These Girls Are Manipulating You & You're Falling For It…

[@Starbuzzed164]

Watching Courtney's reactions to this makes me sad. It's obvious that toxicity disgusts her, but it looks like it actually hurts her emotionally and physically. You a real one courtney.

[@named161]

This is so true, Courtney is an example for all women..

[@garybailey2367]

Just think of the potential of this world if people could cut the crap and act right. Everything else, economies, technologies, probably even world peace, would follow on from that I think

[@ShadeTreeKennyT]

Courtney, I love how you point out the garbage that society tries to portray as normal, or cool, or whatever, and tell it like it really is.

[@josephstevens9888]

Courtney - there are a lot of guys out there who are very lonely, and they are convinced the only way to cure their loneliness is to appease girls like the ones you highlighted. Myself, I don't get it - girls like that would drive me crazy. I respect myself too much to put up with b.s. like that!

[@cocoskirt]

Yep. As I’ve gotten older I realise that I value my health, peace and sanity too much to throw it away by inviting unnecessary drama from women like that into my life. They have absolutely nothing to offer that makes it worth it. I seriously don’t care what they look like. I think they’re vile. I take a friendly, genuine, considerate, easy going women over those types every time.

[@Filthy_Larry]

I fart around girls all the time.

[@DarkPrince784]

Based

[@leadertolead8652]

I like the part when you Courtney says: "If you have to say it, you are orobably not..." Exactly! We do not need to say to the world that we are smart, if we know we are. Actions talk! This is so rare today, because there is confusion on the web about being self promoter etc... Really so obvious!

[@cdclydesdale]

Just what I wanted to say and you have already posted it; this is something that I have observed so much.

[@jaimisonmante5250]

So like wearing makeup then? If you're attractive, it will be obvious, you won't have to accentuate it....

[@leadertolead8652]

@@jaimisonmante5250 it is not the same. Makeup is about beauty. You do not say anything with makeup: we men sometimes overcomplicate this thing. Makeup is just to provide emotions. A little bit like art. It is a good feeling for who is wearing it, and good feeling for who is watching it. And as you say: it is also about highlighting, accentuing something that you already have. What Courtney was referring to is more about habits and inner qualities/skills. I think it is different.

[@costinpatru5450]

'Let's not be toxic. Let's be mature and kind.' Words of wisdom.

[@justinabaddon8277]

We’re living in a world where lonely dudes are blowing a thousand dollars on jars of e-girl farts… it’s safe to say it’s burning. Thanks for working so hard to put it out, a rational force in an irrational place.

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

Why are they doing that

[@justinabaddon8277]

@@wyleecoyotee4252 I have no idea.

[@pacifront83]

Lmao 🤣

[@markquinn1216]

@@wyleecoyotee4252 Iike most women, you are totally clueless to the plight of men in 2022.

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

@@markquinn1216 Then you tell me why they follow all those TikTok girls and send them money. Instead of criticizing or ostracized me, answer my question and enlighten me.

[@PRdude]

"Stop being a freaking cheater." Well said, Courtney.

[@CourtneyRyan]

😂

[@LatimusChadimus]

3:41

[@nateo200]

Deliver that line very well!

[@Filthy_Larry]

@@nateo200 it was in the script. Teddy will be paying alimony when he’s older.

[@tvang464]

😂

[@Markjohn91]

First. Another day, another Courtney Ryan video. This is like the countdown to Christmas except there’s no end in sight.

[@LatimusChadimus]

Mental cake we can have, and eat it too

[@CourtneyRyan]

🙌🏼❤️

[@gato13k]

@@LatimusChadimus agreed!

[@leadertolead8652]

So sweet comment! Good to see there are emotional guys out there!

[@Filthy_Larry]

@@CourtneyRyan I have to take a dump.

[@Rick_Cleland]

I've just turned thirty-seven and will probably be single for the next billion years.

[@CourtneyRyan]

I’d rather be single than date anybody like the girls in this video! Lol

[@gmoneygamer]

My guy go to the phillipines

[@Rick_Cleland]

@@gmoneygamer, Say what!??

[@gmoneygamer]

@@Rick_Cleland no seriously they are so red pill over there

[@simon_patterson]

Enjoy!

[@tommygunn6901]

If you're not ready for a relationship, wanna screw around, just be up front about it!

[@CourtneyRyan]

Agreed!

[@tommygunn6901]

@@CourtneyRyan the reason I've gotten better with this is because I've learned to establish what I want/don't want, what I'm looking for, etc.

