Getting Time Off from Work to Date!

Real fam, would you be down to get some extra days off to go on a date?

[@LibertineDeSade]

I know this is China, but instead of time off for dating the US needs to do better with time off for mental health.

[@melab5108]

Libertine DeSade 👏🏾👏🏾

[@meaganfloyd8161]

Yes absolutely!

[@lianet777]

Libertine DeSade preach woman!!!!! This country is going downhill. Look at all the school killings and all the killings in general.... we NEEDZ to prioritize mental health

[@snatched.8135]

I think the US has to do better with mental health services first. Because a week off is not gonna do any good to someone with Depression or Anxiety if they aren't receiving treatment. They're just gonna be sitting at home letting time fly by because they're too busy focusing on their problems. Then when they come back to work, THEY'RE STILL gonna have that anxiety/depression.

[@JoleneJadeMusic]

PRIORITIES. 👏🏾👏🏾

[@loved0128]

Can i get 8 days to go home and sleep, though😂😂😂 Forget dating....i be tired.

[@jenniferbullett7254]

👏👏👏

[@keondrajones4644]

😁😁😁right

[@isanaallday9744]

😁😂

[@misskayeleigh4378]

I'm trying to tell you lololololol!!! Hell I'm going on vacation...

[@Makeupbykimberlyp]

Yasssssss!!!

[@rosemaryngugi6328]

"You can be single and still have a life". When will nosy relatives ever get this? 😂

[@britbritnicole]

Rosemary Ngugi preach it’s tiring, annoying and makes me feel like i’m not good enough because I’m single. I don’t have to be married to a real woman or a good one.

[@rosemaryngugi6328]

@@britbritnicole Right! 😩 You are good enough.

[@britbritnicole]

Rosemary Ngugi 🙏🏾💕

[@teesceeo]

And most of them have relationships that I wouldn't want for myself.

[@rosemaryngugi6328]

@@teesceeo Exactly.

[@shashavengesayi6055]

“Makes women feel like there’s more power in marriage than being an individual” Speak on it Loni. I’ve noticed that in countries where women are more independent, there’s a steady decline in population

[@mmar710]

Like in North America... where they now have to look for outsiders to fill in for d decline!!!

[@mochamommyATX]

Men in America are dropping out and not stepping up. We call them higher for respect and achievement they go to a 3rd world country for a woman.

[@ruruvarela]

Because women want to feel loke they dnt need to marry. Or be with a man. Which they dnt NEED a man but they should choose to be with a man. Work does get in the way at times

[@xanvask5142]

most people think that way because they are religious and religions support that statement, that's why

[@bryansim9191]

how is decline in population a bad thing?

[@franchialbarnes5240]

Thank you Loni thank you. I have been single for 6 years now after my fiancee passed away. I am doing fine being single.

[@simplysarell1720]

I'm sorry for your loss😥

[@franchialbarnes5240]

@@simplysarell1720 ...thank you so much

[@franchialbarnes5240]

Starting over in dating is hard for me. We were together for 8 years. I am taking my time in finding someone new

[@letshavealaughtogether9505]

I hope the piece of God be with you

[@franchialbarnes5240]

@S . O ...thank you so much. I had to go to counseling because we were getting ready to get married on May 11th but we took him off the machine and he passed away on Mother's day on May 12th. It is so hard to let a person go and I had to go to counseling to understand what I need to do now.

[@nawalbaswedan]

If I am happily single, I will see the extra 8 days as more time for travel or just chill at home.

[@ntsatsikhoali9301]

Lol. Yeah girl.

[@jenniferbullett7254]

Yes I totally agree with you.

[@jazzyparker7867]

Periodt

[@khadramay9557]

Same here 👏👏👏👏👏

[@bambi7563]

Vanessa Louis wtf you talking about😂 sometimes you're focusing on other things like this girl said travel is one of them, family and friends could be another etc. and just cause you're currently single don't mean you turning down men left and right and all your ex bfs keep tryna get back with you lmao girl bye you delusional af😂 Your dude flirt with or have a one night stand with a happily single girl so now you mad cause your only happiness is a man?🤔🤣

[@macariolaaa]

I think Jeannie sometimes forgets that Asia isn’t only East Asia....

