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[@AbaNPreach]

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[@SenatorDoom44]

I luv you guys thank you for always keeping it real you're amazing 💯💖

[@erenyeager9575]

Mr. Bond lmao

[@aichaly3242]

Do a video on breyona Taylor

[@Stringz]

Aba & Preach bro whyyyy why is still even talking to this dude? People so weird. Dumb people man... dumb people... cannot see things for what they are. And well this is just sad man. This woman wants love but clearly the dude ain’t into it but this lady is nuts cus she won’t accept it.

[@wiseonwords]

"justfiably" your videos on police brutality were demonitized? There's no justification for demonitizing your videos on that topic. Your comments were on point!

[@pierrexo]

damn, ya'll are perceptive as fuck! you both got a beer waiting for you in Prague 🥳🍺🍺

[@Catfish_ate_my_brother]

Fuqboi in the house 🥀🥀🥀✨✨✨🍋🍋🍋

[@sebz2892]

i stan

[@KomandorNells]

You got a beer waiting for you in Warsaw, Poland. Would love the conversation, your content is golden and worth discussing. (Not subscribed. Just watching)

[@GroinFaceGroin]

Dude come to Portugal, booze is super cheap here!

[@SmartK8]

@@GroinFaceGroin It's cheaper than soda in Czech Republic. Also the best beer.

[@your_belief_vs_everything]

"They're both single now" They were both single then, but only 1 of them realized it.

[@tiltedhalo9888]

Yeah , she chose to ignore what he was telling her . Even if it’s by lack of an answer , that’s actually *the* answer. She can’t accept that based on what ? 12 weeks . Out our her 49* years .

[@mao4324]

Mic Drop

[@ShaunHensley]

That goes for all hetero relationships

[@genlaz1]

Until someone gets pregnant. Then it's a lifelong attachment.

[@lukasthedark8478]

Shaun Hensley que?

[@huu5807]

I don’t know how anyone can blame a 23 year old for not wanting to be in a serious relationship with 40 year old they’ve known for 3 months

[@iris916]

Especially one who is so clingy

[@PawsitivelyQuestionable]

REAL

[@daaazboot]

I feel like pierre had love for her as a person but wasn't IN love. I totally get that. Especially with how caring he was with his answers and how he talked about her.

[@natasha8007]

And she was in love with an idea.

[@candi1904]

Being respectful and sensitive to another emotions does not equal Love. That is a vertue that exist independently. You can be respectful to anyone if that is your nature.

[@mouloudo]

That's called a fuckboy

[@narivenus-21]

@@mouloudo um no

[@ulitmategamer1611]

👀you really believe that

[@deirakos]

As a European or more precisely as a German I think the problem is cultural. "Dating" isn't really a thing in Germany. Usually you have several dates and then you decide if you wanna be together. "Americans" seem to have a way longer phase of "dating" that can stretch over several months of "seeing each other". I believe that that's her "problem" with the situation that she didn't talk about how she is used to dating. For her knowing someone for 2 months and meeting them regularly in a romantic setting could very well mean that they are in a relationship and that he is her boyfriend.

[@Monahven]

German here, I had the exact same thought.

[@iblameanna]

The same in Poland, bro.

[@blubei]

Ahhh, never thought about that. That could definitely have lended to the disconnect.

[@KingKong-mp6gj]

Yeah it's a Europe vs. US thing. The whole term dating and what comes with it is a pretty american thing. I remember reading that back in ww2 days, american GI's saw british girls as sluts while the british girls saw the GI's as pushy. Explanation was the difference in dating culture where americans tend to have a long waiting period between the first kiss (which comes rather fast) and sex whereas in britain the kiss comes later but is soon followed by sex.

[@RS-zp1we]

Since her name is stephanie van Berg, she's prolly Dutch. Accent also points to it, although the way she talks is annoying enough. Anyway, we are very Germanic in that sense. Clarity is life. Americans seem to be different. Makes for interesting meetings. Also, dutch are very direct. Even for germanic people.

[@whoisit5600]

I kind of felt like her voice sounds like she's about to cry any minute now

[@theblackbaron4119]

Yeah i hate her whiny voice. The "on the verge of tears" inflection. I knew someone that talked like that, drove me up the wall, because she used it to fish for sympathy. While being incredibly manipulative, attempting to divert blame away from her. Yeah, the sound of a self proclaimed victim.

[@Itsbritt_22]

I said the exact same thing

[@daniellerobertson506]

That’s what I thought too 😂

[@nahicorua]

Ikr it's so annoying when people talk like that... idk why but it makes me uncomfortable lol

[@gth882]

Noh, cry primed voice is more shaky

[@DevanteWeary]

They acting like these two were married. They were together for 3 months.

[@Key_1111]

Exactly!!

[@ycartyahoo]

And entire 3 months...like a high school relationship...😂🤣

[@jackmcklaine7405]

Right!!!! Women don’t even know my full name after two months

[@jstu8]

@@jackmcklaine7405lmao what? The irony here makes it even funnier.

[@jackmcklaine7405]

@@jstu8 exactly 😂😂 this ain’t my real name

[@lismarcel]

They'd been together for two months, not two years. Anyway, I can't imagine being her age (I'm 40 and she was 43 at the time) and trying to force a 24-year-old with depression into a relationship

[@nicholeocornes543]

I'm 32 and I find it creepy

[@lismarcel]

@@nicholeocornes543 Right? One of my friends, who's now 37, was in a relationship with a 28-year-old when she was 19. The guy used her lack of experience and vulnerability to pressure her into doing things she wasn't comfortable with which obviously did some damage. It took her a few years to get out of that relationship but she felt amazing when she finally did

[@Key_1111]

That part!!

[@GlossyJoyMiralles]

actually I keep wondering about that too... did she not learn when she was between 25-40? I find it odd.

[@eveast2556]

@@lismarcel its totally fine for an older guy to be with a younger girl, your twisting the situation around. The fact is this is a OLD WOMAN with a young guy, this behaviour is totally unacceptable

[@TMillerm16]

So she stopped seeing Pierre for 2 years and she actually went back to wearing clothes in her actualy style

[@fuyukazemi]

Classic example of mirroring.

[@trulsdirio]

Well she wears a leather jacket, still has an alternative, artsy touch to it.

[@jullierose]

Nice observation, you can see that when he says "nice jacket".

[@unicornwitchprincess1004]

@M S She's still wearing a moto jacket, it's just more colorful. He changed his style too. I don't think it's fair to call her crazy for changing her jacket color post breakup.

[@Santa1936]

I didn't even pick up on that. She's totally absorbing his style

[@sane_njomi]

OK, there's a lot to say here. I think hook-up culture and this "no labels" thing is popularised and more accepted recently than it was back then. She's more than 20 years older than him, she's from a different generation than he is where if you're sleeping together that assumes a level of commitment of sorts whether or not a genuine connection is there. With that being said, I'm not mad at her for "not getting it", she's a simple gal, to her - if you're sleeping together and spend a lot of time together you're in a relationship. This made sense to her. I think about this because a lot of our parents tried to marry off their daughters (and were married off themselves) because they fell pregnant young and out of wedlock or as they got older or even as a business deal between prestigious families, nobody asked these kids if there was a 'connection' or if real love was there or how they felt about these abstract ideas that categorize dating styles like it is now, it was just a different time then and the mistake she made was not evolving and adapting to the era. Not necessarily something "unsettling" about HER, just 2 people who are obviously not compatible and were not on the same page.

[@thoughtswithamen8549]

So true

[@sane_njomi]

@@thoughtswithamen8549 I feel like she's being criticized and I'm not sure why? She's clearly accepted that the relationship is over I'm not understanding why there's an issue when all she did was provide an update that's not even malicious

[@nightynightshade]

EXACTLY!