[@Filthy_Larry]

@@CourtneyRyan do you wish society went back to having public social bathrooms like in Ancient Rome?

[@sgs8747]

I wish people would look at dating like a consumer market: Say people complain about XYZ supermarket having 3 checkout lanes open, but they still shop there. XYZ’s execs won’t care. BUT if people actually STOP SHOPPING, they WILL care. Same applies to dating. You can talk about how you dislike d-bags or gold diggers, but if you keep sleeping with them and/or giving them money, you are rewarding their behavior. If you “stop shopping”, then it may change.

[@nateo200]

One thing I appreciate about Courtney is she presents some of these very important topics SO well. I enjoy watching her videos even on topics I'm quite confident I have down because she has such a good grasp on how relationships and everything that comes with them works. As a side note I find it says a lot when she goes from the usual calm and relaxed to a deep sigh! Great video!

[@devincognito8932]

Tik tok has really exposed the septic tank that is the dating pool for both genders

[@UnexpectedWonder]

Indeed. 👊👊👏👏👏

[@asdax8311]

Any man who must say "I am the king" is no true king. -Tywin Lannister, Game of Thrones

[@terrylim9902]

Well said Courtney! If most men & women have the same mindset on you, i believed the divorced cases will be reduced a lot more. More families will be happy & have good moral values.

[@jamesmakume2630]

"We're different and that's okay." Quote of the year. And it's only January.

[@GroceryStoreStories101]

The guy who was getting the wifi password from the router that's so creepy. Talk about trust issues.

[@ivann1547]

These reactions vids are so refreshing, specially when I start to fall back into believing some of the messages from these clips 😪

[@CourtneyRyan]

I’m so glad! ❤️

[@Firesword534]

Once more great job calling out BS for what it is. Calling out bad behavior and calling for healthy behaviors. Also big props for being honest too and admitting you've had your own mistakes like snooping through a phone. We'll all mess up, but if we can learn from those mistakes we'll be better people in the long run. Keep it up.

[@clarkbonilla]

You have self worth and self respect. So many don’t. Those people are internally broken. Self destructive behavior is a form of self hate.

[@AJ-ju5dn]

I wish I could know what kind of household environment , what type of schooling , what kind of parent's personalities contributed to making such an amazing girl like you Courtney esp in this time full of toxic garbage . Keep up the good work . I am one of your fans .

[@SuperRpet]

They’re not issues, women are just upset because the game is flipped on them. Don’t hate the player, hate the game…….

[@knwjb5844]

That last part, I actually went thru that, the anxiety and sleepless night are all for nought T.T

[@jchborg90277]

Admissions about your past give you big cred today. Good job once again Courtney.

[@twiddledeedee]

It's amazing how some of these people are comfortable posting how repulsive they are and don't feel any shame. It's not even like they're trying to teach something (or anything good). It's simply wanting positive reinforcement for negative behavior...second hand embarrassment smh

[@arturx6965]

Second-hand embarrassment=vergüenza ajena

[@Filthy_Larry]

Kinda like Courtney.

[@ethancohen12]

You can just see how Courtney progressively gets more and more annoyed with these people 😂

[@Filthy_Larry]

It’s hard for her to look in the mirror. She should stick to watching cartoons.

[@roberthall6975]

Never cheat on someone who's better looking than your wife. If you get caught you might get away with it if she's ugly

[@IamjustBruh]

That’s why I will never hop on the TikTok bandwagon. These videos just make me die inside

[@yaboymagz7347]

"Ahhh i wish we could all just be normal" i feel ya

[@The369Souljaman]

Hi Courtney and everyone! I’ll be honest with you guys, my confidence is at an all time low for the past few months. I’m a Personal Trainer at a gym and I was told yesterday that I failed my probation period at my gym and I only have 1 week left. Before Christmas, I was let go from my Football/Soccer team and was on the bench most of the time. As guys, we’re told to walk it off and look for new opportunities. It still hurts and doubt does creep up on the mind 😔

[@carlost5263]

It is part of being a Man. You will be fine get RP ASAP.

[@TheGardenofEdun]

Take time with your emotions bro, don't brush them off and acknowledge how you're feeling. It's okay to feel hurt by those things not working out. I think the most important thing is realising what you can learn from those experiences while also detaching them from your self worth. Hope that helps 🙏🏿

[@pg7607]

What was the reason you were given that made them let you go? Seriously curious as to why and keep ya head up buddy. That just opens up a better opportunity.👊🏼

[@myentertainment55]

I say they called you lame and boring because they probably felt empty, awkward and full of regret inside. Constant hook ups with random people kill you inside. For men or women, after fist couple of times it is no longer feel thrilling or exiting, just another way to kill boredom and pass some time.

