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[@seansteele6532]

That dudes like “I DISCOVERED A NEW THING!” Describes being friends with his roommate.

[@De_Selby]

Lol that was a trip

[@USSAnimeNCC-]

What next shopping and fashion lol

[@seansteele6532]

@@USSAnimeNCC- Woah woah... you don't wanna scare them.

[@lovelydeath04]

😂🤣

[@princealy4570]

Oh my god they were roommates!

[@alanlebkuecher9434]

It never fails to amaze me that men valuing their children and enjoying time with women is seen as being anti-hetero.

[@KingOfGaymes]

Fellas is it gay to love your wife and children?

[@anothercub6958]

Fellas, is it gay to love?

[@cr4b4ppl]

Fellas, is it gay to have a wife and kids and be a decent human being to them?

[@otrachicadeyoutube6853]

EXACTLY!! I'm so glad I'm a feminist

[@godofchaos9571]

Fellas, is it gay to have a wife?

[@user-vf1wy9pu6t]

I think platonic soulmates can exist, some people are just made for each other, but it doesn't have to be romantic.

[@bottomofastairwell]

i think it's stupid to care about romantic relationships AS MUCH as we do, because MOST relationships in our lives that are significant and meaningful AREN'T romantic. friendships, relationships with parents, siblings, other family, neighbors, fellow members of the community. i mean, yeah, romantic relationships are nice, if you're into that, but there are so many ways to have companionship. that AREN'T controlling or domineering or transactional (the way we tend to look at romantic relationships as a society)

[@user-vf1wy9pu6t]

@@bottomofastairwell well said!

[@abigailolson4232]

Agreed, that's some good aroace soup (and all people in general)

[@carililyyarbrough2305]

that woman flat out saying, “if my son rapes your daughter” is seriously mortifying! 1) that’s a horrible threat to make, and 2) that woman is painting her son as a potential rapist, which is SO BONKERS TO ME?????

[@ndawn90]

Her *FOUR YEAR OLD* son. Painting her children who aren't even old enough to be in kindergarten as rapists is abhorrent! Abhorrent doesn't even cover it...

[@noodles6239]

my initial reaction to that woman was "who hurt you? why do you believe that?" and then "you should maybe not have kids"

[@WynnWynn-gl3fk]

It is horrifying, much more than mortifying!

[@bambino05]

I am a feminist. I'm almost a stay at home mum to two beautiful children. I was married before having children. I have only been with one man. I am the anti-feminists dream, until I open my mouth because I am most definitely a loud mouth feminist. Feminism is literally just about having the ability to choose how to live your life. 50 years ago, this would be my only choice, but now I have more options. If I wanted to be a business person, I could. This is the life I chose, not the one that was forced upon me. Honestly, if it was, there is no way I'd be as happy as I am, even with the same family I have. I know if I said I want to go back to work tomorrow, my husband would be totally okay with it and would help make arrangements for childcare. Also, I want to add, that a man being a good, hands on dad is the sexiest thing possible for so many people. I find my husband the most attractive when he's playing with our children, when he's helping them with homework, tidying their toys, putting them to bed. It's so attractive to see your partner being a present dad.

[@Jaguarkralle1]

Lmao yeah same with me and my mom. She was a single mother but took all her savings + welfare benefits to be a SAH mom to care for us around the clock. Yet these people would hate her. I myself met my current bf at 16 and we're still going strong after over 7 years. An anti-feminists' wet dream, but alas I'm sadly a feminist 🤪

[@pineapplepapercrafts]

Ya seeing your partner being a good dad is one of the sexiest things. Imo too lol

[@chesiresays]

Exactly.

[@stephanieruthlessly7499]

Watching my husband and son hug and say I love you brings tears to my eyes.

[@elalovatt2751]

The supportive partners who are present dad's never seem to complain about feminism or actively try and deny women their rights. Men who behave like decent people and act with common sense and respect seem to be much happier in life but that's my opinion. The irony is us women think that's the biggest turn on 😂😂

[@incineroar9933]

No one hates guys who put their feet on benches because they're mansplaining. We're annoyed that you're putting your dirty shoes on places people are meant to sit. Instead of sitting, they'd rather make the seat dirty for the next person who might want to sit there later.

[@AmarisFrede]

Exactly! 😤

[@jacktadash]

In a public park? I have some scary things to tell you about the cleanliness of public benches...

