautiful family 🙏🏾💕
@gigga693
@gigga693 10 ай бұрын
God says where two or three are gathered there he is in the midst. I am touching and agreeing that your union will be blessed, that God will do a new thing in your lives individually and collectively. May he continue to heal, deliver, and set y’all free of whatever is not of God that may have been trying to take up root in your lives and your union. May y’all grow, thrive, and may your lineage be blessed! Amen 🙏🏾
@thehenryfamily_
@thehenryfamily_ 9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@TheTierraJ
@TheTierraJ 10 ай бұрын
I have a question! Having that intimate history between you then stepping back and practicing abstinence was there any differences/revelations in intimacy before marriage vs. intimacy in the sanctity of marriage? I'm asking this because so many of us find ourselves in relationships where we are intimate before marriage but then make a decision to back it up and practice abstinence and wait until marriage. Sometimes we find out it won't work with that person if it's one sided but other times our partners join us on the journey and really want to see it through to marriage. That's where I am right now. It's hard but I do believe that it's possible and would love to have advice/insight on how that was for you guys! Thank you for sharing your beautiful story! God bless your union and family! ❤️
@GETYOBAGMONIQUE
@GETYOBAGMONIQUE 6 ай бұрын
A lot of men just don't even realize how important communication is..and quality time.
@corneliabridges7285
@corneliabridges7285 10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing. God is truly blessing y’all. I came across one of your Shorts video and loved it. I love your vibes together and you two are so genuine. You guys are helping me deal with issues that have been HEARTBREAKING 💔! I’m getting it together and I appreciate every video that I’ve seen so far. They give me so much hope. May God bless you guys and your family! ❤
@alexatoure3407
@alexatoure3407 8 ай бұрын
I love this! Thank you both for showing up for us. It helps tremendously and it’s so good to see a healthy Black couple keeping it real.❤
@nekishaburton1137
@nekishaburton1137 10 ай бұрын
Communication is key in every relationship. Thank you for sharing your story and I'm so glad that God bought yall back together. I pray the Lord continues to bless and keep your marriage.❤
@torrionmills1323
@torrionmills1323 10 ай бұрын
Thank you guys for this. I definitely needed this because this is where my marriage is now. Our communication sucks real bad.
@Devistech
@Devistech 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for being open! I’ve learned a lot from this video but 2 things that really caught my attention was getting to know each other before starting a relationship that was my mistake and unfortunately I did not get to know the girl that I was dating which caused a downward spiral in the relationship. Also healing from past trauma with each other by learning how to forgive. 🙏🏿
@LucyChesang-hy7mg
@LucyChesang-hy7mg 10 ай бұрын
Im Lucy watching you guys from Kenya, actually I admire you and how I wish all the married people to immulate you guys, the whole world would be living happily. Thank you guys and may our good lord countnue uplifting and showering you with lots of blessings.
@BlancaRosa79
@BlancaRosa79 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for the tremendous transparency you both are giving us ❤. I come from divorce so I understand the struggle
@tamitraedwards9517
@tamitraedwards9517 10 ай бұрын
You are such a Inspirational to so many people
@thehenryfamily_
@thehenryfamily_ 10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! 🤎🤎🤎
@bedinabebe4521
@bedinabebe4521 10 ай бұрын
Communication is extremely important for successful relationships. Lack of Communication causes many issues to include being frustrating, and triggering responses that add to the issues as illustrated in this discussion. Its unfortunately normalized to conduct relationships that lack effective communication. Congratulations on putting in the work to inprove and succeed.
@fzkingff1343
@fzkingff1343 5 ай бұрын
Yes communication is very important. It's good to talk and share your feelings. Your partner cannot read your mind, so you have to talk. You have to put yourself out there, you have to be vulnerable with your partner. Be open so there are no misconceptions. Thank you guys for been honest. God bless you and your family.