[@divinethembo]

my thought exactly! Every Country Jeannie...🤔

[@anisaantoinette6381]

Yep! When she said “I’ve been to every Asian country”, I was like ???? “You’ve been to Malaysia, Pakistan, Iran, Israel, Sri Lanka, Iraq, Syria, Qatar, Uzbekistan, Yemen, Lebanon, Armenia, etc...”

[@jasi7313]

@@anisaantoinette6381 maybe she has, y'all don't know damn

[@kimberlymawi]

Anisa Antoinette when she said she’s been to every, you know she meant like most countries in Asia

[@kenz-hi6rn]

@@kimberlymawi she said east Asia just say Asian countries instead of the same area

[@lumieredarling3739]

Don’t stress yourself out to find someone. Just let it happen. Am I the only one that feels like when you’re looking for love, then it doesn’t come? But when you don’t look for it, it comes out of nowhere? It’s probably not like that for everyone, but it’s always been like that for me.

[@august21xp]

LumiereDarling yes. When I obsess over it nobody cares to even look at me. But when I’m busy then a loser shows up out of nowhére!!!!!

[@j.graham8201]

When you're looking, you will find toxic relationship as well, because toxic people can sense you're vulnerable in that way.

[@bananehanna]

They don't have the one-child-policy anymore

[@momom4548]

Thank you I was so confused!

[@LauraMartinez-sf8fm]

Thank You! I was looking for this comment. It's now two.

[@sarahswe6518]

But the effects of this policy are still on, that’s the whole point of this situation...

[@amymooney9248]

Oh wow! Learn something new everyday.

[@miniplants3558]

lol i was lowkey bothered when loni said that

[@geej608]

I'm i the only one that think dating is not that serious...Like my whole world should not stop because i'm dating,lol😒

[@rosinamavhudzi5101]

Bunny Cheesy I wish I cud be u..how do you do it?

[@geej608]

@@rosinamavhudzi5101 Gurl just don't overthink it... Have fun, it doesn't have to be that serious

[@rosinamavhudzi5101]

Owk..so I Shud rather have fun..wat if the guy of it doesn't prioritise u Nd never takes u srs..wud u still do it

[@khadramay9557]

Exactly you can date on the weekend !

[@bambi7563]

Rosina Mavhudzi if the guy won't take you serious he's not worth your time, you can still have fun while single btw. I say just have fun and live life and not force the idea of a relationship, but still be open to the thought of a relationship so that if you do meet a man you're open to get to know him and see what comes from it without forcing anything that's not meant to be. Does that make sense?

[@allyshaw]

How do they know if you actually went on a date? You gotta bring a note from your date back to work?

[@NellieKAdaba]

Breaking Alabaster Probably

[@radlyn7234]

When you’re over thirty and not married people (especially women) see you as if there is something wrong with you and it’s always the woman’s fault if she is still single. Nowadays a women need to be so strong to face all the comments of being single.

[@cecedoll88]

Rad Lyn I’m 30 and single. I don’t feel much pressure at the moment to settle down and no one has said anything offensive to me. I guess many of us don’t see anything wrong or strange about it.

[@minenoturs4271]

i b like .. its *my* life NOT yours. you doNT *know* me

[@radlyn7234]

cecedoll88 I agree with you ... but it depends on the culture/society you are living in.

[@sam4lemar]

I’m 33 childless & single & this is so true even if people don’t say it there’s a look that you get almost like a pity look it’s so frustrating. I’m not worried so why the hell are you.

[@goodness_graciousme]

Im 31 this year and indian and culturally.. If you are unmarried after that you are considered leftovers. Which sucks honestly, I've been on dates time and time again and have yet to find the one. So i kinda gave up on the whole idea really. I hate to be pressured to find someone, i do however want to settle down but if it ain't happening I dont want to stress about it.. Ive never been in a relationship before too so its all very uncertain right now. I don't know if i will ever find anyone at this point but i don't care anymore. I wanna love the life for myself and not for others . self love all the way.