[@incineroar9933]

@@jacktadash Don't care you don't have to put your dirty shoes on them to make them worse.

[@ChaosTheoriesLux]

They are the type who will also do it on a couch, chair, table, or bed. Shoes don't belong on these things.

[@unicorn73212]

Exactly! I was just thinking the same thing they leave messes everywhere but they claim they built everything around us but they also keep breaking statues and polluting the planet. Now that they built everything maybe we can build less of them..

[@shannond1511]

Are men aware that there are men that like shopping and the mall and not hunting or fishing as well? This isn’t a not liking women thing, this is a you wanting to date yourself thing.

[@Hana_H]

Yeah, and some women don’t enjoy shopping and going to the mall either

[@julias.6658]

Yep. Just thinking of my dad who goes shopping with my mom all the time lol. Sure he doesn’t always like the same places at her, but get him in a bookstore or a record shop and he’s overjoyed lol

[@madalice5134]

My dad loved shopping. He had more clothes, shoes and personal care products than my mom, who hates shopping. His tie, belt, shoe matching skills were next level.

[@user-mc4rm8ot8x]

​​@@Hana_HI like to do both❤ I love men stuff and women stuff..I have so many interests, karate, sailing, variety is the spice of life, just because im female doesn't mean imcant love doing g men stuff, sports, hunting, you name it❤

[@user-mc4rm8ot8x]

I'm a normal feminine woman, skinny but athletic I've always had muscle arms and legs I love using my body...pole dancing, aerial silks, karate...why I've always been skinny and I don't diet, I eat lots of fat foods etc. I'm probably bi,...I'm looking for my soul mate whether male or female..like in Chasing Amy, I wo t pass up my spulmate of its a woman..I don't care..

[@z_erinaceous_z]

Everything about this title is absolutely perfect.

[@theidiotwithnoname2801]

Yes

[@Abby-ll2vk]

Why the gay at the end? In place of “day” or?

[@localPotatoFrederick]

@@Abby-ll2vkin place of "straight"

[@imliterallynoonelol]

truly lol

[@lecameleon3183]

@OfficerZ637 what's the fuck?

[@mysterykitty2484]

I also want to say, as a large-chested woman, 7:50 was so frustrating. First of all, it makes my heart ache for any smaller chested girls who have grown up feeling like they need to change their body. No! I'm a 32F for reference, and I cannot tell you how long I have hated myself for being so heavy chested. I was a C cup by eighth grade, and I felt so ashamed that I got minimizing bras and did any chest exercise I could find to try to make them smaller so I could be like others. Then in ninth grade, running in PE was mortifying. I had to put a sports bra on over my normal bra because I was so embarrassed. Even now I go to the gym and wish I could wear the cute, strappy sports bras that all the other girls wear, but I can't because I have way too much and need more support than a thin layer of spandex. Not only is it this, but the physical pain of being heavy-chested is the worst of all. My posture hasn't been the best because I spent so long trying to conceal them, and they have given me so much back pain. In short, never feel like you need to have a DD. You are beautiful, you are desirable, and I can promise you a girl like me wishes they could be as lucky as you. Very few women are satisfied with what they naturally have, so please embrace your body :) It is meant to keep you alive, not please others.

[@mommy2libras]

Another con is that if you have and breastfeed 2 kids and hit middle age as I have, there's a good chance of them basically deflating, like old balloons. At 5 feet tall and 110, having DDD- F sized breasts was often difficult- finding any clothes that fit right just never happened and bras cost a mint- but once I'd had kids and gravity truly took over, I'm left with something reminiscent of a couple of knee socks half full of mashed jello hanging off my chest. Now I have a size that fits my size and frame but gathering them up and finding something to keep them from oozing out everywhere is impossible.

[@JDM-is-my-name]

One of my sister's friends in high school actually had to begin using a walking aid because her back couldn't physically support her chest. Some men and women are fucking dumb for not bothering to learn how hard having a big chests can be. Last I heard, she got a breast reduction and although I don't know her and have only meet her a few times, I hope she feels much better now

[@sapphicwriter]

Another issue with large chests is how hard it is to know your size if you constantly lose and gain weight. I’ve gone through so many bra sizes I have to get UK equivalents because it’s impossible to get my size in USA unless I go online. Not to mention the back pain and having to take off bras so you don’t feel like you’re suffocating.

