Brotha Walks Out On Date After Telling Her He Was Going To The Restroom

[@JM-ev8wt]

I applaud this young man. Sometimes it’s best to walk away without having to argue or deal with any bullshit. She knows exactly why he walked away.

[@keepmoving2023-ku7nb]

Exactly I'm 42 years old don't like dating times have been changing for years I rather be by myself these women are for the streets

[@troy2832]

@@keepmoving2023-ku7nb same here. 43

[@jamesrivers8182]

@@keepmoving2023-ku7nb he probably was disappointed by her looks.. probably only seen her in photos and different hairstyles before.

[@JohnWilkes-mg8di]

It was probably the lip liner that was the problem. It looks like she's been eating Oreos and there's not an Oreo in sight.

[@Panafrocanam2]

Modern Western women are slowly gonna be in for hard dose reality. With economy going to take another dip along with global affairs it's looking grim

[@TheWorldPart6]

It's OK to ghost these women. These women are crazy. They will fight you if you tell them you're leaving. These women will try to publicly humiliate you. Waste of time arguing with these women.

[@keepmoving2023-ku7nb]

Exactly leave and don't look back American women especially black women are done no hope for them

[@malcolmthompson7769]

She knows why he left, she is playing dumb.

[@DrineThePoet]

I agree

[@themusicman2005]

Yup

[@kadewells214]

💯

[@MisterE1976]

I agree wholeheartedly!

[@jaycee2408]

Not playing….. really dumb!

[@TClint850]

He's getting blocked tonight 😅😅😅 she still don't get it

[@miguelstigler9170]

MANE 💯 💯 💯 😂😂😂😂

[@theoriginal668]

Damn these younger dudes aren't playing around 🤣

[@slinkiegirl2001]

i am happy for them as a woman

[@calebhenderson6507]

With these women being like they are can you blame them?

[@robsawyer8034]

Maybe the older simps will catch on.

[@minervainri2]

Rightfully so

[@calebhenderson6507]

@minervainri2 exactly. Gen x still on that that whole being a step-dad kick.

[@demetriusevans4139]

Stop taking them on dates period. Pookie doesn't have to do it

[@absalom0412]

💯

[@verbalasswhooping]

🎯

[@slinkiegirl2001]

as a woman i agree

[@tribeofjudah9330]

😲👊🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@worldwidedonabillion2878]

Men from other races have it way easier than street dudes with black women.A lot of black women throw themselves at men from other races.

[@Sc-du4sl]

Problem is, you can tell someone why you’re leaving and they will just pull out their phone and try to embarrass you in front of everyone in that restaurant and social media. Not all but this problem is wide spread to the point people are okay doing it more often especially men.

[@calebhenderson6507]

Yep, this is why I always meet up at the spot instead of picking them. It's more so for the man safety at this point. Because if you yell her, you're taking her home, and the date is over, she can wild out, and you could be at fault in the eyes of the law.

[@robsawyer8034]

Many of these chicks are attached to their phone. The guy is just there for human entertainment and fun. All it is doing is making BW loow more undesirable for anything outside of occasional fun.

[@keepmoving2023-ku7nb]

American women especially black women just don't get it I don't blame him

[@wesleyhillard4491]

Yup yup

[@dwain20111]

🎯💯🎯🎯

[@tribeofjudah9330]

*She must of had that damn phone out, OHH WELL! Better luck next time lady* 🤦🏿‍♂️

[@miguelstigler9170]

Correct 💯 💯 💯

[@angelozue7925]

Facts!

[@moniquehamblin4381]

He Did The Right Thing Because She’s Young, If He Told Her The True Reason, She Would Of Acted Out… Tonight, He Avoided An Argument & Being Arrested… Well Done Sir…

[@djairalert422]

Any chick that will go live to explain that she got ghosted me probably deserves to get ghosted.

[@keepmoving2023-ku7nb]

Exactly 💯 American women especially black women are done no hope for them

[@kadewells214]

Exactly

[@dpanman]

The question is WHY!!!

[@calebhenderson6507]

Exactly. You can explain xyz to these modern women and they argue with you. Like Phil said... walk with your feet

[@JayWerx]

She was probably on her phone the whole time and he dipped as he should.

[@tmavibes]

Phillip this isn’t 1400’s they don’t want to hear why you don’t want to talk to them. They’ll argue with you, so block them no communication. This isn’t the old school days

[@BlackDiasporaFamily]

The 1400s really lmfao 😂

[@SagittariusQueen1980]

Glad I met my husband in the 1990s, before social media and dating apps were a thing.