[@Ang.143]

Turquoise Cheetah exactly. Ppl are dying for connection and intimacy, yet they see hookup culture as progressive... how is that possible? Lol

[@glfszughfsufi]

Factual

[@user-hi5kt5ir9e]

And this is why it is so important to communicate intention for the relationship. My husband when we were dating, very quickly said "I see you as a potential mate. What do you think about this?". It let me know where he stood and then also let me state my intention, so we had zero misunderstandings. We have been married for 20 years, and I am so happy that we had an open and honest conversation up front.

[@abase6118]

Lucky. Most people aren’t this way. I want to do this but feel like I make men uncomfortable. I wouldn’t ask the first or second date but ask when I feel like, on my side anyways, I am connecting with the person and want to see more...

[@lean84]

20 years ago things were waaaay different. Nowadays wanting to have a commited relationship is frown upon. You are going to be seen as too conservative. That is what is going on here, is not only the age difference between them, is gen x vs gen z, they just cannot understand each other

[@amdiary7]

@@abase6118 if they are uncomfortable when you say this it’s because they aren’t really interested in you and aren’t serious about you, that’s as simple as that.

[@sademouton7391]

Well to be fair the guy said on his channel that he was clear upfront with his intentions for the relationship

[@OaklandMind]

This will be my and my partner in 18 years. ;-) yay.

[@jefflabbecomedy]

"Do you think I'm beautiful?" "Well, you know, you on time." ☠️☠️☠️

[@arriibacon531]

😂😂😭😭

[@marcusplenty1153]

I hear Pierre Xo is actually a massive fan of you guys. Im sure he'll watch this vid

[@itsathi6055]

he commented on the last one

[@dag66]

Pierre just watched this video and uploaded it to his instagram story 6 minutes ago , lol

[@cesarnsanchez]

Aba n preach and Pierre XO is all I ever watch on KZbin

[@songofthefierce9647]

Love both channels

[@Cjiscj777]

@@songofthefierce9647 Same 🙌

[@Balance43]

we're watching a video of people watching a video of people watching themselves in a video

[@tatianaoblomova9696]

Metamodernism?

[@kc3654]

Deeeep

[@cluthecurator]

Inception 😂😂😂

[@mossadon]

@@tatianaoblomova9696 Post post metamodernism. actually...i'm starting to think those conspiracy theories about the Large Hadron Collider messing with time may be onto something but it's a lot more subtle than they could ever think it is... Where stuck circling around our own past without being able to create a future and move in it. We're stuck in some sort of cosmic introspection !

[@mesajah733]

The main question is “ who is watching you”?????

[@DLBMOS]

He represents her youth... That's why it's so hard to let him go...

[@critiquemytechnique1135]

Nah fam, she liked his stroke game

[@he-mememan359]

@@critiquemytechnique1135 Indeed, she's in her mid-40s, she hadn't felt it laid down like that in decades.

[@Darkfaderalert]

“We cry in the dark. We don’t even wanna see our own reflection” that’s the truest shit I’ve ever heard seeing yourself crying is the funniest shit ever😂😂

[@shaneiapearson6977]

What lol!!🙄😂😂

[@marybodnar4749]

She actually sounds like someone who is constantly on pain...like someone is twisting her leg in a 360° rotation.

[@mokane86]

Yes. Poor girl in that sense. When they say that they talked to him she immediately reveals she is still desperate in love with him with her reaction.

[@Lici-ks6gh]

@@mokane86 only thing is, this is not a girl anymore.. She's over 40

[@maggiepaul5911]

Lol

[@YONCE8701]

EXACTLY!!!! THAT +HER REFUSAL 2GET IT & THE STALKER VIBE.....😬 SHE IS IN HER 40S SHE WILL NEVER GET IT AND THATS SAD (well for men in her future) Goodluck✊🏾

[@GnosisDharma]

There is hormones that is released in the body when we fall in love. It can take up to 2 years to get these hormones out of the system. We don't know her history and why she is so attached to him. Anyway people who are depressed or are about to fall into depression can fall in this love trap. I know I did when I was 19, the guy leaded me on and then just let me fall, it was horrible and even if he treated me as trash I still had this imagination in my head that he was this and that but his actions just showed he was not really the one I feel in love with, I feel in love with who I thought he was. I just said to myself I need to get over this as fast as I can, I dealt with faced the facts, but overriding the feelings with logic was not easy, I was able to get over fairly quickly. I had so hard time concentrating on anything, I talk to friends and realized they were not my friends because they did not want to help me get over this. I just let them go. Probably this woman have some issues and this boy made her happy probably because he was very kind to her. I would not be so fast to be so hard on her. But she probably should date her own age and I think that about everyone. Myself I refused to feel like that for anyone ever again. It is not real love this intensity even if movies tell us that. Today I have been happily married to a really kind man for over 12 years.

[@masseiy]

Her issue was she wasn’t honest with herself. Some people aren’t with that hookup life and need to clear about that up front.

[@IkesPimpHand]

Too many bad experiences with women who thought\pretended to be aloof and uninterested in anything romantic,only to backtrack quickly and then accuse YOU of being manipulative when you made it clear from th get go that it wouldn't amount to a relationship. Personal experience.

[@loveschile7339]

Yup,exactly!

[@500dollarjapanesetoaster8]

She looks like an old, weathered version of Daisy Ridley.

[@MizMima]

Exactly, coz he clearly says that he doesn’t want to be in a relationship and commitment and admits that he doesn’t love her nor want to use words he doesn’t understand or feel … he was upfront with her, she wasn’t with herself.

[@360.Tapestry]

she was trying to convince herself that she could still keep up with the younger crowd

[@montanalantos9228]

I understand her slightly cause in European countries you automatically assume you’re dating if you do stuff a couple would

[@fredleeland2464]

Definitely cultural differences

[@6thgraderfriends]

I'm American and I feel the same way. If we're going out on dates together and continuing to do so...we're dating. What's so hard about that????

[@MizMima]

Regardless of what “dating” means, it’s a universal clear fact when someone says they don’t want to be in a relationship or commit … that’s just clear unless you choose to disregard that and force the other person who was honest with you to feel something they just can’t …

[@roooooin]

Not my Europe! 😂 It’s funny seeing many people comment about her being from Europe and it’s still 1932 over here. Some parts maybe, but not West Europe.

[@zohramartini9425]

We dont even ask to someone if she/he is a bf/gf. It is automatically assumed when you kiss ^^

[@toibeacham3863]

She’s too old for him, but he seem more mentally mature than her. It sounds like she still needs help...

[@360.Tapestry]

she's from a different generation, culture, and life phase than him

[@zacharyradford5552]

He’s far from mentality mature. He had to give this long twisting answer for something a mature person would be upfront about.

[@yayastedi]

@@zacharyradford5552 exactly. A mature person doesn’t beat around the bush when they’re asked whether they love you or not

[@kennypowers2341]

@@zacharyradford5552 he knows what he is doing

[@ggggg-fo2xq]

@@zacharyradford5552 oh yeah? a mature person that has tact and doesn't want to hurt someone's feelings does.

[@novelmartinez6154]

This guy looks like a manga character

[@internetspectator6051]

looked more like a drag queen to me

[@EthosO76]

He looks like a good fucking reason to be gay.

[@asparrow9876]

@@EthosO76 I'm straight and there's something attractive to him I can't really fully assess but you know its there pulling you in. Its weird.