[@rugilerimsaite3899]

Stop putting so much pressure on women.. we arent created just for family and relationships 😑

[@ruruvarela]

They aren't but its also part if life. I dnt believe that women want to be alone. Nor guys or girls

[@rugilerimsaite3899]

@Agatha jay All I'm saying is not to put pressure, bc if at whatever case in life you have pressure from society, family, friends, strangers or even yourself the outcome isnt positive bc it comes from a negative place. So let it happen naturaly and treat others the way you want to be treated☺

[@xanvask5142]

well scientifically speaking, Both men and women are created to reproduce, so biologically you are meant for that.

[@khadramay9557]

Thank you 👏👏👏👏 we are single by choice and happy with out man !

[@iluvzurara2]

Agatha jay of course it is!

[@TheBWord]

Love this topic! Side note: Tamera looks incredible here woooow 😍😍

[@91dikon]

I doubt Jeannie has been to every Asian country. Have you been to Kazakhstan, Afghanistan, Iran? LOL

[@BiiMesiah]

Exactly

[@NoName-sp5dp]

A plane

[@jasi7313]

Maybe she has, y'all dont know damn

[@Sarah-kw4tz]

how did i know that Adrienne would say that this is ... WHACK

[@mayramercedes]

Super whack at that

[@aleorozco1994]

"Two Chinese companies... why you guys having me read this."

[@tt-lz5vj]

tamera looks amazing

[@srsly___uio]

did Jeannie say “I’ve been to every Asian country” does she mean East Asian countries? Cause I’m pretty sure she hasn’t been to every country in Asia.

[@jrenee8303]

How do you know?

[@srsly___uio]

J Renee There are almost 50 countries in Asia and I’m sure Jeannie would’ve posted about it or talked more about it if she were to travel to all 50. I don’t know for sure, but that’s what I’m assuming:)

[@simplysarell1720]

Jeannie lived a whole life before The Real. She could've traveled a little during her childhood and teenage years? She also does a lot of work with human trafficking victims, perhaps she did the bulk of her traveling then.

[@rainalawrence2978]

@@jrenee8303 No way in hell has she been to Kyrgyzstan/North Korea/Afghanistan.

[@srsly___uio]

Kristen Clark her family was poor while growing up, so no traveling beside going to Vietnam. And my guy, I’m 99% sure she hasn’t traveled to countries like Azerbaijan, Kazakhstan and Tajikistan

[@abigailsmith4343]

I love Loni so much! Not just in this episode but she always has realistic and good advice to give

[@the_iconofpersistance]

Note: It's now a two (2) child policy in China.

[@Yessy1495]

hold3n no, not anymore! The two child policy was a decade before the one child policy and it was all terminated by 2015!

[@sandrae2398]

when jeannie says she's been to every asian country does that include southeast asia and the ME or nah

[@PHlophe]

yup, including Turkey .

[@maroonhorizon1693]

Sandra E think she’s only be to like China lol.

[@xoxohayaati]

Sandra E nah. America doesn’t see Asia past east Asians

[@anewno6240]

I am single and sad. I am sad because I don't have enough money to pay loans and bills. My family and friends who are in relationship think I'll be happy with a man, no I don't need someone telling me what to do with my life. You can be happy single like Loni said and I agree with Tamera too

[@cheesewithxbread]

Jeannie, can we please not generalize an entire continent of different cultures and countries? 🙄

[@strawberryloli]

Exactly!!!

[@DiorMiss16]

i know right!! it's annoying

[@alishamcg]

Yaaaaas! If she traveled throughout all of Asia, she should know that it doesn't apply to a lot of families and areas.

[@hannahwalmer1124]

This show is kinda hard to watch for this reason. They all think they represent the whole of their culture, race etc and it bugs me because this country isn't in a place where a minority can say something and not have it be taken as complete truth so, she and the rest of the hostesses need to be more careful with how the word things

[@empath3133]

Thats dumb. Work is work... But if im getting payed, I'm in!

