SAILING: Experience pays and we're broke! Middle Percy and passage to Scawfell - Episode 32

[@tentimes4]

So, I normally won't comment like this, but I need to say this for both of you. Josh, I've sailed around the world twice. I've had my share of loves and finally found the one for me. I was lucky enough to have spent 19 years with the most beautiful, funny, smart-ass woman of my dreams. She passed last year from COVID, and yeah, it sucks pretty bad. But, I see in Phoebe those same similar traits. No joke, you're not going to find better than her. This is your journey now. And Phoebe, keep dubbing animal voices and being such a cool chic. That's a great sense of humor. Here's the kicker for both of you... your relationship brings out the best in one another. Foster that. Hey... that's an Aussie beer right. I still like Fremantle ales better though. but hey, The tough times that scare you Phi or the times that might try your patience Josh, those are the ones you're going to cherish even more as your relationship grows. I can tell you this from one who's had the honor of a true love... keep going. The bond you're building is pretty freakin' cool... Thanks for sharing your story.

[@liabatista9594]

This was the most beautiful comment, sorry for your loss 🥺

[@Thenewkidsonthedock]

We read this comment clutching one another on the couch, feeling the emotions together. We are so grateful that you have shared this with us and are so deeply sorry for the loss of your partner in life of 19 years. Thank you for sharing your story and reminding us to be grateful of all the experiences in life. We are really grateful to have you here with us and hope that our videos bring you joy, reminding you of all the beauty and fun that life offers. Sending our deepest condolences and best wishes. Warmest regards and big love mate, Josh and Phoebe

[@reedco.estateagents4067]

Put the sheet into the whisker pole first then push it out and clip the beak to the mast. Also your main needs to be eased a tonne. That’s why the sea state is making it hard to drive. Probably should have a harness on in that slop as well. You’ll get there, great to see you’re having a go. Cheers Adrian.

[@comicwings8240]

Agree, dump Genoa, sheet into beak. Push out clip on mast, sheet on.

[@jenellebrunning8128]

Everyone can so do it on the type. Real life is completely different! We've just come back from sailing the east coast of Oz.. same as these guys on a cat and it was fkn tough !!

[@Thenewkidsonthedock]

Hey Adrian thanks heaps for your input mate! I’ve had sheets in the pole first previously and it scared the crap out of me when the sail luffed or backfilled whilst trying to get into the mast, ramming the pole in and out. Definitely makes sense to sheet in then ease as clipping pole in. As for main sail we definitely could have done it better. Cheers for your gentle encouragement, appreciate it mate! Josh

[@reedco.estateagents4067]

@@Thenewkidsonthedock it will get easier.. especially when the boat is easier to hold a course with, you could try poling it out to leeward them gybing the main across..but that has risk if you round up.

[@robertfreeman2322]

You need a roller furler on your bow so you can control everything from the cockpit. That damn hank on jib has gotten a lot of people injured over the years. There's a reason you don't see hank'd on jibs anymore. A used but working profurl system is good enough to start and I see them for sale pretty cheap.

[@dburrows5616]

Awesome folks, you're learning Quickly! Think about the 1600 hundreds! You are sailing. Stay safe... Learn as you go!!!

[@Thenewkidsonthedock]

Thanks mate! Getting deep into the experience is the way to go. We are loving it but it isn’t always easy going. Cheers! Josh

[@SailingLearningByDoing]

Excellent video guys, really heartfelt and honest. It's been a pleasure sailing along with you and now watching it 6 months later. So I could give you some tips and observations but as you've sailed many miles since this I'm sure you've got it all figured out and were having a right old giggle editing this one.

[@sambarrett4590]

Most authentic & Best channel on YT in many respects, not just sailing channels.