[@trombonefellow]

I was born in 90, I'd say 2012 was around the time social media, dating apps, etc started. I wish I dated in middle/high school to at least have an idea of what its like. Ghosting and rosters are all I know, why learn relationship skills when you can just go elsewhere?

[@brentGA]

Two sides to every story, I would like to hear from his perspective. Women are encouraged and love to attack a good blk man's character and belittle him for the sake of the sisterhood.

[@robsawyer8034]

This is probably a skit. Seems like lots of that is going on. Also, a man's side of the story is walking away and not being bothered.

[@NateTheGr8ness]

Ladies, you have one of two choices when a man takes you out on a date. You can either A) Act right OR B) Get left The choice is yours. The End.

[@dopyojj4974]

We Out ✈️✈️✈️✈️✈️✈️💪🏾👍🏾

[@miguelstigler9170]

RIGHT 💯✅️

[@keepmoving2023-ku7nb]

Exactly let the streets have them

[@keysersoze4309]

Tom Leykis has been telling his students to do this since early 2000. I know this for a fact because 'I' was the one who called his show and told him I did it! Dudes, if she disrespects you for ANY reason during the date, just politely excuse yourself and tell her you're going to the restroom. Go to the restroom for a about a minute, then maneuver your way to the manager/register without being seen, pay for YOUR MEAL ONLY, and leave!

[@theoriginal668]

Ha ha I remember that dude. He was one of the OG Red pill dudes.

[@troy2832]

Or just leave

[@Agentunderfire]

Lol I just dip as soon as I recognize any red flags 🚩 🏃🏽‍♂️💨

[@BostonGhost617]

Holy hell. I thought I was the only one that knew about him. I listened to him when I was a lot younger in the Seattle area still use his advice till this day

[@calebhenderson6507]

Exactly, you can tell these women what they are doing wrong nowadays, and they will just argue you are down about it. Just walk away from them. If they don't know this stuff by now, then wtf.

[@BlackAnarchist1992]

This is just another consequence of the breakdown of both social bonds and social trust.

[@laurenreed4290]

Facts 💯

[@jonsmith848]

Nothing new...

[@JRPGGUY]

If you the type to take out your phone to record something for your 11 followers I think you deserve it

[@asher6657]

dont forget Mom... oh... she was number 11

[@seangarvey3875]

I disagree with you. If I get disrespected for any reason, I’m getting up and I’m walking away. I don’t have time for that bullshit.

[@yapadyahbanyahawada3011]

Did she really consider blocking him a retaliation or counter? Lol

[@miguelstigler9170]

MANE 💯 💯 💯 😂😂😂😂

[@kisswriters]

She doesn’t realize women don’t have nearly as much leverage as they think…

[@tribeofjudah9330]

😆😆😆

[@nonyabiz12]

He probably saw this video and was like "Thank God"..😂

[@Nightrain349]

😂What happened to being the prize ladies.

[@paulbunyan9436]

The funky weave. The ratchet attitude. Young fella did good. Now go get your passport. ✈

[@samuelmahmud1909]

Great video coverage Phillip 💯 he getting blocked 🚫 No he blocked you by walking out

[@leecosey7003]

Women been playing games like this since day one. Now these guys are here playing the same games you be playing. Now you know how I feel. I will never feel sorry for no woman. And before you ladies come pulling that somebody must have hurt you out your ass. The only thing that can hurt me is when my team don't go to the Super Bowl

[@alinkuri4429]

Honey, he BLOCKED you !!

[@grapeshot]

And they call him the streak the fastest thing on two feet😂🏃🏿

[@troy2832]

Lol

[@miguelstigler9170]

YEP 💯 💯 💯 😂😂😂😂

[@IZRElLO747]

🤣🤣🤣

[@grapeshot]

@@tommygunn2782 Mr Peabody would be proud

[@peaceispriceless6051]

🤔 May have been the clown make up. Some of these chicks REALLY need to ease up on that. Sheesh 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@AbdulaliMuhammad-bs7jt]

One thing about David Chappelle he's free because he told the truth 🎉

[@slinkiegirl2001]

good as a woman more men should behave like him, i knew 304's who after getting a free meal from a man the man was ghosted, today's men are not f--- around

[@TheOneTheyCallD.]

She's strong & independent, so she can handle the check. City Boys up!

[@bluewave3417]

I agree with Phil. Let her know something. Just dipping out and not saying anything is a sucka move.