[@gliver2549]

He has make up on? Like a asian jack sparrow

[@sjappiyah4071]

😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭

[@Dr3Mc3Ninja]

I mean, I feel for her, but at some point, you have to take responsibility for misunderstanding the situation. He didn't ask her to be his girlfriend, so you cannot assume anything. I am cringing so hard. It was so obvious that she was madly in love with him, and it was not reciprocated. She was blind to him and his feelings.

[@spinmaster6995]

DrGrukar McNinjaSixthGun Like with Juvia and Grey

[@SHAWNJX]

SpinMaster ayyeeeee fairy tail

[@stephi6792]

Literally an X got abusive when I was of the opinion that there was no relationship because they didn't ask or clarify there being a relationship in the first place. You can't just expect someone to know your mind if you don't even say it! Some insane people out there.

[@SacramentalSims]

She was in love with the perception she had of him in her mind, not who he actually is.

[@flowerbloom5782]

Yeah she wasn’t listening to him. She was only seeing what she wanted to see.

[@AoCabo]

The people who wrote to her saying they thought "they're a good couple" are the same people who think The Notebook is a good romance movie.

[@silverdetectiveps]

I agree, the notebook starts off with the guy threatening a girl he doesn't know (who's already on a date) to commit suicide unless she goes on a date with him. Yes very romantic 🙄

[@missgolightly5488]

now that's a blasphemy. the notebook is a good chick flick romantic movie but this is a horrible couple lol

[@danoneall4013]

@@missgolightly5488 - Yeah right You believe Titanic was a romance but in reality it was a Horror movie 🎬

[@salineaddict9850]

@@danoneall4013 the Titanic was a comedy!

[@Bikinigirl05]

The guy is actually refreshing in his honesty. He actually was sincere and vocal about where he stood in this pairing. She should have appreciated his honesty and moved on if she wanted differently. I think in her mind perhaps thought things would change or she just couldn’t accept that he was not on the same level as her. He was not deceitful. She failed to either be receptive of his feelings or chose to ignore them.

[@streetmagik3105]

"Do you think i'm beautiful?" -"Well... you're on time." 🤣🤣

[@msqueenlyminded7579]

Sooooo let me understand this. They spent a few months together, she is OBSESSED WITH WHAT SHE SEES, (like fan and celebrity) instead of learning him and deciding if he's good for her. But committed herself emotionally without any confirmation he shares the same feeling is called playing yourself and that's what she did, she ❤❤'s him but really doesn't know him. She's in love with the fantasy of him in her mind......

[@BlakeZeb]

W2 Ayy nice generalizing.

[@TryingtofindTamahine]

W2 not really but okay

[@briannab4770]

@W2 - That's rather generalizing. I experience men who do that with me all the time! But I know that's not indicative of all men.

[@lyartbane2115]

I definitely get that. However I also think he is more at fault here. There's no way he couldn't have known. That she very much believed they were a full blown couple. Not some kind of intangible, undefinable, non entity bullshit. I suspect that he was just in it for sex, an easy lay. Which makes him a piece of shit. Sooo many people, not just men but people are very non committal these days. And a lot of people get hurt because of that.

[@dejarobinson7212]

Lyart Bane But even in the video he kept voicing that he preferred the absence off conventional relationship. He even referenced an argument they had previously about it. If he’s willing to tell millions of people he’s not her boyfriend and likes it that way, there’s no way he hadn’t told her that himself. Notice how she wasn’t surprised by anything that Pierre said. She already knew how he felt but she kept trying to push her wants on him. Imagine having a hard time developing feelings and then when you meet someone you mesh with, they keep telling you that you’re in a relationship with him. Its kind of creepy in any circumstance for you to tell somebody that you’re dating them, even if they’ve voiced that they’re not comfortable with that. But idk. I don’t watch either of them so who knows who was worse in that relationship. I just think the woman is too obsessive (fell in love in 2 months and tried to manipulate him into labeling their relationship several times)

[@meggles2188]

I feel like she's still stuck on him...her reaction while he was speaking was like she still somewhat idolized him, whereas he was being polite.

[@vaporeon1606]

Am I heartless/weird for not understanding why they’re crying over a fling that lasted only 2 months and has been over for 2 years?

[@ronniesnakehissiii9413]

Probably the passion was hot n heavy. He was 24 & she was 42 in the first video. Been in a similar situation. I THOUGHT I was mature (I was for my age) being 25 with a TON of testosterone flowing, she was 40, knew what she wanted & was apparently still near her sexual "peak" but had life experience, maturity & a body of a woman 15+ years her junior! As a young dude (now closing in on her age when we were together), it was AMAZING compared to girls closer to my own age. His chin quivering at the end was probably due to the growth he's had in 2 years (which is probably a lot still being in his 20's) and seeing, speaking with her for the first time since then. If you're young and a guy, a May-December romance can be pretty incredible if you happen to stumble into one!

[@behabtwa]

i dont know how to answer that. i am in the same situation, it lasted a year only half of it was beautiful. still waiting, which is absolutely ridiculous. the part that is waiting is not rooted in love but attachement in so many ways. why i dont know.

[@Price8903]

I’m on the same page as you. I don’t get stuck in the past like that over ppl esp years in

[@360.Tapestry]

because maybe they were confronted with the mistakes they made or how they treated somebody wrong

[@iStorm-my5fp]

Yes

[@emyemyemyyyyy]

I feel bad for this woman because i have been in her position, but I have also been in the dude's as well. Neither of them are bad people, but they clearly didn't want the same thing. Pierre actually has a youtube channel and talked about this whole thing extensively. It was very interesting and insightful.

[@lelelew2735]

I have to disagree only because the person in the guys situation is very vague. We as people have this expectancy out of everyone to " get the hint" but not everybody gets this hint lol in fact when you are in love your blind so you can't see anything. The only way to break the trance is blunt honesty and coincidentally the person being vague not feeling the same just don't care or respect you enough to give you that so you can move on. It's sad. And I personally think it's selfish your purposely being vague because you love the attention and it feeds your ego that someone is that crazy about you which in fact in that scenario makes you a bad person.

[@yaq-yaq]

@@lelelew2735 The problem is that he said he was clear about not wanting anything serious from the get-go, she just didn't accept that and pursued the relationship anyways, probably hoping that he'd change his mind eventually. If you're looking for a serious relationship with someone when they're not interested in that, then you're setting yourself up for disappointment.

[@MizMima]

@@lelelew2735 He clearly says that he doesn’t want to be in a relationship and commitment and admits that he doesn’t love her nor want to use words he doesn’t understand or feel … he was upfront with her, she wasn’t with herself and ended up being clingy and wanting him to change somehow.

[@KairoMontano]

She's not a teenager. I don't buy it.

[@ALT-vz3jn]

@@KairoMontano exactly. At her age she should have been able to see it right away. She obviously has mental health challenges when it comes to healthy relationships.

[@songofthefierce9647]

People should just be upfront about their goal in a relationship. If you want marriage, friends with benefits, one night stand, take things slow and see where they go... Just make that clear. If anyone in thinking after reading this "why would I want to do that?" you're probably the type that leads people on heartlessly. Get real and be straightforward.

[@asethegreat6611]

I totally agree 💯

[@IkanariPh]

Yeah the -I don't want a label is open to any interpretation

[@fefe5205]

Take things slow and see where it goes is still vague though 😕 Especially when you’ve established that your interested in that person and they have attractive qualities. I agree though 😩.