[@svwallen]

Ahoy Josh and Phoebe. Glad to see your still enjoying. A cruising tip, with sufficient wind behind your beam, you might like to try running under headsail alone. (Think of pulling the boat with a headsail instead of trying to push it with a mainsail, a lot like pulling a trailer behind a car going forwards compared to trying to push the trailer with the car in reverse). In many cases there will only be a slight decrease (if any) in speed. And in most cases this will almost remove any weather helm making Innerbloom easier to steer and easier on the pilot if your using it. Sailing under headsail alone (unless running dead down wind) will usually negate the need for a pole as the main is no longer creating a wind shadow on the headsail. If you do have the headsail up and wish to ad the pole like in this video, you can run the lazy sheet through the end of the pole before you set the pole, then swap out the loaded sheet for the lazy one (bit of a juggle depending on number of cockpit winches etc, attaching a line with a rolling hitch to your loaded sheet and then to a sufficiently strong point will usually suffice) Best wishes for next seasons sailing. Hope to see you out there. Peter Sand Dollar⛵️🌴👍

[@Thenewkidsonthedock]

Hey Pete! So awesome to see you here mate. I love your analogy about the forces driving the boat, it has helped me a lot with deciding which sail configurations to run. We do notice slightly more roll when sailing down wind with only the jib, like you said negligible speed loss and significantly easier to helm and setup. Such a win mate, thanks for the tips! Will certainly catch you next season 😬 cheers, Josh

[@brettdurrans15]

try clipping in the sheet first and then attach the pole to the mast after.. also ley the main sail out more and have a preventer on it in case you crash jibe

[@loripeaceandlove6391]

Awww! Thank God you’re both safe. Your so right - Life is so precious and thank you both for all your hard work not just sailing but making these amazing videos for us all. Another freaking awesome video. PeaceAndLove Lori

[@Narikisailingaustralia1243]

Sailing deep downwind 101 ... get onto course, ease main fully (boom close to stays), fit preventer to stop accidental gybe. Ease headsail right out, if headsail won't fill (due to main blocking it's breeze) then set up pole on opposite side to main (put "lazy" headsail sheet in end of pole BEFORE raising pole), raise pole, then pull headsail across to pole. Practice in light air first.

[@coll2669]

OMG you guys had me on the edge of my seat last night. You 2 are so friggin cute. Please stay safe with all the above suggestions. ❤❤

[@Thenewkidsonthedock]

Glad to hear you’re enjoying the videos! We implemented all the great suggestions and have made some improvements 😁

[@Truecrimecommunity]

You are the new goat that this Penelope. More fun, more authentic, more legit! When you all blow up, please do not change. Do not become some enterprise that no amount of money is good enough for. Get the nice boat of your dreams, fill your bank account, but please don’t change how you act, how you film, and please never hire a team to do it all for you. Even if it means we get less videos! Never ever change.

[@Thenewkidsonthedock]

Hello again my friend! We love that you’re going through rewatching and leaving comments for us :) Staying true to who we are is very important to us, obviously over time we grow and the experiences shape us but the passion and appreciation will be there for as long as we continue this life style. Getting to where we are has required a lot of hard work and we will never forget that! Cheers mate, Josh

[@donaldwatson554]

Well done kids, it’s just part of life you -have to take the good with the bad. Fair-winds and following seas kids -cheers from beautiful Michigan USA.

[@Thenewkidsonthedock]

Absolutely Donald! The hard times make the good all the sweeter, cheers mate! Josh

[@stevecrombie5357]

I'm glad with all the drama, fear and danger that all ended well. I'm sure you will come up with some plan that allows you to enjoy the freedom and liberation of sailing safely and when to buckle up and do what's needed in more dangerous situations. What a beautiful spot you were in at the start of this video. Magical. Be safe, love each other and I'll see you next time.

[@Sailing_Antrice]

Look up “swell bridal” that is a way of bringing the bow into the waves at anchor instead of rolling like crazy. Next You clip the sheet on to the pole first then push it out and clip it on to the mast second. That way you can push the sail out as you put the pole up. Practice in calm weather. You need jacklines, life lines, and life jackets. Practice man overboard in calm weather too. If you can get RYA courses in Australia then do RYA comp crew and day skipper course. Cheers and good luck.