[@cassiejohnson9410]

Honestly! I'm like a D to DD (I haven't bought an actual bra in like 5 years and I'm 21) which is a little over average but finding anything cute, fits, and is comfortable is impossible. Plus I'm a big girl as in both heavier and taller (chubby and 5'11) I wish I could find bras other than sport bras that I could wear.

[@Chameleon_Cat]

Flat chested girls are gorgeous and the Romans would agree

[@TheMonarchofMonarchs933]

The heteros have been making me upsetro all Valentine's day season. Now that's it's over they still aren't calming down.

[@moonshinershonor202]

Big old heard

[@alexpercent]

​@@moonshinershonor202small new deaf

[@KingOfGaymes]

They never calm down cuz most of em are too hornee

[@moonshinershonor202]

@@alexpercent is that the gay way of saying it? Cuz I kinda like tight new squeak

[@alexpercent]

@OfficerZ637 ewwwwwwwwww

[@kitsummers4945]

My dad refused to change me as a baby because he didn't want anyone thinking/calling him a pedo. That makes me more concerned than the dad holding his baby.

[@KarenAMathis]

As a Straight, it means a lot that you keep checking on us. Thank you. Maybe one day we'll be okay. I hope.

[@hexonyou]

we're all rooting for you all

[@aShadeBolder]

stay strong! it gets better.

[@jacktadash]

Have you tried conversion therapy? I suggest watching some Finnster and going from there.

[@dea_bendata]

@@jacktadash please don't tell me you're trying to force them into being queer because you kinda sound like that

[@Aixadh]

​@@dea_bendata You missed the joke

[@PokhrajRoy.]

2:05 There’s friendship but also equally hilarious is when straight men ‘discover’ interior decoration and crockery.

[@joshuarichards8065]

I actually find it sad. Growing up as a millennial boys weren't allowed to express themselves in such ways because their parents said no to it all.

[@madalice5134]

​@joshuarichards8065 There's an unfortunate surge in parents being hyper aware of "gender roles" now because of all the fear mongering against Trans people. I mean, it's always been there, but the recent aggressive pushing of it is so ridiculous. I had a customer get angry at her son for wanting silly putty of it's pinkish color. Like wtf lady, your kid just wants to play with a toy that's been around for like a century, it's not going to give him "the gay". He looked so sad when she snatched it away from him. It made me want to slap her.

[@Falcodrin]

​@@joshuarichards8065bought my first wall hanging art piece at 26. Never had posters or anything as a kid and it's kinda strange trying to figure out what to do with walls that isn't just hanging shelves everywhere.

[@royalibis42]

my auntie calls all 8 of her kids sex trophies and got mad when multiple of them told her to stop because it was weird and making everyone uncomfortable, people are so fun sometimes

[@tweedlebug123]

Your aunt calls them WHAT!?

[@kaydebastion]

So, I have three points about the "sex trophy" thing. My first point: Ew. My second point: Ew. And my third point: ...Ew.

[@professorfoxtrot]

I have a fourth point - boom!

[@harubynspades]

@@professorfoxtrot Yes rico, ka-boom! /ref

[@davidprince6877]

I saw this comment before I got to that part of the video and it was much more gross than I thought it would be.

[@PokhrajRoy.]

1:38 Omg this is giving me ”They were just roommates.” and it’s the literal plot line of ‘Fellow Travelers’ lol

[@KittenJune96]

That cisgender thing is like white people being offended by being called white people.

[@LeftieLoosie]

I absolutely hate “pranks” that involve getting someone excited and then they find out it’s not real. Like the gift ones…. Or the fake lottery tickets…. Most of us experience genuine excitement so rarely in the real world… and to use that as an opportunity to laugh at someone is literally sick to me.

[@pemanilnoob]

I feel like that one guy may have been an unaware aro or ace, since he said he was happier single for years than he ever was with a woman. I mean I don’t want to assume or something, but it’s like, I feel like that’s common. I feel like I’ve heard it before from other closeted aro/ace people

[@jacktadash]

I'm demi and I have had so many boyfriends I didn't even realise that's what they were. Even in the early days when I used to experiment with them because I was sure I was supposed to like something sexual I just couldn't figure out what. Now I know I'm demi I enjoy being physical with my partner but I still prefer the friendship part.

[@rocketpsyence]

Yeah I'm an aromantic and ace spec guy and this is what I think too. It sounds to me like what he "hates" most about women is an unspoken pressure to participate in an intimate relationship that isn't right for him, whereas a queerplatonic relationship is. I hope he is able to get some information on these identities and maybe learn something if that's the case, and hopefully realize that women aren't the issue - it's just he was trying to fit a square peg in a round hole so to speak.