[@jan-nn9ix]

thats how they get you "hey woman have you heard that you dont have to work and instead you should find a man and have children forget that promotion miss out on work instead! " thats whats basically being said

[@gabylovejamil]

Some women want to date women though Adrienne. I would take those extra days as "me" days. Go to a spa, read a book, go shopping. If you want to give me extra days off, imma take em.

[@anjali120]

I wonder if Jeannie went to India, Sri Lanka, Afghanistan, Sri Lanka?? hmmmm she talks about other being ignorant, so is she!

[@FriendshipIsMagic1998]

Maybe you're the ignorant one. You're assuming something that you have no idea about. Have you been with Jeannie all of her life to where she has and hasn't been? I think not!

[@HerDangLife]

Thank you Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie.. Your books kept me sane from these societal expectations

[@dimplepascua3921]

Dating when you're 30 is the worstttt.

[@murel8319]

Hey girl! Haha why? I'm in my early 20s and I feel like the earliest I'll even get a date will be in my 30s at this rate!

[@tianamiller6820]

@@murel8319 why so?

[@ingridayarza]

@@murel8319 Same, girl... Same

[@murel8319]

@@ingridayarza glad I'm not alone ! Lol

[@murel8319]

@@tianamiller6820 I've been single till now(my 20s)I feel like I'm gonna be like this for ages !

[@Kiara_Lee1]

When Jeanie started talking, their faces were just like “girl” 😒 lol

[@realest_]

Just watching you guys makes me happy regardless of what i'm going through, thank you x

[@dominiricansabor]

I actually live in China and this concept is not a new idea. One of the coffee shops I used to frequent decided to close for 2 weeks because they wanted their female workers to find potential mates. I was more upset that I couldn't get my latte over the fact they are trying alternatives for women to find husbands. This "leftover women" spills over from the prior generation but the expectations are different. You're expected to not date through high school or college but as soon as you graduate you should be married within months. That's why the leftover market in Shanghai is HUGE. With parents providing resumes of their daughters that breakdown their careers to their body measurements. I cant understand it because I am looking from a Western perspective, but at the same time it's the same reason why I can't necessarily put it down.

[@sheem.2450]

Exactly!!

[@phk284]

So true!! Living in china for the past 3 years too..different sort of societal pressures on these single women

[@margueritelyne1402]

Yes I agree. I have been living in Shanghai for past 6 months. Women are under so much pressure when they reach 28

[@pamelagot7730]

They don't understand the situation of China at all, do they?

[@Tbb1991]

Jeannie’s been to every Asian country? Right..

[@MrMedude77]

Not in INDIA

[@seunosewa]

@j4Rose The squinty-eyed countries? :-)

[@BiiMesiah]

Not in Iran

[@NoName-sp5dp]

Shes 40 and most parts of Asia are connected

[@NoName-sp5dp]

Use a train

[@CandKrocknroll]

this reminds me of the book I'm currently reading, All the Single Ladies: Unmarried Women and the Rise of an Independent Nation, and I recommend it! I'm learning a lot of why women choose to remain single and I think it's a good for women to spend more time with themselves. I'm glad Loni said what she said because women are just as capable as men at providing for themselves and shouldn't worry what men think...they're a hassle

[@wilsonjosetm]

Adrienne there are lesbian and bisexual women in China...

[@PureAloha78]

Tamera’s stylist should get a raise. She makes Tamera so fabulous .

[@BeautifulKays]

All I hear about this is 8 days to go home and go to sleep...

[@umiamashahzad2910]

jeannie, u haven't been to every Asian country. I don't thin you have been to Pakistan. It's a country in the continent of Asia

[@jal45100]

And you know where she's been how?

[@Franskie266]

Or India. Lyin' butt

[@BiiMesiah]

@@Franskie266 or Iran

[@NoName-sp5dp]

They still treat women like objects so did she lie?

[@pressplay7114]

Who cares...you know what she meant

[@crazy-beautifulgg5978]

I would take fridays and mondays off 🤗!