[@dufftennant1921]

Agree with previous comment re position or main (hopefully preventer on to stop unintentional gybe) . I also agree with clipping on to sheet first but the easiest way is to have lazy sheets set up on both sides. If you had a sheet outside all stays and through a turning block on stern and attach to headsail with snap shackle . To do this you would to wind in headsail sheet attach lazy . No pressure on this sheet at this stage. Attach outside end of pole to lazy push pole out and attach to mast. Run back to cockpit take pressure on lazy which becomes new sheet while releasing other jib sheet. I know this will cost money but what you are doing at the moment is dangerous. Best wishes

[@Thenewkidsonthedock]

Appreciate the tips Duff we will give this a go in the right conditions. Anything we can employ to make things easier and safer is welcome aboard Innerbloom! Cheers mate, Josh

[@TheGrottieYachtie]

Great video - once again you convey the stark reality of sailing - at times it really sucks! But these are the memories that will stick with you. The learning curve is going well! Good to hear you acknowledging your own complacency at times and the need for safety. PFD as a minimum, harness preferably - you will get to know when you have to wear it! Sailing tired messes with your head - it is an absolute emotional roller coaster and physically draining too. Makes it fun, but safety has to be number one. Tip 1: Rolly Anchorages - Use a "flopper stopper". Put a strong bucket out on a line from the end of the boom (if it doesn't sit well just put a rock in it). It helps a lot. If you get really keen put another one out the other side on your pole. It takes the wickedness out of the rolls and will help you get more sleep. When I first cruised the coast years ago most boats used a flopper stopper of some sort, many people had quite elaborate set ups of metal trays like crab pots with a hinged floor - no-one seems to anymore which amazes me. Tip 2: For Josh. Hang onto Phoebe, she is a gem. For Phoebe. Hang on to Josh, he is a keeper, don't let him go over!!

[@SamuelKTennis]

Fantastic video. Thank you both. Inspirational.

[@24hourtravellers]

We are new sailors too and before buying our boat I never thought about the scene of seeing my partner in danger, only thought about the fun. It's scary out at sea. Hope you have Jacklines and tether yourselves to the boat. Stay safe guyz

[@Thenewkidsonthedock]

So true, It’s a stark reality when we finally got to cruising and all the challenges we faced together. We run life lines and feather on in conditions we deem necessary or at night but at times we became complacent this season. Always learning! Cheers, Josh

[@gertboerman3666]

With your lack of experience in mind........you guys made the right decision. Personally, I never sail dead down wind, people call that wing-on-wing. Your vessel will roll like hell and a chinese jive can happen, despite a preventer. What I do: Broad reach. Boat at hullspeed. You do not have a course in a straight line to your destination. Then you douse the headsail, on main alone you go upwind, then tack, fall off and hoist your headsail on the new leeward side. And off you go again. Back on hullspeed. No stress on sails or rigging. I give it the name "downwind tacking". Dead downwind is not the fastest point of sail for the majority of boats. Oceanracers never do that. On my boat I tried wing-on-wing. She is a Waarschip 1010. And I noticed that I reached my destination using "downwind tacking" 20% quicker, and 100% more relaxed, than sailing wing-on-wing. Same starting point, same destination (from Enkhuizen to Makkum, Holland) and same wind direction/speed(SW/5). OK, different boats react differently. Your thoughts and maybe other sailors would like to comment on this comment.

[@Thenewkidsonthedock]

Hi Gert, thanks for your insights we always value comments that we can learn from. It’s information like this we will collate and put into a book/ manual we can use and share with other sailors seeking more knowledge in similar positions as ourselves. Information like this is so valuable as it’s tried and tested by real people like yourself. Can’t wait to implement it in our travels. Cheers mate, Josh

[@gertboerman3666]

@@Thenewkidsonthedock will keep following you guys. Great channel

[@michaelgonzalez8863]

Glad all went ok in the end ! And thank you for all the hidden gems scattered throughout the video.

[@edmundbarrett-lennard6640]

Hey guys thanks for such an honest video. Agreed PFDs should aways be worn on deck in open waters and especially short handed. Josh she is a keeper but so are you. So stay on board or be clipped on with a PFD. I see a lot of comments here about clipping pole to sheet then to mast, it is a good way but also requires the sheet to be eased to easy push the pole out enough to chip to the mast. Also be very careful clipping to the mast if the sail is moving and putting pressure on the pole. You could lose a finger if you get it caught. Another way is to gybe the headsail and put the lazy sheet in the pole then set pole to mast and set guys then gybe the heady back to the correct tack. You guys are doing so well and have learnt a tone. Keep it up!

[@ceschias3733]

Yes, she a gem of a woman, don't loose her. OsoYolo, Antigua Guatemala.