[@SISTAGURL]

Facts

[@tizzbabe4386]

I agree. i was talking to a guy in high school and i liked him but he told my friend he did not like me at all and i guess he was expecting for my friend to tell me but she waited like 7 months to tell me. The whole time i was giving this guy my undivided attention and when i confronted him after she told me he said he liked what i was doing and didnt see a point in telling me. WTF. People like him are sad. Edit* and my ex friend

[@ZacharyEvansStarTrekfan]

"Do you think I'm beautiful?" "Well, you're on time!" DAMMIT PREACH!!!😂😂😂😂

[@sarasklarcikova7959]

Pierre really saved the phone call part that could've been extremely uncomfortable but he handled it well those are some real conversation/social skills

[@bw1615]

I feel like her being a fan first is why she felt such a strong connection early on. She probably thought she knew everything about him through his content which most of us know isn’t the whole person. She then got in a relationship with him already having this glorified image of him in her head. Couple that with the fact that at 24 lots of people don’t know fully what they want, she was set up to fail from jump.

[@Scrubermensch]

I blame it on all this dumb mid 20 ppl. I'm a 23 guy and I know damn well what I want and how I commit to relationships. To the point I'd rather settle with an older lady who KNOWS that she wants something to last forever than a little girl who is bouncing her way to happiness. Using age as excuse to "just have fun" is harmful, dumb and immature, for both man and women. Either you are a mature emotionally stable person that knows what you want or you're a hurricane creating messes and harm the way you walk just because you can't commit and act like a grown ass adult. That shit is outrageous.

[@XanStephP]

@@Scrubermensch Yes Luis!!! Tell them!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@Flowerpower2407]

@@Scrubermensch true true but unfortunately society tells us young people are mostly immature and even more so young men maturing later in life and so if you get caught up in their mess it’s your fault which shouldn’t be the case because it really isn’t that case around the world but in some places.

[@summers9052]

@@Scrubermensch dude but that’s YOU. im glad you’re more mature and you’d enjoy settling down, but let other 20 something people figure their shit out on their own time. she most definitely knew what she was getting into when she started dating him and her being the older one in the relationship, she should’ve left if the lack of commitment or labels truly hurt her instead of lying to herself. he was honest and upfront about what he wanted and how he wanted it in the video, she was simply in denial. at the end of the day, you can’t judge people for how long it takes them to figure themselves out and settle down.

[@summers9052]

@@Scrubermensch also your brain is not fully developed until age 25 regardless. some people mature emotionally much slower and trauma also factors into that. you don’t know the people you’re generalizing and demonizing whilst placing yourself on a pedestal. that’s not very emotionally mature 🗿

[@NinjaCentral313]

this is a Sakura & Sasuke type relationship, the girl only sees what she wants to see, it's only about him and how she thinks of his value but not as an actual person

[@winterrose9006]

Yet somehow they ended up together in Boruto. Personally it didn't make sense to me, the only reason I can see Sasuke with her is to use her to carry out the Uchiha blood, but he has too much respect for her to use her like that.

[@SSJ_REEF]

Winter Rose I’m not really sure if Sasuke has any respect for her.

[@missanyone7409]

Love the fact that you compare real life people which anime characters 😅💕

[@eat.travel.play.5947]

Miss Anyone Real life people made anime characters.

[@brownie3275]

Y'all need to read the novels.

[@zamiel3]

It's not one person’s fault when the other person only hears what they want to hear.

[@she-devil294]

*Aba & Preach* : "Certain accents from northern Europe, for example a german accent, make people sound like a James Bond villain." *Me, a German* : "Sat's nott trru att all, _Mr. Bond_ !" 😈

[@shaneiapearson6977]

😆😁

[@bradleypenrith]

I sure he meant Eastern Europe😂

[@Netherwolf6100]

You know.... I kinda wanna say some really horrible stuff so I get pinned to the top, then edit my comment so it offers you guys praise so the top comment is a positive one.

[@k9blazesensation]

Bro this is actually genius lmao

[@indiashante1560]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@bigmoisture69]

I'm soo gonna do this now lol.

[@lowtiercharacter]

@@bigmoisture69 ya name coo

[@Robiness]

Do it

[@kvarley87]

He came off so bad in that vid. I actually started watching his content afterwards and he seems cool as shit.

[@indiashante1560]

He really is though

[@joannasaadati8810]

Ya he seems lovely lol

[@justahuman9273]

Yep, he is not what others might think of him, i think he is indeed very down to earth and is always trying to better himself and finding a balance in everything. I like him.

[@weekendgetawaywithme]

He came off ‘so bad’ and that compelled you to watch his videos. That’s interesting.

[@user-le3dw1yl7l]

15 Minute Workout sometimes you want to give a person a second chance. You can’t always go off the first impression.

[@madkvideo]

The mind of a 16 years old girl in the body of a fourty-something years old woman

[@krassiable]

She is not getting him, due to age and culture differences ...

[@eveast2556]

at least the age difference should be switched at least it will be more acceptable

[@genretypebeats4612]

It's not that the signs aren't there. Its that in today's society toxic relationships have been normalized

[@emoo2342]

I don't know that it's a "today's society" thing. Toxic relationships have been normal in many cultures for a long time--I think shows like this just make them more visible.

[@nunya2587]

Bruh people used to marry children, beat their wives, and have secret families. Society has not normalized toxic relationships

[@nunya2587]

@Cancel Culture Doesn't exist because toxic relationships exist does not mean they are normalized by society.

[@se.i.4393]

@@nunya2587 casual 'hook ups' weren't normalized I think

[@chrisduma]

Still waiting on Pierre’s comment, Personally I feel for the lady, she only sees things from one side while the guy tries to balance the two and find a middle ground.

[@joannasaadati8810]

It's easy to be objective when you're not really that invested.

[@ryanbrown938]

That's usually how it is

[@maruaguero4928]

Pierre did a video in which he explained his perspective on this entire experience

[@noonston]

Yeah thats all relationships unfortunately

[@333Vampirewillrule33]

He's addressed this so many times, as well as other topics on this subject. If you'd like to hear his side, he has a channel. Other than that, just let this die man. Both of them are in hella pain and still shows

[@chantalhartley2403]

As a women, I wasn’t upset that he didn’t love or reciprocate her feelings. What upset me was that he was being unclear. Instead of answering the questions bluntly, he would evade them. I think he still wanted the benefits of the relationship even if that meant she would remain deluded.

[@TheFatalcrest]

Lol as a guy the second he opened up with vague answers, it immediately seemed like he was trying to desperately avoid a commitment while trying not to end up seeming to be using her. Perhaps he really is a undefining type, but I feel like if your hanging around a person for.months, banging them, for months, that's a relationship and it should be properly labeled. If it's not, to me it's a waste of time, energy and passions.

[@yvonnewilson2242]

Y'all need to watch Pierre's video about this. He made it very clear to her and even said in this video what his boundaries were, and she kept violating.

[@ne0nmancer]

You should fip the genders on this, because if it was an older man pressuring a young woman into a deeper commitmenent than she's currently comfortable with because he's afraid that he's washed up and is trying to lock her up, you'd probably be empathetic to her. Of course a guy in his early 20s is gonna be aprehensive about being in a relationship with an older woman, she's older and should have the maturity to understand the situation and break it off.

[@orls9068]

She's 40 he is 24, she should know better! He didn't want to commit, she should have left, he is 24, why would he shack up with a 40 year old 😂

[@orls9068]

@@ne0nmancerAgree

[@eyme290]

I think only people who have experienced that kind of unrequited infatuation (it’s not love) will recognize it when they see it. It was very cringey to watch because she so badly wanted something she was never going to get. This guy is still figuring himself out. Figuring out what he likes… and it’s not her. & she was too emotional to see clearly

[@drenchedinblack894]

I think she has some attachment issues that she needs to deal with, not gonna lie

[@ChaosoneX]

While that's not in doubt, IMO, Pierre did her no favors by dating her, knowing she wanted something serious, and he wasn't onboard with that.

