Brotha Couldn't Believe A Modern Woman Would Get Upset After Asking What She Brings To The Table

[@victoriagreen3047]

I think its rude and disrespectful to ask someone you just met, what do you bring to the table 🤔 😒 😕 🙄 🙃 😐

[@joemomma3208]

She was mad cause she had nothing to bring to the table & felt as if she was being called out!

[@georgeboehringer5530]

A good looking woman all she needs to do is be a female men are supposed to provide

[@thebatmanwholaughs8332]

@@georgeboehringer5530 Be a female? Bruh… you sound like a simp.

[@queen2539]

Any woman born female really can say the most important thing that she brings to the table is her womb. That is the avenue in which he can birth his legacy into existence.

[@dd5090]

@@queen2539 Not every man wants kids. Next..

[@queen2539]

@@dd5090 not every woman wants kids. There are 8 billion people in the world 🌎. So majority rules. No one would be here if it wasn't for a woman's womb. That's A LOT that a woman and only a woman can bring to the 🤬 table. NEXT!.

[@brandonf.8360]

She thought it was going to be a petty argument instead of an adult conversation.

[@ernicemcmillian1453]

I'm a woman and you are right she didn't know how to converse with a man with a real conversation she was use to getting her way the tables has turned you have to have more then looks now and days she don't know how to have a intelligent convo 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@troywest1724]

ABW love petty conversations. It gets them excited.

[@brandonf.8360]

@@troywest1724 excited to ruin your life

[@alphahrd19]

Woman feel like they can " Question and qualify" us men...but when we do the same to them they get upset with the same line of questioning.

[@Otaku_Love-c3r]

Because those women have nothing to offer.

[@georgeboehringer5530]

Men are supposed to provide for women not the other way around Blackie

[@slickwilly6868]

@@georgeboehringer5530 shut your dumb simp ass up trying to butter these hoes up to get some pussy. Real men know their job and this chick was pissed off that she knew she is a nothing ass broad.

[@mateaukalua4426]

@@georgeboehringer5530 yes but women are supposed to provide something positive. Simp

[@dd5090]

@@georgeboehringer5530 Men are supposed to provide for themselves, & their kids. We’re not living in the 50’s anymore whitie..

[@kdooley41]

What's sad is that she couldn't answer the question

[@DucktheMe]

Most women don't like to answer that question

[@georgeboehringer5530]

I am a normal white man and I love to lick live rats

[@kdooley41]

@@DucktheMe you don't know most women so why would you say that

[@blackticalmayhem8461]

@@DucktheMe FACTS. They should at least know how to cook a decent meal smh

[@braidsforyou8897]

That’s not even a real question. I hate the internet ish.

[@riofacts8283]

If asking me what I would bring to the table ever came up. I would simply say STABILITY! End of discussion.

[@Dragonmuslimah73]

When she said she had her body done...run dont walk

[@georgeboehringer5530]

Pretty girl should not have to suffer work

[@michaelharris6662]

If she gets mad about you literally asking how it would benefit you to be with her, there is no benefit of you being with her.

[@johnnyrome1181]

🤔😲 ME TO Like What Really

[@ursomajor4038]

Exactly.

[@closeredge5198]

Stop using so much logic 🤨😆😆

[@brandonf.8360]

That's all one needs to know.

[@dd5090]

Right. It’s amazing how women get offended when they’re asked if they have to offer more than just p****, & a pretty face smh..

[@alphahrd19]

Good looks will NOT carry the day anymore!!

[@nikkiahanks7565]

If I were him I would expand my options instead of putting up with these modern American women.

[@laurenreed4290]

Some of them acting like gracing you with their presence is enough. They never grew being loved before.

[@georgeboehringer5530]

In white society men are supposed to provide for female

[@JamesDeanStudiesLanguage]

You don't need to ask that question to a good woman. She will show you from the start.

[@tankcoatpink]

We still doing this going to 2023, omg female go answer his question. 😂

[@S1lverspike]

Any woman who cannot answer this is not worth a man’s time. It’s basic.