[@cliffd8380]

He did most likely and was busy on her phone. You're only hearing her while she conveniently happens to be livestreaming. Stop it. We are done with the simping and SIGN language stuff.

[@lordbison]

If A Man Takes A Female On A Date & She Is Being Rude & Entitled, She Does Not Deserve To Know Why The Dude Split! Telling Her Why You Are Leaving Will Not Influence Her To Change; Because She Will Do It To The Next Dude, & The Next! 😂

[@cliffd8380]

He most likely did and she still was posting on her phone.

[@dubwhite852]

Why should a guy have to listen to her explanation of how she was doing him a favor? Leave. Block. I’m sure she has done similar….

[@minervainri2]

Pretty soon the women are gonna start going to the restrooms with these dudes.😂😂😂. Like you gotta go to use the bathroom, ok im coming to!!

[@samanthabrahambrown6369]

🤣😂🤣😂 I thought of this too. How Pathetic.

[@jjmcg9184]

Im about to be on this too. Sometimes you gotta ask urself "did she require pookie to take her on a date before he smashed"?

[@thegamingchef3304]

I agree. I've never ghosted anyone. There were girls I dated that I knew I didn't want & still didn't ghost them. But my thing is when I tell you I am not interested accept that. Don't be trying to still communicate with me. That's when I get mad and rude.

[@ghostwalker89]

Im sorry but i cant stop smiling. 😂 This is just too funny to me. You can tell she isn't telling the whole story.

[@QuentinAD]

Im surprise she got a date with that face 😂😂😂😂😂

[@MackeyDeez]

She probably was on her phone talking to her home girl and dude got tired of it and decided to bounce.

[@angelozue7925]

That’s exactly what happened

[@mimicotom]

I walked out on a restaurant date after 12 minutes with her. Paid for my drink only and told her to have a good life. Best feeling ever!

[@RaYdAwG005]

I bet she has no idea why he left, neither. Or...he probably told her. She just conveniently left that part out of the video.

[@Tsheed1]

One of the things that would turn me off if I was on the date is if a woman is on her phone constantly. By either talking on it or just playing around on it. Or if she tries to run up the bill without asking me if it's OK she orders this or that. When it comes to the phone, I got the one minute rule. If your phone rings u exactly one min to wrap up the call. Unless it's a real emergency situation. If not and it's past a min I be ready to dip on her myself. And leave too foot her own bill. And I'll tell her since yapping to your friends was more important than me then tell them to come and pay for your meal. We as men nowadays gotta send a message that disrespect will not be tolerated. Especially if we treat them very well. Y'all ladies need to get some act right or get ghosted. It's a shame that it comes to that now. 🎯💯

[@calebhenderson6507]

Preach! And they know this. This is why I meet up at the spot instead of picking them up from their houses. What phil don't realize is when you confront these women on their behavior, they don't like it and that can cause trouble for you if she wilds out... especially if you brought her there with you and have to take her back home you dont know what she can do to you. She can even record you on her phone or get confrontationalwoth you and it your fault.... black men are finally waking they black asses up.

[@angelozue7925]

U so spot on, she must have been on her phone the whole time while he was trying to have a conversation with her and he felt like he wasn’t having the undivided attention he needed.

[@adamblack6867]

If a woman is even touching her phone on a date she’s not interested in anything except a free meal .

[@brotherkevinnelson9555]

Without hearing his side of the story , how can you say weather what he did was justified or not?

[@AaronOlafson]

People been doing this for decades. Nothing new or trending.

[@EJKBoxingandFitness]

Leave her ass sitting right there. There's no need to explain why you left her ass sitting there & blocking them, especially if you just met them.

[@jaymorgan.]

I’m blunt and to the point . I would have told her the facts without being rude for why I’m ending the date and just LEAVE her there looking silly.

[@rmack3481]

Great Video R

[@imaketherules9316]

"Phil, I'm rollin' wit' you 100% on this. Perhaps it's that 9/23 Libra in me...but I never have and never could do that, not my style. But what I would of done; is observe and see if the issue goes away naturally...and then politely end the date face-to-face, if nothing improves. And you guessed it Phil, once she leaves...I'm texting another baddie to meet me at that same spot, and continue the night."😎😊🤷🏽‍♂

[@cyncerevideos5111]

F your birthday. 😂

[@imaketherules9316]

@@cyncerevideos5111 --->Nice🤦🏾‍♂

[@RaYdAwG005]

I guess the date is over

[@33690]

Good 👍 Job Dude

[@eq2092]

Awesomeness 😂

[@blackenpowerment0140]