[@incogcheeto9322]

Her emotions are not his responsibility.

[@SantosAl]

@@incogcheeto9322 It is basic human decency to care for one another, especially if he is having sex with her. Her emotions isn't his fault, but if his actions or inactions makes it worse he should have ended it, which it seems like he did in the end.

[@incogcheeto9322]

@@SantosAl I get that. But at the same time he, or she doesn't have to do that. It sucks but people get used. If you invest into something that's false, that's your fault not the other persons.

[@SantosAl]

​@@incogcheeto9322 They should be doing it as I wrote before, decent people would end the relationship. However I agree that there are a lot of people that use people for their own selfish pleasures, and people should learn how to deal with these types. The issue is that people with attachment issues aren't able to really understand when the dynamics in a relationship turn toxic (and sometime they pursue it cause of familiarity), saying that it is their "fault" when they don't necessarily have the capacity to maneuver these issues is somewhat of a shallow view, though I agree that they need to do better.

[@hopelesspandora4195]

fam, she's still in love, 2 month relationship; 2 years later.. incredible.

[@joanbaczek2575]

That’s what happens to woman destroyed by a narcissist

[@hopelesspandora4195]

@@joanbaczek2575 why would you put the woman in a position of weakness, automatically like that tho?

[@maocharlisme]

I've never had a romantic relationship in my adult or adolescent life and I've stayed in love for years. Some people are also quite dispositioned like this and if you do have a strong bond with someone and are introverted or reclusive and don't easily connect with people you also need something to combat the loneliness I guess... I've developed so much over my 27 years in living with myself and by myself and barely any time connecting deeply and building long and lasting relationships with new people. Most things in life in their core I had to do by myself because my parents were seperated from when I was two years old and I was always going back and forth between them and only got a half sister when I was 10 with whom I do connect deeply and dearly but we do are very autonomous and independant in relation to eachother. So when I do meet someone who is special to me and strikes up these feelings it typically gets really intens and I don't blame myself for that. I am used to taking my own course so if I see another ship I truly want to sail together with then that is unique and I don't lose them out of my sight for a long time because I know that things don't just magically happen like that. I am also so much my own person who doesn't want to adapt in order to fit in that I don't easily meet people I can keep connecting with for a long period of time. I don't really like a lot of people on a deeper level honestly and I also don't feel like I'm really being liked by many people on a deep level myself. And I don't enjoy spending a lot of time on the superficial.

[@elianny9187]

That can happen. People can affect you deeply, the problem is that she seems like she cant let go.

[@lyndonbauer1703]

two words: Alpha Widow.

[@mizznickkyizcool]

Am I beautiful? "Well you're on time" I screamedddddddd

[@paigeturner2055]

Could you explain? I don't get it...

[@curiousseal5960]

Watching this video, as a person with a German background, I feel that there are cultural differences between this woman and this man. I really think that the age difference means that she grew up with different ideas about dating and relationships.

[@jazzimilz]

I was WAITING for ya'll to do an update!!! Pierre got hella crap for the original video and I was so confused because clearly they BOTH were super immature about the relationship, her more so. He was upfront and she was creating a dream world in her head about them.

[@impendingeuphoria8802]

really? most comments i saw were downing her and boosting pierre up. Saw lots of ppl commenting how immature she is and comments on her age. I saw lots of comments complimenting his maturity, style, and voice.. which if im being honest i dont think shes as bad as everyone is painting her out to be. Nothing wrong with being emotionally vulnerable; she just has to be more selective

[@silentangel56]

@@impendingeuphoria8802 It probably depends on when you first saw it. When the first vid came out people were praising her and bashing Pierre. When the 2nd vid came out and Pierre made a vid about it people were able to understand his perspective and started bashing her instead

[@krystalfloods6197]

Yeah it was crazy then they were bashing him! He was honest the whole time

[@homersimpson4379]

impending euphoria It depends on the time. The older comments weren't supportive of pierre.

[@jazzimilz]

@@impendingeuphoria8802 Yea, I think what the other replies said to you are true. At first everyone was bashing him. & I totally agree there is NOTHING wrong with being emotionally vulnerable, that's not the issue. She was not listening to her partner & she was trying to create a relationship that he said he did not want. That's a recipe for disaster for her AND him.

[@blayne314]

My favourite part is when they pan over to him while she is expressing her love and he is clearly blissfully jamming to some music while sporting a small benign smile. He didn't even know what he was in for.

[@olymolly3637]

He was/is more mature than her even by that point in time & he already knew what he himself was up to (even if he couldn't make the relationship to be official), so he let her confess her heart out. Thing was, their waves just don't align. She couldn't catch him even if she voodooed him. He was/is that diplomatic, even if he couldn't feel the same.

[@lg8159]

Sorry I had to react. As as Dutch woman, her reaction and assumptions are totally valid. In my country if you see each other exclusively, you are in a relationship. Period. We don’t do dating like Americans do

[@yvonnewilson2242]

It doesn't matter. He actually said he didn't want anything serious. He said it in this video and his response videos. This is NOT an American or German thing. EVERYONE has boundaries. She didn't respect them.

[@NarrowPath_7]

Which is the correct way in general. Not to assume into relationship or love though. I think the problem with the American and modern culture is they assume things goes one way. But the lady to me shouldve said her intentions from the jump, but I think she's a bit naive to go looking for that in a 24 year old. That just screams play me

[@GoreTuzkPT]

except it's not an assumption, it's an imposition

[@Theo-vn9hm]

@@NarrowPath_7 She didn't get played in the slightest, if you watch Pierre's video on this he was clear from day one that he wasn't looking for a romantic relationship

[@NarrowPath_7]

@@Theo-vn9hm read properly before you comment

[@Jay.Laurent]

"bad man nuh cry, bad man nah put on nuh makeup too so.." IM FUCKING CRYING LMAOOOO

[@RushellKB]

Their energy didn’t match from the beginning. Not sure how they got that far....

[@jana2929]

Probably it was too hard for him to say no at the very beginning or maybe she was not so pushy at the early stage of this "relationship"

[@laraking804]

Well they didn’t. It only lasted 2 months

[@tinybubbles8444]

Probably babied him 😂😂

[@peraltaman]

He probably just enjoyed that older V and before you knownit she was hooked n he just looked around

[@TheMissiIe]

Still cant get over how good Preach's tattoo is

[@buckwheat6245]

You've never seen Jidenna, have you?

[@bellegoals1622]

I always think that too. I’m like that tattoo is clean AF 😎

[@MadKazZzZzZ]

Buckwheat just looked this up. That’s INSANE.

[@korie4198]

Great artwork. You can tell that he really tskes care of his skin too, it's so shiny that the black ink really pops.

[@TheMissiIe]

@@buckwheat6245 that Polynesian tribe style looks good on everyone

[@Janna_Ash]

I had a couple of friends in this situation years ago. I think the problem is words not matching actions, and different interpretations of what a relationship consists of. The friends of mine were FWB. The female one told me it was *like* they were together. Because they spent time together outside of messing around. But the male friend was completely disconnected despite the time together. I told him he should stop messing with her once he knew how she felt, because she still didn’t get it.

[@bitchface100]

Ah man. Wish I'd seen this when I needed. I was stuck in an abusive relationship. Took a whole lot of therapy to make myself able to even view the bad as bad. That's kind of the problem though. I loved the person for certain characteristics, e.g. unique, outgoing, confident, outspoken. The issues that first came up were small, and unfortunately get categorised into their 'good' traits. The things that I valued in that person ended up masking the shit behaviour. Therapy made me pick it apart. It's weird to think that my ability to understand abuse was impaired, but part of me knew, but psychologically I always blamed myself. If you're experiencing this, be strong. Find help, fix yourself. If they're not the one they'll never *be* the one

[@koltonnanninga577]

Pierre wasn't abusive tho ..