[@johncarr950]

The advise below is good but add control cords that open the beaks, suspend the pole with the topping lift, pick up the windward sheet then connect the other end to the mast. Also try reducing your wheel movements and anticipate all changes of direction but all hard helm inputs will need to be controlled before you over run the desired course. It all comes with practice and a set of safety lines with body harness should be worn in those conditions. If you go over the side at least you stay with the boat. Enjoy your sailing and treat every sailing day as another learning curve as the sea is very unforgiving. Best regards, J

[@Thenewkidsonthedock]

Hey John, thanks for the words of support and advice. We always value talking with people who have sailing experience as we treat it as an opportunity to learn. Many thanks, Josh

[@bryanbadger6841]

Quality episode guys. I was holding my breath for at least 5-6 minutes. Didn't even know I could do that. Hard to offer you any advice, from this side of the screen in that situation, but I would have thought you might have been able to get away with something like a storm jib. As Sir Francis Chichester used rounding Cape Horn, on Gypsy Moth 4. Mains can be tricky beasts to deal with. You could have done with an extra crew. Yep it's a "if only " or "hindsight" moment. Like you alluded to Phoebe, if he fell overboard, what then. Just a quick Q and A. Have you taken time out to practice a "man overboard " exercise. Ever. Fenders work great as the man. Never forget as newbies, don't stop asking questions. No half decent sailor will mind answering your questions to help you. In this scenario, there's no such thing as a stupid question. Thank you again for taking the time to upload yet another fantastic episode. Take care. Cheers.

[@rickdoner5181]

Glad you are both safe. Best advice I can give that applies to everything in life, that I taught every soldier when I was in the Army, as well as my kids. Ask yourself 5 questions: 1. Why did I make the decision I did? 2. What went wrong? 3. How could I have done it different? 4. What were the consequences? 5. What did I learn? Answer those 5 then move on from there. Again, glad you are safe.

[@beachartaustralia3708]

Awesome Guys

[@vincentfeldbrugge164]

Made me yawn at least 4 times😅, thanks for the video🤘

[@Thenewkidsonthedock]

we know exactly at what point you were yawning too 😂 I had to take a nap while editing this one because it made me so sleepy haha. Thanks for commenting! Phoebe

[@SamuelKTennis]

Practice, practice, practice. Do not feel guilty, do not cast blame, just look forward to next time, and what you might have learned living through it. You grabbed me with this episode or I would not be commenting so. Thank you!

[@bigpg45kalbo3]

Love you guys!

[@timjackson2799]

WOW just WOW guys , Y'all actually brought a tear to my eye , These videos are as real as they come with Y'all going through this , Cheers for this video an please just please be safe out there , take care .

[@dwight_klaus2981]

Really emotional experience .... I cried with Phoebe

[@peteracke2209]

Pull the pole further up the mast.clip in the sheet then lower the pole..go off course and have both sails to port..set the pole then gentle gybe the main..way safer ..and easier for the helmsman..no stress , no danger, no tears....look after each other n stay safe..I'm in Airlie Beach if you need a hand at all..run to the shops etc with a car let me know, be nice to meet you both..local skipper, been here for decades.

[@1425race]

Oh the ups and downs of offshore sailing but you two are tight as... and that's the main thing. You will enjoy the good sailing so much more because you've got through the bad ones. A couple of tips that may help - Josh, it's hard to pole out the jib with a full length spinnaker pole. A whisker pole is just that - a short "whisker". Phobe, the hardest helming job on a yacht is dead downwind in a seaway in a strong wind. It takes lots of practice to get it right you will get there. A good trick in 5-10 knots is to set the gear up to sail dead downwind, get it sailing nicely and close your eyes for about 30 seconds. Feel the wind on your face to know what angle it's coming from and your feet will tell you what the waves are doing to the boats angle to them (your bum if you're sitting down). Finally, Josh on safety, investigate jackstays from stem to stern down both sides so you can clip your lifejacket tether to them and work the deck safetly in a storm.

[@liabatista9594]

Tearing up watching this. Phoebe I started following you last year on instagram simply for your beauty and health tips and now I watch these videos as I get through my postpartum period at home with my little baby. You guys are so strong and so inspirational. I want my little girl to grow up as adventurous and brave as you both one day ❤ cheering you on from Georgia, USA!