[@sbolden123]

She dished out but couldn't take it 😂🚫🤷‍♂️

[@annoyedcitizen8652]

She's out here looking for an in-house trick that she might not even be faithful to.

[@DarthEseer]

Her: What do you bring to the table? Me: I'm leaving this table. Goodnight!

[@dialac1]

He met her on a dating app 😂😂😂 that’s where he messed up

[@caroloses8968]

I'm so sorry he had to go thru that. Trust me it's not only men going thru this. Uncle Phil is 💯 right about telling someone to much information because it's often been my mistake, thinking honesty is best but it just backfires...... Specially when dealing with certain type of men......

[@Lovexreed]

It’s okay . I accept it for what it is 🥱

[@TheGr8-1]

It doesn’t go both ways though. Attraction isn’t symmetrical. Men hold the keys to relationships. Women choose who they share their body with. When young her body holds more power. But youth is fleeting. Women need something to offer beyond their body. And modern women are severely lacking in this regard. This is why she was offended by her own question towards herself.

[@blackticalmayhem8461]

@@TheGr8-1 facts, 👍🔥🔥🔥. She felt some type of way because she knew she basically didn't offer anything besides the obvious lol

[@AaronNickols88]

A Lamborghini ain't special if everyone have one .

[@davidfinnell6301]

Memo to this brother. Why would talk to her at all

[@sphere3861]

He has good points. But always ask what is she bringing to your table. Most of these modern women brings leftovers and kids, and a lot think they don't have to bring anything but theirselves along with kids. No job, no understanding, a lot of mouth and their baby daddies BS . Yes always ask what do you bring to my table?

[@i-yell-a-lot4906]

I LOVE WHEN A WOMAN TELLS ME ALL SHE BRINGS TO THE TABLE IS LOOKS AND HOT CAT BECAUSE I ALWAYS TELL THEM "THEN THAT MEANS I SHOULD DUMP YOU FOR ANOTHER WOMAN ONCE YOUR LOOKS FADES AND THAT CAT GETS COLD." ............... THE LOOKS ON THEIR FACES BE PRICELESS.

[@shaundaonuoha3944]

Very much true Phillip what you are saying

[@nathanielwoods664]

Some women be asking the wrong questions when it comes to dating

[@haquanwright7559]

Fellas, remember Samson & Delilah.. Samson was the strongest man and the only thing that took him down was him telling his weakness which she used against him. Same way they'll ask you questions to be the woman you told them you wanted in order to use you. This chess, not checkers

[@saonedixon5476]

There looks is all they have to bring to the table. We are living in a very superficial world today bruh

[@georgeboehringer5530]

High female value

[@rashelwilliams3619]

Spiritual warfare. Enslavement vs empowerment

[@purpledrank221]

This modern woman thought process is so pervasive. A friend mine is telling me a about chick he is dating. I say "that's cool what you like about her" umm well check out these pics of her on Instagram... I said yeah but what do you like about HER. ya know like as a person. intangibles, values, beliefs? .... crickets...

[@cl8wnm5n]

Yep

[@TARGETLOCKED00]

she's just another useless 304 🤣🤣🤣

[@MyNameIsUnavailable]

I bring a chair and a plate and a fork to the table. And a tablecloth 🤣

[@pickmeisha]

That stuff should already be there when you sit down if she is the right type of woman lol. A man simply needs to show up hungry.

[@XFedgal]

Perhaps a better question for a women or man to ask is: “What value do you think we can add to each others lives?”

[@candyxox]

I like that

[@RTA6226]

Oh my God! OMG😬 These people, male and female are nutz!!

[@yosefisrael5149]

Proverbs 11:13 A talebearer revealeth secrets: but he that is of a faithful spirit concealeth the matter.

[@cocobean1714]

I've been asked this question many times. Along with why are single. We are just meeting and getting to know each other.

[@blkjustice3250]

I bring the UNIVERSE is the perfect response.💯

[@0010-q8h]

"And I'm from Missouri, SHOW ME!" would be the perfect reply to that response.