[@yoooyoyooo]

Manipulation is abuse too. Using someone to get what you want and knowing in advance you won't reciprocate is abuse. He was pertending he is young and doesn't know what he wants. He knew EXACTLY what he wanted and made a vulnerable person suffer just because he wanted to satiate his desire. She was playing too naive for her age that's her mistake. I guess she wanted to belive in love.

[@VioletIsBulletproof]

@@123pb pierre xo. He has a youtube channel. Go watch his reflection video on this. He actually was verrrry upfront about all of that from the start. She kept starting fights and trying to bully him into something he wasnt mentally ready for. I highly recommend u watch his vid cuz it opens ur eyes to some verrry fcked up parts of thr story that wasnt told.

[@he-mememan359]

​@@VioletIsBulletproofWomen scorned don't want to understand the thoughts and feelings of the other side, they want to imagine that their thoughts, feelings, and intentions were as malicious as they can be.

[@hiwagusu]

"The problem is, she was living on one dimension, he was living between multiple" True, but it sure made my day 😂😂😂👌

[@ricardoguanipa8275]

they looked like a couple from 90 days Fiancee,

[@thelauravuitton1150]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@nicolelollipops8268]

Ricardo Guanipa why is this so accurate

[@SakiMayaAzure]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Dayonetheone]

I kinda agree

[@iadesigns]

Bahhaaahaaaa 🤣😂🤣

[@Blue-ds2bo]

And THIS is why I tell people that I'm not responsible with the version of ME that you fall in love with. Dont pick and choose sides of me to love, love me entirely. I felt like she was more of a fan than a lover

[@catface875]

It is a really weird phenomenon how 2 people can be interpreting a situation completely different ways.

[@anonamous6968]

She fell he didn't. He liked the sex and maybe liked her company but wasn't in love. Some people use vagueness in order to continue the sexual relationship even though they know they are not in love. They tell the person just enough to string them along. Just enough to give them hope.

[@FranklinCrew]

Him.

[@leonie7754]

Yeah I been on the other end of that before. Became a shadow of myself, a clingy, pathetic girl waiting for her daily phone call to be summoned again. I'm glad i got myself out of that and rebuilt myself as a stronger person. Like hell i'll let anyone do that to me again - i won't let myself become that. Having said that, I can't be angry at the guy, I am really only angry at myself for not being stronger, standing my ground and noping out of there when things got vague and uncomfortable and the excuses came as to why he didn't want to be with me, 'but he liked me, just the future is uncertain' ect - just enough to keep me hanging. I could have had a really good few years doing fun things with different people, rather than following one guy round like a lost puppy. I learnt being obsessed with someone is not love. Thankfully, that was over a decade ago and i can put it down to immaturity. Now happily married with someone I do love more than anything.

[@blubei]

Described a relationship I had with a guy to the tee, except I didn't realize until a year later. He was just sweet and affectionate enough where I thought he just needed time to be sure, but looking back, I can see that there was no real progression. When I left, we were basically in the same position as when we started.

[@ddy7323]

I din't think he really did that they were friends with benefits and he didn't want a relationship, and he decided to stop when he realized she was too deep in it.

[@kj3776]

I've been here also. It's one of the reasons I don't freak out about people not texting back. I'm like obviously you have a life and so do I even if it's just watching Netflix

[@alexanderthunder7623]

This woman is still into him. She's trying hard to laugh at words that aren't even jokes no matter how you try to make them funny.

[@MM-fs7mt]

That could be true but I also know a lot of people laugh when trying to break tension.

[@alexanderthunder7623]

@@MM-fs7mt That is true.

[@2absolutelynots]

She has attachment issues. I know from experience, just seeing that she really thinks she likes him is what shows it.

[@AG-ev3hj]

@@2absolutelynots. It's a cultural issue she's not being immature

[@Cucababy5]

@@2absolutelynots or maybe she feels like she won't get anything like him again because she's at an older age which makes it harder

[@ronniebar3857]

He actually had told her multiple times he didn't want a relationship but Pierre xo is a cool dude great content. She seemed to still have feeling's for him and isn't over it.

[@JennyFB1281]

Just because two people look good together doesn't mean they're a good couple.

[@VexingGrinPresents]

10:07 "Do you think I'm beautiful? Well, you know .. you're on time." New favorite Preach line

[@Michelle-fr1fw]

Came in the comments to find this 😂

[@tiltedhalo9888]

Love it .

[@MrQuietstorm75]

He's got some Prince characteristics.

[@enslavedemperor97]

In eastern europe when we date same person 3-4 time we consider to be in relationship. Just people in demoralized west cant get it.

[@RavenVonK]

Eastern Europeans get committed to someone they don't know is relationship material?

[@jamiewulfyr4607]

I think this is an American thing.Western Europe is more like Eastern Europe in this respect.

[@arriibacon531]

@@jamiewulfyr4607 not even because they are Canadian

[@jamiewulfyr4607]

@@arriibacon531 *Sigh* yes, Aba & Preach are Canadian. However,I'm saying that US citizens tend toward the dating habits I'm referring to.

[@BetheyDawn12]

I think as a whole it’s a European thing, I’m British and “Would you like to go out with me” is asking to be in a relationship. Dating or courting is just the early stage of being in a relationship, which you then solidify by marriage (traditionally) or living together. I think culturally it gets confusing as even the American culture of dating is starting to come over here and gets a lot of people confused.

[@remiemelie]

I NEED two small "Aba n Preach" on my shoulders, giving me that constructive feedback. They on some factual shit, always making sense and fkn goofy as hell. Damn, good content guys! 👏👏😂

[@empacotador]

Imagine you look to someone and they just say "dont go there woman, he's look like an asshole!"

[@rey_nemaattori]

I'd probably get taken into a mental institution really fast bursting out in laughter because of their comments and feedback...probably at the most inappropriate circumstances xD

[@shaunyjimenez9637]

We need the funko pops

[@user-bp4bu1dw9q]

Like two sarcastic devils, one on each shoulder, instead of boring angel and demon. Know what, I want that too))

[@dickrichard5579]

Naw, because preach would be on my shoulder while I’m considering saying something risky in public, and his laugh would make me laugh, and I’d get in trouble

[@KWU_369]

Just a simple message to people if you are dealing with someone who doesn't want to define a relationship that means they don't view you as relationship material. They like certain traits about you but there is a big red flag for them that even if they decide to go forward, will arise later.

[@CathDaddy]

This is the truest shit I’ve ever read

[@TheNemmiemi]

XIII it’s true for the person being strung along with vagueness. There’s no reason to settle for an undefined relationship just because your friend with benefits may or may not want to become official later on. Too many people make these mistakes and end up being takes advantage of by proxy. It’s important for people like this to learn to accept reality and move on from the time wasters. It’s better for everyone involved

[@BlakeZeb]

Nemmie Mi like XIII said, just because you’ve experienced it, doesn’t make it true in all cases. It’s something to watch for, and you definitely don’t have to wait around if that’s not what you want to do. But not everybody is just wasting time and not interested in a relationship. My best friend just bought a house with his girlfriend, they’ve been in a very strong relationship for 2 years now. But it started similar to this. He wasn’t ready to commit to the relationship yet, she was ready before he was but understood where he came from and didn’t constantly push it. They were like that for maybe 4 months or so before making it official. Same thing happened with my girlfriends brother. They didn’t define things or become official for like 6 months. They’ve been official for maybe a year or so, are very happy, and live with each other.