[@lkf8799]

I think a lot of us didn't know it was an option. I didn't know what ace was until 3-4 years ago. I thought I was a late bloomer, or too picky, or had trust/commitment issues but I've always thought the fantasy is better than the reality when it comes to romantic relationships. They look fun on T.V. but I've never felt that way about anyone. The things people do for romantic attention is crazy to me. I've never understood how people felt such lust that they would risk STDs and unwanted pregnancies or have affairs that destroy their marriages, or breakup / makeup /breakup over and over again with someone incompatible. It makes absolutely no sense to me. I'm so glad I avoided all that hot mess.

[@tristanband4003]

No i really think he's just a misogynist asshole.

[@We_love_rice]

She never fails to serve her looks

[@Hana_H]

Fr

[@professorfoxtrot]

6.5 at best. Shave the armpit hair, lose the rainbow shit, and put on some high heels would raise her to a 7

[@WormlyWormington]

7:50 "I wish you were this size" "Bruh, I wish you were that size too"

[@ramenaddict1676]

"And I wish you were OUT OF MY LIFE RIGHT NOW and why did tge FUCK you date me then?"

[@Zym3_]

Honestly best response to it. His girlfriend should find a large sports cup and be like "I wish you were this big".

[@xv1distort]

That first example is giving, "they were great friends, roommates even"

[@justinabean94]

“It doesn’t matter because my name is Olivia” at the end of that poem killed me 😭

[@Pinkywinkykinky]

I like how men'll think dressing up and makeup's so important for women to engage in but yet don't respect those interests still or encourage/support and judge us for it still 😭

[@rosieg6989]

22:06 No, that is a good father. Babies, especially newborns need skin on skin care, it has so many health benefits, but the mother also needs time to rest and recover so can't hold the baby forever so dad doing it will help both the baby and the mom. Also this helps the baby recognize who their family is, the first few people who hold them to their chest.

[@RexytheRexy]

Exactly. When I asked my mom recently what the most important advice she'd give a new parent is, she responded with, "give a baby skin to skin contact and cuddles. Making time every day for it, and for some quiet snuggly bonding time if you can, is extremely important."

[@bailey6304]

I love your titles, they're always so silly and fun gay. Literally only just started the video and already I can tell the straights aren't okay. First guy really thinks he invented a whole new type of relationship lmao.

[@NicrophorusVesp]

I had a ex-friend who was bi but had so much internalised homophobia. She absolutely hated r/arethestraights okay and tried to guilt trip me into thinking that it was the worst thing to ever exist by lying that a friend of a friend knew someone who had done the big hurtie over the guilt from reading the sub??? Turns out that her boyfriend just was homophobic and hated the sub and so she felt like she had to make everyone else hate it too The straights definitely aren't okay and nor was she 🙄

[@aceofpentacles7]

So many bi women not ready to address internalized homophobia because their proximity to men and proximity to straighness gives them proximity to power 🙃

[@_koraki]

If I ever heard someone talk about her sons committing sa in the future I’d be compelled to call cps.

[@animefreakshjo]

So i will say as someone who studies human sexuality it technically does have an impact on a child seeing nudity. HOWEVER, that impact in a majority of cases is natural or positive unless that nudity is paired with trauma (say child SA or a bloody nude corpse) then it impacts them negatively because of the trauma not the nudity itself.

[@nyxstarbright2590]

The one where they were criticizing the new Dad, were clearly screaming loud and clear that they do not have a close bond with their Dad, as they are spitting feathers at such a wonderful photo. Their seething jealousy is loud and clear.

[@potatoespoo]

That first post (the good parts) is actually life goals of mine. As someone who’s Aroace, I just want a best friend to share my hobbies with. A life partner but platonically.

[@cricketandgraham8644]

@@OfficerZ637 Oh so Content Patcher?? they removed it for the newer YuTube

[@Milo-hp9fw]

@OfficerZ637 Well, nothing can beat Crabbie Patties.

[@Milo-hp9fw]

Same. I would love to have a partner like that one day! We could maybe even adopt some pets together!