@DreMiles365
@DreMiles365 10 ай бұрын
Y'all this was so good!! I commend you both for your honesty and transparency. The communication tips you shared are on point and very much appreciated! I pray God continues to bless your marriage and your family. Much love to you Henry Family!!❤
@thehenryfamily_
@thehenryfamily_ 9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@daughterofaking3409
@daughterofaking3409 9 ай бұрын
I'm proud of you both. Thank you so much for this testimony on your covenant, I can tell it wasn't easy for y'all but I personally needed to see this thank you a million times #Blacklove💋
@camillephillip3282
@camillephillip3282 9 ай бұрын
YOU all have grown alot. Cultures and upbringing affects the way we communicate and how we communicate. Our background defines how we relate and communicate.
@shickman6172
@shickman6172 10 ай бұрын
I sincerely appreciate the openness and transparency you guys bring to the table. Your testimony is something. I can't wait for part2. May GOD continue blessing your union and your beautiful family.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾😊
@allthingso9726
@allthingso9726 8 ай бұрын
Love how you say I appreciate. It moves the conversation and allows you both to hear each other. Simply beautiful
@nadz_Free
@nadz_Free 9 ай бұрын
So Powerful! You guys are definitely playing a part of the healing of the world🙏🙏❤️
@Keba2008
@Keba2008 10 ай бұрын
This is a very viable conversation for couples to hear. They get to see that couples can have difficulties and over come them. God bless you guys and your family.❤❤
@thehenryfamily_
@thehenryfamily_ 9 ай бұрын
Absolutely!!
@KingJames_2023
@KingJames_2023 10 ай бұрын
This video is amazing and has truly been a blessing to me. Thank you guys for your transparency and vulnerability. I pray that God blesses you guys with many more years of love happiness and unity together.
@daphethompson2424
@daphethompson2424 10 ай бұрын
Hello 👋 Henry family, I’m so glad I decided to subscribe to your channel. I decided based on seeing your shorts and seeing how great your family works together on such a beautiful and positive way. It’s so much negativity out there about black men, black women or just black women with children that do not have the father’s in the homes. But when I seen how you guys work so well as a family and in such a positive way. I said this is the channel to watch. I pray God continues to use your family in such a positive way to help others.❤️🙏🏾💕🙏🏾❤️
@jeanstout5858
@jeanstout5858 10 ай бұрын
Wow...wasn't prepared for this video...would never have guessed what you've been through in your relationship. Grateful you found the answer through God. I appreciate how your family dynamic is working....very inspiring and encouraging. God bless you all❤
@demarcussimmons5222
@demarcussimmons5222 6 ай бұрын
Tough times hard times an stressful storms true love always overcome marriage is worth it I love it praying 🙏🏿 y'all keep it going..
@germillmitchell8463
@germillmitchell8463 10 ай бұрын
This video is awesome, dropping jewels, and educating married couples who are struggling with communication such as my husband!! Lord, I'm throwing in the towel!!! I'm tired, and overwhelmed!!!😭🙏 Send prayers my way Henry family.
@thehenryfamily_
@thehenryfamily_ 9 ай бұрын
We got you cover, in Jesus name!!!
@germillmitchell8463
@germillmitchell8463 9 ай бұрын
@@thehenryfamily_ thank you!🙏❤️
@janetbeaty143
@janetbeaty143 10 ай бұрын
I admire you guys it gives me hope about black relationships. Please continue to grow 👍
@thehenryfamily_
@thehenryfamily_ 10 ай бұрын
Thank you love
@renitalynette
@renitalynette 10 ай бұрын
This was so good! Thank you for being willing and open to share with us.❤
@thehenryfamily_
@thehenryfamily_ 9 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@Nieceyspeaks
@Nieceyspeaks 10 ай бұрын
I love this so much this will help a lot of people. Love y’all ❤❤
@TheTierraJ
@TheTierraJ 10 ай бұрын
So amazing to have been through all of that and to see you guys looking like y’all are just falling in love 🥹 God is soooo good! He RESTORES!!! 🙏🏽❤ I’ve been through a custody battle too during my divorce and it was HELL. I almost lost my mind. I resorted to smoking everyday and drinking heavily. Although it wasn’t a relationship that could be salvaged romantically, I prayed for God to restore our friendship with each other for the sake of our children’s peace and our own too. Its a journey but I believe and see it happening. SEEK HIM, ASK HIM TO DO IT AND HE WILL!!!! 🙌🏾
@sondraphillips6316
@sondraphillips6316 10 ай бұрын
Hey TierraJ it’s good to see you watch other KZbinrs and encourage them! 😊🎉😊
@monti42
@monti42 10 ай бұрын
Hey TT, I love your channel and the woman you continue to be…keep pushing, you got this!