[@BlakeZeb]

Nemmie Mi Too many people also make the mistake of giving into the pressure of someone wanting a relationship before they know if that’s what they want, and spend a lot of time in a relationship they aren’t happy with, just to come to a bitter end. For me, I like to wait until I feel like somebody knows me a little deeper before I take on the responsibility of a relationship. If we’ve been talking for a month or 2, chances are they don’t know my flaws, my desires, what I really want out of life, etc. and I don’t know theirs. It’s okay to not commit to that. It’s also okay to not wait around if that’s not what you want.

[@Carolina922]

One thing I've learned is that there are two types of people when it comes to dating, and generally, neither one realizes that the other exists until there's a disconnect like this. There's the type that thinks that when you both act like you're in a relationship that means you're in one (kissing, cuddling, making out, having sex, spending a lot of time one-on-one, etc.) and no explicit "so, what are we" conversation ever enters their mind as a thing that they would have to do, because they don't understand that someone might act like they love them and behave like they're in a relationship without actually wanting one. The former don't date unless they already have feelings for the person and want commitment, otherwise what's the point? If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck.... It never occurs to them to question whether or not the other person is on the same page. Then there's the other type that performs those same actions, but believes that both partners aren't in a relationship until they both verbally declare it. In their mind, they're not ducks until they say they are, no matter how much they walk and quack like one, and that they can "walk" and "quack" with as many people as they like until that happens. One type declares a relationship in loving actions, one type declares it with words, and until there's a disconnect, neither one has any reason to think that the other exists. These two showcased that disconnect quite well.

[@rheakurokawa]

Exactly

[@sharan9993]

I have nothing more to add. Just wanted to say best insight on the whole thing. Great comment.

[@alexviolett]

I think the worst part about the two different types of dating (I definitely belong to the old school, so I'm type 1) is when they don't declare at the VERY BEGINNING what type of dating they are. This is how I ended up in a situationship that I thought I would never bring on myself. I had a conversation with a guy on the third date what kind of relationship we were looking for (closed, monogamous, committed). I even uttered a definition, which he agreed with! So I was like "cool, we are looking for the same stuff, let's proceed from there". Only for me to learn after ten dates (and passing the point of no return, which was self-evident from that definition) not only are we not together, we were never even exclusive! needless to say, I was in pure shock. Had he said that he belonged to type 2 and liked to explore his options longer, I would have terminated it right there and perhaps we might have hung out as buddies. But him agreeing with my definition, going along it all the time and then back-pedalling that we were never together and were just "dating" (I assume very casually, cause he was on one another date) is what truly triggered me. The only way I can see this kind of behavior is being led on and essentially lied to:(

[@flowerbloom5782]

@@alexviolett I am a type 2. I realized this after going out months with a friend. I say friend cause we’re initially said we were just friends and hanging out and I needed to hear we were on a date to confirm it. I agree being clear with your expectations is important and was the first mistake we made. We agreed to be friends but then started going out and doing couple things and I was unsure with how i felt about them until I realized I loved them as a person not romantic. I think communication is key and when we both sat down and talked about where we are at our feelings and our expectations gave us both closure. We ended up agreeing not to pursue each other and remain just as friends. We finally set clear boundaries.

[@PoliticalWonderland]

“I got second degree cringe” 🔥 😂

[@tizodd6]

They are way too hard on her. She fell for him; he didn't fall for her. Period. It happens. Doesn't make her "cringy" or apathetic. Just makes her someone who fell for someone who wasn't that into them.

[@mcmariahcareyfan200]

tizodd6 It was beyond “love”, it was infatuation.

[@amiedaniel1591]

True. Still cringy tho

[@The_Legend_Himself]

She was obsessed with him dude it’s unhealthy

[@alexanderjackson8389]

@@mcmariahcareyfan200 infatuation is passion without intimacy and commitment... all 3 together would make it love

[@IkanariPh]

Also because seeing what it should be a private conversation it's uncomfortable

[@daiki8594]

I'm tired of Preach bussing out his UK accent randomly alloww itt 😂😂

[@Ithrowdown]

Oi ! Let me be

[@loveydovey162]

allow him init

[@Belihoney]

Loooww it bredren

[@TheMadHatterx]

Low itttttttt. The guy kinda got the accent okay. A few moments went back.

[@1999jessjess]

how she was saying "he's my boyfriend" is like how kids become boyfriend and girlfriend the day they start talking haha. you see this exact thing in high school students.

[@52392daner]

She looks seriously unhinged when she sees him and laughs. I don't know if I'm crazy, but I think, if he had been in the room with her instead, she would have killed him.

[@krissybee2484]

This was just a fling. Yeah, sometimes with flings there can be strong feelings, but it’s kind of understood that it’s not a long term thing. It’s best to just keep expectations low and enjoy the vibes of the other person while it lasts. Don’t tolerate disrespect, but if someone doesn’t want something long term or serious, take what they’re offering or leave.

[@krystalfloods6197]

Exactly

[@channelcoconut6830]

Completely agree💕

[@nickhxc777]

As long as your honest and everyone cool. Its all good. Grown to prefer that fwb arrangement. Stress free. no expectations.

[@danierupieru5640]

At this moment we gotta meme Aba. He’s been asking for it at this point😭

[@mwansakanyanta2440]

Please do

[@mwansakanyanta2440]

Shit would be hilarious 😂😂😂

[@joannasaadati8810]

Especially when he gives the camera his creepy smile... 😂

[@liaminelli9085]

Nfs

[@liaminelli9085]

& a laugh ringtone

[@addo-ajjalani9046]

I feel like everyone is reading too much into this relationship and also are very judgmental of her. We dont know what exactly went on. He is very articulate and skillfull in the way he expresses himself, she on the otherhand isnt. It doesnt mean the realtionship was toxic it just simply didnt work. Like all of you calm down. We are acting as if we all are phycologist reading into stuff. Like no. Did you ever think that the reasonhe even stayed with her after knowing how she felt was because he enjoyed being adored and loved so much so in a way he used her emotionally for his validation? No. Or maybe she comes from a different culture where she wasnt capable to understand his ways so she didnt get it. Or maybe she was possessive and he a fuckboy... It doesnt matter. At the end they both seem fine and happy, thats all that matters.

[@altaisrs2857]

Ikr? People here are overdramatising things just because she called him her "boyfriend", which is pretty normal in European countries (because there is no such thing as "dating").

[@StreetfighterU]

@@altaisrs2857 I'm not sure where you got this from lol but that's so not true. When someone's dating, they will say "yeah we are dating" or "going out"

[@altaisrs2857]

@@StreetfighterU Lol I am from Europe lol that's where I am "getting this". "Dating" is an American thing.

[@ronniesnakehissiii9413]

People beat her up too much in the comments. Yeah, it was clearly a cultural disconnect between dating AND her not being as "articulate" w/ her feeling or whatever. She's Swiss, so I will assume English is her second or 3rd language. Many things were stacked against them from the get-go, age, culture, language. If he was 15 to 20 years older at the time, they met who knows how long they woulda lasted, but I'm certain it would be longer than 2-3 months. Same if she was 20 yrs younger and near his age.

[@Heena6790]

You make really good points.

[@netxtronallumiknightnagami8138]

From this I’ve learned that Preach is really good at analogies.

[@salineaddict9850]

He drops bars in like every video.

[@Ningnomaningnong]

Who the f just says "Oh....you guys broke up? That's rough. Wanna suddenly talk with each other to entertain us?" I'd say hell NO!