[@pamelaross1570]

Great insight, Loni... My parents are almpst 41 years together nd 21 years married.... and they are still going strong along with my dad irkin my mommas life lol but they love every moment of it....

[@klaasinsession]

I lean towards your opinions, but as a college lecturer who studied sociology, I hope the panel is starkly aware of their Ethnocentricism in this topic. Many of the social constructs they exist in, and are also whittling down, can be seen as "wrong", "problematic" or whatever depending on context...in as much as they are seen as necessary, ideal and so forth.

[@pressplay7114]

Klaas in Session Unlike many of the other commenters, I feel like the social stigma of single women in their 30s is the same in America as it is in China. People just aren’t as vocal or proactive with it here. Many woman mask it with pride. I am a happy single, but I would love to share that happiness with a male partner one day.

[@believeinhope1]

you know what's ironic my dad wants me to find a guy and settle down, in the beginning it was nothing but study and now he wants me to find a boyfriend.... Guess how old I am.... I'm almost 26..... And i be looking at my dad and be thinking who the hell are you and what have you done to my dad. That's what I was thinking at that time, it's ironic and funny at the same time.

[@ChocolateQueen225]

believeinhope1 my daddy too I know he means well but like let me be. I’m 24 a rn with no kids and they just assume that’s the next step. No sir I want to travel and honestly be by myself. The ways these men are set up out here I’m not missing out on much😂😂😂

[@TashayiaBusby]

My grandmother was the same way ! She kept telling me growing up that I needed to be single and focus on myself ( which I have always done ) . Before I got married at 25 , she had completely changed her tune when I hit 21 . Everyday it was , “ Where is your boyfriend at ?” “Why haven’t you got a man yet?”

[@michaela_xo]

Yes, Jeannie 👏🏼 Adrienne, some people work weekends 😂

[@jenacacruz]

Thank you Loni for bringing up the one child policy. It is two now but still same concept only allowing 2 children thank you loni for shedding light on the injustice and all of the human rights violations.

[@substantianigra4789]

Not being happy single and trying to get into a relationship is a disaster. How are you going to love another individual when you are scared of being by yourself. Thats a recipe for obsessive behaviour.

[@PatriciaCarvalho0]

China doeant have the 1 child policy anymore.. And remember the culture here in China is SO different. Is nit the same, guys.. they have trouble in dating and intimacy isn't the same neither. We need to keep an open mind and be understanding of the world different cultures. Western has many different cultures within it self. Asian as plenty of different cultures too. But isnt that a beautiful thing? Just be understanding and kind. The world needs it. Back at the Real: Love you girls!!! Xxx

[@xtelfolaj]

i agree so, i was watching a documentary with christiane ampour about love and sex around the world, and she went to tokyo and found out that 40% of the men are virgins, its not in their culture to do public display of love, and its common for marriages to end up sexless, i know this is in japan, but i think some asian countries share the same beliefs of putting work as a priority, especially with women becoming more independent, people dont have time to date. jeannie may be asian, but she has an american mentality. I think this policy is a good thing.

[@karelyceja6637]

1 child law was relaxed in 2013.. just sayin...

[@strawberriesncandii]

Damn that's not that long ago.

[@helenwu5162]

strawberriesncandii but the fact is the policy was ended 5 years ago.

[@strawberriesncandii]

@@helenwu5162 SMH

[@helenwu5162]

strawberriesncandii RME

[@CrazyTributeGirl]

“i’ve been to every asian country” rly?? u been to syria, jordan, pakistan, hong kong, and laos?? sis... i love u jeannie but let’s not make statements that China is all of asia lmao

[@jasi7313]

She didn't make that statement...

[@shanettamartin1222]

That’s real good Lonnie ❤️... and yes tam,Wait for the Lord to bring you both into the right season! It’s not that we don’t have joy because joy is not a happy thing everyday, it’s a lot of hard work but basically learning who you are as an individual before going into a lifetime covenant with a mate. I love being single it has wonderful benefits 😁

[@kelgon88]

Am I the only one who doesn't think this is a bad idea. They're trying to help their single ladies out. Also take in to consideration cultural differences. In some cultures women are still looked at a certain way is their not married by a certain age (not saying this is right). Also the number of single women far outnumber the single men. Plus having some extra time for a hard working person never hurts. Whether it will help the women get a man or not is still to be determined.