[@ericjohnson9356]

he did right ''' just go meet somebody else ' that all'''

[@baruchdta]

I bring brain's to the table.

[@georgeboehringer5530]

Attractive female does not require brain

[@johnnyrome1181]

ME TOO Like What 😲🤔💔

[@jr2no160]

What good is a nice looking car/SUV if it's mechanically a lemon and always in the shop in need of constant repairs? 🤨 Some of you will get it and many won't.

[@nikkiahanks7565]

You have to spend some time with that person to get to know that person.

[@MyNameIsUnavailable]

I have my own home, 2 late model vehicles, virtually zero debt, and I BRING NOTHING to the table if im asked. I. BRING. ABSOLUTELY. NOTHING.

[@Abdulalimuhammad]

Heatwave the song look after love, 💥

[@shaynanichelle8621]

If you’re just going off looks like this girl, then you clearly have nothing else going for you. How do you get mad when you asked the same thing? You can be attractive and be a crap person to be with so what is she on? He’s not lying it is hard out here in the dating world.

[@georgeboehringer5530]

That is all female are required to be

[@orealz]

What do you bring to the table? Me: Mac & Cheese

[@pontiac00]

Its bad to the maximum when you have other blackwomen saying what blackmen are saying,

[@The313dash]

I usually say nothing your interested in benefits not me!

[@9latinumStudioz]

Women don't care who you are - it's what you can do for them - once you realize that - you'll be aiigh 🦾😤💸 You lead with your body - you fall with your body

[@lolivingston6827]

I think it's better ways to ask a person's qualities without being overly invasive..

[@tapriciasiwel1198]

I’m bringing cheers to the table! Cheers!!!!!!!!!!

[@PaulDA2000]

Well, if I was a woman and I heard the guy say “ax me”, I would leave quickly.

[@RTA6226]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Renegade2786]

If they get mad that you ask them what do their bring to the table, that is their silent answer of saying that they will bring debts and disruptions to the table.

[@stephanewantou218]

I'm gonna say like this: Ladies Your beauty is your bait and your heart is your trap.

[@RTA6226]

I think that EVERYONE should be passport daters!

[@SYSBMNOW]

💯

[@omnipotent8773]

Some dudes are too quick to try to list themselves like they just goods for advertisement. Some girls work so hard on they body and they forget they heart.

[@IsraelEmmanuel475]

Beauty, and banging bodies are temporary and fleeting!! What do you have to offer beyond the eatery??? 😮

[@beautifulforever111]

Honest question to ask a person.

[@georgeboehringer5530]

I’m a normal white man and I love to lick live rats

[@djkut]

I am curious to know how old this woman was because most women you meet don't start talking about, they got some work done to their body and say, "they look good/beautiful that's what I bring to the table?" Either she was a Pookeishia or a Wild Hyena Hood Rat! Most Classy & Jazzy and sisters don't carry themselves like that!

[@hegiratc]

Double standard when men ask that question boom.

[@2cool460]

Simply, just name the price, or negotiate a price for each other's company - of course, extras are additional charges. Smh.

[@jayshaunpatty5329]

I'm an ol school dude and the way women come at men today is all about self. Not working as a team but thinking bout themselves.

[@blaqken7726]

Women: “were equal!!!!!! I want say so!!” Men: “ok. Here’s what I got. Where you 50% ms. Equal” Women: “aaaaarrrgggghhh!!!”

[@martinbirdwell7986]

Well hell If she gets mad at you for asking her the same question she asked you then she done already told you all you need to know about her

[@Christina-rb8vk]

Men have a right to ask a woman what she is bringing to the table. That's fair.

[@georgeboehringer5530]

You black people got it backwards a man is supposed to provide for the woman she is supposed to be beautiful and nice and a good mother that’s what makes her a woman

[@S1lverspike]

@@georgeboehringer5530 but she brought nothing but looks. Explain where she said something about motherly qualities.