@thehenryfamily_
@thehenryfamily_ 9 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing!!!
@karenchandler4717
@karenchandler4717 9 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing! I always say foundation and communication is so important! Blessings to you both! 🙏🏾
@KeishaSnowVeley
@KeishaSnowVeley 10 ай бұрын
thank y’all i needed this🙌🏾
@thehenryfamily_
@thehenryfamily_ 10 ай бұрын
Sis, we are grateful!🤎
@beautybar9193
@beautybar9193 10 ай бұрын
Thank y'all for sharing so much wisdom. It let's others know that They're not alone. Thank you and I pray God continues to bless y'all beautiful family
@jocelynford4209
@jocelynford4209 10 ай бұрын
This was great to listen to. Love the honesty and transparency 👏🏾🫶🏾❤
@raghdamahmoud8632
@raghdamahmoud8632 2 ай бұрын
You are beautiful! You are giving a lesson to people about how the true love is like! ❤❤❤
@chinitareid8625
@chinitareid8625 7 ай бұрын
CONGRATULATIONS WE ARE SO OVER JOYED. GOD HEALED AND RESTORED YOU TOO PEOPLE. TOXIC RELATIONSHIP🙏🏽MANY BLESSINGS FROM ABOVE AND Here ON EARTH #FAVOR#
@mshummingbird7342
@mshummingbird7342 9 ай бұрын
I’m so glad to see you guys together again it’s rare seeing black couple make it thru tough times, seeing you guys warm my heart sending you guys lots of love 🥰
@thehenryfamily_
@thehenryfamily_ 9 ай бұрын
Thank you love!!!
@beautifulempress6649
@beautifulempress6649 10 ай бұрын
You guys can truly be a blessing to many couples!
@Alicia-pz1xs
@Alicia-pz1xs 10 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing and being so transparent. It really touches home ❤. May God continue to Bless ya'll.
@vmh4748
@vmh4748 10 ай бұрын
Your videos kept popping up for me to watch and I’m so glad it did. I’ve been married for 39 years and I just learned something new🙌🏾 I just subscribed😊
@thehenryfamily_
@thehenryfamily_ 9 ай бұрын
I'm so glad! This really makes us happy.
@MPEEZYforSHEEZY
@MPEEZYforSHEEZY 10 ай бұрын
Bless you all for sharing and helping others. This helps a lot.
@brendalee274
@brendalee274 10 ай бұрын
He seems like a good listener. She talks a lot so it's good to hear him talk. 🙏
@OneSphereUS
@OneSphereUS 10 ай бұрын
I love y'all's honesty. And usually, when a partner yells and raises their tone when attempting to "communicate" towards the other, it can be overwhelming to where it doesn't "feel safe" to talk...and also the higher vibration/frequency of the yelling/discussing can be like "Charlie Brown's teacher" 🙏🏾
@savagebull9183
@savagebull9183 10 ай бұрын
I was not expecting this to be heavy! Thank you 🩵
@gigga693
@gigga693 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for your transparency and obedience to Christ! Those of us who’ve been through divorce court, custody court, lawyers, etc. know exactly what you meant, how low you felt, how at odds you are and how it can truly bring out fangs in each other. I’m glad God covered y’all thru it and y’all came out better, union redeemed, family blessed, prospering, etc. Y’all are proof of God’s word that though the weapons may form, they won’t prosper. ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ May their testimony encourage anyone who may be going thru and might be losing hope. Give it to God and submit to the plan God has for your life!