[@SmurphQueen]

Everyone looks bomb but Tamara looks explosive!! 😍😍😍😍😍

[@RH-kh7ec]

China relaxed on the one child policy in 2013! In addition, there are more males than females in China now! With that said, females can be pickier with a larger selection.

[@jamiesweet4352]

Honestly I’d probably use that time to sleep. Like the more older I get the more sleepy I get.

[@BriaBarrows]

THANK YOU TAMERA. Take your time

[@beautyofmykonos3791]

I personally think that if you are desperate as a single person, being in couple is not the solution. You need to be a complete individual first before getting involved in a relationship with someone. I don't want to be mean but when I see someone waiting for a partner as if he/she is waiting for God's salvation, I think that this person is pathetic. It will make some potential partners run away.

[@marisoljauregui3043]

I love Loni 😘❤️ I’m with you girl! I have been single for almost 5 years, I’m turning 24 on January the 31st and I am living my best life 😁😘👏🏻

[@YRSLM]

So true what these ladies are saying !!!! I have to share this video with my family because they keep pressuring me to have a boyfriend. Im getting old, even though I am only 26 years old..which is NOT old and they find it weird that I am single forever blabla

[@japemmanut]

I loooove Tamera's look here!

[@SpiritualLifeCoach43]

People are overworked and underpaid. Most people need extra time to rest, sleep, clean, spend time with their families and date their spouse. How bout a raise and 4 day work and school weeks. 6 hour work days should be enough.

[@somecoolname4417]

The "Holy crap..my eggs are fried!" had me weak🤣🤣

[@SandyCheeks92837]

THANK YOU, LONI!!! For some reason people think that happiness equals marriage or finding a man/woman. Happiness can also be being a successful individual and focusing on yourself like Loni intended. I’m 21 and sometimes my mothers say “when you get married....” “when you have kids....” Why? Why marriage and kids? It’s funny cuz those are two things I honestly don’t care about. I don’t want to have kids and I don’t believe in marriage. Happiness can be anything you wanted to be. I don’t need anybody in order to be happy. After all, you gotta work on yourself first before anything else.

[@oftones]

Wow. Things like this disappoint me because society makes it like marriage is the end all be all factor that every woman should automatically aspire to. Like it’s the ultimate life goal. News flash; Nothing is wrong getting married later in life AND NOT every woman desires marriage! I’ll still take the extra days though.. 🙃

[@lalaleenax]

But Loni you’re saying you were always happy but I watched you on that medium’s show and you were saying how much you wanted to meet someone to love! So go girl and wear it on your sleeve, there’s nothing wrong with being happier in love than happy without it ! Love love love 💗

[@alreem9891]

Really Jeannie... you've been to every Asian country? Yemen? Bangladesh? Iran? Mongolia?

[@chukie30]

Jeannie can be so long winded sometimes 🙄

[@mariemillien5748]

chukie30 at least she has something good to Say. Do you? Apparently not. 🙄

[@Thekarlagalan]

Jeannie looks beautiful here, hair, makeup and outfit 🙌🏼😍

[@mattiefree70]

truth Lonnie!! folks always do that!!

[@kellymensah8181]

One child policy is over!!

[@jonigurl]

Adrienne’s earrings are BEAU TEEEEE FUL

[@blondekinks]

I need those 8 days to relax at home and watch youtube videos

[@NellieKAdaba]

Blonde Kinkz lol

[@naheeda13]

First of all I doubt Jeannie has been to every country in Asia LOL

[@allyshaw]

@Adrienne, then go on your date in the evening after work and take a “date day” the following day.

[@Itskat4952]

Loni: “hahahaha…. 🤨….. i got it” 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@solenayoung3404]

Tamira looks so bombbb

[@Fruity_Tootie]

Ooooeeehhhh Tamera that lipstick is speaking to me lovely color!!!! Normally Jeannie would have said much more on this sort of topics!?!