[@georgeboehringer5530]

@@S1lverspike A good looking woman is still a woman and even a prostitute working at a cat house it’s the same one who vacuum the floor

[@Yak.indebox]

@@georgeboehringer5530 no what’s proper is for the father of this woman to ask the man what he brings to the table. No woman is suppose to ask a man what he brings to the table. Only fathers ask that whole mothers ask the daughter what she offers her son. YOU have it confused.

[@Nonyabizz-16]

In other words “I’m only interested in the bag 💼 so how much cash 💰 are you bringing to the table cause I’m too lazy to make my own and want someone to take care of me” 🙄 typical! Just MYYY opinion of what I think she really meant….

[@Misskwu]

We need to use discernment and discretion when we allow people in our space. Don’t let a face and body fool you. I’m talking to both men and women!

[@iowa_lot_to_travel9471]

Tables don't talk. Hold my pizza. 😅😅

[@AnitaDiaz_JazzSinger]

What I bring to the table is an ironclad prenup!

[@depressed_weighted_B1anket]

I bring the chairs.... so I can eat a bowl of food

[@obtryce7070]

Brah, get your passport, and date outside your circle because this dating market sucks.

[@hitechburg]

MEN get your PASSPORT, there are thousands of fit, feminine, cooperative women in SOUTHEAST ASIA and SOUTH AMERICA.

[@georgeboehringer5530]

You should be looking for a female in Africa or the Caribbean

[@dd5090]

@@georgeboehringer5530 He should be looking for a woman in any country or continent he desires. Mind your business white boy. Worry about what’s going on in your own community..

[@marquishoward3529]

The moment a modern woman gets mad when u ask what she brings to the table, that means translation, she got nothing aka a pretty bum

[@ashgat05]

Wow, the foolery. I can’t speak for the entirety of my gender but I’m not about to get offended by being expected to answer a question that I asked someone else.

[@jenningsslayer314]

People in the comments are actually getting mad about this question. That really says something.

[@denishawalters1813]

I think it’s something only shallow people ask. Men and women both. Discussing hopes and dreams is acceptable though. If one person dreams of opening their own business and turning it into a chain and grinding at it 24/7 to make it successful and the other wants a single job and retiring early and only owning one house and no financial responsibilities then they probably wouldn’t be the best match. One wants kids and a white picket fence, the other doesn’t want kids at all; they want a downtown condo instead. Not a good match. These things should be discussed early on in dating. Who would want to long term date or worse sleep with a dead end?

[@georgeboehringer5530]

I love to lick live rats and squirrels

[@derekah.3359]

I Agree with what you are saying. A female bringing her 'Body' to the table as substitution for diligence, perseverance or even within the exchange of- the lack of ambition, will not suffice at all. For me, this is a demonstration or example of 2 separate people with 2 separate lists of priorities. .

[@CLOWNBOT00]

If all she can bring to the table are some salt and pepper packets and lint, take her back to the store.

[@georgeboehringer5530]

Female is supposed to be dependent

[@dexburwell]

Crisis adverted UH-60 return to base 🚁

[@wordhermit3tinvestigate4yo31]

I never asked that and no one ever asked me that. That must be a generational thing. Anyone ask me about how much i make i say none of your business i pay my own bill.

[@pontiac00]

Oh im pissed today, thats why I'm leaving many comments about the horrible situation of blackman dating,

[@MackeyDeez]

I don't think that many women can't comprehend men who are demanding. That's why they get offended and angry.

[@veronicagreen1601]

I'm sitting here shaking my head because she had not only the audacity to ask this question so soon but did not even have a legitimate answer herself. The least she could have done was see if they were compatible. Then she wants to get mad and be childish when she gets called out. Sir be glad that you dodged that bullet.

[@universe-ie2mk]

What do you bring to the table. How such a simple question got destroyed by women.

[@michawilliams1521]

I feel the brotha on these women today with their entitlement. What do you bring to the table? The the question is reversed on her and she gets an attitude because, she reallizes that all she has is her body and good looks and really thinks that's all she needs. Really? A partnership is NOT one sided. A man can find a good looking woman almost anywhere. A suitable partner these days is hard to find. Just a thought. You guys be safe out there.