@sandradavis4101
@sandradavis4101 10 ай бұрын
Oh Henry Family ❤❤❤. Thank you for sharing,….Alpha King looked Sooo humble, ❤❤❤❤❤
@thehenryfamily_
@thehenryfamily_ 10 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@ImaniGrace0711
@ImaniGrace0711 Күн бұрын
This video really blessed me because my husband and I are working to have a good foundation. It's been a roller coaster lately. What really stuck out was y'all saying working on yourself first. Y'all give so many ppl hope. I really love yall🩷
@vinosinim435
@vinosinim435 10 ай бұрын
Love you all ❤ God bless you all abundantly! Amen!
@thehenryfamily_
@thehenryfamily_ 10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! We love you back🤎
@brendalee274
@brendalee274 10 ай бұрын
It's mazing how when she allows him to talk, he's really wise
@priscajean-baptiste6183
@priscajean-baptiste6183 10 ай бұрын
Thank you both for sharing your story, it will definitely help someone out there going through a falling relationship. You didn't have to, but you did it ❤😊
@thehenryfamily_
@thehenryfamily_ 9 ай бұрын
Our pleasure!
@andreabutts8697
@andreabutts8697 10 ай бұрын
So happy you worked it out. I'm 55 as of December 7th 20w3. My exhusband was AWFUL! No help with anything. I worked 3 full time jobs for the last 5 years eith him. No appreciation, love consideration etc.. physically violent, verbally, emotionally. Kids meant income tax write off. I'm getting angry thinking of it. He thought it was baby sitting to do anything for the kids. It was horrible. 1200 miles away from my family. His family surrounded us. He had insults to make toward me in their presence. Depression is hard. I survived. I really despise him. So much more to tell.
@cookiesandpie4837
@cookiesandpie4837 10 ай бұрын
Glad you got out safely 😊😢
@thehenryfamily_
@thehenryfamily_ 9 ай бұрын
I'm Glad that God brought you through.
@ColdandRain202
@ColdandRain202 9 ай бұрын
Seek peace with God, you are free now. Focus on your kids, spend quality time with each and do the hobbies you always dreamt of doing. You are beautiful inside and out. God is with you and never left.
@andreabutts8697
@andreabutts8697 9 ай бұрын
@user-if4ju6qv6b thanks to all of you. I'm now dealing with the death of my baby girl. Erica Nicole Dixon. Tragic car accident. April 1, 2021. Happened in Houston. On the Deans list. My baby was planning to be a Dr. GOD my heart hurts. I don't want to begin to relive how I was treated by him and his family for 3 months fighting to get her body from Houston to North Carolina. I'm so hurttttt!
@tl7409
@tl7409 6 ай бұрын
​@@andreabutts8697I am so very sorry for your loss😢 I pray that God will give you strength sis🙏❤️
@charnette8920
@charnette8920 10 ай бұрын
Thank you both for being so transparent. I can resonate with everything you guys are saying!🎯🙏🏾🖤
@thehenryfamily_
@thehenryfamily_ 9 ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@renastrong1198
@renastrong1198 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your testimony with us.I'm looking forward to part 2 of your journey.Continued blessings to your family.❤
@nadz_Free
@nadz_Free 9 ай бұрын
Communication is so important! Misunderstandings are too common so thanks for breaking that down
@deaneawilliams2272
@deaneawilliams2272 8 ай бұрын
How and the world do yall not allow flashbacks of this ruin you'll currently? Peace and blessings bro and sis ❤❤❤❤
@420_isthewaytobe
@420_isthewaytobe 10 ай бұрын
It was a blessing finding you guys ❤
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