[@dontshowmyname9561]

Gotta get that money

[@alannashea6344]

The problem is that she is in love with him and he clearly doesn’t feel the same. HE loves the way she makes HIM feel about HIMself so he leaves her little tokens full of sweet words but with undertones of the truth, and deep down she knows the truth but she chooses to stay hoping he will change his mind but she’s really only hurting herself. This is beyond a toxic relationship, I would love to meet the girls who thought this was a cute couple when they weren’t even a couple lol

[@luck6315]

i think she has some really serious attachment and possessiveness issues

[@jeffwells641]

There's also the element of an older woman snagging an attractive young man. It makes her feel really good about herself, so she chases after it, but she wants something meaningful while he just wants to play around.

[@alannashea6344]

wanna bang chan? Oh for sure lol, she is definitely claiming him but he wants no attachment to her 😂

[@alannashea6344]

Jeff Wells I agree, there are so many elements to this. I’m just glad it’s finally over but it’s funny because the woman still seems stuck under his spell lol

[@luck6315]

@@alannashea6344 oh shit sorry i wanted to reply to another comment i dont know why it ended up here

[@FortuneSuzhi]

I just want to give her a hug. 🐣 God bless you, lady. I hope you're over this and are much better.

[@Crobin008]

Jubilee just, unapologetically, makes awkward content. Setting aside the emotional dynamics between the two of them, the whole premise of having someone meet up with a person that ghost them or meet up with someone you yourself have ghosted , 2 years ago, is just BEYOONNNNDDDD awkward. But as soon as someone mentions this and reference other videos....producers be like "WhY yOu bEInG MeANNN tO uS?!?"

[@h.peters]

Y'all Pierre has a KZbin channel where he actually addresses both videos. Do a reaction on that too. His channel is PierreXO.

[@EmoElmo007]

I watched it to get more of his take on the situation and after already kind of being on his side it just made me feel for him more.

[@Bibblesupremacy1992]

Emo Elmo they know. They are friends

[@Dayonetheone]

They know that already. Pierre is actually subscribed to their channel.

[@gajspalt]

Jubilee really milking this cow. Gotta get those clicks

[@believensee8621]

Aba & Preach....doing the same.

[@chrisdryer]

The relationship lasted for two months, and aged her 20 years.

[@keyanasmith131]

When you take into consideration that the video was filmed at month 2 of their relationship it makes since. And it makes him less of an asshole in the situation. Like how do you love someone after 2 months and be mad that they don't know how they feel about you yet?

[@ricardoguanipa8275]

Preach looking like The Hatian Roman Reigns

[@dontheavatar]

"Haitian Reigns" if you will

[@sasha-kaywallace4401]

ON POINT my g

[@solomon4332]

That whole situation was sad to watch. Sad all round.

[@AllysseMarie]

Abstract is the perfect word..”we’re seeing each other, but like what does seeing really mean? Can we still see each other if our eyes are closed? Seeing is overrated, we should still be able to connect without really seeing each other, let’s see other people and see how that goes for our seeing” can you see the spiral of confusion

[@Mystixspiral]

But he’s still growing , but her she’s like in her 40s and still doesn’t get it because she doesn’t understand lmao

[@CARTOONIVERSE1]

*Since when is 2-3 months a real relationship?* It's just a very-short try-out.

[@MiniMeags]

My first relationship only lasted 9.5 months yet my dumb motherfkn mind / heart STILL LOVES HIM 5 years on 😂

[@Megan-zz3xu]

@Will Herman surely the getting to know people part is before the relationship?

[@anthony8371]

You get longer xbox live free trials.

[@CARTOONIVERSE1]

@@anthony8371 - Good point.

[@AesthetixVB]

@@Megan-zz3xu I mean yeah if it started out with a friendship. But most people just met someone they're attracted to, and then they start "dating" and getting to know each other.. something like that you know.

[@AshleyMadisonsRight]

HE doesn’t get that if you sleep with someone than that’s what people in relationships do (old fashion thinking hence her age). SHE doesn’t get that since they weren’t in a relationship she shouldn’t have given it up and assumed they were. SHE doesn’t get “hooking up”.

[@nograviti2388]

Its just the she was a serial monogamist and he was a Tinder bro.. Those two types dont match. It has nothing to do with age.. I love sex but I am not a Tinder bro, I dont get anything out of banging loads women. I dont need that validation. Some men do or just find it fun. I found juggling multiple women exhausting and it always made me feel like a shit.. I find it interesting that he was the one who was getting teary eyed at the end. I always say when you get intimate with someone, a part of you always remains with that person. So despite all his sophistry, a part of him got caught up with her.. Anyway they just werent a good match..

[@Langley_Ackerman19]

@@nograviti2388 Tinderbro 😅 I learned something new today.

[@RavenVonK]

I didn't know they were having sex, I thought this was their first time seeing eachother after online dating.

[@THOMASCOLTON1]

It's just that he is immature & she rightfully believes adults seeing each other is being in a relationship.

[@summers9052]

@@THOMASCOLTON1 logically she’d be the immature one. he was open and honest about what he wanted and what he didn’t and she was in denial about it.

[@mattyoblobber]

Everyone ragging on her but she clearly genuinely likes him, it feels like the guy and this show are both dragging it out and shes getting messed up in the process all for the sake of entertainment and views. This doesn't seem fair.

[@haddingtoniangcp2464]

Fair ? Welcome to the Real world, dear.

[@mattyoblobber]

@@haddingtoniangcp2464 lol bore off, theres a difference between fairness in general and constructing prolonged hurt for entertainment.

[@StreetfighterU]

Nah she's just creepy

[@mattyoblobber]

@@StreetfighterU and he's not for getting her on this show to put her through more hurt publicly? okay

[@summers9052]

@@mattyoblobber did he force her on? no. at the end of the day she’s a VERY GROWN woman. he was clear about what he wanted and what he didn’t. she chose to deny it. my question to you is, why is the 30-40 something year old trying to pressure a 24 year old depressed artist to be with her when he’s said that’s not what he wants? her denial and refusal to accept that they don’t want the same things is what’s hurting her. he’s not dragging her along, she’s trailing him on her own.

[@noeinroad7294]

He was enjoying the companionship and benefits without commitment. She wanted a boyfriend. They were on different pages and story came to an end. Moral: Relationships can't last if you're not in agreement on the big things.

[@akilahjones9404]

I would agree.... Mr. Bond..

[@kevonlewis7019]

Yeezzz indeed

[@theoverunderthinker]

she seems like someone who is so desperate to find love (or so afraid that they will never find it again) that when they get a glimmer of it from another person, they try to hold onto it like grim death and end up smothering it. I have some sympathy for her because she is tragic, but not malicious. She wants to pour all of her love out over someone as well, she just is impatient to find a match. I think the guy did the best he could in the situation, but he couldn't fill up that need without sacrificing his life to it, so he got out eventually. I think he was never cruel to her and tried to be as kind as he could, but in the end they didn't want the same life.

[@ninarosewood3102]

100%

[@Heena6790]

This comment. Honestly, I see a lot of my previous self in her, I acted and believed the way she did towards Pierre towards someone I know. I’m glad I got out of it.

[@flowerbloom5782]

Yeah it’s not villian in this situation and it’s just people with problems not working out.

[@TomTrys]

The problem for me is that he knew what she wanted and expected, but he didn't want to give her that. Instead he complimented her and side stepped questions because he wanted to keep her around and in the hook. He should have found someone else that wanted something similar

[@panadominicana4917]

I’m with Pierre on this one Sis was tryna force him into a relationship so bad and he was beyond honest with his intentions