[@LeeSideSailing]

I appreciate your honesty about you creeping through your relationships’ phones. Like your growth.

[@S8I0]

The sound of Courtney's Sigh ... I felt that .... looked up the etymology of the word Normal...it hit even harder....

[@Filthy_Larry]

She had her cell phone in her V and it was set on vibrate.

[@thomasjefferson6334]

Gosh I wish there were more women like this

[@gh0rochi363]

My aunt is always saying “make him chase” lol I’m not a track star I deal with women who don’t play games.

[@sheva10978]

Everything you say is on point. Finding the right person is fine and makes sense; the thing is though, you've always had men interested in you. Therefore you can be selective and know what you're worth. Most men don't get any interest that they don't pursue, so when they find someone who has a slight bit of interest. they have to stick around, otherwise it's back to being alone. I wasn't good enough for what I wanted, so walked away, but most men can't do that, don't have hobbies & interests that they really like. I think this is something you can't ignore and need to try to understand more. Women are in demand and Men are in Supply for the most part. It's the way it is.

[@amazingcolonelangus4535]

I've never cheated on any of my ex-girl friends, but I caught them cheating on me. Now I test them before I even think of asking them out. I'll commit to a high value woman

[@laithsu]

How do you test them? Bro if they want to cheat they will find a way to cheat. And if you confront them they'll put up an act saying how would you ever think that I would cheat on you smh

[@JamalF11X]

I love Courtney, one of the realest channels out there, also very humble

[@chinmaykumarsahu1318]

U r a good lady, I hope girls these days should learn from u, a high value is needed for everyone, bcoz toxicity should go down

[@killingtime4444]

Courtney, I can only imagine how much hate you get in your dms from women that give the opposite advice you do.

[@HuggableLoveablePlushies]

Right? Really have to appreciate what she does here. I’d say that’s the nature of things, but people shouldn’t be so toxic to begin with-which only proves Courtney’s point in the end.

[@jordanp617]

'Any man who must say "I am the King" is no true King' - Tywinn Lannister

[@jaimeamill6901]

Llike 2 listen 2 - u, sweet and 2 - the thuth. No down talking. Never rush in, M - 67 and still learning about relations, Young get old and the old get older. Thank u 4 - ur advice In my country PUERTO RICO THERE'S A SAYING. BETTER 2 ' WALK ALONE , THEN WITH BAD COMPANY

[@toddmccormick3107]

Heyyy- this is a great vid!! You ask "why", when people tell on themselves like on Tiktok. Well, I have come to believe that it's the same reason they do it when talking behind someone else's back. They think or feel superior, and smarter than the person that they are being mean to. This is a guess because it's hard to know what a person's motivation is. Although, by their fruit you will know them- love the vid!

[@frenchalien9108]

I was so fond of Disney, I got manipulated for more than 15 years, wasting money, energy and youth. Now I look old, I became fat after repeated depressions. Only single mothers with too much fun in their youth barely talk to me xD

[@RavenNest23]

Cheaters.... don't ever date or marry one. Learned the hard way, once a cheater, always a cheater. Applies to both men and women.

[@troyrobinson9406]

I'm 69 years old. I have accounts on FB and on Instagram and I get women who follow me and want me to be their boyfriend (I guess). A lot of them I end up blocking because it's pretty obvious all they want is money, money, money, and even more money. I like to check out their friends and who their followers are. If it's 100% men, I just ignore them. That is a sure sign of what they are after. It's really sad. No wonder our nation is in such sad shape.

[@gmoneygamer]

Thank you for this video, and I would never condone gold diggers or sugar mommas and dads.

[@rocking1313]

Nawalt - Not all women are like that!

[@Lonstermash]

It's absolutely pathetic that men out there pay for someone to TEXT with them!! How sad. But I can't blame the girl for allowing him to do that and accepting his money

[@jleano609]

You're assuming she's telling the truth of course, but supposing she is, sorry, any girl who can do that has proven that she'll play for pay and we all know where she fundamentally belongs......

[@Lonstermash]

@@jleano609 hey, if it's a mutually agreed upon business transaction, and she's not lying to him about her intentions, then why not earn money for simply texting with someone if you can find a dude sad enough to pay for you to do this?