[@RPGLover87]

The sex trophy one just reminds me of how obsessed with it some people are. Brings to mind the Lonely Island song where they completely destroy the kind of people who obsess over it with the call and response section in "I just had sex" - "But I cried the whole time" "doesn't matter had sex" "She was looking at her watch""doesn't matter had sex" etc.

[@bottomofastairwell]

it's just so freaking creepy. assuming it's not THAT kind of creepy, it's still weird AF. like, you're so obsessed with other people knowing you "got some" that you're gonna bring a whole ass human life into the world, so they can be your sex trophy and EVERYONE will know you got laid. MORE THAN ONCE. like bro, how pathetic and insecure are you? and also, it's so unbelievably selfish. cuz really? THAT'S the reason you had a kid? REALLY???? people have kids for the WORST fucking reasons

[@Viridict]

The mention of braids made me realize I know how to braid hair via proxy as I know how to braid ropes. This should not blow my mind, yet it is enlightened

[@FIRXFLY]

So weird that men blame women for their loneliness and not their own friendships. And some videos here really prove how fulfilling platonic relationships can be.

[@incineroar9933]

I have to wonder how old that mother screaming about the 13 year old was when she had her kids.

[@annieoddo1475]

I’m straight but I definitely clicked on this because the title made me crack up.

[@ckblackwoodmusic]

Working GAY through lunch, baby; UPSETERO Also, that jacket is all that

[@ErutaniaRose]

Had a great Valentine. Had a Galentine/Palentine day where my Mum made brownies and my friends and I played some Lethal Company to hang out. It was my first time playing and it was really fun! Remember, you can celebrate non-romantic love on valentine's day too.

[@theythemboss]

17:53 thank you for talking about this omg 😭 i keep seeing people talk about how horrible it is when someone who's in a relationship likes another person's instagram photo and whatever and i'm just like. are we not allowed to find people attractive without wanting to date them??? or maybe they just like the way the picture looks in general. or they're friends with the person and want to show their support by liking their posts. like is it really that big of a deal

[@StasyaWorm]

i used to think this way too and then found out some dudes really follow and like ONLY women in bikinis and nothing else... i mean ofc i wouldn't be jealous of that but it's just weird???

[@theythemboss]

@@StasyaWorm ok yeah that is kinda weird if it's All they follow/like but liking one picture every now and then isn't that bad (at least in my opinion but ig everyone has different boundaries)

[@Eliftae]

There are many guys who really just follow tons of models and hot women and just like their pictures. It's weird, I'm not a jealous person but I'd definitely not want that in my relationship. It seems disrespectful and too objectifying.

[@huhs112]

That is their relationship and their boundary and nothing you can force them to break if they feel uncomfortable with the huge number of taken men liking po_rnographic content on their social media because many are so p_orn addicted and often times even try to get into personal contact with them or compare their partner to them. I can already tell you dont know how many cishet men act online and simply dont care about a selfie of a woman "looking only aesthetically pleasing or cool". I cant stand this uneducated superficial and manipulative "youre just insecure" narrative that even these specific men use against their own partner and is hidden behind a "progressive, stop being controlling" facade. Exactly this talk that was shoved down my throat like every other woman forced me to get harmed for the rest of my life

[@theythemboss]

@@huhs112 that makes sense but still im just talking about liking one picture (of a friend etc), ive never even mentioned porn im a lesbian and im confused whether all cishet men are really that untrustworthy to the point they cant even interact with their friends on the internet or all women who date them are paranoid

[@trixjoyce]

I don't understand people. I DON'T. Me and my partner are best friends, I would never waste my time with a guy if he saw me as second to him or inferior or was looking down on me and my hobbies and interests just because they are female. My partner likes seeing me enjoy myself and tells me I'm cute if I find cute clothes at the store. He cheers me on and encourages me to continue making KZbin videos, and podcasts, writing on my book projects, or my design/illustration projects. He never belittles me or my interests regardless if it's gaming or makeup, illustration or podcasting, or something completely else. Partners should not sigh or feel annoyed in their partner's presence, because then something is wrong.

[@Vampress09]

I do wish platonic partners were more normalized. It sounds perfect to me.

[@2ndperky]

The most idea relationship to have is one where you can not only consider your partner your lover, but also your best friend. You're intimate, equal, and enjoy being with each other. Cishet men aught to try striving for that sometime, maybe they'd start having better chances with women.