[@dorothylashonjefferson3374]

State your truth, Loni Love. That is why I think you are such a great representative of a strong woman over 45.

[@iluvzurara2]

There was a whole kdrama about this issue of “unsuccessful” single women in the workforce and it was honestly so odd to me!

[@MegaCadette55]

Man, am happily single but I could use a manZ to shovel tf outta this snow and wipe my car before I leave for work 🌨❄⛄🎐

[@amymooney9248]

Loni is a lying. Not the same type of joy. That’s why she cries every time she talks about him. For me that screams “I’ve been waiting for this for a very long time!”

[@Diva08180703]

amy Mooney thank you!!!! Thought I was the only one

[@majestic6303]

I noticed that after Adrian got married, she has been dressing up more modest.

[@fatoumatakindydiallo2857]

I totally agree with Loni

[@00Senhora00]

I like this show because of the mixture of women (black, asian, latino).

[@tlamelomachete7843]

Loni is such a smart lady.....#truth

[@a-a-ayyye4650]

3:42 "it's not how you start it how you finish it"

[@user-om8lu4nq4v]

Preach miss Loni Love 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

[@soly674]

But I am here for Adrienne's outfits!!!! my fav 😍😍💖💕😍

[@wesandemma2203]

"You can still be single and have a life."❤👍

[@kingEyeSami]

Nan I think the hosts did not see this in the right angle,I think this is the same for all countries but in my country for example as womrn we have been struggling for so long to have the same jobs as other men that we had to work twice as hard which didn't hive us enough time to have a social life.I can remember the number of time I was at work till past midnight.This is a way to cater to us and help us have a balance but like Adrienne said the men should get days off to so we will not only end up with unemployed men 🤣

[@ellaskills]

Yasss Loni, let them know 🙌🏾 🙌🏾 🙌🏾

[@beautyh.9898]

I love this show

[@jothambarry4781]

Ever considered that this could have been a response to an employee survey. I did not read the article but i would have appreciated a bit more diversified opinion because there could be women that actually wants this. My take on this is, if you are single by choice at 30 i dont see how 8 extra days off from work will motivate me to change that status.

[@judydevallon]

Preach Loni!!!!!

[@kaylarosebates9966]

Please correct me if I'm wrong but wasn't the one-child policy abolished in 2015 or something?

[@MajesticMyronn]

Kayla Rose Bates the fact that it took even that long is still very much crazy to me... that's still real recent and can still has some effect on this

[@kaylarosebates9966]

@@MajesticMyronn Agreed. I've been taught a little bit of this policy and the effects of it are sad and terrible. Especially with the aging population. It's a whole ordeal and it's just sad.

[@Jaysaflame]

yeah so all the kids from the end of the policy are 4 lol that doesn't"t affect a grown adult wanting to date.

[@mmar710]

I didn't know about this show until recently Loni ...so I don't know how happy u were before having someone in u life or dating...but I think I do understand wat d comments may indicate....ie.theres happy/contentment...and then there's HAPPY ?..ie.when someone is in a relationship!! And d two r very different... which I am sure u r aware of!!!

[@peanutjelly727]

I mean, they did this in response to their own cultural norms. Maybe this is something that works for THEIR society. I'm not gonna lie, there are times when I want to secure a hair or nail appointment for a last-minute event and there are no evening and weekend appointments available, but plenty during the day. I'm assuming this policy also includes preparation for dates? In which case, I wouldn't mind taking a paid day off to beautify myself. Why would any woman complain about this?

[@pressplay7114]

peanutjelly exactly! I would love days off to date lol

[@brandonbenson-henry9395]

Adrienne: If the men are at work, who are they going on these dates with??? Me, a gay: ... I have no idea... there are no possibilities...

[@conniechoward]

I just like being by myself😍😍

[@CaribbeanPatience]

Standing ovation for Loni.

[@anushakluth-bajaj9959]

Where is Adrienne's blouse from????? I'm obsessed I need it