[@jleano609]

@@Lonstermash yeah, I know, that's the logical way of looking at things but things are rarely that clear cut and in the back of the guys mind he wants to smash, of course he does. But he's sad and deluded so..... and I wouldn't trust any woman willing to enter into such an arrangement. Let's just call that a boundary 😁

[@Lonstermash]

@@jleano609 oh, I agree 100%. I wouldn't trust women like that, as well. I just don't blame them for taking advantage of these opportunities when they're presented with them, as long as they're not lying to the man about their intentions. It's low grade prostitution, basically, just not actually involving sexual acts

[@danieloberholzer4305]

You are a very honest person! I love that about you! Accepting and owning up to your mistakes! Integrity and honesty 👏 👌 Values are very important!! Great video!

[@samyalater2346]

"Oh I wish we could all be.... normal." hahaha 😂😂😂

[@FoodMaster64]

Life was so much normal back in the early 2000s when there was no tik tok though FB and Myspace was out 2003 , 2004 it was more college things and stuff but no social media to waste time on and we was focus on other things. Relationships was different if you wanted to know who did whay you would just hear it at lunch break or something on occassions. Nowadays. Nowadays social media is somewhat of a help to see things before you even take the time to approach.

[@bjornjohansson1716]

It is in mens nature to want to give our resources to a woman or a child, it makes us feel like we are needed. In it's essence

[@Filthy_Larry]

Thank god im selfish. I raise dogs and live for me and them. I enjoy spending my money on weed and alcohol.

[@thespuditron9387]

You know something? I reckon you might be the most patient person ever, given you trawl through that TikTok nonsense! My brain would melt if I hung around on that thing too long!

[@michaelangelo6947]

I don't know anything about all this, but know unfaithfulness is terrible. I was married for 30 years until she ran off cheating with a married man. Whew; wasted 30 years of my life.

[@jamesvictormulindwa853]

Wonderful content Courtney❤ Keep enlighting the world and let the haters hate 👏👏

[@NordicHyperborean]

For the first video if it helps you I go by what a man said to me one time a woman needs to be loved and a man needs someone to love. Now it’s sad how his actions go about it and it’s toxic situation but he’s got that need on the inside as a woman does to be loved.

[@tomshearer7409]

No man ever regrets walking away for their own sanity. We usually ask ourselves what took us so long . . .

[@anthonys6100]

If your partner has to check your phone for their peace of mind, realistically two things can happen: 1. They find out or they interpret the information as cheating and the relationship ends. 2. They find out you're not cheating and they look like an untrustworthy partner. Both these consequences will cause the end of a relationship either right away or slowly in time. You're better off finding someone new partner than wasting your time in that relationship.

[@RecklessLechuza]

Yup. The worst is when you’re young and take someone back who cheated, thinking everything will be normal. Sometimes people have to learn lessons the hard way.

[@lalosalamanca8574]

I never been manipulated in my life. I am way too self aware for that

[@jfishmento4147]

On a date with a beautiful woman and on Bumble. That is the type of guy that all the girls on Bumble go after. Hmm wonder what the real issue is?

[@balham5606]

Good advice on toxic girls

[@tiktokvideojockey1776]

U make the best video Everyone should just be the best of themselves

[@kevindunklee6346]

Courtney this is one of your best!😎

[@agentm83]

I agree with the point that men are encouraging a lot of these questionable behaviors in some women (not saying it's all on guys). That's something that a lot of guys don't like to admit...

[@crackshot4797]

It seems to me that, with the current pace of technological change, humanity, especially in the developed world, is really struggling to adapt to unprecedented hyper-novelty - not just socio-political and economic, but radical change in the way people interact with one another. It's great in a lot of ways: we can facilitate faster communication and info exchange among more people than was ever possible in human history. But the downstream consequences are less obvious, especially when you're dealing with complex systems and you really don't know what you don't know.

[@KA-ff4uq]

Yes, trust is most important thing 🙂 I binge watch your videos 😂

[@ottisqaiucci2987]

Thanks Courtney !

[@nobodysperfect06]

"In the animal kingdom, when a male lion comes of age, he begins to make his move to acquire a female lion to breed with. If he’s unsuccessful with one group of females, he goes to another area and meets some more. Unlike us human males, a male lion has to fight and sometimes kill another lion to take over the pack and territory so he can then breed with the female (s). As a human man, you simply have to walk over and talk to women and if you’re able to get her attracted by displaying confidence, social intelligence and masculinity, then she is not only going to be interested in having sex with you, but she’ll most-likely want to be your girlfriend or wife. After you’ve had sex, she’ll fall in love with you (if you’re a confident guy and make her feel how she wants to feel emotionally)" Sometimes i envy male lions, and other species of animals, their role in the attraction and interaction, looks more straight to the point, no mind games or shit tests involved, they just get on with it right away, no multiple or several steps involved, not having to lead every step of the way, they just get to it right away, and at the same time, they get to release their anger and rage, stress, frustration over all of the responsibility men have to take or accept for their lives, because one thing for sure is, women can toss off their responsibility, men really can't, and all the work guys or men do in order to get a girlfriend.