[@CalvinChikelue]

It’s absolutely wild to me how that beach mom is essentially admitting that not only does she not plan to ever teach her sons to never resist their urges or respect the autonomy & boundaries of other people but that rather she deliberately plans to reinforce the idea that they are in the right if they decide to criminally sexually violate another person. Honestly I’d love to ask her if her boys not only assault a woman who was “asking for it” but also kill her too, if she would actually still feel the same way. I mean why not right, if a woman who dresses a certain way isn’t worthy of respect, why draw the line at them deserving to live? Heck, let’s go even further and ask about how she would feel if they decided to target a preteen child or a family member. After all she clearly feels that 13 year olds aren’t off limits so when her kids become adult men & men should “take what they want”, she’s essentially enforced the belief that in their eyes that whether the “woman” is 13 or 4 or a little cousin or a little sister, all that matters is that they deserve whatever their boys do to them if they happen to commit the cardinal sin of arousing them by showing “too much skin”, self-control, empathy & the rule of law be damned.

[@azuill1126]

Tumblr user Olivia thought the "Down with Cis" bus post was real and made it her whole personality

[@icarus4549]

why is there always the assumption (from straight men mostly, i've noticed?) that you can't, like... compromise with your friend/partner. why do you always have to only have some interest in common or else you cannot hang out together or discover something you both enjoy or make minor sacrifices for the sake of spending time with someone you like. i have absolutely 0 interest in the show rwby. i've never watched it, i never intend on watching it, it's simply not something that interests me. it also happens to be my best friend's favorite show. so i listen to her talk about it and i go to hour long panels about it at conventions because she asked me to and she's my best friend and i want her to be happy. and i'm sure things i like are the same way for her! maybe i'm just autistic and used to clear and direct communication with the people i care about but like... why are straight people so allergic to talking to each other. if you don't like your girlfriend's interests and she doesn't like yours why don't you both sit down and try and find something you enjoy doing together. why must relationships just be pure suffering with these people it infuriates me

[@MoonlitBookworm73]

Ayyy, perfect timing! Time to see what the straights are up to now 15:55 I think another way this could be read is as if the father is displaying them to future men as sex trophies that those men can “have for their collection.”

[@catrakitten]

The straights should just stick to straight french fries rather than bully the curly ones.

[@cookingwithsilence]

27 seven minutes gay? That's a fair amount of minutes gay I suppose.

[@rtk142]

Not that it will likely ever come up again, but Yuengling is pronounced like ying-ling, so it rhymes. I've been drinking it since the '90s

[@MagicalAnge]

Not the dude at the start thinking he was starting a revolution in social studies, only to discover the basics of primary school friendships 😂

[@scarletrose6356]

About the girl who had a problem with her boyfriend liking girls photos: I have no problem with a partner liking regular photos of other people but my problem is (and this is from personal experience) when my partner not only likes and follow pages of girls who post themselves basically naked with their butts out, it’s mainly that he was screenshotting them and he did it right in front of me many times. It made me feel unappreciated and uncomfortable. But just liking a selfie of another girl isn’t bad, no.

[@Zectifin]

that still sounds like a jealousy control issue.

[@witchymary5246]

​@@Zectifinnot really? It's all about personal boundaries that need to be discussed. You are allowed to be uncomfortable with this. And then you talk to your partner about it and you can come to an understanding and decide if the relationship is right for you. The problem with the situation in the Video was not her jealousy but her pettiness and lack of communication

[@scarletrose6356]

@@user-mh7te6xi3p I did end up breaking things off with him because he was really disrespectful towards me by calling me names and basically saying that im not exactly his type but in a much ruder way, when I tried to talk to him about my boundaries.

[@huhs112]

​​@@Zectifintypical manipulative talk to make women accept mens po_rn addiction WHO THEY ARE IN A MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP with. There is no way you are going to call an actual boundary of someone controlling to manipulate them. Are you one of these men? Because they talk exactly like that. This is not your relationship. Respect for your Partner is important

[@GinaFernandezx14]

I’m totally with you girl. I don’t get all this modern shit. I’m old school and I think thirst following others on socials and liking their photos or even exchanging them between friends is extremely disrespectful and gross. I love kiwi but I really completely disagreed with her whole view on that.

[@awfuldynne]

So I was thinking one could easily do a similar comic to "how a feminist sees the world", but replacing the thoughts of the straw feminist with the American Evangelical persecution complex.

[@PokhrajRoy.]

The Braids are a fab look. We need more of them.