[@Reignsupreme76]

I prefer a woman that went to culinary school over college! Cooking is rare skill nowadays.

[@blackticalmayhem8461]

Amen lol

[@stevepatrick8734]

I am really starting to get annoyed by that silly question, as well. Take time to know people and all your questions will be answered.

[@RTA6226]

I have to agree with the men on this one. Plastic surgery is NOT practical. Most of us eat three times a day. Knowing how to cook (fir both men and women) is practical!

[@williamcarter9066]

On that one y'all yo am gone like Calgon and Rick Grimes said '' Don't look back '' got cha Rick ✌out

[@damienmichaels923]

Why is it always women’s fault? We need to do this we need to do that. A lot of us are in therapy and trying to heal. Almost every man I talk to has some kind of anger issue or is blaming women for something. Then when we tell y’all to go to therapy y’all insult is and call us names.

[@tangoalpha94]

Get out your feelings. Very little is asked of y’all nowadays. It feels like alot when youve went most of your life not having to meet an expectation

[@georgeboehringer5530]

Men are supposed to provide for females

[@damienmichaels923]

@@tangoalpha94 We can literally say the same thing about y’all. Asking for the bare minimum seems to be so hard for y’all.

[@SB18TH]

Some women are just pitiful and dumb. Grow up and do something with yourselves. Same woman that thinks she’s all that today is the same one who gone be crying on social media talking about she can’t find a good man.🤦🏽‍♀️

[@godofdestructiondiecast6756]

I smell entitlement spirit looks only get you in the door

[@sotosotoa8120]

It's amazing that decades of decades of men have been saying the same things about the qualities they look for in a woman. Yet women still don't listen, hear, pay attention to what we're saying (and they say we can't communicate). It's like they choose pride and lonely over cooperation and relationship. U can't help people who don't want help. I play the "table card" just to c how a woman react. If it's confrontational- bye 👋- if not let's talk some more. It shows me that she's not stuck up or on a high horse.

[@MikeBBlack4Life]

Wow, females are now asking that! Smh!

[@georgeboehringer5530]

They should know

[@noirwolf9720]

My appetite

[@MsSkullomania]

If anyone is interested in cooking classes I would suggest trying to find deals on Groupon . Classes are pretty expensive . Also practice makes perfect the more you cook the better you will become overtime

[@telayajackson1.0]

Smh

[@claville12345]

Smdh, sh we really did not understand the question.

[@ThatGurlRiRi77]

Most females of this generation and mine both have a distorted perception of reality. Many are superficial and seriously believe that their looks will help them get by. I’m a 45 year old, college graduate. My main concern when getting into a relationship isn’t how much he gets paid or him liking me for frivolous reasons such as body augmentations, etc. He has to have confidence in himself and a zest for life that’s all. I will bring that same energy to the table in return. Everything else’s will surely fall into place as the relationship progresses throughout the years. No need to force a relationship based on a fictitious facade.

[@jbreezy6784]

This

[@saonedixon5476]

Thank you sista for being honest 🙏

[@ashmoe_bangs7986]

@Sheri Lene Williams - You are 45yo still dating??? Really??? You are no different then the women you are talking about….

[@terrychaney6050]

Sheri thank you for showing there are women like you still out there in America…unfortunately your kind are unicorns here. 💯

[@yakzivz1104]

Women are leading with their beauty because men have made it very clear that that is all they care about. These guys have constantly spoken on panels about black women being more submissive and feminine. They said that they don't care about her education or her job; therefore, some women have chosen to fit that model. These dudes don't know what they want and women like you keep making excuses for them.

[@isaiahkenny3544]

That Part!

[@TheGr8-1]

All they need to know is you’re a good guy interested in getting to know her.

[@catturner1224]

Yeah a lot of young folks are clueless😖 I feel sorry for most of y’all bc ur out here making life more difficult than it needs to be🤔 Those dating sites are evil and useless. How about this get out and meet ppl like we did in our day🤷🏽‍♀️