[@Thenewkidsonthedock]

Oh my gosh, Lia! Thank you so much for that beautiful comment, it really touched my heart. Absolutely thrilled I can share our adventures with you while you're embarking on your own at home with the little one. So much love, Lia 💜 Thank you xx - Phoebe

[@davidmedley5970]

Keep sailing and stay safe. Learn and love!

[@deerfootnz]

Lots of mistakes here as you are clearly aware. Its very hard to steer - or do anything - downwind with the main sheeted in hard. Let it out as much as you can and put a preventer on it. A strong one. I use a dock line rigged from boom end to the bow and back to the cockpit. Then you can rig the headsail while wearing a harness. Keep the leaches tight on both headsail and main for less rolling. Look up a flopper stopper for rolly anchorages - you can make one out of plywood etc. and a swell bridle helps.

[@hawk8708]

You'll get there, just be safe so you get there together. PFDs are great, but a harness in that sitch would have been better. Y'all really need to practice your MOB drills in some nice mild conditions so Phoebe can pull your butt out of the drink. Cheers!

[@TammyBillings-qt1ve]

I have recently started watching and I am really enjoying your videos. Great job.

[@Thenewkidsonthedock]

Lovely to meet you, Tammy! Thank you for hanging out with us, we really appreciate it 🥰 - Phoebe

[@brittanyjordan7962]

New subscriber, don’t normally comment on videos but goodness, i cried along with you Phoebe! I was holding my breath also. I love your guys vibe, videos and find you inspiring, from a fellow 20something year old dreaming of a future on the ocean 🌊

[@Thenewkidsonthedock]

Welcome aboard Brittany, it’s a pleasure to connect with like minded crew like yourself who have great dreams and value similar experiences for their life. I hope the videos continue you evoke many emotions for you and can help you get closer to your dreams! Cheers, Josh

[@fireballs1000]

Big love

[@Thenewkidsonthedock]

Huge love mate

[@pabloblue999]

When you are sailing downwind try easing the main sheet..... a lot.

[@kc2584]

To Gullwing a Jib leave the jib on the same side as the main, while keeping the wind at 150 true Set up the pole on the windward side near the forestay, Put the lazy sheet into the pole. Go back to the cockpit and steer down to nearly 180 True while easing the working sheet and pulling on the lazy sheet and the jib should come trough onto the pole and then the pole should come back until the downhaul is tight. Also you need to ease your mainsail out a lot more. Spent out a 9 month honeymoon doing the same trip up the east coast on a Cat. Lots of luck and have fun:)

[@nevillesax5876]

This! Set up the pole first with your head sail on the lee side then you have the lazy sheet lose to clip through the beak before setting it up. Then gybe onto new course. I don't think it's really safe to clip the active sheet on then try and get the beak onto the mast ring with the wind in the sail flapping and filling forcing you into a dangerous foredeck dance trying to get that beak onto the ring with the power in the sail. Set it up first at your leisure then gybe across. Great emotional episode guys!

[@garyseven777]

OMG your presenter voice is hilarious 😂😂😂.

[@patraic5241]

Anytime you are underway wearing a pfd harness is a must. With a clip on lanyard when forward under sail. That's a rookie mistake some never live to profit from. Take it to heart.

[@Thenewkidsonthedock]

Absolutely! Next season will look quite different for us in the safety department. Cheers for the reminder!

[@gsail6600]

Hey guys thought you might get some value from watching episode 109 from Sailing yacht Florence. These guys really know their stuff. Hope this helps.👍🇦🇺

[@Thenewkidsonthedock]

Cheers for the recommendation G, we will check it out!

[@daveamies5031]

Normally you clip the pole to the sheet when it's still tight, then as you lift the other end to the mast let the sheet out, use the topping lift to hold the weight of the pole. Practice makes perfect guys, keep at it you'll get better 👍It's all a learning experience, stay safe and look after each other like you did in this episode 👍

[@aywwa]

As others have noted you often seem to sail downwind with the main radically oversheeted. Then you have to compensate the poor balance with the helm which is really hard work, uncomfortable and slow. The boom should have been out as far as it would go, the limitation being the length of the main sheet or the side stay. Leave the whisker pole for a couple of years.

[@LindsayHolloway-r8d]

Have you thought about letting the main out.

[@Thenewkidsonthedock]

Almost every day since we made this video! Always learning

[@hoythayden7840]

Phoebe, Make him wear his safety gear when he's out on the bow in the rough water. If he goes overboard he might have to float a while before you can get back to him. Have you guys read up on man overboard procedures?