[@RexxTheFirst]

Okay but that pick of the dad with his little baby was absolutely adorable. Look how happy he is!

[@shivi5561]

bro just described a QPR as some revolutionary idea

[@meeatyuwhole3889]

Love is love whether it’s platonic, familial, romantic, or whatever else. No need to put types of love/the people we love in a hierarchy. I know I love all the people I love equally and I’ll never put any one person over another in my life.

[@lilhedgehog8576]

22:03 i’ve been a baby before, and I can confirm this is soft and comforting and warm. Like a heating blanket.

[@Therethereheis]

7:44 first off. Gods I'm so sorry for you, that's such a terrible thing to be told especially when you're 14?? Wow, utterly disgusting I'm so glad you got past that and I hope he rots. Now since you mentioned EDs I'd like to share something. Every year I would go to my grandparents and every year, over and over again this whole side of my family would shame me for my body. I was always too big for them, and surprise surprise, I developed an eating disorder. Then, the year where I was at my skinniest and went to my grandparents again they told me "Well now you're overdoing it, now you're too skinny, you wanna be healthy, right ?" LIKE HECK YEAH I WANNA BE HEALTHY BUT YOU INSTILLED THESE BELIEVES IN ME LIKE WDYM ??? Then I kinda slowly recovered with the help of my mother and what happens if you don't feed your body and then suddenly eat normally again ? Yeah you're metabolism gets all messed up and your body holds onto any energy recourses as best as it can so I gain quite a lotta weight back. It was really hard but I kept telling myself to keep going. To stay strong and my weight will even out if I keep eating enough and balanced foods. Either way, now I was a little smarter knowing why my body looked the way it did so when we went to my grandparents this year I tried to explain. "I'm healing, my body might not 'look healthy' but overall I'm healthier than I was in the previous years. I'm healing mentally and my body will slowly heal aswell." But of course my grandma had it all mixed up and said that "if your body is healthy your mind will be healthy too"??? Brother please,, not how that works, at least not for me. Needless to say, I never went back and now I listen to my body and mind. I get to eat what I crave without guilt and I'm just chilling mate. So happy I figured myself out but gods,, why ? I will never understand how anyone can believe they have any kind of authority over someone else's body, it's so gross.

[@2ndperky]

Videos like this are like rollercoasters. They're unnerving snd kinda scary but weirdly exciting and fun to experience since we know we're safe cause we don't know these weirdos and they don't know us.

[@xXendless_shrimp_tourXx]

10:36 this one is extra funny to me because in Canada (at least in Ontario and Quebec) it is expected for most stores to have that sticker

[@applepatronum4934]

The braids are so cute and i need a close up so i can see what fun pattern the different colors make

[@sassylittleprophet]

I had literally the best Valentine's Day ever with my boyfriend. We chilled out at my place and watched "How To Train Your Dragon." I made him a card and wrote him a letter. It was an amazing bonding experience for both of us. ❤

[@Vivishobbies]

As a fellow Olivia, we do not claim the last woman LMAOOO

[@JuKii7]

Hi! I'm reluctant to click the stuff that yt recommends to me but I'm glad I did, this was actually wholesome. I love your voice too. I guess I'll stick around ♥

[@Hana_H]

Welcome!

[@lubis_cornue1470]

New Video !!

[@Cera_01]

New Comment !!

[@PansyPops]

New Reply !!

[@furballscave4431]

Another New Reply !!

[@Keiralynneee]

New Reply !!

[@AmarisFrede]

@@Keiralynneee New Thread! 😆

[@itsnotanobsessioniswear]

I really love these videos, the commentary is always so nice. I feel like other people don't express their opinions or their mindset when watching stuff like this. They make a face and move on, but these videos are so nice!

[@ahliver]

To empathize about the boob job abuser section; i remember my ex always joking about oral sex and "what that mouth do" when he knew at the time that oral sex and talking about it really triggered my childhood trauma, and he didnt care. I fucking hate people.

[@EmbrrDreams]

having friends = getting edged 👀

[@lilhedgehog8576]

Bro, the American flag isn’t American propaganda, so why does the LGBTQ flag have to be woke propaganda? Why can’t a flag just be a piece of fabric that represents a group of people like those flag were intended to do.

[@commandercorl1544]

1:51 Just dudes being bros!

[@SparrowsDen]

my worst relationship was my ex who had NO social life outside of me. Every minute we werent apart he was texting me, or at the gym, or in his room/attic playing video games. he had other friends but when we started dating he like forgot they existed. He also tried to isolate me from my friends, and it was juat horrible because of how isolated i already was.