They know why you left. They play too f'n much.🤨

[@imoan4nyc312]

Disillusioned and clueless. What’s the point of blocking him if he left you!!!!! Dahhhhh🙄🙄

[@SM-tf4vs]

She said hes getting blocked tonight ,in a attempt to even out her L, Nah my girl hold that L cuz he blocked you in real life 😂

[@datswhatiwastrynatellyall7062]

I do not take women on dates It’s unnecessary Those days are over Its a literal swamp out here on the dating scene,Let them go on dates with each other

[@dariusewing6962]

I took this beautiful black woman on the date but she showed up with a friend and I Paid for her and her girl friend... she called me but I never returned her calls! Sometimes ppl ain’t playing lol 😂

[@devrayne6770]

Lol Why did you pay for the both of them when it's not a date?

[@themusicman2005]

Bro you took an L, this is not a flex!

[@Bootyeater999]

@@themusicman2005right 🤣. Paid and got no cheeks.

[@themusicman2005]

@@Bootyeater999 paid for BOTH of them though!

[@nofilter451]

Goofy paid for two 😂

[@p9a9r21]

In order to fairly express an opinion on another's behavior one should have a comprehensive understanding of the circumstances leading up to the situation. Without an objective understanding of what preceded the brother's exit I would be very reticent to judge the appropriateness of his actions.

[@nicholasnorman4179]

I love it

[@neilphillips7608]

When a Man leaves,..it’s a damn strong reason

[@RTA6226]

Damn! I agree Uncle Phil. That was a coward's way out.

[@IZRElLO747]

"Rumor has it, that he didn't dip out on her, but he was abducted by aliens near the men's room."😂

[@DrineThePoet]

Wow, I wonder why he left so abruptly? Need more context. Either way ghosting sucks.

[@harveyhankerson8359]

ONG… it’s a small world. She’s my next door neighbors daughter. And believe me… everything about her. !!

[@TheBattleblaster]

I did that b4

[@calebhenderson6507]

Me too. When she kept cussing out the waiter, I dipped. Some things don't need to be explained.

[@Agentunderfire]

Same! When she deceived me with her looks, I told her I’m going to the bathroom, I’ll be right back” and straight dipped 🤣 she ended up blocking me later on that night, oh well 🤷🏽

[@samanthabrahambrown6369]

Why she embarrassing herself internationally? 🤔

[@nicholasnorman4179]

Men playing that game to but now smarter u all about get in the bag they will leave u smoothly

[@solomonhunter9649]

I remember when I was single this girl was mad I was talking to other women when we just met and she unfriend me on fb and stop talking to me like yo are you serious I tried calling her and texting her no answer I’m just like bruh ghosting is so annoying

[@adny02]

He getting blocked??? She don't seem to realize him leaving from the date is HIM BLOCKING HER?!

[@olieantonetti7393]

Its a way of her coping with the fact that he controlled the situation by leaving, and she saying she's going to "block" him is her way of attempting to take back control of the situation.

[@ablaqdadsperspective4869]

🤔…This is probably another skit like the oyster chic. Pause the video of when she shows the food, there’s only one set of silverware and one drink with an empty bowl off to the side. Let’s be real, if dude got up to leave, she would be questioning him as to where he was going since she makes it seems he didn’t announce he was leaving and she would start making a scene right away if she felt dude was gonna dip on her. This all cap. Man they do anything for clout 🤦🏾‍♂️ And the sad part it’s just another attempt to put men in a bad light. But what ever the case, this makes her look bad if a dude dips on you in the middle of a meal, like what negative aura was she putting out there to make him wanna skate.

[@charlesirby1643]

She’s lying there wasn’t a male on the date. It is pretty obvious black women will say or do anything for attention and clout. The oyster girl didn’t have a man on the date either. Lying comes naturally to black women

[@maroon9273]

Social media exposing is another form of snitching.

[@LisaS483]

He probably couldn’t afford to pay the bill.

[@DanielWatson-vv7cd]

To be fair, balanced, and mostly righteous --- We don't really know why the guy left the restaurant in the middle of the date. Therefore we must be slow to come to an conclusion. -- Did she say something to upset him? -- Is he a "cheapskate" who just wanted to eat expensive food and --f-- "stick" her with the bill? -- Or, is this just a skit, for a psyops experiment? One thing for sure is there's not enough info on what really happened.