[@jdsimons6115]

How many times that guy cheating on that "beautiful woman" did she cut him off sexually for six months or more? Guys in that situation do take the low hanging fruit that is true but men do not want to scatter their families to the wind over a woman who wont hold her end.

[@asdax8311]

DA-AMN, $2k a month tip for 3 years working at BWW!? What am I doing Ubering all over town, 😂?

[@CourtneyRyan]

Hahahaha

[@christiangalvez1883]

This is the first video I've noticed where's she's actually frustrated with most of these videos. You can tell she's over all these people just like most of us haha. Keep up the great videos though!

[@Slitheringpeanut]

I love how women think they're actually 'worth' what they're demanding. And every single time, they ain't. Men cheat because they're not getting something they want. Sometimes it's an illicit thrill (You know this one ladies, don't deny it) but sometimes, it's legitimate. You chose him, girls, why don't you treat him like you did?

[@AnlStarDestroyer]

If I had to guess for the first one, guys do that cause they’re lonely. If you feel like you don’t have anyone to talk to or can’t talk to women in your actual life, you can pay them and pretend like you have some sort of chance/relationship

[@vijayiyer4987]

Courtney, there are a lot of lonely and wealthy men out there who don't know how to date women in any other way.

[@mlctv6547]

Big facts💯

[@stanleed.harold5457]

Courtney never change

[@jamesstanley11]

You are right Courtney 👍😘

[@megalodon1726]

2:10 Women cheat up, men cheat down.

[@gh0rochi363]

Spoiling women is a thing for some dudes. They legit don’t want a relationship or anything they just want to spoil a young woman that’s it. Idk why but some do.

[@fugu4163]

Lets face it. Those that posts videos on Tik Tok arent normal and sane individuals.

[@named161]

You're a Boss Courtney!

[@jessejaviangel]

People pay for companionship no matter how fake it is for the main reason of loneliness.

[@Grayman831]

YIPIEE! Thank you miss

[@jmoneyfightfan]

I xan honestly attest to seeking validation online.....i used to have terrible self confidence....but i should probably delete instagram

[@jrsampson29]

People are stupid to let other people get away with it it's their fault

[@ilai7893]

Lmao the last few... 1000% agree about the "self proclaimed alpha" part, others can see your value without you declaring it. As for the date Bumble swiping and the "manipulate for the chase" girl... sheesh

[@fabiosuccess2895]

When I hear people say "be toxic" I can't help imagine a little boy/girl pulling down their pants and farting in someone's face. Very mature 😂

[@LatimusChadimus]

😂😂🤣💀

[@Filthy_Larry]

I enjoy farting as I walk people couples eating at the restaurant. I used to do that when I was a waiter at Olive Garden.

[@johnathantoledo9245]

Another video title for this: Courtney Ryan DEMOLISHES TikTok dating videos with FACTS AND LOGIC

[@Heavenlystryke]

alot of people just wasting their time and money

[@georgekolotouros548]

Life is so short. Don't be a dirtbag or chase after one.

[@stevegrady5134]

Excellent points Courtney. These guys are doing this to themselves. I think that some of it has to do with people being more disconnected from one another and dealing with different kinds of isolation that are simply a part of modernity.

[@ConservativeCompass]

I wish I could hit “like” twice. I subscribed

[@obi-wankenobi8462]

Don’t understand any of this…never had a gf, don’t want one. I feel like I dodged a million bullets.

[@baysidelaker8023]

Wish social media kinda never existed

[@scoobhefner]

Courtney went all the way in her bag for this video 🙏🏾

[@ShoTime017]

Men and women who do this are broken. It's that simple...

[@rightwingsafetysquad9872]

I must have gone to the wrong college.

[@angelofdestruction8914]

This is a triple whammy headache and my tylenol is

[@RecreationalUseOnly]

First girl talking about her sugar daddy has dead spiders on her eyes 🕷💀

[@vapeking466]

I miss dating before social media when girls had respect for themselves and others. When you could get a reply on dating sites as an average man. The dating now is trash! 💯