[@otakugurl997]

The whole thing about platonic life partners already has a name btw 😂 it’s called a queerplatonic relationship and it’s common practice in the aromantic community because they don’t want a romantic relationship but they still need that companionship. Like if he doesn’t want to call it that because it has ‘queer’ in the name that’s his prerogative but a nonsexual nonromantic committed relationship is not unique to that guy 😂😂

[@lemoncakeslemonade5430]

Redhead This is your term for me Your Stereotype, your agression When you have been called it all Raggedy hair whatever Well now I speak I am not bald I do not have curly hair I am not a person who dyes my hair Or 'unsure' I am not your words. I am not "redhead" I am a person with hair Who loves my hair But that doesn't matter Because my name Olivia

[@donalvarez4006]

😂

[@carlyannmusic13]

i giggled at "upsetero" for way too long

[@claratalbot7613]

I will never understand people who think it's a bad thing if fathers are present in their children's life or to show that u care & see ur partner as an equal. Nothing is more attractive to me than an attentive partner who I can share my life with & if we decide to have kids then I would want them present in their life too because that's the point of being a partner &/or a parent. Even if u don't share an interest with ur child or partner, you should still show that u care about them by taking supporting & caring about their interests. It could just be as simple as buying them gifts of things they like, going to their games/tournaments, spending time with them during like movie or playing video game, etc

[@PGOuma]

Oh no... They found out about QPRs...

[@sophiehelena6737]

9:42 i love that youre so open with everything. talking about how you tried to figure out how to change your body to make yourself more lovable hits home to me. its also kinda nice bc you are very pretty and have a great personality (from what i, a youtube watcher in another country, can see)

[@Pa5an1]

Oooof, I don’t get why people would get mad at that “everyone’s welcome” sign. It can be so scary to just exist as a queer person, so having safe havens like that can be such a relief

[@LakinMae5]

I bet they still have a “No Girls Allowed” sign on their bedroom door

[@ErutaniaRose]

Ngl, the idea that straight men don't even have friends is really sad and would explain why their mental health is so bad. Having literally no friends or no close friends to hang out with or confide in sounds awful.

[@Corarii]

i feel like a lot of cishet dudes would love the concept of queerplatonic relationships but they would be put off by the word queer.

[@the_seabunnyboi7004]

I just looked in the background and saw your straykids merch. Legitimately instantly thought you were even cooler. Stays are so awesome.

[@facedepet8363]

This is just the best title I've ever read period.

[@MissyRose94]

I'm sorry, but if I heard someone calling their children "sex trophies" (🤮), I'm calling CPS, because that is fucking concerning

[@Alex-pn2hn]

That blazer is so cool

[@Clari1279]

I've only ever heard the "sex trophy" thing in a wildly different context so my mind immediately went "wtf?! why is he bragging about that on his dating profile?!" It was only when you talked about your two possible interpretations that I realized he probably wasn't bragging about sexually abusing his children... Still don't know if putting your children into any kind of sexual context is such a great idea to put on your dating profile, though.

[@KingOfGaymes]

the added gay at the end of the title is killing me omg 😭

[@mellow_mallow]

That poem might be my favorite thing today it's so funny

[@LV426Xeno]

I couldn't pass this up after reading the title. Its soooo good!😊

[@lkf8799]

The title 😂

[@TheFnafster]

First post could be titled: CisHet Man Discovers That QPRs Exist!

[@Scatscar1985]

Imagine if "Friends" had completely resisted the temptation to hook a few of them up...

[@SarastistheSerpent]

The title is giving me life lmao

[@gracek834]

The title is great I love it

[@TheOracleAtDelphinetlyNot]

tHIS TITLE GAVE ME WHIPLASH

[@LeftieLoosie]

Also the baby doing skin to skin with dad clearly IS comforted because the baby isn’t screaming… 😅

[@joeisafreakk]

The picture of dad holding his baby that was called creepy by other men is really showing what men think. And it's actually scary tbh.

[@sheersternfeld1914]

Love your jacket!

[@C3l3st14l_M4rk]

I love the title. Subscribed!

[@Halo-lg7rq]

Easily one of your best titles, do this more please😂

[@Certifiedslow]

Nice video thats I definitely finished already and that didnt JUST come out seven minutes ago