[@garyseven777]

Did you guys consider a hammock when it is so rolled? Maybe rig it on deck and it would be cooler?

[@JK-gn6qr]

Some very interesting facts about that island, who knew?

[@RokyPalmor]

saying: everything that doesn't kill you makes you stronger.

[@Thenewkidsonthedock]

Word! Couldn’t have put it better ourselves

[@andalt1666]

Rollerfurling will save you a lot of trouble. Then you can rigg your wiskerpole while at anchor and unfurl the genoa when needed. Stay safe and enjoy paradise.

[@jessetrindade3515]

I’ve seen that @windhippiesailing uses a whisker pole and has a great setup for deploying even when solo. I don’t remember which episode that she explained it all. Maybe there are some good tips?

[@ismzaxxon]

I practiced this on the dock...i had no idea and just about broke fingers. A lady near me took pity and showed me how to do it.

[@aaronwalker3398]

You guys are totally rad it's fun to watch people learn an experience a badass lifestyle together me and my wife also sale we plan on doing a small version of what you're doing one of the things that we're working on is in the event that I fell off the boat she needs to know how to heave to or stop the boat or turn it around to reacquire me if you haven't at least talked about it you should come up with a plan cuz what you guys are doing just consider pretty dangerous to most to me it looks like paradise are channels called Santana 28 restoration and sailing pretty lame but we're trying and learning as well so I look forward to your future videos peace out

[@fionahartery5255]

As said sheet first. Life jacket, harnesses need to be worn. Preventers. You will learn. X

[@Thenewkidsonthedock]

Thanks Fiona! That’s the aim, we became complacent but always value a reminder ♥️

[@waynocook53]

Well ritten scrip🤙

[@Thenewkidsonthedock]

Cheers Wayno :)

[@stephenreardon2205]

I've got one word to say to you.."jacklines"

[@akLeanne]

Put some beetle tape on the screws. Its the best to use to stop a ling from a screw or bolt. A sailor should always have a roll of beatle tape. That's what we call it in America. I'm not sure what you call it. I need to send you kids a care package.

[@bilbywalkabout2969]

Make sure you have a safe place to go if that low pressure to the east turns into something serious

[@carolinemcdougall8708]

Of course Vernon could have been in the lagoon.

[@Mellosucc3ss]

One day you will laugh this off. Thanks for posting this. it is both impressive or naive that you are out there in winds beyond your skill level but sometimes thats what it takes...you just "do it" that said... you need a to review your "points of sail" in relation to the wind direction. you didnt need a pole as much as you needed your main out if you wanna run in 7 knot true. finally how do you plan on reaching a clue thats over board!!! i am sure you know by now... it should be downhaul, the topping lift then clue, Ioved the video and that you are safe!!!

[@Thenewkidsonthedock]

Well said my friend! When you have the choice between two crappy options all you can do is choose, commit and do your best. Ideally next time it will at least be after a good sleep! I sheeted the main in when we were dealing with the headsail to minimise any further risks aboard. I usually travel the main sheet car across to reduce potential of accidental gybe, and then if releasing the main sheet further we will run a preventer. As for the clue overboard… your guess is as good as mine. Silly tired brain Josh. Cheers mate

[@bubbleobill267]

First things first….. When stuff turns pear shaped stop trying to film it. You need to concentrate 100% on the task at hand. Lets be brutally honest here you’re new to this game and you’ve got a massive learning curve in front of you. The ocean gets way, way gnarlier than what you’ve seen to date so far. Treat the ocean with the utmost of respect at all times, she does not care for who you are and she takes who she wants when she wants. Get a furling headsail, some jack-lines, harnesses, wear life jackets with Epirbs on em ALL THE TIME and clip in whenever you’re outside your cabin in bad conditions. This means the cockpit when you’re helming too. Throw a basketball overboard and see if you can recover it before it disappears, its harder than you think. Practice man overboard drills and get everyone comfortable with all aspects of running the boat solo. If you do lose someone over the side the other person on the boat has to know what they’re doing in order to rescue your loved ones. Sounds scary?, it should. You’re in one of the harshest environments known to man and you have to be on your A game at all times. You’re learning everyday, which is awesome!. Keep your chins up and most importantly be safe.