[@adny02]

Why didn't she tell us what he said before walking away? Maybe he explained himself? Maybe she said something that crossed the line, and he said something about it? She just paused instead of telling us what he said. And for her to say "He getting blocked tonight" after HE left? That tells me she's got an ego to save by saying that. So her ego must have been cranked during their conversation. I can't tell what's going on with the lipstick, but what's with her hair? I'll give her some credit though...At least she don't have long nails that can scratch the front door from where she's sitting.

[@aaronstandfield9175]

He pulled a Rick Ross move.....damn

[@harveyhankerson8359]

I did the same DAM thing last week… !! We were about to have dinner.) !! I couldn’t get a word in.. everything was about her. I got 2 words in.. she’s just took OVER the whole conversation. !! And when I got up to leave… she was still talking.. !! I turn back around. And she was still yapping !!. I hop in my car and drove OFF !!!

[@aaronstandfield9175]

@@harveyhankerson8359 lol 🤣 it be like that sometimes

[@roymoxley2587]

Don’t just walk out tell them sorry this is not going to be for me Goodbye

[@ikemo3551]

We need to get the full context of the entire situation. Maybe she did something wrong to seriously aggravate or upset the guy so much, which compelled him to walk off. However, If she did nothing bad that would justify walking off and ditching her, then he is rude and disrespectful for just abandoning her like that in public. We really don't know who was in the wrong here for sure.

[@robsawyer8034]

Or maybe a skit to go viral. Either way, these posts are telling the world a story about these types of BW.

[@RaYdAwG005]

Put it this way... if everything was going great, there's no way he's ditching her. Guys don't ditch a female just for the heck of it.

[@madkingme7507]

The reason why you don't get it is because you like myself were born in a different time but these young people today it's all about I'll get you before you get me

[@Diana734]

Pay for your food and let staff know he skipped on the bill.😐

[@user-ex2yt1pl6u]

Funny how she did not say anything about what could have caused the guy to leave.

[@lerhondajones-bates3324]

She said the date was going WELL…. sooooo, 🤷🏾‍♀️🤔

[@frozentundra7446]

I don’t care about stories like this - period!

[@mgtowgriffin9782]

CITY BOYZZZZZZZZZ !!!!! Got to love it!!!😂😂😂😂😂

[@tyronetaylor7165]

Very educational commentary

[@ronsworld250]

Maybe she had halitosis😷

[@i.03983]

depends did she run up a bill? lol

[@martin79934]

no excuse for that behavior if you knew you didn't want to pursue anything than show respect enough to tell them. communication. if you're worried that you're gonna be embarrassed by a phone or whatever the reason then the question fails to have properly vetted the person who they took out on the date.

[@mr.evil616]

I’m going to reserve making an opinion until the man’s side is heard because we don’t know what lead up to him leaving. Also, in these modern times it’s sometimes best to just get up and exit without saying anything because these modern women love to cause chaos, get loud and put on a show. Just look at how she is recording what happened for views. So if anything he was smart to leave when he had a chance without being recorded and the girl trying to put on a show for all the world to see.

[@shanwhite5620]

The question is not why he did the question is what did she do to make him do that? Because what she thought was no idea disrespectful. He may have thought it was being disrespect.

[@arthurwilliams7307]

Remember, we only getting her side of the story...

[@realiztik6670]

Y tell her? To teach her for the next guy?🤷🏿‍♂️

[@shanwhite5620]

But then again she probably thought she was all that and a bag of chips.😮😅😮😅😮😅😮😅😅😂😂

[@jasonsmith1288]

Why does everyone have to put they business out there for everyone to see

[@dartsiwinellis1976]

Nowadays, if you don't like a situation, just leave. If you stick around to explain or argue the point, you could wind up being visual content for the person. 🙄

[@ginadoll00901]

Didn't see any extra dishes. Looks like she made it up. But if she did maybe he didn't like how she was looking like a old fashioned librarian & not much effort in the date. Just coming out in lounging gear.

[@crystalriley9671]

Something tells me she may have said or did something to trigger that behavior.

[@kdub2229]

Here we go again. Did she eat up 5 plates of oysters ?😃😃 Anyway this one might be true , because there is another plate of food next to her whereas oyster girl might still be full of it ,and I'm not talkin 'bout oysters.

[@shyguylaurent3647]

Yeap😒we aint playing games with this keisa's anymore, we are new breed.

[@dewaynestarr5333]

I need to hear his side

[@hadiitiniguez2393]

Ghosting makes a statement. I don't like it, but on occasions it's necessary

[@lindaavant4665]

What do you expect..?? No, father figure.. Nobody to teach him to be a man.. Lack of communication between BM and BW has gone down the drain.....