[@TravelonlineWalk]

Nice

[@FTS-FamilytoSea]

Definitely not as easy as some make it, we have 1 motor broken so can't dock easy to get fuel especially in the wind, water is a pain aswell but I wouldn't change living on a boat and travelling ❤

[@Thenewkidsonthedock]

We feel the same! Lot's of challenges but wouldn't choose anything else for the world 💜 - Phoebe

[@Bill-bv9ld]

Remember a calm girl makes for calm seas!!!! She needs to be learning how to sail to the point if you disappear she can solo sail no problem and at that point she will find comfort in the ocean and not in a human…

[@garyseven777]

You need to get more confident with wing on wing with a prevented main - you don’t always need pole, just set the job opposite the main and let the wind fill it. I’m sure you are figuring this out and you should be proud of your efforts. Also giving directions in 5 degrees port or starboard is clear and she needs to be confident what that looks like. You guys are doing great, but keep the life jackets on and learn how to stop the boat by yourself and practice Man Over Board drills - maybe with a Buddy boat.

[@sailorruss5279]

North East Island is next to Middle Percy and is good in a SE. Scawfell is good, just a way off.

[@Thenewkidsonthedock]

Cheers Russ we will give it a visit next time! Refuge is a bloody good one in SE

[@adambooth600]

Ooorrr😢 sailing = 40%awesomeness 60% hard work what do you new kids think? Like the other day 4 hours perfect sail great location furl in the headsail hit ignition fuel blockage 6 hours problem sorted😂

[@Sue29966]

Let the main out

[@Thenewkidsonthedock]

Hey mate, we run it sheeted in whilst doing head sail changes to minimise risks aboard. We only let the main out once preventer is set up. Otherwise we might travel it along to catch more air. Cheers, Josh

[@johnjunior6101]

It might be wise to get a set of headphones so you do not have to yell at Phoebe so much. It might help reduce her stress levels at times like this.

[@garyseven777]

Your main sail did not look properly trimmed it is too deep. Also ENE. You double reefed and 5 knots that seemed like a pretty nice boat condition and I might not have messed with it. It looked easy on the boat. 5 knot average for your size of boat is good.

[@desertchild3550]

First of all,safety gear for all, never ever do this without being harnessed in. Then sheet to pole first,then pole to mast. Slack the main and make sure the preventor is there, best to practice and practice. With that, practice man overboard. Even with practicing, Ive seen people at the helm totally loose it and if it was real, Life would have been lost. Super cool video but lots of wake up calls.

[@jenellebrunning8128]

Everyone knows how to do it all eh? Let's be real.. on a passage in REAL life and conditions with just 2 of you on the ocean and with all the elements to contend with ... come on!! My partner and i scrambled, argued, screamed, cried, sulked, ignored, fought, floundered, panicked and ultimately winged it the whole fkn way up to hinchinbrook and back to the GC. So ya can all stop swingin' your big egos. Did any of you all actually leave the dock-marina?? If so ..its fkn scary out there and i take my hat off to these guys and any and all who have actually 'sailed' out in the 'ocean' .. not just off the riversides.

[@vics002]

Good to see you’re giving it a go but PLEASE get some proper sailing lessons! It will only make you better sailors.

[@SamuelKTennis]

Go back over that sequence, the "I don't want to jibe" scene. play it word for word and see if you can invent/derive some key words to better, and more calmly, describe your desire for her actions - reduce the communications to directives, not ? emotional stuff ? You both did well but my uneducated, ready to be ignored, knee jerk reaction without being there - was that your were both speaking different languages and did not realize it - my GUT FEELING is to boil it down to simple one or two word commands/requests. My father "Stand by for a 90 degree port turn", "Execute". More than a few words but the words were unfailing. IGNORE ME if it does not help.

[@daveamies5031]

Sorry, I prefer "normal" Phoebe vice better than presenter Phoebe, bring back true blue Phoebe 👍

[@nutsandbolts432]

Why are yawns contagious?

[@jacksonjacko8301]

wtfs wrong with these 2 people

[@VictotWilliams]

Get rid of the drama queen.

[@bencampbell2407]

Sheet line is always connected first, getting a bit over your welcome to country bullshit! Soon you won't be able to travel in certain areas or cruise without hefty fee's